Other important observations are how he handles disappointment and/or stress. Can he pivot or does he seem unable to rise above the disappointment. How does he cope with multiple demands on his time ? These are not deal breakers but they are important to shaping your expectations of your significant other. You will know where you need to support more and where you can step back.
@@sharonsamazingcakes Those are wise observations as well. As you said, they may not be deal breakers, but singles need to be sober going into marriage.
@@petalsbloom Kim, how about struggles with sexual sin (e.g., porn, masturbation) - whether in the past or they're currently working on being free from it? Would you have that conversation before you get in a relationship? Thank you.
@@rchica For me, the main thing is … is he willing to get help or support in those areas before getting married? Porn addiction has destroyed many Christian marriages, but it doesn’t have to be that way if people are willing to get help.
topic on fire... learning some interesting stuff. i love it!
@@beinspiredbyjesus I’m happy that you have found the video to be helpful.:)
Excellent advice !
@@sharonsamazingcakes thanks for the feedback, Sharon!
Excellent. I know you mentioned finances but a good discussion on each person's debt must be had I think
@@kennypryce4617 Discussing debt is muy importante! Thanks for pointing that out.
That's a very good point
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I’m so grateful for God’s Holy Spirit!
Other important observations are how he handles disappointment and/or stress. Can he pivot or does he seem unable to rise above the disappointment. How does he cope with multiple demands on his time ?
These are not deal breakers but they are important to shaping your expectations of your significant other. You will know where you need to support more and where you can step back.
@@sharonsamazingcakes Those are wise observations as well. As you said, they may not be deal breakers, but singles need to be sober going into marriage.
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Thanks for the feedback, my friend!:)
Excellent video, Kim!
Question: Should these must-have conversations happen before a woman agrees to become a man's girlfriend?
@@rchica yes! That’s a good clarifying question. I’ll have to edit the description to include that. Thanks!
@@petalsbloom Kim, how about struggles with sexual sin (e.g., porn, masturbation) - whether in the past or they're currently working on being free from it? Would you have that conversation before you get in a relationship? Thank you.
@@rchica For me, the main thing is … is he willing to get help or support in those areas before getting married? Porn addiction has destroyed many Christian marriages, but it doesn’t have to be that way if people are willing to get help.