Worst Gifts Ideas by Enneagram Type
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Make your list, then check it twice - after watching this video! If you know the Enneagram Type of your gift recipient/s... BEWARE! There are things they do.not.want. The tips in this video came from YOU - via Instagram. If you're not following us over there... what's wrong with you? leeannandmichelle
Type 1 @01:28
Type 2 @02:50
Type 3 @04:15
Type 4 @04:40
Type 5 @06:02
Type 6 @06:31
Type 7 @07:02
Type 8 @07:25
Type 9 @08:03
Written and performed by Michelle Fortin
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Lemme explain why we 4 are so difficult to buy gifts for - ‘cause we want gifts to be MEANINGFUL. I always wonder what pp were thinking when getting the gift, and it’s just sad when apparently it was just like, “she needs a new vaccum, so there” lol. Much different than, “I saw this mug that says something funny that made me think of you.” I’m also convinced I can tell the gifter’s level of affection by their gift (no pressure 😆)
Hahaha see I’m like omg if I needed a vacuum and someone got me one, I’d be stoked 😆 (type 8)
I'm a 4 and this is true!
This is one of the reasons 4s also give some of the best gifts, in my experience. They put a lot of thought into it, it's usually something incredibly unique and/or handmade. The kinds of things you will literally never receive from anyone else.
This 4 agrees
I'm a 5, and I hate nothing more than cheap, cluttery knick knacks 😬. I actually like gift cards, practical things I actually needed, and low key experiences with my loved ones. I would rather be forgotten than get a bunch of random gifts that I will not use but will feel too guilty to donate lol.
This is my son (he's a Five). He wants what is on his list, as he has carefully curated the very few needs/wants that he has. Otherwise he'd rather have a check or a general gift card (like a Visa gift card). He doesn't want us to buy anything from soulless Amazon. And he hates getting random gifts because he is a minimalist and he doesn't want to feel guilty about owning something he DOES NOT WANT. (He is a young millennial -- 28 -- so absolutely fits that "minimalist" stereotype).
I'm a 5, and I'd prefer a gift card to a local book shop that has a cafe. Then leave me alone for a few hours :)
Oh I got you covered for 4 gifts!!
Some general 4 ideas: books you know they'll love, things that are too fancy to justify buying themselves, literally anything that made you think of them when you saw it, "extra" accessories related to their hobbies (patterned rolling pin, a set of unique crochet hooks, stationery items), tickets to a play/ballet/concert, etc., an experience you take them on where new surprises keep unfurling, anything you make yourself, artwork you commissioned for them, anything from an antique store or estate sale, anything you got on your travels. Think beauty, think special, think personal.
Some really specific 4 ideas: morse code jewelry that has a secret message only the wearer and gifter know, fridge word magnets with "emotions" words, an adorable apron, wax seals or calligraphy pens, a board game you got from a start-up, essential oil diffuser for their car, rubber stamps, specdrums.
Let me know if you need any more 😂
Also. I'm gonna assume that they collect something, so get them something to add to their collection. If they don't, start one for them! Puzzles, travel books on different countries, cute little teaspoons...
Bonus points if they mention something they'd love in passing in March and you write it down to give to them for Christmas lol
THIS IS AMAZING!!! Thank you!
Better gifts for each type
Type 1: Marie Kondo's "The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up" if they don't already have a copy of it. Also, anything that can help them improve on them staying organized so storage containers.
Type 2: Definitely get them something pretty like a vase or some kind of bath kit with lots of scents.
Type 3: Concert or theatre tickets, maybe a trip. Or their favorite movie on blu-ray.
Type 4: As an Enneagram 4, I'll just speak for myself. Personally, I would actually like a planner or a new journal. Also, vinyl records, especially Taylor Swift's latest album.
Type 5: There’s this cool subscription box mystery solving game called Hunt A Killer that I think a Type 5 would really enjoy. Any books relating to something they like would also work.
