For People Who Worry a Lot

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  • Опубліковано 19 лип 2020
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  • @JoeDelaneyy
    @JoeDelaneyy  4 роки тому +2079

    Yo people. I felt like making a different kind of video... so I did. Hope you enjoy it. Have yourselves a sick day my friends x

    • @jasminemoustafa8269
      @jasminemoustafa8269 4 роки тому +5

      I love u

    • @gal3sz
      @gal3sz 4 роки тому +3

      Love your videos man!There is one thing bothering me though.Why is that telly on the floor?Get a stand! :)

    • @morgantiddy2887
      @morgantiddy2887 4 роки тому +8

      best vid ive seen in a very very long time, thankyou for this mate

    • @fjgret
      @fjgret 4 роки тому +2

      Truly legit video! Love the content and curious what else you have to say on these kind of topics.

    • @peterfeeney6177
      @peterfeeney6177 4 роки тому +1

      Great different type of vid, thanks man

  • @ytrjytjsgerwshgreh3427
    @ytrjytjsgerwshgreh3427 4 роки тому +2178

    we're all gonna make it lads

    • @SoulSlayingKing
      @SoulSlayingKing 4 роки тому +1

      Dennis Dowd home you make it brah, this pessimistic view isnt solid keep at it brah. We’re all gonna ____ __ brah!

    • @SoulSlayingKing
      @SoulSlayingKing 4 роки тому

      Hope*

    • @twillsJKZ
      @twillsJKZ 3 роки тому

      None of us are making it out alive so might as well just not worry

    • @David.124
      @David.124 3 роки тому +3

      Jesus is King

    • @amourtoujours779
      @amourtoujours779 3 роки тому +1

      Some lasses here too. 😤

  • @m3tzeko
    @m3tzeko 4 роки тому +403

    "The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one"
    - Elbert Hubbard

    • @msg3tr1ght
      @msg3tr1ght 3 роки тому

      This is my email signature

    • @adamfirth3082
      @adamfirth3082 3 роки тому

      Sorry for being a dumbass but what does that quote mean exactly? Does it mean that you shouldnt be scared and to try new things

    • @mikegonzo2986
      @mikegonzo2986 3 роки тому +1

      @@adamfirth3082 if you constantly fear making a mistake, not only will you make more mistakes, but you'll also be more stressed and worried in your life as a result of the constant fear and self-doubt

  • @olivervawdrey2939
    @olivervawdrey2939 4 роки тому +445

    “If you can control it, there’s not need to fear it. And if you can’t control it, there’s not point in fearing it” - my new quote to live by

    • @adelgeszner1944
      @adelgeszner1944 3 роки тому +14

      Sounds like the basic principle of stoic philosophy.

    • @emilier.6780
      @emilier.6780 3 роки тому +9

      "If even the smallest things are beyond your control, why are you anxious about the rest?" Luke 12:26

  • @BlazeDrew222
    @BlazeDrew222 4 роки тому +247

    “Living so cautiously is an abstract form of suicide” - Joey D.

  • @simoneckerstorfer4174
    @simoneckerstorfer4174 4 роки тому +639

    You're actually a proper sound bloke

    • @JoeDelaneyy
      @JoeDelaneyy  4 роки тому +276

      "actually"
      da fuq do you mean, actually!?

    • @lilreefer6986
      @lilreefer6986 4 роки тому +6

      😂

    • @TheAidanbreheny
      @TheAidanbreheny 4 роки тому +4

      @@JoeDelaneyy hahah. I think it's just a turn of phrase some people use

    • @yannickm1396
      @yannickm1396 3 роки тому +1

      @@JoeDelaneyy
      Don't worry 🙂😉.

  • @aaronbennett6435
    @aaronbennett6435 3 роки тому +67

    ‘We often suffer more in imagination than in reality’, gentle reminder.

  • @user-wn5dm6ku5i
    @user-wn5dm6ku5i 4 роки тому +142

    "You waste the life you try so hard to protect." - Joe D

  • @justinschmitt6161
    @justinschmitt6161 4 роки тому +845

    Joey D stitching together 2020 one sick vid at a time.

    • @JoeDelaneyy
      @JoeDelaneyy  4 роки тому +123

      haha casually weaving together the fabric of our community

    • @jamesparkishana3509
      @jamesparkishana3509 4 роки тому +5

      ain’t the real joey d that title belongs to joey diaz

    • @justinschmitt6161
      @justinschmitt6161 4 роки тому +13

      Oops my bad. I meant *Joey motherfuckin D*

    • @uniqgains1802
      @uniqgains1802 4 роки тому

      Well said mate !

  • @aidanhoneyman1962
    @aidanhoneyman1962 4 роки тому +103

    As a 27 year old, even though I am still really young, I must say to anyone younger out there that is struggling, you get more resilient as time goes on. When you come across something difficult the first time, it feels like the end of the world but the second or third time you come across it, you can handle it better. Things don't get 'easier', you just get tougher.

