Terrible situation this video. I've often seen people say "ken you're always late to drama" and yes, I am. I'm often awake late at night/early morning US time and see the news break. But I don't want to try to rush a video out just to get the views and it be wrong or more info comes out later or whatever could go wrong. Drama videos are a bit out of my expertise but I still want to talk about them. So if it feels weird to you that we are slow to release videos about current drama that's one of the main reasons. The other is that I don't pressure Scott to crank out the video immediately Just because it was a hot topic. This video was recorded 2 days ago. idk just felt like I should shed some light on our thought process on drama videos.
Ken i personally prefer you do it this way. Give it time, no pressure and speak about this when you done your research. This way you dont need to rush videos to correct misinformation.. making videos ofc is a job, but you are not a robot and we dont want you to overwork yourself. Sending big hugs to you, your family and Buff ♡ remember you do as you think is best for you. We will always watch your videos even if you are "late for the drama" 😂 there are pure drama channels for this reasons to watch if someone want to be on top with all dramas happening. Love ya and stay toasty ♡
I prefer finding out this sort of drama from you guys at a later date since you have more of a detached view and it isn’t your main focus which makes someone who wouldn’t typically care about UA-cam drama actually pay attention to an issue as serious as this.
How? You can't remove a person from your account without their permission. And if she were to set up a separate account it still would take days to transfer and clear the millions she has....... She at least has over 10 million.
@@joywolf83 likely her management team and herself being able to properly go to authorities because it was proved in front of thousands of people. Media attention really does make the police do their job. He can legally be taken off everything temporarily if there’s sufficient evidence.
She has control of everything again. She streamed after her husband yelled at her and she was wearing a sweater and she said “I’m better, I don’t have to wear shirt that show my cleavage all the time now. I’m free” and that made me cry, im so glad she’s okay.
I definitely wasn't a fan of Amouranth, I generally have a distaste for thirst trap girls, but holy shit how can anyone, ANYONE, say she deserves this?? Its so obviously real and horrible, I can't imagine having to live with that deplorable man. I really hope she can get help to mentally overcome this; abusive relationships are so damaging to the mind. Sending my support for her, I'm glad she's ok now.
The abusive husband by the sounds of it was essentially forcing her to do the thirst trap stuff, as she did an update about how she has been seeking legal counsel and has control over her finances and accounts and whatnot, and she said she was very glad about not having to show cleavage anymore and being able to wear what she wanted
@@uglytelevision Makes you think about how many women who present themselves in a hypersexual way are actual just being forcefully pimped out behind the scenes. There have been several women I've seen post regular over sexual stuff that it later came out were being forced and trafficked. I don't think the boners men get is worth this constant hypersexed culture because it makes trafficking and pimping much easier and more lucrative and with such a low chance of getting caught-I know most will disagree.
Dude seeing Buff listen to that manchild kick off and see the rage, hurt and concern on his face made me cry. I was in an abusive relationship like this myself and got out 4 years ago, and seeing his reaction validated the suffering in a the weirdest ways physically seeing how awful it is for others to hear. There are good people out there in the world, and it's almost impossible to remember that when you've gone through something like amouranth and many of us have, it leaves you trusting nobody. Thank you Ken and Buff for reminding us there are good men out there still 🧡
plus when he stopped everything to ask Ken if amouranth was ok at present like he needed to know, really warmed my heart. it was just so sweet like "wait, hold on, is this stranger ok???"
As someone who has been through a situation like this, 100% its something that happens overtime and starts small enough that you either don't notice you or you shrug off like its no big deal, by the time it gets to this level you feel afraid and trapped, and regardless on who Amouranth is, I hope she will be ok and get away. In my opinion, her airing this publicly is a brave thing to do
She streamed yesterday with an update, she left the vod on her channel. She's safe and seeking legal counsel, as well as therapy, definitely sounds like she's working on a divorce right now. The craziest thing to me was when she said she was excited about not having to show cleavage everyday, and wear what she wants, as well as finally being able to sleep for 8 hours, absolutely crazy. She mentioned streaming what she actually wants to, like animal vids, IRL and travel streams. I'm so glad she came out about this and that there have been so many people supporting her. I honestly wish her all the best.
