The Ultimate People Skills: "Positive Projection"
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- Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
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How do you develop extraordinary people skills? Try a strategy called “Positive Projection,” which is about mindfully exuding positive energy toward others. Here’s how:
1. Honor Others’ Struggle. You feel people around you don’t know how hard you really work and how much you have to deal with, right? Well, that feeling is exactly the feeling other people have, all the time! But we forget that. We don’t see how much others struggle, which is why we forget to be kind and patient. If you want to be extraordinary with people, keep in mind everyone is dealing with difficulty and you will be a more compassionate and supportive person, which is the kind of person everyone wants to be around.
2. Take Enthusiastic Interest. Become fascinated with others. Take active and enthusiastic interest; ask about their interests, desires, fears, and dreams. When you know others’ values and passions, it’s easier to be positive with them. When you know and champion others, you yourself become fascinating and interesting.
3. Don’t Mirror Bad Energy. If you pick up on the overall energy of the masses, though, you will find that it is a dissipated and disgruntled energy, which in turn can make you feel stressed, judgmental and negative. Emotions and energy is contagious. So, be someone who is willing the energy you want to experience in the world. Choose to generate positivity and give that gift to the world.
4. Send Well Wishes. When I pass by others, I often look at them and in my mind say, “I wish you joy, abundance, health and love.” They might not know what’s on my mind, but they can literally feel good intent coming from me and a positive aura being directed to them. Try it. Just send positive thoughts and well wishes to others. They will feel great around you.
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Brendon Burchard is one of the most watched personal development trainers in the world, and a Top 100 Most Followed Public Figure on Facebook. Over 50,000,000 people watched his videos in the last 12 months, more than 30,000,000 see his posts every week on Facebook, and 600,000-plus students have completed his online courses or video series, making him one of the most successful online instructors in history. A #1 New York Times, #1 Wall Street Journal, and #1 USA Today bestselling author, his books include The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket. Brendon is also the star and executive producer of the #1 self-help solo series on UA-cam, and his podcast The Charged Life debuted at #1 on iTunes.
After suffering depression and surviving a car accident at the age of 19, Brendon began asking himself important life questions: “Did I truly live today? Did I love? Did I matter?” His intention to be happy with the answers led to his breakthrough and life's work helping others “live a fully charged life.” By the age of 32, he became a #1 bestselling author and a multimillionaire as an early pioneer in the online education space. Since then, he has dedicated his life to helping others find their charge, deepen their motivation and strength, and share their true voice with the world.
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I believe it's about building an ecology of positive emotion. Meaning cultivating an environment that is inspiring, having friends that are in alignment with your higher goals, and creating habits that are positive. Then as the positive energy begins to naturally develop more and more, people will perceive it and respond to it. The power is within and meditation is what helped me cultivate more positive energy. Great video Brendon!
Just felt like you said it all .. Cheers!
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By projecting POSITIVITY in a GOOD ENERGY on other peope at ALL times, you're actually bringing buoyant positive energy into your relationships.
How do you do that?
1) Honoring people's struggle or hardship - not be judgemental/critical/teasing people/making enemy. Instead, choose to be kind, patient, joyful, bringing love, mindfulness, compassion, full presence, empathy, goodwill.
2) Taking ENTHUSIASTIC INTEREST in people - ask & get fascinated about their interest, desire, love of life, fears, worries, dreams, values, passion. Be their Cheerleader!
3) Don't mirror people's energy especially sadness, feeling bad or hurtful, pessimistic. Be a creator of what you're willing to be, not merely a reflector of others
4) Actively pray in silence when you see/meet people: "I Wish You Joy, Health & Love!", "I Wish You Joy, Health & Love!"
World, these are amazing thoughts that work wonders!!!
i believe my dog has this quality, sending good energy to those who cross our path: They smile to her, she even looks back toward them, to make sure the good feeling is still on! Love to you, Brendon
I feel like that I can project that positivity when I travel more, you start to appreciate everything and everyone more
I've been thinking about this when I travel. Does the new scenery influence me to let my overthinking go? Can we get to that level even when we don't travel?
Could you stop teaching me so much and making me cry at the same time?
Well, on second though, no, don't stop.
Absolutamente! ;)
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I cried too.. Ain't this just a wonderful human being? Brendon you're the best!
