Dog's Panic Attacks are Destroying Home | It's Me or The Dog

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  • @smol_chilli_pepper
    @smol_chilli_pepper 5 років тому +19262

    You can tell that Victoria loves dogs a lot. This is not just work for her

    • @isadorabauldalaire3252
      @isadorabauldalaire3252 5 років тому +192

      casually obsessed I agree

    • @kianjelogiorgio1713
      @kianjelogiorgio1713 5 років тому +318

      I'm a dog and I love Victoria a lot

    • @angelwithashotgun2425
      @angelwithashotgun2425 5 років тому +166

      well OBVIOUSLY if you decide to work with dogs so much, you have a big love for them. Or you'd never make it.

    • @angryraspberry7721
      @angryraspberry7721 5 років тому +60

      AngelWithaShotgun ღ I’m sure that’s what cashiers , waiters , and buss boys all say about their careers

    • @angelwithashotgun2425
      @angelwithashotgun2425 5 років тому +31

      Robz Rr lmaooo could be😂. But it’s kind of different here

  • @NightaChan
    @NightaChan 5 років тому +10241

    I like how this is usually her training the owners instead of the dogs.

    • @yennxo
      @yennxo 5 років тому +291

      Just like how Jackson Galaxy always teaches the owners to not show fear towards the cats.

    • @witch_grrl
      @witch_grrl 5 років тому +270

      I take care of animals and am getting into training and I can tell you 90% of said "training" isn't for the dog but for the owners so they can understand what to do/not to do.

    • @NightaChan
      @NightaChan 5 років тому +144

      @@witch_grrl Honestly, it's ridiculous how some people think it's the dog's fault and not their's, lol.

    • @vix3075
      @vix3075 5 років тому +29

      You rehabilitate the dog and train the owner!

    • @Jane-yg3vz
      @Jane-yg3vz 5 років тому +43

      @@NightaChan It's no different than "bad" children. It's all down to the parenting. By the time the children reach teenage years, the parent send them away to be someone else's problem similar to dog owners sending their dog to a shelter after they've made them completely disfunctional.

  • @staceybeck4292
    @staceybeck4292 5 років тому +7651

    6 years and they never thought to give him something else to chew on besides their window sills??!!

    • @ekwrocks
      @ekwrocks 5 років тому +202

      my thoughts exactly!!

    • @lifesjourney65
      @lifesjourney65 5 років тому +484

      I was absolutely speechless with the same thought!!! DONT get a dog (or any animal) if you're not prepared to RESEARCH what that animal needs. 6 whole years and I did not see ONE single toy or chew in the house for that poor dog left alone all day long. BORED BORED BORED smh that poor dog

    • @jasminenoden1326
      @jasminenoden1326 5 років тому +137

      @@coastalcoyote Look into thunder jackets! They're designed for anxious and scared dogs for thunder storms and firework displays. They're basically a coat that wraps tightly around the body to make them feel safe and secure.

    • @aprilsliar_4571
      @aprilsliar_4571 5 років тому +41

      yeah. but some dogs aren’t a fan of dog toys. just like my cousin’s dog. he practically has an entire collection of untouched dog toys in his room.
      or they just didn’t think of it since i don’t see any toys laying around. so they didn’t think about getting toys.

    • @staceybeck4292
      @staceybeck4292 5 років тому +80

      ApriL’sLiar_45 he clearly likes toys because he loved the ones Victoria got him. Then just not thinking of giving him toys is a horrible excuse. They’re just idiots.

  • @Blinkovs
    @Blinkovs 5 років тому +3191

    you could tell Victoria was pissed and angry when she said "shock collar"

    • @chenoavaneyken643
      @chenoavaneyken643 5 років тому +182

      We have 3 dogs that bark a lot... and only one of them is quite agressive when it comes to strangers (dogs and human), and the other 2 are sweethearts. Just a bit loud. My step-dad had the ''amazing'' idea to buy shock-collars for ALL of the dogs... I hate those things... and I never heard so much dogs cry that much... each time my step-dad left the house or went to sleep I'd go out and take all the collars off...

    • @angericbird6144
      @angericbird6144 5 років тому +79

      @@chenoavaneyken643 omg that is HORRIBLE

    • @bitter-bit
      @bitter-bit 5 років тому +108

      @@chenoavaneyken643 pain only reinforces frustration and fear

    • @randamcgahee4323
      @randamcgahee4323 5 років тому +5

      Blinkii yeah I felt that💯

    • @ghost_jailman7792
      @ghost_jailman7792 5 років тому +3

      Indeed

  • @milkteamachine
    @milkteamachine 4 роки тому +2754

    "This dog threw himself through a window at the cost of great injury, but we just didn't realise he was stressed." I--huh??

    • @berntkar
      @berntkar 4 роки тому +56

      Like how did they not notice that he was stressed

    • @hilanaalouani-roby2484
      @hilanaalouani-roby2484 4 роки тому +120

      @@berntkar Maybe they didn't think that dogs could feel stress. It's interesting that there are humans who don't think animals experience anxiety, depression and stress similar to how we do.

    • @papi9305
      @papi9305 4 роки тому +34

      they probably thought that any and all behaviours can be stopped the same way, such as with a negative association, aka the shock collar. They didnt even try to approach this issue from the dog's point of view

    • @daniphantooo4702
      @daniphantooo4702 4 роки тому +6

      How did they not notice this

    • @justonetime6179
      @justonetime6179 3 роки тому +8

      They already explained that they thought it was just bad behaviour... basically a naughty dog

  • @kdodoqpqldbfjgklw
    @kdodoqpqldbfjgklw 5 років тому +2394

    "Scooby's anxiety on separation is one of the worst cases I've ever seen"
    ONE of the worst?
    WHAT MADNESS HAVE YOU SEEN VICTORIA!???

    • @witch_grrl
      @witch_grrl 5 років тому +126

      Probably had to train more than one Husky LOL

    • @CemeteryDriveClown
      @CemeteryDriveClown 5 років тому +83

      .
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      *SCOOBY DOOBY DOO WHERE ARE YOU--*

    • @kerielwatson3197
      @kerielwatson3197 5 років тому +28

      My parents had a kelpiexheeler that was as destructive as Scoobie despite being a smaller dog. Separation anxiety is intense.

    • @lelakurayami3727
      @lelakurayami3727 5 років тому +51

      She's the Gordon Ramsay of the dog world.

    • @mavel2038
      @mavel2038 5 років тому +14

      I had a dog go straight through a wooden door, 1" thick, due to severe seperation anxiety. It's no joke.

  • @conkohonko8866
    @conkohonko8866 5 років тому +5809

    After all those years of obvious chewing, they never got him a chew toy.
    *seems legit*

    • @x3no841
      @x3no841 5 років тому +35

      Lmao. 😂

    • @yourlocalsadist1699
      @yourlocalsadist1699 5 років тому +27

      what breed is scooby?

    • @faarea12694
      @faarea12694 5 років тому +6

      OMG Ikr ! 😂

    • @dominiquedonnell7192
      @dominiquedonnell7192 5 років тому +181

      I know, I was just thinking the same thing. They NEVER bought ANY toys for Scooby? How could they not think hmmm what can occupy his time.

    • @Dexter80
      @Dexter80 5 років тому

      Yamz Ldn shut up

  • @eternalphoenix4258
    @eternalphoenix4258 5 років тому +1497

    If this dude is a MMA instructor, you think he would understand the concept of conditioning thru repetition.

    • @mimiel7938
      @mimiel7938 5 років тому +122

      He s trying to play the role of the hypermasculin alpha male...wich comes from a lack of confidence in his virility

    • @Stettafire
      @Stettafire 5 років тому +96

      And you would think he would know respect. Expecting his wife to do everything for the dog? That is very disrespectful. A marriage is a partnership, not a competition.

    • @zakstamaj
      @zakstamaj 5 років тому +6

      @@Stettafire my thoughts exactly

    • @aliciamarie9704
      @aliciamarie9704 5 років тому +23

      They probably tried to make him seem so rude for the sake of the show. He doesn’t seem like a bad guy to me.

    • @zakstamaj
      @zakstamaj 5 років тому +5

      @@aliciamarie9704 that's actually a pretty good point.

  • @metatheria
    @metatheria 4 роки тому +373

    All the people on this show "I've tried nothing, and I don't know what else to do!"

  • @ericjam6346
    @ericjam6346 5 років тому +1651

    The shock collar approach really wasn't to surprising considering the attitude of the husband. It also was no "shock" that Scooby was not the least bit concerned when the husband left... :)

  • @fish_toes
    @fish_toes 5 років тому +1464

    I knew from the start that this was geniune panic and terror. When someone disregards their own health just to get away from something, that's no behavior issue.

