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  • @ThundersMcCoy
    @ThundersMcCoy 3 місяці тому +72

    I'm in the bar/club business...don't *EVER* trust "girls night".

    • @aeromedical6776
      @aeromedical6776 3 місяці тому +3

      Girls night out is BUNKO. Anything outside of that is off the table.

  • @willardgrimm5917
    @willardgrimm5917 3 місяці тому +61

    As a former club owner ,this is absolutely the truth.

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 2 місяці тому

      What have you seen?

  • @bobdobalina8910
    @bobdobalina8910 3 місяці тому +23

    Recent Story
    Know a woman, who went to a Bachelorette Party, they were Camping, and brought in a Male Stripper. She claims that he brought along a couple of buddies, and things went all the way around the bases. The Bride to be went home after the whirlwind weekend, and called off the wedding, to her man, that she had been with for a decade, saying she wanted to get out of the relationship, go explore, see what else is out there, and party.
    All I said, was that Dude dodged a serious bullet.

    • @Gizziiusa
      @Gizziiusa 3 місяці тому +1

      Hedonism has entered the chat....

  • @pembrokeshiresspark
    @pembrokeshiresspark 3 місяці тому +35

    I had to drop a lot of so-called friends because they are married but go out on a Saturday night and flirt with other men.

    • @jurassicthunder
      @jurassicthunder 3 місяці тому +7

      My ex is apparently engaged but she's still posting pics in the club and her fiancee is like in an old post and at the very end of the slide 😂 and he constantly comments heart emojis under her posts without reciprocation lol

    • @jlogan2228
      @jlogan2228 3 місяці тому +2

      And I'll bet they always want to try to talk shit, sabotage, or tempt you into acting like them bc they couldn't stand you picked a man over them

    • @JoJo-cy4tb
      @JoJo-cy4tb 3 місяці тому

      @@jurassicthunder two ppl dumb enough to date her hahah

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 місяці тому

      They not really married if they were married they would been doing thing correctly modern day society 😊

  • @luckyjayakody
    @luckyjayakody 3 місяці тому +41

    A woman's inner circle tells a lot about her.

    • @jlogan2228
      @jlogan2228 3 місяці тому +7

      Single women keep women single

    • @nickg4135
      @nickg4135 3 місяці тому

      @@jlogan2228 100% - all my now ex's friends were single, learnt that lesson the hard way

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 3 місяці тому

      @@jlogan2228yep

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 2 місяці тому

      Forever

  • @danielj3010
    @danielj3010 3 місяці тому +30

    "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree."

  • @MrWebster
    @MrWebster 3 місяці тому +30

    Read about a survey that looked at social contacts and friendships of non-promiscuous women. Seems they used various questionnaires. These normal women tended to avoid social interactions with the promiscuous women they knew. Seems to make sense--non party women avoid party women and nights out, girl only vacations, etc.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 3 місяці тому +15

      Yeah.... the thing is finding these women who actually avoid the bad apples.

    • @chriskirsten8221
      @chriskirsten8221 3 місяці тому

      @@Billy-bc8pk yep, they are UNICORNS

  • @Horatio1886build
    @Horatio1886build 3 місяці тому +6

    I wrote this behavior off to the changing cultural standards of the 70s. At 65 After studying history I know this is in their nature.

  • @Cee_Eff
    @Cee_Eff 3 місяці тому +8

    Let's not forget the "Hive Mind Mentality" of the vast majority of women. Women fall victim to this, and are most worried about what their friends would think.
    I've been rejected by committee on many occasions. She was clearly interested, but the "Hive Mind" got to her.

    • @Kuk0san
      @Kuk0san 3 місяці тому

      Dodged a bullet really. I would personally like to date a girl, not her friends group.

  • @TheJustinShowAndCo
    @TheJustinShowAndCo 3 місяці тому +5

    80% of women engaging in some capacity with the male talent at bachelorette parties - but let’s keep in mind not all bachelorette parties even do that type of activity; and the ones who do are likely filled with a questionable social circle to begin with …

  • @geraldwaldrop5131
    @geraldwaldrop5131 3 місяці тому +17

    Not to long ago I met a lady and we had the most incredible romantic time. I thought we were going to be together forever. Then about a week later right out of the blue, she leaves me a John deer letter. So I called her up and she gave me a bunch of crap about me not listening to her enough or something, I mean I don't know I really wasn't paying attention. But the thing that hurt the most is I think she was seeing another guy.....I never did find out who.