    • @alexsanoff585
      @alexsanoff585 3 роки тому +2

      I am 25 and completely agree with you. Dr. Jordan Peterson talks about this as well, I wonder if you are familiar with him? To me it seems like things might actually get tougher the older we get, as we become aware of how many doors there are for us to open if we please, and we step away from our parents wing. However, if we keep marching, and experiencing, we become much more courageous and resilient, and become more aware of how tough we really are.

  • @yellowdog2359
    @yellowdog2359 2 роки тому +72

    I come back to this video a lot when I worry about big things. I’ve been watching it for a few years now and it just relaxes me like nothing else and eases my worries as corny as that sounds. Thank you.

    • @bulutbulgu1913
      @bulutbulgu1913 Рік тому +5

      It sounds nice that there are people who do the same thing!

  • @joshmitchell9232
    @joshmitchell9232 4 роки тому +764

    My thoughts on this: It's a combination of your genetics, early childhood, late childhood, and what you do now. (From "The Happiness Hypothesis")
    Everybody has a genetically predetemined tendency to either "go forward" or withdraw. Ie some people will feel an urge to go up and deliver a speech, or tell a joke, whilst other people's urges are to stay withdrawn. Not much you can do about this from a genetic perspective. Your early childhood is the other major factor, from my research. If a child is hugged a lot, and shown a lot of love, they worry less. If the parents worry less, then they worry less. These are extremely strong indicators, and can't be changed too much.
    Not so big a point, but a major adversity in the late teens/early twenties has shown to increase resilience in people (and likely therefore worrying). Read somewhere that it's like it gives you antibodies to deal with things in the future. I'm talking death of a family member, moving to an unknown country, war etc.
    What you do now: As the other factors are pretty uncontrollable for most of us, it's pretty much down to what we do now, and the main things are, IMO:
    Having a purpose --- Simon Sinek had a video about the effect of purpose on worrying and general negative mind wandering. I can't give any more evidence, but I've seen it first hand. Without a project I'm working on, or just something I love to do and have planned for the future (that I enjoy), I default to worrying. This was completely underappreciated by myself, but once you look for it you notice how big this is.
    Meditation --- If you haven't meditated, please try it ASAP, or at least read testimonials as to what people have done with it. It's not spirituality, it's simple brain training. First, you focus on the breath, and that simply trains your brain to keep attention on one thing (reducing mind wandering), and allowing you to silence your mind. There's more to it, but this is the basics of it. I highly recommend looking at testimonials on reddit r/themindilluminated and r/meditation. It truly changes your mind. Also, if you take nothing else out of this comment, please listen to Naval Ravikant on the Joe Rogan podcast - it's incredible, and does a deep dive on the billionaire's thoughts on happiness, which are incredible and come from such an intelligent mind. I personally follow "The Mind Illuminated" book.
    A good social circle, exercise, eating good food, having a routine --- Waking up at different times during the day, eating bad food and not exercising seem like they won't affect it as they're not the issues. Ie if you're worrying about a bill you've got to pay in a week's time, intuitively it doesn't matter what you eat or how you sleep. But if you sleep at different times each day, your hormones are thrown completely out of whack, and this is a big reason why you worry and have general negative thoughts, feel bad etc. Having a good social circle is also one of the main pillars of not only happiness, but health (it's the strongest indicator for how long people live. Rough example: someone with a good social circle that eats bad food will likely live longer than someone who doesn't have this but eats healthily). I implore you, if you have social anxiety, or haven't connected with friends for a while, please do. It's not just that you'll likely be happier by doing it, but if your social skills fade by you not using them, you'll have a worse time next time and then be even less likely to socialise, and further down the hole you go.
    Other things, such as cognitive behavioral therapy, SSRIs are also extremely effective for more worse off people.
    Also, look into "determinism". It's too hard to explain on this level, but basically (this is still debated) everything is predetermined, and everyone's choices are already preset. Ie when you were born, all of the particles in the world were flying in certain directions with certain speeds (everyone's brains included), and there's nothing that can change it. "You" can, but you're part of the world - your brain, body, environment are all going to age in a certain, preset way, that was started at the Big Bang. There's no other way that the world could've unravelled aside from you sitting here, reading this right now, with your hair in a certain way and you having the exact same number of atoms in your body. It's hard to grasp, so I implore you to research it more, but just assuming it for one second: This means that all murders are predetermined, all crimes, and all bad actions. We can't impose this view onto the justice system, as we need the deterrent (even though by this logic even punishing somebody like Hitler would be unjust), but we can think of it in social contexts: Every nasty comment that was said to you was always going to be said, and it's up to you how to respond to it. Respond to it with kindness, or explain to them why it's stupid and self-destructive to say hateful things, but most importantly remember that it's not technically their choice to say it, and it's just a product of their upbringing and how they've been socially trained. Ie if they were teased, or in an aggressive social circle growing up, they'll be socially trained to be defensive and respond aggressively. Think of a dog that's been mistreated by it's past owners, and now growls at everyone. On the flip side, if someone comes from a loving family, and had great mates all of their life, they will do nothing but be nice to you, as that's how they've been trained.
    As a final note to this long comment, most of the changes you make will be big jumps, not through willpower (watch "What I've Learned"'s video on willpower - it's less powerful than we think). So instead of saying "I'll try and go out and see people once a day", join a football team, or a jujitsu club. These major choices are the pillars of what you do, not trying to make something a habit.
    My best resources for researching this have been Naval Ravikant's podcast, The Happiness Hypothesis, thinking deeply about how evolution affects people socially, understanding determinism and how a person's childhood defines their personality, the "What I've Learned" youtube channel, The Obstacle is the Way, Cliff Weitzman on the Ali Abdaal podcast, the Four Hour Workweek, How to Win Friends and Influence People, and funnily enough Casey Neistat (there's a "guide to life" compilation of him on UA-cam somewhere). Hope at least one person reads this haha.
    Cheers!

