A friend and I were just talking about this recently! Some just say, “XYZ needs your prayers for a problem.” Others say, “XYZ needs your prayers because . . .” Better get that sweet tea refilled because your about to hear more than you should.
A former colleague was once horrified when she found out I'll test the "communication patterns" of the department by putting random hypotheticals out and see how long it takes to turn into Absolute Fact. Keeps me entertained and informed! Sometimes a rat gets flushed out, too.
Reminds me of an old car commercial. Smith is coming back to work after an apparent 3 day weekend. As he stops at the gate, he chats with the guard about his new car(the subject of the commercial). Then, as he's driving around trying to find a parking space, the story starts going around and goes from "Smith got a new Optima" to "Smith got a promotion, with options". As he's riding up the elevator it becomes "Smith's taking over". Finally, as he steps off the elevator on his company's floor, he finds that the company name sign behind the receptionist has been changed and she's now answering the phone "Hello, Smith Worldwide?" They don't make commercials like they used to.
Fun! - But you forgot the Endless Rehash! Yes, Southerners are GREAT storytellers and here I miss conversation as an entertaining art form. But really, why gossip about people who died forty years ago??!? Grew up in the East, live in the Midwest, and love my Virginia cousins!
I the type that listen but try not listen 😂😂😂 and if the information is wrong of course it’s my duty to correct them 😂😂😂 I be saying that’s not what he or she told me
My son is 19 and finally heard some family gossip that his dad was talking about. He ran into the room and said mama did you know, all his sign, all the old man, he was so shocked, but excited that he got to hear from family drama. I miss thing was somebody was smoking a cigarette and had their oxygen tank. Nearby & forgot all about it and caught their hair on fire.
Latest gossip going around my house: "Did you hear that Obama's personal chef was found floating belly up in the pong at Martha's Vineyard?" Man, talk about Obama AND a mysterious murder? Now that's some drama that you can't pass by in Alabama. The conspiracies are gonna be flyin' tonight!
Eh, the guy lived on the property and stated online he couldn't swim. Kinda seems like he got too deep, panicked and drowned, but we'll see what details came out
0:07 actually I’m nodding I agree 100 % everybody knows everybody you better watch what you say some of it might be true don’t take it and run with it without knowing the full story take it with a grain of salt
Sorry ladies: A gossip is an abuser. If you've ever been the victim, you know. Gossip is one, twisted side of the story, to which the victim rarely has the opportunity to respond. Don't enable abusers by spreading their dirty work around. Words of gossip are no prettier or cuter than the ugliest swear words.
So do ya'll remember The Three RRR's? Reading, wRiting and aRthmetic? What the fuck is that bullshit about? I've never trusted a teacher after that. Also the words I use most are e before i. try it you'll be surpised.
The Bible says to not gossip. Who are the biggest gossips? So called "Christians." Be sure to pray for Aunt Edna and her boyfriend with a felony! If your "prayer request" isn't for yourself, then keep it to yourself.
This one hits a little too close to home for me, having been the subject of someone else's gossip. I have an aunt by marriage, a Southern Belle from Mississippi (Bless her heart) to whom I never tell anything unless it's absolutely necessary. I know the minute I do tell her anything, it will be broadcast far and wide to everyone in her social circle. She called me out of the blue the other day to tell me the personal business of a friend of hers, a woman I don't even know, because the first friend she told wasn't sufficiently sympathetic.
I had a coworker who used to tell me the craziest things going on about her life. One day, I asked, "Why on Earth do you tell me these things?" (Some of them were really private matters.) She said, "I'm just venting. And I know you wont tell anyone." I guess at some point there was a test involved. I will listen to gossip, but I never repeat it.
@@DanielCoffey67 I've worked in Law Enforcement for near 30 years. My partner used to say, what is it with you and mentally ill people? They all love you. It's because I listen to their problems. Rarely have I ever had to fight one. So yeah, maybe I was a therapist in a former life.
Y’all, I’m so worried that some evil person on here will point out that our sweet, adorable Talia said “resolve” when she clearly meant to say “absolve.” I mean, how ugly would that be? Bless her heart…
The best gossip is when you are sworn to secrecy by the first source then you hear it from TWO other sources. At point it's historical fact according to what i learned in college history. And you can repeat it without revealing the first source because it is common knowledge at that point.
At lunch after morning service at church: 1. Did Susie have her baby yet? 2. Was Bob and his wife sitting together? 3. What kind of that did Mrs Goodie wear? The big purple one with the pheasant feather? 4. Did the Jones' son come visit from college? 5. Did Ralph get his cast off his foot yet? What, you don't know? What did you do at church anyway?
