3 years LDR, they finally met and now live together. Here's the story
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4 Reasons Why I STOP Dating Filipina’s
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all about money. nothing less. nothing more.
All romantic relationships are based on money.
One thousand percent correct!!!!!!!
Wow, this is one of the best connections I’ve seen. Best of luck to your both
Yeah no doubt about it
Every single relationship in the world is transactional in at least one, if not several ways. Everyone worried about these relationships, he's using her, she's using him. Well yeah, no ship Sherlock. People the same age in relationships are using each other to meet their needs. Go bother them. It's hard enough to meet someone with any qualities at all. How much value do you think this guy has in the US dating market these days??? About ZERO??? In that country he has much value. I know, it somehow hurts complete strangers to see this guy happy and they want him to get his ass back to the US and be miserable and alone like he deserves!!!!! Right? And yes, I'm in an age gap relationship and I'm staring happiness in the face every day and I can barely stand it. 2023 I had ZERO DATES. Late November I meet her and it was an instant connection. Spent 5 weeks with her so far and can't wait to be with her permanently.
It will be no coincidence that they will be province girls..the cultural difference is massive here in the phil’s. You will be seen as a walking atm ..plus don’t think it’s really accepted and it’s not. The westerners mixing in these circles mix together and mostly in there little bubbles, and have no idea about wider Filipino society as they mix with the very poor. That comes again with a certain attitude you’ll need to adjust too.
@@Eric-qm5xw My girl was from Cebu City, and never asked me for money and after 12 years of marriage has never asked me for money. Her and her siblings help support their family in Cebu. While it does happen that Filipina girls will use you for an atm, it would be the guys fault for letting them because obviously she is not the right girl for them. Plenty of good women to meet in the Philippines, please stop with the fear mongering.
So...go over meet a young women who you could be a grandfather to and be her be her sugar daddy & she will be your "lover"? It's gross...
@@jsully4064 It’s the old guys simply taking advantage of the young poor girls, it’s no coincidence that 99% of the Filipina are uneducated and poor hence you may encounter problems. I don’t blame the women to a certain extent they are struggling to survive. Ps I live in the phil’s.
@TomSnout333 Well, Tom Snot, you're entitled to your own worthless opinion. 8 billion people in the world and the biggest thing you worry about is two consenting grown adults in a relationship on the other side of the world. Don't worry about human trafficking, the sex slave industry, pedophiles going after minors. Nope, you worry about two complete strangers because they're different ages. I think you're going to find true gross in the mirror.
It's a win for both...she gets a stable, reliable man that provides, protects, and won't play the field, and he gets loved and cared for like no man over here gets!
Well said
Nice perspective 👍👍
It's only a win win if he leaves her in a good position when he dies. Otherwise he ruining her chances of finding a real relationship during her prime years
@@tonyoglesby3337 Agreed, and to me that is part of the providing and protecting. Also, I see many older ones also finding men. With the respect, love and ageless beauty they have, there really isn't an expiration age there like there is in the USA.
@@tonyoglesby3337 good point. Actually, the fundamental one. Such women are going to have a very long time (half their life or more) without the man they were with.
Many may not like an age gap relationship, so they're free to date someone their own age, but these two people in the video are OK with an age gap relationship and they're the ones who are in the relationship so those are the only two opinions that count
Who are you?
@@SlimGlynn1 Who are you?
Yes who's business is it other than them
We miss your channel. You need to get back in the saddle.
OMG!!! It’s him…it’s the ONE, the ONLY, Scotty Boy…My favorite UA-cam vlogger who keeps me in rolling on the floor. I have entered UA-cam rehab to deal with the two weeks of withdrawals symptoms.
True love ? not up to us to judge. The question rather is: what is the alternative? ending up in a nursing home, alone?
Insightful.
Whom cares. Take for what it is worth.
Most dont end up in nurseing home unless your broke butt
He doesn’t look to healthy for his age!
@@stevesilver7437 He looks a older for his age but hey.....more importantly, he looks HAPPY. haha
America wants old people to give up and go away. But other cultures value older men for their experience, accomplishments, and wisdom. As a young woman from Ghana once told me, "an older man has the wisdom to teach the children."
IKR
Soylent Green
so well said man!!!!!!!