@D Master Who is "someone" that you are referring to ?
Brandon, I get a positive feeling once your new video pops up on my news feed, I know that I'm going to. learn something new, vibrant, and motivating. send you love, joy and happiness ♡ God Bless You
I know! I get a positive feeling too when I see his video pop up! Love his videos.
Ive been experiencing a new all-time low (which is saying a lot- I was a heroin addict for 10yrs, I've been homeless, and worse). Today I am clean, I live in a home w a long-term bf- but despite how much my life has turned around- im experiencing MORE stress!! I lost my job, my bf is saying we can't stay together if I dont have a job, I feel uncomfortable as ive gained some weight. I feel like I should be glad to simply be breathing as I have died before, literally, and was brought back- this happened many times. I want you to know I am binge-watching your videos (well, listening- cleaning house today)- but you have such a wonderful spirit and good advice as well. Lets see if I can turn some things around- it's worth a shot! I'll be visiting your website too. Really though, I just want to say Thank You for being there when I'm really struggling. I hope you're having a wonderful day!:)
How can anyone select down button on this..Brendon, A million thanks to you for these videos! You inspire me every time I feel down. Your voice has a magic that makes people listen to you! I started looking my life differently after I started watching your videos. I now know that I can do much more than what I am doing. I really wish to meet you in person in my life and thankyou.
"Jeez Brendon, I like being around you, even though you're weird"
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Thanks Brendan the world needs you! Positive vibes brother!
Thank you Brendon. You are a superstar. Every single word you say just hits something inside me. It hits deep, down my core. The positive energy you give out to the world is awe inspiring. Please don’t stop what you’re doing.
I just went through so much and I was negative for while now that I found your channel again I know that I’m starting to heal faster and be secure and positive again!! But this time with more confidence and strength!!
Love this video Brendon. I do that too, send people good vibes when I'm out. So agree with all you've said in this! Thank you for sharing.
I love what you have to say, Brendon Burchard. On hard days I listen to you and feel the "possibility" pour back into my soul! Thank you for all your hard work! Thank you!
thank you Brendon, for bringing me tears. it really doesn't matter how world is right now, but there is a consistant need in positive, loving, caring and helping people. Thank you
Where have you been all my life!? I am addicted to your videos! So many of the subjects you talk about have hit home for me. I have been struggling for years to change my life, be positive, and become successful. But, I honestly didn't know how. For the first time I feel like you are showing me how to be the person I desire and how to reach goals that 10 yrs ago I never would have dreamed of even trying to reach! Thank you and please don't stop what you are doing! I have been telling everyone I know about you...:)
Brendon Thank you once again for a wonderful insight! I am a huge fan and have been reading motivation manifesto and LOVING it. It has helped me beyond comprehension! Keep it up! You are a light to the world.
Sometimes, I prefer to rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. That's what empathy is for: to connect at a real and deep level. If I insisted on imposing my happy-happy energy upon everyone around me all the time, I'd feel like a superficial fake, indifferent to others' needs. Also, I go for depth with a few close people, rather than hundreds or thousands of fb "friends."
I'm really happy that I discovered your videos. I've been watching your videos for a few months now, and my life is getting so much better. Thank you so much for sharing all you know with us. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
man i love you, even if i had a bad day and didn't laughed for like 4 hours: if i watch one of your videos I'm smiling from the first to the last second and try to bring that positive energy you gave to me, to the people around me.
So much of everything you said resonates with ideals and vision I’ve had for several years!! It’s nuts how today people have lost touch with one another.
Some very good points, Brendon. Take an interest in people. Don't take on others' energies. Send them positive feelings. People are attracted to positivity. It seems curious that negative people are even more attracted, like moths to the light. Thanks for the encouragement and keep looking up!
Wow, finding this video on UA-cam is like striking gold. 🤩
This needs millions of views. I encourage you to share it. We could have a much better world
Brendon, you are my hero. No. Really. Thank you for inspiring me, for challenging me & speaking in a way that really helps me get it. Prayers for you and your family. God speed. Xo
Mr. Brendon Burchard, YOU Sir, are an awesome individual! thank you a lot for the videos!
you turn issues into joyful challenges. alchemy at its finest my friend
this is the best channel I've found on self improvement holy cow!
