STOP DRINKING ALCOHOL NOW - One of The Most Eye Opening Motivational Videos Ever
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I've been sober for 8 years. I hardly have friends or a social life anymore. But it's better than having to apologize for things that I don't remember.
Très bien dit Paul🙏
You will recover a social life again, with people who don't have to drink when socialising. Just see it as time out. It takes time ,😊
Ikr😊
I just celebrated 6 years! 🎉 Good for you!
I'm with you on that one.
As someone wiser than me once said: "Drinking is borrowing happiness from tomorrow." True on multiple levels.
the highest interest loan you'll ever take.
I would say "stealing" from tomorrow not borrowing. It doesn't return your happiness at all on tomorrow. No one has ever felt happy with a crushing hangover.
What a great analogy. ,💯
That's the most accurate conclusion about alcohol I've ever read. I'm gonna use this against peer pressure.
With alcohol, you borrow happiness from the future until you have no more happiness left.
I’m about to hit 8 months sober after crazy excessive alcoholism for 10 years. Feels good man
Congratulations man thats awesome!
keep going 🫡
Keep it going!!
My man!! You're doing a great job! Never stop believing! You're worth it!
So incredible! Totally happy for you. Keep it up.
I spent so many years of my life under the spell of alcohol, depression and severe ptsd. Gained my freedom with the help of nature using mushroom (psilocybin) precisely. After my experience with shrooms five years ago every bottle of alcohol I picked up tasted like literal poison. I would take one taste put out the alcohol. I haven't drink since, no more depressive mood and ptsd. Few doses of shroom experience made a 15 year 4 bottles a day drinker quit instantly. Shrooms are life changing. There is no way you can put into words what it feels like..
I love hearing great life changing stories like this. I want to become a mycologist because honestly mushrooms are the best form of medicine (most especially the psychedelic ones) There are so many people today used magic mushrooms to ween off of SSRI medication- its amazing! Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death buddy, lets be honest here.
Yes sure of mycologist Pedroshrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, addiction. Shrooms can really help break the spell. Whatever spell you may be under.
Thanks for sharing your story. That's rough I sympathize. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health. I will pray for you all.
Where do I reach this dude? If possible can I find him on Google
Mushrooms are very medicinal. This is why anybody familiar with psilocybin and any other kind of fungi will tell you, "They are alive." They have a very ancient wisdom. To my experience, all mushrooms have always said, "Pay attention to your life. How you think, how you feel, and what will you do with the information that you always knew, but now are seeing in this point of view." This is why mushrooms are so respected in tribal cultures. This mental health treatment works for me too. Half micro doses do the trick for me. At least a few days at a time with lengthy time in between. Never addictive. Thank you for sharing this point!
I’m trying to quit and I went two days without it but the withdrawals got to hard for me. Couldn’t sleep or sweating in my sleep. I needed to have something to drink this morning to calm my nerves. I want better for myself, I’ve been drinking alcohol for over have my life and I’m only 28 years old. It’s all I know. If you’re reading this, please pray for me and ask to give me the strength to overcome this horrible disease
Pray, It's hard but sick advice, from others that quit this drug called alcohol. The future is better when someone quits drinking. Go to a church so they can also pray for you.
Proverbs 20:1 - “Wine is a mocker, strong drink is a brawler, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise.”
Keep going, talk to a specialist regarding how to safely manage withdrawal symptoms. Best of luck, you will do this!!!
I had withdrawal symptoms many times. I was in ER because of it many times as well. I am so sorry what you're going through.. I kept trying to stop, watching motivational Videos helped, and listening to some lectures as well. Just take it easy on yourself in those moments and don't give up. It will get easier. I am 2 months sober in 4 days. Looking forward to stay sober for another 2 months .. and another 2 after that
Praying for you! If you just start trusting in Jesus, He will see you through. Often our flesh gets in the way and we obey it, but when God sets you free - you are free indeed. I am not saying that it will be easy, but it will be rewarding in the end. Get yourself to a quiet beach if you can, early in the morning and look at the beauty of creation all around. You are special in the eyes of God - He sees you struggle.
Last year. I quit alcohol, it was more then 4 weeks strong heart palpitations, and sometimes gets easier when I rest.
I got so tired Because if this. I worked when i was hangover, got fever, and palpitations, went to ER they did nothing except they told me it was mild, 3 weeks later i felt same way. Then i went back to another hospital, after 4 weeks But they just checked my blood they said. That i was okay. But i still felt bad. I know some friend who went to the ER but they got attention, they gave them fluids made them sleep. But not me maybe we have to sak for it i don't know.
Just go to church pray. And i prayed for you may God help you from this.
I’m 3 weeks sober today, after years of being an alcoholic, I’ve gone this far and I do not intend to go back to it now, I’m not even a month sober yet and already I’ve noticed some positive changes, I no longer have gout, I’m no longer tired all the time, I now have more energy, and with this energy I can do more things and be more productive during the day, I love waking up in the early hours of the morning and hearing the birds singing and being able to wake up fresh with no hangovers and not worrying about the amount of money I’ve spent or worrying if I embarrassed myself last night. But what sobriety has also taught me is this, it’s taught me who my friends truly are and that is I have no friends, I no longer have a social life, I am alone and lonely, but it’s still better to remain sober and I wouldn’t trade that for the world, my sobriety means everything to me.
“I bad day sober is still better than a good day drunk.” ~ Craig J. Davies.
Good luck brother
Now it’s about making new friends. Real ones
You have inspired me., Reading this
waking up without a hangover is one of the best feelings there is.
@@jenjackson5176 Well that has inspired me to, thank you.
I'm 43 years old and was a heavy drinker up until just over a year ago when I quit. I felt my body falling apart starting around 30 - knee problems, aches, pains, etc. All GONE about 3 months after I quit drinking. I also had scabs that wouldn't heal for months on my shins - doctor said not to worry about it and that there wasn't much blood flow on the shins. GONE 3 months after quitting drinking and now heal in a week. Indigestion and hearburn - GONE, chronic diarrhea - GONE, Brain fog - improving, Lost 40 pounds without changing my diet, Sleep issues - GONE, Night sweats - GONE, heart palpitations - GONE. Oh, lets not forget about no more hangovers! The fountain of youth is NOT DRINKING ALCOHOL!!!
@dg9015 I had a little before I quit, but it went away afterwards.
Happy for you are all these post just assume?
Such a great comment! Mahalo for the inspiration ❤
Oh, I am 45 and that sounds familiar...my scratches and cuts seem to take 3x longer to heal, night sweats, aches and pains, shins hurt like shin splints, and started getting heartburn 6 months ago! I drink 8-10 pints of 4.8% beer every single day, up from 4 5 years ago when I started daily drinking!
It's toxic, it's a carcinogen. Kills more people than coke, heroin, meth ect ect combined. So it's a pretty horrible drug.
When the pandemic hit and sent everyone home to work, I was one of those people. I would drink so much even when working all day and night until I went to sleep. Fast forward to 3 years later and my liver was functioning at just 5% and given just 3 months to live. I haven’t had a drink since November 9, 2023 and feel so much better even tho I have cirrhosis. I would implore anyone reading this to quit. Your life is worth more than a drink.
You're probably scrolling through the comments, like I am. If you are reading this at night, you should get some sleep, and don't stress about everything going on in the world, or what you are going through. Don't dwell on things from the past, don't stress thinking about the future. Where focus goes energy flows, you only get one shot at this. Do whatever makes you happy, not what makes other people happy. Be consistent in upgrading your personal skills!
I like this comment alot.
Thank you - I needed to hear this
I really struggle with the part about making myself happy. Ive always been a people pleaser. Im trying to work on that. I really appreciate your comment.
This helped a lot, thanks
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Being the first person in my family to NOT have a serious alcohol addiction is one of the things i'm most proud of. Seeing what this shit does to people firsthand was all the motivation i needed to put alcohol down. I hope anyone struggling with this addiction finds the support and strength they need to put it down.
I take my hat off to you ,❤️
FINDING ANYTHING CHALLENGING IS THE MARK OF A LOSER. WINNERS FIGHT AND NEVER STOP FIGHTING UNTIL THEY WIN THEIR PERSONAL BATTLES, CUPCAKE. LET'S CHAT ABOUT YOUR LACK OF CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS.................