    • @cocolebolovesgod2700
      @cocolebolovesgod2700 5 років тому +1

      Yup

    • @fbnflaviusbroadcastingnetw6786
      @fbnflaviusbroadcastingnetw6786 5 років тому

      SueSheDraws maybe the House is haunted.. 👻👻

    • @mo_oc7142
      @mo_oc7142 5 років тому +12

      I have to say though, my dog WILL throw his body from the stairs if he saw food downstairs else he will legit sit back and watch you from afar. And no he didn't starve when he was little xD

    • @howtodivide0412
      @howtodivide0412 5 років тому +3

      I knew it was panic attacks from the title of the video lol

    • @LauraSti
      @LauraSti 5 років тому +4

      As soon as I saw/heard that when everyone left Scooby panicked and chewed through everything to get out, I started to suspect that he was an abandonment dog, probably left in confinement. Starvation and entrapment will DEFINITELY do that to a dog.

  • @_wowzaimshook_9368
    @_wowzaimshook_9368 5 років тому +13721

    _Scooby is secretly breaking out to look for Shaggy_

    • @Sav7826
      @Sav7826 5 років тому +447

      Scooby dooby Doo where are you
      Scooby: looking for shaggy bruh

    • @_wowzaimshook_9368
      @_wowzaimshook_9368 5 років тому +67

      Caitlin Lee if I did I didn’t see it :/. I didn’t look too far into the comments I just scrolled down and commented whatever I thought of.
      Also who scrolls all the way down there....... I wasn’t gonna go look for someone else who commented something similar....

    • @writerchim7885
      @writerchim7885 5 років тому +42

      Caitlin Lee uh, no her comment was posted a week before yours.

    • @alyssasmith4760
      @alyssasmith4760 5 років тому +13

      FloofyCheeseDog 😂

    • @teasisters5353
      @teasisters5353 5 років тому +17

      *sister shook*

  • @xenonentity
    @xenonentity 4 роки тому +485

    "He was so focused on his toys, that's great because that's what you picture your dog doing when you're not home."
    Then why didn't you GIVE HIM ANY before Victoria showed up???

    • @shekkay
      @shekkay 3 роки тому +36

      The real question is: why didn’t they get scooby A CHEW TOY

    • @KaixYx
      @KaixYx 3 роки тому +22

      All I can say is that they may have. And the treat is not what trained him, the desensitization did. Some dogs you can give them a whole roasted ham and all the chew toys in the world and it will not be enough when they are PANICKING.

  • @Bolihunter15
    @Bolihunter15 5 років тому +2169

    It annoys me how dismissive the husband is but at least he puts it aside and does the training

    • @thebeast12333
      @thebeast12333 5 років тому +33

      The husband doesn't want the dog so it shouldn't annoy you.

    • @Bolihunter15
      @Bolihunter15 5 років тому +153

      @@thebeast12333 but they're a family you work as a unit

    • @martamoutinho4267
      @martamoutinho4267 5 років тому +56

      He's not dismissive, he's simply not the owner of the dog. If your partner is an adult and wants a pet it's not your place to stop them but it doesn't mean their responsibilities are now yours. They're not even blood related.

    • @dalilarocha4562
      @dalilarocha4562 5 років тому +28

      @@Bolihunter15 But maybe he doesn't wanted the dog since the beginning. It's like Children. Sometimes the woman doesn't want them but the husband makes the wife have it. When you don't want something and that something destroy your house is complicated.

    • @ayeshairfan2076
      @ayeshairfan2076 5 років тому +15

      @@dalilarocha4562 you can't compare dogs to kids, neglecting a dog is not nearly as bad as neglecting kids.

  • @beachaddict7653
    @beachaddict7653 5 років тому +554

    Panic attacks are the most uncomfortable and scary feeling, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

  • @KaLa1865_
    @KaLa1865_ 4 роки тому +714

    When Victoria cares for the dogs more than their own owners
    Like the way she rushed into the house the second she heard Scooby on the second floor and the anger she showed when she heard what the couple has been doing to him to “help” him in the past 6 years

    • @FaolanHart
      @FaolanHart 4 роки тому +41

      Shock collars. My god I felt her frustration.
      There is a serious level of ignorance with a lot of people. I don't think they're bad people; they wouldn't have kept the dog for so long if they didn't care.
      They're just ignorant. A lot of us learn about dogs by growing up with & around them. But not everyone gets that.

    • @sidestreetreaper4203
      @sidestreetreaper4203 3 роки тому +18

      "yeah, so my dog has anciety attacks, but they´re not real. He´s just hurting himself to get out of the house, which is totally fine. So to stop his anxiety attacks we put a shock collar on him" WHAT

    • @octopuslove9703
      @octopuslove9703 3 роки тому +7

      Seriously, how does she not bitchslap some of these people.

    • @ameliawilder28
      @ameliawilder28 2 роки тому +2

      @{𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝒮𝒾𝓁𝓋𝑒𝓇 𝑀𝑜𝑜𝓃} You need to reread the comment because you clearly misread. I will explain it for you what they said... to summarize, they said Victoria shows more affection to the owners' dog than the owners- as in the owners care less of the dog, not Victoria caring less of the owner. Watching the video you can clearly see they dismiss the dog as nothing when it's suffering from fear of abandonment. This dog was put in a shelter when these people found him.

    • @hollyphillips7597
      @hollyphillips7597 Рік тому

      Ugh 🤦🏻‍♀️ people

  • @JayLifts
    @JayLifts 5 років тому +688

    lmbo.. Scooby didnt care if Greg left....I wonder why

    • @siren2754
      @siren2754 5 років тому +6

      Jay Lifts cuz hes a bad friend to the doggo 🐕

    • @manasvic324
      @manasvic324 5 років тому +7

      Well, if Greg doesn't care if Scooby leaves, then Scooby wouldn't care if that sorry excuse for a human does anything.

    • @once_blinkmelanie3091
      @once_blinkmelanie3091 5 років тому +3

      Jay Lifts well greg doesn’t even care about the dog

  • @rulisa1131
    @rulisa1131 5 років тому +4931

    Victoria should add "relationship counselor" to her resume.

  • @iv0rtex364
    @iv0rtex364 4 роки тому +3536

    They found him in a rescue center right that means he probably was abandoned by its previous owner which. That means he’s afraid they will abandon them which the wont

    • @zacjohnson8404
      @zacjohnson8404 4 роки тому +135

      dogs have complex human like emotions

    • @wellmaybeifyoustannedloona
      @wellmaybeifyoustannedloona 4 роки тому +153

      Zac Johnson it makes sense now, this dog doesn't like being alone. Then the owners electric collared him made the situation worse.

    • @juliengiroux7058
      @juliengiroux7058 4 роки тому +15

      Facts

    • @as_hlxy
      @as_hlxy 4 роки тому +41

      I can't even imagine what the dog felt 😭

    • @jaclynsimone4926
      @jaclynsimone4926 4 роки тому +26

      Yeah but he was only 15 weeks old. Hes had plenty of time to grow out of that feeling. Especially when they are religiously having dog sitters.

  • @kingansah588
    @kingansah588 4 роки тому +165

    I LOVE how Victoria does NOT hesitate to tell the owners off for doing things they really shouldn't do to their dogs. I also absolutely love how much she cares for the dogs too! Like the way she BOLTS when she realizes Scooby got upstairs, I am obsessed with this absolute queen.
    I really wanna be just like her when I grow up (me a grown man)

  • @Artsias
    @Artsias 5 років тому +2495

    The husband's comments in the beginning.
    "Your dog, your responsibility!"
    and
    "If Victoria can't help us, then...i'm gone."
    Really shows you his affection towards his family

    • @Stoopudjurcee1
      @Stoopudjurcee1 5 років тому +159

      Dirtbag probably has a trailer trash mistress somewhere who he tells "I will leave my wife soon, it's only a matter of time"...

    • @shogairah4341
      @shogairah4341 5 років тому +9

      Honestly!

    • @Ties_-sg6im
      @Ties_-sg6im 5 років тому +3

      69 likes😅

    • @failboyisinthehouse
      @failboyisinthehouse 4 роки тому +52

      really shows that he has to repair something in his home every day.

    • @95lamp
      @95lamp 4 роки тому +4

      Artsias A right he’s s0o0o0o0o0 DeDiCaTeD

  • @annagroce4958
    @annagroce4958 5 років тому +2322

    "We used shock collars"
    Victoria: LET'S GET READY TO RUMBLEEEEEEEEEEE

    • @ImaNerdANDaGeek
      @ImaNerdANDaGeek 5 років тому +139

      Seriously, how could adding physical pain from a source unknown to the dog possibly calm down a panic attack? If anything I would just think it makes it worse.

    • @devinoneal6735
      @devinoneal6735 5 років тому +4

      🤣😂😂😂

    • @AnimeNation25
      @AnimeNation25 5 років тому +17

      I don’t think it’s a panic attack I think it’s that fact that he wants attention from his owners and instead of them spending time with him he is resorting to bit and destroying trying to get their attention. Which they do not realize that these animals need to depend on us for interaction and now that we pay attention to them. The husband should have googled it before calling Victoria because he could have easily fixed it along with the wife.