    • @timhawkins1493
      @timhawkins1493 4 роки тому +34

      Read it all. Cheers for the tips and suggestions. I'd consider this all pretty solid advice!

    • @joshmitchell9232
      @joshmitchell9232 4 роки тому +4

      @@timhawkins1493 No worries mate. Glad somebody read it haha

    • @madsgabriel1700
      @madsgabriel1700 4 роки тому +4

      Josh Mitchell thanks mate 👌

    • @Jannajx5
      @Jannajx5 4 роки тому +12

      Sick comment

    • @Camzeyy
      @Camzeyy 4 роки тому +8

      couldn't agree more, all of this stuff I am very interested in.. the free will, meditation, psychology, genetics, pretty much everything you touched on. I'm just curious tho, how old are you? You have very similar views as me so I'm just wondering, cause I feel like most people my age don't really look in to these kind of things

  • @HarryMcKenny
    @HarryMcKenny 4 роки тому +362

    Wow Joe, you didn't have to aim a title at me this much

  • @TorvestaRS
    @TorvestaRS 4 роки тому +367

    Appreciate this

    • @Bakeysteve
      @Bakeysteve 4 роки тому +1

      My man nestie watches Joey D? Godddd

    • @yoyoyowhity
      @yoyoyowhity 4 роки тому +3

      @@Bakeysteve cross over of a life time right here lmaoo

    • @ThinkAbstract
      @ThinkAbstract 4 роки тому +7

      Your voice always reminded me of this dude lol

    • @mellow6616
      @mellow6616 4 роки тому

      Chad same lol

    • @fudasca
      @fudasca 4 роки тому +1

      Bro, get back to the Runescape vid editing, I'm waiting for it. xD

  • @user-cx7te6pl2h
    @user-cx7te6pl2h 3 роки тому +30

    “The very act of protecting his life is what squandered it. Living so cautiously was an abstract form of suicide”

  • @lewke1059
    @lewke1059 4 роки тому +20

    I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened. - Mark Twain

  • @RobLipsett
    @RobLipsett 4 роки тому +375

    Love ya Joe ❤️

    • @JoeDelaneyy
      @JoeDelaneyy  4 роки тому +75

      I ruv u too my mate. Have to link up some day soon before the world ends.

    • @Rhino11111111
      @Rhino11111111 4 роки тому +6

      @@JoeDelaneyy Please do, Twisted Rob is the best.

    • @Wellness7000
      @Wellness7000 4 роки тому +10

      The best 2 natties in the industry and a wholesome comment, I think I just cried a lil in my whiskey sour preworkout 😢

  • @chrisw5738
    @chrisw5738 4 роки тому +386

    The wisdom I get from Joey D vids is actually a joke

    • @Cityzen567
      @Cityzen567 4 роки тому

      Why is it a joke?

    • @chrisw5738
      @chrisw5738 4 роки тому +8

      adam29uk the stuff of verbal symphony

    • @bwhity
      @bwhity 4 роки тому

      a joke mate*

    • @SpookLuke
      @SpookLuke 4 роки тому +3

      I know right this video is amazing

  • @henrysimpson5995
    @henrysimpson5995 4 роки тому +23

    "The more it scares you, the more you have to do it."

  • @Taophysique
    @Taophysique 4 роки тому +244

    Stoic Joe

  • @theslug9779
    @theslug9779 4 роки тому +152

    It’s a blessing and a curse for me. Always striving for more but always doubting I’ve done enough

    • @akshaygolchha
      @akshaygolchha 4 роки тому

      Same shit! 😣

    • @biggiesmalls3096
      @biggiesmalls3096 4 роки тому +2

      Mate im pretty sure everyone is like that

    • @theslug9779
      @theslug9779 4 роки тому +1

      Biggie Smalls Dumbest thing I’ve read today tbh

    • @virtualethan_1531
      @virtualethan_1531 4 роки тому +1

      Same wtffff

    • @bobthebb-illder827
      @bobthebb-illder827 4 роки тому +1

      TheSlug no it’s true, once you see what other people did you always ask yourself, why can’t I be like them or why don’t I do more stuff like them but you have to realize that you did enough and you are enough. I always believed I could’ve done more or done things differently but I realized that I don’t need to fall for that bullsh*t

  • @gilscharf
    @gilscharf 4 роки тому +240

    If you think back to all your best decisions then you will probably notice they all came from ignoring the voice in your head that worried. If you let yourself worry then you won’t talk to the girl, start the business, take the job or experience the unknown.
    But I’d also say a healthy amount is important. It keeps you from things like falling of a cliff or ruining your financial life.

