Stay at home mom who called off an engagement after I discovered my fiancé cheating, right after my dad died the day of my bridal shower. I’m feeling pretty stuck because I got a head injury right after, that is causing nerve problems and pain. I have an mri the first week of December, and on top of all of that I have surgery scheduled for march for my endometriosis with a 6 week recovery. Idk why I’m sharing but I’m just struggling so much and appreciate you sharing that you’re also struggling and talking about attending therapy. Love u Queen, keep shining Editing to add: I just got an interview for a job today, if anyone can send me some good career vibes! 🥰💛
I got cheated on too. you’re so strong. you will get through this tough ass time! Your ex is an ass and you will find much better. Hoping that lots of peace, unconditional love, and health comes your way. ❤
literally such a beautiful sister duo… the love and support!!! also - seeing divorce as a beautiful thing, in this case, a women becoming free and gaining her power back wow what a beautiful perspective
In terms of sexuality it’s good to be self aware about WHY you are choosing a certain sexual path. For example, I had a bad marriage with my ex and went down the bi-sexuality route for awhile really just out of curiosity but also it was out of rebellion. A man hurt me- so I was gonna stick it to all males and just go for women, but it wasn’t coming from a good place, it was coming from a hurt place. I think that needs to be noted. Because the other people you are hooking up with may really want to be with you & you want to be careful to not “use” them to make yourself feel better. Reflect alittle as to the genuine motivation and then be honest- if you conclude it’s what you really want, perfect. But be careful not to go down that road just to ease the hurt- because they may be more serious about it than you & someone’s feelings may get hurt in the long run. Good luck hun❤
It’s crazy how much people/an environment can make you see yourself in a way that’s not true. I’m so glad you’re remembering who you are and hope you have a fun time doing it 🩵
The fact that sisters can be THIS close even tho they’re 6 years apart makes me so happy. Sisters really are the best ever and I love watching you two together. 🥹❤️❤️
My sister and I are 7.5 years apart and are besties!!! But it took awhile haha! Once I was like 25 and she was early 30s that was when we got closest and stayed!
the comment about being beaten down in a relationship & then getting out & realizing the opposite is sooooo real. i was w/ my ex from 18-24 & he did nothing but beat me down the entire 6 years. i left & it’s been 3 years now & realizing how much he destroyed me bc now i’m with someone who never ever says anything bad about me is crazy. unlearning that shit has been sooo hard.
I just broke up with my toxic ex the other day and am now paying for rent, bills, and our dog all by myself so this would be a huge help ❤️ I’ve been following you for about 8 years and seeing how you have evolved has been amazing!
i feel like vlogs are a good mix of talking about it but also showing, sometimes i get tired of watching vlogs where all they do is say “im gonna go do _____” “ok im back from doing _____, now im gonna ______” its nice to see what’s going on sometimes but obviously as a content creator so you wanna be present, so i feel like there should be a balance between the two
Thank you for being so open lately about struggling! I too am struggling. I’m a single mama of 2 toddlers and recently lost my job. And with the holidays so close. The mom guilt is definitely starting to creep in with the thought of not being able to have gifts under the tree for my babies. Since I’m trying my hardest to stay afloat with all other bills.
Your videos have been my therapy for probably 10 years and your openness lately has made me feel less alone through the hardest last few months of my life. So thank you!😘
I typically would never ask, but I’m dealing a chronic illness with insanely high copays for the treatments and any help would be an actual miracle. Ofc totally okay if not, but grateful for anyone who can get help! Love ya! Sending you all good vibes!!
I have been watching you since I was in 7th grade (I am 23 now), and I have loved you in every stage, but I can really tell you are starting to live your life for yourself and not for others, and it makes me just want to watch your videos more which I didn't know was possible since you have been my favorite UA-camr for YEARS. But my love goes out to you girl, I hope you are thriving as much as you seem
As a therapist, I love that you’re doing therapy and being unhinged lol. Your video reminded me to make a payment on my student loan with the masters I got. But along the way I always loved watching your videos. I might’ve started watching like 10 years ago which is crazy to think but I’ve enjoyed watching your life and journey along the way. You got this girl!
I love that you’re doing this for your supporters. My wife and I got married this year and it’s been nonstop chaos. She lost her job for almost a year with everything on my shoulders and we’re still trying to keep up but it’s so challenging. I hope that people going through the same thing see the light at the end of this rough tunnel ❤
You guys would LOVE switzerland during summer!!!! I went this year ALONE and i have never felt more at peace. Its soooooo safe and serene its hard to explain how comfortable i felt. Men walk past you on sidewalks and dont even make eye contact! (A dream lol)
I really want to visit Switzerland, is it very expensive in the summer? I found cheap hotels but I wonder about groceries price, as Im not really a restaurant kind of person, and also is it very expensive to do activities like museums etc?
Aspyn, I’ve been watching your videos since the beginning and I truly feel like I’ve grown up with you! Thank you for ~crazy for a cause~. What a special thing to do for people! I am about to undergo a surgery to help my fertility which is terrifying but I want to be a mom and experience all the goodness of motherhood! And I’m also starting a masters program to become a therapist, myself. I am probably crazy for trying to do everything at once, but this is life!!
