Either she's with you or she isn't. There's no "in between". NEVER settle for breadcrumbs of someone's time, energy, and effort. I know it'll hurt, but walk away for your own emotional sanity. Trying harder won't change a thing.
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Couldn't agree more. I remember one night when we got together and she was physically present but her heart was not. She literally changed emotionally over the night. I tried to understand what went wrong, but she was colder and colder. Looks like I was just a rebound, she went back to her ex, she got pregnant in a short amount of time with him and probably are living together now. Guys, don't try to fix women, if something is wrong and your gut feeling is saying some important things, just walk away and don't look back. On her is if she wants to fix the situation, but be cautious about it and make her work for it. Think with the upper head.
In this guys case I don't think he should walk away. He just needs to be happy he's getting action 2-3 times a week. They're hanging out, having fun & hooking up. But he's getting feminine & pushing her for a relationship when it's the womens role to be the one pushing for a relationship. So his wiring is all wrong. He just needs to start hooking up with other women in the background & him backing off would probably raise this womens interest to the point she would want a relationship & who knows maybe at that point he wouldn't want her as a GF or she'd be just HIS bootycall
@@jroll5858well that’s the problem. If he’s been with her for several months and she still hasn’t said anything about being exclusive, then yeah definitely just keep her on the wheel but start dating other people. I’m a Christian looking for my wife, so if a girl puts me in that hookup box, no problem, but I’m not going to put a lot of effort into planning dates or anything. She can come over with a bottle of wine and that’s really it.
Coach is right about " women like you more if you have options with other women". This woman put me on the webpage Are we dating the same guy?. My stock shot up 3 women I used to date have messaged me out of the blue, the good ole " Hope you are well" kinda thing. Another ex Girlfriend said on the post I was a good guy. Wonder if she will reach out eventually. I listened to the audio book more times than I can count and know it well. I review it every few weeks to months as I feel I need it. Coach Wayne WILL change your life. Life got ya down? Get in the gym get active get outside get into nature and pursue things you love doing as much as you can. Stay off the drugs and booze and life will improve.
One thing that Hamza once said is that the biggest killer in relationships is deplolerization. Where the man acts more feminine and the woman acts more masculine than him. He also preached that you need to establish a father/daughter dynamic in a relationship and not the mother/son dynamic where your woman treats you as if she's your mother. You, as the man, must set boundaries or in this case rules in the relationship. Maintain your masculine frame and continue to do the hard work especially when you dont feel like it
regarding the topic of the courtship never ending, what about having a restless girlfriend who always wants to go out doing activities that exhaust you like clubbing/raving as opposed to you wanting to go on a hike, have some food, maybe play a sport or something like that?
Remember, you should be the one running the fun bus, not her. Next time she contacts you, tell her to dress a certain way, and you will pick her up at a designated time. If she questions you on what you guys are gonna do, just respond with, "That's me to know and you to find out." That will build curiosity on her part, and you become the leader, which will make her more attracted to you.
@@yeticusrex1661 do you parrot all those lines like a good Corey's boy to make you sound like you're smart and educated ? what else should he say ? amuse us
@@palkisakumi8595 "No one will ever say or do to you that they themselves don't feel about themselves in the moment." Now, THAT'S amusing. Thank you for that.
Corey, I have read your life story. It sounds like you had an anxious attachment style in your earlier years. This is completely understandable, given your early life history.
Hi coach. I have been going once a week for walks in crowded places and making eye contact with women. I am exploring my hobbies and going to playing pool alone or other things but it's not often that girls make eye contact let alone smile. I am going to gym and working on myself. I am 29 and only had a gf once in middle school and only asked out 2-3 girls in my lifetime till now. I am an immigrant and have to overcome a lot of fear because in my home country it's not seen well if you approach women to get their number. I guess I should just keep going. Just wanted to write this down in the comments. Thank you for the lessons.
I’ve never seen two people in actual love in my entire life. It’s just a movie thing. It’s actually a 20th century thing. If you read the works of older authors, you’ll realize that love is a single sided thing. There’s always one who loves and one who takes advantage of that, or passes that. It’s just a simple human dynamic.
I think you should make a video addressing the men’s loneliness epidemic. It’s bad. Regular men are no longer wanted by even lower status females. Remember how 80% of women go for the top 20% of men? Now it’s more like 95/5. For every man that graduates college - nearly two women graduate. Women under 30 are now making more money than men under 30. Men have been surpassed by women. That’s great for women, but women generally don’t want men who are less successful or even equally as successful as them. Women nowadays do not want regular men. They have been conditioned not to. We can thank dating apps for this. To not be a ‘regular man’ is borderline impossible. 2 in 3 men have not had sex in the last year. On top of this, we young men are being crushed financially. Our society now consists of tens of millions of broke, sexless, purposeless, lonely men. Regular dating advice doesn’t matter anymore. Birth rates are declining and population collapse is on the way. Perhaps your content should be shifted towards either becoming a god amongst men, or coping with permanent loneliness as a man. I’m begging anyone to bring facts to the table to prove me wrong about this stuff. Please prove me wrong, because this is devastating and I’m really sorry that this is what’s in store for us.
