@Laura Hackstein Wow, are most women that bad? I am glad I am going MGTOW. I stop dating 12 years ago after my last girlfriend cheated on me, after a 16 year relationship.
Yes. After many years of disappointment I asked out a guy for the very first time in my life and got rejected....today's winter solstice ending with the darkest day of the year. I'm done with the pain
"I got feelings, too. I don't want to get hurt no more". That really got me. You know that ache you feel on your chest when something cuts right through your feelings? That just happened to me.
It sucks that most men have gone through this in one way or another. Relationship or just friend-zone. Either or, there comes a point to call this quits. Never feels good because being a man will never be enough for most women.
Flashbacks to all the men she went out of her way to lead on and reject to boost her ego. Hmmmmmm. Maybe I shouldn't have done that. It's not rejection that's wrong per say. It's going out to get attention with no other intention then rejecting to feel more powerful. It is literally toxic af.
@@CrystalDatingCoach 😑...You don’t think before you speak. Being married for 30 years Doesn’t mean he was never rejected by women before he found the right one. 😒 You people on this internet always think you have to put other people down.
@@aprillove10 You people? I'm a 50+ year old American Women. Not insulting or putting anyone down. Just stating the facts. He's was a Movie Star since he was 20 and Won an Academy Award. But. Ok. You're right. He MUST have suffered to interpret this ROLE so well.
@@CrystalDatingCoach So he never chased women and was never rejected?... That was the context of the discussion. NOT whether he was a movie star since age 20. And happily married for over 30 years. She said he was acting but could tell he was drawing upon his life experience. You responded with... “actually no ...he was married for over 30years”. Like he never dated before his marriages. 😒
Nah they be harlots from very young age then when they hit their 30s-50’s they need the D more due to testosterone and other hormones kicking in at thier old age
Or they plainly hate men.. or would rather screw around with a transgender person.. or animal. Like apparently men have to do everything for them to be worthy.. they have no idea how good their life is. It’s strictly western women too
The way he played with his food while talking about his deep emotions just hit me hard. Its exactly how I have acted when I'm having a deep and tense conversation with anyone. Natural and class acting. Hats off.
@@monical733 true but in this scene you actually shouldn't eat the food, cause the emotions are pouring thick and quick, one will subconsciousnessly just keep speaking without realising he's not eating. He/she will use the spoon or fork to pick the food to once again drop it and repeat the process unknowingly.
@@julia-qm2td Yeah, but ypi are a bold face LIAR if you say you haven't witnessed a bone crushing rejection or two. I remember my first rejection in 6th grade. She basically stood up, looked around at her classmates and laughed hard as hell. Rejection is par for the course, every guy knows this and accepts it, but being embarrassed is what made me trip her ik the cafeteria later that day Lol. Comeuppance.
No mature woman needs an audience for that. I'm sorry if that happened to you or a friend. In hindsight I would call it a blessing though. A cold heart can not love as the love you deserve. Wish you the best
@@julia-qm2td keep that same energy when a man you want doesn’t give you the time of day or only has sex with you and tosses you to the side. Not wanting to be publicly humiliated by the person you are romantically interested in isn’t “entitlement” but any woman willing to do that to a man who is a gentleman is just evil.
@@julia-qm2td I never said that’s every rejection, you are putting words in my mouth to fit your argument. The original comment said “girl proceeded to destroy you in front of a bunch of people” that is the direct subject matter. I have no problem with rejection as long as it is handled between the two people alone. But rejecting someone in front of a bunch of people and making it a spectacle just shows how terrible of an individual that person is.
My mom is my biggest supporter, always has been. Even through her cancer treatments. I will never forget the heartbroken look my mom gave me when we had this conversation.
This is my life right know, i chased after enough women, i never got a single girlfriend, nooneuever liked me, good luck to everyone going through the same, u fell you brothers
Too true. When you can except that you can make the necessary changes to make the changes that will make your life better. Life’s all about you, also about caring about others. But people generally choose one or the other and that’s when they make the fatal mistake where no ones happy
@@ellobo5558 you see there's that wrong concept. Are you really sure you're a genuinely good person? You see, that also happened to me. She said that on my face. If that's what she wants, then fine. I'm just sure I'm not a good person though and I won't ever delude myself that I am.
@@overanalyzing Yeah man, my account deleted too by one app. Did nothing wrong. I just sucked so hard they deleted me straight off. I got refunded fully and pro perks given for free, but nah man I'm done playing I aint got it ma.
Dating apps are only for the top ten percent of men. If you’re not in that top ten percentile of men, those apps will crush whatever big of self esteem you have left. Listen to Alpha Male Strategies videos and make something happen for yourself
@@deseann1591 Not even my parents call me up these days actually i am going through worst phase of my life and i don't think it will get any better very fast. All i realised that i am standing completely alone in the face of chaos.
"Sooner or later there comes a point in a man's life where he's gotta face some facts; and one fact I gotta face is whatever women like I ain't got it." *I felt that*
46 years old here and if I haven't found a woman by now, then it's probably never gonna happen. I just learned to accept that I don't have what women want and I'll be single for the rest of my life. You young folks have a better chance of changing your destiny than me.
Get closer to God, he is the only one that can give you joy, you will see your purpose in life, do you really think nothing created everything? That an explosion created flowers, horses, complexed eyes, dogs which comfort us when we are sad, birds, etc, if you do, thats what i call being foolish. Let me tell you something there is no proof of evolution, but there is ton of proof of a creator, remember every creation has an inventor, every house has a builder.
@@deadlyydude5522 the next scene is his mother asking him to put on the suit,and he dont want to, but her mom keeps asking, and eventually he said that line.
I remember this scene but could not remember the movie title or the actor. Ernest Borgine was a very famous actor, he played in a lot of films. Thanks for the info 🙏
The worst is when you weren’t looking for anything, and then you meet them. And you’re still not looking for or expecting anything but they start to show what you thought were clear signs of attraction, and in your mind it’s all you can see. It’s so clear, it’s staring you right in the face. So you get invested. But you realize you were completely wrong, and you don’t know how or why. And not only were you wrong, you put yourself out there, allow yourself to be a little vulnerable, and then she figuratively laughs in your face by making it clear that you’re not, and never have been, a priority. I hate not knowing why I thought she felt a certain way about me when she absolutely didn’t.
“I hate not knowing why I thought she felt a certain way about me when she absolutely didn’t.” This right here, this has always been a reoccurring theme in my life. I hope you have begun to enjoy life since you’ve posted this. I wish to be there one day soon
I think this is the only video on UA-cam that doesn’t have a single person in disagreement with another in the comments. That just tells you how real this is.
I disagree because it's pathetic. If it's true that no one in all the comments disagrees then what we've got here is an INCEL nest and all I hear is: "WAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH . Mummy, girls don't like me." You have to be likeable to be liked. Work on the inside and stop blaming others. Go Your Own Way by all means, just go far away. Playing piano over a diatribe doesn't make its content truth.
This is so real. Men go through a lot, a lot of rejections. Life's brutal for men, be it war, finances, labor .. men are loved only under condition they provide.
Men and women go through different hardships, but hardships nonetheless. From a woman, I think that you are enough even if you never provide another thing in your life.
Even someone who society considers a 'loser' can laugh with people and listen to them and enjoy nature or something. There are many good things in life for which you don't have to pay in some way. Maybe there is even unconditional love out there. But Im not sure :D
@@shinyguy1 how about it doesn’t matter the gender, it’s how your life goes. No gender has it worse, life really does not care if you’re a guy or girl, it will mess with you either way. No one gender has it worse than the other, you people and your gender wars are fucking ridiculous. We’re all people Jesus Christ.
Sometimes it's not even about looks or charisma. I am a very attractive charming young man but I've never had a woman show genuine interest in me. Yes, getting laid is possible when you chase long enough or put up a certain mask... But being my authentic self never got me anywhere. Maybe I am just that genuine nice guy who make people feel good. I refuse to fake a persona to get with women, it's disgusting and exhausting.