Hey Aspyn, just wanted to say I've gained a different sort of respect watching you dealing with some very difficult times in your life whilst being on a public platform. In one of my comments I shared a bit of confusion as your initial shift was jarring but since going through some new difficult times (miscarriage and not working and little support nearby) I've been able to truly reflect on how we really don't know until we are going through something how we will feel, and will cope and as multi-faceated beings this can change over time and that is okay! Glad to see you owning your journey and finding peace and joy where you can 💗💗
i’ve watched you since the very very beginning and i just admire how strong of a person you are. i love how you put your kids first. too. such a queen! 💗
i’m a bone marrow transplant oncology nurse, struggling to pay off student loans because of family troubles, drowning in bills. i’ve been watching you forever and i can’t wait to see this new era ❤
I love when you’re honest, as a struggling grad student I think your giveaways are so beneficial for those in need and it’s super awesome to see you giving back. My grandfather was just diagnosed with terminal cancer and it’s really hard to see him because of how often I have to work and go to school just to keep a float. ❤❤
I’ve been a long term follower. I ended up unfollowing you for a bit because I just didn’t feel like you wanted to vlog anymore (makes sense now because you were going THROUGH it). Since your divorce you seem more like yourself again and I’m loving your content! Missed you girl! So happy and proud of you! ❤️
I love the crazy for a cause! My husband passed away a year ago (brain cancer) at 30 when our baby girl was one. I was shown so much kindness from people and it helped us so much so I just love that you’re doing this for others Aspyn! ❤
I’m not usually one to share things like this or ask for help in this way but I recently lost my job due to dealing with a chronic illness and am struggling to maintain this cost of living. I’ve been watching you for at least 10 years now and have been loving seeing this new era you’re in. You deserve to thrive and I love that you want to share that with your followers. Keep doing you girl🩷
Wow, giving back to your community is amazing! It has been rough out here. I decided to start my own business this year, and of course the cost of living shot through the roof. Powering through and trying to stay optimistic!
We are all going through it mama. You’re never alone 💗 it’s refreshing to see influencers open up and be a bit more relatable! I had my daughter at 26 weeks 3 days last November. She was in the NICU for 8 months. In march she was diagnosed with stage 3 soft tissue cancer in her thigh. Rhabdomyosarcoma. She started chemo immediately and we are stop in treatment. She had a total leg amputation at the hip (hip disarticulation) in June due to her tumor being inoperable. This is my first bio baby. I’m a step mom to a 9 year old since he was 18 months old. This was never what I thought my life would be. This is not how I imagined motherhood with my sweet girl. BUT she is thriving despite being on chemo and she is the light of our lives. I am TRAUMATIZED beyond belief but I can’t imagine life any other way at the same time 🥹💗
love that you do this for your followers! trying to save some money to take my mom on a trip to europe next year (will be her first time out of the country!!) as a thank you for how hard shes always worked to give me the best life
I was in a couple car accidents this past year at the same time several vendors of my small business screwed us out of thousands of dollars, but due to my injuries I couldn’t get a second job to sustain me and my business. On top of that my husband is disabled and hasn’t been able to work for 6 years, but he knew we needed the extra financial help so he’s been trying to get a job all year to help but no one will employ him. We’ve been drowning, but the light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter and closer. But any little help would be appreciated to get us out of rock bottom. You’re amazing, Aspyn and I wish you continued healing. ❤
Newly single mom here that just moved myself & my daughter into our own apartment. Super proud moment for me to be able to show her how to be strong and what to allow in her life as she gets older but inflation is wild lol we got this though. If you’re helping anyone out, I could use a little too ❤️ but either way, amazing what you’re doing. You’re thriving and your videos help me
I love you for the way you talk about things like mentioning you feel comfortable with your sexuality because you have a supportive mom and not everyone does. Love you aspiona popstar and av
The two ships passing in the night line SENT ME GIRL OMG. I also just restarted my life and left -fled- a toxic and emotionally abusing relationship. I’ve been a long time followersand I’ve never felt more seen by one of my internet moms, sending you love and good vibes. Keep your head up keep going to therapy. You’re a badass don’t forget it 😘
I’m a full-time working mom, struggling before the holidays with a ton of student debt. Currently looking for a new job actually because I am so behind on bills and need to make more money, but also that works with my personal life so I can still spend time with my 1 year old???? This feels so weird to post, but I appreciate everything you’re doing while in the midst of the situation that you’re in! 💕
times are tough.. my dads been out of work since August from knee surgery & it’s just been my mom & I trying to survive 😓😓 anything is appreciated ❤ love & blessings to your new journey 🥂
Been watching since the early days and loving this new era of you! Times are rough in this season of life right now and would be thankful for anything. Thank you for sharing what you can.
I’ve been watching you since before you got married, it’s been a long time! I was in middle school then, and graduated from nursing school this year but unfortunately don’t have a job that’s paying me much, so basically all of my paycheck is going to my student loans because I’m trying to be financially responsible and avoid interests, I have about 17k left 😢anything would be so helpful and it’s so cool you’re trying to give back to those who have supported you!
Hi Aspyn! I have been watching you since well before you had your children. I think it’s so amazing that you are helping out people! It’s so tough right now. I am in college for teaching and could really use the help. It’s so tough to afford college, rent, and now classroom supplies. I can’t thank you enough for giving to those in need ❤
This is so sweet🥹 im currently a single mom to 2 little boys. Were all living in a small single room with my dog as well and im soo stressed about christmas and my sons birthday on the 16th as well. they deserve the world
Hey Aspyn, loving this era for you ❤ I’ve been a silent viewer of your videos for 8 years now! My husband is a medical resident and I’d love to spoil him this Christmas, we just can’t afford it right now due to enormous student loan debt. Happy Holidays to you and your family!
