"Involve God and he will guide you to resources that can help you care for your hair" I can definitely attest to that, that was how I found your channel in the first place back in 2020😄, I had to cut my hair and start from scratch cos my hair had gone thru a lot back then. I can say now am on an healthy hair journey😊, also in other areas of life once God is involved you'll be surprised at the way he leads you. Thanks for sharing this, just so you know you inspired me to start my own hair care journey🥰. God bless you.
@@JoyBNaturals I'm passing through a rough time in my life which makes me Wonder if this god really exist, and if he exist is he Choosey? Or are my sins the only sins on earth?why is he blessing only my colleagues and leaving me drink tears?
Proverbs 3:6...In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths...This verse came to my mind when you said, Involve God in your hair care... Thanks for the encouragement. 😊
I’m currently using a leave in conditioner that has oil in it along with a twisting gel and I noticed my hair is more moisturized. Sometimes you have to try different products until you see what works.
@@teriamanning7341 I’m using Blue Magic Argan oil leave in conditioner cream. Then I apply aunt Jackie flaxseed gel or eco style black castor and flaxseed gel. I use this for twist outs and braids.
Some good tips. But the most important thing people need to know hair goes through different phases. Hair growth is largely genetics, along with health and diet. So start with eating healthy, along with tips on taking care of your hair. And remember just because someone have long hair down their butt. Don’t mean you will too. Don’t watch other people’s hair journey. Focus on your own journey.
hair length is not genetic. please stop implying. Hair doesn't stop growing unless something is going on with one's health therefore health length is not genetics. growth rates,density,texture yes genetics length nope not genetics.
@@Brandiisbelovedsay it again!! The whole “hair growth is genetic” mantra may have some validity but hair length is not genetic. If you are too lazy to grow your hair, say that instead. Just be gentle with your hair and eliminate the junk from your diet. It’s really not rocket science.
I agree so much with the importance of safely detangling your hair. For about a year or more now I've started detangling my hair is sections under the running shower and it has completely changed the game. Having that constant water flow offering endless slip while you comb it out makes it almost effortless for me.
Your hair is gorgeous!! This video truly inspired me. My hair texture is similar to yours and I feel as if my hair has been stuck at the same length for a while and I’ve been asking God for guidance because I want my hair to grow! Thank you for sharing these tips!
I've actually felt like involving GOD in my hair journey sometimes but I felt that was too irrelevant Thanks for this tip 😊😇 I'll start now by GOD'S Grace
I felt the same way! I've struggled with my hair for over a decade never getting past shoulder length. I cut it off last summer and it's been growing but I found myself obsessed with obtaining length that it began breaking a bit again. I know I need to involve God I felt it was vain to pray about it but God led me to this video for a reason. May God bless your hair care journey 🙏🏾
Honestly, I expected to click off this video, anticipating that it would be the same as every other 'grow your hair' video out there but I was thoroughly interested. I could relate to you. The way I washed my hair, the way I would leave it out to dry and then dread having to comb through it, the amount of hair I would lose in the process. I can relate so badly because this is the routine I've known since I was conscious of myself. I'm so glad you were open about it and actually told us what you did to remedy and see results. Thank you so much, I appreciate your honesty throughout the video.
I gained more length thanks to your advice. I've been washing my hair more often. Now it seems the more I wash my scalp, the more frequently I need to wash it. My only issue is to gain more length in the front of my hair. Most of my length is from the back.
@JESUS PRINCE OF PEACE Maintaining your scalp clean is essential. 🔑 If you apply a lot of oil on your scalp, you should wash your hair once a week. Check if your scalp has produced buildup depending on your sebum. If you do not have the time, every other week should be the max.
My hair is finally growing long after it's been short most of my life. What has worked for me: -Washing my hair once a week -Using olaplex -NOT using protective styling (I don't believe it's 'protective' -Hair oil and hair massage I have 4c hair btw
Love this melanated women for being so organic about our 4c hair. Every melanated kinky woman that look like me. Our hair will grow , it will exceed our dreams if we be just slow down be honest with our regimen. Enjoying her actually showing us in real time doing her own hair with the products. She knows our hair experiences , can explain what we do, what we do go through because we are so busy . All the more we care for everybody, neglect our self because we are too tire . So Queens slow down , set aside some time to love yourself. I , others deserve to see all in all your beauty . You are worthy to walk this journey . Yes she has the lifetime experience for us. I want you to know I grateful for your labor, honesty to our youth. Thank you sister for being so real . Thank you for NO fake pictures, thank you for no fake 4c hair. Thank you for the wisdom, confidence we can , always have had them strands rocking , some tribes cultures rock hair in many styles today. God knows what we need , where you are always. Ask it shall be done. Not “All hair that is curly“ is always a 4c generational thing . I’m mixed orange , don’t know my next match or the purpose . I respect I don’t forget. I have living reminders like adult children , ancestors they watching , they will absolutely abandon me if I dare abandon the love they give everyday. My nationality ethnicity of Africa. I can’t run with their blood but I do reverence the all of that grandest version of the before of me for we one. Compassion great video lady. Stay tapped in. This is One of many many many young melanated women stepping up , telling their own generational stories of no hair in her family, alone that is offering us to us. I love my experiences of my yummy kinky hair. Yes baby is smells deliciously kinky juicy, hot.
Charity, I just want to encourage you. You are the only natural hair influencer with this length of hair. I've noticed the most recent trap for natural hair UA-camrs -- that silk press. One after the other has had to do a big chop and start from scratch after heat stretching the natural hair they'd worked so hard to grow. I'm on a natural journey as well and God has led me to some very important things. I trimmed last week and it looks and feels very healthy. Wish I could get my hands on your products but I'm in West Africa 😔 Anyway, I use what I can find. Like coconut oil and rice water. Thanks for the tips. And as a testimony, yes, God does care about hair. The back of my hair wasn't growing. I prayed, and now, it's about mid-back length. God bless us on our journeys!
