Dara just in case you see this, you inspire the best out of me. I have confidence to do the right thing because all you three are evidence of result of walking in the way of God. Love you from Ghana
I used to be in a situationship what the a guy late last year😂😂 At first, we started off as friends, then later we saw ourselves being closer than ever and feeling comfortable with each other's company 😊 But I noticed that we never got to discuss anything about starting a relationship and we both said we weren't ready to go into any until God gave us a befitting partner 😁 But I saw that uncle was up and in my business everytime, everyday and I was compelled to ask "what's up, what do you really want from this our closeness? Do you want a relationship or you just want us to be friends?" I had to ask him because I needed clarity, so in my head I won't be in a relationship with the guy that he(the guy) is not aware of and I equally needed to build boundaries and know what to focus on primarily.... And uncle simply told me that we were friends and I told him that I was cool with that and that helped me build boundaries around myself.
Yes ooooo Dara was really expressive, sweet, confidence, I mean this is a pastors wife so her work is in full display. Mennnnnn Dare and Tolu this was really sweet. Especially when Tolu said " u can go around the edges and not in" wowwwwwww this is breathtaking.
"Introducing intimacy in a relationship at the wrong time has hindered most destiny fulfilling purposed relationships from accomplishing"....God bless you people 🙏
So with useful videos like this. Somebody will still come tomorrow to debate with me that technology has done more harm than good 😅. Thank you so much for this. Personally I really appreciate 🙏🏽
Spiritual pride😂😂and is stinking to add. 😂😂😂😂 This is hilarious but very serious issue. I've had brothers saying this to me ( You are the one) and even threatening me about the one I had certainty and convictions about. One even went further to say if I know what is good for me I should live the present relationship cos it won't work out. But I know God is not the author of confusion. So much lessons to draw from the talk today. Thank you people very much.🙏🙏
This is really a matter to me now. A brother proposed some years back after proposing to my friend and she refused. You need to see the proposal, like he was doing me a favor. He even told me of how sisters flock around him and they are all doing well financially. It was like I was no choice at all just an option because he was under pressure by his family members. Up till now he is still single at 43. Some brothers really need to play humble when approaching a sister. God bless TED for this ministration.
I can relate with Dara's experience on the "spiritually arrogant bro". I had one who always backed his statements up with "don't you know I'm a pastor?" See ehn, I prayed him outta the way and blocked him ni o cos I can't even imagine what he'd become as an eventual husband.
Thank you Jesus Indeed God has us in mind at every point of our lives. This video came in just when I needed it. God bless the TED fam and team It is too late for my marriage to fail❤. The devil has lost in this one.
Hmmm... Thank u Holyspirit 🔥🥺This is actually spirit leading platform...This Fear about marriage was what I battled with this morning..and was thinking if I can ever give myself into marriage but with this video have found myself back to stand on my feet for God's will and promises for my life ....This video is for me...and I bless God. More grace ma'ams
This is so insightful. Thank you for always debunking backward thought patterns and myths, they have led many to derail. I'm the favour that man seeks😁. Thank you Ma Tolu, Ma Ella, and Ma Dara, God bless you🙏❤️❤️
That part Dara said "Spiritual pride and it's stinky...." got me laughing 😂 I always loved watching every single episode dropped on this talk show. Very educative and spirit filled. Love u guys ❤️❤️
Hmmm, I want to thank TED for this great message they passed across. I just got myself out of a situationship and I can say it was so stressful and tiring. Like my mental status was so affected and I even became unstable emotionally. I am grateful to God that I am finally out of it and I am waiting patiently for his will to come to pass in my life.
This was completely educative. I have so many stories regarding situationships, but just like you said, I recently started learning to ask questions and properly define relationships because some brothers are just naturally free and nice to everyone. This was broad, thank you so much for this, TED.
Kindly I'm a Ugandan but I'm so blessed with this channel Ba bamiloye you making my life so much inspiring may God bless you and i wish to tap on your anoiting in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙏🙏
Situationships: Aka a sure way to break your own heart. I wrote an entire book about this, so glad you spoke on it too. The sure way to deliver yourself is to ask clear questions and define the relationship. May God deliver all who are ensnared 🙏
Alot of relationships (friendship and any other form of relationship) that are meant to be fulfilling purposes are not because intimacy was introduced. Word!!
