One Year Sober: The Hardest and Best Year of My Life

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  • Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
  • Dan O'Reilly celebrates an incredible milestone - one year sober! In this raw and emotional episode, Dan reflects on the highs and lows of his journey with producer John. They have an honest heart-to-heart, with Dan opening up about his addictions, sobriety struggles, and the taboos around addiction. John asks thoughtful questions to uncover Dan's authentic thoughts and we learn how Dan has found himself, saved his marriage, and reconnected with his purpose. An inspiring episode proving it's never too late to change, with vital advice for anyone considering sobriety.
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    Join Daniel at Menace II Sobriety Live, as he discusses all things sobriety, ADHD, mental health and more. The podcastwill be recorded live with a special guest, including audience interaction and finishing with an open Q&A.
    Daniel will not only be discussing sobriety, but everything life throws at us, and he would love for you to join him. Bring your tissues and your sense of humour, because we have no idea what topics will be discussed, but whatever the conversation, it'll be a supportive environment and may contain some dad jokes.
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  • @kerstie4332
    @kerstie4332 11 місяців тому +33

    I've listened to every podcast since the beginning and also Sober Dave's. I know your target audience is predominantly men, however, there's women also struggling to open up and handle addiction (such as myself) and wanted to say thanks and what a privilege it's been to follow you on your journey.

    • @benhurley280
      @benhurley280 11 місяців тому

      He’s speaking from a man’s perspective as that’s what he is but there’s lots of great universal information and wisdom that everyone can relate to and use.
      Good luck on your journey 👍🏻

    • @kerstie4332
      @kerstie4332 11 місяців тому

      It's UA-cam. Relax Brian.

    • @tkaygg
      @tkaygg 10 місяців тому

      We can't do it without you. (Women)

    • @kayleighbrown1728
      @kayleighbrown1728 6 місяців тому

      H​@@benhurley280

  • @danielculbert4816
    @danielculbert4816 11 місяців тому +7

    Massive congrats Dan. You really have been a big inspiration for so many people (lads). I’m sitting on day 298 myself, again with you playing a big part to play in that. Keep fighting the good fight Sir 👊

  • @jamiekirwan7477
    @jamiekirwan7477 11 місяців тому +3

    I strongly advise anyone in the coke alcohol hole
    Take up excersize and put all your energy with all you have on being the fittest strongest version of yourself you can possibly be
    I am two years clean now after 13 years of coke binges and going missing for days on end
    Excersize has changed my life and out look on life
    We all can be so much more good luck to everyone trying
    Never stop giving up giving up

  • @Podders1991
    @Podders1991 11 місяців тому +3

    Dan you’re the biggest inspiration for my sobriety thank you so much for doing this work I don’t think you’ll ever understand how valuable it is to us all 👏

  • @dominickbylang4400
    @dominickbylang4400 10 місяців тому +1

    I’m 20 months sober, enjoying your content, openness to be admired. AA stopped me drinking but the steps make me happy, keep going dude

  • @DH-yu2gi
    @DH-yu2gi 11 місяців тому +6

    Be proud of yourself Dan, congratulations 🎉

  • @jacobcain6336
    @jacobcain6336 11 місяців тому +2

    Hand on heart, recently you have helped me through the hardest time in my life. I can relate to you so much.. Losing my Dad to addiction and struggling with long term addictions and mental health problems that I have been battling with since I was a kid. Whenever the bastard gremlin has chirped up, I have put one of the podcasts on and now me and the Mrs listen every week. I can see how much you have put in and how much more you are getting out and thanks to you guys, I am doing the same. Hats off to you on one year. And Thank you man

    • @jacobcain6336
      @jacobcain6336 11 місяців тому

      People make mistakes man.. that’s what a lot of the podcast is about and he’s helped a lot of people. Just these comments alone can tell you that.

  • @tammyjams22
    @tammyjams22 3 місяці тому +1

    22 days sober. I love it 🥰

  • @gilesparker2369
    @gilesparker2369 8 місяців тому +1

    Respect to you Dan. You have done the work and you are helping others to do theirs. You are helping me that’s for sure. Keep it up. It makes a difference

  • @Quartzone6145
    @Quartzone6145 11 місяців тому +2

    Well done Dan such an achievement. Been watching from the beginning and such good insight into addiction,watching as a woman with a partner who has addiction your podcasts have really helped me to understand more.

  • @cheriejackson6991
    @cheriejackson6991 6 місяців тому +1

    Congratulations 🥳 !
    I’m at the start of my journey.
    Your talks really inspire
    So thanks too .