He really was pimping her whilst the public degraded her for how she behaved & dressed - at his behest!! It must have felt horrible, to being leered & letched at but not feeling like you can stop it. The whole thing is grotesque & really OF & Twitch should have some kind of wellbeing system for their creators.
So, the image of her that people dislike her for is an image her abusive husband created to make money? Even making her have an Onlyfans account... That's insane. It sounds like he's been slowly torturing her for the last few years. Being excited about not having to show her cleavage anymore says a lot about what kind of woman she really is and wants to be. Men and women like Amouranths husband are who give dating and marriage a bad reputation. They aren't looking for someone to love, they're looking for someone to own.
As someone who does not care for Amouranth at all, it's never ok to say someone deserves something like this. No one does. Yes with a lot of Twitch being based on drama, it's ok to be apprehensive of her accusations, but there's receipts. And I can't imagine any man would be ok with being seen as an abuser just for clout...
@@zoeywanzi6546 Cannot find it. His name is Nick Lee. He was tweeting about his marriage and trying to save face. He was posting "proof" about her consenting to shit.
The fact that she wasn't the one who wanted to keep the relationship a secret is sad that guys are blaming her like NO one deserves this kind of abuse or manipulation
Hey Ken, I think the reason you knew about her marriage was because her husband has a Twitter account where 2 years ago he uploaded their marriage certificate trying to prove to everyone that he did not force Amouranth into marriage. I don't know why this wasn't talked about more because to me that's a MAJOR red flag, the fact that he even had to try and dispel those allegations back in 2020.
Which… is kinda funny, you know? Just because he had a marriage certificate doesn’t mean he didn’t force her in some way. Not saying it happened but what I am saying is that’s not proof.
I lived under an abusive household for years. You can tell this has been going on for a long time because he didn't even bother to check if she was still streaming or not before he went nuts. So that means he's comfortable doing this with no repercussions.
Hes confident she would take all the steps to cover up his abuse, because thats what she had been doing for him for years. With how hard it was for her he probably manipulated her so bad she started blaming herself instead of him. She even said the only reason she broke was to protect her animals, she didnt even think people would be on her side.
The internet: She's making it up! She deserves it! Who care? Dane: IS SHE OKAY!?! Ken: "rushes to see if she's at least active" This is why I love watching you both. The empathy each of you express in your videos is genuine. Hearts of gold. 💛
Sadly it's not such a surprise, after all the fake BS that goes on in the Twitch world, I can't rly blame the people who are saying it's all fake and for clout. I hope it's not fake, bc this would have a horrible effect on those who rly experienced abuse like that
@@CrazyCatLady84 I don’t think you can really call it fake when she has receipts.. and I don’t think she would risk her career and everything with a lie like that.
@@sadist8902 I don't say it's fake, I only said that I can understand why people may think it is. I've been in several abusive relationships including having abusive parents, so that's why I hope it's not fake, bc this would cause way more problems for victims than there are already
@@CrazyCatLady84 Nono I wasn’t talking about you personally, the “you” was more in a general way (although reading it back, I didn’t make that clear, I’m sorry). I understand what you’re saying tho and I understand why people are wary, but Charlie made some good points as to why it wouldn’t make sense for her to do so
My younger sister just got out of a relationship like this. They dated for 10 years then were only married for 3 years. I was speaking to her about why she married him if he was abusive, and she stated at first he was great, but then overtime smaller things changed that she ignored thinking it was no big deal, but looking back those small changes were a huge deal. I don't know Amouranthe, but I wish her nothing but strength to get through this and kick this guy to the curb so she can finally work on healing and move on with her life without him.