They value them for the $ plain and simple, nothing wrong with that, better than the nursing home in the US😂
@@Locum-ms6gd it's an ignorant knee jerk reaction. real men are happy for one another, and celebrate each others wins.
Shes playing the long game,By the looks of it ,probably wont take that long,such desperate men!
I usually don't judge but this should not be accepted. This Guy Had his whole life for a good relationship & to prey on a barely over 18 girl who barely experienced any of the world there is no excuse for why these two should be pair'd together. Who is Gonna be there in her Future in 20years?! Not being rude but it is extremely inappropriate to see.
It's a win-win situation. She will have comfort including financial, mature men tend to less cheat, or "test more waters" so less headache, she's okay. For the mature guy he will have a lover, a carer, a maid, a companion. Win - win.
Myself I wouldn't date unless the guy is 62 and up.
Gross
It’s not a win to be in a situation wherein you are primed for domestic violence and coercive control via financial exploitation and an inherent power discrepancy. Mature (aka geriatric) men don’t cheat any less, especially since transactional relationships of this nature are entered into by entitled men who want control and an upper hand, you’re not seen or treated as an equal. You have to wonder about the ages of the people they are likely to be exploiting on the side. Beware all, the risks are incredibly high! You’re delusional, naive and male losers like this see you as disposable
@Airbzyt709 there's always an exception to the rule. We don't live in a fairytale world. We are delusional if we think we are.
@@Airbzyt709 peace
In her position I couldn't care less if he cheated - its like paying a cleaner to clean your home - saves you from doing the drudgery.
************OHHHH YOU GET THAT GRANDPA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ******* YOU OLD ENOUGH TO BE HER GRAND DAD *** DUDE IF YOU HAD NO MONEY SHE WOULD NOT EVEN LOOK AT YOU *
Oh WOW. I get the age gaps relationships. But come on - 21. Still a kid, I am same age as him and have 2 grand kids older than her
I decided not to watch after making comment as I just feel I would be condoning her being 21as OK
At 21 you can drink, drive and kill for your country. What age did you consider yourself grown?
@@josephbranch2342 certainly no 21. Body is not fully matured until mid to late 20s.
They "met" when she was 17/18. He has been grooming her for 3 years. To me he is a small step away from being a kiddie fiddler.
She is a kid, when compared to +60s guy.
It's perverse
@@ReadySetGo113 Its not up to you though is it?
@@jsully4064 nor you. I blame her parents for "selling her" and the "man" for not showing maturity and morales by grooming a 17/18 yo child. She is just an innocent child.
@@ReadySetGo113 Understand. It is not something I would do (my Filipina wife was 35 when we met) I can control myself though and not judge others.
He’s 66?
EXACTLY!!! 75-80 IMHO
73 going on 66
No flipping way he is 66
Some people do not age well
80
That's so cute, happy for him. If it works or not, the time they've been together is a blessing.
Nothing lasts forever
@@briannichols4856 tax laws 😜
Don’t show this vid to the women of the West.. Their heads will explode 😂
Wow, 45 years difference... A lot... For me even uncomfortable to see them together... Yes, the girls there is so poor, they want to escape they life with doesn't matter who...
A very crazy story, A huge Age Gap. It must be about the money? $$
The Philippines - where grandpa-granddaughter age gaps are perfectly acceptable.
I am 61 and moving to the Philippines next month, haven't looked for a GF. If it happens it will not be with a young woman. She would have to be at least in her 40s and fun to be with. What is driving me to move there is inflation and the horrible divide in our country.
For me a filipina wife who dont like high cost of living happy wife happy life the best reason to move there inflaction is worldwide including philippines. Nothing to do with political division im all Democrat
I'm in a similar situation about a year behind you and thought the same thing. The problem is finding a Filipino in her 40's or 50's that is not married. Divorce is very difficult, lengthy (5 to 10 years), expensive to impossible in the Philippines plus if you're a foreigner and sleeping with a married woman its a crime. "When" her ex finds out you could be blackmailed for $10,000, $30,000 or more and doesn't matter if they've been separated for 20 years because in their law she is still married to him. And he "will" find out because all of these villages and families are so closely connected. That's the problem of finding an attractive Filipino in her 40's or 50's because if she's ever been married before there's about a 99% chance she's still married. Divorce is that difficult in the Philippines. That max help explain why you see a lot of the expats with younger women. Many would prefer a 40 or 50 year old but its like trying to find a needle in a haystack or risk being blackmailed or jailed.
