@@claireli yeah, but you can't extrapolate that to an actual hater. "I believe that you would have gotten so much trouble/felt so much worse/etc, if you just don't bully me" Like... What?
I've often seen bosses throw employees under the bus. Particularly, if the alternative would include them taking accountability for their own flawed leadership.
It's also interesting to see the contrast between Taylor and Jimmy Kimmel's level of empathy here. Calling out his powerless staff like that in the middle of the show was awkward and pretty unkind of him
@@mackhomie6 ... does that detract from my point, though? Even if it was staged (which I doubt), it was still inconsiderate of Jimmy to decide to have this part make the final cut just for laughs/to bait swifties into dunking on one of his staff But I can see where you're coming from, and it truthfully didn't even cross my mind that this could've been staged beforehand so thanks for sharing
@@coyotethepangolin6760 it's actually standard practice for these hosts and guests to meet before the filming to go over what the questions will be and the jokes, etc. being that they were planning on mentioning this employee, seems farfetched to me that they wouldn't inform him to make sure that he was in the right place at the right time
@@coyotethepangolin6760 lol if you think this was bad you should see his interview he had with Mike Liddell where he repeatedly refers to him as a "former crack head"
I do feel bad for the guy too. He's standing on national TV, for doing his job. Taylor is really nice about it, says volumes about her character. But Jimmy didnt have to put him up like he committed a sin. That dude was probably underpaid and dealing with many people already.
@Sebastian everyone writes songs about their exes. Bruno Mars, Harry Styles, Justin Bieber, Ed Sheeran etc. Why don't you call them out? Also, not all her songs are about her exes?? Stop judging when you don't know a thing about her.
This is obviously scripted, why would they just get the guy up on the stage to be massacred. They were obviously were prepared for Taylor's answer. Everyone looks good and the gullible fans get more fan material.
@@silentbreakdown2930 every talk show is My point is based on what I've seen from her in her entire career she's very emotionally intelligent and tbh overall a great business person.
Technically he was not a hater he was genuinely doing his job I mean I don't know the rest of the clip he might have been really nasty about doing it but Taylor is technically correct his job was to keep random people out of the studio
@@niaanjai3112 you gotta imagine how many people probably go up, tossing demos, headshots, singing, dancing, acting, ETC. Those people deal/dealt that 24/7 and at a point, it becomes frustrating so him shouting to get out makes perfect sense. He wasn't hating, just doing his job and he would being dealing with thousands of people like that.
As a singer myself, she’s the one who inspired me throughout everyyy singlee song of mine. She’s an idol. She is a queen & not everyone’s gonna like that. It takes a different level of maturity and understanding to view other peoples perspectives. Compassion is what makes her personality so unique.
She’s on a different level. Some celebrities I get confused as to why they are so successful and it makes me feel bad as a human. But then I see her, and I’m like. Yeah. She deserves it. She worked for it. I can work too.
Yes because you know her more than anyone else. Lol she could be evil on the inside but because she makes woe is me, damsel in distress music and this video she is on a different level lol
Unfortunately celebrities and famous artists are ones who come from money and connections. Taylor's dad was a stockbroker for Merril Lynch and her grandmother was a well known opera singer. She had other connections, but yeah. Do work hard but dont make your life your work, the likelihood of you reaching these people's level is nil. They are modern nobility
@@riddhisingh5466 I don't doubt that Taylor works hard and has talent. I am just saying I do doubt that she would have reached her potential with less wealthy parents and/or being lucky. It takes double the talent and double the effort to make up the difference.
jimmy LOVES humiliating his own cast. Like that other guy he makes wear fairy dresses and bikinis and just straight up is a rude person. We love Taylor.
Um idk how i feel about how the guy who did his normal, probably underpaying job is being villainized by the host. If it were anything but Taylor, it could've gone very differently. Like the entire emphasis and tone "threw you out", "get out". Good on Taylor for maintaining a level head and being a generally empathetic person
We really don't realize how insanely young we look as teenagers, especially between 13-16y/o. Tiny child is a decent description of what he may have stumbled upon.