That's what a lot of people don't understand. People who end up abusive typically are good at masking it. They can be good manipulators and dip their toes. By the time someone realizes they're already in pretty deep at that point.
I did the same exact things. Like I didn’t really care if he went through my phone. I thought if it gave him peace of mind then the jealousy would disappear when he saw I was faithful. But he was never satisfied with that and it progressed to blowing up when I didn’t answer fast enough, letting me know how uncomfortable with my guy friends he was. I was friends with these young goofy kids(8 years younger than me, viewed them as little brothers) from my job. We all three would hit dabs and laugh our asses off. The only time I brought them to our place, he turned it into a tense political thing( many opinions he didn’t even have, I know now he was isolating me from all my male friends.) he was also very intense and loud when disagreeing with someone, which I believe is the main reason they felt so uncomfortable. I was so upset I cried when they left and my partner just said, if they can’t handle friendly banter we’re they really your friend? He literally ruined that group bc they knew I had an ahole boyfriend and didn’t want him to kick their ass over hanging out with me. I hadn’t had platonic fun like that in awhile and was really enjoying it because I genuinely like male energy better and felt zero mean girl vibes from my favorite guy friends and I always felt that way. by that point we had been in a relationship for a long time. If it had just started that extreme, it would have probably been a lot easier to leave. Before I met him, I would have laughed if a boyfriend told me who I could and couldn’t be friends with. Glad your sister dropped that loser! ❤✌️
Bruh hearing about how excited she was to be able to wear what she wants to and not have to get pimped out in her update brought tears to my eyes, I hope things continute to look up and that she can get completely out of that shitty sitch
I’m scared to think of how this man has dealt with her stalker situation as well. She’s scared at home and anywhere she goes, not just because of the monsters on the outside, but the one that sleeps next to her. So scary.
I'm wondering if her stalker situation was her trying to cry for help about her husband without coming out and sayin it. Not trying to make light of it if it truly IS a stalker situation as that's a serious thing, it's just got me curious.
Hi Ken. As someone who had been in this situation, let me tell you it builds up over time. It starts of great and gives you a sense of security that you've never experienced before, and then it SLOWLY turns to breaking down your confidence so that security is all you have. After you feel like they are the only thing keeping you grounded, that they are too good for you and you could never do better, thats when it turns ugly. Everything before that is kind and warm, and it changes so slowly that you don't notice until it's too late and you feel stuck. It's hard to drag yourself out of that situation and rebuild yourself, and after being broken it can feel impossible... but to everyone who's been in this situation, you are stronger than you think and you can do it.
Happened to me. I didn't know what the "love bombing" was. It started so nicely and when I felt safe and happy, he started slowly breaking my confidence down, limiting my time with my friends and family... And it went down hill. It's scary. I never thought that could happen to me.. this experience really traumatic. But! It's not your fault, not my fault. Later in life I was able to help my close friend to get out of the similar situation because I could recognise the signs. I was able to advise her and offer my home to stay until she gets better. Because of this she was about to get out early and safety... This happens way too often...
It’s the boiling frog theory, like the frog is in a pot of water and it slowly gets hotter and hotter but the frog doesn’t realize until it’s too late and he’s burning alive.
Grateful that Charlie and these guys are putting light on this. The fact that people are saying “she deserves it” or whatever heartless hot garbage they’re spewing is completely despicable. NO ONE DESERVES THIS. Charlie puts everything so perfectly, couldn’t say things better myself.
@@Kuter666 can't believe I'm saying this. Go. To. Hell. You clearly don't understand how serious and terrible a situation like this is. My mother was stuck in an abusive marriage with my father for 15 years. You don't understand the circumstances at all and instead of trying to understand or have empathy you chose to remain ignorant and hateful.
Anyone putting blame on her, putting her down, saying she deserves it or celebrating her pain, you're no better then her husband. So sad, no one deserves to be treated that way.
