Sounds like out outdid your mother and she didn't like that one bit. Thanksgiving is not about tradition, it's about giving thanks for everything you have and the people in your life.
In the end, I feel that OP doormated herself, allowing her mother to treat her that way. And dad should have said something. Terrible that no other family member stood up for OP.
I don't see anything wrong with your menu, my family doesn't like turkey either so I go with a ham like you or roasted chicken you even included your vegan cousin your mom is just mad because your food was great and everyone was happy with it, mom can kick rocks
OP is not fully honest. Yes, she said her family is not like turkey, but after that she admits her father likes it and her mother likes it. That's only two we know of, but how many kept silent for the sake of peace? Then she told us how everybody enjoys her food, but she can't have information for such statement. Even if she was terrible cook most people would still praise her, out of politeness and traditions. Just to be clear - I am not defending mom, she was TA. I am just saying how there could have been "something wrong with OP menu", we've heard only her side of the story, of course she wouldn't admit any culinary mistakes.
1 don't like turkey or stuffing. A ham or a roast sounds great. Your Thanksgiving menu was wonderful which almost everyone enjoyed.Your Mom can go crazy with turkey for Christmas.
Once your mother gave up the act of hosting, then she needed to allow you to host as seen fit. You did a good job. I would have done the same change out some things as needed and leave others as tradition so that you're not 100% changing out everything. There are people that have all different kinds of foods for Thanksgiving. Make your own traditions, because in the end, Thanksgiving is not just about the food. Maybe mom should look up why we have Thanksgiving. Oh and by the way, mom, I'm busy on that new Thanksgiving day
OP’s mother publicly disrespecting her! OP should have grabbed the high ground by going quiet (no confrontations), not gone to the dinner, and not talked to her mother about it! When asked, by others why, she should just say her mother offended and publicly disrespected her!
Mommy Dearest can suck it up. She didnt "feel" up to doing the meal and left it up to you. She's doing this out of spite.
Sounds like out outdid your mother and she didn't like that one bit. Thanksgiving is not about tradition, it's about giving thanks for everything you have and the people in your life.
The daughter definitely burned herself to keep mom warm
In the end, I feel that OP doormated herself, allowing her mother to treat her that way.
And dad should have said something. Terrible that no other family member stood up for OP.
I don't see anything wrong with your menu, my family doesn't like turkey either so I go with a ham like you or roasted chicken you even included your vegan cousin your mom is just mad because your food was great and everyone was happy with it, mom can kick rocks
OP is not fully honest. Yes, she said her family is not like turkey, but after that she admits her father likes it and her mother likes it. That's only two we know of, but how many kept silent for the sake of peace?
Then she told us how everybody enjoys her food, but she can't have information for such statement. Even if she was terrible cook most people would still praise her, out of politeness and traditions.
Just to be clear - I am not defending mom, she was TA. I am just saying how there could have been "something wrong with OP menu", we've heard only her side of the story, of course she wouldn't admit any culinary mistakes.
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1 don't like turkey or stuffing. A ham or a roast sounds great. Your Thanksgiving menu was wonderful which almost everyone enjoyed.Your Mom can go crazy with turkey for Christmas.
Once your mother gave up the act of hosting, then she needed to allow you to host as seen fit. You did a good job.
I would have done the same change out some things as needed and leave others as tradition so that you're not 100% changing out everything.
There are people that have all different kinds of foods for Thanksgiving.
Make your own traditions, because in the end, Thanksgiving is not just about the food. Maybe mom should look up why we have Thanksgiving.
Oh and by the way, mom, I'm busy on that new Thanksgiving day
Mi querida mamá puede tragárselo. Ella no 'se sentía' capaz de hacer la comida y te lo dejó a ti. Lo está haciendo por despecho
You handled it so much better than I would have
OP’s mother publicly disrespecting her! OP should have grabbed the high ground by going quiet (no confrontations), not gone to the dinner, and not talked to her mother about it! When asked, by others why, she should just say her mother offended and publicly disrespected her!
Mom is mean OP is a doormat
This story sucked! Should of stayed home.