You really just have to find a salonist who truly cares or adopt a heat protectant method and do it yourself. My hair was dyed red and silk pressed and my texture remained. The colour grew out, so it's fully black now. Had a silk press last August and everything is still normal with curl pattern. Sad that they lost their texture, but being careful is key.
There are others. Here are a few if you are looking for more inspiration: 1. Obaa yaa Jones 2. Indigenous strandz 3. If she so pleases 4. curly proverbs 5. Eugenia Kelcy 6. Natural Academia (she's getting close} 7. Janet Davies 8. Naturally crowned by Novella (also close} These ladies are examples of different textures of long type 4 hair and one with type 3. Sorry I didn't list them according to texture only as they came to my mind, lol.
@@1GoldenBreeze I'm aware of the others. But in my opinion, Charity's hair is unique. Most of the others measure length, but stretched. Charity's length is unstretched. In addition, most have some length, but the health, richness and volume of Charity's hair is unmatched in my opinion. I believe the God factor gave her an extra wealth of hair that I don't see anywhere else.
AMEN! GOD created our hair and HE shows us how to care for it and our bodies. It was after praying for my hair and my body that I have seen it transform. Blessings to you and a wonderful video! ❤
OMG I'm in tears. Ive been looking for someone with the same texture as my daughter that has the length we are trying to get her to. When she was 6yrs old (6 yrs ago) her hair was mid-back and healthy. At that time I sent her and her siblings to live with their Dad and they were with him for 6 yrs. 6 months ago I drove over 1k miles to get her and my boys back from their dad and her hair was in these old box braids that I knew immediately needed to come down. While taking them down I noticed that her hair was no longer the hair she left with....it was ABOVE HER SHOULDERS😢. While living with her dad, his wife cut all her hair off. Now I'm trying to grow her hair back to how it was. I am natural as wwll and just before I went to get them I had finally grown my hair out to midback 🎉 but upon seeing my daughters hair I decided to big chop so we could grow our hair out together. Our textures are different so what i do for my hair doesnt work and then my youngest daughter who is currently 6 has a different texture than mine and my 12yr old. So we all have different routines and products we use. My 12yr olds hair is very dense like yours with no curl pattern that I've been able to see just yet. When she was younger it was the same. Back then every week I would always wash, condition, blowdry, then style her hair. Never really did much with it just kept it simple. Currently we are doing knotless braids to put her hair away out of her sight because she's been constantly saying how its not growing it and comparing it to mine. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for sharing ❤ Off to watch more of your videos.
Wow I'm sorry your daughter had a hair setback 😔 (I was wondering why did his wife cut her hair 🤷🏾♀️) the good thing is she is young so her growth cycle is great (it slows down a bit as we age) but with your consistency that you used before, I'm sure her hair will flourish in no time. I think it is so sweet how you cut your hair so you two can grow it out together ❤️ that is beyond supportive so she doesn't feel like she's going through it alone. I admire that. It's heartwarming to know you guys are going through this hair journey together ❤️
Oh wow! So glad that you are going to be taking care of her hair now. Here is a video that may help as you are beginning this new journey: ua-cam.com/video/mf4mZhzijb8/v-deo.html
What a beautiful gesture for your daughter. My mom also cut her very very long hair when I was little because I had to cut mine too. Nothing like a mother’s love 🥰
Girl yes!! What a great video. Thank you for sharing and for not being shy about giving God credit for guiding us to the right things when we pray. Such a beautiful reminder!! 🙌🏾 I needed that today.
Oh my Goodness!!! This is the most powerful content for hair care the I've ever watched!!! I'm SOOOO afraid of washingu hair. It tangles and sheds... But your tips all but tips are SOOO exciting for me... It makes Soo much sense!!! And your bringing GOD INTO THIS THING!!! Thank you. Can't wait to follow you. God bless, and keep you. 🤗
"Involve God in your hair care, he will guide you to resources that can help you care for your hair" as soon as i heard that, i subscribed. thank you for sharing your journey and inspiring me.
Everything you say is very true!!! I have stop doing coming to much , I only comb my hair on my wash day only which is like 3 times in a month. Fingle detangling helps and improve the hair. I use Oil / conditioner now to detangle my hair and my hair is startting to get more fuller and thicker. I only do simple protective style and I do pray unto GOD. to help me out to retain more length
Wow! I love how you involved GOD. You are the second person I'm seeing who does that. I'm about 4 inches or so in my journey. I trimmed mine in October. I'm hoping to learn more here. 😃
You have some Great ideas on hair care too. I have (never,) thought of tucking my ends, in order to prevent, Breakage!😮 This is something I definitely,need to Share! Thank you!
I have been praying to the Lord to heal my scalp and grow my hair, and I came across this video! God bless you and thank you for sharing these resources with all of us ❤
Your hair maybe quite complicated to maintain but once you study it properly and maintain and nourish it, you begin to enjoy it and see its true beauty. Basically try to study your hair first then see what works for you.
OMG. Your words have inspired me to not give up. I'm nearly in tears because i miss my hair being nearly this long. I'm a straight natural no relaxer so i wear roller sets bi-weekly or a good silk press and curl for 3 to 4 weeks. Unfortunately my hair didn't like the "natural hair Life or Bandwagon" 😢 😢. So i went back to what was working when i had a hair stylist for 20 years until they retired from hair 😢 😢. My hair was near bra length from wearing a good silk press and i had it done once a month. My hair was so healthy. I had no heat damage for the 20 years i had a hair stylist👍🏾👍🏾. Now that i've went back to being a straight natural my hair like me again 🤣 🤣. I've learned after having a hairstylist for so long that everyone hair is different and what may work for my hair or others hair may not work for my hair. My hairstylist had what i called "magic hands". Now i'm back to bouncy curls although it's about shoulder length but i'm on a new hair journey to grow it back to the length it was. It'll take some time but i've learned to enjoy this hair journey and let GOD walk me thru this one. *NOTE TO SELF*...... Envolve GOD in my hair care and my hair growth journey. STAY SAFE EVERYONE. GOD BLESS US ALL 🙏🏽 🙏🏽.