I agree. This is absolutely horrible and I hope she gets out of that situation quickly and safely. What is also worrying is even if she does get free from him with how he is towards her currently that he's going to backlash even harder when it's all done. I hope she stays safe and is able to work on healing herself because it's definitely not going to be easy.
As someone who has been abused, I’ve often heard “I can’t imagine someone being that crazy! Something must have made them act that way!” when talking about my abuser’s behaviors, which drives me up a wall, personally. Sometimes, Ken, _people are just that way with no stimulus for their behavior._ It’s hard to accept, especially when you have no experience with abuse, but it’s just a fact of life.
@@breerea9928 oh, I didn’t take it as him blaming her! But if you _really_ insist that there _must_ be a reason, the automatic response I give is that it’s in some people’s personalities. But that’s as far as it goes for some, like my abuser. There’s literally no logic behind it.
@@chelmastly5802 Sometimes they are mentally ill, as well. That doesn't excuse it, obviously, but can be a factor in their personalities and abusive tendencies.
@@mermaid_at_heart213 personality disorders are not mental illnesses. Mental illness implies that with the proper treatment you may be able to get well. Abusers with personality disorders rarely if ever stop their abuse. They just move to the next person.
I saw a clip of him screaming at her, it reeks of his narcissism. My heart goes out to her, no one should ever suffer through verbal or physical abuse. Abuse never comes from a place of love.
@@daporkoil1 I get where you’re coming from, but I lived through a similar situation that led me to study how personality disorders affect families. These 5 years of study plus my lived experience lead me to this thought. Her going off mute was a cry for help. Eventually, if you have enough backbone, a person can find a way out and start healing.
Watching her break down while her crap husband screams at her on the phone gave me flashbacks to my childhood. If you see anything like this in your own relationship, please get help and support. Be safe.
Yeah her husband legit SCREAMING his entire conversation with her, he needs to be put away and needs a lot of mandatory mental health anger management classes
I'll be honest, this is the first video I haven't been able to finish of Ken's. I'm recently out of an extremely similar situation and watching the panic set in as she realizes she's entering another bout of abuse is too much for me. Thank you guys and Charlie for the words of support for the situation because people think abuse looks like black eyes or busted lips and it doesn't always.
If it makes you feel better knowing this, Amouranth is okay now! She’s out of the situation and working towards a divorce as well as getting therapy. She’s hopefully getting her happy end right now. I hope you get yours too. I honestly had to pause the video a few times when her segments came up. Watching her body language and hearing that all too familiar break in her voice as she holds back tears. I hate that feeling, it’s dehumanizing. As someone who was stuck in a relationship like that for 15 years, I can confidently say the first step is setting firm boundaries and cutting off that behavior, or not just the person entirely. You’re on your way Heather, and I know you’re strong enough to see yourself through it.
yes it's the absolutely helpless panic and brokenness in her voice and demeanor once he starts again. it's the palpable frustration. it is all to real it is gut wrenching and i'm here with you and all of the other women who found this situation to be an unfortunate mirror.
as a victim of emotional abuse, seeing her face and the way she speaks in response to her abuser is just shattering. I hope she is ok and heals from this horrible horrible man.
Emotionally abused and physically by my ex wife. Couldnt leave my child with her. Men go through this all the time but are afraid to speak up for obvious reasons. Being trapped and abused is horrible, but my daughter comes before myself
I'm glad she went public with this. No one deserves to be treated that way. I had a friend who's ex almost unalived her and it's scary how quickly someone can flip from loving to extremely dangerous
Update: Amouranth has returned to streaming. She said she has control of all her accounts & finances now. Her husband is off "getting help". She also said that was the first time her husband heard a recording of himself. He previously always refused to listen & even broke her phones so he didn't have to listen to himself. Amo has retained legal & emotional counsel. She's definitely getting ready to face this battle head-on.