Lovely timeout with TED. Thank you all your contribution. God bless you abundantly. @JayMikee, please we want different clips of this show as usual, so that many can get to watch it within short period time. Thank you you Sir/Ma's.
I was really blessed. If you're praying about a guy and God is silent? Does it mean a NO? Is it right to go on with the relationship? Does God's silence mean , I should relax, that he's the one but I shouldn't go into the relationship yet? I really need clarity
Thanks so much for this. There is a lady she got into a relationship with a guy Both are deeply convicted about the will of God. But the lady keeps complaining about that she doesn't love the guy, no attraction at all even after 6 months . Even with all these shes very convicted, the guy loves her so much which she attest to
When Tolu mentioned 'the night club' part - I like her honesty and rawness. When one marries, one can turn it into a nightclub between the 2 couples👰. I know a couple who bought a pole in the house😍
Thank you ooooo. I even felt convicted watching the last video about dating in secondary school. I'm in the us, so it's high school for me, but it's getting harder and harder to not want a relationship. I never wanted one ever since people started dating which was elementary school, i always thought it was stupid up until last year. It's only my second year, I have two more but chai, it's hard. I was really frustrated at the last video and tried to make excuses as to why i can be in a godly relationship at 16. We both know that's unrealistic and there's just no reason to. Thank you ma's, for helping me realize the truth in waiting. Truth be told how will I know what to do at 16? 😅
Thanks TED may the Lord continue to bless you guys. You broke many myths and shed light to many things that's affecting relationship. Keep up the good work 👏 I and my husband also had serious challenges before we got married to the point that our first wedding date was cancelled by force 2 weeks before the D-day. Hmmm, it was war but thanks be to God who always gives us victory. It's true the tell tale signs are there if you're in a relationship with a fire extinguisher I remembered one of the brothers that was showing interest in me but usually get angry that I listen to music every time 🤔 and knowing I love praising God. I took a bow before he extinguished my passion for God
I remember a man in my Church who proposed marriage about 6 years ago, and I said no. He later went to tell his “pastor” friends from others churches he prayed about me and God said I’m the one. He will have his friends call me to convince me to say yes. It got so bad I stopped picking calls from unknown numbers. He said he was afraid to move on and marry someone else because God had a reason for saying I am the one. I on the other hand didn’t hear God say he’s the one 🤷🏾♀️ Fast forward, he is married with a child now and he seems to be doing well with his wife 😁 I am still single with zero regrets about saying no to him 🥰
So lovely,suitationship is mostly the common thing being a friend with a guy without a good clarification Thank you so much TED may God help you so much
Dara just in case you see this, you inspire the best out of me. I have confidence to do the right thing because all you three are evidence of result of walking in the way of God. Love you from Ghana
I used to be in a situationship what the a guy late last year😂😂
At first, we started off as friends, then later we saw ourselves being closer than ever and feeling comfortable with each other's company 😊
But I noticed that we never got to discuss anything about starting a relationship and we both said we weren't ready to go into any until God gave us a befitting partner 😁
But I saw that uncle was up and in my business everytime, everyday and I was compelled to ask "what's up, what do you really want from this our closeness? Do you want a relationship or you just want us to be friends?" I had to ask him because I needed clarity, so in my head I won't be in a relationship with the guy that he(the guy) is not aware of and I equally needed to build boundaries and know what to focus on primarily....
And uncle simply told me that we were friends and I told him that I was cool with that and that helped me build boundaries around myself.
Wow
Thank God you defined the status of the relationship.
That was a bold step gurl
These ladies are very young brides, and the wisdom and advise is unbelievable!!!! I truly appreciate all of you. ❤
Omo, is Dara confidence and boldness for me? I love the way she analysed the topic. Kudos to the TED. I love you guys 💙💜❤️💚
Yes ooooo Dara was really expressive, sweet, confidence, I mean this is a pastors wife so her work is in full display. Mennnnnn Dare and Tolu this was really sweet. Especially when Tolu said " u can go around the edges and not in" wowwwwwww this is breathtaking.