    • @Cyove
      @Cyove 5 років тому +6

      I dont think it's funny.

    • @AnimeNation25
      @AnimeNation25 5 років тому +11

      Victoria should have taken the dog away from them.

  • @vodoxgaminggl2284
    @vodoxgaminggl2284 5 років тому +4417

    Woman: We Tried Shock Collars
    Victoria: *TRIGGERED*

    • @XxXMsLovelyXxX
      @XxXMsLovelyXxX 5 років тому +328

      I don't blame her!

    • @Vampiislay
      @Vampiislay 5 років тому +244

      VOdOxGaMiNg GL It’s cruel of course she would be upset

    • @josephgodin2260
      @josephgodin2260 5 років тому +90

      @@Vampiislay have you ever put one around your neck to say that? I do understand why she's mad. An e-collar is not made for problem or unbalanced dog and makes things worst. She very good and understands that putting to much pressure on that dog wouldn't work.

    • @_kawaiiallie_5621
      @_kawaiiallie_5621 5 років тому +33

      RIGHT NO SHOCKERS

    • @_kawaiiallie_5621
      @_kawaiiallie_5621 5 років тому +15

      My uncle Shocks his dogs and he yelp alot

  • @nadia1573
    @nadia1573 3 роки тому +216

    “Our dog whines loudly, jumps through glass that give him scars and destroys everything when we leave, but we didn’t think it could be anxiety, and we figured the best way to treat him would be a shock collar” I- what?!

    • @unavelickovic1834
      @unavelickovic1834 3 роки тому +6

      unrelated but i love your horse

    • @GreyGhostBreyers
      @GreyGhostBreyers 3 роки тому +4

      Adorable pony!

    • @fructosecornsyrup5759
      @fructosecornsyrup5759 3 роки тому +2

      I mean, they didn't really seem to know how to handle it properly. I'm sure you've had misconceptions before on how to appropriately train animals.

    • @tallic967
      @tallic967 2 роки тому +6

      @@fructosecornsyrup5759 I mean, shock collars and stuff like that should be an obvious no for anybody with a functioning brain

    • @nadia1573
      @nadia1573 2 роки тому +2

      @@fructosecornsyrup5759 True. But I’ve NEVER thought that giving my animals shocks would be beneficial for their behaviour. How is it not obvious that that causes fear and stress? If someone tried shocking me everytime I did something, I would live in constant fear of when it would happen again. It’s obviously distressing. So yes, not knowing is totally okay and fair, but not in any world, is it okay to cause your dog harm and anxiety like that.

  • @moriyah4630
    @moriyah4630 5 років тому +519

    The husband keeps on insisting that's his wife's dog but that was their house being destroyed. Couples need to be in agreement before purchasing/adopting/fostering/bringing in a stray. The tension they hold, the dog feels as well.

  • @mnhupfl
    @mnhupfl 5 років тому +1074

    Thousands of dollars in damage and they never tried a toy with food when they left 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @hilol9004
      @hilol9004 5 років тому +51

      When a dog has panic attacks a toy with peanut butter in it or something won't help

    • @chipdipp4036
      @chipdipp4036 5 років тому +13

      Cbd helps

    • @ezekielnorling9933
      @ezekielnorling9933 5 років тому +5

      @ebony bartonit is safe for dogs

    • @snl4742
      @snl4742 5 років тому +2

      Or TV on...

    • @AJackalopeNamedSilver
      @AJackalopeNamedSilver 5 років тому +3

      @ebony barton yes it is

  • @The_Haunted_Librarian
    @The_Haunted_Librarian 5 років тому +2795

    Really, really dont like her husband. I understand being angry at damage to your home but his attitude is atrocious and isn't helping anything. A dog is a member of the family and every member of the family shares in the responsibility.

    • @batfleckforever3594
      @batfleckforever3594 5 років тому +33

      Good. So the dog should be held responsible for tearing up the house.

    • @Snow-xd4rv
      @Snow-xd4rv 5 років тому +29

      Amanda P+ Get rid of the dog, he’s the problem, and it would be solved straight away

    • @shana5720
      @shana5720 5 років тому +37

      I agree he is just putting the blame everywhere else

    • @thisismerica5721
      @thisismerica5721 5 років тому +43

      It's probably something down the lines of, the guy originally said no to the dog, and now this is happening. I've seen it a lot.

    • @Scrimblo.
      @Scrimblo. 5 років тому +2

      Hemmmmm mm how about he makes a new
      *SHOVEL DOG*

  • @babieangeljeno1656
    @babieangeljeno1656 3 роки тому +74

    The way Victoria said "my baby" as if it was her dog melts my heart

  • @Cammmmeron
    @Cammmmeron 5 років тому +750

    Husband seems like the kind of guy that is on board with the good times but when the bad times roll he's not a part of it. Not just talking about dog related but everything... regardless of if he's involved or not, something bad happens=not his problem, ever but when something good happens=he's on board, probably acts like he's always the reason for something good lol

    • @blacktinabelcher2265
      @blacktinabelcher2265 5 років тому +22

      That Guy spot on😂he’s a nut & way worse off than Scooby 🤦🏾‍♀️😆

    • @ConkerHycan
      @ConkerHycan 5 років тому +1

      My friends gf is like that and it pees me off

    • @S3V3ND3TTA
      @S3V3ND3TTA 5 років тому +10

      He works out. A lot. 🤷‍♀️ He made that clear from the beginning 😂 not tryna be stereotypical but usually those who are big into fitness have a lot of self-confidence, which is great, however, for others it leads to self-righteous cockiness .. he’s the latter 👐 not a fan of people like that

    • @manormanman7092
      @manormanman7092 5 років тому

      Its probably because he disagree with the idea of the dog.

    • @MrParichay1
      @MrParichay1 5 років тому

      @@S3V3ND3TTA what the hell hahaha

  • @amyicykintinakofa5016
    @amyicykintinakofa5016 5 років тому +574

    the dogs jumping through windows do you not think WAIT DOG NEEDS HELP

    • @martinawolf2983
      @martinawolf2983 5 років тому +38

      The dog getting injuried and keeping on jumping out the window. Ok, BIG problem, a serious one.

    • @cocolebolovesgod2700
      @cocolebolovesgod2700 5 років тому +1

      We all do think the same !!!!

  • @mkuti-childress3625
    @mkuti-childress3625 5 років тому +223

    If everyone in a family doesn’t agree on a pet and take ownership, there shouldn’t be a pet in the house. No one should be saying, “That’s your dog.” That’s a recipe for failure and stress.

    • @Catglittercrafts
      @Catglittercrafts 5 років тому +2

      M Kuti-Childress my husband slipped yesterday and called my cat his cat
      I was so happy lol

    • @mkuti-childress3625
      @mkuti-childress3625 5 років тому +1

      April Rants 😄 Congratulations!

    • @Catglittercrafts
      @Catglittercrafts 5 років тому

      M Kuti-Childress he let her sleep on him today too
      Lol

    • @mkuti-childress3625
      @mkuti-childress3625 5 років тому +2

      April Rants That’s awesome! He’s been conquered...

  • @masaku88
    @masaku88 4 роки тому +251

    I wonder if Scooby had been abandoned before ending up at the shelter. Makes me sad.

    • @S0fizzy
      @S0fizzy 3 роки тому +10

      Are German Shepard that we found at the pound had been taken back multiple times and was going to be put down I think she was scared of being abandoned by us because she once broke threw the gate to follow my sister who was walking to her friends house but she was one of the best dogs I ever had she was so sweet and wouldn't hurt a fly I miss her cancer took her to soon

  • @ariesambully5620
    @ariesambully5620 5 років тому +1211

    Thank you for putting up a whole video dedicated to Scooby! I had a dog with separation anxiety in the past, but nothing like this!

    • @minagrujic
      @minagrujic 5 років тому +20

      Yeah, my dog has separation anxiety, but thankfully she's doing better now. She was never as bad as Scooby tho

    • @ariesambully5620
      @ariesambully5620 5 років тому +9

      I am glad your dog is doing better! My dog was a present and my first dog, a small terrier/lhasa mix, and I had NO idea what I was doing. She would hurt herself sometimes when I was away (mostly hurting her nails clawing and scratching, poor thing). I had to rehome her with a woman she bonded with who lived on a ranch with another dog. Best decision I made for her though, she was SO happy, I got updates on her for a good while. I still think about her all the time though, wishing I had known a bit more how to fix her issues like I have learned since.

    • @minagrujic
      @minagrujic 5 років тому +14

      @@ariesambully5620 I think getting a dog unexpectedly is such a common problem. Mine was unexpected too so lets just say I knew nothing. I actually had no idea that separation anxiety was a thing. Since I got her I've learned so much about dogs, dog behaviors and separation anxiety. Experience teaches you a lot. Still wish I knew more about dog behaviors before I got her, that would've made everything so much easier.