All I can tell you bro, is I'm broke, semi disabled and 43 years old, I carry myself well though ana have slept with many woman between 28-45 over the last few years. It's all about attitude and Beliefs, if you believe this, this will be your reality
I have question am i emotionally cheating on morgan with my ex boyfriend Stephen behind morgan by meeting up and texting and calling Stephen on phone and laughing with steohen and holding hands with stephen and watching high school musical dvds that me and Stephen love without never never having no sex
All orbiting males that are ex's and "friends" are still trying/waiting to have sex with you, and you're the gatekeeper. It's just a matter of time when one the "orbiters" moves you from emotionally cheating to sexually cheating, and then you claiming later that "it just accidentally happened", which is always a BS excuse, btw. Just do the right thing and either end it with the current boyfriend, or stop spending time with the orbiters...ASAP. Pick one or the other, because you are on a slippery slope here.
IMO if I was “Morgan” then this would be a deal breaker already. I advise you to be honest because karma won’t be nice. I think you also know deep down what you’re doing is wrong, because otherwise you wouldn’t be asking
@@Katt-w3 that doesn’t give you the right to play with someone like that at all. What you’re doing is selfish to the maximum. That’s all I’ll say since your life is yours. I hope things work out for you
She actually has interest in him, at least as a booty call by hooking up a couple times a week. He needs to read the book. Women have to come to you & push for the relationship. If you're the one pushing you're not letting the women do her job & she'll end up resenting you for it & pushing you away. And that's why she's making rules & excuses now & he'll just end up trying even harder to win her over. That will only lead to a total Panocha embargo
Either she's with you or she isn't. There's no "in between". NEVER settle for breadcrumbs of someone's time, energy, and effort. I know it'll hurt, but walk away for your own emotional sanity. Trying harder won't change a thing.
Couldn't agree more. I remember one night when we got together and she was physically present but her heart was not. She literally changed emotionally over the night. I tried to understand what went wrong, but she was colder and colder. Looks like I was just a rebound, she went back to her ex, she got pregnant in a short amount of time with him and probably are living together now. Guys, don't try to fix women, if something is wrong and your gut feeling is saying some important things, just walk away and don't look back. On her is if she wants to fix the situation, but be cautious about it and make her work for it. Think with the upper head.
@, well said! Intuition and sixth sense never lie. Dude, be glad it ended for good.
@I mean bro you fkd her, oh well! Sometimes you just gotta get in, get on, get off and then get the FK out!
In this guys case I don't think he should walk away. He just needs to be happy he's getting action 2-3 times a week. They're hanging out, having fun & hooking up. But he's getting feminine & pushing her for a relationship when it's the womens role to be the one pushing for a relationship. So his wiring is all wrong. He just needs to start hooking up with other women in the background & him backing off would probably raise this womens interest to the point she would want a relationship & who knows maybe at that point he wouldn't want her as a GF or she'd be just HIS bootycall
@@jroll5858well that’s the problem. If he’s been with her for several months and she still hasn’t said anything about being exclusive, then yeah definitely just keep her on the wheel but start dating other people. I’m a Christian looking for my wife, so if a girl puts me in that hookup box, no problem, but I’m not going to put a lot of effort into planning dates or anything. She can come over with a bottle of wine and that’s really it.
My life has gotten exponentially better after listening to and applying Corey's material.
Really ?? Does this work ?
Coach is right about " women like you more if you have options with other women". This woman put me on the webpage Are we dating the same guy?. My stock shot up 3 women I used to date have messaged me out of the blue, the good ole " Hope you are well" kinda thing. Another ex Girlfriend said on the post I was a good guy. Wonder if she will reach out eventually. I listened to the audio book more times than I can count and know it well. I review it every few weeks to months as I feel I need it. Coach Wayne WILL change your life. Life got ya down? Get in the gym get active get outside get into nature and pursue things you love doing as much as you can. Stay off the drugs and booze and life will improve.
60 and 55 years and still acting like younger people, age is really just a number. It's interesting.
If I were him, I’d be less worried about locking her down and be happy that he’s 60 and getting action. Let the rest play itself out.
I ain’t getting any action 🫣🤣
But he should also be building up his funnel with other women. Everyone deserves someone that truly loves them.
Awesome to see Corey giving some coaching to us “old guys.”
I remember that story of the musician
Fresh video thanks Corey
Coach Corey wayne is the GOAT
What’s with the animal insults bro? Corey’s been an absolute legend over the years, the greatest of all time!
@@rich1217see what you did there 😂
One thing that Hamza once said is that the biggest killer in relationships is deplolerization. Where the man acts more feminine and the woman acts more masculine than him.
