BE SELFISH!!

You are all by yourself, so get used to being alone and start being selfish for yourself! Build a safe world for you, by you! This doesn't mean being be a hermit, you still want to get out and socialize and build a community for yourself, you are just figuring yourself out in order to find your people, like minded individuals who can relate to who you are. Can you get yourself off the corporate payroll and onto your own?