    • @emanuelschueler6962
      @emanuelschueler6962 4 роки тому +2

      Great point

    • @j.p.radley4013
      @j.p.radley4013 3 роки тому +1

      Jordan Peterson would say to my estimation, we must go and conquer chaos and bring order to that chaos.

  • @livinlavish2464
    @livinlavish2464 4 роки тому +437

    Is it weird that i talk to myself in joes accent .. im hispanic 😭

    • @itsZukka
      @itsZukka 4 роки тому +12

      Relatable

    • @JoaoCarlos-kh7pn
      @JoaoCarlos-kh7pn 4 роки тому +4

      same, im portuguese

    • @xMrP1nkx
      @xMrP1nkx 4 роки тому +8

      we all are joey D and joey D is all of us...maaaaaad lad

    • @yeshuaisking1247
      @yeshuaisking1247 4 роки тому +5

      the same happens, I keep finding myself talking to myself in his accent, something is wrong here!!!

    • @t-bone9239
      @t-bone9239 4 роки тому +4

      Bro I’m German and do it lol

  • @mattc8597
    @mattc8597 4 роки тому +10

    Overthinking has been a problem in my life for as long as I can remember. My older brother has always been the risk taker and I’ve just sat by and watched because I never wanted to get hurt or disappointed with the result. I lost almost 100 pounds during my senior year in the span of about 9 months and I thought that would change what goes on in my head but it doesn’t. I just don’t feel right

  • @ArnAndersson
    @ArnAndersson 4 роки тому +64

    “Posted 57 seconds ago” but already know Joe is about to drop some real truth

  • @pn4639
    @pn4639 4 роки тому +244

    YES NOW.....
    I have been worrying a lot recently due to the fact that I was in a relationship for 20 yrs and than it ended last yr, my house that I owned is now sold and I am 39 and now I am like what now.. However #joedelaney you are 100% right lfe is full of feels and vibes. One person doesn't make you complete but it can help.
    Big up to the mags sandwich thief. See prawn buttie video ✌️🙋‍♂️ keep it going mate. Let's be mates

    • @Jdb63
      @Jdb63 4 роки тому +1

      @Dennis Dowd Mgtow gentleman. That's all I have to say

    • @hkkyt8963
      @hkkyt8963 4 роки тому

      That’s the spirit !

    • @pn4639
      @pn4639 4 роки тому +11

      It all depends on how you look at things. Everything runs its course, including life.
      20 yrs of good memories and 3 awesome kids. Still get on. at the end of the day why be bitter when life is fruitful.
      Why do you think an happy meal is called just that.

    • @Gunners1886_CH
      @Gunners1886_CH 4 роки тому

      Sounds rough mate. All the best and keep your head up!

  •  4 роки тому +17

    You're textbook don't judge a book by it's cover. I had you nailed as a proper gym bro since I watched the first 30 seconds of your transformation video years ago and always ignored it to me when it was recommended to me again. But I watched it just there now and now I am here. This video is so helpful and you articulate everything surrounding worry excellently without all the pretentious language that comes with other UA-camrs I fucking love you mate keep this shit up.

  • @liambyrne6907
    @liambyrne6907 4 роки тому +23

    "How comfortable do you feel when there is no distraction" in an age when constant stimuli is so obtainable, this question carrys more relevance and insight into the physco logical well being of an individual than ever before. I would encourage people to pause this video and actually digest and answer some of the points mentioned in this video. Great style of video Joe you have the voice for therapeutic speaking along with great knowledge, but when you make killer points I would suggest changing your tone or even adding a call to action. For example "how comfortable do you feel when there is no distraction" Actually answer that mate!

  • @aconspiracyunmasked
    @aconspiracyunmasked 4 роки тому +22

    I actually started crying at about the 3 minute mark. You completely hit the nail on the head. I’m such a worrier and to top it off I lost my grandad unexpectedly yesterday. And actually when I’m so worried and stressed I can't even eat, let alone enjoy it. This video has helped me and made me think about things in such a different way and it put a smile on my face when I’m at my lowest, thank you.
    .