  • @rosemarieghislanzoni5361
    @rosemarieghislanzoni5361 11 місяців тому +1

    Congrats 1 year !! I’ve been here since the start and you’ve helped me through so much, I’m just over 6 months sober, thank you 🙏

  • @user-gz6hp7ef6w
    @user-gz6hp7ef6w 5 місяців тому +1

    Having access to this and other sober podcasts is the most valuable thing to me in choosing not to drink.

  • @arccway
    @arccway 7 місяців тому

    this is amazing! this is 2nd day and i'm glad to find this podcast and begin my journey!

  • @jonconner764
    @jonconner764 6 місяців тому

    Hi mate , just checking in to see if your ok ?
    Haven't seen any podcasts for a while now and i loved them .
    Hope your doing well pal, i recently celebrated 450 days sober and it was due to watching your early podcasts telling me to try a CA meeting.
    So thank you x

  • @Offmeheadwithjoy
    @Offmeheadwithjoy 10 місяців тому

    Congratulations Dan, massive commitment to your sobriety and new life... I've watched most of your interviews so far and it's plain to see in your body language you are much more present and look relaxed!! Great to see. Much love from New Zealand 💚

  • @mandyjjonesj5541
    @mandyjjonesj5541 11 місяців тому

    amazing achievement.
    when people have an answer to the first question of what would you say to yourself a year ago ?
    and people answer "" don't be hard on yourself, or don't feel guilty"" etc etc...but I think....all if that is crucial....like that's part of the healing journey isn't it. I love that Dan's first answer was that he would say "" it's going to be ok""
    I honestly love this podcast.i did a year and half clean of H and C .... then I moved house, and I can't even explain the stress it caused me, I'm bipolar, and have moved before, but this.....this move truly crippled me in every emotion, mental state possible for some reason....back at it again.....and need to make sure I don't do it again....
    congratulations Dan 🎉🎉

    • @menacetosobrietypodcast
      @menacetosobrietypodcast  11 місяців тому +1

      I really hope you well on your journey 🎉 thabk you for the comment

    • @mandyjjonesj5541
      @mandyjjonesj5541 10 місяців тому

      @@menacetosobrietypodcast thank you so much 🙏

  • @natalieengstrom2253
    @natalieengstrom2253 11 місяців тому

    So proud to be on this journey with you! Congratulations Dan 🎉

  • @lukemcgoldrick6872
    @lukemcgoldrick6872 3 місяці тому

    Keep this channel going , very good 👍

  • @chevin-pyrex1588
    @chevin-pyrex1588 11 місяців тому +1

    Ive been doing herion for about 95
    years , today i think its enough . No more H

  • @karinaleach2090
    @karinaleach2090 10 місяців тому

    Well done Dan!!
    I’ve been listening to the podcast every week since the first episode
    You’re doing a great thing for the sober community 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @Liam-us3cq
    @Liam-us3cq 11 місяців тому

    Well in Dan , your podcast is one of the most important things to help keep me on the right track. Thanks lads!

  • @natureisallpowerful
    @natureisallpowerful 11 місяців тому +1

    1st congratulations mate its a journey. ❤ respect

  • @burritobox4010
    @burritobox4010 11 місяців тому

    Totally inspirational..listen every week been on a very simular journey. Don't know how I found the podcast but seems like faith because its one I look forward to every week and some weeks has made me think twice about going back on it so thanks to everyone that's involved in the production and long may it last lads ❤

  • @jakeworsley2058
    @jakeworsley2058 11 місяців тому

    We’ll done Dan and thanks to everyone involved what a journey i love my life now 💪💪💪

  • @Matt_Gaughran
    @Matt_Gaughran 11 місяців тому

    Congratulations Dan, followed from the start. Always helped. So has M.A.T.E keep smashing it brother

  • @Mandy-nw6dv
    @Mandy-nw6dv 11 місяців тому +1

    Bloody love you guys. So much information. You are inspiring so many people. Well done on a year of sobriety 🙌 your doing amazing. More off the street kinda guests would be great. Like you said every podcast comes with different people who are going thru different addiction. Hope I make sense. I'm adhd and dyslexic too so sometimes I don't put it quite right 😅

  • @bigchaz6426
    @bigchaz6426 6 місяців тому

    Love it! Such positivity. Keep up the good work! Thank you both! xxx

  • @cpkay33
    @cpkay33 8 місяців тому

    one year no beer/gear is brilliant. such a simple slogan to adhere to.

  • @sikilgallen2834
    @sikilgallen2834 11 місяців тому

    Really Inspirational ,You have helped me show others change is possible & Made me Look back on my own Journey of Sobriety ..