Looking just 2 see if anyone else said something about this .. U were 15,16 ohh I was 14,wonder out , get in more trouble, random14 yr tiny child,Guy who threw u out , GET OUT THE BUILDINg Just all alil weird 2 me
He wasn't a hater. A hater is someone telling you "you sing bad"/"you can't play guitar"/"you're too young to be a singer". He was doing his job. Not because of her age or talent, but because she *was not* famous and *did not* belong there because she wasn't a guest. I love her for standing up for him while he's being put on blast for doing his job.
Taylor is one of those celebrities I know won’t disappoint me if I met her in real life. She’s so kind despite everything. It brings me to tears to see that.
Y’all are missing the point. Claire isn’t saying anyone is a “hater” she’s saying that if someone approaches you thinking you’ll respond NEGATIVELY, respond in an empathetic way to appear charming and charismatic.
Love Taylor Swift. We lost an angel here in Missouri and Taylor made her feel special. On the other hand Justin beiber never showed up. Many children from make a wish waited for him. He said he'd be back and again wasted their dreams and didn't show. Taylor is sweet and silly. She's so human and kind. Much love to you Taylor for all the happiness you bring and have brought to so many people from your heart. It takes time and compassion to care and none at all not to.
I think the problem with saying that though is it comes across a bit arrogant. Celebrities often have to speak with humility in order to be relatable and likeable, which means avoiding bragging about their success
Let me clarify that, we don't give a sh*t about Scott, this interviewer is a narcissistic sociopath who tried to put two ppl against each other for some views. This is disgusting either way. 🤮
I thought Jimmy was the hater here. Why are there so many clips of talk show hosts throwing her under the bus? Ohhhh ... because she is authentic. Still, good on her. So glad she countersued the ass-grabber and testified unapologetically in court. (Duh, right. That sentence says so much about how far we've come but anyway.) Total role model, love it.
@@Riddlemethiseveryone I think of it like this. I think you probably would have gotten in more trouble had you not made this comment about why is this random girl, sitting here making a video, what's happening here.
This was an attempt at publicly humiliating an individual for an event that very little details have been provided except for what Jimmie said. The host saying the name of the individual on the media has contributed to fuel haters and put this guy’s life and his family in danger of wackos. Taylor has demonstrated excellent emotional intelligence communication skills.
Jimmy - "Let's throw one of my longtime employees under the bus for a cheap laugh" Taylor - "How about we just show some class and talk about something fun?"
He wasn't a hater. He was the person responsible for quality control regarding the musical entertainment they booked for the show. It was literally his job.
I really love how Taylor swift handle those unexpected difficult and humiliating situations in her life with wisdom, respect and kindness. I hope i can do that as well. Because for me it’s hard to control my emotions.
I always knew Jimmy is a Douche and this video proves it. He has this in common with Elen trying to humiliate subordinates for ratings! Also they have the worst audience because they encourage thim by laughing when they do these things! P.S. Lots of respect to Taylor for defending that poor guy who had no voice, understanding he was only doing his job.👏🙌
It's literally called putting urself in their shoes and being conscious of the collective and not taking things personal lmao . Why yall surprised 🤣 she prolly was mad but she seems like she forgave him bc she understand him
Taylor treated him like a human. No one could've handled this better than the way she handled it, she didn't just say oh I'm over it, she didn't get mad at him. But she did what SO many people fail to do which is out yourself in their position.
Thanks for the lesson. I'm not perfect but I have always try to be empathetic to someone that's rude/frustrating. Especially when I work in the F&B right now. Sometimes their food will come out an hour later because there are so many people order a lot of things in their receipt. And there is only me alone (sometimes the manager will help out) to do all their orders. We just lack of staffs sometimes
Bet jimmy didn't see that answer coming Way to make a spectacle of someone for doing his job like you asked him to. If I'm the guy from hence forth, I'd let random people on.
I don't listen to her music because it's not my style, but I'm a big fan of her because who she is as a person. She was raised right , shows respect and I support her and the moral integrity she has!
The guy is not a “hater” he was following the rules or what he had been told what to do. She just said what was common sense… no on “empathetic”. This is a stupid example of how to handle your “Hater”.
That's what I do. When someone hates on me I just try to understand their perspective. It doesn't bother me anymore what people say about me. I am an accomplished person
He was never a hater. He was JUST doing his job as Taylor pointed out and now he’s put on the spot by the same people who set the rules for the said job
Empathy is an underrated ability and it isn't just kind to others but is also ultimately being kinder to yourself. Don't underestimate this girl she is smart.