No one is so bad they don't need prayin' for. Jesus dined with the tax collectors because they were the ones who needed him the most. Bless all the hearts, both good and bad, but especially the bad. About the only Kesha song I like, but she put it well when she sang, "I pray for you at night/ Someday, maybe you'll see the light /Some say, in life, you're gonna get what you give/ But some things, only God can forgive ... I hope you're praying/ I hope your soul is changing"
not everyone gossips. As for real connection and valid conversations sure that's good. But then again I like ideas more than people. And big concepts instead of small talk. Also yes people in the south can be nosey. And small towns are well known for everyone knowing everything. I'm very against that. I don't need networks of spys. People just need nice people around them. They don't need to know everything. Also I don't think it matters how you tell it. Some people aren't interested either way. Trying harder to be interesting about something boring or tragic doesn't help. But sure I'd imagine your girlfriends on the edge of their seat. Just you know not me.
Hello everyone Jesus loves you. He die on the cross for you and i for a debt we couldn’t pay, he really did rosé again on the third day and is alive today. He wants a relationship with you not religion. Jesus loves you and I love you like if you want to accept Jesus today
well, a good story is just that. gossip is more a lady pass time, normally with some intent behind it. it was unfortunate about trent and that misunderstanding about the grill but it was lunch and he made enough for everyone in the dept. the upside was he just got his first unemployment check and he is buying the beer
I don't go to church, but I've been told the story of someone at work we call the 5 million dollar man. Long story short he cut into a holding tank and came a hair short of letting all of the very dangerous liquid out. Probably is true because everyone who is and has been in my crew knows the story.
You know Billy Bob figured out Mary Beth was fooling around on him when she came back from that "conference" with her lower "mustache" waxed off. But don't let anyone know that I told you.
Older than yall and I refuse to gossip. I grew up your business aint mine and aint my place to repeat. It's too bad more people don't keep their nose out of other peoples crap.
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The absolute pinnacle of the fine southern art of gossip, to me, is a prayer request at church.
Facts!
Oh that's absolutely true!
Amen.
A friend and I were just talking about this recently! Some just say, “XYZ needs your prayers for a problem.” Others say, “XYZ needs your prayers because . . .” Better get that sweet tea refilled because your about to hear more than you should.
If it happens at church it's not gossiping,it's sharing.
When I was a kid, my uncle used to say the only reason he got the local newspaper was to verify what my aunt already heard.
ROFL
That sounds like something my dad would have said 😂😂💜💜
“We ain’t gossiping, we’re discussing prayer concerns” or “It’s not gossip if it’s spoken in a prayer circle”! 🤣🤣
A former colleague was once horrified when she found out I'll test the "communication patterns" of the department by putting random hypotheticals out and see how long it takes to turn into Absolute Fact. Keeps me entertained and informed! Sometimes a rat gets flushed out, too.
Reminds me of an old car commercial.
Smith is coming back to work after an apparent 3 day weekend. As he stops at the gate, he chats with the guard about his new car(the subject of the commercial).
Then, as he's driving around trying to find a parking space, the story starts going around and goes from "Smith got a new Optima" to "Smith got a promotion, with options". As he's riding up the elevator it becomes "Smith's taking over".
Finally, as he steps off the elevator on his company's floor, he finds that the company name sign behind the receptionist has been changed and she's now answering the phone "Hello, Smith Worldwide?"
They don't make commercials like they used to.
@@txgunguy2766I wish I could find this commercial
We don’t gossip. We spread peoples names so we can get others to pray for them. Bless their little hearts.
😂😂 A True Southern Gossiper does it by mouth, not by e-mailing or messaging by phone!😂😂
Talia, Love you guys!
Most of the time that's what just coming over to visit is all about! I think that might also be considered as multitasking.
"Y'all know my heart..." 😂😂😂💜
And add a point for saying “I’m only telling you this so you can be praying!” Hahaha 😂
It's not gossip, it's just letting people know what happened, because that way they can pray for the person, or at least check on them.
Also, talking about people isn't gossip. Everybody does it. It's totally acceptable.
Front porch gossip from Grandma is ALWAYS right. Oh and don't but in.
Bless your heart for speaking the truth and providing guidance.
The ‘be careful’…. So real 🤣
Spilling the tea while sipping tea. That’s the southern way.
"Oh you'll never hear one of us repeating gossip so you better listen close the first time."
This is legitimately useful advice.
Is it bad that I moved my cursor to find out Ryan's gossip? I would ike, no, I NEED to hear how he wrecked Talia's car! LOL! Run, Ryan, Run!
Every word is TRUE. By the way I love the graphics in this.