  • @Altairego
    @Altairego 4 роки тому +15

    I've been struggling and worrying a lot about this year in general, my body, family etc- probably just like everyone else, so thank you for this my man. You're one of the realest guys in the community hands down broski

  • @dinglemaniac1541
    @dinglemaniac1541 3 місяці тому +2

    Watched this video two years ago and I still pull quotes from it during casual conversation. Good shit man 👏

  • @amir.estaris
    @amir.estaris 4 роки тому +9

    Those closing words: haunting, actionable and the truth. Love the quality and format of this one!!

  • @Dobanat3r
    @Dobanat3r 4 роки тому +7

    As someone who has been struggling with severe anxiety / OCD since 2008 (and a ton recently with the pandemic), I just want to say thank you for this video. It’s these little reminders that help people going through a rough patch get through it all. One day at a time we are all just trying to live and let go a bit more.
    -Cheers

  • @tristanvandenbosch1421
    @tristanvandenbosch1421 3 роки тому +8

    Man, I had all of these random thoughts going through me trying to make sense of it all. And now I am listening to you and you literally pieced those thoughts together. I want to thank you for that.

  • @CalDoesLife
    @CalDoesLife 4 роки тому +8

    JOE you are one down to earth dude and that makes your videos relaxing and enjoyable, that or your monotone voice hypnotizes me into thinking that - never change

  • @lonevenom
    @lonevenom 4 роки тому +1

    I couldn’t have come across this video at a more perfect time. Thanks for this upload! Helped me literally when I was worrying a lot and this helped me be more relaxed and accepting and positive

  • @alfiet6184
    @alfiet6184 4 роки тому +113

    Schools should play this every morning at assembly 😂

  • @viniciusnogueira3465
    @viniciusnogueira3465 4 роки тому +3

    Dude, this video was so important for the moment I'm living right now. I share a lot of your perspective and I'm looking out to adopt new actions toward a less stressful life. Thank you for your message. Peace.

  • @itserikslife7936
    @itserikslife7936 3 роки тому +1

    I don’t often comment on videos but this one hit different! Thanks Joe for making this video. You touched a lot of people and definitely me! I struggle with worry almost everyday and I find it hard to submit myself but this video just helped even more. I also like how you add some comedic elements and jokes in even with a serious topic as such, it really helps lighten the mood! Thanks and keep up your great work!

  • @ethanjpetch
    @ethanjpetch 4 роки тому +1

    i loved every minute of this Joe. it feels amazing to finally hear that somebody thinks about these things the same way i do, especially when it's someone i look up to. i've been trying to maintain this exact mindset for a little over a year now, and it has truly helped me through some seriously tough times. thank you joe, this means loads.

  • @montysjourney6568
    @montysjourney6568 4 роки тому +3

    Been watching your videos the last week or so mate, honestly inspired me to do something about my mental health. I used to workout most days, then got a few injuries and just lost the taste for it. But watching your recipe videos has made me want to recapture my former self. Honestly been a life saver I was at rock bottom when I started your videos have been for a while, now while I know early days I’m in week 2 of my eating plan( Cheat meal on a Sunday) and hopefully by Saturday be working out again alongside it!

  • @ameliaisarunner
    @ameliaisarunner 3 роки тому +6

    This is quite honestly hands down the best video I have ever, ever, and I cannot stress this enough, ever watched.
    For me as someone who doesn't buy into all these self help books and listen to bullshit about stars aligning etc, this video was so frank about what I'm wasting time on worrying about and what I could be gaining from not. I literally feel like my grey cloud has just gone. From one scouser to another, seriously mate, thank you!

  • @Seanfagan__
    @Seanfagan__ 4 роки тому +1

    This video seriously resonated with me mate..can't honestly describe how I feel having watched it. I'm 24, Irish but living in Canada, finished Uni, have a job - doing all the shit I'm 'meant to do'. And yet I still find myself wanting, looking too far ahead, living in my own head and never the here and now. In more recent years i had came to the conclusion that I am who I am, I'll never be somebody who can just ride the wave, never be somebody who thinks 'it'll just work out'. I question my every step, I question everyone and everything around me, but for what? I've gained nothing other than a heavy burden of feeling engulfed in my own mind, my own thoughts, my own head. To see you break this all down, and to see you offer insights and tips as to how to combat this has to be totally honest changed my life. I'm not who I have been for so long, I'm a person living right this second with the opportunity to grab life by the balls. Thank you and much respect to you

  • @levski1914_1
    @levski1914_1 3 роки тому +4

    This literally popped on my suggested feed and I never ever needed a video more... ❤️ Thank you really

  • @HAPPYSTUFFANDFLUFF
    @HAPPYSTUFFANDFLUFF 3 роки тому +6

    Such a great video! It isn't about being able to stop worrying, as humans we have a negativity bias. it's about being able to 'work with worry' and take back control from what I call, 'Stinking thinking' Thank you.