That's the strategy. When you have thick hair, you have to part it four ways to prevent tangling and allow a proper cleanse. Honestly, our hair grow when you its not constantly manipulated. I have 4C hair and its thick and shrinks when I wash it. But it has grown since I leave it alone.
I am really inspired by your message of the fact that God is the possessor of all things. So we need Him in everything we do on earth because He is the Solution to all challenges. God bless you
I absolutely love this! All the information you shared is extremely helpful. I'm at a point in my hair journey where everything you stated is why my hair is thriving now ⭐
I am so encouraged that you are mentioning God in your video, because He is the one that deserves the credit.. I don’t like long hair anymore but I enjoyed your video.
I do all these things and my hair is past bra strap , almost at waist length. I deep condition weekly with Ayurvedic hair oils, powders…. I either do knotless jumbo braids after or bun my hair! I keep my knotless in for about a month and oil scalp daily and spritz with water & rose water
YES!! I noticed as well where once I started doing protective styles and especially, sealing my ends with oils, my hair really started growing longer!❤
Mrs. Charity, thank you for sharing your hair growth process and products. I have started my natural hair care journey and I am currently dealing with stagnation "UGH"!! however, I stand in agreeance with you concerning involving God in our hair-growing journey. I have prayed and sought out God's guidance on growing my hair back after damaging it 3 years ago, I/we need God and healthy tips on growing our hair. I wanted to share this scripture I Corinthians 11:15 But if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her; for her hair is given to her for a covering. Our long hair is our covering.
This is one of the best hair content videos I have watched since starting my healthy hair journey. Thank you so much for reminding me to include the Lord in my journey. Thanks for sharing your journey to long and healthy hair. New subscriber.
You are a true inspiration to many of us young lady. 👏🏽Thank you so much for all your wonderful tips in caring for our hair. Your hair looks healthy, beautiful and long!!😍 I really admire the way how you put God in your hair journey. May He continue to inspire you so that you will come up with more wonderful ideas so that you can make more wonderful videos on hair care. Blessings!! 🙌 ❤
Such beautiful words of Inspiration for hair! Besides, God did say, our hair is our glory!! My first time watching and I will definitely go to your merchandise!
Thank you for mentioning our Creator as inspiration for a guide. Truly beautiful way to involve the Almighty in our everyday lives. Thanks for showing me a new way to connect with our Creator! ❤
thanks so much for this video!!!! I noticed a positive difference after i stopped using combs. With that said, I think my biggest problem is still hair breakage/shedding during detangles.
I’m glad your channel popped up on my page, the advice you shared about natural hair was awesome 👏🏽 I’ve been natural for some time now but I struggle with growing my natural hair and learning styles that won’t break my hair or cause split ends. So I will be following your advice and praying I can see some results. Thanks a bunch
Wow let me say your involving GOD in your hair advice is an answer to a prayer of mine, so I have decided to go natural but I have been thinking that it's ugly and hard, GOD has a reason he gave us this kind of hairs and he wants us to look pretty and confident in it. Wow I feel encouraged to continue and give my natural looks to GOD ❤❤
You and your Your hair is Beautiful Unspeakable AMÉN. I Prayed for my hair Growth and it Grew a beyond measure. After I was told by specialist that my hair would never grow again HalleluYah
Thank you for making this channel i thank Jesus Christ for it. I’ve been following a certain 4c Hair care channel for some months now just trying to grow my hair and she had recently started discussing topics about how our hair is our literal ancestors. After feeling weird from watching that video, I had repented and unfollowed her and prayed that the Lord may continue to lead me. Just this morning, I had searched up Christian 4c hair care channels, only to find yours in the mist of other channels that were not devoted to the Lord. I am thankful that you even have your own hair care products and I’m excited to watch your content! :)
Thank you for sharing, your hair is thick and GORGEOUS!! I started my hair journey back in 2016 and I was doing the same taking all of these pictures of my progress!! In 2019, I decided to start a new journey and my advice; I create a Pinterest board of your hair journey!! Post pics of your hair progress, write out what you did, what you used etc.!! Trust when you see for yourself what helped your hair growth you'll be proud of yourself for figuring out "your own" hair and what's helped it flourish!! Ever since doing this, my hair has grown past waist-length length which it never did before!!❤ Btw, healthy diet, exercise, good water intake, scalp massages etc. make all the difference and are the first lines of defense!!❤
I'm really so sorry you had to suffer through short hair for so many years. Such an accomplishment that you've grown your hair and are so eager to share your enthusiasm with other women while including God and religion in the process of hair growth. The natural hair community really needs you for this noble cause!
Aww I'm sorry to hear you lost many hair pictures. I was afraid of the same happening so I made a slideshow video with them. Hoping to keep them for a long time. Pictures really remind you of your progress.
Amen!! New to your channel. Absolutely LOVE that you included God in your journey!! He said :Seek ye FIRST the Kingdom of God and EVERYTHING else will be added unto you! Hallelujah 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Subscribing not only because you put Yah first, but also because your hair is GORGEOUS! 😍 #HairGoals
This was great. I detangle in the shower always under water. I learned to be gentle and loving to my hair. Moisturizing is the best part and YES protect those ends...😘
Yes, me too. It works well with a good slip conditioner & warm water. I have myself a sit in the shower place the water on low & take my time with each section. I have the revair & use my detangled sections to dry In no time. Soooo much better.
Wetting ur hair in water in a spray bottle and then using ur fingers to detangle ur hair is better than hair conditioner. Always detangle ur hair by teasing it gently from the end, upward with ur comb.