This is so me. But I'm used to it now, being alone, and to be honest I'm ok with it because I'm happy with the person I'm alone with and as long as you're happy with the person you're alone with you'll never feel lonely. I've always been my genuine self and yes it hasn't gotten me anywhere in my love life and to be honest I'm ok with that as well, i don't want to lose myself pretending to be someone I'm not.
Yes!! That's it guys! I feel just like you two. I feel like I had enough fake people, fake intentions, lazy ass girls, one night stands... in my life already. And I don't even think I'm actually beautiful, a 5 or 6 at best ^^" But yea, I have enough. Now it's only me being me. And yes, company would be nice, but not at the cost of be playing a fucking stupid role that is not myself all the time. Nah... I'm good with myself already. I wish all good for you booys =)
@@leonardodavincifelicianose9676 you are a 10 bro, we are all a 10, each and every one in this world is beautiful on the inside and on the outside in their own way. Goodluck to you to mate...and to all other guys out there who feel like they're not enough or haven't had any luck in their love life... you're amazing, you're enough, it's not you it's them, never stop being yourself because that's all you've got. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid to lose yourself by pleasing others😊. Nice guys are the real winners 🏆 and there is someone out there who'll appreciate you for that.
@@kolas1010I appreciate your strong words which are very kind. However, there are some of us who believe we're living our best life by giving a woman happiness and joy. It just seems to continuously be getting harder to get to that point. 😔
Well at least your charming and Attractive😅 getting laid is also possible, look to the bright side😅. Other like me its always as he said in the video "girls that make you feel like a bug"
"Girls made me feel like I was a bug." All of HS and college right there. I'd like to say it got better, but it didn't. Settling into my 40s now and yeah, whatever women want, I ain't got.
Women want a guy who will listen and confront his biases in order to understand them, perhaps you had an ego problem and resent women. They arent dumb, they know when men hate women...
@@facelessdrone Pretty sure I didn't have an ego and resentment problem at 14. It's always been a surprising amount of hostility aimed in my direction and more than a little materialism. Like the clip said whatever they want I ain't got. And at this point in time it's no longer worth the effort to figure out.
@@jreese7436 live your own life, if a woman comes into it then cool, if not, cool. Personally I've found that when I chase woman I repell them but when I don't they stumble into my life.
Try again bud...I know it sucks, I'm in the same boat. Giving up is a decision that you might end up regretting more than putting yourself out there again...I know I regret it...@DISOPOLO gave you a good rule to follow
Only woman I’ll share my feelings with is my grandma. Sucks I’m really far away from home. I feel like talking to someone about these stuff helps you mentally. Chin up my brothers, you’ve gone through up to this point.
We are in critical times.. everyone suffering in some way or other darling...I'm struggling too but tired of being bothered about it ...I say bring it on.. we have the strength and clarity of mind to deal with it...your blessed to have each other..my grandparents brought me up.. it was very precious....stand in your truth..stand in your own light and power GOD IS WITH US pray 🙏 and have faith sweet heart ❤ 💙 💜 regards frm N.Z.keep safe 💖 I'm older got many good memories
Same, my grandmother is the only person I've talked to honestly about myself, everyone else wants to interject or give half-assed advice. Sometimes you just need for someone you trust to listen.
She can waste the best years of your life, give you a few dependants to support, then leave you for some ex-jock she met in line at Starbucks, then take your kids across the continent and tell them she divorced you for the other guy, because you were abusive. She won't marry the other guy, just to keep you paying alimony to her, after the kids are grown. Yes, they can do a lot worse than say no and they do. 50% of the time.
I am okay with women straight up telling me, "No, I am not interested", when I approach them. But there is a special place in hell reserved for women who feel the need to make fun of/ publicly embarass a guy for trying to talk to them. May God be with the guy that ends up with girls like that because her beauty will fade with age and he'll be left with a witch.
I get angry when a guy try to take at me in ignore him or act in a way that im so offended, because in my culture this is disrespectful to a woman to be approached by a random guy
100% agree. There is no need for that and it’s cruel. Those woman can go f themselves. Too many times my friends or family have been seriously embarrassed and saddened by this. Idk who the fuck thinks that behavior is alright
In fairness, when you look back at old movies or older editions of anything in general, only the iconic ones will stand the test of time. Those are the only ones constantly replayed decades after & eventually people will forget the 90% of rubbish made in the olden days in the same way future generations will forget the crap made today yet praise the few gems of our time.
As a 31 year old man who’s never tasted love and been rejected by enough women, I felt this profoundly. A lot of the women I went after not only rejected me, but treated me with contempt and disdain after the rejection. It was almost like they were offended that I would think they’d desire me. Being rejected by someone your heart really wants is one thing. But being shown utter contempt and disdain on top of that fking hurts. That shit tore my heart to pieces and I still hurt to this day 10 years later when I remember those situations.
Your not rich enough, your not masculine enough, your not handsome enough, your not famous /popular enough…..nuff said. The script writer was 50 years ahead of their time.
When people feel this way it’s really sad. Everyone who has a true heart should be loved. If he was in today’s society, he would have been disgusted at how superficial people are now. Sad.
My bro has a step son who is about 40 ish, and has never had a good relationship, and when his mother said to him that he'd "meet a nice girl some day", his reply was "Mom, there are no nice girls out there anymore." Now, I don't say I buy that, and I don't know what he prioritizes, but I thought that was pretty sad.
@truthray2885 I think alot of people feel that way, from both sides. Men feel there's no nice girls/ women. And women feel there's no more nice men. It's sad state of society. I don't buy it as my brother's are all pretty awesome husbands and thier sons are all pretty amazing, same w my sister in laws and my cousins are amazing, great people. I think some families still teach basic good core values, yet far too many children are being influenced by dumb reality TV w values of only materialism.
@@squirrelthegamer8483 Its not really the same interpretation but still somewhat relevant to what he said: “I’d rather be alone than to be with someone that makes me feel alone” Some people will only treat you as their friend for their own convenience on when they need to. Because individuals out there put up a facade just to belong to a circle of friends even if that’s not who they really are despite the shitty treatment they receive.
@@squirrelthegamer8483 no it doesn't does it. I mean the clip says enough....why add to it...why try to " make it alright "... pretend a bad thing is a good thing...? Sure get past it but no one needs the nonsense that its a good thing to have been rejected by women their whole life!
That acting is next level. I didn’t think about it being acting until the second time through. I’ve got real respect for people who throw themselves into their role. They basically become the person.
When I was in middle school, my "friends" pumped me up to talk to this girl that I was crushing on. My "best friend" told me she wanted me to talk to after school. I was so nervous, but after school I walked up to her while she was putting things in her locker. When she closed her locker door she saw me standing there. Before I could even say hi she yelled, "Eewww NOOO!". The way the school was designed 25% of the students would have been in this area at the time. After she yelled at me there a brief silence and then a huge roar of laughter. I was a poor kid who avoided attention because I had worn clothes and I would get teased alot. So this was the last thing I needed. Turns out my "best friend" had been teasing the girl about me liking her so day, and it really pissed her off. She told him she didn't like me, but he lied to me... I went home and cried. Up until my early twenties I would never approach a girl. Every time I wanted to talk to an attractive girl, that incident played in my head. The shame I felt. That was the most hurtful moment of my entire life.
Well, look at it this way. As bad as that may have been, and as much as it may have hurt, you found out that those “friends” weren’t your friends. They showed their true colors. Imagine if that hadn’t happened, what if you were still friends, and some day, if something happened, and you needed their help, they probably wouldn’t have given a shit, so in a sense you dodged a bullet. For better or worse, our lives are filled with lessons, and those lessons, as hard or easy as they may be, teach us how to deal with shit later in life, and if they don’t, then that’s a lesson too. Life is a game, and a big lesson to help you be the best you possible, in this life or the next. Never give Up, when everything is lost, pick up your heart, avenge defeat, and keep going. The happiest people are the ones who’ve been through the most shit, yet never given up, no matter how Many times they’ve fallen.