Type 6: Get them something that makes them laugh. If ANY type should get a planner that they don't already have, a Type 6 should get one.
Type 7: Something relating to making mixed drinks or some new cool way to make coffee.
Type 8: Type 8s all have a list, but I think a lot of type 8s would love a literal punching bag or a pillow or some cool new spices.
Type 9: Cozy gifts for sure. Fuzzy slippers, a nice bathrobe, weighted or heated blanket. You get the idea.
YES! This 8 would love some cool new spices! :)
I’m a type 1 and I already have all of Marie Kondos books and have read her first two🤣. So I agree very much with this.
I'm a 9 who loves hiking and board games. I also love cozy blankets and bath robes and specialty teas. Gift cards are a HARD PASS - no effort. I know I'm a 9, there is no disputing my core desire, but I also really relate to the 4 w/ so much of the content on this channel, including this one... stay away from the trends... and Bath and Body Works!
As a nine, if I finally tell you what is on my Christmas list: 1) welcome to the inner circle of trust 2) you better be sure you get exactly what I requested or else you are booted out of the inner circle. Also gift cards are always the answer - I don’t have to tell you what I want and you don’t have to get the wrong brand/size/color of thing.
As a 4, I have come to appreciate experiences so much more than a gift. These experiences create memories I can cherish for life!
Yes! I got Leeann a membership to the Botanical Gardens for her birthday for this reason! She loved it.
@@LeeannMichellefunny Nice!
Yes. This is true for me too.
as a 4, I'd say I'd love a really nice handcrafted journal, unique jewelry piece that is my favorite gem stone, an experience to somewhere I've always wanted to go or a place I've never thought about but the gifter knows I'd love it or a book about my favorite topic thats a unique find. Basically something that will blow me away with its unique thoughtful-ness lol.
This 4 agrees
As a one: I totally agree with this!!! Also, I LOVE gift cards because then I can pick what I actually want! But only to stores I actually go to…worst store to get me a gift card to: Party City. (I know that’s random but I HATE THAT STORE! Full of the most pointless things ever!) Everything I want should be something that I will actually use or wear. I actually like when people ask me what I want because then I know they won’t give me something random or pointless.
As a 4, I'd rather receive no gift at all rather than meaningless clutter. I like giving gifts but I typically hate receiving them. I hate the pressure of having to convey delight and appreciation and, conversely, I hate feeling sad and disappointed because the gift giver obviously doesn't know me at all.
When I receive anything with thought, care and meaning - oh boy it lifts my spirits and fills my heart. I'm a 4w5, so it's not terribly difficult. An interesting book on dinosaurs or sustainable architecture will make me your friend for life.
I think we were cut from the same cloth. This 4 agrees
@@bethanythatsme nice to meet you Bethany! It's always encouraging to be reminded that there are at least a few of us our there in the world! I feel our type is widely misunderstood much of the time...
I honestly enjoy the ability to buy things for myself without guilt. I actually LIKE gift cards. I especially value being able to shop during sales to get the biggest bang for my buck. Therefore, money at Christmas to cancel out purchases made during Black Friday sales is the perfect gift for me!
I miss Leeann!!!!! 😭
Honestly as a 4 I like gift cards if it’s to somewhere super unique like once my cousin got me a gift card to Etsy and I loved it cause I could pick something totally special and specific. So for gift cards it totally depends on the place it’s for
This is so interesting. As a 4 I typically hate getting gift cards. I never use them.
I’m a type 4. I actually love gift cards so long as they’re for stores I actually like. I don’t mind getting Bath & Body Works, so long as it it’s not candles. I don’t use candles, they just sit in the closet and collect dust. For me, the worst gift would be clothes or jewelry because I’m very picky about my style and I don’t want people picking out my clothes for me because they usually get it wrong. My mom is the only person alive who is good at picking out clothing and jewelry I’d actually wear.