  • @zaynabxx
    @zaynabxx 4 роки тому +4

    Loved this! I’m a CBT Therapist and you just put the theory and clinical terms in a way for it to really resonate with people

  • @LucidStrike
    @LucidStrike 4 роки тому +1

    Joe is like the most relatable dude in UA-cam physical training. This is a video I would make, the kind of shit I think and talk about all the time. Not only helps with the training and nutritional videos but also means I actually bother watchin' hours blog-type content.

  • @adamrice6631
    @adamrice6631 4 роки тому +1

    I love when you do these different conceptual/abstract videos as I always appreciate your perspective on life. Thank you Joey D

  • @haroon7152
    @haroon7152 4 роки тому +18

    Honestly, before watching this video I was stressing out about A-level results day which is on the 13th; watching this really cool down my nerves for the time being. I don’t know how to say it but this video really really helped, just made me think that I’m overthinking the day way too much. But I just wanna say thanks, one of the best youtubers on this platform, one again a huge thanks for this video. 😊

  • @marthaaels
    @marthaaels 3 роки тому +5

    cant get over how much i needed this video right now, iver never seen this channel before yet right when i need a peptalk of exactly this here it is

  • @2515kjr75
    @2515kjr75 4 роки тому +1

    Love this vid. It’s amazing how even some of the harshest experiences can reduce/piss off when you can stop and recognise the shit you can’t control, then learn the ability to not give a fuck.

  • @ALEXMORGIE2011
    @ALEXMORGIE2011 4 роки тому +3

    Different level mate. Watched the first 3 and half mins three times now and it's just so relevant. Even showed my bro who usually hates anything youtube/social media related and he admired it. Keep it rolling.

  • @lukaspolak8100
    @lukaspolak8100 4 роки тому +108

    Odds on the Mags winning an oscar for her performance in this indie film?

  • @moneymason1
    @moneymason1 4 роки тому +7

    “Living cautiously is an abstract form of suicide”. Wow...🙏🙌

  • @andreleben6444
    @andreleben6444 3 роки тому

    the 3 "for people" - video are awesome man!! Just discovered them and fell in love with it! THANKS!

  • @AboveNbeyond789
    @AboveNbeyond789 4 роки тому

    I love your outlook man, some times I find myself worrying over the small stuff that I have no control over and I have to remind myself to chill and just let it happen. You just have to roll with it and learn to enjoy the ups and the downs. Great video!

  • @rhemadsouza8391
    @rhemadsouza8391 3 роки тому +19

    This video was recommended to me in such a timely fashion!

  • @ionwallace
    @ionwallace 4 роки тому +10

    Time is the most valuable thing we have, and it cannot be bought. Make sure you do not waste it worrying too much about things. Carpe Diem ppl♥️

  • @Louid133
    @Louid133 4 роки тому +1

    Really great watch, love your perspective around this situation.. I often get worried about trivial things even though my life is actually pretty good. Anxiety is one of those issues in all our lives but sometimes you just have to let go and take life as it comes... great vid 👍🏼

  • @hesterhf
    @hesterhf 3 роки тому +1

    Really beautifully articulated a lot of things I really need to hear, and shone a light on some interesting ideas I'd never thought of, thank youu

  • @SuperMaddie07
    @SuperMaddie07 4 роки тому +16

    Why do people pay for psychologists when Joey D drops advice like this 🙌🏼. These insights are honestly so valuable .. you have a great perception on life and the way you share your thoughts so eloquently is a real gift. Thank you for this video .. I think a lot of people will benefit from watching it. I know I will ❤️

    • @z1lla4
      @z1lla4 4 роки тому +2

      I mean I would assume a psychologist is mainly for the serious mental illness. Usually people go to therapist and one of the reasons for a therapist is so you can talk about every single one of your problems, sad thing is that these people get paid to care and offer advice. Someone people just want someone to listen a psychologist might just be like, "we'll prescribe you Xanax, Adderall, antidepressants".

    • @SuperMaddie07
      @SuperMaddie07 4 роки тому +1

      Ebenezer Lembe's v6 challenger wasn’t meant to be taken literally but sure .. go off sis! X

  • @toiletduck9257
    @toiletduck9257 3 роки тому +16

    He seems genuinely like one of the most likeable UA-camrs out there

  • @randomizationme
    @randomizationme 4 роки тому +1

    Yes I've been overthinking so much especially during quarantine since I have extra time. I sometimes wonder if I'm the one overthinking, or women overthink more but men must worry a lot too.
    Thanks for this Joe, really needed this during this time..

  • @nickoneil228
    @nickoneil228 4 роки тому +2

    This is definitely correct, im currently 21. And i dont have a license, i have been worrying alot that i might fail the test for yrs now, and its been holding me back, im genuinely scared of failure, and being as old as i am without a license just makes the worry worse, but life has definitely gotten hard when i hit 16 i lost a lot of good friends, my childhood friend that past away, relationships, very bad family problems, parents divorcing, so it hasn’t been easy these last couple years but i know that isnt a excuse, i just wish i can just stop worrying and actually take action to change my life.