USA has always had a political divide, nothing has changed. I clearly remember the Lyndon Bains Johnson years and the only thing that is different is that we did not have the internet and twenty four hour news back then. Everyone has the option of turning this crap off. I also clearly remember the double digit inflation, interest rates and unemployment rates of the Jimmy Carter years. In comparison, things are much better now. I live in a major midwestern city ( not Chicago ) and myself and all of my friends live solely from Social Security including entertainment costs , We use our savings only for traveling and gifting. You may wish to consider loading up a U Haul and relocating . I am coming to Philippines for three months a year because Florida gets too crowded during the snowbird months.
@@franciscoaguilar123 you are so wrong. There are plenty of filipinas in their 40's who are not married, some has kids and some not like my sister in law who is already 50+. There is no divorce in the PH, your marrige can only be annulled and for a foreigner its not that expensive, just 300-400k peso.
@@douglasmichel1000 I'm in Colorado where homes are crazy expensive and no way to retire here. So I will relocate before moving and buy a cheap home next to family in Texas. That way I have a place to visit or come back if I don't like SE Asia or need to move back for any reason such as medical. Best of both worlds.
IT'S SICK. He looks so old and she looks so young.
I wish them the best in their 40+ year age gap relationship. I am 60 and have been in an LDR with a 40 year old Filipina for 3 years and have visited her in person once per year. We don’t feel the 20 year age gap when we are together. But, Filipinos notice it and have commented about it, occasionally. I plan to bring her to the USA where we are likely to get even more comments about the age gap.
If you were to hang out with friends her age that will be the test of whether they feel you fit in
Not to take away from this guys happiness . He looks so happy with her I would be too ! Yet any foreigner especially any guy over 50 thinking you courted a young girl with your charisma . Get real it’s her in survival mode and you are her way to a comfortable life .
@GiVan Get real, you can't possibly know what mode she is in. Yes she is accepting of him because of the security he offers but do you think if he was an azz they would still be together? Hard to say but I doubt it. All females look for either physical security or financial security in a partner. No different in the west, look at your relationship, its the same. Girls look for physical strength or financial strength.
It's really sad to know if this man didn't have the financials she would've left him
@@DOwOInvisibilia Well you really shouldn't go to the Philippines without having the financials...just sayin
@@jsully4064 disagree. Most women here in the west are financially secure & have good jobs. There is no comparrison. This IS a "you have money situation". He will pay not only her way, but that of he whole family. Once the well runs dry, and it weill, he will be out.
@@TomSnout333 He is not in the west though, and who says he is paying to support the family, that does not happen all the time
Credit to them for discussing this. Excellent interview style -- knew just when to lightly direct the flow, as when you helped them to frame the ring as relationship confidence event.
Thanks for that comment I appreciate it, glad you enjoyed
40 year age gap will just become more challenging over the years . 21yo filipina will grow up and you will be an old man. Good luck and I wish you both well. I know - I have been here.
He already looks like an old man. I'll be 70 in a few months and he has way more wriggles on his face than I do at almost 70. You said there is a 40 yr age gap? So he told her he is 61? I'm not buying that for a minute. He's mostly likely in his late 60''s or at least he looks it.
@@danielhackney7806 agreed, thats closer to a 50 year age gap than 40. She is banking on him being old , rich, and dying soon.
She will be a wealthy widow
@@livethemoment5148 speak for yourself please. Maybe she likes taking care of people. But in case you have a greedy mind you assume all people think the same?
@@jims3114 She's getting a JACKPOT!!! 4 M's...Matandang Mayaman(with $$$) Madaling Mamatay!That's their GOAL!
Hope them the best but too much age difference will eventually have an effect.
I can only speak to what I see when I'm around them and that is one cool fun couple to be around nothing but laughing and good to each other. Thanks for watching and commenting I appreciate it :)
That's not always been the case. See my comment on top. Regarding a close family of ours coming from a well off family in Cebu. Married to an Australian with around 25 years age gap.
Me thinketh great just would really like to hear these., older gentlemen calling their supposed partners by their name instead of referring to them as........she!@!?😉🤑🤪
I have a twelve yr age difference with my Filipina (37 and 49) and I’m barely comfortable with the age gap.