"I'm not one to gossip. But..." 😏😏😏
But you forgot the most important part! "If you can't say something nice... come sit by me." :D (My momma used to say that!)
Oh and being able to conjugate all the uses of Bless their/your heart, very important in southern gossip.
Fun! - But you forgot the Endless Rehash! Yes, Southerners are GREAT storytellers and here I miss conversation as an entertaining art form. But really, why gossip about people who died forty years ago??!? Grew up in the East, live in the Midwest, and love my Virginia cousins!
I the type that listen but try not listen 😂😂😂 and if the information is wrong of course it’s my duty to correct them 😂😂😂 I be saying that’s not what he or she told me
New tip:BE ABLE TO KEEP A SECRET
This is so true
My son is 19 and finally heard some family gossip that his dad was talking about. He ran into the room and said mama did you know, all his sign, all the old man, he was so shocked, but excited that he got to hear from family drama. I miss thing was somebody was smoking a cigarette and had their oxygen tank. Nearby & forgot all about it and caught their hair on fire.
LOL, spot on as always!
Over the backyard fence gossiping
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My mother will whisper when speaking about someone living in another state...or dead.
Lotf 😮😅! I heard a huge amount of this at my former office. Laughing quietly at them everytime. 😅
So true
I was listening while sort of looking at the video. Then T-Rex showed up. LOL, I had to go back and double check that I wasn't seeing things.
Latest gossip going around my house: "Did you hear that Obama's personal chef was found floating belly up in the pong at Martha's Vineyard?"
Man, talk about Obama AND a mysterious murder? Now that's some drama that you can't pass by in Alabama. The conspiracies are gonna be flyin' tonight!
Eh, the guy lived on the property and stated online he couldn't swim. Kinda seems like he got too deep, panicked and drowned, but we'll see what details came out
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Talia is gorgeous!!!
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This is great
0:07 actually I’m nodding I agree 100 % everybody knows everybody you better watch what you say some of it might be true don’t take it and run with it without knowing the full story take it with a grain of salt
My OCD is distracted by her shirt either buttoned wrong or half tucked in
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A long time ago it felt southern. These are almost like an apology now.
I hear there's a fella on UA-cam that is sweet on Talia.
A bunch of em lol
LOL ITS UNLISTED
Is she abby cox?
Sorry ladies: A gossip is an abuser. If you've ever been the victim, you know. Gossip is one, twisted side of the story, to which the victim rarely has the opportunity to respond. Don't enable abusers by spreading their dirty work around. Words of gossip are no prettier or cuter than the ugliest swear words.
So do ya'll remember The Three RRR's? Reading, wRiting and aRthmetic? What the fuck is that bullshit about? I've never trusted a teacher after that. Also the words I use most are e before i. try it you'll be surpised.
The Bible says to not gossip. Who are the biggest gossips? So called "Christians." Be sure to pray for Aunt Edna and her boyfriend with a felony! If your "prayer request" isn't for yourself, then keep it to yourself.
Unfortunately you're right. It's a big sin and really prevalent in churches.
Listen close. The. First Time. If Spreading Gossip. - Hee Haw
Why I don't trust southern women.
Oh muh gah! When is she gonna stop bein’ so hot?!?!?!?
No disrespect intended, of course!
Love y’all!
2st
And for LORDS sake learn how to tell a good deer hunting story. This i shot him. Dont cut it.
"You'll never hear one us repeating gossip,
So you better be sure and listen close the first time."
- The Ladies of Hee Haw.
Southerners are not gossips, they are consummate raconteurs✨😄✨
This one hits a little too close to home for me, having been the subject of someone else's gossip. I have an aunt by marriage, a Southern Belle from Mississippi (Bless her heart) to whom I never tell anything unless it's absolutely necessary. I know the minute I do tell her anything, it will be broadcast far and wide to everyone in her social circle. She called me out of the blue the other day to tell me the personal business of a friend of hers, a woman I don't even know, because the first friend she told wasn't sufficiently sympathetic.
She is so thoughtful to think of others this way!
I had a coworker who used to tell me the craziest things going on about her life. One day, I asked, "Why on Earth do you tell me these things?" (Some of them were really private matters.) She said, "I'm just venting. And I know you wont tell anyone." I guess at some point there was a test involved. I will listen to gossip, but I never repeat it.
There is great value in just being a Listener... an ear. Effectively you are fulfilling the role of an unpaid Therapist.
@@DanielCoffey67 I've worked in Law Enforcement for near 30 years. My partner used to say, what is it with you and mentally ill people? They all love you. It's because I listen to their problems. Rarely have I ever had to fight one. So yeah, maybe I was a therapist in a former life.