  • @mattmcwilson1971
    @mattmcwilson1971 3 роки тому +4

    Hm. Thank you for this. I was quite reluctant to click at first. I struggle with anxiety, and in my research on the subject I have watched so many videos, read so many articles and gotten so much "advice" that really boils down to "you're worried? lol, just stop". It gets exhausting. But I took the chance, and I'm actually feeling a little inspired. This video has both substance and compassion, which means a lot to me. So, thanks again!

  • @nickdelasalas8975
    @nickdelasalas8975 3 роки тому +6

    “Worrying is betting against yourself” -Terence Mckenna

  • @lukethatcher665
    @lukethatcher665 4 роки тому +1

    The first couple of minutes is deep and very. True, worrying is one of my worst aspects

  • @omeranjum4248
    @omeranjum4248 4 роки тому

    You know what bro .. not everyone will understand or really comprehend what you have just shared .
    Wisomd at its finest . Money cant buy this knowledge or experience you have shared .
    I respect your thoughts and you for sharing such valuable information .
    I was sitting int he garden after submitting about 50 furlough claims stressing and worrying about them ... now I feel on a different level .. serious no joke.
    Keep up the work and stay humble .
    Love your videos ecspecially deep vids like this

  • @brendonsteel3477
    @brendonsteel3477 4 роки тому +55

    I would be a very very different person if I didn’t find Joey D , and that is not a joke

  • @WarriorFromV4LH4LL4
    @WarriorFromV4LH4LL4 4 роки тому +49

    Philosophical Joey D is just what the world needs

  • @Haneix1
    @Haneix1 4 роки тому +1

    I appreciate this mate, I spend far too much time in my head stressing myself to the extremes about the simplest of things, I sat down at work today and to even just sit passively off my phone was tough, my mind just races and I'll do anything to avoid it, think I'll start meditation.

  • @lukaswatson3914
    @lukaswatson3914 4 роки тому

    This is the best video I've seen on UA-cam, I suffer terribly with anxiety and I worry alot but im going to try and change my mindset to what you explained and hopefully it works! Thank you so much for this video!

  • @louislestner
    @louislestner 4 роки тому +17

    I’m gonna come back here whenever I feel like losing my shit, the soothing sounds of Joey D

  • @Thomas-vk8zn
    @Thomas-vk8zn Рік тому +4

    I come back to this one every now and then. Definitely needed to be reminded of this message today. Thanks for your videos Joe 👏

  • @deniselycett8973
    @deniselycett8973 4 роки тому

    Such A good video.... I am a chronic worrier... mostly about my kids... but I'm actually working on it. I think this is a necessary video because ALOT of people worry and it can cause many problems, health and otherwise. Way to go. I enjoy your other videos and this one was just as enjoyable. Thank you.

  • @RedversCross
    @RedversCross 4 роки тому +2

    You sir, are one of the nicest lads around. You're down to earth, kind, humble and an inspiration to many. I love your videos. Keep them up. Best wishes for you.

  • @ChessboyJohnny
    @ChessboyJohnny 3 роки тому +7

    Damn, this video alone separates you from all the other 'fitness lifestyle influencers', because all of them just want bigger adventures, bigger experiences; which, of course, is the dream for most people, but a lot of times not realistic. I love how you emphasize appreciating the little things and happy moments, very refreshing and grounded approach. Thanks for this piece little wisdom, definitely made my day and days to come a bit better :) less worrying and more appreciating!

  • @nelsonhoffman5922
    @nelsonhoffman5922 4 роки тому +13

    This has got to be your best video ever. Thank you, Joe.

  • @rayblade6383
    @rayblade6383 4 роки тому

    Quite simply one of the most eloquently put pieces I've seen in a long time... Beautiful, sublime, and downright amazing. Content is on another level... Thank you Joey D! Peace!

  • @lucasvalmotta
    @lucasvalmotta 4 роки тому

    Dude... thank you so much. This is one of the best things I‘ve ever seen/heard ❤️

  • @JazSingh007
    @JazSingh007 4 роки тому +32

    As a graduate who finished uni 1 month ago, this video is what I needed for a little extra motivation to not “worry”

    • @zyncra3965
      @zyncra3965 4 роки тому +3

      Congratulations man! Right now is the time to NOT worry for a bit. I just started Uni for psychology and I know I'll be in a fucked state of mind for the next 8+ years. I wish you the best of luck for your future

    • @t-bone9239
      @t-bone9239 4 роки тому +1

      why would you worry when you already finished one of the hardest steps in life?

    • @sleep4life812
      @sleep4life812 3 роки тому +2

      t-bone Actually a lot of people have a difficult time adjusting to leaving the student life and entering adult life. Finding jobs that you sincerely enjoy doesn’t come easy. A lot of people stress they won’t find one and be successful in their lives. So people worry a lot after they graduate uni.

  • @HannesNeuman
    @HannesNeuman Рік тому +3

    Absolutely magnificent video. Kinda quite obvious conclusion but gave me such massive clearness of my current life/career situation.