Although, I firmly believe adults can make their own decisions in life.
What the heck....I met a California chick at 35yo when she was 19yo and it was great! Ended up marrying her and we now have 2 American kids. Yes we are both American.
If hes 66, i must be 36. No way he is that age. Maybe 76
Well I'm sure she views him as her sugar daddy. I say that because every Filipina I have seen on UA-cam thinks foreigner's are RICH. Even if this guy only has monthly SS payments that's enough in the Phil's. There sure isn't any downside for her being with him. It might be love, but NOT the kind most younger people have which is puppy love. You know that feeling you get in your gut. Hers is probably a more practically minded love, which in my opinion is better for the long run. But at his age who knows how long he has.
Scratch the surface and your in a quagmire when ya encounter the real province attitude to these relationships..and I’m not just talking the obvious monetary benefits.
If they are so well connected, how come my boi hasn't married her yet? Just saying. I am curious what his children back home feel about their dad?
Don't be judgemental. I'm a Filipino. Had a family neighbor and childhood friend. Came from a well off family here in Cebu. In short there not poor. Way back then I notice her she likes to have a relationship with an older guys even Filipinos themselves. I happen to ask her. Why is it like that. Your not that desperate for a relationship. Your young, educated came from a family of well off in the province. The one thing she always says to me is she like older guys for maturity, sencerity and sense of compatability for her. I short she marries an Australian with around 25 years age gap. The family and kids of Australian taught she only wants their dad for financial security. So when it happen they visited their dad in Cebu. OMG Surprise surprise. They wasn't expected how well off the family of the girl. The moment they landed on the airport. They were fetch up with 2 SUV from the girl family. A d having dinner to meet the whole bunch of the family. For sure a lot of people notice right away their reaction that seems says it all. They were wrong. 😅😅😅. Till now they were happy married coming back and forth to Cebu. I happen to talk with the family of my friend. Telling me and reminding my friend don't ever ask something financial to your hubby. Fir his her hubby himself knows that. Last year they had there 15 year marriage anniversary....
Thanks for leaving that comment I appreciate it
Thanks for your comment and it's a great story. Yes people can be so judgemental. There are so many relationships at same age which are superficial , loveless and even violent. If there is a caring relationship I think an age gap is fine. I must say 40y is a lot and 25y you mention already sound a lot less and 20-15 y even more doable. But yes let us not judge others (so easily without knowing the facts ).
Whoa.....to be honest, I never heard a tale like this before. Good stuff....
@@alals6794 A 25 year age gap is very different from a 50 year age gap…very different.
Yeah your right I have a leave in partner we are the same age and we always argue he always wants to talk about I said what for we don't have any problem he yes we have problem I said I don't have any problems he's always blaming me about even its not fault that's why I prepare to have a BF older than me. I am 52 yrs old now
There's levels to this game and they are level 2. Not the worst, because they have some chemistry. But the typical bar girl and pensioner arrangement. Nothing wrong with that, but not the best basis from which to advise others.
In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is the king. I’m all supportive of the age gap relationship but this is questionable.
I’m 65 and many of my friends. Chad I think there is closer to 50 yrs gap
By surface observation only, it doesn’t fail to cross my mind how striking the age gap is here…
However, the metric is HER happiness or not. Being the younger (more “impressionable and vulnerable”) one in this pairing, the ONLY thing that matters is what these two think and feel, with emphasis leaning towards her.
Watching them, there is no way to judge their choices and their life together. The ONLY ones who may actually weigh in at all on their relationship is her family… and it seems, given the REALITIES of the world today and the obvious care and resources he provides to their daughter, I’m sure they are more than fine with their daughter being respected AND cared for!! And that’s the bottom line.
What I see is a man who was likely beaten up and fed up of the ubiquity of snotty, difficult American women and decided that he STILL had plenty to give and offer for the simplicity of having joyful companionship. Men’s needs are so much simpler and easier to please than women’s. This is a perfect example of this truth. And one truth about men is that we DO appreciate the beauty of youth/youthfulness. That’s a hardwire in us. Just like a hardwire in women is looking to a man for resources… money, stability, protection, care… the feminist movement can claim all they want but the base realities are these.
Western societies are living with profound levels of mental illness… of ALL sorts and levels. So let’s note; nobody can claim ANY sort of mental illness in these two… every sign is to the contrary.