  • @MichelleP-hy5lf
    @MichelleP-hy5lf 10 місяців тому

    Congratulations Dan! You should be proud of yourself 👏 ❤️

  • @aloeblack8853
    @aloeblack8853 8 місяців тому +1

    My year started on 31st December and the intent is a full year off in 2024. You are one of the only people out there I can relate to and look up to in terms of getting sober. We approach drugs and alcohol in a very similar way and your success in sobriety gives me hope. Thanks Dan 🩵

    • @MsSheilaC
      @MsSheilaC 4 місяці тому +1

      How are you doing? Im at 2 months myself

    • @aloeblack8853
      @aloeblack8853 4 місяці тому

      @@MsSheilaC well done. I’m doing ok. I have had two occasions where I have had two drinks since December 30th. One instance I caved and had two beers with a mate where I was actually trying to make him feel comfortable which was silly on my part. The second time I had two glasses of wine at dinner after a bit of a family crisis. Not proud of breaking my streak but it’s 4 standard drinks in 4 months. I am maintaining the goal to stay sober going forward and no intention to make it regular again (my real problem was cocaine and not touched it although I think about it regularly).
      How are you feeling so far?

    • @MsSheilaC
      @MsSheilaC 4 місяці тому

      @@aloeblack8853 I think youre doing great and that's a great way to look at it. Youre four months sober, minus four drinks!
      isnt it crazy what we do to make others feel comfortable? lol I was offered wine by a wine maker at his party, who knows my background w wine but didnt know I had stopped drinking, and he was so enthisiuastic to know my opinion that I took the smallest sip possible but still looking like I was tasting... It was hysterical to me but that the only time Ive dabbled w it in two months (I went into the garden and dumped the rest so not to be tempted or mindless w a glass in my hand).
      it hasnt been the glorious results that most ppl seem to report two months in, but Im in it for the long haul and will be patient. At some point things will get better. I honestly think the older one is and the more time regularly drinking, is relative to the time it takes to detox the brain and organs etc. I wasnt alcoholic but had a regular habit and at 60, thats some time put in. Im going to make my 60's one of my best decades.

  • @sambo.0334
    @sambo.0334 11 місяців тому

    John. Would be great if you guys could get me and my twin brother on the show. Both struggling to keep sober but in our separate ways. I use for physical pain relief/not care about it and my brother because his personal situation that involves how his ex his uses his kids as weapons..
    Absolute respect for Daniel and what you said at the start. A message from the future was a great question. Onlookers perspective is fresh and naive in a good way to actually ask the right questions in an honest way 👍🏻

  • @JayloT93
    @JayloT93 10 місяців тому

    massive respect to you Dan. Keep on doing the work because you are worth it :)

  • @MarkMcCann1888
    @MarkMcCann1888 10 місяців тому

    Congratulations Dan! Smashing it mate! Keep it up! 💪🏻

  • @wrenl2944
    @wrenl2944 11 місяців тому +1

    Congrats!

  • @barrybaker5502
    @barrybaker5502 11 місяців тому

    Well done Dan ...
    You doing a great job and serving to us all ....

  • @GavinCee
    @GavinCee 11 місяців тому

    Congrats. That's a big achievement!

  • @louiseb6459
    @louiseb6459 11 місяців тому

    Love this ❤ more stories from people ordinary or famous . Well done Dan 🎉

    • @louiseb6459
      @louiseb6459 11 місяців тому

      @@brianwells4891 therein lies your problem good luck with it 👍

  • @danielbooth5035
    @danielbooth5035 8 місяців тому

    thanks

  • @SoniaDelaney-qc5is
    @SoniaDelaney-qc5is 11 місяців тому

    Congratulations 🎉 Dan all hard work paying off

  • @leejackson2223
    @leejackson2223 11 місяців тому

    Well done Dan. Massive achievement!❤

  • @liamfirkin2145
    @liamfirkin2145 10 місяців тому

    M2S is in my diary, these are part of my week. Every Sunday. You’ve been a huge help Dan.
    5 months on Wednesday. Congratulations on the 1 year mate 💥

  • @paulforrester4057
    @paulforrester4057 10 місяців тому +1

    No kirk anymore?

  • @bigboundsy
    @bigboundsy 11 місяців тому

    Love it mate. I noticed you had ca Keyrings but u said u haven’t done the 12 steps!! Wondered how that came about!!

  • @sgrill11124
    @sgrill11124 11 місяців тому

    What an achievement!!!! Well done Dan!

  • @williamhowie6060
    @williamhowie6060 11 місяців тому

    Little tip D when feeling vulnerable(happens loads have a hot bath its symbolically washing youre pain away .

  • @bungle3912
    @bungle3912 11 місяців тому +1

    Well done, not easy. Can we have an update on Kirk? Is he not coming back? Is he okay?