"Introducing intimacy in a relationship at the wrong time has hindered most destiny fulfilling purposed relationships from accomplishing"....God bless you people 🙏
So with useful videos like this. Somebody will still come tomorrow to debate with me that technology has done more harm than good 😅. Thank you so much for this. Personally I really appreciate 🙏🏽
Spiritual pride😂😂and is stinking to add. 😂😂😂😂 This is hilarious but very serious issue. I've had brothers saying this to me ( You are the one) and even threatening me about the one I had certainty and convictions about. One even went further to say if I know what is good for me I should live the present relationship cos it won't work out. But I know God is not the author of confusion. So much lessons to draw from the talk today. Thank you people very much.🙏🙏
Wow!!!
I love sister Dara's way of addressing how brothers meet a lady with arrogance and pride
Keep the good work sisters
More Grace TED
This is really a matter to me now. A brother proposed some years back after proposing to my friend and she refused. You need to see the proposal, like he was doing me a favor. He even told me of how sisters flock around him and they are all doing well financially. It was like I was no choice at all just an option because he was under pressure by his family members. Up till now he is still single at 43. Some brothers really need to play humble when approaching a sister. God bless TED for this ministration.
Unimaginable. Why didn't he marry one of those numerous ladflocking around him?
I saw another side of Dara today. She was really funny and expressive.
I sincerely thought I was the only one who noticed.😅
She actually is very funny. 😂😂
Check out their old episodes if you’re yet to see
It's the oyor's effect.
I wish I had heard this earlier. Now I'm in a big mess🥺 Thank you TED. I pray God helps🙏
God can always come in for you. Just ask and trust him
I can relate with Dara's experience on the "spiritually arrogant bro". I had one who always backed his statements up with "don't you know I'm a pastor?" See ehn, I prayed him outta the way and blocked him ni o cos I can't even imagine what he'd become as an eventual husband.
😂😂😂 you are not alone
I know right 😆
An emotional bully
The God that gave you those visions will not give you a fire extinguisher !!!❤
Thank you Jesus
Indeed God has us in mind at every point of our lives.
This video came in just when I needed it.
God bless the TED fam and team
It is too late for my marriage to fail❤. The devil has lost in this one.
Just when I needed clarity on relationship stuff, you guys post this. Thank you!!!
Hmmm... Thank u Holyspirit 🔥🥺This is actually spirit leading platform...This Fear about marriage was what I battled with this morning..and was thinking if I can ever give myself into marriage but with this video have found myself back to stand on my feet for God's will and promises for my life ....This video is for me...and I bless God. More grace ma'ams
Share it, they re affecting lives
Fear of marriage is a real thing. I've seen many people who got delivered of it and they were ignorant that it even existed.
It is a blessing to still have people that's got the boldness to preach the truth.
God bless you, ladies.
As I was noticing Mrs Dara's expressiveness, I also noticed Mrs Ella's Reserved self in this session. God bless TED🙏❤️
I tot I was the only one who noticed Ella was so reserved like she wasn't happy. This was really educative so awesome.
This is so insightful. Thank you for always debunking backward thought patterns and myths, they have led many to derail. I'm the favour that man seeks😁. Thank you Ma Tolu, Ma Ella, and Ma Dara, God bless you🙏❤️❤️
That part Dara said "Spiritual pride and it's stinky...." got me laughing 😂
I always loved watching every single episode dropped on this talk show. Very educative and spirit filled. Love u guys ❤️❤️
My dara,🥰🥰🤗🤗I love when she said God will not give you a fire extinguisher thanks a lot ted
Thank you TED for all you do.
Ella, thank you for pointing out the wokeness of this generation, it is really a deception from the enemy.
Grace be multiplied. Share it pls someone needs it
Hmmm, I want to thank TED for this great message they passed across. I just got myself out of a situationship and I can say it was so stressful and tiring. Like my mental status was so affected and I even became unstable emotionally.
I am grateful to God that I am finally out of it and I am waiting patiently for his will to come to pass in my life.
Its the analogy of adam and eve at the altar for me! God bless you TED
Me too. I love it
20:10 I am hearing and seeing the Mummy Gloria in Dara in action 😂 That spiritual motherly correction.