@@shapiro9640 FIGHTING BEARS IS TOUGH. FIGHTING A LIQUID IS TOUGH? ANY CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS? POWDERPUFF? WITH ALL DUE RESPECT, HOW CAN YOU FIGHT A BEAR TO DEFEND YOUR FAMILY IF YOU CANNOT BATTLE A LIQUID? LET'S CHAT!
Without knowing you, I have a feeling that you also are a rare one in your family to have COMPLETELY different role models in life.
The people that inspire you are probably VERY different to the people that inspire all the others in your family.
Is that correct?
Also. If you look at the people who have the alcohol issue. Do you see resemblance in the people they aspire to be like?
I am curious about that. Would really appreciate a response. In any case, well done and keep on inspiring others through your decision
THE GIGANTIC BATTLE AGAINST CERTAIN LIQUIDS IS A NONSTOP ONE FOR ''WIMPY EXCUSES'' WHO POUT AND ENDURE THEIR NEGLIGENCE.WHAT UP?@@sebastianshine4262
Quitting drinking alcohol was the single best decision I’ve ever made after drinking heavily from 18-23. Was going down a path I didn’t like. 6 years sober now!
Well done
What made you make the decision, please?
👏👏👏👏👏⭐️❤️🙏🏻
Wow… I am 23 now and have been heavily drinking since 18 too!! I’m 14 days sober and am very optimistic about my sobriety journey
I can go months without a drink and then I’ll drink everyday for a week or two. I don’t know why I keep repeating it. I don’t enjoy being around drunk people. Always saying stupid crap
@@JDM_san congrats on going those few months at a time. Don’t discredit yourself from that success. Thats more than most people ever do in their life. Maybe just try to go a week longer each time on your breaks and see how you feel. Its a journey :)
I'll be 6 years sober this past June 20th ,I spent 10 years in and out of hospital from liver failure, finally I was tried of letting my family, friends, and myself down.Sadly I lost my brother to this horrible disease in 2020 .I am so grateful to have a new grandson who gets a sober ,grandmother
Been sober for 15 years and counting. Best decision in my life. I wish the best for all of you out there! ❤
I have started drinking more wine for the last 4 years , than ever before in my entire life, But NEVER to get any drunk at Alll, and i feeel very good and healthy, because my digestion gas accelerated pretty much. What do you say on this ?
@carlosspicywienerharakiri did you win the lotto or something?
I’m 3 years sober now, and soo much happier. I wish you happiness and good health.
Let me ask you guys. How is the first date without alcohol? What about the sexual relationship? Was it difficult for you? For me,the hardest think will be a date without drink.
It feels so good to have the phenomenon of craving lifted from me.
I’m 69 and gave up just before my birthday after drinking since my teens, often heavily. So far I’ve found it easy as I was no longer enjoying it due to a number of health issues but mostly chronic acid reflux regardless of what I drank. This has now gone completely, am sleeping way better, losing weight and generally feel much better overall. Additionally, I’m better off financially and now put that money to better use. Was surprised to hear it can take 12 months to get over long term drinking completely so if there are more benefits to come that’s great news. Wish I’d done it years ago !
appreciate this
@@inspecktadekAround 6 months now and still sober, cravings are minimal. Seriously, if you are thinking about stopping, it’s well worth the effort. In addition to the other benefits I mentioned, I’m exercising regularly and my blood pressure which has been high for years is now normal. Good luck !
27 years without Alcohol now and I’m 60. Best decision I made.
I got big help with AA members.
Thanks gonna go to AA, sober for 4 days for the first time in 6 years
Congratulations! I had a major stroke in '99 caused by alcohol abuse. I had some alcohol at dinner out but it wasn't much. Like a small glass of wine.
i am not religious. i went to AA and although everyone there was sober there was a lot of self-centered righteous religious people and it was not a welcoming place to me. i went a few times... but if anybody out there really needs help...then go. something is better than nothing... congrats on your 27 years dry!
AA is god nonsense though. they replace one addiction with another.
@@u235u235u235 I agree, meetings didn't help me at all. But rehab did help me.
I’m 44 days sober. Loving it. Many many things I have learned already. I don’t have to drink anymore
You got this man. Keep it up🎉🎉
Congratulations! I don't know you, but I'm totally proud of you!
How did you do it? I m opening my first red wine bottle of 2 for tonight.
I know I need to stop completely for life, that s why I always fail, seems impossible 😢
@@dmitrievsteve3191 It might not be helpful, but I'll tell you how I quit smoking. Maybe you can use this if it fits you. I said to myself this smoking thing is clearly stupid. There's no reasonable defense for doing it. There is no way I can honestly think of myself as a wise person if I'm doing this thing. I want to be able to think of myself as a wise and smart person. The conflict was clear and the smoking had to go immediately. That was over two years ago and I really nevermind even had temptations using this approach. Since then I've also used it in nutrition and education. It can applied anywhere. I hope this was helpful.
@@dmitrievsteve3191I'm not an alcoholic but I have many alcohol and substance abusers in my family..I have to catch my self sometimes and take a break until i dont feel like i need it to relax or get the day done..from watching family members self destruct I think getting to the why you feel you need to drink is the first step then you start the process of working through things and learning to cope without a bottle 🤷🏼♀️..again I'm not a alcoholic so this is just an outside perspective looking in
I’m sober for 10months and 3 weeks. It was the best decision of my life to stop drinking. While it was hard to deal with the sort of depressive feelings when I first stopped and then self-identify challenges when doing things that I typically associated with drinking that I enjoyed, overall it was significantly worth it to stop. I am so much alert, much more even-tempered, motivated, and have much better relationships. Just about every goal I set I am disciplined enough to follow through now. I also was able to focus enough to land the job of my dreams. Alcohol is not the answer. A clear mind creates limitless possibilities.
Congratulations and all the best to you ❤
so inspiring! congrats on your recovery
When I was a heavy drinker, the anxiety the next morning was worst than any other day. I rarely experienced hangovers, but the anxiety was 10x worse
Waking up early with the terrors is horrible brother
Jesus promises to give us peace if we repent of our SIN (evil... Wrong doing...) and turn to Him!
I know the morning terrors
A small taste of hell
I had same thing with no bear in the house waiting for the shop to open in the morning but soon as I cracked that can and had a good slurp it felt great all the nerves were gone but wait a minute the alcohol did not have time to work so maybe its all in your head
@@Neil-me4buim the same way i think its just the fear of going without is what gets you.
I have been alcohol free for 15 1/2 years. It wasn't necessary for me to distance myself from my friends. My friends actually moved away from me, I believe my sobriety made them uncomfortable with their own alcohol use.
Good for you, it's been 11 years for me. I didn't really intentionally distance myself from friends, it was a natural evolution, not going to bars anymore, etc. I and them just went our separate ways.
This is so true. Whenever I'm in a social setting and it comes out that I'm not drinking alcohol, inevitably people ask why. I tell them I just don't, not a bunch of detail unless they keep prying. No matter what, after I tell them, they always say something to the effect of, "Well I only do it to be social" or "I just know my limits and it's in moderation." As if they're justifying to themselves why they keep doing it...
Same thing happend to me ,even though I never critisized the drinking of my friends.I'm writing this,living in Germany and the astonishing thing is,when you drink too much its acceptet,but when you say " Thank you,but I don' t drink any
alcohol",then you're not
NORMAL in the eyes of most people.
Bless those who are sober, and Bless those on there way to sobriety. I was clean for some years and recently relapsed. I could kick my own ass. Idk. Struggling lately but highly hopeful I can get myself together soon.
Hope you're doing okay, and you can get back to being the best version of yourself as quickly as possible.
You could do it. Have faith
You can do it! You can make the good decision for yourself!
Exactly 1 year without alcohol now.
Gotta say I dont miss it even one second.
I wish i did this YEARS before.
Luckily I very gradually stopped drinking since I was 19 with each year a little more. I crept forward against all the social pressure. And I still get invitations by work colleagues etc and they always try to make it sound cool and make me sound boring for not drinking.
I found that the social pressure was what lead to it being a 10 year long process of slow incremental progress instead of being cut out when I was 20.
And I can say now that its not even comparable if you drink once every month to never drinking.
Its so much more eliberating. In my case the social pressure to do stuff I just knew was hurting me was what made me feel deeply bad about myself even though I enjoyed the moment of drinking.
I felt unauthentic to myself and as if I was lying to myself.