    • @ariesambully5620
      @ariesambully5620 5 років тому +2

      @@minagrujic Yes, exactly. It's been almost 10 years now and what I learned from her has helped so much. :) My dogs now are amazing!

    • @minagrujic
      @minagrujic 5 років тому +2

      @@ariesambully5620 that's so great to hear!

  • @juliemitchell8983
    @juliemitchell8983 5 років тому +3468

    "it's your dog get it sorted" if my husband spoke like that about me he'd be the one in the garage

    • @leahgrace3417
      @leahgrace3417 5 років тому +20

      Hahaha omg 😂

    • @marekjozefowski716
      @marekjozefowski716 5 років тому +7

      Hahaha lol so true

    • @smirkfanta5535
      @smirkfanta5535 5 років тому +93

      I would put a shock collar on him and shock him until he says "I'll help"

    • @kendramalotka9850
      @kendramalotka9850 4 роки тому +21

      Im not married but when I do... If mine spoke to me like that it would be "Oh you wanna meet the couch?... Youll get to know it tonight!

    • @lexieholmes6889
      @lexieholmes6889 4 роки тому +7

      Right?? I’m glad my man and I do equal work to take care of and parent our dogs

  • @zoeyisalive
    @zoeyisalive 5 років тому +2228

    Why are the “dads” always the ones that make me angry in these

    • @taraohara6990
      @taraohara6990 5 років тому +165

      because there are a lot of awful men around....and unfortunately someone marries them

    • @ultraboombean
      @ultraboombean 5 років тому +90

      They were taught to be that way as kids and never broke free of that mentality.

    • @Undomaranel
      @Undomaranel 5 років тому +52

      Have you seen that one of the British mom and her "baby"? She was a two faced, family scorning bimbo if ever I've seen one. The men tend to draw ultimatums, the women tend to lord it over the family. Pick your poison; both are equally horrific.

    • @troyroberts9489
      @troyroberts9489 4 роки тому +13

      @@Undomaranel nothing better than having to choose between two evils

    • @Undomaranel
      @Undomaranel 4 роки тому +30

      @@troyroberts9489 That's why maturity is insanely important. Being able to understand the difference between insult and constructive criticism is integral to being a decent human being, aka improving your behavior so you aren't truly toxic to those around you (and not that hijacked definition of toxic "makes me feel bad").

  • @iinsomniick
    @iinsomniick 4 роки тому +1462

    The husband: **walks out the house**
    Scooby: **doesn't care**
    The wife: **walks out**
    Scooby: **woah, woah. wait a minute-**

  • @gachamovies969
    @gachamovies969 5 років тому +1048

    “It’s me or the dog”
    Yeah, it’s the husband who’s going.
    “He’s your responsiblity”
    “Tell that to my wife”
    “He’s YOUR dog”

    • @Farqiplier
      @Farqiplier 5 років тому

      69 likes ಠ_ಠ

    • @marekjozefowski716
      @marekjozefowski716 5 років тому +4

      Yes hers and HIS.

    • @dougn2350
      @dougn2350 4 роки тому +7

      If husband leaves the dog is still going to destroy the house.

    • @v4mpyss
      @v4mpyss 4 роки тому

      my mom to me:

    • @crystaldaze1501
      @crystaldaze1501 4 роки тому +2

      “It’s the dog or the husband”
      I choose the husband has too go Too he is like neglecting the dog.

  • @Yo-pz1em
    @Yo-pz1em 5 років тому +3150

    Mom is trying hard. Dad blames mom... mom needs to put a shock collar on Dad

  • @CaitlinC
    @CaitlinC 5 років тому +1021

    Laura: I think Greg has tremendous loyalty to me and the family
    Greg: If Victoria can’t help us then I’m gone
    Honestly that is so freaking sad I feel so bad for Laura

    • @betrayall1011
      @betrayall1011 4 роки тому +29

      I hope she saw this episode and left him.

    • @kit-kat9466
      @kit-kat9466 4 роки тому

      Where did he say he was leaving?

    • @CaitlinC
      @CaitlinC 4 роки тому

      LB 1:13 is where he says he's gonna leave

    • @Bomp..
      @Bomp.. 2 роки тому +11

      He said I'm done, you fools!
      Also I do think I would be frustrated with a dog who cost me thousands of dollars in repairs

    • @jaylennestrads3138
      @jaylennestrads3138 2 роки тому +1

      I KNOW RIGHT LIKE BRUH THAT'S JUST SAD

  • @95lamp
    @95lamp 4 роки тому +559

    Damn this is the husband I’m always scared to end up with ..... after years just does things for routines and forgets a marriage is partnership ....

    • @omgronnyidcaboutyourmansid7474
      @omgronnyidcaboutyourmansid7474 4 роки тому +29

      @Thomas Hoffman if two people get married and one of them has a dog immediately dog becomes both of their responsibilities. No if ands or buts it's simply that

    • @michaelmoe9807
      @michaelmoe9807 4 роки тому +21

      Chelcea Quigley in a marriage, you do not get a dog “immediately”. You discuss with your partner and getting him/her on board first. You don’t get to make one sided decision. If you want that, be a single. Once he/she is on-board, it becomes shared responsibility.

    • @jadecoolness101
      @jadecoolness101 4 роки тому +12

      Michael Moe be single, or take responsibility for YOUR dog.
      I wonder how all these people would respond if he bought a Ferrari without consulting the wife and expected her to help him pay for it because “MaRriAgE iS a ParTneRshiP”.
      Yeah, marriage is a partnership. So you discuss and agree on big life decisions (like a dog that lives for 10-15+ years).

    • @95lamp
      @95lamp 4 роки тому +7

      Jay Bae you can’t compare a millionaire dollar financial responsibility to a dog . 😂

    • @jadecoolness101
      @jadecoolness101 4 роки тому +15

      Neena a pet dog costs $4000 per year, when considering vet bills, food, etc. Over 10-15 years, that would be $40 000-$60 000. Just for caring for the dog. Let alone the $20 000+ in damages to the household over those 10-15 years. That’s nearly $100k for one dog. And still we aren’t including the time that’s required for walking, feeding, bathing, etc. Time is money, as they say.
      A ferrari can range from 200k-600k, so saying a name brand car that is only double the cost of that dog if you know what car you’re buying, isn‘t that insane. Either way, the point of the comment wasn’t about the specific car brand I listed, it was about the fact that:
      I wonder how all these people would respond if he bought "a decently expensive, at least $100k car" without consulting the wife, and expected her to help him pay for it because "MaRriAgE iS a ParTneRshiP".
      Of course you ignore the point because you can’t justify it. There’s no way to justify dumping $100k and 10-15 years of commitment on your S/O without coming to an agreement on it.

  • @youreinvalid8493
    @youreinvalid8493 4 роки тому +2078

    "Don't tell me, tell my wife".. He annoys me SO much

    • @ladyren1575
      @ladyren1575 4 роки тому +59

      He's right cause the wife bought him and it's her responsibility to care for the dog.

    • @alexteehankee1720
      @alexteehankee1720 4 роки тому +131

      @@ladyren1575 Okay, so he should just neglect the dog and let the wife do everything?

    • @ladyren1575
      @ladyren1575 4 роки тому +34

      @@alexteehankee1720 it isnt neglecting when the wife wanted to buy the dog, and if u buy or adopt a dog its YOUR responsibility ALONE to take care of it.

    • @preet9343
      @preet9343 4 роки тому +145

      @@ladyren1575 last time I chocked people share responsibilities in marriage. Thats the whole point

    • @kissmosipapa7367
      @kissmosipapa7367 4 роки тому +21

      Captain Atom this is why you’re either single or women are taking pity in you so they love you because no one else will

  • @friarkids1451
    @friarkids1451 5 років тому +885

    "We've also tried the shock collars"
    *Victoria: smashes head on cage*

    • @ariannatherese8125
      @ariannatherese8125 5 років тому +37

      She was shoocketh

    • @Sav7826
      @Sav7826 5 років тому +22

      Sister shook

    • @Anna-lc8on
      @Anna-lc8on 5 років тому +32

      That is abuse how could you do that to your dog

    • @Tirryna
      @Tirryna 5 років тому +26

      It was my mental reaction and I absolutely adored her reaction...makes it all the more better knowing not an ounce of it was acting.

    • @stevenwashington2656
      @stevenwashington2656 5 років тому +2

      lmao ikr

  • @anyingle
    @anyingle 5 років тому +737

    I am a new fan. This lady is fantastic. Her passion and love for dogs is amazing. She is a true expert. As a dog lover, thank you for your work.

    • @avalyn9099
      @avalyn9099 5 років тому +1

      same, im too a new fan

    • @AndYouWillBeWithMe
      @AndYouWillBeWithMe 5 років тому +1

      Same 💯

    • @isabelrose616
      @isabelrose616 5 років тому +2

      Same!!! She’s amazing!!! Way better than Caesar Milan!!!!