Aspyn! I love how generous and kind you are. My sister’s husband has terminal cancer and they have a six month old. It’s absolutely devastating and heartbreaking. If I was to receive the money I would give it to them so they could go on a family trip together. Ps I wish you all the best in life!
Such a fun collaboration! Some extra money would be so helpful right now! Been struggling with chronic illness and protocol costs and barely making it by. Watching your videos always gives me an escape! Thanks for sharing your life!
I’ve watched you since the beginning! I went to a turkey giveaway in my town and right when I got to almost the front of the line, they said they were out of turkeys and I cried in my car before going home to my kids. Anyway, thanks for growing up with me ❤️
I’m dealing with nerve damage and have spent sooo much money (loans). This holiday season is so depressing 🥲 thanks for opening up and sharing your life with us!
We love your content, style of how you approach your vlogs,just want more on YT as some of us don't do other SM. Intrigued with how you put your camera up on so many different angles. Going through some interesting times. Over here ( Australia), real estates just randomly give out " no fault evictions" which has been now banned but they're still doing it. Not sure about the US but you have to have 4 weeks rent plus 2 weeks advanced rent plus other costs out of the blue because these people just want to have zero regard for people having a roof over their head. You look like you're doing well for everything you've been through. Looking good. Love that you and your sister have each other ❤
Bless me!! 🤍 Glad u are doing better! I missed the lip stain part. I was like wow that’s a strong color girl hahaha But I love chatty vlogs I also MISS vlogs where you show what you are doing. Both is nice
Hi girls, I’m the same age as Aspyn and I live in a central Europe (Czech Republic). I love and do solo travels a lot. Mostly I visit cities and towns, because any nature can be potentially dangerous and more fun with somebody, but to travel somewhere where are people it’s easy. I’m my own leader, planner and do what ever I want. Yes, friends, family and people ask me if I’m not afraid and my answer is of what. So yes solo traveling is funny and I feel so me, free and independent during exploring different places and nationalities. Love you both, Amy
Honestly the vlogs seem more authentic these days! Loving them! As far as the giveaway..girrrrl our house. Everything expensive keeps breaking back to back. Draining all the pockets 😭 I would appreciate a win! But I know a lot of other people want/need it too!
My mom's got cancer so i had to get a full time job while still in uni because i want to be able to repay my parents for my exchange semester asap, also because they're still paying for my grandma's and aunt's funeral costs (also cancer). I also got diagnosed with bipolar 2 a year ago but since my mom's diagnosis she asked me to go off my meds and try holistic methods. I've been feeling pretty down (i'll go back on my meds), specially since i was drugged by a friend two months ago, and its affecting everything around me, including college and my work which is not great because my mom was hospitalized last week. I'm not sharing for pity and I know it's not the same situation, and i'm not glad that you're going through this, but it feels good to see you be so open about struggling and going to therapy. I know how lucky I am to have done a lot of things and have a job and everything else, its just that sometimes life feels heavy haha it's good to be able to feel understood by someone even if we're in different situations. Sending all my love and hoping life feels easier for you!
From watching you in your teenage bedroom through to this new era I’m loving it. I love your chatty videos and getting an insight into your life. I’ve had the worst year of my life and struggled in many many ways, but UA-cam is my escape so thank you for being part of that
I swear our lives are parallel rn. I left my partner (and the father of my 3 kids) last year because of shady things I found out he had been doing through our relationship and overall toxicity. I had my single gal summer and I’m trying to find myself. Went from being a stay at home mom to working part time and I’m proud of myself for doing as much as I have on my own! Now just saving up to get my own place (we’re still living together because of finances). I can’t wait to just be solo with my kids and not walk on eggshells around my house 😅 you’re so thoughtful for helping your followers!! I’ve been around since your oldest was born. All our kids have the same age gap but mine are all boys 😅
I like when people pop-in a reference pic or video when talking about something. So like in a vlog you talk about the photo shoot and then pop in a clip of a tiktok or instagram post so I know where I can go see the final product
After spending 4 months in and out of the hospital and not being able to work I got in a car accident and it is going to cost me all of my savings to fix it. I’m desperate for some help. Really appreciate that you care enough about your followers to give back! Sending so much love from Canada 🫶🏻
Love that you are doing whatever you feel like at the time. That’s LIFE !! Just feel so real and raw and honest and you have that “ let them” freedom and I LOVE THIS!!! Also THANK YOU FOR NOT STAYING TOGETHER “ for the kids”. That caused me so much trauma now in my later years that I’m working sooo damn hard on everyday so MY KIDS don’t have to suffer. ❤❤great work. My in laws are the best people in the world and my new daughter in law has been the blessing we needed in our family moved here from The Philippines in her childhood. They are here in the US with all their family still back in the Philippines and just lost their childhood home and EVERYTHING they own in a fire. They have nothing. Their go fund me just didn’t take off and it breaks my heart especially with the holidays coming.
It's literally the worst feeling ever... 😢 I have two kids as well. He is not wanting to let us go. Eviction notice and our water has been turned off for two weeks now. Never ever thought I would be in this place in life.
