👥 People tend to perceive social situations more negatively than they actually are 00:01:10 😊 It is beneficial to see social situations more positively than they really are 00:02:29 👋 Tips for extending positive interactions and knowing when to leave 00:05:46 🙏 Express gratitude for positive interactions 00:10:57 📝 Write down and remember positive interactions 00:12:27 👥 Challenge negative perceptions by intentionally interacting with people who make you nervous 00:19:53
@@SocialShortcuts Can you tell what will first step For beinG master communication From level zero ( that cover 90 percente of Social skills) My ans is : Talking more peoples in day . Now what you think boss : ??????????
@@5fbycdgfdr managing your own emotions is by miles & miles the most important thing in social skills. Ideally you want high confidence & high enthusiasm at the same time. Mostly people struggle with nervousness for which calmness is the neutralising/opposite emotion so aim to be a calmer person generally especially in social situations if you’re generally nervous. Probably the most powerful single point is to make your primary objective & the only thing you count as to win that you ATTEMPT to cause positive emotions (not that you actually do). Anything else is only a bonus goal. This is really simple & really powerful. I posted another video recently on this.
@@SocialShortcuts -I liked how you demonstrated examples on how giving an open-ended question, can get a response in a conversation beyond a yes or a know. -I also liked how you pointed out that you can pick out certain information that you can refer to later for another topic to dicuss. For example if they visited Italy the weather was hot and had fish. There a 3 subjects to talk about: fish, Italy and weather and each of these can be branched out further. My only gripe was that the vids could have been cut into shorter bite sized chunks, to retain information and keep the up attention span. Apart from that I enjoyed it.
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People tend to perceive social situations more negatively than they actually are
00:01:10
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It is beneficial to see social situations more positively than they really are
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Tips for extending positive interactions and knowing when to leave
00:05:46
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Express gratitude for positive interactions
00:10:57
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Write down and remember positive interactions
00:12:27
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Challenge negative perceptions by intentionally interacting with people who make you nervous
00:19:53
Oh wow thanks for this I’ll add this in the descriptions for future videos that have different sections 😄
@@SocialShortcuts Can you tell what will first step For beinG master communication From level zero ( that cover 90 percente of Social skills)
My ans is : Talking more peoples in day .
Now what you think boss : ??????????
@@5fbycdgfdr managing your own emotions is by miles & miles the most important thing in social skills. Ideally you want high confidence & high enthusiasm at the same time. Mostly people struggle with nervousness for which calmness is the neutralising/opposite emotion so aim to be a calmer person generally especially in social situations if you’re generally nervous. Probably the most powerful single point is to make your primary objective & the only thing you count as to win that you ATTEMPT to cause positive emotions (not that you actually do). Anything else is only a bonus goal. This is really simple & really powerful. I posted another video recently on this.
how lovely!
@@spontaneousbootay thanks ☺️
I appreciate this content, btw I completed your course on Udemy it's great 👍🏾
Thanks a lot. What did you like about it?
@@SocialShortcuts
-I liked how you demonstrated examples on how giving an open-ended question, can get a response in a conversation beyond a yes or a know.
-I also liked how you pointed out that you can pick out certain information that you can refer to later for another topic to dicuss. For example if they visited Italy the weather was hot and had fish. There a 3 subjects to talk about: fish, Italy and weather and each of these can be branched out further.
My only gripe was that the vids could have been cut into shorter bite sized chunks, to retain information and keep the up attention span. Apart from that I enjoyed it.