    • @clara.p
      @clara.p 5 років тому +1

      yess! i'm a bit more of a cat fan, but i love her videos!

    • @taxidermy9
      @taxidermy9 5 років тому +1

      Me too! I can relate to everything you just commented right now

  • @jessicafranco1937
    @jessicafranco1937 4 роки тому +878

    Divorce him Laura. Your husband should be your biggest support system. He’s definitely not and he’s not a dog lover...boy bah-ye 👋🏽

    • @AstarionWifey
      @AstarionWifey 4 роки тому +18

      @Hakim Smailliw you're clearly not an animal lover

    • @hayatburak9252
      @hayatburak9252 4 роки тому +14

      @Hakim Smailliw it shows so much about him, it's not the fact that it's about the dog

    • @shel1715
      @shel1715 4 роки тому +3

      @@AstarionWifey its not as easy as just saying it

    • @robloxgaming948
      @robloxgaming948 4 роки тому +1

      @Hakim Smailliw I would totally do that

    • @siddharthsoma6294
      @siddharthsoma6294 4 роки тому +25

      I agree that he was not very supportive of his wife. But to judge a person without knowing the full story is incorrect! I mean come on!! Look at the damage the dog caused to the house. It almost destroyed their relationship!! No matter what happens, things should not escalate to such heights! What would you do in his place considering IF YOU ARE NOT A DOG LOVER!! Huh? He and his wife supported her choice for 6 years. BOTH THE WIFE AND HUSBAND ARE EQUALLY GUILTY !! They both never understood the dog's actual problem. Just like the wife said, they thought it was BEHAVIORAL problem. To put up with all the damage and the expenses is a huge deal! And Y'all get pissed because he is not supporting her! All those expenses!! What about them!! Did the wife pay them all by herself! Pretty sure not!! HE SUPPORTED HER by paying them because he loved his wife. That's why, even after so much damage he still did whatever he could for 6yrs to support the poor loved creature his wife liked. Now, I am considering this as an assumption that he is not a dog lover and his wife loves the dog. If that's the case, then his response is logical!! IF he says he done, does that mean he is gonna give up on his wife or family? I didn't see the wife being pissed or angry at her husband. She said its hard for Greg, but never that he is horrible!! Maybe he just didn't like his wife's choice. Also is no one gonna talk about the shock collars!! Isn't that the wife's fault!!! In a way everyone is involved and equally guilty!! So don't just blame the guy!! Also @Jessica Franco you have absolutely no respect for RELATIONSHIPS! This isn't something they should divorce for!! Cmon!! Come out of your picture perfect bubble of life and face the reality!! No one is gonna be an ideal person!! SO GROW UP!

  • @AngelFM5
    @AngelFM5 5 років тому +4451

    I think everyone agrees here... The husband has a horrible attitude and is genuinely rude to his wife.
    She and Scooby can do better! XD

    • @cloudcamo7412
      @cloudcamo7412 5 років тому +165

      BREE I personally would never act that way if my dog was in such distress, but I do see where he’s coming from,the dog has caused a lot of damage you can’t blame him for being upset.

    • @clairemcmimn6022
      @clairemcmimn6022 5 років тому +91

      BREE I totally agree when he said that he wasn't to blame because its "her" dog I screamed!!

    • @justicemunsell200
      @justicemunsell200 5 років тому +124

      Still no excuse for he to be rude to her. You're married. Work together

    • @hyejuwolff
      @hyejuwolff 5 років тому +65

      Justice Munsell he wasn’t as rude as everyone is saying. He’s mad cause the dog has caused soooo much damage. Hell I would be to but it is her dog. But yeah he should’ve helped out with the dog

    • @megra10
      @megra10 5 років тому +9

      Kinda sounds like my dad... :/

  • @justthispc669
    @justthispc669 5 років тому +558

    Chews, hard chews especially, help dogs with anxiety.
    I work at a shelter and I had no idea how much hard chews can help dogs with anxiety.
    Ropes are a favorite it seems, along with hard plastic or rubber bones. Although the rubber lasts longer.

    • @Peter-dk2ov
      @Peter-dk2ov 5 років тому +4

      Deer horn

    • @meowpower08
      @meowpower08 5 років тому +6

      My dog is super needy and anxious and the only time she’s okay with being alone is when she has a hard chew! They’re really great

    • @sianxoxoxo5090
      @sianxoxoxo5090 5 років тому +2

      100% agree with this, I have a dog who can get quite anxious and as soon as she begins chewing something tough she relaxes almost instantly.

    • @Arlothed1no
      @Arlothed1no 5 років тому +2

      They also have anxiety vests for dogs. It works wonders for my pittie.

    • @nemesistra
      @nemesistra 5 років тому +3

      pretty sure this goes for humans too. chewing gum has always been a huge life-saver for me when I'm around other people

  • @theyluvjt2408
    @theyluvjt2408 5 років тому +584

    his last owner propaly abandoned him and he was scared

  • @pambisugar8286
    @pambisugar8286 4 роки тому +23

    Victoria really showed a lot of compassion and love for this dog. I think she is just an AWESOME person. Really, what she does is rescue dogs from death. What work she does.

  • @justinmin6623
    @justinmin6623 5 років тому +218

    Dad is so “tough” yet so whiny about his family...

    • @annikki118
      @annikki118 5 років тому +37

      No kidding! “Waaah! It’s boring having to train the dog for half an hour “ he’s absolutely pathetic. No discipline for a purported martial arts instructor.

    • @isaacstevenson2960
      @isaacstevenson2960 5 років тому +12

      IKR?! And I think for all us animal lovers and general people when I say “This was so hard to watch!” All the damage and stress Scooby was under, all of this is just dark, unsettling, sad, and all of this bottled together just makes you wanna cringe and ask yourself.... WHY?!?!

  • @ovuvuevuevueenyetuenwuevue7061
    @ovuvuevuevueenyetuenwuevue7061 5 років тому +456

    I watched a lot of those episodes, and i can tell you one thing: most of the human couples need couples therapy to work on their relationships.

    • @Blueeyesandblueskies
      @Blueeyesandblueskies 4 роки тому +7

      Ovuvuevuevue Enyetuenwuevue Ugbemugbem Osas that’s why it’s called ‘it’s me or the dog’ 😂

  • @ragingredhead9555
    @ragingredhead9555 5 років тому +773

    23 stitches to his head and they didn’t realise it was a stress issue and not behavioural?
    Seriously?
    If you leave a kid, teenager for example in the house alone and they throw a party without your knowledge and they let their friends break stuff, that's behavioural.
    If you come back and they are hysterically crying and they have hurt themselves trying to get out, that's panic and stress.
    The teenager crying and hurting themselves trying to get out to be with their parents, that's your dog!
    Not the teenager throwing the party and breaking furniture with their mates.

    • @abdoonyt9049
      @abdoonyt9049 5 років тому +1

      How do u know if the 15 year old is actually throwimg a party i swear sometimes yall just dont wanna be wrong tf.

    • @ragingredhead9555
      @ragingredhead9555 5 років тому +27

      @@abdoonyt9049 I didn't specify the teenagers age though 😝
      Plus, the owners stated in the video that they were unaware that their dog was causing chaos due to stress and anxiety, rather than helping the dog they were punishing him because they thought it was behaviour related.

    • @ragingredhead9555
      @ragingredhead9555 5 років тому +21

      @@abdoonyt9049 and besides if you read my comment properly, you would realise it was just a hypothetical situation to describe the difference between a bad behavioural issue from an anxiety / stress related issue

    • @abdoonyt9049
      @abdoonyt9049 5 років тому

      @@ragingredhead9555 well i know but u r saying it as if the teen ager is literally the reason that all happened why is the teenager here its supposed to be the doggo's anxiety, so basically u r putting the dogs blame on the teen. Well whatever its your opinion.

    • @abdoonyt9049
      @abdoonyt9049 5 років тому

      And actually not being rude just saying no one asked for the difference :/

  • @Courtney1603
    @Courtney1603 4 роки тому +54

    This poor little angel breaks my heart. He is flat out terrified and instead of taking proper care of him and healing his wounds from the past, they have used negative training methods without trying to deal with the root cause, furthering his stress and fear. He has been through enough, he deserves someone who is patient and eager to balance his emotions instead of just treating the symptoms because they are inconvenient. Love Victoria for truly caring x

  • @glennatutty2802
    @glennatutty2802 5 років тому +371

    Dog is part of the family, its one of the family members, not for one person only. I feel sad when he shouted to his wife says "your dog, your, responsibility" Its family dog, its not for his wife only, its everybody in the family.

    • @lindahelene3479
      @lindahelene3479 5 років тому +4

      Glenna Tutty right? And they specifically said in the beginning that they both fell in love with him.