I love your new era of supporting women! I have 3 under 3, one of them being a preemie. I am feeling a bit overwhelmed by medical bills and needing to upgrade to an SUV due to my current car needing fixing/ the space isnt ideal for 3 kids. Very random but you should see if Avery would let you dye her hair for a video
I usually don’t ‘enter’ into money giveaways because typically a lot of people need it more than I do but you are right about it being hard for everyone 😅 with Christmas coming up and being a mom it would be so helpful for this year 🙌🏼
IM DEAD “going back to europe because look what avery used to look like” HAHAHAHAHAHA she actually has grown into such a beautiful and cool woman and she def had an awkward phase, like we all do obviously but its hilarious aspyn called it out
Hi Aspyn!! Have been watching your videos since the beginning, have been dealing with chronic illnesses & extreme mental health struggles for years and currently learning to manage all of that, while working my new job (40+ hours a week), and trying to save for a house with my husband. Love watching your videos, they truly cheer me up on hard days, thank you for sharing!🫶🏼
I feel a little silly commenting, but I’m a ftm to 6 month old twins. I’m currently not working because we moved from CO to NY when they were 4 months old due to my husbands job. So especially with holidays coming up anything helps! I think it’s amazing you are doing this.
future social worker! In grad school trying to get my msw but expenses are more expensive than i first thought 😅😅 this in addition to car payments, rent, and other bills! and currently unable to work more than two days a week because in this program we are required to have field experience for about 3 days a week 🤧 love your videos aspyn and proud of your growth!! been here since the beginning 🥹
Love seeing your bond with your sister! I have older sisters and this reminds me of us. I’m not one to ask for help and it feels kind of weird to but I thought I should try for my mom! Our 60 year old mom has needed a lot of dental work in the past year and she maxed out two insurances, so we’ve had to put a lot on a medical credit card. She’s been in a lot of pain the last year with her teeth so we needed to do whatever we could to get her the care she needs. Thank you for your generosity ❤
I solo backpacked around Europe for 2 months when I was 18! Right after I graduated high school. It was the best thing I’ve ever done, but looking back at 28 I have no idea how I did it 😂
Left my toxic, abusive marriage 3 years ago with my son who wasn’t even 2 at the time. I’ve been working so hard to be able to afford getting us a place on our own while also disentangling all the emotions and trauma that came from my marriage. We are supposed to be moving this next week & we were t-boned yesterday, totaling my car. Feels like life was going so so well, and now I’m feeling stuck with how I’m going to be able to continue moving and now getting a new car 😭😭😭
You are one of the lucky ones Aspyn. I got married, paid for our entire wedding, furnished our first apartment and supported him in getting his career while I raised our three children and now, as much as I want to leave for my kids and my well being... I can't. I have been out of my career for the last 7 years and getting employed back in the US while I am stationed with him overseas I know will be extremely difficult ... We sold our car prior to moving to his new duty station, so even the thought of moving back without a form of transportation and im from california as well, so having to pay california rent on one income feels impossible. I dont know when I will catch the bus, but hopefully, soon....When I see your videos, it gives me sooooo much hope.
Love your vlogs so much! I’ve been watching since before your oldest was born! Times are tough, we relied on my husbands overtime to help stay afloat, and he had lost it a few weeks ago. It’s made it so so hard especially with Christmas coming. Having 2 teen kids are nottt cheap :( and still have yet to pay fall taxes. One day hopefully.
My brother just lost his good job, and now lost his home due to no income, was in the hospital with a heart attack. Single father of 4 girls!! Times are super tough! I wish I could help him out more! :(
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I noticed aspyn is refinding herself and building a new confidence! It’s beautiful to watch!
Stay at home mom who called off an engagement after I discovered my fiancé cheating, right after my dad died the day of my bridal shower. I’m feeling pretty stuck because I got a head injury right after, that is causing nerve problems and pain. I have an mri the first week of December, and on top of all of that I have surgery scheduled for march for my endometriosis with a 6 week recovery. Idk why I’m sharing but I’m just struggling so much and appreciate you sharing that you’re also struggling and talking about attending therapy. Love u Queen, keep shining
Editing to add: I just got an interview for a job today, if anyone can send me some good career vibes! 🥰💛
I got cheated on too.
you’re so strong. you will get through this tough ass time! Your ex is an ass and you will find much better.
Hoping that lots of peace, unconditional love, and health comes your way. ❤
Im so sorry you’ve been going through so much. Prayers that the next season is full of peace and joy
sending so much love to you - you are so strong!!!!
"rock bottom will teach you lessons that mountain tops never can"
Blessings
Sending you all the hugs and strength this holiday season and beyond, you GOT this 🫶🫶!
literally such a beautiful sister duo… the love and support!!! also - seeing divorce as a beautiful thing, in this case, a women becoming free and gaining her power back wow what a beautiful perspective
In terms of sexuality it’s good to be self aware about WHY you are choosing a certain sexual path. For example, I had a bad marriage with my ex and went down the bi-sexuality route for awhile really just out of curiosity but also it was out of rebellion. A man hurt me- so I was gonna stick it to all males and just go for women, but it wasn’t coming from a good place, it was coming from a hurt place. I think that needs to be noted. Because the other people you are hooking up with may really want to be with you & you want to be careful to not “use” them to make yourself feel better. Reflect alittle as to the genuine motivation and then be honest- if you conclude it’s what you really want, perfect. But be careful not to go down that road just to ease the hurt- because they may be more serious about it than you & someone’s feelings may get hurt in the long run. Good luck hun❤
That's amazing insight and advice!