It’s extremely rare for people like him to change even with long term and intensive therapy. He is only doing this so she doesnt leave him, because his main goal is to regain control over her. I hope she also does some research on Narcissistic Abuse, she is currently in the “Hoovering” period of the cycle, and the cycle only repeats itself to infinity.
@@chasejackson7248 that’s fine, she doesn’t need you to care. But abuse is multi-layered and it can be hard for people to leave the situation even after they receive help because it’s what they know, they have feelings for the person, fear etc. Victims will never heal without grace. Like I said she doesn’t need your grace, but make sure you have grace for the survivors in your life.
As a Vtuber, in our community a lot of female creators get attacked by fan or even dropped by sponsors if they enter relationships with someone and are public because it ruins thier "brand" of being a waifu to their viewers then views drop and so does the income. It can get pretty toxic.
I know it's a few days since it happened but this Amouranth situation really triggered me, it made me question myself as a man and if I treat my partner good enough (I think I do), the most heart breaking thing is when she came back on live stream a couple days later and said things like "I can finally wear clothes" and "I can sleep for 8 hours again". The whole situation just breaks my heart and Twitter is a cesspool of tater tot incels on it. Well done Charlie and you guys for covering this.
If this made you ask that about yourself. That's weird bud. I was abused for 8 years by my ex wife bc I couldn't leave my daughter alone to be raised by her mainly. I've always been the main caregiver. Men dont speak up about abuse because we don't want to be pitied or viewed as victims. Also Noone cares when men are abused
Apparently he didn’t know that he was heard on stream. She was originally going to mute and leave the stream for a bit to take his call but decided to make it public. Absolutely scary situation but it’s great that she decided to show how awful of a person her “husband” is. Hope she can finally move away and heal.
It was really smart of her. One of the biggest things about being in an abuse situation, if you can, record EVERYTHING. You’ll have mountains of evidence. She did one better and LIVE-STREAMED it so EVERYONE could see how awful this creature of a man treats her.
watching so many people on twitter try and say "why didn't she just leave?" makes me so angry because if you've ever been in a toxic/abusive relationship it's not as easy to just leave. the toxic/abusive person ensures they have twisted their way into your life so you don't feel like you can live without them. and for amouranth her husband had access to literally everything that has made her career. saying "just leave" is one of the most brain dead takes on this entire situation, so, yeah, i feel so bad for her, she deserves so much better
I wish it were more common knowledge that people are more likely to be hurt or eliminated by an abuser when they try to leave. Dangerous people get more dangerous when they lose control of others.
Not to mention abusive relationships where they threaten to do horrible things if you DO try to leave. And fully have the power to make good on those threats. You never fully know other people's situation so saying it should have been simple with only an outside perspective is ignorant at best and just plain hateful at worst.
Yea her husband is the one who pushed her to say she was single because she’d make less money… he was also financially abusive (go figure). I hope she gets help to deal with this a-hole.
Gotta love how everyone acts like she was some sort of helpless fish that couldn't make her own decisions and say no. All victim simps like you accomplish is enablement of victim behavior.
@UC-3SiG3s_iTpbfvyPzDJdwQ It seems like it’s the former, she stated in he was the one that came up with the hot tub stream idea and she told him tearfully on the phone during the VOD “you used my body to build this empire.”
Apparently she’s already posted saying she’s okay and taking legal action against her husband, filing for divorce and seeking therapy to heal from this nightmare
She's probably had to plan this for a long time before she got the guts to record it. She would've had to make sure he felt comfortable enough to record him while doing the stream.. I remember the sort of high stress plotting it takes to leave an abusive relationship without violence and trying to survive retaliation, and I'm glad she has taken this careful first step.