    • @TheKatiewindow
      @TheKatiewindow 5 років тому +12

      Glenna Tutty
      Yeah, at 0:25 she said they got him at 15 weeks old TOGETHER and the whole family fell in love with him. It's the FAMILY dog, not just HER dog.
      It's only HER dog when there's an issue. Smfh. He's a real piece of work, that "husband."

    • @osletplayz158
      @osletplayz158 5 років тому +3

      Ikr I felt so angry he was giving up responsibility

    • @X6800
      @X6800 5 років тому +1

      @
      Glenna Tutty Too bad certain people can't be convinced of that.

  • @RB-sm3eu
    @RB-sm3eu 5 років тому +291

    I don’t think anyone could blame him for the financial cost of the damage or the vet bills
    But it’s his attitude towards his wife that I find distasteful
    Did he actually say he was leaving if it didn’t stop?

    • @KrillWhisperer
      @KrillWhisperer 5 років тому +3

      I mean, I'd do it too in his place, with the difference I would be gone in the second year of that going on.

    • @annathompson2399
      @annathompson2399 5 років тому +16

      @@KrillWhisperer good, make sure you don't torture any woman to stay with someone like you

    • @KrillWhisperer
      @KrillWhisperer 5 років тому +6

      @@annathompson2399 I'm a straight female, so you can be sure I won't be letting no bitch get bothered by me or my behaviour.

    • @royalzreign177
      @royalzreign177 5 років тому

      Rae Buckland
      Yup, like he’s the prize 😆

    • @skyluern4389
      @skyluern4389 5 років тому

      Why dose it show me Lisa or Lena comment

  • @Diana-nc4sq
    @Diana-nc4sq 5 років тому +903

    Poor baby. I hope he is doing well. :(

    • @mintbrisk5961
      @mintbrisk5961 5 років тому +12

      Di He has abandonment issues..

    • @ivettetesfaye
      @ivettetesfaye 5 років тому +33

      Mint Brisk Okay.. you can still hope he is doing well..

    • @anastasiasmirnova1400
      @anastasiasmirnova1400 5 років тому +2

      Aww me too and it's the women owner responsibility

    • @BigChungus-hw3yv
      @BigChungus-hw3yv 5 років тому +2

      Di hope it got shot. If that was a person even with mental problems it would be rid of

    • @Diana-nc4sq
      @Diana-nc4sq 5 років тому +25

      @@BigChungus-hw3yv Who hurt you?

  • @kiddykat
    @kiddykat 4 роки тому +86

    Their dog is freaking out when alone, costing thousands in damage
    Did it never occur to them to put him in doggy day care?

    • @blackdragoness21
      @blackdragoness21 3 роки тому +8

      That's what my family had to do when we had our German Shepherd Husky mix when we all were working at the same time.

    • @evieaddy9580
      @evieaddy9580 3 роки тому +2

      @@blackdragoness21 your spitz mix needs milage in exercise everyday

    • @sg639
      @sg639 3 роки тому +2

      I thought about that, too. Or, perhaps they might have made an arrangement with a neighbor/retiree...Maybe they could have gotten another dog/buddy, though that was probably furthest from their mind.

  • @baconzz
    @baconzz 5 років тому +582

    He's having a panic attack because you separated him from Shaggy

  • @KCannaQueen
    @KCannaQueen 5 років тому +403

    5:15 when she got angry about the shock collars my respect for her skyrocketed

    • @austinmartinez2312
      @austinmartinez2312 4 роки тому +15

      Shes a DOG LOVER lol she treats them as if the dog was her own

    • @tigress166
      @tigress166 4 роки тому +2

      It's 5:01

    • @mahria2736
      @mahria2736 4 роки тому

      why did you lose your respect for her just because she got angry because of the shock collar? i mean, i'd be pissed too

    • @kristinaholla1893
      @kristinaholla1893 4 роки тому +19

      @@mahria2736 she did not say she lost respect for her. She said it skyrocketed - meaning she has even more respect now

    • @mahria2736
      @mahria2736 4 роки тому +1

      @@kristinaholla1893 ahhh okay. thank you.

  • @christhatcher7866
    @christhatcher7866 5 років тому +742

    I like how the husband blames all of the dogs stress on his wife
    Mm, great

  • @arahossain893
    @arahossain893 4 роки тому +111

    When the family were showing their house
    Victoria : 👁👄👁

  • @leonanox7231
    @leonanox7231 5 років тому +1280

    Owner: We tried shock collars
    Victoria: *TRIGGERED*
    Me: *TRIGGERED*

    • @christianboer9392
      @christianboer9392 5 років тому +8

      You stole this comment from an other commenter.

    • @bellw5834
      @bellw5834 5 років тому +8

      It depends how they’re using it, Most likely they are using it wrong.

    • @cocolebolovesgod2700
      @cocolebolovesgod2700 5 років тому +20

      Viewers : *all triggered*

    • @athenabeana9155
      @athenabeana9155 5 років тому +1

      Agree

    • @ImaNerdANDaGeek
      @ImaNerdANDaGeek 5 років тому +3

      @@christianboer9392 Or maybe they didn't see the other comment and just posted the same thing because it is a feeling most viewers have.

  • @Prinren
    @Prinren 5 років тому +531

    "He goes crazy when we leave." "We didn't realise it was stress."
    "Your dog, your responsibility."
    Ffs seriously?

    • @gharmon06
      @gharmon06 5 років тому +6

      bro why do you have so many subscribers tho lol

    • @armyosk4965
      @armyosk4965 5 років тому +3

      @@gharmon06 they have a vid with 63k views, that might be it

    • @gharmon06
      @gharmon06 5 років тому

      @@armyosk4965
      really? i don't see it.

    • @armyosk4965
      @armyosk4965 5 років тому +1

      @@gharmon06 it doesn't show unless you click the video tab, I don't know why

    • @gharmon06
      @gharmon06 5 років тому

      @@armyosk4965
      she looks like BlackPink lisa

  • @emmacassidy8482
    @emmacassidy8482 5 років тому +160

    "He's your dog." Is very telling

    • @killercroc2551
      @killercroc2551 5 років тому

      Hey guys

    • @daisyz344
      @daisyz344 5 років тому +8

      Totally. Mom is lonely in a toxic relationship. Gets dog. Gets punished further. Hard to watch.

    • @bitter-bit
      @bitter-bit 5 років тому +1

      @@daisyz344 extremely

  • @Trinnsy
    @Trinnsy 4 роки тому +101

    Ok so like this dude lives here too, is he saying he literally did nothing to help the dog until the expenses racked up to like 15k??? Are people serious?

    • @evieaddy9580
      @evieaddy9580 3 роки тому +6

      It would have cost him less to make moves to help with the dog. So the rack up is his own stupidity. A family includes any pets taken in.

  • @dirtylittlesecretman08
    @dirtylittlesecretman08 5 років тому +963

    Owner: “We’ve tried citronella collars, it didn’t work.”
    Victoria: “YA DON’T SAY”

    • @mgecko2959
      @mgecko2959 5 років тому +2

      @@dirtylittlesecretman08 yes cause she has any idea LMFAO

    • @MartinG-zk1px
      @MartinG-zk1px 5 років тому +15

      It’s coz they didn’t try Nutella Collars

    • @whitealliance9540
      @whitealliance9540 5 років тому +1

      Lmao i read it as she said it

    • @rpp8887
      @rpp8887 5 років тому +15

      E collar training is actually amazing if used correctly. It's not meant to, or supposed to hurt the dog 99% of the time. It's meant to get the dogs attention without pain. the mini educator is an amazing tool.

    • @wolfyfx5323
      @wolfyfx5323 5 років тому +1

      @WOOF WOOF

  • @GHILII
    @GHILII 5 років тому +300

    4:39
    HOW did these people not know there dog was having PANIC ATTACKS!?! It's so OBVIOUS!

    • @GreebleClown
      @GreebleClown 5 років тому +37

      It could be they come home, see a trashed house, and are greeted by what appears to be an excited and happy dog, not recognising the body language of stress and anxiousness.

    • @uno6854
      @uno6854 5 років тому +1

      Lumine.

    • @uno6854
      @uno6854 5 років тому +1

      LUMINE

    • @GHILII
      @GHILII 5 років тому

      @@uno6854
      Yes

    • @GHILII
      @GHILII 5 років тому

      @@uno6854
      YES

  • @magzplan780
    @magzplan780 5 років тому +300

    I can't believe so many years passed and they never tried chew toys 😂

  • @achiiillestv
    @achiiillestv 4 роки тому +27

    I really feel for the dog here, I have extreme anxiety(diagnosed) and his panic attacks are some of the worst I’ve ever seen, it’s heart breaking because I have been through that and to have to have them every day as bad as his are it’s sad :(

  • @gh0st478
    @gh0st478 5 років тому +772

    The video: goes to the garage scene
    Me: NO NOT THE POKEMON CARDS

    • @waboootrash3980
      @waboootrash3980 5 років тому +24

      That was my reaction!!!!! Like those were some good cards too

    • @PresidentialCandidate-sd9nj
      @PresidentialCandidate-sd9nj 5 років тому +3

      Same

    • @iiiPoopmypants
      @iiiPoopmypants 5 років тому +3

      SAMEe

    • @Blade-wk2bu
      @Blade-wk2bu 5 років тому +2

      Bro those were like base set or something, idk i didnt get too good of a look

    • @TheFallenSkyes
      @TheFallenSkyes 5 років тому +2

      I love my Pokemon cards so seeing some in that condition just huuuuurts me.