    • @professionalpookie
      @professionalpookie 3 місяці тому

      That never happened....

    • @patmagic3301
      @patmagic3301 3 місяці тому +6

      Yeah, this is common. She was spinning plates just like a man and yours stopped spinning. She made a decision (for any number of ridiculous reasons) and then she formulated a reason to cover her conscience, if she even had one to begin with.

    • @St4rTr3v1Ut10n
      @St4rTr3v1Ut10n 3 місяці тому +4

      Freda Feltcher? I knew her! I mean.. I think I remember you talking about her

    • @geraldwaldrop5131
      @geraldwaldrop5131 3 місяці тому

      @@patmagic3301 304 !

    • @NrthrnKnght
      @NrthrnKnght 3 місяці тому +1

      you were the side guy...he was the main course

  • @MarkSchreind
    @MarkSchreind 3 місяці тому +2

    You must vet her .... then take her to the vet. ..... dont trust club women.

  • @nsaad3048
    @nsaad3048 3 місяці тому +4

    What are the girls nights like? Clubs are a hard pass. My gf goes to restaurants, museums, the zoo, bowling, etc with her friends. Aka normal, fun activities.

    • @aeromedical6776
      @aeromedical6776 3 місяці тому

      Girls night out - Girls Vegas trips - Bachelorette parties at the club. All of these are a hook up waiting to happen. Then on top of that, they dress trying to catch Chads attention. That’s not a “good time with friends”. That’s a “I’m hoping to find Mr. Six Pack and get my back blown out!”

    • @SilverDawn168
      @SilverDawn168 3 місяці тому +3

      She can still cheat on you at those places.

    • @JoJo-cy4tb
      @JoJo-cy4tb 3 місяці тому +1

      @@SilverDawn168 haha just had to shit on him, worthage

    • @il9001
      @il9001 3 місяці тому

      @nsaad3048 Yes, I agree with you, that's totally normal. It would be crazy to forbid those activities, she is not meant to be stucked at home with zero friends. Here, that is a normal and healthy friendship.

    • @slkrick3319
      @slkrick3319 3 місяці тому

      It could happen anywhere, but places that indulge in alcohol consumption or where singles people meet is the major red flag

  • @MrAntonLucas
    @MrAntonLucas 2 місяці тому

    So if you successfully police your woman preventing her from going where men will hit on them, then what? Just let her go. You don't want her.

  • @SonnyCrocket-p6h
    @SonnyCrocket-p6h 2 місяці тому

    how? gonna spend $2000 on each one, hiring a private detective? I guess you could bug your house and listen to their chatting when you're not around.

  • @GBU61
    @GBU61 3 місяці тому +1

    If a man will approach a woman as a temporary thing, a lot of these issues go away. If you have a girlfriend, never expect her to be a long term option. As soon as she tries anything I don’t like, I move her to side chick status and remove my attention. If she cares those issues will end.

  • @jlogan2228
    @jlogan2228 3 місяці тому +1

    Tbh as a man you cant ASK this, you have to tell them outright im not tolerating this, if you want to be with me then these kinds of friends are not allowed

  • @OneNiftyBoi
    @OneNiftyBoi 3 місяці тому

    There are NUMEROUS of stories online about marriages and relationships that have lasted years getting wrecked from a simple Girls Night Out.

  • @edv9142
    @edv9142 3 місяці тому +3

    if a gf even asks for a girls night out, it's over. she knows it's wrong. that's why she asks for permission.