Thank you for this. I have been natural since 2018 but my hair seems not to be growing. I never knew I could pray to God concerning my hair. From today, I am incorporating God to give me length to my back.
Great tips. It's funny that your video came up, because I, too, have learned that I am going to have to do things differently if I want to get past my growth plateau. You have a beautiful head of thick, healthy, hair :)
Bless you. This touched me, and made me aware that we need to put God at the center of things like this, it's easy to compare our hair to other women, but if we come to God and say, "motivate/lead me to growing my hair" as maybe just a testament of staying faithful and consistent on a goal, or embracing our own beauty, I think that is the way to go.
Over the last fifteen years of being on my healthy hair journey I have been able to cut my hair extremely short and grow it past my shoulders many times, however I have never achieved my ultimate goal of tailbone length hair because I always seem to have some kind of major setback when I'm almost there. It's been frustrating, but I'm not giving up until my dream long length hair is finally reached. One thing I'm currently struggling with is trying to accept my hair as is. I accept my hair texture when it comes to my natural curl pattern, and current hair length but what I struggle with the most is the fine texture of hair that I have and the thinning and in some places alopecia in areas around my head. Though those areas can be covered and I am gentle with those areas, and people don't notice or see them. The fact that I know they are there bothers me. I try not to let it get me down and just work with the hair that I have and love it best as I can, but it's still a deep internal struggle. I hope I can finally reach tailbone length in the next four years by just mostly protective styling, and keeping my hair properly moisturized, cleansed, and trimmed. And not worry about it so much, but I already have anxiety and that combined with the many setbacks over the years puts a little doubt in my head that this time won't be my moment either just like all the rest failed attempts. However after fifteen years I've learned a few lessons, stay away from heat, only trim my ends when absolutely necessary, and don't worry so much. My hair is growing. I just have to stay consistent, wait, and be patient.
You are so right about involving God. He has been the number 1 reason ive attained growth and has guided me in how to take care of the hair He has blessed me with. So so true. I remember praying and believing that even in the little things like my frustration with my natural hair, God could and will help me. He has. And what you said about changing your mindset about your hair from "I cant do this" to "i can" is so true. And I believe it was God that helped me see that by His grace I am capable of taking care of my hair the same way all these other women do on youtube. By far this is my favorite haircare video just because you said the number one truth about caring for your hair. Involve God.
Wow your her looks amazing. Your video really inspired me. This is the best I have watched so far because you added God to those ingredients and that's the only ingredients I have missed out all this year of hair growth journey.
I loved it when you said, Involve God in you hair care journey." And if I may add...Don't forget to thank him for the hair that you have. Thank you makes room for more. Enjoyed you video. You have is beautiful. ❤😊
Lol, I can hear your little one in the background because your voice would increase in volume to drown their increasing volume. Your hair is beautiful and very very thick and healthy. Once we learn how to take care of our hair on a regular and consistent schedule, it rewards us by growing.
1.Wash your hair in section.
2.Detangle hair with wide teeth comb and moisturizer.
3.Protective styling.
4.Involve God in your hair care
Amen, yes put God in everything!! Your hair looks fabulous ❤
And deep conditioning
@@demmerfreeman3725we are the gods
Amen 🙏
@faithongolo7908I need the your products
I was sold on "involve God in your hair care because He created and gave you your hair". Thanks!
Yes & AMEN!!😁👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽
It's true
Confirmation ❤
Amen! I always pray for my hair
@@leeleejm2749yep Priscilla Shirer said a similar thing
"Involve God and he will guide you to resources that can help you care for your hair" I can definitely attest to that, that was how I found your channel in the first place back in 2020😄, I had to cut my hair and start from scratch cos my hair had gone thru a lot back then. I can say now am on an healthy hair journey😊, also in other areas of life once God is involved you'll be surprised at the way he leads you. Thanks for sharing this, just so you know you inspired me to start my own hair care journey🥰. God bless you.
Aw 🥰, so glad to know that and your hair is definitely flourishing!
@@MrsCharityUmar Thank you 😃
I love both of your channels thank God who made me know both of you, my hair is thriving
@@JoyBNaturals I'm passing through a rough time in my life which makes me Wonder if this god really exist, and if he exist is he Choosey? Or are my sins the only sins on earth?why is he blessing only my colleagues and leaving me drink tears?
Yessuh!! Amen🙏🏾🙌🏾💪🏾
My hair fell out from wigs and i started praying that God help me to love my natural 4b hair and my hair grew back. God is good all the time y'all ❤
Proverbs 3:6...In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths...This verse came to my mind when you said, Involve God in your hair care... Thanks for the encouragement. 😊
Thanks for sharing!!
Awww the baby babbling in the background! I’m happy you didn’t edit that part out, babies are such a blessing
I’m currently using a leave in conditioner that has oil in it along with a twisting gel and I noticed my hair is more moisturized. Sometimes you have to try different products until you see what works.
Hello may I ask what leave in conditioner you are using
@@teriamanning7341 I’m using Blue Magic Argan oil leave in conditioner cream. Then I apply aunt Jackie flaxseed gel or eco style black castor and flaxseed gel. I use this for twist outs and braids.
Some good tips. But the most important thing people need to know hair goes through different phases. Hair growth is largely genetics, along with health and diet. So start with eating healthy, along with tips on taking care of your hair. And remember just because someone have long hair down their butt. Don’t mean you will too. Don’t watch other people’s hair journey. Focus on your own journey.
hair length is not genetic. please stop implying. Hair doesn't stop growing unless something is going on with one's health therefore health length is not genetics. growth rates,density,texture yes genetics length nope not genetics.
But you're on here watching her hair videos. If hypocrisy was a person it'd be you.
@@Brandiisbelovedsay it again!! The whole “hair growth is genetic” mantra may have some validity but hair length is not genetic. If you are too lazy to grow your hair, say that instead. Just be gentle with your hair and eliminate the junk from your diet. It’s really not rocket science.