God will not lead you to a fire extinguisher.
Thanks for this TED
This was completely educative.
I have so many stories regarding situationships, but just like you said, I recently started learning to ask questions and properly define relationships because some brothers are just naturally free and nice to everyone.
This was broad, thank you so much for this, TED.
Dara is well loaded in the spirit.praise God
This Ladies are wonderful
Darasimiiiii... Like brother like sister, you and D-baba ehn😂😂😂 " Your pride is stinking"😂😂😂that got me o
I love the way sis Tolu skin is blooming and popping.
Wonderful…..you are all blessings to this generation….God bless you
A woman builds the home as a gatekeeper 🔥🔥🔥🔥! Thank you 😊
God please give me great sisters in law
It's Tolu's face for me, when she said "it's not good, it is bad behavior"😂 Confused brothers
I am the favour he is looking for 🔥🔥
Thank you TED
MORE GRACE!!
Great ladies ❤️🔥. You all are blessings to our generation. Thank God for raising women like you. God bless you abundantly.
God bless TED
Kindly I'm a Ugandan but I'm so blessed with this channel Ba bamiloye you making my life so much inspiring may God bless you and i wish to tap on your anoiting in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙏🙏
You re right great women. Love you all. Grace be multiplied.
Situationships: Aka a sure way to break your own heart. I wrote an entire book about this, so glad you spoke on it too. The sure way to deliver yourself is to ask clear questions and define the relationship. May God deliver all who are ensnared 🙏
Ahh I’ve read your book on this! It was very enlightening!
@@anjolaadewale4040 So glad it was helpful! ❤
What is the title of the book @fopsy
Pls what’s the name of the book? Your book
@@akinwandeolajumokeformolah462 I replied but it keeps getting deleted. It's called Situationship but Fope Nkwocha.
God bless you Evangelist Mike Bamiloye.Your home is blessed.All.your seeds are blessings yo this Generation.Thank you TED.Love you from Cameroon
Brothers you are arrogant to a woman that will bring you favor,build your house,gate keeper
Brother John in Gbemi come and hear this
word! ''she's the one that holds the favor!''...... Your favor is with her😆😆😆
I thought I was the only one so direct and blunt. 😅
Alot of relationships (friendship and any other form of relationship) that are meant to be fulfilling purposes are not because intimacy was introduced. Word!!
Lolz, i like the line 'we are praying for you' 😁😁
I loooooovvveee this Trio. So much wisdom. My love to tolu❤❤❤ your home is blessed. A very wise young woman 😍
Lovely timeout with TED.
Thank you all your contribution.
God bless you abundantly.
@JayMikee, please we want different clips of this show as usual, so that many can get to watch it within short period time.
Thank you you Sir/Ma's.
Well done. I have sisters in you 🎉❤
I love this episode soo much, Sis. Darasimi, God bless you ooo 😂😂😂 “your pride is stinking”🤣🤣😂😂😂. Very true ma
My best sisters in the world ,Dara, Tolu & Ella❤
I am blessed. Thank you, TED sisters
Dara made me wstch this episode more than 3 times
I never knew Dara can be this expressive.
The right time brings forth the right person and the right person cannot bring forth the right time 🤭😁
I enjoy listening to Darasimi!
More knowledge for you Ma's..... Am so so blessed 🥰
I was really blessed.
If you're praying about a guy and God is silent? Does it mean a NO? Is it right to go on with the relationship? Does God's silence mean , I should relax, that he's the one but I shouldn't go into the relationship yet? I really need clarity
A very insightful, impacting and correcting session. God's bleßings on TED always in Jesus name 🙏
I've never been to club too,n I'm 26 year my friends See's me wierd
You're not weird for holding your beliefs that are in line with God's word.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
God bless you all abundantly.
Good to have you, my people.
I am richly blessed with TED, God bless you all in Jesus name
Wow...I was so blessed by this episode. God bless TED
Thank you for been a blessing
Sis dara don't mind them just calm down for God😅😅😅😅
Kai......🔥🔥
Thanks so much ma's
Greater Grace ma's
Situationship thing😂😂,thank you TED
Was really blessed by this.
May God increase the oil.
