There’s also a video of a guy advising other guys not to compliment their partner/date in order to humble and/or manipulate them. It’s good to also discern the reason why he’s not complimenting you. Is he not complimenting you or is he going out of his way not to do it? I wouldn’t date a guy who didn’t compliment me. I don’t need the validation. Sometimes he might not be into you. Or maybe he’s taking his time. Or maybe he’s playing games.
You are right I was thinking of the same thing, alot of toxic men purposefully withdraw compliments and look at you with disgust. I pay attention to the subtle physical signs that men give.
Totally agree. All we need to know is if he’s showing up. I think we women are so easily manipulated by words that if a guy isn’t saying the things we want him to say it must not be it- but he’s actively spending time with you and making you a priority and that gets ignored. Men know this which is why some master the gift of gab but don’t actually do a dang thing for or with us.
Yeah, this is true. I was dating this guy who consistently took me out every week when we were both in town. However, I was confused because he didn't really flirt or show romantic interest. I couldn't tell if I was his date or dining companion. When he took me out for Valentine's Day, I still wasn't sure. I got a kiss on the cheek that night though vs. just a hug. Lol
Side note : if a child girl gets told she's pretty then she grows up and might only thinks she has value in her beauty. Child girl not told pretty grows up seeking out validation. What is the happy medium to tell our little girls to have no complex issue?
Something in my gut tells me that according to Anwar’s “Chaser vs. Pursuer” video, a guy that is more likely to “settle” for a woman is the guy that is chasing. Kinda like he’s chasing the BEST deal in town because it’s seems like he’s getting a good deal on a Labor Day sale and he might as well buy it while he can. I believe the pursuer knows it’s end game and will take his time in getting to know you. If someone were to settle, I don’t believe they would be investing so much time as a “Pursuer.”
I'm an attractive person irl: men in dating age have never told me I look good, am pretty. They would be mortified. The one caveat to that is an ex, but he had a uh... "differently" ordered personality.
Oooo girl defo stay away from thise men that think they're going to fix you during a manic/depressed/ anxious episode. Red flaggg. You lucky you got out. Bro thought you were effort from skins and that he was Freddie. 😂 not real life at all.
There’s also a video of a guy advising other guys not to compliment their partner/date in order to humble and/or manipulate them. It’s good to also discern the reason why he’s not complimenting you. Is he not complimenting you or is he going out of his way not to do it? I wouldn’t date a guy who didn’t compliment me. I don’t need the validation. Sometimes he might not be into you. Or maybe he’s taking his time. Or maybe he’s playing games.
Very true!!!
Ugh this is too much 😫
You are right I was thinking of the same thing, alot of toxic men purposefully withdraw compliments and look at you with disgust. I pay attention to the subtle physical signs that men give.
BLOOP‼️🔥💯 Words don’t mean $hit! I go by actions. Actions tell me everything I need to know. 🤷🏽♀️
Totally agree. All we need to know is if he’s showing up. I think we women are so easily manipulated by words that if a guy isn’t saying the things we want him to say it must not be it- but he’s actively spending time with you and making you a priority and that gets ignored. Men know this which is why some master the gift of gab but don’t actually do a dang thing for or with us.
I think when a guys into you YOU KNOW he’s showing you versus telling you period.!
CORRECT‼️💯🔥
I have mirrors in my home & I know how nice I look, but I'd much rather the guy I like, SHOW me how he feels about me!
Yeah, this is true. I was dating this guy who consistently took me out every week when we were both in town. However, I was confused because he didn't really flirt or show romantic interest. I couldn't tell if I was his date or dining companion. When he took me out for Valentine's Day, I still wasn't sure. I got a kiss on the cheek that night though vs. just a hug. Lol
He’s moving sloww
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Side note : if a child girl gets told she's pretty then she grows up and might only thinks she has value in her beauty. Child girl not told pretty grows up seeking out validation. What is the happy medium to tell our little girls to have no complex issue?
Both obviously. Also tell them they're wrong, they're right, etc. It's a balance
Tell her she’s smart and beautiful. Praise the child for their accomplishments and install morals and values.
Tell them they're beautiful(not pretty) and push them to pursue studies. You can do both.
But wait, dont you think that some people date/sleep with you because they're settling? I think that's why we need more clues!
Exactly, wouldn't want to be a placeholder
They date TO sleep with people. It's not settling.
Something in my gut tells me that according to Anwar’s “Chaser vs. Pursuer” video, a guy that is more likely to “settle” for a woman is the guy that is chasing. Kinda like he’s chasing the BEST deal in town because it’s seems like he’s getting a good deal on a Labor Day sale and he might as well buy it while he can.
I believe the pursuer knows it’s end game and will take his time in getting to know you. If someone were to settle, I don’t believe they would be investing so much time as a “Pursuer.”
Love this@@valr8866
Last part was key 🔑
Well I don't appreciate you clocking me so thoroughly good sir😆
I'm an attractive person irl: men in dating age have never told me I look good, am pretty. They would be mortified. The one caveat to that is an ex, but he had a uh... "differently" ordered personality.
Oooo girl defo stay away from thise men that think they're going to fix you during a manic/depressed/ anxious episode. Red flaggg. You lucky you got out. Bro thought you were effort from skins and that he was Freddie. 😂 not real life at all.
God i so love you and wish you were around 20 years ago😅😅😅
Great work
I have an interest but I want him to move first. How can I make him feel comfortable to say something?
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Does that mean their very sexual?telling u everything u want to hear n very open abt how much he wants u?
Does that mean he needs u?