From a 5(w4 549 sp/sx)--
For a few years in high school, I put on urban scavenger hunts for my birthday. This might seem counter-intuitive for a 5, but it was actually perfect for me. I got to strategize and invent for my birthday instead of planning a party, and on the actual day I would pick one friend to help me and put everyone else in teams to do the hunt, while we floated between them observing and judging. 💀 Anyway.
One year, multiple people were carrying around cakes or cupcakes all night. I thought this was kind of odd, but didn't think much of it because birthdays = cake. When the hunt was over we would all meet at a restaurant for dinner to tally points and eat. At the end of the meal I was presented with two or three cakes and a host of cupcakes. When they opened the boxes, they were all decorated with pretty frosting swear words and insults. I almost cried. In a good way.
I should mention that this was around 2010, when those things were first floating around tumblr and the like, and I (somewhat embarrassingly now) thought they were hilarious. The absolute peak of visual comedy. But I was bewildered that my friends all seemed to have read my mind. I asked them "How did you know I love these??" and they all looked at me like I was crazy. One of them told me "Dude, you dropped so many hints."
Turns out that a few hyper-fixation cycles before I couldn't shut up about how funny they were, and had since completely forgotten I'd ever mentioned them. It was kind of overwhelming, knowing that my friends really listened to the stupid things I talked about, and remembered them, and took the time and effort to make these cakes, and then carted them around all night. Cake boxes are annoying! They ran around downtown for hours! It rained! I think in the moment it was just funny and kind of magical, but that memory only means more to me as I age and understand more about myself.
All this to say: I think the best way to gift for your 5 (or maybe just your 5w4), is to make a note of the things they mention a lot (and there will be things we mention A LOT, sorry), and use that knowledge to inform your gift. That's probably good advice for everyone, really. But we 5s know we talk a lot about things that might not be interesting to our loved ones, and we don't always expect or even need you to be really listening to us. It's such a lovely surprise to find out you were. Bonus points if you put in a little personal effort, it shows us that we're not a problem for you. We often think we are.
Also! It doesn't need to be so elaborate. This year, my mother made an e-card on MS Paint using a screengrab from a show I really loved earlier in the year (and again, had practically forgotten about 🙃). It really made me smile.
More specific 5 gift ideas: -Gift card for UberEats or Doordash or whatever. I once saw "getting food delivered" on a post about 5 self care and I've never resonated with something so hard. -Two of something we love or a back up. 5s are terrified of scarcity! It's really hard for me to enjoy something if I feel like I'm using it up or wearing it out. Having a second thing feels luxurious and safe. -Bookstore gift card. Lets us get what we really want and gives us the experience of being in a place full of books, which is very calming and makes me feel cultured and at home. Please don't buy us books unless you're reaaaaally sure we want them. -Scribd membership. Netflix for books! Look it up! -Like 8s, something from the list!! Surprises are nice, but so is being heard and having needs met! 5s need to feel like their needs aren't a problem. -That bouquet of the month club that 4s wouldn't appreciate might be perfect for us, actually. It's a well kept secret, but 5s love beauty. I once heard it described like "Beauty slips in the backdoor of the mind so we can just appreciate a thing before we over-analyze it." However, I don't think a five would ever spend money on something so lavish and indulgent as recurring flowers. Help us get out of our heads and touch grass, in a nice way. -For 5w4s specifically, we're likely to be into oddities or things that are a little macabre. I saw a post below from 5 minimalists, but that's not all of us. I like functional things, but I like curios as well. Think anatomical charts, occult/esoteric symbolism, those cute crochet dissection specimens, that kind of thing. If you hand your 5w4 something pretty and strange and say "This made me think of you", I can almost guarantee a smile.
Well look at that, I wrote an essay. Typical.
Hope this helps with the more opaque 5s in your life.