wow... heard she was in an abusive marriage and went "that sucks" but after watching this, I felt myself about to tear up. nobody should have to go through this and nobody should be told it doesn't matter because of what they do for a living
As someone with a narcissistic and abusive father, it really does start small until you’re trapped and feel there’s no way out I couldn’t even get through 2 minutes of that phone call without being triggered. It’s 100% narcissistic behavior I hope the best for her bc there IS a way out but it is NOT easy, legally physically and mentally
And I can hear the trauma this guy has through his words too. His parents were definitely narcissistic as well, normal people don't flip out like that over being misheard. Abusive garbage omfg
The legal system barely take physical violence seriously so its easy to feel trapped when the law is waving it off because there's no bruises. He hijacked her accounts and like Andrew Tate, is a modern day pimp
You are probably right, narcs hate to clarify what they say, the argument is so close to a blow up that the narc in my life did; I was right back being a kid trying to figure out desperately how to stop my mom from throwing this tantrum and making her “feel heard” without getting punished for just not understanding what she mumbled under her breath.
This entire situation completely flipped how I feel about Ammo on its head. I’m wondering now if all the weird tax evasion stuff she was doing (buying a gas station to pay less in taxes) if it was her husband’s idea or maybe she was trying to somehow get assets away from her husband’s control. All her two factors go to HIS number. He has COMPLETE control over her accounts. He was making her stream 20+ hours a day. She was a prisoner in a very fancy prison. A slave to this man and the webcam. I wouldn’t be surprised if she dips out entirely after this is over.
She said she was taking a break to process things and bc she hasnt had one in years. She has content that shes excited to be able to make though, now that she has freedom to do what she loves. She wont be forced to show cleavage and shell be able to see her animals whenever she wants. She seemed fairly hopeful.
Im not gonna lie that door cracking open made me so scared for her and nearly made me jump out of my skin. I didn't know who she was but I hope she is safe and secure now
I left an abusive marriage six years ago. If you have never lived situations like this, you have no right to voice an opinion against this woman. I have cPTSD from living in this for 15 years. It is legit, please be supportive of people who have lived through this and have had the courage to stand up to this kind of treatment.
She apparently just did a stream where she explains what happened after and also did a stream with her horses so she's fine and it was so sad hearing her say she can finally do the small stuff like wear baggy clothes, actually take care of her horses herself, have 8 hours of sleep, etc...like he not only abused her but over worked her
What pisses me off the most about keemstar's take is that Amouranth literally explains that it was her husband who made her pretend to be single. But of course why would keem ever use his common sense before posting his opinions.
Tbh, besides that, it's also an unreasonable expectation from a content creator. A content creator shouldn't have to have the details of their life be known because some fans are delusional and think they'll be with them one day. They aren't responsible for these delusional people who are watching them.
Nobody deserves to be emotionally, financially and physically threatened like this. It's heartbreaking to see some of the posts she's making and the idea that she couldn't even wear comfortable clothing on days when she just wanted to stream and be comfy because he was dictating what she had to wear on stream to bring in money. It seems like she wanted a loving, supportive husband and what she got was an abusive pimp. I hope she finds peace and support because she's gonna need a lot of it right now.
As a recent victim of narcissistic abuse, I have so much empathy for her and I’m actually happy she shared bc it gives me more hope that people will believe me. They make you feel so over emotional for truly normal reactions to their erratic behavior.
As someone who has been in abusive relationships in my past…hearing Ken say that he’s never personally experienced an abusive relationship (and thank God) really caused me to realize something. Not everyone has experienced an abusive relationship. It’s not news to me but somehow hearing him say that really caused something to click. The things that seem “normal” parts of growing and going through relationships to someone who has been in abusive relationships isn’t normal. It’s just really odd to hear someone truly acknowledge that they don’t understand the things that are involved in a relationship like that and really validates the reason behind why it’s so hard to get out of them. It’s one of the hardest things and it’s something I wish no one had to understand.
Being a guy who’s been on the receiving end of an abusive relationship I can’t even watch this. It’s such a horrible thing to go through and I wouldn’t wish her situation on anyone.