It’s crazy how much people/an environment can make you see yourself in a way that’s not true. I’m so glad you’re remembering who you are and hope you have a fun time doing it 🩵
The fact that sisters can be THIS close even tho they’re 6 years apart makes me so happy. Sisters really are the best ever and I love watching you two together. 🥹❤️❤️
My sister and I are 7.5 years apart and are besties!!! But it took awhile haha! Once I was like 25 and she was early 30s that was when we got closest and stayed!
the comment about being beaten down in a relationship & then getting out & realizing the opposite is sooooo real. i was w/ my ex from 18-24 & he did nothing but beat me down the entire 6 years. i left & it’s been 3 years now & realizing how much he destroyed me bc now i’m with someone who never ever says anything bad about me is crazy. unlearning that shit has been sooo hard.
I just broke up with my toxic ex the other day and am now paying for rent, bills, and our dog all by myself so this would be a huge help ❤️ I’ve been following you for about 8 years and seeing how you have evolved has been amazing!
the talk at the end was so lovely! thanks for giving us some tea lol love y’all
i feel like vlogs are a good mix of talking about it but also showing, sometimes i get tired of watching vlogs where all they do is say “im gonna go do _____” “ok im back from doing _____, now im gonna ______” its nice to see what’s going on sometimes but obviously as a content creator so you wanna be present, so i feel like there should be a balance between the two
Thank you for being so open lately about struggling! I too am struggling. I’m a single mama of 2 toddlers and recently lost my job. And with the holidays so close. The mom guilt is definitely starting to creep in with the thought of not being able to have gifts under the tree for my babies. Since I’m trying my hardest to stay afloat with all other bills.
Same girlie. I am so sorry you’re struggling too. Wishing you and your babies a peaceful Christmas. ❤
Your videos have been my therapy for probably 10 years and your openness lately has made me feel less alone through the hardest last few months of my life. So thank you!😘
I typically would never ask, but I’m dealing a chronic illness with insanely high copays for the treatments and any help would be an actual miracle. Ofc totally okay if not, but grateful for anyone who can get help! Love ya! Sending you all good vibes!!
obsessed with aspyn being a femme who likes femmes. the growth and self discovery is so amazing to watch ❤ :,
I have been watching you since I was in 7th grade (I am 23 now), and I have loved you in every stage, but I can really tell you are starting to live your life for yourself and not for others, and it makes me just want to watch your videos more which I didn't know was possible since you have been my favorite UA-camr for YEARS. But my love goes out to you girl, I hope you are thriving as much as you seem
As a therapist, I love that you’re doing therapy and being unhinged lol. Your video reminded me to make a payment on my student loan with the masters I got. But along the way I always loved watching your videos. I might’ve started watching like 10 years ago which is crazy to think but I’ve enjoyed watching your life and journey along the way. You got this girl!
I love that you’re doing this for your supporters. My wife and I got married this year and it’s been nonstop chaos. She lost her job for almost a year with everything on my shoulders and we’re still trying to keep up but it’s so challenging. I hope that people going through the same thing see the light at the end of this rough tunnel ❤
It makes me so happy you got to catch up with Claudia!! I missed you two posting together
Mom of 8, recently left an abusive marriage after almost 25 years, I feel so lost, trying to get my mental state back, love watching your tiktoks ❤
You guys would LOVE switzerland during summer!!!! I went this year ALONE and i have never felt more at peace. Its soooooo safe and serene its hard to explain how comfortable i felt. Men walk past you on sidewalks and dont even make eye contact! (A dream lol)
I really want to visit Switzerland, is it very expensive in the summer? I found cheap hotels but I wonder about groceries price, as Im not really a restaurant kind of person, and also is it very expensive to do activities like museums etc?
Aspyn, I’ve been watching your videos since the beginning and I truly feel like I’ve grown up with you! Thank you for ~crazy for a cause~. What a special thing to do for people! I am about to undergo a surgery to help my fertility which is terrifying but I want to be a mom and experience all the goodness of motherhood! And I’m also starting a masters program to become a therapist, myself. I am probably crazy for trying to do everything at once, but this is life!!
Hey Aspyn, just wanted to say I've gained a different sort of respect watching you dealing with some very difficult times in your life whilst being on a public platform. In one of my comments I shared a bit of confusion as your initial shift was jarring but since going through some new difficult times (miscarriage and not working and little support nearby) I've been able to truly reflect on how we really don't know until we are going through something how we will feel, and will cope and as multi-faceated beings this can change over time and that is okay! Glad to see you owning your journey and finding peace and joy where you can 💗💗
i’ve watched you since the very very beginning and i just admire how strong of a person you are. i love how you put your kids first. too. such a queen! 💗
Single mom with 2 little girls 2 and 6. I’d be so grateful it’d help give my girls a great Christmas.❤ we love you watched you since the beginning.
i’m a bone marrow transplant oncology nurse, struggling to pay off student loans because of family troubles, drowning in bills.
i’ve been watching you forever and i can’t wait to see this new era ❤
I love when you’re honest, as a struggling grad student I think your giveaways are so beneficial for those in need and it’s super awesome to see you giving back. My grandfather was just diagnosed with terminal cancer and it’s really hard to see him because of how often I have to work and go to school just to keep a float. ❤❤
I love how you are still hurting and healing and yet helping us you are slay queen inspiration 🥹🤩🫶🏻
I’ve been a long term follower. I ended up unfollowing you for a bit because I just didn’t feel like you wanted to vlog anymore (makes sense now because you were going THROUGH it). Since your divorce you seem more like yourself again and I’m loving your content! Missed you girl! So happy and proud of you! ❤️
Alssssooo you and Avery are the cutest sisters. You balance each other so well haha.