And anybody who misses that very last point needs to do some of their own reflecting upon their biases and how they think because there is not so much love in the world that we just throw it away when it is available.
Good luck to them. I suppose the one unknown quantity we don't know here is how much is he substituting her family. It wasn't asked so maybe nothing, but guys need to be realistic about age gap relationships like this. There's often a price to pay in some form or another.
This dude is very naive.
This girl is only for survival not for love.
Hard to believe he is only 5 years older than Tom Cruise.
Guy looks 75
@@perrykomick9478 At least. LOL!
Most of my filipina friends that have big age gap with their spouse change over time specifically when they are already in the US.80 percent filled for divorce but some are still with their spouse living miserably.But if they stay in the Philippines they are more happy for some reason 😀.Just my opinion and i respect peoples choice.
no smart man brings a beautiful fish back to a dirty pond (the US).
That is opposite of my Filipina wifes, Filipina friends. Only one of them I know of that got divorced. She has an Indonesian friend who got divorced but the guy was cheating on her and moved out of her house and left her with 2 children. Yes divorce happens but it may not be because of the Filipina, but maybe because of the azzhole they married.
All I can say is good luck 🤞
I think an age gap of 20, even 30yrs is fine, but not if the guy looks his elderly age, like this guy being interviewed. Sorry mate but next to this 21yo. girl, criiiiiiingey....he's better suited to a 40yo.+ Pilipina🤔
Yeah this seems creepy because he started grooming her when she was in her late teens. And he's lying about being in his mid-60s. He's much older.
this is so wrong lmao. pure transactional companionship, not a relationship.
It's all about your Peso-nality! =)
🤣🤣🤣🤣…and I thought it was like his Robert Redford looks.
Good. Poor guys should have less options.
66 and 21. He could be her grandfathter, but this is also possible. Would like to see how this bond will play out in the coming years, so we can learn from this Power Couple.
Hi Chad we enjoy your videos it's been a minute since we left the comment.. they never ever talk about the age Gap that just made us laugh fall off the couch... He's in a honeymoon phase right now in his life.. I'll be married 5 decades to the same Filipina in 2 years... Lived solid in the Philippines for 5... In-N-Out for three decades in the military.. Filipinos talk, Filipinas talk how about large age Gap couples give us a break you know this Chad... It's our opinion and our experience that's it... If they're happy power to them.. we request Chad an update on the 81-year-old I believe his name was Jerry see how he's doing?? That was a great video.. Jerry will never forget the help you gave him in his life.. well done!!... Look brother, there you are Chad picture this Chad, you're in a hotel room you are 21 years old.. out of the bathroom comes a 68 year old female wrapped in a towel with wet hair just showered... She walks up to you by your bed and drops her towel.. give me a break give us a break people.. I wish people would be more honest more honest about age Gap relationships of 40 plus years everybody knows why a man would go after a younger woman that's no secret that's common sense... It doesn't have to be a brain science to figure out why a woman would be with a man 40 plus years her senior??? I'm just being a 100% honest my wife and I brother.. love your videos I'm glad the channel is doing well..I hope anyone reads this comment doesn't take it personal it's just our opinion I hope they're happy and they both have a long relationship all right Chad..
Interesting....so what age gap(s) do you like?
@@alals6794 my friend I just was commenting how we felt about the situation I feel we're educated and experienced in it during our life almost 50 years... I hope they're very happy.. I just left a comment when I heard him say oh we never talked about ever the age Gap never neither one of us.. that's baloney that's all brother.. I don't care if you're 20 and the guy is 90 as long as they're happy and not hurting anybody I don't care but when I watch your channel if somebody says something I'm going to comment it's all good no disrespect..
No laws being broken, but still creepy af. In your 60's scouring the dating apps for 18 yo's?
Wonder if he is a Ped$?
Yo, by surface observation only, this doesn’t fail to cross my own mind…
However, the metric for creepy is HER happiness or not. Being the younger (more “impressionable and vulnerable”) one in this pairing, the ONLY thing that matters is what these two think and feel, with the emphasis leaning towards her.
Watching them, there is no way to judge their choices and their life together. The ONLY ones who may actually weigh in at all on their relationship is her family… and it seems, given the REALITIES of the world today and the obvious care and resources he provides to their daughter, I’m sure they are more than fine with their daughter being respected AND cared for!! And that’s the bottom line.