Sis this is why i love your channel. You always put God on the first place and that encourage me a lot.
Baby girl talking in the background is the sweetest . Really enjoyed this video!!
I agree so much with the importance of safely detangling your hair. For about a year or more now I've started detangling my hair is sections under the running shower and it has completely changed the game. Having that constant water flow offering endless slip while you comb it out makes it almost effortless for me.
Yes, same here. Running water helps alot. I do mine in that way.
True
Yes. I Will not detangle my hair without water
@@rebeccasibu3560in Leviticus, God commanded cleansing in running water!!! Game changer.
Your hair is gorgeous!! This video truly inspired me. My hair texture is similar to yours and I feel as if my hair has been stuck at the same length for a while and I’ve been asking God for guidance because I want my hair to grow! Thank you for sharing these tips!
The fact that I'm.not the only person who invites God into these kinds of things is making me scream.🎉
I've actually felt like involving GOD in my hair journey sometimes but I felt that was too irrelevant
Thanks for this tip 😊😇
I'll start now by GOD'S Grace
I felt the same way! I've struggled with my hair for over a decade never getting past shoulder length. I cut it off last summer and it's been growing but I found myself obsessed with obtaining length that it began breaking a bit again. I know I need to involve God I felt it was vain to pray about it but God led me to this video for a reason. May God bless your hair care journey 🙏🏾
@@jmunroe Amen🙏
And yours too🙏
Honestly, I expected to click off this video, anticipating that it would be the same as every other 'grow your hair' video out there but I was thoroughly interested. I could relate to you. The way I washed my hair, the way I would leave it out to dry and then dread having to comb through it, the amount of hair I would lose in the process. I can relate so badly because this is the routine I've known since I was conscious of myself. I'm so glad you were open about it and actually told us what you did to remedy and see results. Thank you so much, I appreciate your honesty throughout the video.
I gained more length thanks to your advice. I've been washing my hair more often. Now it seems the more I wash my scalp, the more frequently I need to wash it. My only issue is to gain more length in the front of my hair. Most of my length is from the back.
Same!!
Same
Same, it is frustrating. I am considering a massive chop
So u mean I have to wash my hair often help me how many days in a month that I have to wash my hair
@JESUS PRINCE OF PEACE Maintaining your scalp clean is essential. 🔑 If you apply a lot of oil on your scalp, you should wash your hair once a week. Check if your scalp has produced buildup depending on your sebum. If you do not have the time, every other week should be the max.
My hair is finally growing long after it's been short most of my life. What has worked for me:
-Washing my hair once a week
-Using olaplex
-NOT using protective styling (I don't believe it's 'protective'
-Hair oil and hair massage
I have 4c hair btw
So how do you style your hair?
This is literally the best and most honest content I have seen on here. Thank you!
😂 I'd literally watch a movie with you just doing your hair over and over again. Ridiculously gorgeous hair. I am completely stunned.
Involve God in your hair care made me subscribe . God bless you dear.
Love this melanated women for being so organic about our 4c hair. Every melanated kinky woman that look like me. Our hair will grow , it will exceed our dreams if we be just slow down be honest with our regimen. Enjoying her actually showing us in real time doing her own hair with the products. She knows our hair experiences , can explain what we do, what we do go through because we are so busy . All the more we care for everybody, neglect our self because we are too tire . So Queens slow down , set aside some time to love yourself. I , others deserve to see all in all your beauty . You are worthy to walk this journey . Yes she has the lifetime experience for us. I want you to know I grateful for your labor, honesty to our youth. Thank you sister for being so real . Thank you for NO fake pictures, thank you for no fake 4c hair. Thank you for the wisdom, confidence we can , always have had them strands rocking , some tribes cultures rock hair in many styles today. God knows what we need , where you are always. Ask it shall be done. Not “All hair that is curly“ is always a 4c generational thing . I’m mixed orange , don’t know my next match or the purpose . I respect I don’t forget. I have living reminders like adult children , ancestors they watching , they will absolutely abandon me if I dare abandon the love they give everyday. My nationality ethnicity of Africa. I can’t run with their blood but I do reverence the all of that grandest version of the before of me for we one. Compassion great video lady. Stay tapped in.
This is One of many many many young melanated women stepping up , telling their own generational stories of no hair in her family, alone that is offering us to us. I love my experiences of my yummy kinky hair. Yes baby is smells deliciously kinky juicy, hot.
I wash my hair in sections ...this was a game changer for me.. I noticed little to no breakage and tangles....you got beautiful hair
Charity, I just want to encourage you. You are the only natural hair influencer with this length of hair. I've noticed the most recent trap for natural hair UA-camrs -- that silk press. One after the other has had to do a big chop and start from scratch after heat stretching the natural hair they'd worked so hard to grow. I'm on a natural journey as well and God has led me to some very important things. I trimmed last week and it looks and feels very healthy. Wish I could get my hands on your products but I'm in West Africa 😔 Anyway, I use what I can find. Like coconut oil and rice water. Thanks for the tips. And as a testimony, yes, God does care about hair. The back of my hair wasn't growing. I prayed, and now, it's about mid-back length. God bless us on our journeys!
You really just have to find a salonist who truly cares or adopt a heat protectant method and do it yourself. My hair was dyed red and silk pressed and my texture remained. The colour grew out, so it's fully black now. Had a silk press last August and everything is still normal with curl pattern. Sad that they lost their texture, but being careful is key.
There are others. Here are a few if you are looking for more inspiration: 1. Obaa yaa Jones 2. Indigenous strandz 3. If she so pleases 4. curly proverbs 5. Eugenia Kelcy 6. Natural Academia (she's getting close} 7. Janet Davies 8. Naturally crowned by Novella (also close} These ladies are examples of different textures of long type 4 hair and one with type 3. Sorry I didn't list them according to texture only as they came to my mind, lol.