  • @amberfrazier575
    @amberfrazier575 5 років тому +128

    That guy needs to learn how to take responsibility for a family decision

    • @jamesjoni1137
      @jamesjoni1137 5 років тому

      Each misses you like crazy hi what they doing she'll never forget you

  • @PokidotGamerX
    @PokidotGamerX 5 років тому +596

    Omg bro you cannot be serious! You can obviously see that the dog wants outside and wants exercise! Ugh this man who is constantly yelling at the dog is ugh is making me angry

    • @murderspagurderv5336
      @murderspagurderv5336 5 років тому +34

      It’s not that he wants exercise. I bet they do take him on walks. He wants out of the house because he wants to find them, or else why would he only do it when they are gone?

    • @b1skutz634
      @b1skutz634 5 років тому +22

      The literal DOG EXPERT even says that he is anxious from them leaving. Its not that he wants to exercise its that he wants them to be home with him.
      And also the husband is yelling at the dog bcs Scooby has likely costed him thousands of dollars.

    • @lisaharlow6815
      @lisaharlow6815 5 років тому +1

      b1skutz buy him a chew toy

    • @monkeyorchid4081
      @monkeyorchid4081 5 років тому

      @@b1skutz634 you need to train a dog just like you need to train kids and you need to keep them occupied when you are away from them! He cant help being insecure so lets stick him in a cage in the garage...and did that help...no!

    • @b1skutz634
      @b1skutz634 5 років тому

      Diane Bushby I was saying that he doesn’t need exercise. He wants to be with them. U shuldnt put him in a cage but u also shuldnt just give him exercise. They need to do what she said and give him things to occupy himself

  • @loremipsum980
    @loremipsum980 4 роки тому +59

    This dude, man... If he doesn't genuinely care about or love his family, do not have one. It's as simple as that 😧

    • @endoscented
      @endoscented 3 роки тому +1

      It’s her dog.

    • @wasaby5280
      @wasaby5280 3 роки тому +5

      @@endoscented when you live together it becomes both problem, it’s a part of having a family, it’s her and *HIS* problem

  • @debadritamandal8770
    @debadritamandal8770 5 років тому +123

    I dnt like the daddy.He is too harsh saying he doesn't have anything to do with Scooby...he in your house, you all need to figure a way out!

  • @lemontea128
    @lemontea128 5 років тому +155

    Omg! Were they oblivious to the fact that he has separation anxiety! She even stated this only happens when they’re not home. 🤦‍♀️ I also can’t seem to see if he has any toys.

    • @susanmazzanti5643
      @susanmazzanti5643 5 років тому +4

      My rescue has separation anxiety and she will not eat or drink while I'm gone. She has toys but will not play with them when alone. She doesn't care if someone else is around. I have to be with her. I am making some progress with her now that I've discovered where a lot of her problem comes from. She is also very afraid of a hard rain and tried to get out of the house during rain storms. An area of our town flooded after several days of hard rain and people had to leave their homes. Many left pets locked inside and I believe she was one of them. She was trying to get out during a rainstorm while I was home. I clipped her leash on her so I could move her to her safe place and she calmed down. She would have been a larger puppy when the flood happened. No one else lives with us so I have as much time as I need to help her. She weighs about 12 pounds so she can't be as destructive but she does destroy things when I'm gone.

  • @FFS33
    @FFS33 5 років тому +576

    Husband : "I'm, a mixed martial artist , and i can barely breathe"

    • @Shawnfrmphilly
      @Shawnfrmphilly 5 років тому +4

      The dog ate the Shelf too

    • @incandesantlite
      @incandesantlite 4 роки тому +17

      Pretty slow moving for an MMA fighter lol

    • @AmrothPalantir
      @AmrothPalantir 4 роки тому +6

      legends say he train trolls, not humans 😂

    • @AmrothPalantir
      @AmrothPalantir 4 роки тому

      @GALMA 0 Derrick Lewis? but he got cardio and is working hard on improving it... this dude ain't, never did, never will.

    • @amberlytheharpyqueen
      @amberlytheharpyqueen 3 роки тому +8

      Big angry guy who can barely breathe: "I'm a mixed martial artist"
      Me: "doubt" 🧐

  • @The_Nightsong
    @The_Nightsong 2 роки тому +5

    Victoria seems like such a wonderful person, you can really FEEL the love she has for the dogs.

  • @PuddinTater
    @PuddinTater 5 років тому +99

    My chihuahua panics everytime I leave. Thank God he isnt destructive. Definitely will be trying these techniques!

    • @feraflauna3238
      @feraflauna3238 5 років тому +1

      +Michelle Tillas-My sister has a mini Australian shepherd. He has gotten a lot better, especially after they got another dog where he has someone at home to play with, but during the first three years of his life, he wasn't destructive of the house, but whenever we left, even if we just closed the door to hang outside on the patio, he wanted to be with us. He would cry, a lot. Even howl, just begging to be let out so he could come with us. And he is a spoiled little baby :D, so it's not due to the fact we routinely abandoned him. Far from. Australian shepherds are just very people-oriented and want to be around people constantly and with my sister's dog, he just wanted to be with us.
      I wish I knew more of these techniques to where he wouldn't have to be left even crying and howling when someone left the house. At least with a new companion and some age, he has grown more used to the fact "mommy" will be gone sometime in the day and she'll be back. . .My sister even makes sure she comes home during break so the dogs can have some company before she has to go back.

    • @varnelkythe761
      @varnelkythe761 5 років тому

      Good luck, y’all!!

  • @RB-sm3eu
    @RB-sm3eu 5 років тому +862

    So whilst progress is being made, “husband” is still talking negatively and about getting rid of scoot
    Says a lot !!!

    • @evangeline77x
      @evangeline77x 5 років тому +86

      IMO, he seemed like he was just frustrated with the damage, $15,000.00 is alot of damage for one pet to cause..
      My chigi has seperation anxiety and I have to either take him everywhere with me or leave him with my mom. Because when he's alone he gets so worked up that he will hyperventilate until he throws up or falls down on his stomach and can't breath.. Luckily, my dog is small enough that I can do that.. I couldn't imagine the fear this couple experienced every time they went to work, out shopping or anywhere, that they might come home to not only a destroyed home but a severely injured or even dead pet.. And the vet Bill's? Those aren't cheap, especially if a dog has slivers in his stomach or bowel, or has ingested poison/toxic materials, furniture cushions, etc. Also, the husband said he didn't want to even think of getting rid of Scooby.. But for the dog's own safety (if he couldn't be helped by training) the only option is rehoming with someone who can devote their time to Scooby. It's not ok for any animal (no matter how beloved) to live in stress like that. Thank goodness they found a method that helped.

    • @anxkait
      @anxkait 5 років тому +35

      I don't blame him... It's sad to say but I really don't. :/

    • @em2106
      @em2106 5 років тому +19

      Rae Buckland for some reason the husband is always the unwilling one

    • @littlepumpkin42
      @littlepumpkin42 5 років тому +8

      My bf is the same way with my 18 year old cat who I brought with me when I moved in with him....

    • @daisy8674
      @daisy8674 5 років тому +70

      I hate how the husband acts like his wife is alone in everything. It makes me feel as bad for her as I do the dog. They are supposed to be a team and work together the husband is like "Hey I just live here. This is all her problem not mine". It makes me feel like maybe the wife and dog would be better off without him.

  • @historicaldaily3245
    @historicaldaily3245 5 років тому +92

    Ah god poor thing. That's beyond the level of separation anxiety I've worked with and I too train and walk dogs. Heart is breaking for Scooby

  • @CleodeNile85
    @CleodeNile85 3 роки тому +19

    Victoria doesn’t just train dogs she changes life’s, fixes relationships and reunites family’s 😊

  • @s-o-m-b-e-r
    @s-o-m-b-e-r 5 років тому +857

    If that dude is into martial arts, why is he so out of shape? 😂 That guy is a piece of work lol

    • @afenismama
      @afenismama 5 років тому +40

      You stole my thoughts🤣

    • @timberocanimates4978
      @timberocanimates4978 5 років тому +10

      Somberlateralus Exactly 😂

    • @nexaf7140
      @nexaf7140 5 років тому +14

      YES like the way he sits in chairs...