This is how I feel especially now that I'm 27 years old I have just given up. It's not worth it more I will be a single good person that helps others in my life. That's all I can do is wake up everyday being thankful and do the best I can.
Justin, you are MUCH too young to give up! There ARE good women out there, and they are looking for YOU. Just remember that you are good enough! Experience talking here. With PLENTY of pain experienced.
I hear you on the rejection part I've been there a few times but maybe it for the best But thru some time things get better but wanted share jesus christ loves you
The instant rejection doesn't hurt that much, but when you gather courage, invest time and start hoping you had finally found someone special, and then get brushed off, that hurts, that truly hurts like nothing else. I am going through this recently, and I wish i could give up so that i can be spared the pain.
That's why I always call myself a ghost. Always watching, always listening, Always crying and hoping my pain will end. Truth be told I just want to die but I have a lot of unfinished business left. I've given up on my life the least I could do is help people not become like me.
Life sucks and life for damn sure isn't fair but it ain't worth it because then they win. Life is shorter than eternity so keep trucking my friend and without crying my own life story and pain trust me when I say I know where y'all coming from. It's relentless but keep your heads up your stronger than you realize and some day the suffering will be worth it all looking back. Christ knows your pain.
Exactly. Guys think dating a hot girl will get them validation, or a girl dating a hot guy will give them validation. Love today isn’t genuine anymore. You have a too good a thing, and then it all ends.
@@BJenno exactly, no matter who or what you are you don’t need to be proven okay by the world, everyone is okay, everyone should know that they are valid.
As someone who has brothers and hopes to have sons, this hurts to hear. I can see the good in the men in my life but other people will never be able to appreciate their beautiful souls and reject them before they can utter a single word.
I don’t mind being rejected but some girls are cruel instead of saying No they belittle you , make fun of you , laugh at you especially if friends are around. That’s the part I’m good off of 😂
Right?! I agree. Like just say no. They think we still have the mind of a cave man and don't understand rejection. I know it ain't like the movies. Say no and I'll find my way out of your life real quick. Thats it. 😂
I heard somewhere that they take it as an insult if a guy that she thinks is in a lower league than her approaches her, thus they feel the need to insult you back.
Never let ANYONE berate you for "free" Lol if they are rude say something like Patrice O'Neal would say "b**** you look like your breath stink anyway" and finger gun as you moonwalk away.
I've had plenty of male friends in my life that have been beyond heartbreak. One of which dedicated years to a woman and her kids, just to get called a piece of shite and told he didn't give a rats asss about her or her kids. And everyone he knew had believed her over him. Poor dude never did anything but care. I don't think people realize how cold women can really be.
I get reminded how empty a woman can be whenever I listen to a woman being interviewed at a tRump rally, or worst yet, those being interviewed at the Capitol on Jan 6th. It's there , looking right at you, pure emptiness, pure void.
He sounds like a good dude, you should swoop him up instead of just being friends...I mean if he's that great and it sounds like he is.. Or are you out there chasing so e asshole you're trying to fix?
"It's a huge thing for me and I don't want to put it against you cuz ur an amazing person and a good man, just know that please. I'm sorry, it's just very hard for me." That's what she texted.
Such sad, yet so very true words he has spoken here.🥺😞💔 I can genuinely empathize with his words, which has my heart feeling an immense, deep pain - for me, it’s like in high school, being the loner I was, and still am; I always felt I was bothering everyone anytime I tried conversing with anyone. So eventually, I just stopped trying.🤷🏻♀️🕊️💛
there will always be a woman who likes you the way you are..you know dude I used to have this huge insecurity about what every guy in the room thought of me no cap..but honestly, you only need 1 good person to like you you can always try new things, stay strong
Accepting rejection and not being bothered by by it can be a real blessing. Life with even the best woman may very well not be as good as one might “imagine”. A peaceful life is hard to beat.
@@drleo6409 indeed, exploring life with the gender you're attracted to is usually very much more enjoyable than doing so alone..but it's never easy to find the one you can actually get along with
@@generaluser "Dodged bullet for the girl" "His fault he got rejected" Seems like the women in the comment section really seem to understand what a guy like that goes through. 🙄
I have never been in a relationship with a girl in the 28 years of my life. The only intimacy i had were some casual hookups which doesn't feel the same way as having someone who cares for u throughout
"The girls made me feel like I was a bug" that seriously rings even more true today with online "dating". So many better options than you, why would they bother? As a man, you have to sell yourself like a car salesman. I hope to meet someone in person one day, I've pretty much quit dating apps. I encourage other men to do the same, it eats up way more time than you think trying to get acknowledged or trying to get someone interested. You & your time are worth so much more than that. It may feel lonely, but it builds you up.
Kids these days keep saying old movies and TV shows had cheesy lines and dialogues, but the facts is a lot of it have more IRL lessons in life even the comedy's.
@Laura Hackstein that’s basically the Islamic way of getting a significant other, the man talks to the girls father and shows his intentions with the dads daughter
Most people are Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed. Loneliness is difficult, but you're better off alone. Devalue others' opinions and start valuing yourself. Be nice to others, but better to yourself. Become the right kind of person, and you'll attract the right kind of friends.
@@MP-ut6eb Cause that would be stupid and put one in a position to be used and abused? Showing all of ones cards is never a good idea. That's why most people fail at relationships and end up in situationships instead...
Yes! Real life talk! No mother wants to hear this it makes her worry about her son. She becomes protective and will wanna put every girl through the paces so her son don’t get hurt. He just needs to pick girls that are not out of his league. Some men want the cute pink Ferrari when they got the Toyota right here ready to go! 🤷🏽♀️
I could listen to this on repeat because of how relatable it is, every word of it is true, actually how I feel. I’m not able to say it as short and easy as this guys is.
@@zuvayxdnobody in real life knows or cares about the name of my UA-cam account. Not only that but it has nothing to do with my personality or humor. It’s just a username…
@@takeofftrackcoach brother, your maturity shines through in spades with that response. The quantity doesn't matter in the end. It's the quality that means anything and, brother, I think you are going to be ok in that department.
@@saraeissa4954 gonna be real for a second here. I Hate You. Obviously I don't know you, but the hole philosophy of "stop with the self-pity and make the change you want in the world" only goes so far, especially when it comes to human relationships You can't expect that every one will have a happy ending, some people will never find "the one" for them, most people I would say. Getting in a relationship only gets harder as time goes on, but the pain stays the same. Sometimes, accepting that you will be alone is the best for you, it gives you the "conclusion" for that part of your life and you can go be happy doing other things. Saying "hang on, you will find your mach" is very bad advice, for men and women, because you will never be sure it will happen. PS. Sorry for the bad grammar. PSS. I don't really hate you, it was just a hyperbole
Nah today's society would call him an incel and a loser for expressing what he feels like that. That's why you only have conversations little this with your mom 😔
You would be an incel if you’re talking about your inability to get laid. That’s literally the definition of an incel. People claim that all incels are bad when that really isn’t the case.
@@jxynothere man dont over complicate the meaning. Its just mean involuntarily celibate. An incel doesnt have to hate women. We feel like these are disgusting people because people uses incel as an insult. Incel is the state you're in, not the things you feel.
@@lookwhatudid5095 real men get back up no matter how hard life hits you, you learn your lesson you do better, and you find someone better, some man just dont have what it takes to get going when the going gets tough
He's not a bad looking guy, masculine and even with how he's talking, he's not shaming women or saying anything nasty. Gentle and kind. This is a real man, and I hope in whatever movie this was, he found himself a lady who loves and adores him.
These are the things that guys really feel but are expected to keep it to themselves. He is self aware and tired of trying. It's good that he has a mum to talk to about it
I've found I'm much happier not trying with it and instead focusing on my passions and my future. The right one will come along some time! I'm genuinely so much happier than I was during my relationship
For real man, it's the whole world when you got a mom to talk to about these things, if you got one talk to her every chance you get, tell her everything, they care, I miss mine.
....nah...this man wasn't acting. That came from someplace real.