  • @kylesalazar2872
    @kylesalazar2872 10 місяців тому +1

    i've literally watched this video like 7 times joe, thank you very much for everything,my situation has changed a lot because of you,i started taking more risks,being less of a scaredy little cat and sometimes shit goes south but i always try to make the best out of it
    Thank you for everything joe ,joe delaney is my hero

  • @raynelleugene
    @raynelleugene 4 роки тому

    Amazing video worrying is something I’ve had an issue With for years (One of the reasons why I’m in therapy) I love your take on this! Whenever I get into a space when I’m overwhelming myself with the “what Ifs” I will refer to this video. Thank you for this!

  • @b1chgotk03db4rnz3y
    @b1chgotk03db4rnz3y 4 роки тому +73

    When did Joey D become Joey Deep?

  • @isloshy
    @isloshy 4 роки тому +5

    People try and live their life like a highlight reel, especially with social media. Enjoy each day as it comes and appreciate what you’ve got

  • @cameronoconnor746
    @cameronoconnor746 4 роки тому +1

    Just the video I feel many need including myself, in a time of a lot of uncertainty from general ways of living life to jobs, health etc has sprung a lot of anxiety which of course is rooted from stressing/worrying. So this video has been timed perfectly, class video joe, I hope to see more of this style. Takes me back to the good feels formula video but in a more calm manner this time haha

  • @codealvo
    @codealvo 4 роки тому +1

    One of my favorite videos I’ve seen in a while. Well done Joey 👍 I hope a lot of people see this video and can help themselves a little bit. Positivity is key :) There’s no reason to not be happy 😎

  • @YuriNoirProductions
    @YuriNoirProductions 4 роки тому +3

    11:10
    that sums up my life...i try to fight it like crazy but roughly every two - three years something horrible out of my control happens to me most of the time ruining all of my progressions so far.
    i was pierced through the stomach when attacked by a random dude on the street. i wasnt able to move for three month straight and was stuck in a wheelchair for that time.
    a few years later i had a bike accident. my wheel suddenly blocked and i fell down a hill... my ribs pierced my spleen and i iternally bled to death but luckily got revived in the hospital. couldnt walk anymore after that becausr they had to cut my entire abs.
    had a bit of time and started gymnastics and actually got quite fit again... then i had an accident due to a failure in a safety mat i landed on. ripped all my ligaments and broke a few bones.
    had to relearn walking again.
    this cycle continued my entire life... lately i suddenly couldnt walk for a year straight because of tendon inflammation in my feet soles.... absolutly ridiculous pain basically from nothing.
    This shit rips me out of my routine every fucking time. pain up to a point where i simply have to stop. After recovering i started going to the gym again just to get a dic prolapse a few weeks later.
    I know exactl ywhat i'm doing in sports and i'm super fucking careful it's really just bad luck every time.
    the only thing i got from it is learning to stand up fast and work back up again. but i honestly cant get up fast enough than it drags me down again.
    this level of shit happens out of nowhere to me. and i',m a really careful person already as i value my life alot. i stopped taking risks by now as i'm too afraid of the consequences. this shit ruined my life so much. if all that BS did not happen to me i would be in a totally different place and state of life nowadays

  • @chipdip360
    @chipdip360 4 роки тому +4

    Incredibly relevant in today's time and I have become a victim to the worry you speak about as a result of the times. I'll be watching this video for years to come, thank you.

  • @ocooperr
    @ocooperr 4 роки тому +1

    Another quality video. Really help in all aspects of life. I , and I’m sure I speak for everyone watching you appreciate you mate 👏

  • @tr1ckster726
    @tr1ckster726 Рік тому +1

    I love everything about this. What a unique perspective and what an important message.

  • @Adrian-lm1vi
    @Adrian-lm1vi 4 роки тому +48

    Who needs a therapist when you have Joey D

  • @paddymackenzie2039
    @paddymackenzie2039 4 роки тому +6

    I was about to start worrying about my acting ability, but then I watched this video... thanks joe☺️

  • @adrians4452
    @adrians4452 4 роки тому +2

    This really helped calm me down during a difficult moment mate, thank you

  • @Erickscomp
    @Erickscomp 4 роки тому

    Vídeos like this is one of the reasons I think love your UA-cam channel!! Not only for the nutrition, workout tips, but also for a great mental health happiness push!

  • @thedeeprot
    @thedeeprot 4 роки тому +80

    Big vibes!

  • @plotzlichgelb2845
    @plotzlichgelb2845 4 роки тому +5

    "Maturity: The ability to change what must be change, to accept what can't be change and to know the difference of these 2"
    - red it on a park place toilette while travelling through New Zealand

  • @reya5667
    @reya5667 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for taking the time to construct a well thought out and articulated video. It was helpful to hear and you made a number of valid and balanced points.

  • @aartinho
    @aartinho 4 роки тому +12

    "The feel of we made it is stronger than the feel of i made it" -Joey D