I never watched Amouranth, I just knew of her, and I heard about this situation so I tuned into it. I cried the entire time watching her video because it was like watching myself in a mirror back when I was in an abusive relationship. She has been gaslit so bad that she doesn't know left or right, and being that disconnected from reality and forgetting who you really are SUCKS. I'm so proud of her for taking action and I hope she receives all the love and therapy she needs to remember who she is again and love herself. This woman deserves respect.
I just checked her stream yesterday to see how things are, apparently he's getting therapy and she's talking about leaving him. She said it lasted for 7 years and hadn't slept for more than 4-5 hours a night. She also said less skimpy outfits and more fun because most of that was due to him telling her to get higher ratings. Side note It felt like he was also more abusive to her animals than I thought as well. She was saying she never got to see her horses and the man constantly yelled at her and her dogs off camera.
I was literally just watching Charlie’s video on this I’m glad you decided to shed some light on this and I truly hope that Amouranths abuser faces the consequences of her actions.
As someone that doesn't watch her content, it breaks my heart watching this. Her p.o.s. husband is trash.. I was in a relationship like This a few years ago. My ex controlled everything in my life. I hope she can find a way to get out of this shitty situation.
"I want to fight people like this." Mood. As someone with a temper, I've seen people flinch when I lose it and yell, and I hate that, it always makes me want to be better. So when someone either doesn't care, or worse enjoys making people scared, they deserve a good smackdown. I'm one of the many who doesn't watch Amouranth, and roll my eyes whenever she does something that makes it into news, but I really hope she's safe and gets help/away from this guy. No one deserves abuse.
The only way I can keep up with this kind of issue is by having Ken and Buff there to break up the tension, it's genuinely triggering to watch so seeing two wholesome dadbros discuss it with authenticity is kind of a relief
Kpop, jpop and chinese pop too. H!Project groups basically young girls marketed to single men who get the boot when they get married (or smoke lmao lmao). H!Project has been doing this since the 90's, I think good ol Tsunku was the first with this bussiness model that spread through asia like cancer.
My mother had bipolar and that phone call you heard was pretty much my entire childhood. My mom would scream on the top of her lungs over simple things like not hearing her and then she would threaten to take my cats back to the shelter. She’d beat me daily. This started when I was just a baby girl. I finally whooped her ass when I was 20 years old. I kicked her in the stomach and threw her out of my house and I never talked to her again. I have borderline personality disorder because of the abuse she inflicted on me. Listening to this phone call has brought up so much memories of about 90% of the Hell hole that was my life. I feel bad for amaranth but luckily she’s not a child and she has the power to get away, unlike I did.
I feel you… in my opinion no one hurts someone like their parents can. Especially when it comes from our mothers 😔 There is absolutely no excuse for abuse! I am glad to hear you are free and better new 💚 Stay safe and keep in mind it was never your fault, you were and are enough and your life matters 🙏 Take care and love yourself!
I have bipolar disorder. It is our responsibility to take ownership of our mental health to prevent these very issues. I mess up a lot, but my kids are my life. Medication, therapy and a psychiatrist have been instrumental in my life. Not everyone has that advantage. I'm sorry for everything you've endured.
the fact that people were hounding on her for trying to get help through a live is so ridiculous! What else is she supposed to do when he has access to everything and everyone??? And the fact that she didnt expose him sooner shows how terrified she is of him. I don't even like her content (still won't unless it changes) but I feel so incredibly bad to see her have to go through that and hope she gets the healthy love she deserves
(I’m halfway through watching writing this so I’m not sure if this part was shown in this specific video yet) but one of the most heart wrenching things I heard her say in the video was “I don’t want to do a 3some” meaning he might MAKE her do adult content she does not want to do. On top of him forcing her to do 24 hour streaks???? This poor woman my mind can’t comprehend the horrors she has probably gone through. I hope everyone woman or man that is a victim of domestic abuse can get out and get help fast. Horrific
I'm 5 years out of a 4 year abusive relationship. It starts very small, and usually comes with an insane over the top apology. And then it just builds up, gets worse, and it all just feels "normal". I can't watch the whole video as its very triggering but I really hope she leaves safe and sound. The trauma never leaves you but at least you can be free and not living in fear.