They say there's a grain of truth in every fiction (or lie; either way it works)
agreed.. but that's also the whole point of acting bro
I feel for the spaghetti 🍝 more, it's more miserable 😢😁😂
I feel for the spaghetti 🍝 more, it's more miserable 😢😁😂
Yes that’s very true.
Bro when he said "made me feel like a bug" suddenly hundreds of memories started flashing back like ptsd
Same here. It is so relatable,it always brings back bad memories.
@Laura Hackstein Wow, are most women that bad? I am glad I am going MGTOW. I stop dating 12 years ago after my last girlfriend cheated on me, after a 16 year relationship.
Same here bro
@@wallacegarrett668 sorry to hear that bruh, hopefully life is much better now
@Laura Hackstein wow way to bellitle someones pain
“I’ve had enough pain.”
That line got to me.
But that's the truth ......
Yes. After many years of disappointment I asked out a guy for the very first time in my life and got rejected....today's winter solstice ending with the darkest day of the year. I'm done with the pain
"I got feelings, too. I don't want to get hurt no more". That really got me. You know that ache you feel on your chest when something cuts right through your feelings? That just happened to me.
He won an Oscar for this role.
movie name?
@@Plotani Marty
Well deserved
He had ought to have.
The academy stood up with wet eyes and clapped
The instant rejection isn't bad. It's when you invest time and then they brush you off with no explanation. That's the real hurt
That just happened to me.
I know that pain. Sorry you went through that
@@lllllllllllllllllllllllllllllj shut up
chin up king
It sucks that most men have gone through this in one way or another. Relationship or just friend-zone. Either or, there comes a point to call this quits. Never feels good because being a man will never be enough for most women.
Imagine how the mom felt. Her son saying he is not worth it and crying.
Oh my. Heartbreaking stuff.😭
😓
Flashbacks to all the men she went out of her way to lead on and reject to boost her ego. Hmmmmmm. Maybe I shouldn't have done that. It's not rejection that's wrong per say. It's going out to get attention with no other intention then rejecting to feel more powerful. It is literally toxic af.
i dont need to imagine it I live it
You have to earn money, property or fame then panties come down very fast.
My brothers of every race. Focus on you not them. You’ll lose more chasing them than vice versa.
i learned that the hard way bro! i needed to see this advice at least 25+yrs ago :(
Great advice for all men
Thank you bro! Really helped me this adivce
@@kiki164 that's what the agenda wants. No marriage, no more kids, depopulation
Thx but I already learn that lesson Philnelius for 16 years.
one year later from me commenting on this. The quote still stands. "Whatever it is women like, I ain't got it." Amen.
Do you have what YOU want in you? There is SO MUCH LIFE outside of relatuonships and sex. Go find it and enjoy it.
@@purplelaketafahdhali7753 I hope you take your own advice. Because i sure don't need it. Good luck out there.
@@Rudabeger I sure do take my own advice.😂🤣 I don't need luck, Im talented, knowledgable and skilled. ✌🏿
@@purplelaketafahdhali7753 good for you.
@@Rudabeger I know, that's why my life is dope. But either way, I wish you happiness, abundant joy and light in your life. I truly do.🥰
"I got feelings y'know" damn bro who slicing onions?
Joe is slicing the onions
@Blaise Pascal can you link the vid
@MyMotif.... Wtf
i am eating onions raw
@@blaisepascal5498 Seriosly! What the 💀
Even if he’s acting i can tell he’s pulling at some deep memories.
Actually no. This is #ernestborgnine he was happily married for over 30 years. 💞
@@CrystalDatingCoach
😑...You don’t think before you speak.
Being married for 30 years Doesn’t mean he was never rejected by women before he found the right one. 😒
You people on this internet always think you have to put other people down.
@@aprillove10 You people? I'm a 50+ year old American Women. Not insulting or putting anyone down. Just stating the facts. He's was a Movie Star since he was 20 and Won an Academy Award. But. Ok. You're right. He MUST have suffered to interpret this ROLE so well.
@@CrystalDatingCoach I want to speak to your manager!!!!!!
@@CrystalDatingCoach
So he never chased women and was never rejected?...
That was the context of the discussion. NOT whether he was a movie star since age 20. And happily married for over 30 years.
She said he was acting but could tell he was drawing upon his life experience. You responded with...
“actually no ...he was married for over 30years”.
Like he never dated before his marriages. 😒
This is exactly what it is like for men under 30! the women under 30 are either asexual, lesbian, or all going after the "top" 10% of men
Depopulation and divide was created by our governments program.ing the minds through programs . Media
Bro all they are is a pussy to use
Nah they be harlots from very young age then when they hit their 30s-50’s they need the D more due to testosterone and other hormones kicking in at thier old age
Top 2%. They settle for the top 20%.
Or they plainly hate men.. or would rather screw around with a transgender person.. or animal. Like apparently men have to do everything for them to be worthy.. they have no idea how good their life is. It’s strictly western women too
If my son had said that to me my heart would have shattered
He's speaking what's in his heart.
The way he played with his food while talking about his deep emotions just hit me hard. Its exactly how I have acted when I'm having a deep and tense conversation with anyone. Natural and class acting. Hats off.
A lot of actors dont actually eat the food in sceanes
@@monical733 true but in this scene you actually shouldn't eat the food, cause the emotions are pouring thick and quick, one will subconsciousnessly just keep speaking without realising he's not eating. He/she will use the spoon or fork to pick the food to once again drop it and repeat the process unknowingly.
What movie is this?
@@toastycarp sorry no idea mate.
@@toastycarp this is the great Ernest Borgnine in a film called Marty 😊👍🏽
"Go ask her out dude! Whats the worse thing that could happen"
*girl proceeds to absolutely destroy you in front of a bunch of people*
@@julia-qm2td Yeah, but ypi are a bold face LIAR if you say you haven't witnessed a bone crushing rejection or two. I remember my first rejection in 6th grade. She basically stood up, looked around at her classmates and laughed hard as hell.
Rejection is par for the course, every guy knows this and accepts it, but being embarrassed is what made me trip her ik the cafeteria later that day Lol. Comeuppance.
No mature woman needs an audience for that. I'm sorry if that happened to you or a friend. In hindsight I would call it a blessing though. A cold heart can not love as the love you deserve. Wish you the best
@@julia-qm2td keep that same energy when a man you want doesn’t give you the time of day or only has sex with you and tosses you to the side. Not wanting to be publicly humiliated by the person you are romantically interested in isn’t “entitlement” but any woman willing to do that to a man who is a gentleman is just evil.
@@julia-qm2td I never said that’s every rejection, you are putting words in my mouth to fit your argument. The original comment said “girl proceeded to destroy you in front of a bunch of people” that is the direct subject matter.
I have no problem with rejection as long as it is handled between the two people alone. But rejecting someone in front of a bunch of people and making it a spectacle just shows how terrible of an individual that person is.
@@julia-qm2td You're not entitled to be an asshole, learn to reject a man with dignity and grace, you may have to look those up in a dictionary.
My mom is my biggest supporter, always has been. Even through her cancer treatments. I will never forget the heartbroken look my mom gave me when we had this conversation.
I can relate, the same thing happened to me.
This is my life right know, i chased after enough women, i never got a single girlfriend, nooneuever liked me, good luck to everyone going through the same, u fell you brothers
"Sooner or later, there comes a time in a man's life when he's gotta face some facts..."
"I got hurt enough, i dont want to get hurt no more"
Too true. When you can except that you can make the necessary changes to make the changes that will make your life better. Life’s all about you, also about caring about others. But people generally choose one or the other and that’s when they make the fatal mistake where no ones happy
Yeah, for me age 9.
I feel for the spaghetti 🍝 more, it's more miserable 😢😁😂
Then you become beast or preist
The way he delivers those lines... it feels like he's speaking for a lot of us...
Who is he?
@@filipe.sm31 Eminem
@@filipe.sm31
Ernest Borgnine. He was a great actor.
@@yogsenforfoth5948 thanks
We remember the feelings. But that's what helps us uplift each other.