It’s called being happy class and being enough on your feet….smart with your tongue and and not deviating from the highroad. Way to go Taylor you’re always a class act.❤️❤️❤️❤️
Based entirely on this spliced video, the guy isn’t even a hater. Like Taylor said, he was just doing his job.
The lesson of how to respond to haters is “inspired” by this dialogue :)
@@claireli got it 💙
Thank u dear, he was no hater, just doing his job
@@claireli yeah, but you can't extrapolate that to an actual hater. "I believe that you would have gotten so much trouble/felt so much worse/etc, if you just don't bully me"
Like... What?
@@AngieDeAguirre exactly! This makes no sense 😕
Putting your employees under the bus for doing their job for entertainment, can't be acceptable.
Exactly
I've often seen bosses throw employees under the bus. Particularly, if the alternative would include them taking accountability for their own flawed leadership.
@@AvecPoesie ya, Lord forbid if they have to do that
Oh, in the "entertainment industry" that IS their entertainment. The veneer is starting to wear.
I was thinking the same, and Taylor gave a befitting reply to him.
It's also interesting to see the contrast between Taylor and Jimmy Kimmel's level of empathy here. Calling out his powerless staff like that in the middle of the show was awkward and pretty unkind of him
you think they didn't discuss it beforehand? probably all three of them, too.
@@mackhomie6 ... does that detract from my point, though? Even if it was staged (which I doubt), it was still inconsiderate of Jimmy to decide to have this part make the final cut just for laughs/to bait swifties into dunking on one of his staff
But I can see where you're coming from, and it truthfully didn't even cross my mind that this could've been staged beforehand so thanks for sharing
@@coyotethepangolin6760 it's actually standard practice for these hosts and guests to meet before the filming to go over what the questions will be and the jokes, etc. being that they were planning on mentioning this employee, seems farfetched to me that they wouldn't inform him to make sure that he was in the right place at the right time
@@coyotethepangolin6760 lol if you think this was bad you should see his interview he had with Mike Liddell where he repeatedly refers to him as a "former crack head"
I'm sure it was pre-planned.
He wasn't even a hater. He was just doing his job. Poor guy.
I do feel bad for the guy too. He's standing on national TV, for doing his job. Taylor is really nice about it, says volumes about her character. But Jimmy didnt have to put him up like he committed a sin. That dude was probably underpaid and dealing with many people already.
Kimmel is a douche and no show would have put a 14 year old nobody on live tv
If anyone, it's Jimmy, he is the aashole
Very true!
True, why would even someone do that on the tv. Poor guy
Dude this was already said in the pinned comment
She's so emotionally intelligent
@Sebastian everyone writes songs about their exes. Bruno Mars, Harry Styles, Justin Bieber, Ed Sheeran etc. Why don't you call them out? Also, not all her songs are about her exes?? Stop judging when you don't know a thing about her.
@@directionerswiftie395 shut up nerd ill eat ur food
@@jimmychucksluckfluck8805 i think he was replying to someone who dissed her but they deleted their comment, i’m not sure though.
This is obviously scripted, why would they just get the guy up on the stage to be massacred. They were obviously were prepared for Taylor's answer. Everyone looks good and the gullible fans get more fan material.
@@silentbreakdown2930 every talk show is
My point is based on what I've seen from her in her entire career she's very emotionally intelligent and tbh overall a great business person.
I love this girl she has so much dignity
Taylor is the GOAT. She loves her fans and she loves them. She's a regular person who's super popular and she hasn't let it go to her head.
Technically he was not a hater he was genuinely doing his job I mean I don't know the rest of the clip he might have been really nasty about doing it but Taylor is technically correct his job was to keep random people out of the studio
I agree with u that doesn't mean he had to be rude ... Like "GET OUT THE BUILDING " I mean being a little subtle would have been good u know
She also shows up jimmy I bet that guy just wants the ground to swallow him up
@@niaanjai3112 you gotta imagine how many people probably go up, tossing demos, headshots, singing, dancing, acting, ETC. Those people deal/dealt that 24/7 and at a point, it becomes frustrating so him shouting to get out makes perfect sense. He wasn't hating, just doing his job and he would being dealing with thousands of people like that.