How can I reach my dream or goal or whatever I desire, if I can not even stop drinking even though I dont even want to drink?
That to me was the ultimate sign of not being in control of my own life.
Of being maximally controled by external forces.
And I detested that feeling.
Once I stopped it completely and declared it as if I was going into battle. I told everyone. And I had a few VERY hard moments with some people in my life who wouldnt take no for an answer.
After I managed to stay consistent in these few crucial moments (where I ALLLLMOST gave in), I gotta say it only made my conviction stronger.
I will never ever give in to these people anymore.
Now in retrospect, I can see that these people didnt give a damn about what is important for me.
And the funny thing is: These people also called me less and less until they didnt at all anymore.
So in some sense I am only good for them when i drink with them.
And thats ok.
Its VERY eliberating how you spend your life when you dont have these kinds of people in it.
And the weekends are much more fulfilling. Either VERY relaxing. Or VERY intense sports, pushing to the limits. Or just a weekend full of progress towards your goals.
Its much much better.
I didnt even do it for health reasons.
I just did it because I hated the thought of doing something only because of fear or avoidance.
I dont want to be controled by my fears (social fears or fear of taking on my dreams and confronting my shortcomings) or by other people.
I want to get up in the morning, get the important daily practise done for the body, finances and mind. Then have time for relationships, adventures and fun.
Alcohol is just keeping you in a sh*t place and making you feel content there. Which is the worst. And then you feel bad internally, but the instant gratification and the weekends get you through the week. And you notice how all people lose respect for you over time the more you do it. Actually EVERYONE who does it considers it progress and a win when stopping the behaviour. And thats when i realized I am basically giving in to be a "good friend" or whatever bs I told myself. out of guilt basically.
And all these people, if they were in my shoes, wouldnt blink ONE SECOND to forever let go of that behaviour, they just arent capable of it.
At that moment I switched and stopped it for good.
No amount of "friendship" that I lose through that decision is worth any regret.
Epic comment, loved reading, thanks for writing it.
Glad you saw the trap and illusion of "fast" gratification.
It's a good story because people have to know, they'll be up against social pressure, and smaller social circles. I can't remember who wrote this but I think it's an author called Robert frost, has a poem called "the road less traveled" where he talks about taking a road less traveled and how "it made all the difference". Your comment reminded me of this. You took the road less traveled, and really got to know yourself. Bravo 👏 Brother.
And to others, take the road less traveled. It's worth it!
wow. i never thought someone would read it. I used the moment to reflect and thought why not send it.
Glad you resonated with it. @@bossywossy111
Congratulations, nothing good comes out of drinking alcohol. I don’t know your whole story, but it sounds like you might not be an alcoholic. There is such a difference between a heavy drinker and an alcoholic. Once an alcoholic consumes liquor, the phenomenon of craving kicks in and they want more and more, if there’s anything I can do to help you please reach out
Your comment is noteworthy. The people who stopped calling you were never your friends in the first place. It's interesting when a person stops a habit that all their friends continue to do, makes them so uncomfortable. Safety in numbers I suppose.
@@DougalsBrooks thanks man, appreciate it!
dont worry, i am in a good place.
You are right, I wouldnt classify myself as an alcoholic.
However, alcoholic to me is just a label.
We all crave certain instant gratifications. Some more, some less.
With every behavior it is the same.
Be it alcohol or m*sturbation, be it biting your nails or gaming. Be it overeating or maybe even lying
We get rid of them the same way as far as I have experiences so far
With every decision in life I either get closer to one side or the other on the spectrum of being controlled by the behavior.
I would say, with alcohol it took a long time, but for the most part I had it under good control.
That isnt to say that it was easy for me. It was extremely hard.
Its very hard when you hold onto a belief for a LONG time, but can not live it out.
In my case it helped to exactly identify the root cause. And then let go of sympathy for these causes.
That was the true battle.
The rest was just cause and effect.
Edit:
It was hard only because I had other VERY STRONG beliefs that contradicted me "letting go of sympathy" for the reasons that kept me in the undesired place
The true friction, I feel like, happens when we challenge ourselves to align two contradicting beliefs in our mind.
Sometimes we need to let go of a certain self-image.
Or other times we need to accept that the story in our mind about a certain part in our past has to be rewritten. Often not for the better.
But when we can accept that our past wasnt as great, we make room for a great present and future.
When we think we are already great and always were...well then its hard to change the behavior as well. Since it has to be great, right?
Long story short: I guess the true battle had to do a lot with self-perception.
And with redefining a very few CORE BELIEFS. Like what actually does friendship mean to me?
Touching this belief and redefining it was one of the hardest things I had to ever do I think.
It was in huge part what I defined myself and my own self-worth with. By being a "good friend"
31 years sober here. I come from a long line of alcoholism and I saw the train wreck coming and simply stepped off the tracks. It actually wasn’t that hard. I feel very blessed & very lucky that I had such foresight because psychologically I was quite addicted. You can do it
Are you sure you're an alcoholic, if that was easy for you? Or did you just enjoy drinking? It sounds like the latter to me. I've been trying for two years now and the most I've made it has been 4 days so far.
@@irishkk88(4-days) is better than “no-days”, it’s a start.
Going on completely sober for 5 years. I heard myself in everyone of these stats and people. I was in the trenches, lost friends to alcohol poisoning, was slowly losing my family and career and I made it. If I can do it, you can as long as you put in the work. I’m here to watch this to remind me that I’ll always have a problem and unfortunately I cannot drink. Mentally I’m so much better, it’s not even a comparison. Thanks for the video and the encouragement for all. Everyone who is where I was 5 years ago, please know it’s possible to get over this hump.
6 months sober after decades of heavy drinking. Best thing I've ever done for myself ❤
Good job! Keep up the good work. I was a heavy drinker for 5 years. I reduced it,l to drinking every few days. Then I reduced it to drinking once a week. Now I completely kicked the habit. I no longer have the urge to drink anymore. I can go to the store right now and pick up a bottle, and my wife won’t even know, but I’m working so hard on my health right now so I’m not throwing all that away. I’m losing weight and I’m getting my blood pressure under control. So no booze for me.
what were the hardest points for you? (and why)
I drank to blackout for over 15 years. I was powerless with an unmanageable life. Almost 2 years later, my life is still unmanageable and I'm ok not being ok. The hardest triggers for me is when life shows up and reminds me how powerless I really am from my thinking. Today, I don't have to drink over it.... I'm free....
I lost my 3 girls years ago and I can’t recover from that. I have lost my relationship with my new wife over this. I drank and have lost the point
❤🙏🙏🙏
4 months sober and no cravings, Sometimes I think of the times I drank and my brain wants to think of it as something I really enjoyed. That's when I have to think of the time I woke up after a blackout with a black eye, busted lip and broken tooth. I thought alcohol was my longest and best friend when it was just a self sabotage of my life and I was trying to use it to ignore reality. I have less friends now but the ones that stuck around say I'm more content now. I felt such dread when I first tried to give up, Change is hard and means we need to find new ways of dealing with our life and the ups and downs.
I sleep better, My body is slimmer and tighter, I don't get aches or anxiety.or have wasted days.
I got a bad cold and it reminded me of the day after a drink binge and how I felt rotten, Wasted a day and no energy.
I don't want to go back to that feeling again.
Everywhere alcohol is promoted as the thing to do when we are celebrating or sad, Stressed and for me tired. Alcohol would give me energy to push myself when I really needed to rest and not put up with people I didn't want to be around.
Good luck to anyone just at the beginning of giving up, You might not succeed the first time and drink after stopping but that first try is what primes you to stop again and eventually succeed. It's not easy but you will eventually be the best you and will be free from alcohol.
Alcohol can help a car start think about that..just think about wanting to drink brake fluid, coolant(which kills dogs by one lick) and used motor oil
It actually made you feel depro. Your brain told you to drink more. Because you became depro. And it tells you that you feel better. In reality it is a nasty feeling. I do not miss it at all. Save money. Sleep better and many more. More confidence.
1 is enough. 2 is too much. 3 is never enough. 1 is not nice. More than 1 also not nice. So do not use. Also make anti depressants useless.
