Miscarriage ceremony ideas / how to honour a pregnancy loss
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2024
- It took me a while to come around to the idea that I should have a ceremony after my miscarriages. It felt too hard. Too much.
Eventually though, I realised how important saying goodbye really is. In this video I want to share some ideas for how you might say goodbye to your baby.
If you'd like to join the ceremony I created for you, you will find it in my Online Yoga Circle here www.bettinarae...
I had a miscarriage in April @11weeks, &I think the solo idea is probably best for me. I cried a lot when it happened, but then I just really tried to move foward &forget about it. (The ppl in my life aren’t very emotionally supportive because they’re all very stoic ¬ very comfortable w/emotions-especially negative ones. I am the opposite &I feel everything very deeply, the good& the bad…so at times like this, it can feel very lonely.)
I’ve been TTC for a few months, &your video made me think that saying goodbye to that tiny life who wasn’t able to stay with me, might be an important part of this journey that I need to embrace before I can fully move forward.
BTW- I discovered your channel last week &I’ve been listening to your guided meditations everyday since. You have a very comforting voice &presence, &this is the first time that I’ve ever started to actually notice a difference in how I’m feeling!
I’m so glad to hear that you have been able to notice a difference. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll be sending you love and healing 🙏🏻💜
When my baby was born at 8 1/2 weeks completely intact floating in the amniotic fluid I spent time & I cried and sang to her. I went to the store & I bought a huge pot & this pink lacey light fabric & this big beautiful bejeweled butterfly pin. I wrapped her up in the pink fabric & pinned her with her butterfly pin. I then buried her in the pot. I then planted plants in this pot. I have made a couple things myself for the pot like this beautiful beaded fairy stake. I decorate her pot for each holiday. She had her own Christmas tree and of course a beautiful pink unicorn angel ornament on the big tree. Right now her pot is decorated with bunnies & eggs for Easter. This is what felt right for me. I am a plant mom & I loved the idea of her body becoming new life. I also made a box with her pregnancy tests, onesies I had bought her, letters I wrote her, & some other things that I used in her birth ceremony.
These are such beautiful ways to remember your baby. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻💜
Your videos help me so much thank you 🙏
You’re welcome Nichola. 🙏🏻💜
Thank you so much, I needed this 🕯💙
You’re welcome 🙏🏻 Sending you love 💜
Thank you ❤
You’re welcome 🙏🏻💜
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