@@1GoldenBreeze I'm aware of the others. But in my opinion, Charity's hair is unique. Most of the others measure length, but stretched. Charity's length is unstretched. In addition, most have some length, but the health, richness and volume of Charity's hair is unmatched in my opinion. I believe the God factor gave her an extra wealth of hair that I don't see anywhere else.
@@TheRebellefleur27 I think I'll just stay away from it altogether. There are too many testimonies.
@@tothechurchonyoutubewrite7384 Okay.👍
AMEN! GOD created our hair and HE shows us how to care for it and our bodies. It was after praying for my hair and my body that I have seen it transform. Blessings to you and a wonderful video! ❤
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You and your hair are absolutely stunning! My favorite tip on the list is involving God in our hair care. Love this!
OMG I'm in tears. Ive been looking for someone with the same texture as my daughter that has the length we are trying to get her to.
When she was 6yrs old (6 yrs ago) her hair was mid-back and healthy. At that time I sent her and her siblings to live with their Dad and they were with him for 6 yrs. 6 months ago I drove over 1k miles to get her and my boys back from their dad and her hair was in these old box braids that I knew immediately needed to come down. While taking them down I noticed that her hair was no longer the hair she left with....it was ABOVE HER SHOULDERS😢. While living with her dad, his wife cut all her hair off.
Now I'm trying to grow her hair back to how it was. I am natural as wwll and just before I went to get them I had finally grown my hair out to midback 🎉 but upon seeing my daughters hair I decided to big chop so we could grow our hair out together. Our textures are different so what i do for my hair doesnt work and then my youngest daughter who is currently 6 has a different texture than mine and my 12yr old. So we all have different routines and products we use. My 12yr olds hair is very dense like yours with no curl pattern that I've been able to see just yet. When she was younger it was the same. Back then every week I would always wash, condition, blowdry, then style her hair. Never really did much with it just kept it simple. Currently we are doing knotless braids to put her hair away out of her sight because she's been constantly saying how its not growing it and comparing it to mine.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for sharing ❤
Off to watch more of your videos.
Wow I'm sorry your daughter had a hair setback 😔 (I was wondering why did his wife cut her hair 🤷🏾♀️) the good thing is she is young so her growth cycle is great (it slows down a bit as we age) but with your consistency that you used before, I'm sure her hair will flourish in no time. I think it is so sweet how you cut your hair so you two can grow it out together ❤️ that is beyond supportive so she doesn't feel like she's going through it alone. I admire that. It's heartwarming to know you guys are going through this hair journey together ❤️
Oh wow! So glad that you are going to be taking care of her hair now. Here is a video that may help as you are beginning this new journey: ua-cam.com/video/mf4mZhzijb8/v-deo.html
Nah I don't want skip over the fact his wife cut her hair... why?
What a beautiful gesture for your daughter. My mom also cut her very very long hair when I was little because I had to cut mine too. Nothing like a mother’s love 🥰
@@nnachi9203She was probably jealous.
Girl yes!! What a great video. Thank you for sharing and for not being shy about giving God credit for guiding us to the right things when we pray. Such a beautiful reminder!! 🙌🏾 I needed that today.
The soothing cadence of your voice is a reflection of how we should approach natural hair care: with patience & calm.
Oh my Goodness!!! This is the most powerful content for hair care the I've ever watched!!! I'm SOOOO afraid of washingu hair. It tangles and sheds... But your tips all but tips are SOOO exciting for me... It makes Soo much sense!!! And your bringing GOD INTO THIS THING!!! Thank you. Can't wait to follow you. God bless, and keep you. 🤗
Washing in loose large plaits works - try this ! This is what l have done - life saver !
I'm glad to see you stick to the being godly even in your contents, thanks to God your channel grew, congratulations ma
I have been loving all these curly Christians. They’ve been posting scripture Etc. makes me so happy ! God bless y’all. May be give yall strength
I want that length sooooo bad!!!!
Me too
"Involve God in your hair care, he will guide you to resources that can help you care for your hair" as soon as i heard that, i subscribed. thank you for sharing your journey and inspiring me.
Everything you say is very true!!! I have stop doing coming to much , I only comb my hair on my wash day only which is like 3 times in a month. Fingle detangling helps and improve the hair. I use Oil / conditioner now to detangle my hair and my hair is startting to get more fuller and thicker. I only do simple protective style and I do pray unto GOD. to help me out to retain more length
Wow! I love how you involved GOD. You are the second person I'm seeing who does that. I'm about 4 inches or so in my journey. I trimmed mine in October. I'm hoping to learn more here. 😃
You have some Great ideas on hair care too. I have (never,) thought of tucking my ends, in order to prevent, Breakage!😮 This is something I definitely,need to Share! Thank you!
Your hair is a TRUE CROWN OF GLORY. You are my role model. KEEP SHARING & LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU.
I have been praying to the Lord to heal my scalp and grow my hair, and I came across this video! God bless you and thank you for sharing these resources with all of us ❤
Your hair is so gorgeous and healthy💜💁🏽♀️
Your hair maybe quite complicated to maintain but once you study it properly and maintain and nourish it, you begin to enjoy it and see its true beauty. Basically try to study your hair first then see what works for you.
You’re hair is so beautiful I’m mixed and seeing you do your hair and growing it makes me more inspired for myself!
Hi Charity, I remember you from school. Nice to see your hair journey! Congrats to you.
OMG. Your words have inspired me to not give up. I'm nearly in tears because i miss my hair being nearly this long. I'm a straight natural no relaxer so i wear roller sets bi-weekly or a good silk press and curl for 3 to 4 weeks. Unfortunately my hair didn't like the "natural hair Life or Bandwagon" 😢 😢. So i went back to what was working when i had a hair stylist for 20 years until they retired from hair 😢 😢.