I love how you’ve been giving back to your followers. I’ve been watching you since the OG UA-cam beauty guru days and I love watching your evolution!
I love the crazy for a cause! My husband passed away a year ago (brain cancer) at 30 when our baby girl was one. I was shown so much kindness from people and it helped us so much so I just love that you’re doing this for others Aspyn! ❤
I am so sorry for your loss :( 💕 Please send me your venmo!!
I’m not usually one to share things like this or ask for help in this way but I recently lost my job due to dealing with a chronic illness and am struggling to maintain this cost of living. I’ve been watching you for at least 10 years now and have been loving seeing this new era you’re in. You deserve to thrive and I love that you want to share that with your followers. Keep doing you girl🩷
Wow, giving back to your community is amazing! It has been rough out here. I decided to start my own business this year, and of course the cost of living shot through the roof. Powering through and trying to stay optimistic!
We are all going through it mama. You’re never alone 💗 it’s refreshing to see influencers open up and be a bit more relatable!
I had my daughter at 26 weeks 3 days last November. She was in the NICU for 8 months. In march she was diagnosed with stage 3 soft tissue cancer in her thigh. Rhabdomyosarcoma. She started chemo immediately and we are stop in treatment. She had a total leg amputation at the hip (hip disarticulation) in June due to her tumor being inoperable. This is my first bio baby. I’m a step mom to a 9 year old since he was 18 months old. This was never what I thought my life would be. This is not how I imagined motherhood with my sweet girl. BUT she is thriving despite being on chemo and she is the light of our lives. I am TRAUMATIZED beyond belief but I can’t imagine life any other way at the same time 🥹💗
I love your guys' relationship so much!
I love that you’re doing with crazy for a cause, I know I need some help right now so thank you for what you're doing!
I like the style of your videos! I feel like public vlogging can feel forced while this seems more relatable
love that you do this for your followers! trying to save some money to take my mom on a trip to europe next year (will be her first time out of the country!!) as a thank you for how hard shes always worked to give me the best life
I've been struggling with life since my mom passed away last year and dealing with a heartbreak. God bless you Aspyn 🙏
I was in a couple car accidents this past year at the same time several vendors of my small business screwed us out of thousands of dollars, but due to my injuries I couldn’t get a second job to sustain me and my business. On top of that my husband is disabled and hasn’t been able to work for 6 years, but he knew we needed the extra financial help so he’s been trying to get a job all year to help but no one will employ him. We’ve been drowning, but the light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter and closer. But any little help would be appreciated to get us out of rock bottom. You’re amazing, Aspyn and I wish you continued healing. ❤
Newly single mom here that just moved myself & my daughter into our own apartment. Super proud moment for me to be able to show her how to be strong and what to allow in her life as she gets older but inflation is wild lol we got this though. If you’re helping anyone out, I could use a little too ❤️ but either way, amazing what you’re doing. You’re thriving and your videos help me
“I wanna hear about it and i wanna see it on your instagram story” is probably why i love you so much hahah
I love you for the way you talk about things like mentioning you feel comfortable with your sexuality because you have a supportive mom and not everyone does. Love you aspiona popstar and av
The two ships passing in the night line SENT ME GIRL OMG. I also just restarted my life and left -fled- a toxic and emotionally abusing relationship. I’ve been a long time followersand I’ve never felt more seen by one of my internet moms, sending you love and good vibes. Keep your head up keep going to therapy. You’re a badass don’t forget it 😘
I’m a full-time working mom, struggling before the holidays with a ton of student debt. Currently looking for a new job actually because I am so behind on bills and need to make more money, but also that works with my personal life so I can still spend time with my 1 year old???? This feels so weird to post, but I appreciate everything you’re doing while in the midst of the situation that you’re in! 💕
We need to know more abt this divorce!!! I can’t believe Parker would beat you down😢
I agree that's wilddddd
times are tough.. my dads been out of work since August from knee surgery & it’s just been my mom & I trying to survive 😓😓 anything is appreciated ❤ love & blessings to your new journey 🥂
Been watching since the early days and loving this new era of you! Times are rough in this season of life right now and would be thankful for anything. Thank you for sharing what you can.
Ugh I feel that Aspyn, when you realize you actually don't suck 🥺 cheers to ending relationships that don't enhance your life and the single life ✌🏻
I’ve been watching you since before you got married, it’s been a long time! I was in middle school then, and graduated from nursing school this year but unfortunately don’t have a job that’s paying me much, so basically all of my paycheck is going to my student loans because I’m trying to be financially responsible and avoid interests, I have about 17k left 😢anything would be so helpful and it’s so cool you’re trying to give back to those who have supported you!
Been loving this style of videos!! 🤩 they are so fun and chill!