God bless you sisters😊
,"TED❤"
I am so encouraged by your words TED. They really are direct and explanatory. God bless you guys
Thanks so much for this.
There is a lady she got into a relationship with a guy
Both are deeply convicted about the will of God.
But the lady keeps complaining about that she doesn't love the guy, no attraction at all even after 6 months . Even with all these shes very convicted, the guy loves her so much which she attest to
What do you advice?
Your boldness in Christ will not decrease in Jesus name.
This is powerful teaching am being helped
Ma'am weldone 🙇🙇🙇 I really love sis dara sense of fashion so well😘😘😘 . God bless u all.
Thank you so much for this honestly God bless you abundantly
Thank You TED for this
I am so impacted by this message
When Tolu mentioned 'the night club' part - I like her honesty and rawness. When one marries, one can turn it into a nightclub between the 2 couples👰. I know a couple who bought a pole in the house😍
Thank you ooooo. I even felt convicted watching the last video about dating in secondary school. I'm in the us, so it's high school for me, but it's getting harder and harder to not want a relationship. I never wanted one ever since people started dating which was elementary school, i always thought it was stupid up until last year. It's only my second year, I have two more but chai, it's hard. I was really frustrated at the last video and tried to make excuses as to why i can be in a godly relationship at 16. We both know that's unrealistic and there's just no reason to. Thank you ma's, for helping me realize the truth in waiting. Truth be told how will I know what to do at 16? 😅
Thank you TED.God bless you abundantly.your marriage shall be heaven on earth in Jesus name
Thanks TED may the Lord continue to bless you guys. You broke many myths and shed light to many things that's affecting relationship. Keep up the good work 👏
I and my husband also had serious challenges before we got married to the point that our first wedding date was cancelled by force 2 weeks before the D-day. Hmmm, it was war but thanks be to God who always gives us victory.
It's true the tell tale signs are there if you're in a relationship with a fire extinguisher
I remembered one of the brothers that was showing interest in me but usually get angry that I listen to music every time 🤔 and knowing I love praising God.
I took a bow before he extinguished my passion for God
I remember a man in my Church who proposed marriage about 6 years ago, and I said no.
He later went to tell his “pastor” friends from others churches he prayed about me and God said I’m the one. He will have his friends call me to convince me to say yes. It got so bad I stopped picking calls from unknown numbers.
He said he was afraid to move on and marry someone else because God had a reason for saying I am the one. I on the other hand didn’t hear God say he’s the one 🤷🏾♀️
Fast forward, he is married with a child now and he seems to be doing well with his wife 😁
I am still single with zero regrets about saying no to him 🥰
Such a great message 🙏🙏🙏
So lovely,suitationship is mostly the common thing being a friend with a guy without a good clarification
Thank you so much TED may God help you so much
God bless you and increase your knowledge. I'm truly blessed with the topic.
Pls share this, someone needs it.
This episode is really a wonderful one. I've been really blessed. Thanks so much for this dear sisters. God bless you and bless your homes.
Spiritual Pride🙆🏾♂️😂...
I am blessed oooooooooo
Thank you sister Tolu, Doctor Emmanuela, Sister Darasmi God bless you guys real Good in Jesus mighty name
This makes a lot of sense.. more Grace.
This topic today is so exciting and interesting... God bless you TED sisters
More grace ma'am
The brother 'God said' is just like 'eyi je, eyi o je'😂, 'I can't lose on both sides'
Thank you TED. God bless and keep True Talk. May the oil keep flowing and blessing souls. Thank you
" 'God said' is an office, not a person!" Wow, such wisdom! Thanks for sharing ladies ❤
God bless the TED ladies. I love you, Dara!!
Thank you very much TED
Am blessed to listen to this.
And the way they kept it so simple in this topic. Kai
I am really blessed with this
Thank you so much TED ❤
This was so enlightening. Thank you so much TED.
Every part was liberating.
Your pride is stinging
God bless you Sweet ladies
Wow
I have been blessed
Praise God
God bless you all abundantly above all you could possibly think of or imagine ❤️
This is amazing, thank you Ted for the clarifications, spiritual pride indeed, brother beware
Mummy Dara has said it all💯💯. Thank TED for this video