No 5 would share so much personal info. 😉
@@marcus5898 I'm trying to leverage my strong 4 wing to help anyone shopping for my more withholding 5 brethren. Now would I tell my own loved ones any of this? Hell no. :P
As a One, if I give someone specific info about a request, then they need to follow it! If I say I want, idk, new food storage containers like Pyrex, but it needs to all be square, then it doesn't matter how casual it sounded when I said it, DO NOT DEVIATE.
Going with that example, if someone got me square Pyrex, now I'll have to completely change up my cupboard organization and I'll be super annoyed.
People can take liberties with other aspects of the gift - I can lean into my 7 strength and have fun with different colors, or something off the wall, or whatever - but if I told you something specific then believe me, I know what things work and what things don't, and you'll mess up my system if you don't listen.
It's worse getting something I asked for but not having the "rule" I gave them respected, than not getting the thing at all lol.
I agree mostly with 4! I don't want anything that everyone else wants, it really does feel thoughtless. I also don't want anything useless to me. I personally do like candles, though...😄
Personally, I'd love anything that helps with the crafting I do, anything that helps me with ADHD (ask me which toys work for me!), and anything that involves an inside joke. I've long since stopped holding on to useless items just because they were gifts.
I agree! I love candles! Just not basic bath & body works candles! Love ones from small businesses or ones that are handmade, things like that!
Yes! As a one, I have to pick out my own decor. If everyone gave me decor, it would lack cohesion and be awful, and probably not match my style.
I'm getting married next year and I am already psyching myself up to smile at people when they give me cutesy decor that I don't want or have a use for.
WE GOT SO MANY PICTURE FRAMES FOR OUR WEDDING. And 80% of them were SO ugly (to me).
@@leahcompston3840 That happened to my aunt when she got married too. But she did like them. But she just didn't want thaaaat many
My mother-in-law got me a piece of art that I hated. I kept it up over my couch for TWO YEARS because I didn't want to hurt her feelings (the 1 wing in me hated it but the 9 didn't want to cause drama).
I agree with your comments about an 8!! Thank you for being a voice for the 8’s out there! Cheers! 😉
5 here: don't buy my any product that I would research first. Don't buy clutter. Don't waste money. Yeah, probably just don't buy me anything. Which is what my family finally figured out. Give me the gift of the house to myself. Best gift ever.
4 w 5 It’s true about the wildflowers. I would definitely take something grown from your garden.
I Will take a coffee table book filled with beautiful photos or art.
As a 4, I love getting artsy stuff from my artistic friends because even if it’s not something I would have have bought to display in my home, if a friend clearly put something in it that I like or that is from an inside joke we have or memory, I will love it. From my not so artsy friends I give them a theme, like stars and moons, and then they usually search that from Amazon and most of the gifts are interesting.
Love these ideas!
An useful thing to note is that more socially focussed types like 2, 7 or 6 enjoy stuff more if they can bring someone. So if you give them a spa coupon, free travel, a concert ticket etc. either go with them or ive them a second one so they can bring a friend.
(Some of you might think this is obvious but for me as a 5 it is not. I think nothing of going to restaurants, musuems etc. all on my own.)
As a 9, my husband and I just got a 2nd set of hiking sticks😂 I also don’t enjoy puzzles but yarn, I love yarn. I am crocheter.
As a one, I totally agree with the knick knacks! I dislike receiving anything that makes my house feel cluttered.
I'd give two thumbs up if I could to this statement!
I will say as a type 5, I use my ring light all the time! I put it in my laundry closet bc it's so dark in there. lol
Lol. Too funny!
I love Bath and body works! Maybe a lot of people don't want it because they have gotten it often. Great ideas. Thank you for sharing!
9w1 -- I like tea and coffee, stationery, books, cozy sweaters, beeswax candles, plants, gardening stuff, anything purchased from small/local businesses or with a charity focus. Dislike last-minute surprises that deviate from my plan (concert tickets, travel, etc), no knick knacks, nothing I have to display in my house for the next 2 years, and definitely not Bath and Body Works, haha!