In light of Thanksgiving, wanted to say I’m thankful to both of you for virtually helping me feel less alone
Your sponser.. my husband and I are cheering for you! We see you Aspyn! You go queen!!! This new era of yours IS AWESOME! You've got this! 💖💖💖
Hi Aspyn! I have been watching you since well before you had your children. I think it’s so amazing that you are helping out people! It’s so tough right now. I am in college for teaching and could really use the help. It’s so tough to afford college, rent, and now classroom supplies. I can’t thank you enough for giving to those in need ❤
This is so sweet🥹 im currently a single mom to 2 little boys. Were all living in a small single room with my dog as well and im soo stressed about christmas and my sons birthday on the 16th as well. they deserve the world
Hey Aspyn, loving this era for you ❤ I’ve been a silent viewer of your videos for 8 years now! My husband is a medical resident and I’d love to spoil him this Christmas, we just can’t afford it right now due to enormous student loan debt. Happy Holidays to you and your family!
Aspyn! I love how generous and kind you are. My sister’s husband has terminal cancer and they have a six month old. It’s absolutely devastating and heartbreaking. If I was to receive the money I would give it to them so they could go on a family trip together.
Ps I wish you all the best in life!
Such a fun collaboration! Some extra money would be so helpful right now! Been struggling with chronic illness and protocol costs and barely making it by. Watching your videos always gives me an escape! Thanks for sharing your life!
I’ve watched you since the beginning! I went to a turkey giveaway in my town and right when I got to almost the front of the line, they said they were out of turkeys and I cried in my car before going home to my kids. Anyway, thanks for growing up with me ❤️
I’m dealing with nerve damage and have spent sooo much money (loans). This holiday season is so depressing 🥲 thanks for opening up and sharing your life with us!
Been following your journey for over 12 years!
I’m living for the Avery content! I can’t wait to see your future events and vids together 😊
We love your content, style of how you approach your vlogs,just want more on YT as some of us don't do other SM. Intrigued with how you put your camera up on so many different angles. Going through some interesting times. Over here ( Australia), real estates just randomly give out " no fault evictions" which has been now banned but they're still doing it. Not sure about the US but you have to have 4 weeks rent plus 2 weeks advanced rent plus other costs out of the blue because these people just want to have zero regard for people having a roof over their head. You look like you're doing well for everything you've been through. Looking good. Love that you and your sister have each other ❤
ICONIC. love when you sisters get together
Bless me!! 🤍 Glad u are doing better!
I missed the lip stain part. I was like wow that’s a strong color girl hahaha
But I love chatty vlogs I also MISS vlogs where you show what you are doing. Both is nice
Hi girls, I’m the same age as Aspyn and I live in a central Europe (Czech Republic). I love and do solo travels a lot. Mostly I visit cities and towns, because any nature can be potentially dangerous and more fun with somebody, but to travel somewhere where are people it’s easy. I’m my own leader, planner and do what ever I want. Yes, friends, family and people ask me if I’m not afraid and my answer is of what. So yes solo traveling is funny and I feel so me, free and independent during exploring different places and nationalities. Love you both, Amy
ASPYNNN plz, student loans are killing me 😭😭 thankyou for being a giving queen!! ❤️❤️
Honestly the vlogs seem more authentic these days! Loving them!
As far as the giveaway..girrrrl our house. Everything expensive keeps breaking back to back. Draining all the pockets 😭 I would appreciate a win! But I know a lot of other people want/need it too!
My mom's got cancer so i had to get a full time job while still in uni because i want to be able to repay my parents for my exchange semester asap, also because they're still paying for my grandma's and aunt's funeral costs (also cancer). I also got diagnosed with bipolar 2 a year ago but since my mom's diagnosis she asked me to go off my meds and try holistic methods. I've been feeling pretty down (i'll go back on my meds), specially since i was drugged by a friend two months ago, and its affecting everything around me, including college and my work which is not great because my mom was hospitalized last week. I'm not sharing for pity and I know it's not the same situation, and i'm not glad that you're going through this, but it feels good to see you be so open about struggling and going to therapy. I know how lucky I am to have done a lot of things and have a job and everything else, its just that sometimes life feels heavy haha it's good to be able to feel understood by someone even if we're in different situations. Sending all my love and hoping life feels easier for you!
So amazing seeing this new era of self love for you, Aspyn! ❤ been following you since 2015!!!
From watching you in your teenage bedroom through to this new era I’m loving it. I love your chatty videos and getting an insight into your life. I’ve had the worst year of my life and struggled in many many ways, but UA-cam is my escape so thank you for being part of that
Onwards and upwards baby! 🙌🏻 Avery has such good advice!
Mom of 4 here who loves goodies! 🤍🎀
I swear our lives are parallel rn. I left my partner (and the father of my 3 kids) last year because of shady things I found out he had been doing through our relationship and overall toxicity. I had my single gal summer and I’m trying to find myself. Went from being a stay at home mom to working part time and I’m proud of myself for doing as much as I have on my own! Now just saving up to get my own place (we’re still living together because of finances). I can’t wait to just be solo with my kids and not walk on eggshells around my house 😅 you’re so thoughtful for helping your followers!! I’ve been around since your oldest was born. All our kids have the same age gap but mine are all boys 😅
I have been watching you for like ever and I absolutely love the person you became
Hey Aspyn! I hope therapy is helping you heal!
caught the bus is such a slay way of putting this part of your life catch that bus girl 🤍
I like when people pop-in a reference pic or video when talking about something. So like in a vlog you talk about the photo shoot and then pop in a clip of a tiktok or instagram post so I know where I can go see the final product
After spending 4 months in and out of the hospital and not being able to work I got in a car accident and it is going to cost me all of my savings to fix it. I’m desperate for some help. Really appreciate that you care enough about your followers to give back! Sending so much love from Canada 🫶🏻
Your sister looks so naturally beautiful
Love that you are doing whatever you feel like at the time. That’s LIFE !! Just feel so real and raw and honest and you have that “ let them” freedom and I LOVE THIS!!! Also THANK YOU FOR NOT STAYING TOGETHER “ for the kids”. That caused me so much trauma now in my later years that I’m working sooo damn hard on everyday so MY KIDS don’t have to suffer. ❤❤great work.