I just told my mom this last year. One of the truest things I ever told her.
This guy needs a hug
You understand its a movie right.
@@jr5993you're missing the point!
Nah he needs to be left alone
This hits the feels, especially the part where he says “what women want I ain’t got.”
Like out Lord Vader said before “through pain i gain strength”
@@ellobo5558 you see there's that wrong concept. Are you really sure you're a genuinely good person? You see, that also happened to me. She said that on my face. If that's what she wants, then fine. I'm just sure I'm not a good person though and I won't ever delude myself that I am.
@@masteryoda9454 through strength, I gain power
@@dedmemez1384 through power i gain victory
The facts you need to realize after this is if you get a girl and you don't give them enough attention they will you the brush off. Treat them right
Thats how I felt using online dating apps.
Shit a women’s game bro that shit fun for them💯
@@Humbledfx faxx they just coasting thru on there meanwhile dudes being suckered 💯💯
@@overanalyzing Yeah man, my account deleted too by one app. Did nothing wrong. I just sucked so hard they deleted me straight off. I got refunded fully and pro perks given for free, but nah man I'm done playing I aint got it ma.
Dating apps are only for the top ten percent of men. If you’re not in that top ten percentile of men, those apps will crush whatever big of self esteem you have left. Listen to Alpha Male Strategies videos and make something happen for yourself
No online dating. Just eye contact and a smile 🙋♀️‼
Damn... Homie is not the only one.
😢
Ladies when you hear us say nothing is bothering us. This is what’s on our minds
I’m so tired of being rejected when I pour my heart out
lol same
I'm sorry. You deserve to be happy and respected. I wish the best life can offer you.🥂🌼
Never pour your heart out to anybody bro maybe ur mom
@@deseann1591 Not even my parents call me up these days actually i am going through worst phase of my life and i don't think it will get any better very fast. All i realised that i am standing completely alone in the face of chaos.
@@Ghost-vg6iq keep your head up G forreal
"Sooner or later there comes a point in a man's life where he's gotta face some facts; and one fact I gotta face is whatever women like I ain't got it."
*I felt that*
Consider yourself blessed!
@@Antonio-ti2he cope
46 years old here and if I haven't found a woman by now, then it's probably never gonna happen. I just learned to accept that I don't have what women want and I'll be single for the rest of my life. You young folks have a better chance of changing your destiny than me.
Get closer to God, he is the only one that can give you joy, you will see your purpose in life, do you really think nothing created everything? That an explosion created flowers, horses, complexed eyes, dogs which comfort us when we are sad, birds, etc, if you do, thats what i call being foolish. Let me tell you something there is no proof of evolution, but there is ton of proof of a creator, remember every creation has an inventor, every house has a builder.
@@voltagechronicles2938I mean getting a few cool hobbies and friends never hurt either lmao
i cannot tell you how hard my mother cried when i had to have this conversation with her.
Same here man, it breaks my heart aswell because she wants to be a grandmother so bad
Haha 🇮🇳
I am sorry you had to go through that
Maybe you should have framed it as her fault, too?
@@alejandrocane5932pffff hahahahahahhaha giving up women is the right choice they are pointless and unpredictable
I'm retired now. He just described my entire life.
"Whatever women like I ain't got it"
I know exactly that myself
I hear you.
@@elizasass2079 & I am so grateful to the OGs & PLAYERS for putting women like you in their place !!😜🖕
@@elizasass2079 I agree with your point and the fellow below your comment too but can't decide who is right
@@elizasass2079 just change who you are bro
It'll get better hun someone's looking for exactly what you got, and you'll find her when it's right.
“I got hurt enough…
I don’t wanna hurt no more…”
Perfect words to represent many many of our feelings
This hit me hard cause its how i feel anymore
I wish you were wrong
Bruh
@@rancid3179 It would be,it's how you feel now and NOT how you said it.
Yep. I'll die alone before I give a girl the chance to hurt me again
They don't care about men feelings at all! They don't want you to hurt their feelings but they will hurt yours in a heartbeat!
That came from the heart.
"i'm miserable enough as it is" that really hits hard.
Huh? He didn’t even say that lol
@@deadlyydude5522 the next scene is his mother asking him to put on the suit,and he dont want to, but her mom keeps asking, and eventually he said that line.
Which movie is this?
@@biffin1123 marty
@@ducatirider7 nvm i got it thanks!!
The movie is ‘’Marty’’ , the actor is Ernest Borgnine! ❤️🎶
McHale's NAvy
Great movie
Oscar winner
I remember this scene but could not remember the movie title or the actor.
Ernest Borgine was a very famous actor, he played in a lot of films.
Thanks for the info 🙏
Thanks
this man is speaking for a lot of men 🔱👑💯
😢
The worst is when you weren’t looking for anything, and then you meet them. And you’re still not looking for or expecting anything but they start to show what you thought were clear signs of attraction, and in your mind it’s all you can see. It’s so clear, it’s staring you right in the face. So you get invested.
But you realize you were completely wrong, and you don’t know how or why. And not only were you wrong, you put yourself out there, allow yourself to be a little vulnerable, and then she figuratively laughs in your face by making it clear that you’re not, and never have been, a priority. I hate not knowing why I thought she felt a certain way about me when she absolutely didn’t.
Its like you were looking at my life
Same story here bro. I can feel you
“I hate not knowing why I thought she felt a certain way about me when she absolutely didn’t.”
This right here, this has always been a reoccurring theme in my life. I hope you have begun to enjoy life since you’ve posted this. I wish to be there one day soon
I think this is the only video on UA-cam that doesn’t have a single person in disagreement with another in the comments. That just tells you how real this is.
I disagree
@@danielbautista2561 disagree just to prove him wrong I'm guessing lol
Maybe the actor gave the detailed past of himself or i can say experience he just faced in his own life.
I disagree because it's pathetic. If it's true that no one in all the comments disagrees then what we've got here is an INCEL nest and all I hear is: "WAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH . Mummy, girls don't like me."
You have to be likeable to be liked. Work on the inside and stop blaming others.
Go Your Own Way by all means, just go far away.
Playing piano over a diatribe doesn't make its content truth.
All the "disagrements" here don't count. Anybody disagree? Yeah, i'm sure you do🤣
This is so real. Men go through a lot, a lot of rejections. Life's brutal for men, be it war, finances, labor .. men are loved only under condition they provide.
Men and women go through different hardships, but hardships nonetheless. From a woman, I think that you are enough even if you never provide another thing in your life.
Even someone who society considers a 'loser' can laugh with people and listen to them and enjoy nature or something. There are many good things in life for which you don't have to pay in some way. Maybe there is even unconditional love out there. But Im not sure :D
@@justasmltwngir1732 men go through way more hardships, it’s definitely not equal. Different? Sure. However the total sum for men is much greater
@@shinyguy1 it depends on who the woman is vs the man.
@@shinyguy1 how about it doesn’t matter the gender, it’s how your life goes. No gender has it worse, life really does not care if you’re a guy or girl, it will mess with you either way. No one gender has it worse than the other, you people and your gender wars are fucking ridiculous. We’re all people Jesus Christ.
Sometimes it's not even about looks or charisma. I am a very attractive charming young man but I've never had a woman show genuine interest in me. Yes, getting laid is possible when you chase long enough or put up a certain mask... But being my authentic self never got me anywhere. Maybe I am just that genuine nice guy who make people feel good. I refuse to fake a persona to get with women, it's disgusting and exhausting.
This is so me. But I'm used to it now, being alone, and to be honest I'm ok with it because I'm happy with the person I'm alone with and as long as you're happy with the person you're alone with you'll never feel lonely. I've always been my genuine self and yes it hasn't gotten me anywhere in my love life and to be honest I'm ok with that as well, i don't want to lose myself pretending to be someone I'm not.
Yes!! That's it guys!
I feel just like you two.
I feel like I had enough fake people, fake intentions, lazy ass girls, one night stands... in my life already.