This all sounds lovely!!
Type 4: Don't get me only what I ask for.
Type 1 (me): Just get me what I asked for!
I relate to 1, 3, 5, 6, 8 and 9 for this.
Basically don't by me anything useless.
6 here. I constantly evangelize my favorite brands and products. It really shouldn't be that hard to buy for me without asking me to send a list of links! Just pay attention all year when I tell you what I like. Even if it's not anything fun, a basket of my favorite cleaners is better than a generic gift or text requesting a specific wish list. Flip side of that, I'm a walking file cabinet of information on my people and I get a lot of joy from giving thoughtful gifts.
I’m a 4w5. When I was a kid, i watched the movie Running on Empty with River Phoenix. From then on, my staple answer for gifts was “Something you make, or something you find.” 35 years later, thats still my answer. *and no, “I found this on amazon.” Does not count.)
I'm an 8 and I could not agree more! I make a list for a reason. Last Christmas my husband asked what I wanted, I told him what I wanted and sent him a link to the exact item. I could tell by the shape of the box under the tree it was not what I asked for. 1) the gift he did get was nice and I appreciate it. 2) I was online by 5pm on Christmas ordering myself the frickin gift I wanted. 3) I'm still like, yo, I gave you the gift list. Stick to it.
I’m a 6, practical gifts I know I like are the best. Sunscreen but only the kind I want would be awesome. A Starbucks gift card is ok too. I never go there so it’s a treat. I’d probably get my go to cappuccino anyways but still that’s a nice safe choice.
I'm a three and I don't mind gift cards. I do really appreciate thoughtful, interesting gifts but I never shop for myself unless it's with a gift card so I enjoy being given that experience.
This 8 has never felt more seen! DO NOT DEVIATE FROM THE LIST!
For Secret Santa, I literally sent out a list.
This year, I just want cash.
Right.
Amen!
Kind of random, I’m a teacher and had the CRAZIEST day, and this video gave me so MUCH MUCH MUCH needed light heartedness. Thanks so much!!!!!
Yay! THANK YOU for teaching!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I am cracking up over the "not only what I ask for" for 4's. Get me something unique that proves you know me and listen to me but not something popular. My poor husband.
I know, right! I want something that shows that you understand the inner workings of my mind. The only problem with that is that I am notoriously difficult to read (even my therapist of 3 years with whom I get along so well says so!). Let the challenge begin, I say!
LOL! I’m a 2 and I love self care stuff. But yeah, save the coffee table books!
As a 4 I suddenly realize now why I HATE giving gifts during Christmas. Cuz I gotta come up with something personal for everyone??!
I like gift cards (unless it’s to Home Depot or something, just noOoooooo) cause I can buy whatever I want with it lmao, couldn’t care less about how much effort was put in as long as I like it, tho surprise presents are better.. preferably tickets to somewhere like a theme park
You must be a type 10 then
@@sybrandwoudstra9236 ding ding ding! 10w11 here!
Hit the nail for the One. I have my planners all set up for next year. Also, ask me before you buy me something... because, bless your heart... but I know what I want and need. If in doubt, give cash.
So true! This 8 is singing AMEN! :)
I mean you are an 8 so I wouldn’t expect anything less but you hit the nail on the head! I’m even picky when grandparents don’t get what is on my kids’ list specifically. They’re at that fun age where they won’t hold back 🤣
Type 2 has spent so much time thinking and customizing gifts for others, and we will tell you we don’t need anything, when we really do expect you to do the same.
I am currently working on my 2022 planner...that was the most accurate for my number 1 enneagram! WOW!
8 here: I have a stack of gifts ready to donate. Mom is a 2 and buys me what she wants me to have and refuses to go by my list. I have a list for a reason!!!!!