Yeah I agree, this wasn't a hater
@@authoress777annie yes you're right too .. thank you ♥️
she's always so polite and careful of other's feelings. very thoughtful, very inspiring.
Wrong
@@fartpopper no
@@fartpopperThat's not much of an argument. Is that all you've got?
As a singer myself, she’s the one who inspired me throughout everyyy singlee song of mine. She’s an idol. She is a queen & not everyone’s gonna like that. It takes a different level of maturity and understanding to view other peoples perspectives. Compassion is what makes her personality so unique.
I love her so much.
She recognized that he was just doing the right thing and didn't blame him for being responsible and professional.
Taylor is such a Class Act and so smoothly came up with the perfect response that let the other guy save face.
Yet interviewer is the real clown and without a scratch off class trying to put fire on it
That's Jimmy Kimmel and the person he was talking about works for him
@@hunniii2356 what makes it even worse. Putting someone under your command through that stress. He is an narcissistic idiot.
I will never forgive Jimmy Kimmel for the Man Show.
She’s on a different level. Some celebrities I get confused as to why they are so successful and it makes me feel bad as a human. But then I see her, and I’m like. Yeah. She deserves it. She worked for it. I can work too.
Yes because you know her more than anyone else. Lol she could be evil on the inside but because she makes woe is me, damsel in distress music and this video she is on a different level lol
@@vee3497 thank you for your input
Unfortunately celebrities and famous artists are ones who come from money and connections. Taylor's dad was a stockbroker for Merril Lynch and her grandmother was a well known opera singer. She had other connections, but yeah. Do work hard but dont make your life your work, the likelihood of you reaching these people's level is nil. They are modern nobility
@@cocoa020 thanks 🙏🏻
@@riddhisingh5466 I don't doubt that Taylor works hard and has talent. I am just saying I do doubt that she would have reached her potential with less wealthy parents and/or being lucky. It takes double the talent and double the effort to make up the difference.
I wish I had the social intelligence of Taylor Swift😭
jimmy LOVES humiliating his own cast. Like that other guy he makes wear fairy dresses and bikinis and just straight up is a rude person. We love Taylor.
Um idk how i feel about how the guy who did his normal, probably underpaying job is being villainized by the host. If it were anything but Taylor, it could've gone very differently. Like the entire emphasis and tone "threw you out", "get out". Good on Taylor for maintaining a level head and being a generally empathetic person
If anyone, it's Jimmy, he is the aashole
ITS JN THE PINNED COMMENT
you thought the guest was going to lay into them? come on,
Pretty sure they would ask the guy if he’s ok with it lol
She is so smart. Her emotional intelligence as well as IQ is so high.
that's degrading ... i hope they're paying him enough though..
*the guy’s face when the camera turns to him 🎥 💀 *
We really don't realize how insanely young we look as teenagers, especially between 13-16y/o. Tiny child is a decent description of what he may have stumbled upon.
Looking just 2 see if anyone else said something about this .. U were 15,16 ohh I was 14,wonder out , get in more trouble, random14 yr tiny child,Guy who threw u out , GET OUT THE BUILDINg Just all alil weird 2 me
This is probably one of the best thing a celebrity done I have seen
Taylor is such a good speaker. She knows what to say in any situation. I just love that!!
I’m not a Taylor fan, but good for her for responding this way! Very decent and humble perspective, I love it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Same here!!
one word: humble
He wasn't a hater. A hater is someone telling you "you sing bad"/"you can't play guitar"/"you're too young to be a singer". He was doing his job. Not because of her age or talent, but because she *was not* famous and *did not* belong there because she wasn't a guest. I love her for standing up for him while he's being put on blast for doing his job.
Taylor is one of those celebrities I know won’t disappoint me if I met her in real life. She’s so kind despite everything. It brings me to tears to see that.
I don’t think you can call this a hater, it sounds like he’s just doing his job
I’m confused why he’s outing him tho
Yeah right? Just throwing him under the bus for some tea. Glad that taylor was empathetic
@@kd755 well it’s not like he didn’t rehearse if.
Its a fucking joke they are not gonna fire him for real
@@ihkeseteeietos5722 ur prob right just a weird encounter regardless.
Kimmel is messed up in the head.
Y’all are missing the point. Claire isn’t saying anyone is a “hater” she’s saying that if someone approaches you thinking you’ll respond NEGATIVELY, respond in an empathetic way to appear charming and charismatic.