My hubby has terminal liver cancer attributed to drinking alcohol daily for decades. Ironically he quit cold turkey 2 years prior, however too late, the damage was done. It’s a nasty substance when abused. It changes a person’s personality. I have tried to convince some of my family that are unhealthy drinkers and they have seen 1st hand what we have been through and they still think that they are bullet proof and they won’t get cancer, liver failure or a diseased liver. One visit at the liver clinic would be a wake up call. I’ve been there numerous times with hubby to see the specialists and it’s very confronting and heartbreaking to see so many because of alcohol abuse. So many are young and in there 30,s and nearing the end of life. This can also be a horrible slow painful death which also greatly impacts the carers. One lady I know who is a medical receptionist told me she was so relieved for herself and 30 yr old son when he finally passed from liver cancer. He was finally in no pain and she could function again after a brutal 12 months of unexpected emergency hospital visits where her son had vomited blood and had to get his stomach drained amongst other side effects such as the brain being poisoned as the liver can’t filter properly the toxins. The patient can then get violent and psychotic. Horrible events for everyone involved. I don’t think there’s enough education for teenagers and folk in their early 20’s when many start their relationship with alcohol.
Really sorry to hear that. I quit in time, after 40 years of drinking beer. I'm 66 now and thank God in excellent health.
@rosyg. Thank you for your story. I am sorry about your husband. I drank for 55 years and I am only a couple of months sober. I have liver fibrosis stage 3 and I am terrified I will die from the effects of alcohol..It’s a terrible debilitating disease. I know what it does to people..Health family relationships financial status. Homelessness. I hate alcohol! I sincerely wish you and your husband all the very best..a lot of people judge alcoholics...But it’s actually a horrific existence...❤
Bless you
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Alcohol and cigarettes addiction actually destroyed my life. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my wife which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd. Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.
Amen God bless people. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health.
Can you help me with the reliable source. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Netherland. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them
YES very sure of Dr.raymycology. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today
YES__Dr.raymycology. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today
YES… he’s Dr.raymycology. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today
These videos nudged me to make the decision I should have made a long time ago. I was getting so tired of having low energy everyday and I decided I'd had it with alcohol.
Almost a week sober and I have a smile on my face driving to work in the morning knowing my day is going to be great.
great job keep it up!
Keep it up Aron
Well done
Keep going! 💪🏽
Keep going, I'll be sending you strength, it's been 11 years for me!
Well after quitting for 3 years I fell off the wagon and binged drank for 6 days straight. Something personal happened in my life and I thought I needed to drink to cope with it. I also thought I could do it in moderation and that turned out to be a lie. It’s quite obvious the problem was going to still be there and I needed to just face it head on. Now 24 hours sober again I’ve come to realize it wasn’t worth it and am kicking myself for it. But hearing these comments and seeing this video is giving me the strength I need to get back on track and remember the positive things that come from not drinking and that I’m not missing out on anything. Best wishes to everyone struggling with this battle everyday but coming out stronger on the other side 💪🏽
Day by day brother I wish you success for the next 24 hours 👍
Dust yourself down and face tomorrow with a fresh start. Good luck and I know you can do it x😊💯
Best of luck
I sincerely wish you the best and will pray for you. God be with you.
Dont beat yourself up... be invthe present and presently you dont drink.. you got this
I am sober 2 years now. Yes, it was like losing an old friend and I grieved, but now I see those memories on FB and the things I said whilst drunk, I am so embarrassed and I can just imagine what my friends and family must have thought of me. I live a very quiet life now. I don't have as much fun as I did with alcohol, but I also don't have the depression caused by the things I said and did. Wish I had stopped years ago.
Yes! Them memories are sad
Congratulations on your achievement. I'm battling this alcohol demon at the moment. People like you give me hope.
I feel you, I also regret so many events while being drunk. I am 2 weeks sober and hope to make it to many years :)
@@philiproberts7748 You will do it, just think alcohol is just like drinking bleach, and both will kill you in different quantities.
Well done to you 👏 it's a good feeling drinking at the time but the hangovers and wondering what we said is awful feeling, but we'll done to you .
I WAS a alcoholic, I quit drinking nearly 15 years ago. I'm now 49 years old and my life is better then ever. I have a better social life now.
a social life at 49? i barely know anybody now since i moved. maybe if i actually try i could. what a concept!
Why start
You're still an alcoholic there is NO CURE for that stuff. Abstinence is NOT the same as a cure. For example I'm NOT an alcoholic and can therefore drink a couple and that's it. Big difference as you probably cannot do that. Yeah if you START you'll probably pass out or puke or both before you quit the binge.
@@leecowell8165 I'm cured of the desire to drink, I couldn't even imagine putting that poison in my body again. Although I understand your point, as far as I'm concerned I am no longer an alcoholic. Same as I am no longer a cigarette smoker because I am no longer addicted to nicotine, I am no longer addicted to alcohol...
Was isn't a word for an alcoholic. Once an alcoholic always an alcoholic. The difference is your not actively drinking.
8.5 years here but I’m 68! I couldn’t stop till I made the promise to myself to stop. I just lied to everyone else family friends etc. I love to see people waking up to just how bad alcohol is. Thank you for posting these
So you quit at 59?
I'm 57 and my drinking is very bad. I binge on a 18 pack of beer, once or twice a week. I have pain in my liver area and I know I have to quit.
How long and how much did you drink?
Congratulations on 8.5 years.
I quit at 57. I’m happier than I’ve ever been in my life. Today I was kind of in a low mood, but I knew that tomorrow would be better. The unflagging optimism is so different than when I could hardly get out of bed because I was so depressed. Now I know that good things are headed my way if I just persevere.
Wife and I just hit 10 years on June 14th. It's something you do and never look back. You feel better year after year. You also find out who your real friends are. It's a beautiful thing. Congratulations to anyone working on bettering yourself and your future. 🙏
I’m 28 going on 29 and when I turned 25 I vowed to limit my alcohol intake. I drank a ton from 15-25 give or take. Now that I’m entering my last year of my 20’s and into my 30’s. I’d be okay with never drinking ever again. I quit a lot of things. Alcohol, social media, eating trash, etc.
As far as partying, going out. I feel that time has expired for me. I’d much rather focus on me, eating healthy, maintaining mental positivity, practicing better habits, staying youthful, staying active, working out, hiking, even appearing youthful and joyful.
And you cannot accomplish any of that with alcohol. I am glad I came to the conclusion now before I enter my 30’s. I can more the make up for all the bad choices I’ve made thus far.
I’m with you man turning 25 this March been drinking since probably 2018-2019 heavily. Currently Still an alcoholic, I need to get some help
I started drinking whiskey 22 years ago because of night duty. In order to sleep after night duty, colleagues asked me to drink whiskey before going to bed. So I drank whiskey daily until I became alcoholic. I stopped drinking alcohol in december 2022. It was hard. Thank goodness. I made it. I am sober till now.
I drank most of my life (along with a lot of other drug abuse and addictions), but even after getting clean, never got sober. In my 20's I was forced into rehab and didn't drink for close to 4 years. I did meetings daily, but was never really "sober." At a baseball game I got talked into a beer. That night I left the game, went to a bar and downed enough bourbon that I don't remember getting home. I was back. I continued drinking (heavily) and smoking until age 58 when I had a massive stroke, that left me paralyzed on my entire right side. Then two heart attacks followed by late stage kidney and liver disease (THAT one), and spent a year in hospital. I learned to walk again (with a cane now) and have fairly good use of my right arm and partial use of my hand. I'm in my 6th year of sober livig and even "broken" . . . even as a cripple, I feel SO much better naturally than I ever did when drunk - and I felt spectacular when drunk. Hell, just not having hangovers alone is worth the price. I had good friends when I drank, most of whom still drink, and I enjoy their company more than words can say. Until they're drunk. I'm never tempted to drink, but when they're in that state, it just isn't fun. It's actually the opposite of fun, so I leave. They don't notice I"m no longer there. One of the best parts, in all of this, however is several of my close younger friends who thought I was "the shit" and emulated me, have sought help, all of them now 2-4 years sober. Whoever thought THIS drunk could turn into a good example? Life is as good as you make it.
I’m proud of you. ❤
Quitter
@@trueblue450Thanks!!!
@@Tdiddy-fc5hrhaha! Yup, and proud to be one!