9 here! Give me all the board games! Cooperative games are the best, but competitive ones can be fun as well. My 9 roommate and I love to play board games together.
What? I'm an 9 and I loooove board games!!! Hehe and I love to win in board games :D I mean healthy 9 are 3, right? 😁😜
Ps: But thanks for your video! Was helpful :)
I like bath and body works stuff... as long as it is a smell I like and can handle (migraines). But I do love a good candle and good lotion.
I like their stuff as long as *I* pick it out. There's a scent they have that I wore on a trip to New Zealand, and now I need a lifetime supply of it because every time I spray it on I'm instantly transported back to NZ. I just wish the scent lasted longer than the spritz and the first few seconds on the skin.
I am a 6... and no surprise I have my certain scents that I know I like. 😏 I may have bought like 6 of a discontinued scent when they briefly brought it back so I knew I would have it for a long time and wouldn't have to try to find a new one! 😉
@@marciyoung2217 Yes. This.
Nothing sentimental for type 1, more practical things will be appreciated.
As a 7, I can tell you that shopping is so boring! And if I now have a gift card, it's like this enforced boring shopping trip that I'm supposed to say thank-you for.
I'm trying to adjust my mind set, and it might be working.
I don't mind no gift, as long as I'm not forgotten. Come over and hang out! Gift is optional.
If it's something perfect for me, of course I prefer that! But I love a funny "I saw this and thought of you" gift, and it can even be an oddly shaped piece of driftwood. I will probably love it!
I love these so much. They make me laugh but also feel so seen! 😂 I am a Type 1 and we seriously don’t want a planner or pens and office supplies.
Honestly, I never even give much thought to what I want because I’m too busy thinking about and finding everyone else’s gifts!
As a 7, I actually do like gift cards if they're for places I really like. Especially if that's Sweet Frog or Chick-Fil-A. XD But some of that could also be that I am 14 and very broke, so if I want to get together with friends out someplace, I like to have money for eating out.
So I guess the reason I like gift cards (to restaurants) is because to me, that gift card = friend time, which we all know is very important to a 7. 😉
Well, that is incredibly insightful! You’re 14? I’m impressed!!
I love that the two of you are opposites "something not on the list" and "stick to the list" 🤣
Also as a 7: gift cards suck because it's simple and boring. I'd much rather have a random, spontaneous item that makes you say "this seems weird, but I thought of you and here's why." A gift card feels like getting NOTHING (with the exception of a favorite restaurant or activity. A promise to hang out together later). If I buy it myself, it's not a gift. I'd much rather get nothing than be forced to do the gift shopping *for* you and have to report back what I got.
I love Bath and Body works too!!! And I'm a 2 and hate taking time for me!!
So…I’m a six…and I’d totally love a sky diving trip…maybe I should take the test again. 😂 however, I agree, I definitely care a lot about my chosen brands.
I spy a wing 7 👀, lol
Sooo true! I really went with the #4 and #1 even though I am a 5w4. Practical and thoughtful AND original!
As a 2 I would definitely take a spa gift card as long as my massage therapist is a stranger. And yes, they'll just get tipped extra.
As a 9, I’ll gladly take all the exercise equipment and I LOVE a bath and bodywork’s candle 🤷🏼♀️
I am a one and I d love al the gifts u mentioned as a no for a 1 apart from the planner. In fact I even buy them to my friends. I hate non spontanepus people idk Why so surprise trip for the weekend would be great. My wing is 2 and I LOVE spa gifts. Though I feel bad about the massouse and try to chat a bit about their lives as in the video
Fully disagree on enneagram 3. I like coffee mugs and LOVE gift cards! Because then I can buy what I actually want 😬
Agreed lol, either a gift card or a trip I didn't have to plan for me lol
I'm a 9 and I love board games. Guess it's the 8 wing showing up 😃
First!!!!!! I love y’all’s videos!!! ❤️
9w8: I actually REALLY love board games, maybe that's the 8 in me... because I am pretty competitive games I hate are games like PIT, too loud and fast and anxiety inducing! lol
I LOVE the gym & hiking is my FAVORITE outdoor activity. -9w1
Apparently, I am just a hobbit because I wanted all the things. I just like presents!