Thank you for your service Brendon! You matter to me. What I continue to learn from you is hands down....AMAZING! God bless you!
Thanks Brendon. It is the eternal struggle of human kind to focus outward, and have an "other" mentality. This is what our Creator wants for us, to minister to others and to do His Will.
The description of struggle explained in the first portion of this video really describes what has been going on with me at work lately. Thank you for the outlook change!
it's amazing, everytime i feel bad or pessimistic i watch some of your videos and somehow you can flip upside down my view of the world.
just thank you! keep it up, you're changing people's perspective
Dear Brendon, i know posting videos is a lot of work. I want thank you so much for still posting them. They are so helpful to me and i am sure to so many other people. Thank you !
Reflect what you want to see in the world. If you want to be around positive people, then you have to light up with positivity.
I've watched hundreds of your videos Brendon. In this one, I see you "at your inspiring best". Keep it up.
Brendon, you are a phenomenal human! I'm so grateful for your message! You are fascinating! I learn so much from you! Thank you for bring so much joy into the world! This world needs you!
So coming from someone who has been on the receiving end of this, and they were fascinated with me and kept asking questions about myself, most definitely did not make me feel like we were on a journey. It made me upset and feel as if they might be trying to gather information to use against me later. That, or me feeling like I didn’t deserve to open up like that. Not everyone feels the same when these types of conversations happen…
I needed this video today. I teared up watching because we need more humans like you, especially these days. The last part got me about saying positive thoughts to yourself about total strangers. Just what I was looking for and will start putting these tips into practice today! Thank you❤❤❤❤
I have watched u before...but at this point in my life your positivity is so helpful
you are awesome brendon !
I am living in small village of India and watching your videos every week. Thank you so much for your videos, i am learning lot of things from it.
You are best weird person, works for my life
All you say connect to my life,
Your ideas I practice it keeps me moving gives me a sense of relevant and happiness
Thank you brendon for your ideas
Thank you Sir!!! I've found your page at the exact moment I really need the great advice you have to give. Just starting a big new job, big new position..really need to stay focused on the positive. I have a feeling your videos are really going to help! Is it weird that listening to you feels like I'm wrapping my anxiety-ridden brain with a cozy blanket? Lol.. much gratitude to you.
Your words are so human. They touch my HEART and make me connect to the real humans! Thanks Brendon. You are a Saint. Period.
Thank you you are great. Sad at work / bus / train. I see so many people staring at smart phone or video game
completely disconnected from others. walking in front of incoming traffic , not paying attention
thank you for your tips brendon.
BB is one of the baddest dudes on the planet. A true role model.
You’re amazing Brendan. God bless you for your kind, thoughtful and wise words. Always!
Words truly cannot express how much I have changed after introducing Brendan's work into my life.
Beautiful message. Its very cliche to say that we must be nice to people and always be positive but sometimes we forget what other people are going through and overlook their situations. Its good to have a reminder of it every now and then. Made me feel really positive ❤️
Thank you so much Brendon for all the great life skills you share. I look forward to your videos every week:)
you're an amazing person....i really thank you a lot for bringing such wonderful thoughts of positivity more power.
thanks for making these videos brendon, I really enjoy watching these late at nights to draw inspiration. you are a light. p.s. live life fully, love openly and make your difference and joy health and love I'll remember for sure.
18yr old me Sometimes feels so much Lonely only because am weird!!
But your talk just cheered me up 'Thankyou♥️
1> respect and honour peoples struggle: everybody bleeding in their battle. thing how struggle ur doing in ur life think that they are going through the same kind of stuff.
2> Take enthusiastic interest in people. what is their desire? what scare of. Where they are been to. what is their Hobby?
3> when u pass someone with a eye contact and say in ur mind I wish joy, health and love. its work as mirror neuron
This is exactly what I've been trying to do for the past couple of months ! Great video showing how I can remain doing this even in my time of stress and anxiety. Wish you joy,health, and love :)
Share positive energy from within!!
Brendan you are a truly amazing human being, thank you for all you bring x
Excellent podcast. Cant wait to hear more
I am so glad I found this amazing video!! I loved it! Thank you so much!!
Nothing but great content time & time again. Thank you Brendon!!
Thank you Brandon - i needed to hear this. Looking forward for daily motivational snippets .