Started drinking at 15 like most of my friends in Ireland. Binged every single weekend since I started until I got in trouble with the law. The signs were always there from day one. I was a black out drinker and could never remember what I had done the night before. 32 now and got myself to some meetings and now almost 18 months sober. Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought I could do this but it’s possible. And the people you meet in the rooms are often some of the best because they never judge you and you can tell them anything. If I can do it so can you. Wishing everyone the best ❤
Both of my parents lost their lives to alcohol abuse. I'm 33. My children have no grandparents. People who don't grow up in an abusive, dysfunctional alcoholic environment cannot even fathom the volatility, fear, destruction we dealt with on a daily basis; the depression, and the desperation that follows us long into our own adulthood. Alcohol abuse is abhorrent.
One minute your parents are laughing and the next they're crying; one minute they're passed out snoring, and the next they're actually trying to kill each other or even YOU. The range of emotions black out drunk people go through is terrifying and totally unpredictable. As a child you were cooking for them or your siblings, while later on you might be cleaning up your parents own shit or vomit off the floor. If one or both smoked, you had to constantly make sure they didn't burn the house down while passing out with a lit cigarette.
As a male I couldn't bring any friends over anymore, especially my girlfriends in high school. My dad would get so drunk he'd try to cop a feel on my high school girlfriends or accuse my friends and I of having gay sex in his house while we were just playing xbox or something, and pull out a weapon and try to start a fight. It was awful.
I had to learn martial arts to stop him from causing me physical harm. The physical harm did eventually stop, but alcoholics are the world's supreme narcissists and so he endeavored to give me lifelong emotional/mental/spiritual scars, instead.
Alcoholism not only destroys the lives of the individuals that become dependent, but also entire families on a generational scale.
I am so sorry you had to go through this mate. Thank you for sharing !
I blame the governments of the world who legalise it. Why do they make it available to the youth knowing that it’s going to destroy them?
That really levels what it is like, thanks for posting that.
I’m thinking he was right about the gay sex 🤣
takes one to know one, right big boy? 😎@@mrmorris2152
Week two of not drinking on weekdays. It’s tough send prayers.
Just wanted to check in, I hope you’re still standing strong, if not just know God is still with you and is going to keep protecting you
I'm praying for you
I wonder if easier to give up completely.. is for me
something that helps me is having a fridge full of some sort of sparkling water.. sometimes the carbonation kills my urge to drink a beer
@@lindsaywilliams8326it is. You gotta cut that shit out 100%. SO MANY people have quit entirely and I’ve literally never seen a single post from anyone who did this and regrets it.
I used to drink to relieve anxiety and it was my down fall. Im free of it now and i am now facing my anxiety with more positive ways.
Any tips
@@JihadBunnydick it took me a good ten years I'm afraid, I mainly drank at night to pass out asleep. I wasn't strong enough to just stop so I knocked all the spirits on the head as well as the strong cheap cider and lager, every evening I drank 2% supermarket beer as I couldn't get blackout drunk and then slowly cut the number of cans down and swapped them for sparkling water. I didn't drink alcohol for six years, but I did try 3 small glasses of wine over the space of a week in the last six months as I wanted to see how I felt about it, it's not for me and I know Im not interested anymore.
Everyone's different but the best advice I can give is visualise someone you care about more than yourself and do it to be worthy of them, I'm a dad and that's what worked for me. If you think you don't have anyone then visualise who you want to be and have and know you won't find those things blind drunk. Stay strong 🫂
How do you face anxiety in a more positive way?What do you use?
I had five months of sobriety for the first time in twenty years and I relapsed over the summer this year. I just quit again today and this video is helping me to find the motivation to do this all over again. I don't want to drink anymore. It's killing me and every relationship I have.
Opportunity never rests - you learned something! Set new learning-goals. Analyse your situation. Open your arms, heart and mind to receive help. Use you feelings to guide you towards simple joys and fun. Tears and laughter are cleansing. Exercise brings stamina. In your mind's eye move to the happiest place you can imagine, and start living as if you were there, but don't disregard reality. Sing the best up-beat songs inside - and if you know how to whistle - keep whistling them! You can get up from the rut! I recommend choosing the dolphin as your totem-animal! (or got a better idea?) All the best wishes, you were able to do five months, now you can do many more, but be prepared for annoying obstacles, they probably (?) will happen, but you are on the right path now. 🐬
@ceooflonelinessinc.267excerise hard and challenge yourself
You Can fucking do this!!
I’ve been sober for a little over 5 years, thank God. I almost died from alcohol consumption and it’s affect on my liver, stomach, and brain. My daughter tells me things that I said to her, and I have no memory of ever speaking to anyone that way. Im so thankful that she understood and still understands addiction.
How did u get sober
Born and raised in Wisconsin. It's part of the culture there. I wasn't a heavy drinker, but "looked forward" to the weekends when I would have several glasses of wine or beer at night. Didn't think I could give it up completely and didn't want to. But after skipping one weekend, the next weekend was easier. Then, when I actually DID drink, I woke up disappointed in myself.
For me, the healthy fresh feeling of waking up from a good night's sleep is better than the several hours of relaxation.
I was so pleased to discover that I CAN enjoy life and that after a few months dry, I didn't even WANT to drink. You can do it too!
My son is an alcoholic. He admits such. He’s in his thirties, very bright. It breaks my heart to see him struggle with this disease.
Praying for him
It's not a disease. It's an adaptation.
While I feel for your situation, don't let him call it a disease. This is within his control. You don't ''catch'' alcoholism, you allow it to happen. Some are more predisposed to it than others, but it's always a choice you're making. I had drinking problems too, but it was and is always on me to control it.
not a disease. that's your way of coping with it. you don't want to come to terms with the fact that you failed as a mother
Cycling helped me, maybe it could help him, from a 35yr old alcoholic to a cyclist that really enjoys life now. Pay no attention to the dumb a word police about the use of the word disease, It makes people feel smarter if they can correct others even though it's not their place to do so. He is young enough to salvage his health and I think riding is one of the fastest ways of doing so. But it can get addictive also and that gets very expensive. If he has an addictive personality like me ( which was past down from my dad's side, some say that is a inherented disease ) then he might become addicted to cycling or obsessed with it, some say obsession is a disease, but he would then work harder or even get a better paying job to support his cycling habit, obsession, love, disease. Yea, , in the cycling world, it is even called a disease. I hope this helps and if doesn't interest him they're many other things that can take the place of alcohol. The Lord can help him with it, but addiction and cravings cannot be taken away, it's a result of drinking in the first place which could and should have been a choice not made, but it did and now he must fight it daily if he wants a better life, All his health, money, assets, wife and possibly his freedom WILL disappear. Quiting is a count we call it, noticed everybody names their sobriety days with the comments. Every day is another step forward, that's how hard it is and why the count is done, the feeling of making it one more day is a pure celebration. Anyone who tries to advise you or tell you what this stuff is about and isn't an addict, pay no attention to them, they have no idea what they are talking about. Pray daily for your son a fight hard for him even if it means tough love. May God bless you.
I'm over 30 years sober. I feel so much better sober and I was able to accomplish so much over the years I've been sober. I was a nasty drunk and I don't miss that.
2yrs strong.. no more headaches.. nausea.. cringing... after my first year i still got nausea and could still taste the alcohol 🤢🥵 Its been a journey but i thank God for delivering me from alcoholism... Feel so much stronger...
Amen to that!
Congrats on 2yrs. I am also
Jesus saved me from the worst path
Congratulations on 2 years; unfortunately, most people will not make 2 years. The first 2 years were hardest for me, but now sobriety has once again become the new normal. I am so happy for you; keep up the good work.
@@joellecollette5843PRAISE the LORD!
Alcohol only ever gave me 2 things: a hangover and an empty wallet. I was an extremely bad alcoholic for 16 years. I've been sober for 9 years and feel so much better physically and mentally. I smoked for 16 years, too. I tried a million times to quit cold turkey, but I kept trying and even though it was very hard, I succeeded in the end. It's especially hard to quit drinking in Australia because alcohol is a part of most social activities and there's a lot of pressure. If you don't drink - or refuse a drink when offered one - you're seen as "Soft." Well, I disagree: I think that the people who cave in to the pressure to drink are the "soft" ones. It takes far more courage to say "NO" to alcohol in the face of societal disapproval.
same, although I had move to Indonesia and get awy from pretty much everyone i knew for few years. left to me own devices I didn't even feel like a drink. turns out i was 100% a social drinker.. coming back to Oz I've had a bit of that from old mates..".too good to have a beer with us mate", "you gone soft", "what heappened mate..you find jesus"...all that crap...@#$% them losers hahahaha...blocked them out of my existence..I've moved on ..lifes too short to hang around negative people. i wasn't able to quit the smokes...on champix now..its hard.