What I see is a man who was likely beaten up and fed up of the ubiquity of snotty, difficult American women and decided that he STILL had plenty to give and offer for the simplicity of having joyful companionship. Men’s needs are so much simpler and easier to please than women’s. This is a perfect example of this truth. And one truth about men is that we DO appreciate the beauty of youth/youthfulness. That’s a hardwire in us. Just like a hardwire in women is looking to a man for resources… money, stability, protection, care… the feminist movement can claim all they want but the base realities are these. *Western societies are living with profound levels of mental illness… of ALL sorts and levels. And, I’m not seeing ANY sort of mental illness in these two.
And anybody who misses that very last point needs to do some of their own reflecting upon their biases and how they think because their is not so much love in the world that we just throw it away when it is available.
@@Torrque well said
@@Torrque So funny when people write dissertations thinking they're saying something profound when in fact it's just words covering for creepy behavior.
@scalper68 Hey if you can't beat 'em..join 'em! lol
Good luck to them.
Hopefully has a long retirement and they both get to have alot of fun.
And seriously who wouldn't want to spend time with a little cutie🙂👍
100% man, true
As old asa grand daughter?
Yep and if he's happy who cares 😅😅😅
True love LMAO
Agree
These old guys ..have zero in common with these province girls apart from the dough.
Win Win situation and more power to the both of them. He gets what he wants and she gets what she wants. Thank God for the Philippines that older guys can find true happiness. I saw an old guy in the USA who has a channel sitting down in his chair and he is sooooooo lonely, nothing to do and waiting to die. He's getting depressed, sick, lonely with nothing to do. I wrote him saying come to the Philippines and your life will change so much for the better. Some guys don't want to take that chance on getting out of their zone, that they would rather die. It was 5 days ago that I left a message on his channel and he never did get back to me. I'm retired in Cebu City and married to a filipina.
This guy is an OG I didn't agree with everything because every situation is different. But he was giving knowledge on how to be precautious and learn the signals of being played or not. thanks for the vid
Walking 🏧 🤭
I hear a scam
Everybody says this until the girl is having the man’s children and setting off into the sunset
MARRY GRAND PAPA FOR MONEY AND EZ LIFE PERIOD..🤣 He is WAY TO OLD AND UNACTRACTIVE TO FIND GENUINE LOVE IN A YOUNG WOMAN
I Don’t trust her hahahaha 😂
so i met this girl on christian filipina shes sweet never ask me for money and i sent her money she never refused it.....i have a ticket to go to be with her in july......she video chats some but not daily.....im just wondering how commited she is.
, , , speaking from personal experience, over FIVE YEARS Researching different dating websites, also communicating, LEARNING FROM HUNDREDS OF DIFFERENT PEOPLE MISTAKES AND SCAMS, , , BOTTOM LINE IS YOU HAVE TO DO YOUR DILIGENT HOMEWORK TO FIGURE OUT WHO IS HONEST AND WHAT IS A SCAM, , , SINCE YOU ARE PROBABLY SENDING ENOUGH PESOS TO COVER HER CELLPHONE DATA AND OTHER EXPENSES FOR HER, IS NOT DIFFICULT FOR AN HONEST GIRL/WOMAN TO SPEAK WITH YOU FOR A FEW MINUTES PER AVERAGE NIGHT/DAY TO SHOW SOME TYPE OF APPRECIATION FOR YOUR FINANCIAL HELP, , , USUALLY THE FIRST "RED-FLAG" WARNING IS WHEN YOU START QUESTIONING HER "COMMITMENT" OR THEY ARE TOO "BUSY" TO SPEAK WITH YOU FOR A FEW MINUTES ? ? ? , , , YOU PROBABLY HEARD ANCIENT PROVERB THAT SAY, , , THEIR ACTIONS ALWAYS SPEAK MUCH MORE LOUDER THAN WORDS, , , Hope This Message Help You Find Right Honest Most Compatible Partner, , , Cheers, , ,
I don't even video chat with my wife daily but if I wanted she'd do it for sure. I just don't have time because of long workdays. We video chat thrice or more a week.
@johnevans8328 She may be being cautious, she may not be sure if you are the right one for her. Am sure she would hate it if you found someone else who liked to video chat every day, but she get over it eventually. Not every girl you meet online is going to jump on the bandwagon just because you think she should.