    • @katebielanski214
      @katebielanski214 5 років тому +57

      I do karate. Most senseis and coaches just sit and tell students what to do

    • @dashieldmasta177
      @dashieldmasta177 5 років тому +7

      Somberlateralus Age makes fools of us all

  • @missboy9979
    @missboy9979 5 років тому +293

    Lara: we tried shock collars...
    Victoria: *NOT ON MY WATCH*

  • @tidepodpadthai2633
    @tidepodpadthai2633 5 років тому +2107

    Husband: *does nothing and expects his wife to do all the work*
    Husband: Why doesn't this dog behave?

    • @xristodoulakou
      @xristodoulakou 5 років тому +23

      SO TRUE

    • @-rr-4172
      @-rr-4172 5 років тому +18

      *her dog

    • @Rae-kw4ov
      @Rae-kw4ov 5 років тому +80

      @@-rr-4172 when you adopt a dog, everyone takes on the responsibility. His refusal to be responsible is part of the problem

    • @-rr-4172
      @-rr-4172 5 років тому +38

      @@Rae-kw4ov He also said that if it didn't work out with her dog, he would leave......just shows you where his head is at, just a heads up if you couldn't already work it out. seems that he didnt really want the dog in the first place.

    • @Rae-kw4ov
      @Rae-kw4ov 5 років тому +44

      @@-rr-4172 part of being a mature adult is moving past "i dont want to" and just doing it because its the right thing!

  • @allisonlim9906
    @allisonlim9906 4 роки тому +45

    I can’t even imagine what the dog must feel, for him to hurt himself.

  • @jkka1477
    @jkka1477 5 років тому +141

    Scooby should live with another dog or another pet at least it could calm him down

  • @sxftpixie
    @sxftpixie 5 років тому +190

    what. Her dog? It’s yours too mister.

    • @xeno4693
      @xeno4693 5 років тому

      Angela Chaney do you even know what selfish means?

    • @xeno4693
      @xeno4693 5 років тому +2

      Angela Chaney oh okay. Sorry, seems like you know more about the word than i do 😂

    • @yourlocalsadist1699
      @yourlocalsadist1699 5 років тому

      @Angela Chaney what breed is scooby?

    • @olenka-xl1iz
      @olenka-xl1iz 5 років тому

      @Valeria Perez lol

    • @Andrea-lm5iu
      @Andrea-lm5iu 5 років тому +1

      Draco Malfoy I bet your father will hear about this...let me help you tell him 😂

  • @dancingwithjayda4632
    @dancingwithjayda4632 5 років тому +156

    I’m sorry but I can’t be the only one who cant get over the fact that they decided to get a dog and not get toys for the dog? Like not even a single stick are u kidding me?!? These owners are clueless

    • @lizburton966
      @lizburton966 5 років тому +4

      No kidding..how do you not think about that

  • @ii._clouddi1452
    @ii._clouddi1452 4 роки тому +609

    It’s me or the dog.
    More like it’s me or the husband.
    Not trying to be rude but he is really mean.

    • @urmom-vf9be
      @urmom-vf9be 4 роки тому +2

      Lol

    • @MissSpaz
      @MissSpaz 4 роки тому +25

      Yeah. I'm pretty sure all these clips were filmed quite awhile ago, and I'm almost 100% certain that she's probably divorced him by now. That is not how marriage is supposed to work.

    • @zerogtoxik6020
      @zerogtoxik6020 3 роки тому +1

      me or the husband? some of them were me or the wife...

    • @Steph-yz4tn
      @Steph-yz4tn 3 роки тому +9

      It's sad when people choose an animal over people. This dog has destroyed the home and the cost is in the thousands. I would say the same as him. If my spouse chose a dog over me, then I know that person is not worth sharing my life with. People should always come before animals! Even Victoria says this multiple times.

    • @noname6389
      @noname6389 3 роки тому +2

      @@Steph-yz4tn true

  • @derpy6887
    @derpy6887 5 років тому +826

    Him: “ITS YouR DOG”
    Me:”ITs BOTh IF YOuR BaNk AccOUNtS”

  • @puffypina5300
    @puffypina5300 4 роки тому +344

    The dad makes the mom sound more like an employee than a wife

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 4 роки тому +4

      Because she a pushover. That's her fault.

    • @riverramos9586
      @riverramos9586 4 роки тому +35

      @@trawlins396 The husband could of at least helped her with the dog and not blame everything on her. :/

    • @luisluis9904
      @luisluis9904 3 роки тому +8

      Charlotte R ummm it’s not her fault that’s your way of being and if the husband can’t understand that and help her than she needs to leave him, point blank period

    • @jenginsberg8827
      @jenginsberg8827 3 роки тому +4

      "Tell my secretary"

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 2 роки тому

      @playana well if he's that bad she shouldn't be with him. But she is.

  • @Elle-po4iq
    @Elle-po4iq 5 років тому +38

    This is so heart warming cause all the dog needed was something to keep it busy and it adapted so quickly, we really don’t deserve them. Victoria is so amazing at what she does also!

  • @wqmf9356
    @wqmf9356 4 роки тому +35

    "the whole family wants him" dad: it's your dog! guess it's only her dog when he misbehaves

  • @changingmind3248
    @changingmind3248 5 років тому +78

    I have no idea how they could let it get that bad - how did they not realize he was severely anxious all this time?! I honestly thought the signs of his fear were pretty obvious...
    The daughter's dog of a nice elderly lady I once worked for had separation anxiety, too. (She used to work from home and had raised him since he was a puppy, so he wasn't used to her suddenly leaving for work) - all it took was someone to calm him down, keep him BUSY and he was sooo much better already...

    • @adudeandhisdog23
      @adudeandhisdog23 5 років тому +2

      I have fostered alot of dogs with separation anxiety I prefer to get them a toy when they leave the shelter that can stay with them and a lavender collar

  • @lannnnah
    @lannnnah 5 років тому +468

    Solution: Give the dog a toy.
    Seriously people...

    • @Kai-zz3no
      @Kai-zz3no 5 років тому +11

      Lanni M. I don’t think that can cure anxiety.

    • @101jir
      @101jir 5 років тому +27

      It wasn't just any toy. Having food inside it was probably key.

    • @lexieholmes6889
      @lexieholmes6889 4 роки тому +35

      It doesn’t cure anxiety but it helps so much to have something to keep them occupied

    • @meganwilson902
      @meganwilson902 4 роки тому +4

      I leave my dog in her cage with all of her favourite toys a bone hidden treats and food and water she’s never bothered when I’m gone and was exactly like this dog at one point

    • @yayahicks3829
      @yayahicks3829 4 роки тому +3

      My dog is pretty anxious and once we have him a toy it completely changed him. He still has his moments here and there but still it goes to show how much something so small helped.

  • @trinefj11
    @trinefj11 5 років тому +292

    I don’t understand how the family is so oblivious to what’s happening to there dog :( poor baby

    • @victorialombardi
      @victorialombardi 5 років тому +1

      Their*

    • @indigomay2826
      @indigomay2826 5 років тому

      Victoria Jackson can be both.

    • @victorialombardi
      @victorialombardi 5 років тому

      NeonxGravestone what are you talking about? “There” doesn’t make any sense in that sentence.

    • @trinefj11
      @trinefj11 5 років тому

      Victoria Jackson not everyone first language is English 😊

    • @indigomay2826
      @indigomay2826 5 років тому +1

      Victoria Jackson
      Never mind, your right. I mistakenly saw it as they’re which also makes sense. But in saying that, nitpicking someone’s grammar is not making the world a better place.

  • @kephallonmegaris6776
    @kephallonmegaris6776 4 роки тому +43

    scooby was just unpacking some pokemon cards and didnt got what he wanted so he raged.

    • @Magister195
      @Magister195 3 роки тому +1

      I was thinking the same thing should've played uno

    • @drysoup8194
      @drysoup8194 2 роки тому

      lmfoaoo

  • @camowolf103
    @camowolf103 5 років тому +75

    when he went on the second floor window i almost fainted

  • @Classprojectinfecto2
    @Classprojectinfecto2 5 років тому +716

    Her husband is so snobby and rude to her so disrespectful 😒🙄

  • @Adykayful
    @Adykayful 5 років тому +91

    The husband sounds like he's already given up and theirs no going back for him, I understand being mad about all the damage and money, but his attitude towards his wife is terrible. Also how did they not think to get him chew toys or something? In six years of this going on?

    • @pepain4319
      @pepain4319 5 років тому

      You dont understand dog language

    • @Adykayful
      @Adykayful 5 років тому +2

      @@pepain4319 obviously it won't fix the problem, it's extreme fear and panic, I just thought it was interesting how they seem to be so clueless about it.

  • @Nanobytesucks
    @Nanobytesucks 4 роки тому +1

    You can tell that you love dogs and you are such a caring person. We need people like you who are actually willing to help people. Keep up the great work!