And I don't even think I'm actually beautiful, a 5 or 6 at best ^^"
But yea, I have enough. Now it's only me being me. And yes, company would be nice, but not at the cost of be playing a fucking stupid role that is not myself all the time. Nah... I'm good with myself already.
I wish all good for you booys =)
@@leonardodavincifelicianose9676 you are a 10 bro, we are all a 10, each and every one in this world is beautiful on the inside and on the outside in their own way. Goodluck to you to mate...and to all other guys out there who feel like they're not enough or haven't had any luck in their love life... you're amazing, you're enough, it's not you it's them, never stop being yourself because that's all you've got. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid to lose yourself by pleasing others😊. Nice guys are the real winners 🏆 and there is someone out there who'll appreciate you for that.
@@kolas1010I appreciate your strong words which are very kind. However, there are some of us who believe we're living our best life by giving a woman happiness and joy. It just seems to continuously be getting harder to get to that point. 😔
Well at least your charming and Attractive😅 getting laid is also possible, look to the bright side😅. Other like me its always as he said in the video "girls that make you feel like a bug"
"I had enough pain" True words indeed
"Girls made me feel like I was a bug." All of HS and college right there. I'd like to say it got better, but it didn't. Settling into my 40s now and yeah, whatever women want, I ain't got.
You don't have to try, just be nice to people. Smile without wanting a smile back and eventually someone will smile back.
Women want a guy who will listen and confront his biases in order to understand them, perhaps you had an ego problem and resent women. They arent dumb, they know when men hate women...
@@facelessdrone Pretty sure I didn't have an ego and resentment problem at 14. It's always been a surprising amount of hostility aimed in my direction and more than a little materialism. Like the clip said whatever they want I ain't got. And at this point in time it's no longer worth the effort to figure out.
@@jreese7436 live your own life, if a woman comes into it then cool, if not, cool. Personally I've found that when I chase woman I repell them but when I don't they stumble into my life.
Try again bud...I know it sucks, I'm in the same boat. Giving up is a decision that you might end up regretting more than putting yourself out there again...I know I regret it...@DISOPOLO gave you a good rule to follow
Only woman I’ll share my feelings with is my grandma. Sucks I’m really far away from home. I feel like talking to someone about these stuff helps you mentally. Chin up my brothers, you’ve gone through up to this point.
Sucks to hear that man, hope you two both stay safe and healthy
We are in critical times.. everyone suffering in some way or other darling...I'm struggling too but tired of being bothered about it ...I say bring it on.. we have the strength and clarity of mind to deal with it...your blessed to have each other..my grandparents brought me up.. it was very precious....stand in your truth..stand in your own light and power GOD IS WITH US pray 🙏 and have faith sweet heart ❤ 💙 💜 regards frm N.Z.keep safe 💖 I'm older got many good memories
Hope things change for you
Maybe the whole reticent masculine thing is a little silly
Same, my grandmother is the only person I've talked to honestly about myself, everyone else wants to interject or give half-assed advice. Sometimes you just need for someone you trust to listen.
"The worst thing she can say is no."
Idk bruh some have gone the extra mile to let me know I ain't wanted lol.
No the worst thing they can do is accuse of SA/SH!
No. They can say Yes for a while, then walk for no reason.
She can waste the best years of your life, give you a few dependants to support, then leave you for some ex-jock she met in line at Starbucks, then take your kids across the continent and tell them she divorced you for the other guy, because you were abusive.
She won't marry the other guy, just to keep you paying alimony to her, after the kids are grown.
Yes, they can do a lot worse than say no and they do.
50% of the time.
Every no is another stab wound. A human can only take so much
This is how I been feeling for years. I gave up years ago.
I am so sorry man!
@oggy_8688 tbh I believe this saying "some people got it some people dont"
I am okay with women straight up telling me, "No, I am not interested", when I approach them. But there is a special place in hell reserved for women who feel the need to make fun of/ publicly embarass a guy for trying to talk to them. May God be with the guy that ends up with girls like that because her beauty will fade with age and he'll be left with a witch.
Oh that undefeated wall 🤭
I get angry when a guy try to take at me in ignore him or act in a way that im so offended, because in my culture this is disrespectful to a woman to be approached by a random guy
Fuck those hoes there all distractions
100% agree. There is no need for that and it’s cruel. Those woman can go f themselves. Too many times my friends or family have been seriously embarrassed and saddened by this. Idk who the fuck thinks that behavior is alright
I tell men no I’m good kindly and get called a bitch out here in SF
God dam, people could write back in the day.
Yes..old movies have the greatest lines.
In fairness, when you look back at old movies or older editions of anything in general, only the iconic ones will stand the test of time. Those are the only ones constantly replayed decades after & eventually people will forget the 90% of rubbish made in the olden days in the same way future generations will forget the crap made today yet praise the few gems of our time.
Oh God can you imagine this dialogue making it to screen these days ? No chance
@@ce5890 You're watching the wrong movies then
As a 31 year old man who’s never tasted love and been rejected by enough women, I felt this profoundly.
A lot of the women I went after not only rejected me, but treated me with contempt and disdain after the rejection. It was almost like they were offended that I would think they’d desire me.
Being rejected by someone your heart really wants is one thing. But being shown utter contempt and disdain on top of that fking hurts. That shit tore my heart to pieces and I still hurt to this day 10 years later when I remember those situations.
Your not rich enough, your not masculine enough, your not handsome enough, your not famous /popular enough…..nuff said. The script writer was 50 years ahead of their time.
FACTS!!!🙏
You're missing not tall enough
@@vladimirputin4157 FACTS
When people feel this way it’s really sad. Everyone who has a true heart should be loved. If he was in today’s society, he would have been disgusted at how superficial people are now. Sad.
My bro has a step son who is about 40 ish, and has never had a good relationship, and when his mother said to him that he'd "meet a nice girl some day", his reply was "Mom, there are no nice girls out there anymore." Now, I don't say I buy that, and I don't know what he prioritizes, but I thought that was pretty sad.
@truthray2885 I think alot of people feel that way, from both sides. Men feel there's no nice girls/ women. And women feel there's no more nice men. It's sad state of society. I don't buy it as my brother's are all pretty awesome husbands and thier sons are all pretty amazing, same w my sister in laws and my cousins are amazing, great people. I think some families still teach basic good core values, yet far too many children are being influenced by dumb reality TV w values of only materialism.
@@truthray2885 Simp. You have no self respect.
@@maggiemconnorwomen hate nice men these days.
@@maggiemconnorWomen reject men that would make them queens and go after guys that make them single mothers.
The pain of this truth is deep. Dont live on others feelings. Live for yourself outside yourself and you will never be alone.
“Live for yourself outside yourself and you will never be alone.” I’m sorry but that doesn’t make any sense.
@@squirrelthegamer8483 Its not really the same interpretation but still somewhat relevant to what he said:
“I’d rather be alone than to be with someone that makes me feel alone”
Some people will only treat you as their friend for their own convenience on when they need to. Because individuals out there put up a facade just to belong to a circle of friends even if that’s not who they really are despite the shitty treatment they receive.
@@squirrelthegamer8483 no it doesn't does it. I mean the clip says enough....why add to it...why try to " make it alright "... pretend a bad thing is a good thing...? Sure get past it but no one needs the nonsense that its a good thing to have been rejected by women their whole life!
what
That acting is next level. I didn’t think about it being acting until the second time through. I’ve got real respect for people who throw themselves into their role. They basically become the person.
Ernest Borgnine was a master actor. A true genius of the silver screen. RIP Sir, you are missed.
When I was in middle school, my "friends" pumped me up to talk to this girl that I was crushing on. My "best friend" told me she wanted me to talk to after school. I was so nervous, but after school I walked up to her while she was putting things in her locker. When she closed her locker door she saw me standing there. Before I could even say hi she yelled, "Eewww NOOO!". The way the school was designed 25% of the students would have been in this area at the time. After she yelled at me there a brief silence and then a huge roar of laughter. I was a poor kid who avoided attention because I had worn clothes and I would get teased alot. So this was the last thing I needed.