I’m so touched by your comment! You get me. ❤️
The word hater is literally there in the caption on the video and the title.
Taylor Swift just is so smart and words everything perfectly in interviews
Love Taylor Swift. We lost an angel here in Missouri and Taylor made her feel special.
On the other hand Justin beiber never showed up. Many children from make a wish waited for him. He said he'd be back and again wasted their dreams and didn't show.
Taylor is sweet and silly. She's so human and kind. Much love to you Taylor for all the happiness you bring and have brought to so many people from your heart. It takes time and compassion to care and none at all not to.
This is another reason i love her. She has an objective view of things.
i would’ve been like “it’s okay. things happen for a reason. look at me now! now i’m being paid to be here!”
I think the problem with saying that though is it comes across a bit arrogant. Celebrities often have to speak with humility in order to be relatable and likeable, which means avoiding bragging about their success
Let me clarify - Scott isn't a hater here per se. The lesson is "inspired" by Taylor's response. :)
Let me clarify that, we don't give a sh*t about Scott, this interviewer is a narcissistic sociopath who tried to put two ppl against each other for some views. This is disgusting either way. 🤮
Stfu... You don't know what you talk about...
I thought Jimmy was the hater here. Why are there so many clips of talk show hosts throwing her under the bus? Ohhhh ... because she is authentic. Still, good on her. So glad she countersued the ass-grabber and testified unapologetically in court. (Duh, right. That sentence says so much about how far we've come but anyway.) Total role model, love it.
Lady, you must be so alone and sad in your life with so much negativity. I feel really sad people like you.
@@Riddlemethiseveryone I think of it like this. I think you probably would have gotten in more trouble had you not made this comment about why is this random girl, sitting here making a video, what's happening here.
Scott is a good guy and would never treat anyone poorly. He’s a great person and would never hate on anyone.
She's classy, cute, smart, pretty and everything wonderful.
This was an attempt at publicly humiliating an individual for an event that very little details have been provided except for what Jimmie said. The host saying the name of the individual on the media has contributed to fuel haters and put this guy’s life and his family in danger of wackos. Taylor has demonstrated excellent emotional intelligence communication skills.
She’s naturally a sweetheart and so considerate of feelings that it doesn’t surprise me at all. She’s the best. Such a classy woman
Jimmy - "Let's throw one of my longtime employees under the bus for a cheap laugh"
Taylor - "How about we just show some class and talk about something fun?"
She's always super classy and thoughtful, I've always thought her communication style was brilliant.. also honestly i think she'd be an aging actress
And that is exactly why she's a Queen👑
He wasn't a hater. He was the person responsible for quality control regarding the musical entertainment they booked for the show. It was literally his job.
That was a very clever response.
I would have laughed only because I would have pointed out that 14 yr old legit got famous and rich after that so I'd just smile lol
I LOVE Tay Tay! She is adorable, sweet and classy!
Such a beauty in every sense. 🌹
I'm not a fan, but this girl is like an undeclared princess, she's so versatile 😇
I really love how Taylor swift handle those unexpected difficult and humiliating situations in her life with wisdom, respect and kindness. I hope i can do that as well. Because for me it’s hard to control my emotions.
how's that a hater bro
i don't expect haters to have reasons to do what they do
Poor guy being exposed that way. The interviewer is really mean for doing so...
Taylor is a great person. Empathy is a great quality.
Yup totally the best way is to be empathetic ✨
He wasn’t a hater he was just doing his job, but I still woulda been like can I play you a song now? 😂
I always knew Jimmy is a Douche and this video proves it. He has this in common with Elen trying to humiliate subordinates for ratings! Also they have the worst audience because they encourage thim by laughing when they do these things!
P.S. Lots of respect to Taylor for defending that poor guy who had no voice, understanding he was only doing his job.👏🙌
Taylor did yiur parents know about you being there at age 14?
Talylor you have a beautiful soul! You success has never been an accident or luck bc you were born with talent, and a beautiful mind!
This woman is amazing 🤩❤️
He wasnt a hater, he doing he job in the interest of both child safety and liabiliy.
It's literally called putting urself in their shoes and being conscious of the collective and not taking things personal lmao . Why yall surprised 🤣 she prolly was mad but she seems like she forgave him bc she understand him
Because other celebrities wouldn't have done that.