My hair was near bra length from wearing a good silk press and i had it done once a month. My hair was so healthy. I had no heat damage for the 20 years i had a hair stylist👍🏾👍🏾. Now that i've went back to being a straight natural my hair like me again 🤣 🤣. I've learned after having a hairstylist for so long that everyone hair is different and what may work for my hair or others hair may not work for my hair. My hairstylist had what i called "magic hands". Now i'm back to bouncy curls although it's about shoulder length but i'm on a new hair journey to grow it back to the length it was. It'll take some time but i've learned to enjoy this hair journey and let GOD walk me thru this one.
*NOTE TO SELF*......
Envolve GOD in my hair care and my hair growth journey.
STAY SAFE EVERYONE. GOD BLESS US ALL 🙏🏽 🙏🏽.
That's the strategy. When you have thick hair, you have to part it four ways to prevent tangling and allow a proper cleanse.
Honestly, our hair grow when you its not constantly manipulated.
I have 4C hair and its thick and shrinks when I wash it.
But it has grown since I leave it alone.
I am really inspired by your message of the fact that God is the possessor of all things. So we need Him in everything we do on earth because He is the Solution to all challenges. God bless you
I absolutely love this! All the information you shared is extremely helpful. I'm at a point in my hair journey where everything you stated is why my hair is thriving now ⭐
Gorgeous looking hair ,so full and bouncy.
Love how you section your hair with the tail comb I find this technique so helpful
I am so encouraged that you are mentioning God in your video, because He is the one that deserves the credit.. I don’t like long hair anymore but I enjoyed your video.
Thanks for sharing!!
I do all these things and my hair is past bra strap , almost at waist length. I deep condition weekly with Ayurvedic hair oils, powders…. I either do knotless jumbo braids after or bun my hair! I keep my knotless in for about a month and oil scalp daily and spritz with water & rose water
YES!! I noticed as well where once I started doing protective styles and especially, sealing my ends with oils, my hair really started growing longer!❤
Mrs. Charity, thank you for sharing your hair growth process and products. I have started my natural hair care journey and I am currently dealing with stagnation "UGH"!! however, I stand in agreeance with you concerning involving God in our hair-growing journey. I have prayed and sought out God's guidance on growing my hair back after damaging it 3 years ago, I/we need God and healthy tips on growing our hair. I wanted to share this scripture I Corinthians 11:15 But if a woman has long hair, it is a glory to her; for her hair is given to her for a covering. Our long hair is our covering.
This is one of the best hair content videos I have watched since starting my healthy hair journey. Thank you so much for reminding me to include the Lord in my journey. Thanks for sharing your journey to long and healthy hair. New subscriber.
You are a true inspiration to many of us young lady. 👏🏽Thank you so much for all your wonderful tips in caring for our hair. Your hair looks healthy, beautiful and long!!😍
I really admire the way how you put God in your hair journey. May He continue to inspire you so that you will come up with more wonderful ideas so that you can make more wonderful videos on hair care. Blessings!! 🙌 ❤
Such beautiful words of Inspiration for hair! Besides, God did say, our hair is our glory!! My first time watching and I will definitely go to your merchandise!
Thank you for mentioning our Creator as inspiration for a guide. Truly beautiful way to involve the Almighty in our everyday lives. Thanks for showing me a new way to connect with our Creator! ❤
thanks so much for this video!!!!
I noticed a positive difference after i stopped using combs. With that said, I think my biggest problem is still hair breakage/shedding during detangles.
I’m glad your channel popped up on my page, the advice you shared about natural hair was awesome 👏🏽 I’ve been natural for some time now but I struggle with growing my natural hair and learning styles that won’t break my hair or cause split ends. So I will be following your advice and praying I can see some results. Thanks a bunch
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Our hair is so beautiful
I'm so encouraged and inspired by your channel.
Wow let me say your involving GOD in your hair advice is an answer to a prayer of mine, so I have decided to go natural but I have been thinking that it's ugly and hard, GOD has a reason he gave us this kind of hairs and he wants us to look pretty and confident in it. Wow I feel encouraged to continue and give my natural looks to GOD ❤❤
Praise God! I pray that you continue to see your hair the way that God designed it - beautiful, unique and His perfect design.
i really cant wait to share my own hair testimony
You and your Your hair is Beautiful Unspeakable AMÉN. I Prayed for my hair Growth and it Grew a beyond measure. After I was told by specialist that my hair would never grow again HalleluYah
Trim the split ends regularly and avoid using too much chemical or even the electrical hair appliances
Very, very nice! Thank you for posting! Liked and subscribed.
Your hair is a dream. I mean it. You love your hair and it shows. Thank you for sharing what you were blessed with! ❤
Your hair has definitely made good progress, continue to take care of it.
Thank you for making this channel i thank Jesus Christ for it. I’ve been following a certain 4c Hair care channel for some months now just trying to grow my hair and she had recently started discussing topics about how our hair is our literal ancestors. After feeling weird from watching that video, I had repented and unfollowed her and prayed that the Lord may continue to lead me. Just this morning, I had searched up Christian 4c hair care channels, only to find yours in the mist of other channels that were not devoted to the Lord. I am thankful that you even have your own hair care products and I’m excited to watch your content! :)
Praise God! Glad that you're here! I pray that my content will be an inspiration for you.
Thank you for sharing, your hair is thick and GORGEOUS!! I started my hair journey back in 2016 and I was doing the same taking all of these pictures of my progress!! In 2019, I decided to start a new journey and my advice; I create a Pinterest board of your hair journey!! Post pics of your hair progress, write out what you did, what you used etc.!! Trust when you see for yourself what helped your hair growth you'll be proud of yourself for figuring out "your own" hair and what's helped it flourish!! Ever since doing this, my hair has grown past waist-length length which it never did before!!❤
Btw, healthy diet, exercise, good water intake, scalp massages etc. make all the difference and are the first lines of defense!!❤
Hallelujah,i really love this
Am on my journey i have just started growing my natural hair but i believe this will help me
As soon as you mentioned being grateful to God I subscribed.. 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽 acknowledge God in all of your ways and he will direct your path 👩🏽🦱💜
Your voice is so therapeutic. You really are an inspiration. Thanks for sharing this video. 😊
I'm really so sorry you had to suffer through short hair for so many years. Such an accomplishment that you've grown your hair and are so eager to share your enthusiasm with other women while including God and religion in the process of hair growth. The natural hair community really needs you for this noble cause!
it very important to start at the bottom of the hair and comb it out going up. It will make it so much easier.