Well done
What caused the turning point?
Amen 🙌
It’s so true what Mark Manson said. The less you drink, the less you seem to tolerate. When you are used to drinking often, two glasses of wine are nothing, but when you drink twice a month, you can feel a drop in energy levels just from one glass. Over the years my alcohol consumption dropped gradually until one day I thought: why even! So it’s been two years now. Yes, you have to be prepared for questions at every party, people will ask why you are not drinking. However, so often people add how they should drink less, how they’d like to do the same, how admirable it is etc. Just stick to your conviction and you will find that life is so much better without alcohol. I hope that one day the common question to ask will be “why ARE YOU drinking?” That’s how it should be.
all the toxic relationships and phony connections disappeared after i quit drinking. 6.5 years here and i feel fantastic, my mind thinks properly and i know how to socialize, be alone, not be needy and stand on my own for the first time in my life!
When I was in rehab, I saw the damage that long term users put themselves through and it was alcohol not drugs that was the biggest killer, as someone who was in my 20s, that had a big impact on me, seeing these guys and what they put themselves through and knowing if I continued the way I was I'd be in the same place. Made the decision to quit everything, almost 4 years clean and sober, best decision I ever made.
For a long time now I've wanted to give it up completely and this is the first video that has explained nor just the physical effects on the body, but the mental effects. It was like it knew me. I've often used alchohol as a coping mechanism, but what I realised was the answer wasn't at the bottom of the bottle, it just masked everything. My problems or the cause of them would still be there. I feel a lot more focused and positive and less self-contious. I've not had a drink for a week now, and after seeing this video which I'm going to save and watch over and over, I hope this past week can eventually turn into a month, a year etc, God willing. 🍒
Good for you, chin up pal !!!
First day…and I am ready to make the change. Alcohol has ruined friendships/relationships, caused embarrassment and confusion. I am so excited for this new journey because I know this time it is the best decision I can make for my future. Hope to come back here in 30+ days to see how far I’ve come.
I drank for decades till it ruined my life. Never occurred to me I was “alcoholic” I just knew I needed help. I was being controlled by an inanimate substance. I got help, got sober, and have a few true friends who love me for me, and tons of woman who get me and will be there for me so I don’t have to pick up for any reason. It’s a depressant. And when the hangovers turn into heart palpitations and severe anxiety that only the next drink will calm down. Now it’s a necessity. And that anxiety you drank for, comes back 100 times worse. Glad I’m not in that hell anymore
How did you get out because you just described how I feel every morning
@@Disorderly_mama I will get back to you! Glad you asked
I suffer from tinnitus from years of playing in loud rock bands and many years of diving . If I drink for 2 days in a row my tinnitus is crippling, but if do not drink and fast for 3 days my tinnitus almost disappears to the point that I can ignore it .
You can spot a heavy drinker easily from a sensible drinker from how haggard they look .
I was a permanent drinker( evenings only ) rather than just a blow out cowboy . I thought that Going to the gym was an excuse I gave myself to continue daily drinking , but unfortunately I was wrong .
My tinnitus was the reason I stopped daily drinking . I was drinking anywhere between 4 to 6 pints per evening and thought it was not that heavy - once again I was wrong .
@@Disorderly_mama I did it by being sick and tired of being sick and tired and feeling completely crazy. How old are you? I was 39 when I surrendered. I ended up going to a psyche ward to medically detox because my insurance wouldn’t pay for treatment. They all said go to AA. I did cus I was tired and hated my life. I had this gift of total desperation and that’s what it usually takes.
@@Disorderly_mama I never get these notifications! There’s been like 4 different topics I go back to and noting there are replies. For me, I was just sick and felt insane. Sick and tired of being sick and tired. I went to see a counselor to fix my head so I could just drink normal. He happen to know I was really an alcoholic who needed to sober up. So i went to detox medically then started AA meetings. Then I discovered a whole new world of me. Tears, fears, joys and all.
I stopped drinking and smoking many years ago and that is by far the best thing I have ever done. EVERYTHING is better afterwards. If it was up to me those two things would be completely banned in the whole world. The amount of damage these two things do the person and the society is staggering. And if you dont do it for your self than do it for your family.
Yes, and add gambling and pornography to the list.
That last sentence. Gold.!!!
no everyone has problems with alcohol.
they can have a couple drinks on saturday and not the rest of the week.
@@u235u235u235 sure, but you can't deny that the world would be a better place if nobody drank.
@@KENTUCKYUSA1yeah no thanks fascist. Besides, they tried that. It never works. it just makes it more popular.
My blood lipids/ tests were all out of range, for years, then a cat bite infection, hospitalized me [thank God] I had to lay off beer & wine for a few weeks, I lost 10 LBS, felt much better in the morning & all day, so I dumped my alcohol addiction, after a year my blood tests were all normal, I lost 40+ LBS, went from a 37" waste to 34" X large shirt to medium! That lasted 8 years, then I started with a glass of wine then whisky, in moderation, then the "moderation" increased reminding me of the "good old daze." So I quit, all over again! [Like Deja Vu.] Wish me luck!
Started at 11 years old in 1957 with my Father and his mate. That was the done thing in Yorkshire in those days. Drank to excess for the rest of my life, every day. Still worked, paid my bills, just kept functioning. Married, 2 kids. Five years ago, my wife said shewas giving up, so I offered to stop in support for a few months. Never re-started, oh! how I wish I'd done it decades ago. I never dreamed it would be so easy. All I can say to anyone who wants to stop, just give it a try. Worked for me, might work for you, good luck.
There is not ONE health benefit from drinking alcohol. I became alcohol dependent in 2020, and it lasted 3 years. The Holy Spirit kept nudging at me for a long time and I would ignore all I knew about the harmful effects and I kept “justifying” why I could keep dinking. It was through prayer & fasting that I was finally able to break the chains of addiction.
Thank you for sharing this video, I hope it can change someone’s life♥️
Amen!
Salvation in Christ Jesus is an amazing feeling
Amen brother please pray for me I’m working on it but I keep falling down JESUS please have mercy on me
PRAISE the LORD!
@@rafaeloliva8328 “ask and You shall receive.” Amen
Drinking one or two standard beers per day (12 ounces or 355 mL) may have positive effects for your heart, bones, blood sugars, and dementia risk
August 18th will make 8 years for me. The first 2 years were hard. Now, it is as easy as breathing fresh air. No cravings or wild thoughts of ever having a drink again. Oh, and no AA.
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Tony, are you following any programme or any support for this? Just interested as I have been in and out of AA for just over a year now.
@JamieMorris-bp7cu I was in AA for the first 2 years and I met some wonderful people who were very helpful during early sobriety. One of my best friends still attends AA meetings. I am not against AA. I just don't believe in following a doctrine that is 85 years old. I feel as if my opinion was not valued; so I left and realized it was just not for me. I believe whatever works for you is the best program.
💯💯.... how to deal with it when u lose a close loved one
@kennethrobinson1672 I lost both my parents after I got sober; my wife even gave me a green light; she said she would understand if I had a drink. For me, it wasn't an option. Instead of having a drink; I chose to honor my parents' memory by being sober and in my right mind. Staying sober also makes it easier to live life on life's terms. Make the best choice for yourself; you decide how you want to live the rest of your life. Sorry for your loss, and best of luck.
Wish I knew this information when I was 20. It was not discussed in high school or even college coursework, (mid 60's and early 70's). I hope it is more available to young people today. Could have prevented years of extreme substance abuse and the detrimental impact on so many other areas of life. Fortunately, a diagnosis of depression in my mid 40's and prescription for meds that should not be mixed with alcohol led me to stop drinking completely. One of the best things that has happened in my life. I still regret what I did to myself even though it is now decades in the past and life has turned out pretty well. So grateful to the Dr who diagnosed the underlying problem.
Never been an alcoholic or had problems with alcohol, but I would like to tell my story as well. I'm someone who likes to analyze everything that I consume. From food, non-alcoholic drinks and also drugs. I like to meditate and recognize most of the things I feel when I consume anything.
I'm 27, and in 2020 I started to drink by myself because "why not?". I don't have any friends or anyone who I live with who drink alcohol, so it was purely my choice. At first it felt amazing and wasn't too bad about the side-effects. But then I started to do get drunk once most weekends (like one or two weekends per month), and after a year of doing that I started to notice all the things I see in this video.