Its very hard to know if she is the right girl until you meet them in person. Is she sharing her social media with you like facebook? If so then she just may be hesitant until she meets you in person. Can't really say how committed to you that she is with only 2 sentences of feedback but you will have a good idea once you meet her. Just watch for the red flags and don't drop your guard. You can meet her somewhere out side of the airport if you are not sure about her. Good Luck!
Wow! NBSB 😇 I hope he leaves a nice set-up for her and her family when he gets too old for this or passes. That's what I would do anyway.
I kind of believe this story. The vibe is real. I'm doing on-line and I think it's easier to get a connection with the very young 18-23 than the 30 somethings gals. Perhaps it's just the clock as those older gals are realizing the chance to start a family is paramount to security or just to play with an old guy. I don't know. Just guessing.
I am in a similar age gap relationship 62::28. My family is concerned about this age gap, reason being " gold digger". I tried to explain to them that actually older women are more prone to be gold diggers as they dont have time on their side. Younger women make great wives, because they can be molded to the mans lifestyle. Older women are more set in their ways, they have also experienced a lot in their lives, so compared to a younger woman its more difficult to get appreciation and genuine happiness.
Yes I am the provider, she benefits from that, but i am more than happy to see her smile, keep a clean and neat house, cook healthy food and have a young sexy woman in bed. The only people who wont like what I say are older women and men who are in relationships, that dont have nuts.
Well said sir.
Everyone’s judgment is subjective rubbish. Proof: How old can a man be and it still be acceptable to date a 20 YO female? Why not 1 day older? One month older? 6 mo? 1 Yr? 2,5,10,20…Yr? Furthermore, all relationships have some age gap. What is the minimum gap that you still feel is creepy? Now explain why 1 day less isn’t creepy. You don’t need to answer me. This is for you to think about in the privacy of your mind. Ask yourself why you believe something you can’t logically support.
Wow really what if there is no money involved with that simple minded province Filipina?
Always connected like a grandpa and grand daughter +
So, he's not marrying this girl..? (he sent her a ring when they were online before they met.. how come there is no engagement ring now..?).
These filipinas value security above most things, and I'm sure her father would want to know this much older man is giving her that, and into the future.
The future is the problem for relationships like this. This young woman will be facing many years without this man, years of which will be the prime of her life. One assumes she will re-marry. But to who..? I doubt she will want a filipino partner afterwards..
It would be interesting for a study to be done on what happens to the filipinas after their much-older Western partner dies. One assumes she is provided for by a partner's Will, but it would be interesting to know what they go on to do with their lives, and most importantly, what kind of intimate relationships they go on to have. These big age-gap relationships seem wonderful, but, in the end, it looks like it could be pretty hard on the women. Yes, they've had a few good years living well (far beyond what they could have imagined), but the 'come down' following the loss of their partners must be hard for some (on top of the grief of loss, which must be extremely difficult on its own - they've lost a father as well as a partner..).
Very interesting as I work with 5 people(men & women) who have found their wife or husband there. The 3 girls I work with are from there & based on what I see are the most loyal private good working people I've met. The guys are just normal middle-class guys ranging in age.
I find this is amazing as a normal middle-class guy can actually find someone who isn't a multi millionaire.
Thank you for the videos, as it gives me hope seeing the success stories firsthand.
$ugar Daddies and $pice and all things rice.
Oh wow Im 37 and my husband is 41 he’s British I would joke and call him old man 😂 the 😺cat got my tongue now 🫤
Why not ask in the interview how this flies with his kids and family in the USA?
@Matthew-gz4oh Sounds personal and possibly Chad did but its none of our business if he doesn't want to share, Ron doesn't have to. Chad can not make him answer questions or no one would want to do interviews with him. Wake up dude!
@@jsully4064 Just an opinion dude! Thats's what yours is as well dudette, so wake up!
Do they still have to sponsor a foreign person for ten years❓🚩. I bet if he brings her home, it will change. My experience as a court reporter in family law. $$ goes home, smoking starts, interest in other men abounds. Sorry I’ve seen the WCS. Silver❓🚩
This is a good guy and a good relationship. I like him and this video.
No disrespect, but he looks a lot older than 66!