    • @bashiruddinahmad408
      @bashiruddinahmad408 2 місяці тому

      On a few occasions my wife went to a after hours club with her bff...she didn't call or text all night saw her at noon the next day saying she got drunk and she spent the night with her bff..by the way 33 months no sex from the wife..go figure

  • @BelindaJon41
    @BelindaJon41 3 місяці тому

    This is just pathetic. Like I get it in one way as I remember going out with my friends & there used to be this one silly & alot older married woman with us, who all she did was throw herself at other guys & be obsessed with male attention. But why would a guy waste his time with someone that disrespectful & sad anyway. A lot of my other attached friends had respect & just went out to dance & spend time with their friends. You can’t take that away from your partners. It just turns relationships too controlling & toxic

  • @PoyTroy
    @PoyTroy 3 місяці тому

    The tattoo artist is real. I have two friends since HS that do tattoos. They almost alllll hit all the females clients that came in, it’s not even funny lol. Same with bachelorette parties, I knew a party bus driver here where I’m from that would drive around women , they’d pay him for the night to drive them around the city from club to club. He’s hit more than a few of them. It’s wild out here boys

  • @Horatio1886build
    @Horatio1886build 3 місяці тому

    You need to give them the " house of the rising sun" lecture: " its been the ruin of many a poor girl...." or better yet if you wanna dodge a bullet, spend the money to send a PI in before you put your future life and wealth at risk if your serious about on of these things.

  • @Horatio1886build
    @Horatio1886build 3 місяці тому

    I saw this happen in the 70s and 80s when I was young- and add alcohol to a female and WOW! Crazy.

  • @elsa_nyc
    @elsa_nyc 3 місяці тому

    You are the company you keep. I have instilled my children (make and female) from a very young age. The good thing is that it is very easy to spot once you meet friends and family.

  • @StPaul76
    @StPaul76 3 місяці тому

    As a former bouncer I should have kept this fact in mind.. :D

  • @richardjcranium
    @richardjcranium 3 місяці тому

    I’m convinced one of my ex’s party friends put something in her ear about me and was a partial reason she broke it off.

  • @THX5000
    @THX5000 3 місяці тому

    Most are chameleons without any real convictions that will change whenever the wind changes direction, or whenever their friends whisper in their ear.

  • @aslkdjfzxcv9779
    @aslkdjfzxcv9779 3 місяці тому

    girls night == bye felicia
    and dont warn her. let her do it

  • @monchichipower6334
    @monchichipower6334 3 місяці тому

    Lot girls who listen to you as a man
    Miss independent

  • @BeauBiden-em9sv
    @BeauBiden-em9sv 3 місяці тому

    Dancing Bear

  • @dioisno1
    @dioisno1 3 місяці тому +2

    Why is it okay that you hang with the boys and her not hang with the girls

  • @TheJustinShowAndCo
    @TheJustinShowAndCo 3 місяці тому +1

    Can ya’ll actually answer the question though: how the hell do you tell your girlfriend she can’t go have dinner with her friends … don’t just say it’s a hard boundary and relationship is over if she does …….

    • @nsaad3048
      @nsaad3048 3 місяці тому +3

      I vetted the situation before commitment, so I don't have to tell my gf what she can and can't do. She has my trust and it's hers to lose.
      Frankly, you don't need to have "proof" of cheating. The behaviors that almost certainly come with it are enough for a man who loves himself to say "I don't feel loved by you at all, or even wanted for that matter. And I deserve better". She's not going to have the same hardcore intimacy as before if she's giving some of it to other men.

    • @jlogan2228
      @jlogan2228 3 місяці тому +1

      ALOT of it is contextual. Like if they are going to Applebee's and shit then yea it's not really an issue. But the boundary you set upfront is you don't go anywhere or do anything where I HAVE to worry or feel insecure bc that is disrespectful as hell and you def would not like it if I did that to you and would not accept me just calling you insecure. If she pushes back she's not the one, dump her

    • @williamclayton9566
      @williamclayton9566 3 місяці тому +2

      Because the relationship IS over if she WANTS to go. Grow a pair, and lay it down like it is.

    • @il9001
      @il9001 3 місяці тому

      Well, I would not forbid dinners with her friends, that's too extreme. If they go to a nice restaurant and have dinner and then everyone goes back home, no problem. But nights out in clubs are definitely unacceptable.

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 3 місяці тому

      She can do whatever she wants, but if it crosses a clearly defined boundary she lost her girlfriend status. Women intuitively know what is right and wrong. It comes down to how much she values the relationship. If she goes to a girls night out, she is a side chick. Why worry about it? What are the odds a relationship lasts even a few years now? If it lasts 5 years, odds are she is the rare woman that is the outlier - the 5 percenter. A quality woman automatically knows what to do.