    • @menacetosobrietypodcast
      @menacetosobrietypodcast  11 місяців тому +2

      No idea, he no longer wants to do the podcast abd don’t talk to me, just stopped. Pop him a message if you want to see how he is I don’t talk to him any more.

    • @bungle3912
      @bungle3912 11 місяців тому +1

      @@menacetosobrietypodcast What? Really? That’s crazy. Hope he’s okay and not relapsed. Thanks for letting use know.

    • @bungle3912
      @bungle3912 11 місяців тому

      @@menacetosobrietypodcast Weirdly, I caught a clip of Kirk talking about when he disappeared on you before and his answer why was ‘drugs’. I hope he’s not done the same again and he’s okay.

  • @jt6781
    @jt6781 11 місяців тому

    Well done mate, keep it up 💪❤

  • @kiernanwts
    @kiernanwts 11 місяців тому

    Congratulations mate 👏 👍 🙌

  • @4dstrength
    @4dstrength 10 місяців тому

    Great podcast! 👌🏻❤️

  • @lukepowell1988
    @lukepowell1988 11 місяців тому

    I will be a year sober from the bag and drink on 21/11 been a hard year just need to drop the brass on the head now but with a year behind me think I’m in a better position to do it

  • @EJWEST333
    @EJWEST333 11 місяців тому

    Remember Christmas is a trigger 😅 keep believing in yourself. ✊
    Congratulations on your sobriety 🎉

  • @ap5194
    @ap5194 11 місяців тому

    Congratulations geezer 🎉🎉🎉

  • @PapaClarkeTheGoat
    @PapaClarkeTheGoat 11 місяців тому +5

    whats happened to Kirk? is he ok

    • @unrecognisable4185
      @unrecognisable4185 11 місяців тому

      Back on the sniff unfortunately but 1 day at a time

    • @simonoates6463
      @simonoates6463 11 місяців тому

      @@unrecognisable4185what a stupid and totally false comment

    • @kennyorchard3290
      @kennyorchard3290 11 місяців тому

      Really??

    • @menacetosobrietypodcast
      @menacetosobrietypodcast  11 місяців тому +1

      @@brianwells4891mate you really are struggling aint you - hope you find help

    • @unrecognisable4185
      @unrecognisable4185 11 місяців тому

      It's what I heard but love kirk and wish him and Dan all the best 👍

  • @canvasaerialandsat14
    @canvasaerialandsat14 11 місяців тому

    Congratulations 🎉 🎉

  • @kamturner1359
    @kamturner1359 4 місяці тому

    The body keeps the trauma you’re correct

  • @sassijay
    @sassijay 11 місяців тому

    Congratulations 🎉

  • @maggiedennis3371
    @maggiedennis3371 11 місяців тому

    Following you all the way. I think you are so raw . True. Sensitive.. funny .. your number 74 year old .. but where is Kirk . Loved the two of you

  • @veniko6996
    @veniko6996 11 місяців тому

    Well done buddy ❤

  • @theromanceofwax
    @theromanceofwax 11 місяців тому

    Well in guvna. Nice to see John and his lovely hands

  • @stewartclarke2474
    @stewartclarke2474 11 місяців тому +1

    Well done dan

  • @user-rd8wt4fq4n
    @user-rd8wt4fq4n 11 місяців тому +1

    Where is Kirk?

  • @maggiedennis3371
    @maggiedennis3371 11 місяців тому

    Your whole demeanour has changed, since I have been following you.. so calm .. so honest ….. are you still happy with your family now…..?

  • @mitcheldelemere7817
    @mitcheldelemere7817 10 місяців тому

    Levels❤🎉

  • @DANNY-lw5re
    @DANNY-lw5re 10 місяців тому +2

    When you buy alcohol you're selling your happiness from tomorrow.

  • @user-jl9dg5gs8u
    @user-jl9dg5gs8u 10 місяців тому

    Does it really get better?

  • @angelmuniz4127
    @angelmuniz4127 11 місяців тому

    Is Kirk really back on the sniff?

  • @kerrduncan9982
    @kerrduncan9982 11 місяців тому

    Currently sitting listening out my tree and this needs to stop

    • @simonoates6463
      @simonoates6463 11 місяців тому

      I hope you get some help mate. It’s hard but also achievable

  • @newoization
    @newoization 7 місяців тому

    Bored me to tears.😅

  • @maggiedennis3371
    @maggiedennis3371 11 місяців тому

    You don’t have to do the 12 steps to get sobriety..

  • @kevinsmith5318
    @kevinsmith5318 4 місяці тому

    Too much “fuckin” for me

  • @williamhowie6060
    @williamhowie6060 11 місяців тому

    You didnt see her when drinking(horseshit)it was deep shame keep chatting man