Turns out my "best friend" had been teasing the girl about me liking her so day, and it really pissed her off. She told him she didn't like me, but he lied to me... I went home and cried.
Up until my early twenties I would never approach a girl. Every time I wanted to talk to an attractive girl, that incident played in my head. The shame I felt. That was the most hurtful moment of my entire life.
Well, look at it this way. As bad as that may have been, and as much as it may have hurt, you found out that those “friends” weren’t your friends. They showed their true colors. Imagine if that hadn’t happened, what if you were still friends, and some day, if something happened, and you needed their help, they probably wouldn’t have given a shit, so in a sense you dodged a bullet. For better or worse, our lives are filled with lessons, and those lessons, as hard or easy as they may be, teach us how to deal with shit later in life, and if they don’t, then that’s a lesson too. Life is a game, and a big lesson to help you be the best you possible, in this life or the next. Never give Up, when everything is lost, pick up your heart, avenge defeat, and keep going.
The happiest people are the ones who’ve been through the most shit, yet never given up, no matter how Many times they’ve fallen.
Head up King
@Serial Killer i understand not having girlfriends but why no friends
@Serial Killer get some counseling bro.
Man fuck that broad... you got me over here crying. Damn bro...I'm sorry that happened to you.love and blessing king
This is how I feel especially now that I'm 27 years old I have just given up. It's not worth it more I will be a single good person that helps others in my life. That's all I can do is wake up everyday being thankful and do the best I can.
I feel you brother.
That's the right approach. Find ways to make other people's lives better , you'll find more fulfillment in that than getting with girls.
I'm in the same position.
Justin, you are MUCH too young to give up! There ARE good women out there, and they are looking for YOU. Just remember that you are good enough!
Experience talking here. With PLENTY of pain experienced.
Wow
I asked a woman out today who I've liked for years I got rejected I feel worthless I'm worried ill be alone forever. This is a cold life
I hear you on the rejection part I've been there a few times but maybe it for the best But thru some time things get better but wanted share jesus christ loves you
Are you from Germany bro
Are you from Germany bro
The instant rejection doesn't hurt that much, but when you gather courage, invest time and start hoping you had finally found someone special, and then get brushed off, that hurts, that truly hurts like nothing else. I am going through this recently, and I wish i could give up so that i can be spared the pain.
That's why I always call myself a ghost. Always watching, always listening, Always crying and hoping my pain will end. Truth be told I just want to die but I have a lot of unfinished business left. I've given up on my life the least I could do is help people not become like me.
I feel you
I understand I’m a loner and I don’t talk anymore
Life sucks and life for damn sure isn't fair but it ain't worth it because then they win. Life is shorter than eternity so keep trucking my friend and without crying my own life story and pain trust me when I say I know where y'all coming from. It's relentless but keep your heads up your stronger than you realize and some day the suffering will be worth it all looking back. Christ knows your pain.
Wanna go rob sum Mexican Cartel Member's hacienda\Fort Knox-fortress w/ me?
Move away, far away from it all and start over.
This is a great movie, "Marty." Ernest Borgnine, the actor you see in the clip won the Academy award for best actor, 1955.
He was amazing actor
Yes, it is a great movie! 🍿💯
@@donnag.126 classic
He also plays mermaid man
That's Mermaid Man!?
That's how most men feel everyday.Just be nice once in awhile would help.
This video speaks some truth very loudly!
RIP Ernest Borgnine.
We miss you.
Amen !
omg you knew who he was.
@@thabastards1st
Bcuz Eye'm an Olde Fart.
The movie is "Marney" 1955
@@pershingii2424 you mean Marty?
When you realize men should know their own worth you’ll grow so much.
Exactly. Guys think dating a hot girl will get them validation, or a girl dating a hot guy will give them validation. Love today isn’t genuine anymore. You have a too good a thing, and then it all ends.
Big Ass Facts!💯
What is my value..?
@@BJenno exactly, no matter who or what you are you don’t need to be proven okay by the world, everyone is okay, everyone should know that they are valid.
@@jdaog nothing...no one cares if someone exists or not...a 100 billion people have lived and died
"No one is your companion but your shadow."
As someone who has brothers and hopes to have sons, this hurts to hear. I can see the good in the men in my life but other people will never be able to appreciate their beautiful souls and reject them before they can utter a single word.
I don’t mind being rejected but some girls are cruel instead of saying No they belittle you , make fun of you , laugh at you especially if friends are around. That’s the part I’m good off of 😂
Right?! I agree. Like just say no. They think we still have the mind of a cave man and don't understand rejection. I know it ain't like the movies. Say no and I'll find my way out of your life real quick. Thats it. 😂
I heard somewhere that they take it as an insult if a guy that she thinks is in a lower league than her approaches her, thus they feel the need to insult you back.
Never let ANYONE berate you for "free"
Lol if they are rude say something like Patrice O'Neal would say "b**** you look like your breath stink anyway" and finger gun as you moonwalk away.
Stand strong man you will find that diamond amongst all that glitter.
@@joeyfigueroa4748 i wanna find an smack the people or person who came up with “the worst she can say is no”
I've had plenty of male friends in my life that have been beyond heartbreak. One of which dedicated years to a woman and her kids, just to get called a piece of shite and told he didn't give a rats asss about her or her kids. And everyone he knew had believed her over him. Poor dude never did anything but care. I don't think people realize how cold women can really be.
I get reminded how empty a woman can be whenever I listen to a woman being interviewed at a tRump rally, or worst yet, those being interviewed at the Capitol on Jan 6th. It's there , looking right at you, pure emptiness, pure void.
@@vicmorrison8128 what a weird comment...you are a beta male
He sounds like a good dude, you should swoop him up instead of just being friends...I mean if he's that great and it sounds like he is.. Or are you out there chasing so e asshole you're trying to fix?
@@punkask3619 ur comment kinda says you're one as well
@@jarrekhurdle1744 none of ur business what she does lmao
"It's a huge thing for me and I don't want to put it against you cuz ur an amazing person and a good man, just know that please. I'm sorry, it's just very hard for me." That's what she texted.
Such sad, yet so very true words he has spoken here.🥺😞💔 I can genuinely empathize with his words, which has my heart feeling an immense, deep pain - for me, it’s like in high school, being the loner I was, and still am; I always felt I was bothering everyone anytime I tried conversing with anyone. So eventually, I just stopped trying.🤷🏻♀️🕊️💛
Watching this just made me delete my dating apps. This is exactly how I feel rn. Geez
there will always be a woman who likes you the way you are..you know dude I used to have this huge insecurity about what every guy in the room thought of me no cap..but honestly, you only need 1 good person to like you
you can always try new things,
stay strong
Accepting rejection and not being bothered by by it can be a real blessing. Life with even the best woman may very well not be as good as one might “imagine”.
A peaceful life is hard to beat.
@@drleo6409 indeed, exploring life with the gender you're attracted to is usually very much more enjoyable than doing so alone..but it's never easy to find the one you can actually get along with
@@drleo6409 i mean cant really do that when you have rsd 😔
@@mich5698 we all hate ourselves sometimes, try to avoid the negative self talk and give yourself some love
"some stupid woman that I didn't even want to call up" that's the most relatable.
@@saraeissa4954 he didn’t want to call her because he knew she wouldn’t be into him lol you can’t be so brain dead you couldn’t figure that out…
@@devincoleman2870 why call her stupid though. Thats a sign he didnt like her to begin with.
@@devincoleman2870 so why would his dumbass call? lmao that’s his fault for that rejection.
@@bratty2987 he called her stupid in retrospect, after the brush. You can't be so brainless not to get that.
@@generaluser
"Dodged bullet for the girl"
"His fault he got rejected"
Seems like the women in the comment section really seem to understand what a guy like that goes through. 🙄
I have never been in a relationship with a girl in the 28 years of my life. The only intimacy i had were some casual hookups which doesn't feel the same way as having someone who cares for u throughout
"The girls made me feel like I was a bug" that seriously rings even more true today with online "dating". So many better options than you, why would they bother? As a man, you have to sell yourself like a car salesman. I hope to meet someone in person one day, I've pretty much quit dating apps. I encourage other men to do the same, it eats up way more time than you think trying to get acknowledged or trying to get someone interested. You & your time are worth so much more than that. It may feel lonely, but it builds you up.