Brendon thanks for the awesome video. On the point about connecting eyes with strangers passing by, I have realised when we look at people we are looking at a mirror, it's a reflection of our own thoughts and our brain associates with these images... if we are being indifferent to others we are being indifferent to self.
I'm so glad I found your channel. Great videos made with such positivity and filled with great content. ✌️ Thank you!
By far one of my favorite video's of yours Brendon!
Thank you for sharing such great, daily affirmations to live by on a daily basis.
Brendon you are so amazing I am so blessed and grateful for you my brother and you are a great gift for this world
Great video Brendon. I always feel positive energy when I watch your videos! :)
You are Absolutely right... Thank you!!!
Absolutely Loved this video!
Thx. Amazing video ! Made my day ! Cheered me up in this grey Monday !
Hey Brendon! Thank you so much for all your effort in sharing your wisdom with us. You are one of my greatest motivators. I was wondering if you could make a video on: "How to help a loved one break free of the caged life". This would be so helpful and appreciated. God bless you, Brendon.
Excellent one Brendon. I will work at this. Thank You!
Thank you very much Brendon!!
Thank you 😊 for all your hard work
amazing video once again brendon, thanks for the positive vibes.
I love this so much, Brendon! And I totally feel that energy from you!
I've loved your words. They make sense for me. Thank you!
Invaluable, thank you for sharing 💙
I so love this! Thanks for bringing this into my reality! So true!!! Love it!
this really opened my eyes for 2016 and what my goals are going to be. thanks Brendon
You are a wonderful human being!
Thanks Brendon. You've been really inspiring.
Dude, you are just an amazing person. I can take this stuff to heart. Thanks.
Thank you! You have helped me so much, Brendon!
Open your heart to EVERYONE! Act people-pleasing and generous to everyone, even the 3-5% of the population who are sociopaths, who will see you as a target and who will subsequently abuse and manipulate you because you are a "kind, weak and easy" target for them to exploit.
fredocorleone I second that buddy. Just left a manipulator husband of 19 years and life is beginning now. I won't lose my open, honest compassion for people just because there are jerks out there. This is such a great reminder to positively project!
Great as always ..very helpful to remember! not to mirror others ..I need to put this in practice everyday
Great stuff Brendon!!
Hey Brendon! You just got yourself new subbie! Yaaaaaay! 🎉🎊🥳🍾
I am naturally boisterous and loud and with that I can start, continue and hold conversation. I am the typical people’s person and I know people love being around me, however what I noticed is that people tend to know more about me than I know about them (I know that’s bad 🙈, but at least I am aware) and which brings me to your second point. I don’t think I take general interest in other people as I should. I tend to be complacent with what other people voluntarily give me and not necessarily ask a lot in fear of being invasive. In as much as I have that personality, I am kinda private and I prefer people knowing me until a certain point so when people do ask me what I do believe is invasive I will politely say “Not to be rude or anything but I would prefer not to discuss that”. So with me being like that and having certain boundaries as to how far certain people, how then do you know that you taking interest in the person is not invasive. I really don’t like coming across as nosy or making anyone uncomfortable! How do I overcome my fear of being invasive so that I can be free to take genuine interest in people?
Thank you Brendon!
This is great! Needed this it's so hard to reach out and chasing our dreams and personal goals can make us very selfish in sometimes a more emotional way. It's been hard to reach out lately, but this has motivated me! Thanks Subscribed!
Love your work!
Inspirational! Thank you!
Great motivator! I utilize his advices in all my classes.
U r the best Brandon..your words is a reminder to all of us for being human
Thank you so much. This exactly what I needed to hear.
love this! your suggestion to genuinely wish others joy, happiness and love is the same idea that's behind the Islamic greeting of "Assalamu alaikum" which means: May God's peace and blessings be upon you :) Thank you, Brendon, for all that you do
Brendon, you're awesome. Your videos always put me in a great mood! :)
Great content Brendon!
That's great to say have the intention to imprint positivity on people.
Brendan, I’d love to see a video of how to effectively make a relationship with two differing love languages work and excel. Thank you for all you do! Your videos have truly changed me and my life! God bless you!
Love this: please be kind to anyone honestly never know what someone is going through and these small gestures can mean so much! Thanks!!