Y’all, I’m so worried that some evil person on here will point out that our sweet, adorable Talia said “resolve” when she clearly meant to say “absolve.” I mean, how ugly would that be? Bless her heart…
Add a lot of bless your hearts to gossip like a southerner.
This is so true. Us Southerns LOOOOOOVE gossip.
The best gossip is when you are sworn to secrecy by the first source then you hear it from TWO other sources. At point it's historical fact according to what i learned in college history. And you can repeat it without revealing the first source because it is common knowledge at that point.
My cousin used to say if it's true it ain't gossip.
But it could be slander
We're just making sure everybody is up to date on the news. That's not gossip. 😇
At lunch after morning service at church:
1. Did Susie have her baby yet?
2. Was Bob and his wife sitting together?
3. What kind of that did Mrs Goodie wear? The big purple one with the pheasant feather?
4. Did the Jones' son come visit from college?
5. Did Ralph get his cast off his foot yet?
What, you don't know? What did you do at church anyway?
I'd believe anything Talia told me. She's an absolute gem!
Now what I want to know is, what if the individual you’re gossiping about is so horrible that they don’t deserve a Bless Your Heart?
No one is so bad they don't need prayin' for. Jesus dined with the tax collectors because they were the ones who needed him the most. Bless all the hearts, both good and bad, but especially the bad.
About the only Kesha song I like, but she put it well when she sang, "I pray for you at night/ Someday, maybe you'll see the light /Some say, in life, you're gonna get what you give/ But some things, only God can forgive ... I hope you're praying/ I hope your soul is changing"
@@mwater_moon2865 but that’s not the Bless Your Heart that I was referring to.
She Wolves made of steel magnolias.
Brilliant, as always!
I think it would be funny if you did how to Church gossip.
Gossip has destroyed reputations, careers, marriages…
" Girl let me tell ya....Now don't you tell anybody about this.... but I heard..........." :0)......( this is the tea )...
Yup. That’s exactly how we do it.
Does the shirt half in/half out have a significance? Is it code? Or is the gossip so juicy you won't have time to finish getting dressed🤔🤣
Obligatory upvote for the Universally Acknowledged.
Y’all didn’t hear it from me though! 😁😁👍🏻
bonus points if its at the church parking lot
I love this channel , it’s too damned good
Here's more gossip, I'm deeply in love with Talia and we kiss often in my dreams!
Stop kissing on my woman!
What are you teaching the children, Talia?
not everyone gossips. As for real connection and valid conversations sure that's good. But then again I like ideas more than people. And big concepts instead of small talk. Also yes people in the south can be nosey. And small towns are well known for everyone knowing everything. I'm very against that. I don't need networks of spys. People just need nice people around them. They don't need to know everything. Also I don't think it matters how you tell it. Some people aren't interested either way. Trying harder to be interesting about something boring or tragic doesn't help. But sure I'd imagine your girlfriends on the edge of their seat. Just you know not me.
Hello everyone Jesus loves you. He die on the cross for you and i for a debt we couldn’t pay, he really did rosé again on the third day and is alive today. He wants a relationship with you not religion. Jesus loves you and I love you like if you want to accept Jesus today
Talia… just come home babe! ROFLMAO
well, a good story is just that. gossip is more a lady pass time, normally with some intent behind it.
it was unfortunate about trent and that misunderstanding about the grill but it was lunch and he made enough for everyone in the dept. the upside was he just got his first unemployment check and he is buying the beer
Oh Lord that's funny!
Jesus gonna get y'all.
High protein low carb diet did wonders for me, try it.
I don’t want to be Ugly!
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What do you call it when you 'gossip' because when you gossip you always say, "You know I'm not a gossip but..."
Well you have to do something with all them fancy southern words! Part II - Southern Grannies show their mastery of gossip.
My Mom and my oldest brother would sit for hours and gossip about our Pittsburgh relatives.
I don't go to church, but I've been told the story of someone at work we call the 5 million dollar man. Long story short he cut into a holding tank and came a hair short of letting all of the very dangerous liquid out. Probably is true because everyone who is and has been in my crew knows the story.
Ryan, your secret's safe with me!
Reminds me of the women where I went to church when I was young.
Hi
I'm a witness to this 😂👍🏾
I call it "Lose Lips"!!
You know Billy Bob figured out Mary Beth was fooling around on him when she came back from that "conference" with her lower "mustache" waxed off. But don't let anyone know that I told you.
I heard that wasn't the only thing she waxed
Crap, Northerners don't get the THINK part. We have nastier gossip than Southerners.
Older than yall and I refuse to gossip. I grew up your business aint mine and aint my place to repeat. It's too bad more people don't keep their nose out of other peoples crap.
Every Trini will tell u everything and is not gossip is macko