You just did, lol
My wife and I been together for 18 years now. Our gap is only 10.5 years. But for this couple, their happy, so good for them. No one else's business if they don't approve.
She looks happy but age gap does cause some problems obviously mortality..he will be gone long before her and she will be left alone.
What about kids does she want and can he give or is he even willing to give so many serious questions left unanswered.
They have talked about it and are open to having kids
Don’t think the Filipina don’t see the obvious..when ya have scandalous things like selling babies/sex trafficking..banging an old guy for monetary gain is a easy option.
@timhnc75 A lot of those questions sound pretty personal and they may have not wanted to answer them on video. Not every comment or question is put on these videos.
As far as how she is going to be when he is gone, a good man will try to leave her a nest egg or a house to his wife so she may carry on without him, and possibly help with kids if she has them. That will be up to him and in time he may do that. Wouldn't expect him to just give everything to her right away.
Recently there was an article in the New York Times that said young single men in the US earning less than 40 thousand dollars a year were more likely unable to get a date that led to a relationship, so I'm sick of hearing foriegners relationships in the Philippines are purely transactional, they all are 😊
One of your best interviews Chad.
Nice Job! 👍👍
If they have kids who's going to take care of the kids after he's gone? Where is the money going to come from to take care of the kids?
He’s too old, it would be cruel to any potential children but he seems selfish so wouldn’t put it past him. Sperm starts degrading deleteriously when males are 33, causing birth defects and deformities
Brilliant Story Chad. I'm in a very similar situation but not such a big age gap. Ron is TOTALLY right, follow your heart, get off the fence. Thanks so much for this interview.
Great interview Chad.
I'm in an AGR. we are happy, and engaged. the critics are ignorant, prejudiced, jealous, and scared to do anything with their lives. if the older man has half a brain, some life experience, charisma & personality, and some SMV besides his money, it's very easy to know what is real.
any "man" that looks down on this man is not a member of the tribe of men. this man is living the dream. most good, real, men are happy for this man, as they should be!!
If its what they want then whatever. Not my cup of tea. Im 50 and want a mature 30 plus. Have no time to teach/train someone. Npt looking to spend 20 more yrs raising kids. If she has some im cool as long as they are gone at 18
She’s very sweet 😊
Good video and nice to hear From Lyn and Ron. Am glad their relationship worked out for them. Thank you, Chad...Jim
Living your best life!
So she was 18 and he was 63 😮 sorry but that's too much Chad
Imagine the ages he’s exploiting on the side. He’s disgusting and she’s delusional and naive
Yeah the geezer began grooming her when she was 18. He looks to be pushing 80. Creepy af. If she was from a well to do family and had education and career prospects, she wouldn't hook up with great grandpa.
Beats dying in usa with a old nagging lady and poor healthcare
What a great story
You guys taking all single ladies
At least choose single moms
This is like david vs Goliath compitation
@AtongZales143 Why should we choose single moms? My wife had never had kids before I met her and she was 37.
I'm 66 and looking at just about the same thing chasing me down. I personally know Filipinas who moved here to the states and are extremely loyal in their large age gap relationships , and they're the ones trying to fix me up. I'm far from over the hill and still climbing.
Nice to know that he understand his girl needy side as woman 🥰
Obviously, he does not have her best interest at heart by not talking about the age gap. He must be looking it as a short-term situation. Iit does have long-term consequences.
i now this sounds harsh but I think she is materialistic and is in love with being in love
MONEY MONEY MONEY AND TRAVEL TRAVEL TRAVEL
45 years difference good luck
Filipinos truly seem to live in the moment. Good on ‘em.
Stay there if want this to keep going,🚩🚩🚩 please protect yourself.
Attracted and aroused are two different things
Sixty-six? Sixty-six? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? How about 75-80?
I'm leaning more towards 80.
He’s much older than 66
If he is 66, he’s got the trashiest of trashy diets
Yeah I reckon easy 75
Yup, he is a liar, he is way older than 66🙄
Ron & Reunalyn, CONGRATS YOU DID IT ♥
Its true love 😅
So she was 16/17 when talking online?
It's all fun and games until......
My man!!!! It’s all on the up and up and to hell with the nay sayers and the rest of the world. I see two happy consenting adults - others might have their opinions and that’s great, but they should not intervine with this couple and the way they feel about each other. I’m happy for these two and wish nothing but the best for them. Sana all ….