I could feel the negative effects on my health all over my body, very unpleasant and uncomfortable. And also it kinda fucked up my mental health, I would feel miserable most of the time after getting drunk, and got panic attacks when I woke up. ONLY sometimes I would get drunk twice a week, and the day after I would feel everything wrong in my body: my heart rate, I felt like I couldn't move properly, memory issues and also had problems talking properly.
I don't understand how people can feel actually sleepy drinking. When I did, sleeping was the most uncomfortable thing ever, it's not a pleasant "woooaaah I'm floating and everything is spinning", but something that feels...wrong. The way you sleep in alcohol is very different, like only your body is actually sleeping, or at least it was that way for me.
Since then I don't drink anymore because even a single beer could make me feel those awful things. I hate it.
Very overrated drug, it's super mid, I can understand that it's popular due to how easy is to get it. But with this kind of videos and people raising awareness about how horrible alcohol is, luckily we will make the difference and move society to a new place.
I was drinking too much missing work, worrying my family, binge drinking. I went to my doctor to get a note for my work because I missed a few days. He asked me if i was ready to stop that's when had mentioned before the Sinclair Method again, this time I said yes. You take Naltrexone when you drink and continue to drink. It was amazing I just stopped, it's been well over a year with no drinking maybe 2 and I have no desire to drink any longer. My Dr was amazing for suggesting this method to me, not all Dr's will...
I started drinking in my 40s. By 45 it was every other, sometimes every day and not one or two, try 10 to 15 or sometimes a 750 of Captain Morgan straight in one night by myself. I'm 53 now and the past year I've been cutting back to about once a week but still about 10 or 12 drinks. Hungover the entire next day, still planning my life around that one day of drinking. I've finally stopped for good, it's been 3 weeks sober and I still feel like crap most of the time, I'm bored out of my mind and can't wait to go to bed the moment I wake up in the morning. My sleep sucks and I'm miserable but I'm going to kick this poison!
You're not alone. It's cliche, but ... "One day at a time" and "easy does it."
Keep going, you're doing brilliantly. The first few months are the hardest but you will get to the point when you won't even think about drinking anymore. I know this as I haven't had a drink in two years and I don't even think about having one at all - haven't for a long time. Fill your time with other activities. I hit the gym three to four times a week. I've taken up electronic repair in my spare time. I've learnt financial markets. Just keep busy. Life is great now. You will get there too!
@@sperosversis3678 thank you
@@Folk_var thank you
That evil poison no longer dictates YOUR life! You’re killing it and better days are close at hand! Keep going! You WILL succeed.
It has been said that alcohol is the best thing to counter anxiety and the worse thing. I have found this to be very true.
I have been sober for over 11 years as I was emotionally bankrupt. Still go to AA once a week. If I was diabetic I would take insulin, I'm not I am an alcoholic that goes to meetings. My life is wonderful now, family and friends all back in my life and I have riches in my life that were unimaginable 11 years ago. Stay safe, stay blessed and good luck 🤞
I'm clean about 10 weeks and I am an alcoholic. I can profess that putting the bottle down has improved my health, mental health, spiritual health and mood. If you can't stop after a glass you're in trouble. Don't let this rule your life if you are a problem drinker.
Stay away from alcohol as much as you can. I've cut down, but still have ways to go. Health is wealth. A lot of great info in this video.
Love it's best to stop. If u try and cut down . U might be fine for a few weeks , drinking in moderation . But it will always come back . The drinking will get bad again and you might be drinking every day again. Once an alcoholic . Always an alcoholic . I'm a recovered one myself xx
@@sorayacroton1399 Everyone is different, but I heat you.
@@KD_SWAGGER Yes we are all different but what we ALL have in common is the susceptibility to alcohol and its toxic effects on both our brain and body, it is an evil drug.
@@MrScaramoosh Agreed!
Bro how did you taper down
I'm realizing more and more drinking does help with anxiety but it also causes it.That next morning I'm full of anxiety especially if i drank heavy the night before then I just start all over again I've got to quit for good
I used to drink lots. I’m going on 7 years best decision I’ve made.
I was pretty heavy drinker till 3-4 years ago, now I have a sensible relationship with the booze, beer only (no spirits) and in moderation, usually a couple on a Friday/Saturday night.
Noticed a massive difference within a few weeks, no longer wake up feeling like shit physically and/or mentally. Even when I do drink a bit more on special occasions I’ve been fine as long as I avoid spirits.
Thankful I never abused it to a point where I can’t enjoy a few beers in moderation but I totally get how easy I could have ended up at rock bottom
I was a daily drinker, heavy too, i gave it up in 1992 and not drank again, now l am 75 and in perfect health. Many my age l knew died 20 years ago or more.
Just hit 9 years a couple weeks ago, also lost my sister 3 years ago to this, and a best friend. My son will celebrate 1 year, and my daughter has 11 years. We are so happy that we have broken the chains. Do not give up!
I haven't had a drop of alcohol for more than ten years, so congrats to you all. Everything is better this way
Absolutely@@TobbeStorm
I have been drinking at least an entire bottle of tequila every single day for so long now, I’m totally functional doing so but god did it destroy so much in the long run… I’m writing this right now at 5am, completely drunk and high and I vow to never touch a drop of this poison ever again for the rest of my life!
It’s probably going to be my toughest challenge in life but I pray that I’ll be able to overcome it!🙏🏼
Working on my sobriety now. I was a binge drinker every night after work. I would drink at least a 5th of vodka or rum every night. Most nights more. I started moving into drinking during the day as well. Thank you for this video. I thought i wasn't normal because its been 4.5 months. But its still a struggle day to day staying sober.
Microdosing iboga is the solution. It changed my life.
Been sober for 186 days. Nearly daily drinking for years. One of the best decisions I've made. You can do it too! Don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it.
I'm battling, but I know I will win one day.
Same I need to stop drinking but I'm scared
@@ashleyquinn1822me to. I'm afraid 😢
@@dionmajodinamokhethinyana3953 You will make. Look for AA near you. Attend the meeting regularly. There are people there, who drank alcohol more than you did. They are now sober.
I quit for seven years after the doctor lied about my BP pills killing me if I drank on them. Never felt a bit better, never had anything heal, never felt good again.
Found out my pill was safe to drink on and had a couple that weekend.
Now I drink and I actually feel good while I'm doing so. Sober through the week and feel like shit the whole time like always. 🤷
I never drank all that much - nearly 69 years old now - but the older I get, the more I appreciate that there is really nothing good about alcohol. I still have the odd beer on a hot, sunny day, but not much else. Alcohol is a drug - it is a poison - and the more you take, the worse it is for you. My brother-in-law was a raging alcoholic and died from it. His life turned into a hell and nothing was ever his fault ... never could hold a job, lived at home with his parents (in his 60s) who were enablers and did nothing but manipulate and take advantage of them ... my advice, drink very little and the moment you even sense you are having an issue - stop.
It killed both my daughter and husband. I have zero fiends because everyone drinks😢😢😢😢
Absolutely terrible. Muslims know why they don't drink.
Oh no!!
How did they die?
@@NaGuru-yt8xfIm from Russia,muslims rarely drink there.Instead they always taking injections at my window(Lsd mostly)
I will have 13 years of sobriety in 2 days.
The first 2 years were ridiculous. My brain was my worst enemy, however my heart was my only friend. I had to trust other end deny my own thoughts. After 2 years of staying engaged, I began to sponsor others.
2 YEARS IT TOOK.
GOD IS WITH YOU
GLORY BE TO GOD!
Hi. I know what you're talking about regarding those 2 years. For me it was after those two years when things started to get better. Id lie during that time and pretend things were working and I was getting better. I actually think things were worse. It's been 6 years now and I'm past all that.
It has a name and an explanation, it's called hyperkatifa and Dr Koob's research figured it all out.
Why two years? Two years of painful symptoms? Also headaches ?
@@EdwinHeijmans-rn6fb The headaches lasted about 8 months for me. The best explanation I heard was that after years of Alcoholism your brains grey matter is growing, restoring. My headaches where in the temple region. Then during that same time my ears rang constantly.... My addiction therapist said that's from the brain damage. Yes.
@@EdwinHeijmans-rn6fb The two year thing.... Well the only explanation I ever got, and one I believe from living thru it is Dr Koob's Hyperkatifa. He say it last months or years.... About 24 months til I grew out of it.