"She was being empuurrthaaatic"
Was looking for this lmao
i was thinking i was the only one that cant stand her accent
That’s a true Pennsylvania girl 💜💜💜
Taylor is just an awesome human being! Love her!
She is absolutely precious and beautiful angel!
I just absolutely love Taylor no other words to explain it 💗💗💗
The narrator sounds like a high pitched Jennifer Coolidge… 😂
The most beatiful way to respond to your haters is carving their heart out of their chest
So Jimmy expects that random teenagers just show up to his show to play? The man was just doing his job
this is an example of emotional intelligence
Taylor treated him like a human. No one could've handled this better than the way she handled it, she didn't just say oh I'm over it, she didn't get mad at him. But she did what SO many people fail to do which is out yourself in their position.
She's at their level at that point. She know how "normal" people can be so she gets it. She found a different route to get her famous.
Emperthetic
😐
I would have listened to her… that was a long time ago tho
Damm she's pretty and her words makes her even more gorgeous 😍
Thanks for the lesson. I'm not perfect but I have always try to be empathetic to someone that's rude/frustrating.
Especially when I work in the F&B right now.
Sometimes their food will come out an hour later because there are so many people order a lot of things in their receipt.
And there is only me alone (sometimes the manager will help out) to do all their orders.
We just lack of staffs sometimes
Watching a potential controversy solved under a min! ❤️
Bet jimmy didn't see that answer coming
Way to make a spectacle of someone for doing his job like you asked him to.
If I'm the guy from hence forth, I'd let random people on.
Unlike Will Smith
Lmao. He's everywhere
Ok but this is a completely different situation
Nah, fam, this isn't how you treat haters. This is how treat other fellow human beings.
All humble and all, I'm more impressed on how she can change outfits in between dialogues. NEVER a pause, u don't even notice. What a great talent!
or she just matured and realized it was weird to walk into somewhere and ask to sing
Taylor Swift is simply a genuine,decent, mature human and its refreshing as hell!!
This shows why people love her, she has suffered so much in her career, yet look how graceful she can still be!
I don't listen to her music because it's not my style, but I'm a big fan of her because who she is as a person. She was raised right , shows respect and I support her and the moral integrity she has!
That's so great! I love non swifties that actually are nice!
"Emperthetic?"
That's the main thing that stood out to me too about this whole video! Lol
The guy is not a “hater” he was following the rules or what he had been told what to do. She just said what was common sense… no on “empathetic”. This is a stupid example of how to handle your “Hater”.
The guy wasn't a hater. He was doing his job. And no this isn't how you handle haters. You smile, blow a kiss and keep succeeding
That guy wasn't a hater 🙏 He was probably doing his job... Hater is a strong word 👍
Thank you for this! I understood no shit. It really changed my whole perspective on life! ❤️
#TAYLORSWIFT #TAYLORSWIFTFORLIFE #TAYLORSWIFTFOREVER #TAYLORSWIFTARMY #TAYLORSWIFTFAN
he wasn't a hater. he was just a guy doing a job. not a hater. but having empathy is the most valuable way to live.
He was not a hater, he was doing his job.
"Emperthetic" 😅
I came here for this communication tip.
Great insight, cudos
That's what I do. When someone hates on me I just try to understand their perspective. It doesn't bother me anymore what people say about me. I am an accomplished person
this is how you treat a hater, IF THE HATRED IS ONE SIDED. If both people hate each other, it'll be a different story.
He was never a hater. He was JUST doing his job as Taylor pointed out and now he’s put on the spot by the same people who set the rules for the said job
She says forgiveness is a nice thing to do and my lady knows it very well😊
That, ladies & gentlemen, is a class act which makes Taylor Swift the exception.
Empathy is an underrated ability and it isn't just kind to others but is also ultimately being kinder to yourself. Don't underestimate this girl she is smart.
I love her she doesn’t just trash talk when getting in bad/uncomfortable situations she respond so classy , i wanna be her.
Beautiful! From inside out.
He is NOT A HATER he was doing his JOB..
Taylor is just so charismatic… like she’s so smart. Love her
It’s called being happy class and being enough on your feet….smart with your tongue and and not deviating from the highroad. Way to go Taylor you’re always a class act.❤️❤️❤️❤️