My in laws are the best people in the world and my new daughter in law has been the blessing we needed in our family moved here from
The Philippines in her childhood. They are here in the US with all their family still back in the Philippines and just lost their childhood home and EVERYTHING they own in a fire. They have nothing. Their go fund me just didn’t take off and it breaks my heart especially with the holidays coming.
Love that sweater. So nice of you to help people. I have two kids and in a really bad marriage that I’m trying to get out of. Anything would help.
It's literally the worst feeling ever... 😢 I have two kids as well. He is not wanting to let us go. Eviction notice and our water has been turned off for two weeks now. Never ever thought I would be in this place in life.
I love your new era of supporting women! I have 3 under 3, one of them being a preemie. I am feeling a bit overwhelmed by medical bills and needing to upgrade to an SUV due to my current car needing fixing/ the space isnt ideal for 3 kids.
Very random but you should see if Avery would let you dye her hair for a video
Single mom of 2 kids who just went through a toxic divorce. I could use any support and I’m totally here for this new era as I’m going through it too!
I usually don’t ‘enter’ into money giveaways because typically a lot of people need it more than I do but you are right about it being hard for everyone 😅 with Christmas coming up and being a mom it would be so helpful for this year 🙌🏼
I would love vlogs of you on brand trips/ concerts/ with other creators at lunch. That content would EAT
IM DEAD “going back to europe because look what avery used to look like” HAHAHAHAHAHA she actually has grown into such a beautiful and cool woman and she def had an awkward phase, like we all do obviously but its hilarious aspyn called it out
Hi Aspyn!! Have been watching your videos since the beginning, have been dealing with chronic illnesses & extreme mental health struggles for years and currently learning to manage all of that, while working my new job (40+ hours a week), and trying to save for a house with my husband. Love watching your videos, they truly cheer me up on hard days, thank you for sharing!🫶🏼
LOVING your authenticity!!! 💛🥹
I feel a little silly commenting, but I’m a ftm to 6 month old twins. I’m currently not working because we moved from CO to NY when they were 4 months old due to my husbands job. So especially with holidays coming up anything helps! I think it’s amazing you are doing this.
future social worker! In grad school trying to get my msw but expenses are more expensive than i first thought 😅😅 this in addition to car payments, rent, and other bills! and currently unable to work more than two days a week because in this program we are required to have field experience for about 3 days a week 🤧 love your videos aspyn and proud of your growth!! been here since the beginning 🥹
Soooo what happened between her and Parker? That was never discussed
Love seeing your bond with your sister! I have older sisters and this reminds me of us. I’m not one to ask for help and it feels kind of weird to but I thought I should try for my mom! Our 60 year old mom has needed a lot of dental work in the past year and she maxed out two insurances, so we’ve had to put a lot on a medical credit card. She’s been in a lot of pain the last year with her teeth so we needed to do whatever we could to get her the care she needs. Thank you for your generosity ❤
I solo backpacked around Europe for 2 months when I was 18! Right after I graduated high school. It was the best thing I’ve ever done, but looking back at 28 I have no idea how I did it 😂
Left my toxic, abusive marriage 3 years ago with my son who wasn’t even 2 at the time. I’ve been working so hard to be able to afford getting us a place on our own while also disentangling all the emotions and trauma that came from my marriage. We are supposed to be moving this next week & we were t-boned yesterday, totaling my car. Feels like life was going so so well, and now I’m feeling stuck with how I’m going to be able to continue moving and now getting a new car 😭😭😭
You are one of the lucky ones Aspyn. I got married, paid for our entire wedding, furnished our first apartment and supported him in getting his career while I raised our three children and now, as much as I want to leave for my kids and my well being... I can't. I have been out of my career for the last 7 years and getting employed back in the US while I am stationed with him overseas I know will be extremely difficult ... We sold our car prior to moving to his new duty station, so even the thought of moving back without a form of transportation and im from california as well, so having to pay california rent on one income feels impossible. I dont know when I will catch the bus, but hopefully, soon....When I see your videos, it gives me sooooo much hope.
I am living for this crazy for a cause era!!
Love your vlogs so much! I’ve been watching since before your oldest was born!
Times are tough, we relied on my husbands overtime to help stay afloat, and he had lost it a few weeks ago. It’s made it so so hard especially with Christmas coming. Having 2 teen kids are nottt cheap :( and still have yet to pay fall taxes. One day hopefully.
My brother just lost his good job, and now lost his home due to no income, was in the hospital with a heart attack. Single father of 4 girls!! Times are super tough! I wish I could help him out more! :(
I would die if you chose me for anything! Been watching you for over 10 years!
I have noticed this change in vlogging too! It just goes to show that people have chosen to live in the moment more! ❤