Real spit 💯
Damn right bro. They don’t want us, we don’t need them. We all have to get back to being normal humans before we can start loving other humans.
Especially in a world where girls have Onlyfans and very high standards for men
The point is not to "get someone interested" you have to show interest. Stop trying to sell yourself, just be yourself.
Dude, tf you talking about? I'm an overweight idiot and I match about twice a day. You have to actually be appealing to people.
This might be one of the realest things ive ever heard in my life.
This is one of the most awesome scenes in cinematic history!
bro literally explaining every mans life
Kids these days keep saying old movies and TV shows had cheesy lines and dialogues, but the facts is a lot of it have more IRL lessons in life even the comedy's.
Exactly
I ain't ever heard kids say that 💀 sounds like you're just projecting
@@gkrees9509 lmao facts
@@gkrees9509 ikr🤣🤣🤣
Bro you sure you didn't just assume that I heard no one talking like that 😂
I especially resonate with the part where he said: “what women like, I ain’t got”
@Laura Hackstein LMAFOOOOOO !
@Laura Hackstein Its a movie.
@Laura Hackstein how is it that he does not have honestly and integrity?
@Laura Hackstein wow. Thank you for your response. What you say makes sense.
Peace.
@Laura Hackstein that’s basically the Islamic way of getting a significant other, the man talks to the girls father and shows his intentions with the dads daughter
Most people are Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed. Loneliness is difficult, but you're better off alone.
Devalue others' opinions and start valuing yourself. Be nice to others, but better to yourself.
Become the right kind of person, and you'll attract the right kind of friends.
i just dont bother, haven't since i was like 20, ya dont get rejected if ya dont bother. they're absolutally not worth it these days anyway.
Good for you! I didn't learn this lesson until it was too late.
"You don't get rejected if you don't bother" is the saddest, most self-defeating thought. If you apply that to your entire life, you will be a loser.
@@Aminah6623That's not your problem though is it?
@@Aminah6623how is it being a loser a wise man once said the most dangerous man in the room is the guy that's with his comrades
@@Aminah6623why do you care if he does or doesn’t approach them? Wahmen aren’t really worth dealing with
It's better to be single rather than ending up with some one who's unable to give you love and happiness ...it's a lesson I learnt the hard way ...✌️
I Know right brother.... relationship sucks, because both parts don't show their cards soon enough, they do so in the relationship.
It's fckin* truth guys 😪
@@MP-ut6eb Cause that would be stupid and put one in a position to be used and abused? Showing all of ones cards is never a good idea. That's why most people fail at relationships and end up in situationships instead...
Yes⁰
Fresh and fit podcast, rollo tomassi, rich cooper.
A man opening up to his mother about his love life heart pains. I love it
Yes! Real life talk! No mother wants to hear this it makes her worry about her son. She becomes protective and will wanna put every girl through the paces so her son don’t get hurt. He just needs to pick girls that are not out of his league. Some men want the cute pink Ferrari when they got the Toyota right here ready to go! 🤷🏽♀️
I wish I grew up with my mom 💔 I got my aunties and granny tho 💯‼️
@@sweetie9393This is simply untrue.
The only two characteristics that count in attracting women are your facial asthetics and height.
As someone who’s lived like a hermit for the past 15 years, I know these feelings all too well.
Somebody copyrighted my biopic
I could listen to this on repeat because of how relatable it is, every word of it is true, actually how I feel. I’m not able to say it as short and easy as this guys is.
Look at ur name and profile pic. It might have something to do with it
@@gaston7414 what are saying
@@Ethan-yo3yg he’s talking about your humor and likings just do whatever you feel is right for you people will judge you no matter who you are
@@zuvayxdnobody in real life knows or cares about the name of my UA-cam account. Not only that but it has nothing to do with my personality or humor. It’s just a username…
@@Ethan-yo3yg Your username says so much about you. Insight into who you think you are.
I’m that dude. Feels good to see something real. Makes me feel heard watching this. No self pity, just feeling a reflection of my present truth
Ok, but I'm not sure I believe your picture then, u look like ur the one doing the rejecting, but ok, if u say so.
@@fimanu thank you for that. I know women feel the same way as well. We do reject but we also get rejected.
@@takeofftrackcoach brother, your maturity shines through in spades with that response. The quantity doesn't matter in the end. It's the quality that means anything and, brother, I think you are going to be ok in that department.
@@saraeissa4954 gonna be real for a second here. I Hate You. Obviously I don't know you, but the hole philosophy of "stop with the self-pity and make the change you want in the world" only goes so far, especially when it comes to human relationships
You can't expect that every one will have a happy ending, some people will never find "the one" for them, most people I would say.
Getting in a relationship only gets harder as time goes on, but the pain stays the same. Sometimes, accepting that you will be alone is the best for you, it gives you the "conclusion" for that part of your life and you can go be happy doing other things. Saying "hang on, you will find your mach" is very bad advice, for men and women, because you will never be sure it will happen.
PS. Sorry for the bad grammar.
PSS. I don't really hate you, it was just a hyperbole
@@fimanu wow fuck you. You are the best at parties especially when comforting someone.
Just got that today and no matter how much it happens, it still hurts
I remember watching him growing up 🥰as we got older..with him having white hair as an older actor. He was always a good actor,to me.
“I’ve got hurt enough, I don’t wanna get hurt no more.”
Nah today's society would call him an incel and a loser for expressing what he feels like that. That's why you only have conversations little this with your mom 😔
You would be an incel if you’re talking about your inability to get laid.
That’s literally the definition of an incel. People claim that all incels are bad when that really isn’t the case.
Incels aren’t guys with feelings. Incels are guys that hate all women just because they’ve been rejected a couple times.
@@jxynothere that's is kinda what was in the video bro...
@@jxynothere man dont over complicate the meaning. Its just mean involuntarily celibate. An incel doesnt have to hate women. We feel like these are disgusting people because people uses incel as an insult. Incel is the state you're in, not the things you feel.
@@lookwhatudid5095 real men get back up no matter how hard life hits you, you learn your lesson you do better, and you find someone better, some man just dont have what it takes to get going when the going gets tough
He's not a bad looking guy, masculine and even with how he's talking, he's not shaming women or saying anything nasty. Gentle and kind. This is a real man, and I hope in whatever movie this was, he found himself a lady who loves and adores him.
Already faced that fact, ain’t tryna get hurt more than necessary even though it hurts my mom seeing me alone
I love this movie. It’s called ‘Marty’. PS it has a happy ending.
It has a good ending? :( That's enough to make a grown man cry.
Thank goodness for that 👍
@@gabriela4229 it’s on Amazon Prime right now 😁
Oh thank god 😭😂
@@RoryStockton A happy ending unlike in life
You forget what a great actor this guy was
Movie name?
Who is he?
@@srinivasdola1395 the movie is called Marty (1955)
Reading these comments, wow, im happy to know im not alone.
Thanks brothers ❤
Can see in his eyes he was speaking from past experiences.
I met him at the end of his life...such a nice man. Always smiling every time I saw him. Friendly to anyone who said hi. Genuine good guy.
These are the things that guys really feel but are expected to keep it to themselves. He is self aware and tired of trying. It's good that he has a mum to talk to about it
I've found I'm much happier not trying with it and instead focusing on my passions and my future. The right one will come along some time! I'm genuinely so much happier than I was during my relationship
For real man, it's the whole world when you got a mom to talk to about these things, if you got one talk to her every chance you get, tell her everything, they care, I miss mine.
As an almost 40 year old man, this is all I've ever felt.
This is from the film called 'Marty' (1955). A really good film which hit home on some key points.
Thank u
That was some real truth right there, he wasn't acting. He was for real.