300 days sober today.
Saved my life sobriety has
Yoda?
Saturday 7/8/2023 was my 38th bday, and after having to do a sobriety test with my kids in the backseat I want to be DONE. Abusing alcohol for over 20 years has left me with nothing positive. Hearing my daughter say “Mommy, why did you drink the beer knowing you would have to drive?” was a slap in the face. I promised her never again.
Getting in a car wreck the next day was like a backhanded slap. Hydroplaned. I was sober… but after the night prior I was terrified the cop who came to the scene would take my kids away, my husband would leave & I would end up alone in a cell. But it’s not too late, and I know now that moderation is just not an option for me.
BLESSED BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
Three months without a drink now, but I was forced into this due to near liver failure.. I really enjoyed the bottle everyday. Never got hangovers. I could easily have a bunch of drinks right now but I don't want to go through again what I went through three months ago........... I applaud those who can give up not because they are sick, but because they have the willpower to change. I couldn't.... I'm 65 and had been drinking for 50 years.. Losing an old friend is definitely the feeling. But my new friend is protein shakes/carbs and exercise.. Muscles are starting to return.
Hey, congratulations! We are proud of you! Thank you for the advice!!!!
Keep on keeping on.
That is awesome
That’s so true about feeling like shit after 2 glasses. I use to drink heavy 4 days a week, party like crazy. Now I’m like I need a break. I feel so dirty. Glad I grew up I needed to focus.
5 months sober still going strong. I started drinking when my depression was at it's worst, had bad friends, and it wasn't a good feeling.
The best way to quit drinking is to never drink at all. I've been much happier without drinking.
I'm 40 this year I've been 9 months sober never felt better. My blood pressure was staying 180 over 120 all the time could not get it down and figure out what was causing it finally I figured out it was the alcohol I bought a bp machine from Walmart and I would check it right when I started drinking it would sky rocket from 130 over 85 to 180 over 120 it was the drinking the whole time thank God I'm a free man from that poison 😊
I loved drinking and drank bout everyday for 30 years. Cut back to only a little bit 3 years ago but now it's been over 2 months since I had any. I don't crave it much anymore which is amazing. I can walk thru the beer aisle at grocery store and not take a second look. So it can be done.
I spent most of my adult life as an alcoholic. Could never imagine myself being sober until I took the 1 step program. That 1 step to Jesus! Been sober for over 10 years and have no desire for alcohol! Praise the Lord!
Praise king Jesus
When your back is against the wall, and you appeal to the Higher Power for help, and you bare your soul and are sincere, God will answer your call. And with God on your side and as your partner, nothing on earth will make you start drinking again.
Amen!!!
Hail Satan
GLORY BE TO GOD! AMEN
2:46 i started drinking 15 years ago. im 31 now. half of my life drunk. at least once a week. now im 19 days sober. with me luck . alcohol is the worst drugs ive took so far. i think the war against drugs is the biggest crime ever. alcohol is too dangerous to be one of the only options you can consume legally. and YES people and animals want and need "drugs"to cope. reality is not good . nature is not good. we need love and psychedelic drugs are a pathway to true love between humans. the only drug we really need. LOVE.
My stepdad started drinking when he was 12, he died at 36 from liver failure. The men's club he went to knew how drunk he was and let him leave, he then crashed into another vehicle. Luckily the other people involved were not hurt badly. At the hospital, the doctor said 1 more drink he would have died instantly. It is a horrible way to go he was in ICU for two weeks. You could not touch him because his skin was toxic, his eyeballs were taped down to keep them in his skull. Finally, a day before he passed the doctor told my mom she needed to pull the plug because the suffering he was going through was inhumane. He died the next day before they pulled the plug. DO NOT JUST QUIT COLD TURKEY. THE WITHDRAWS CAN KILL YOU. GO TO A HOSPITAL AND GET TREATMENT. There is always time to change your ways. I am 37 now and because of him I never touch that stuff.
How much was he drinking daily?
@@chrisjohnson4272 I am not oeheaven, but when I read this, I guess a bottle of strong liquor a day at least... Not just 5 beers or glasses of wine.
@@UnusSedLeo-w5l Well I thought u had an idea of what he was drinking wether it was a 5th a liter or about a pint a day since it was a family member smart ass but ok whatever smh
My ex cheated on me and I’ve been making all the wrong decisions under the influence of alcohol. There’s nothing good about the way I’m coping with the situation. Watching this video is a reminder that I need to quit abusing alcohol
Anyone else watching while drinking booze?
At least being here means we're trying to deal with the problem, even tho we are coping with the topic while doing the opposite.
Hang in there, we'll make this up someday.
I agree that "Heavy Drinkers" should quit. However, not everyone should quit. When controlled, it makes life better.
For me stopping was actually pretty easy. I wasn't drinking socially, just alone at home after work and I wasn't really drinking to get any effect on my brain, I did it solely for taste - I was a huge fan of craft beers and I drank them every day. My decision to quit was driven by me understanding how badly alcohol influences my body and mind in the long run, as well as the financial aspect of buing alcohol daily. After I realized it has no benefits apart from tasting good, I simply stopped drinking. I haven't experienced any cravings or withdrawal symptoms. I also didn't have to change my social circle. It was more like a change in my diet - cutting away something that was toxic.
Actually, I'm not convinced by the social circle change aspect. I think it's more empowering and beneficial to stay in the same circle but be an example of a person who quit booze, because it's bad for you, than to look for people who also don't drink because then you make not drinking into something that defines you. And it shouldn't. There's nothing special about not drinking, it's a normal, rational decision. It shouldn't be the focus of your life.
I’m 11 yrs sober and also found it pretty easy
It's been a hell of a battle for me and I am so done with it. I'm getting help cuz it's hard for me to stop. I've done every other drug, never had a problem with any of it but alcohol... Alcohol is bullshit. I hate it. I don't want it anymore.
To chyba bardziej byłeś smakoszem, niż alkoholikiem :-)
That was a really boring and pointless story thanks for sharing
Glad to be of service :P@@thedifferenceincolour7341
As a recovering alcoholic I thought during that period of my life that I couldn't escape it but then I found something so good that it helped me lose interest in alcohol entirely and I've never felt better thanks to Crystal meth
lol
Bruh Same but I abandoned meth after discovering acid florine injections into my penis
I can really relate to Mark Mansons perspective. When I reduced drinking I really noticed the negative impact. I finally had enough almost two years ago and quit entirely. I've definitely noticed a difference in my mental clarity and energy. I still think about alcohol but the appeal has greatly diminished. Its difficult as many social situations are lubricated with booze, so I generally don't engage in activities that revolve around drinking.
It's best to avoid those situations for sure.
I am 66 and have been a light-moderate drinker since my mid-teens. My wife is a full blown alcoholic who is totally blind to the issue. This has made me face my relationship with alcohol. For years I have told people "I think my life would have been better without alcohol." Finally decided to do something about the cognitive dissonance! Surprised that I am having such notable withdrawal symptoms. I did not think I was that kind of drinker! That is alcohol's trick. Fatigue, low concentration levels, etc. It is never too late to do something for yourself and, hopefully, those around you.
I used to smoke weed more than drink alcohol. Then got off the weed but started to drink more. Mostly on weekends. Feels like I almost don't want to go without it on weekends.
Don't like that feeling. I need to stop. This kind of video helps greatly. I'm probably borderline alcohol dependant.
Good luck! Praying for you!
Same thing happen to me but I was drinking wine everyday smh. Please try to stop before it turns to a everyday habit.
The social part of sobriety is REALLY HARD. More than once I’ve pretended to drink just to fit in, for example sipping on a Diet Coke that I pretend has alcohol. Honestly it’s exhausting and I wish my friends/family could accept that I don’t want to drink.
Lol😂
Quitting drinking is the single best thing that most people can do to improve their life.
Nearly 2 years sober. I’ve just turned 32 and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done in my life. You 100% do not need it to have fun or have a good time. Life is so much better sober. If anyone is struggling please don’t give up and drink again, get to AA and go through the 12 step program and watch how your life changes💚💚
4 months with no alcohol and it’s been a total reboot of my life. I can have a really good time without being buzzed. I can still be funny and sharp. I get to go home and sleep well and have lots of energy the next day. It’s so simple. I’m not missing any part of drinking.