I am a 7, I am hard to buy for because I buy everything I want 😂, but appreciate almost anything but a gift cards because I will lose them, find them lose them, find them Hurray, then they expire… they also tell me where I have to go, very boring. Very best gift.. I would rather have a hand written card that says “I will go on a crazy adventure with you, invite everyone! any time, any day!”
I'm a 9 and I always hate knickknacks... I feel like anyone would hate them.
type 5 here and i love receiving clothes…as long as i can pick them out. otherwise, just money is fine.
This is so great thank you! 👌🏼👌🏼😂😂 now can you be one step further and tell us what gifts each type *would* actually like? 😂 this video was half helpful. 😂
I keep my list updated year-round specifically because I only want what's on my list. It's stuff I feel guilty for buying for myself so only buy me what's on my list!
Whaaaaat my best friends are enneagram 4 and the best things they know are the ones you mentioned
Being a 2 SP, if I don't get pampering/self-care stuff at Xmas, I won't have any until potentially the Xmas after. A small amount can be good so there's less to clutter up your dresser or edge of the bath tub. Otherwise, get us 2's something specific to our personality, it helps us feel loved, for example last Xmas I received a vinyl record I wanted but would never have spent the money on for myself (it was about £20). Buy us things we wouldn't buy for ourselves but, if you can make it specific to something you know we like, that's the best 👍
as an enneagram 8 i love gift cards cause i get to control i buy LOL
eh the 9 doesnt really fit me. hiking sounds miserable but i like heels and looking nice and "uncomfy" clothes feel like a warm hug actually so i like them. also id love a gym membership and i hate puzzles bc theye boring but id love to sit and play a board game with people :) i most value a thoughtful personalized gift myself but i feel like... most people do?
I don't know why but from the moment I clicked on the video I knew you were a type 8
Funny, I’m a 9 and I love hiking and I hate puzzles! Lol
I’m enneagram 4 but somehow I felt 6’s no list is more of my no list
Uh as a 5 I 100% would love a karaoke machine. But don’t get me wrong I will not be sharing it with anyone or singing with anyone. It would purely be for me to sing sad songs to myself when l’m in my comfort space
My husband is a one, but after watching your eight commentary, I'm beginning to wonder because it was like you were saying words he'd written. There's a list. If you deviate, he will hate it. And he is not shy about his reaction. No polite euphemisms. He'll tell you he hates it.
I'm a 6 and I always ask for a gift card, haha!
"Don't buy an enneagram seven candles and lotions" ... but that is what I get my enneagram 7 mom every year. Have I failed as a daughter????
Also, as a 9, I like board games and puzzles bore me.
As a 7... Wait. *every* year?! 😳 Okay, well now that you know... Keep the tradition, but add something to it this year. Maybe a favorite chocolate. Or gift card to a favorite restaurant (so she can hang out with you). Find out what she wants to do or where she wants to go, and make it happen. (legit, this can be free. A promise to go hiking together when the weather is warmer sounds perfect to me, tbh)
Maybe mix it up this year? Do something different.
@@piratedash Thanks for the reply and suggestion. I have asked to go places with her and go hiking, but she wants to do those things with her friends. She likes candles and lotions, but now I think she has too many because of me. lol
@@GwynWalker I would, but I already bought them. lol.
Why has Leeann not been in the videos for a while? Is she ok? Thank you. ❤️
I don’t fit any of these 😅
What do you get an 8 who has nothing on their list and says they don’t want anything? Lol
Money.
I’m a 6 and I love a gift card. But skydiving??? Seriously??? That’s what you buy someone? What the f is wrong with you people are you trying to kill me???