Aww I'm sorry to hear you lost many hair pictures. I was afraid of the same happening so I made a slideshow video with them. Hoping to keep them for a long time. Pictures really remind you of your progress.
For high porosity or fine hair air drying is perfectly fine. Our hair is really so different, yet the same.
Amen!! New to your channel. Absolutely LOVE that you included God in your journey!! He said :Seek ye FIRST the Kingdom of God and EVERYTHING else will be added unto you! Hallelujah 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Subscribing not only because you put Yah first, but also because your hair is GORGEOUS! 😍 #HairGoals
This was great. I detangle in the shower always under water. I learned to be gentle and loving to my hair. Moisturizing is the best part and YES protect those ends...😘
Yes, me too. It works well with a good slip conditioner & warm water. I have myself a sit in the shower place the water on low & take my time with each section. I have the revair & use my detangled sections to dry
In no time. Soooo much better.
Girl you saying shorter hair is an insult to my hair 😭😂...your shorter hair back then is even fuller than my hair now 😂...love you😚❤
Keep nurturing your hair - it will flourish with your consistency.
Never felt more hope sharing to my sisters amen
Wetting ur hair in water in a spray bottle and then using ur fingers to detangle ur hair is better than hair conditioner. Always detangle ur hair by teasing it gently from the end, upward with ur comb.
Most tips say to detangle with fingers and not brush but giiiirl I NEVER have time to treat my hair like that
Such gorgeous hair.❤💗❤️☺️😍
Thank you for this.
I have been natural since 2018 but my hair seems not to be growing. I never knew I could pray to God concerning my hair.
From today, I am incorporating God to give me length to my back.
Your hair is beautiful healthy and thick. You surely know how to take care of your hair love it 😍
Great tips. It's funny that your video came up, because I, too, have learned that I am going to have to do things differently if I want to get past my growth plateau. You have a beautiful head of thick, healthy, hair :)
I love your videos and your hair looks very good. Love the elasticity of your hair. Thanks for sharing your journey and tips used, God bless
Bless you. This touched me, and made me aware that we need to put God at the center of things like this, it's easy to compare our hair to other women, but if we come to God and say, "motivate/lead me to growing my hair" as maybe just a testament of staying faithful and consistent on a goal, or embracing our own beauty, I think that is the way to go.
Wow 🤩 this incredible. I thought black hair cannot grow 😊❤
thank you, your hair is beautiful ❤. I have started involving GOD in my hair, praying and talking to HIM, asking HIM about my hair care decisions.
Your hair is absolutely gorgeous ❤
Over the last fifteen years of being on my healthy hair journey I have been able to cut my hair extremely short and grow it past my shoulders many times, however I have never achieved my ultimate goal of tailbone length hair because I always seem to have some kind of major setback when I'm almost there. It's been frustrating, but I'm not giving up until my dream long length hair is finally reached.
One thing I'm currently struggling with is trying to accept my hair as is. I accept my hair texture when it comes to my natural curl pattern, and current hair length but what I struggle with the most is the fine texture of hair that I have and the thinning and in some places alopecia in areas around my head. Though those areas can be covered and I am gentle with those areas, and people don't notice or see them. The fact that I know they are there bothers me. I try not to let it get me down and just work with the hair that I have and love it best as I can, but it's still a deep internal struggle.
I hope I can finally reach tailbone length in the next four years by just mostly protective styling, and keeping my hair properly moisturized, cleansed, and trimmed.
And not worry about it so much, but I already have anxiety and that combined with the many setbacks over the years puts a little doubt in my head that this time won't be my moment either just like all the rest failed attempts.
However after fifteen years I've learned a few lessons, stay away from heat, only trim my ends when absolutely necessary, and don't worry so much. My hair is growing. I just have to stay consistent, wait, and be patient.
I love the thought of involving God in your hair care. This video is a blessing. Thank u
You are so right about involving God. He has been the number 1 reason ive attained growth and has guided me in how to take care of the hair He has blessed me with. So so true. I remember praying and believing that even in the little things like my frustration with my natural hair, God could and will help me. He has. And what you said about changing your mindset about your hair from "I cant do this" to "i can" is so true. And I believe it was God that helped me see that by His grace I am capable of taking care of my hair the same way all these other women do on youtube. By far this is my favorite haircare video just because you said the number one truth about caring for your hair. Involve God.
Wow your her looks amazing.
Your video really inspired me.
This is the best I have watched so far because you added God to those ingredients and that's the only ingredients I have missed out all this year of hair growth journey.
Thank you so much 🤗
I loved it when you said, Involve God in you hair care journey." And if I may add...Don't forget to thank him for the hair that you have. Thank you makes room for more. Enjoyed you video. You have is beautiful. ❤😊
I admire the way you acknowledge God in all you do. I love that coz He is the only one who knows every strand of our hair
Thank you Mrs Umar,may God bless and protect your hair Amin.❤❤❤
Lol, I can hear your little one in the background because your voice would increase in volume to drown their increasing volume.
Your hair is beautiful and very very thick and healthy.
Once we learn how to take care of our hair on a regular and consistent schedule, it rewards us by growing.
Thanks for sharing. Age plays a factor. Hair growth can happen but strategy different.
You have such beautiful hair. God bless your journey
Ooh this is so beautiful, thank for these ideas seems useful God bless you my child.