He also preached that you need to establish a father/daughter dynamic in a relationship and not the mother/son dynamic where your woman treats you as if she's your mother. You, as the man, must set boundaries or in this case rules in the relationship. Maintain your masculine frame and continue to do the hard work especially when you dont feel like it
regarding the topic of the courtship never ending, what about having a restless girlfriend who always wants to go out doing activities that exhaust you like clubbing/raving as opposed to you wanting to go on a hike, have some food, maybe play a sport or something like that?
Youre not compatible then lol
Remember, you should be the one running the fun bus, not her. Next time she contacts you, tell her to dress a certain way, and you will pick her up at a designated time. If she questions you on what you guys are gonna do, just respond with, "That's me to know and you to find out." That will build curiosity on her part, and you become the leader, which will make her more attracted to you.
You picked a trash girl dude. Why the fuck would you settle for a club girl. Red flag city.
@@yeticusrex1661 do you parrot all those lines like a good Corey's boy to make you sound like you're smart and educated ? what else should he say ? amuse us
@@palkisakumi8595 "No one will ever say or do to you that they themselves don't feel about themselves in the moment."
Now, THAT'S amusing. Thank you for that.
is there a guide on how to move on?
I know it’s a challenging thing
Corey, I have read your life story. It sounds like you had an anxious attachment style in your earlier years. This is completely understandable, given your early life history.
Hi coach. I have been going once a week for walks in crowded places and making eye contact with women. I am exploring my hobbies and going to playing pool alone or other things but it's not often that girls make eye contact let alone smile. I am going to gym and working on myself. I am 29 and only had a gf once in middle school and only asked out 2-3 girls in my lifetime till now. I am an immigrant and have to overcome a lot of fear because in my home country it's not seen well if you approach women to get their number. I guess I should just keep going. Just wanted to write this down in the comments. Thank you for the lessons.
I’ve never seen two people in actual love in my entire life. It’s just a movie thing. It’s actually a 20th century thing. If you read the works of older authors, you’ll realize that love is a single sided thing. There’s always one who loves and one who takes advantage of that, or passes that. It’s just a simple human dynamic.
COACH COREY-- Please tell me your background. Do you have education and/or a license in psychology or therapy work?
I think you should make a video addressing the men’s loneliness epidemic. It’s bad.
Regular men are no longer wanted by even lower status females.
Remember how 80% of women go for the top 20% of men? Now it’s more like 95/5.
For every man that graduates college - nearly two women graduate. Women under 30 are now making more money than men under 30. Men have been surpassed by women. That’s great for women, but women generally don’t want men who are less successful or even equally as successful as them.
Women nowadays do not want regular men. They have been conditioned not to. We can thank dating apps for this.
To not be a ‘regular man’ is borderline impossible. 2 in 3 men have not had sex in the last year.
On top of this, we young men are being crushed financially. Our society now consists of tens of millions of broke, sexless, purposeless, lonely men.
Regular dating advice doesn’t matter anymore. Birth rates are declining and population collapse is on the way.
Perhaps your content should be shifted towards either becoming a god amongst men, or coping with permanent loneliness as a man.
I’m begging anyone to bring facts to the table to prove me wrong about this stuff. Please prove me wrong, because this is devastating and I’m really sorry that this is what’s in store for us.
All I can tell you bro, is I'm broke, semi disabled and 43 years old, I carry myself well though ana have slept with many woman between 28-45 over the last few years. It's all about attitude and Beliefs, if you believe this, this will be your reality
I have question am i emotionally cheating on morgan with my ex boyfriend Stephen behind morgan by meeting up and texting and calling Stephen on phone and laughing with steohen and holding hands with stephen and watching high school musical dvds that me and Stephen love without never never having no sex
All orbiting males that are ex's and "friends" are still trying/waiting to have sex with you, and you're the gatekeeper. It's just a matter of time when one the "orbiters" moves you from emotionally cheating to sexually cheating, and then you claiming later that "it just accidentally happened", which is always a BS excuse, btw. Just do the right thing and either end it with the current boyfriend, or stop spending time with the orbiters...ASAP. Pick one or the other, because you are on a slippery slope here.
IMO if I was “Morgan” then this would be a deal breaker already. I advise you to be honest because karma won’t be nice. I think you also know deep down what you’re doing is wrong, because otherwise you wouldn’t be asking
@RonInTheUSA222no sex in my affair plan just emotional and physical affair without having no sex
@@AMo1-me and morgan got needs he doesn't understand
@@Katt-w3 that doesn’t give you the right to play with someone like that at all. What you’re doing is selfish to the maximum. That’s all I’ll say since your life is yours. I hope things work out for you
Cooked 🍳
3 years and she’s still not in love with the dude? In the words of CCW - “Come on man”.
She actually has interest in him, at least as a booty call by hooking up a couple times a week.
He needs to read the book. Women have to come to you & push for the relationship. If you're the one pushing you're not letting the women do her job & she'll end up resenting you for it & pushing you away.
And that's why she's making rules & excuses now & he'll just end up trying even harder to win her over.
That will only lead to a total Panocha embargo
Had a girls mom tell me something similar like 20 years back "