I hope you’re still learning to heal and love yourself 💗 everything you feel is valid and i’m so glad you were able to get out of this type of situation, you deserve the absolute world
It is kinda disgusting how so many people literally are like...dehumanizing her. She has feelings, hopes, and dreams. I hope everything gets better for her.
Props to the people on the internet that care about each other and standing up for the people that need help. I'm grateful she has so much support during this time.
The video she made about being able to have clothes (more covering) really hurted. 🥺 I hope they do get divorced and she is able to make content she is the most comfortable with or do whatever she wants with her life rather than being made to do things just for money.
Her husband is like my brother. Enabled and abused from birth, and plays victim through the rest. I hope for her safety and pray anyone going through the same shit peace.
My marriage was similar to this..and I actually told family about it. They didn't believe me because he acted so different around others. Sometimes its hard to get out, but its so freeing when you do. I hope she gets away from him.
It's so sad to know so many people go through situations like this, me also being one the them, once I escaped I literally became a different person, an even better person than how I was before meeting my abusive ex. I still remember getting tons of messages a minute like that and having him constantly threaten me to keep me in line. I've never been interested in Amouranth however hearing about the fact that she's out of that abusive situation and is able to do what she wants really makes me feel so happy for her, I wish her all the best!
As someone who dealt with narcissistic abuse and physical abuse, this is a class A narc. It makes me so sad knowing more people fall victim to them than they do legitimately damaging scams nowadays.
In my senior year of highschool I was in a relationship much like this one and the petty argument and tone of voice brought back a lot of unwanted memories. My ex forced me to abruptly cut ties with all my friends which caused them to start picking on me for “losing the ability to speak” or for choosing him over them (when you’re in that environment it’s hard to make your own decisions). In the long run I guess they were never my friends but still. I’m not writing this so you’ll feel sorry for me or anything but I felt like a shell of my former self and I was constantly getting ridiculed and beaten down every minute of the day. You feel like you’re not your own person anymore, and to think that’s how this woman feels is so terrifying and sickening. I hope she gets out of this horrible situation
Listening to this dude screaming at her gives me war flashbacks of my ex. Getting furious over the littlest details... It's been years, but I'm still healing. I hope she's alright 💔
It is a long way to heal but it is the best course to take. Been years for me too but will never ever allow someone like that in my life again. Stay strong xxx
Same. I remember my ex constantly saying that "it's the little things that truly matter" making a mountain out of an anthill. Glad you got out. Abuse from a narcissist is almost like an addiction. The manipulation, the need for validation, all of it.
You never fully heal from DV - I too winced and had cold chills running down my spine when I heard him screaming and it took me back to my ex and all I can say is, stay strong and keep the bad in your rear-view mirror.
I have tried more than once to get out of an abusive relationship, and unfortunately that is the hardest part. People think it should be so easy, or that you just dont respect yourself enough to leave, but that is rarely the case in abusive and toxic relationships of any kind. And then the guilt trips + holding the fact that you tried to leave them iver your head.... it makes a shitty situation even worse. I hope she is able to make it out of this situation okay. Leaving and bringing light to it is the hardest part.
not to mention I’m sure a lot of the stuff she’s doing online she has been FORCED TO DO BY HER HUSBAND. she wanted to tell her audience she was married, her husband said no. she didn’t want to do hot tub videos, her husband told her she has to.
I learned she's a creative streamer who used to show her cosplay process. I don't know a lot still I'm relieve to see the update on Twitter and I really hope she heals from everything. I hope she can stream with her dogs and horses!
This gave me flashbacks of some bad times, but I have a feeling she is strong enough to make it out. It takes work but once you do the relief and freedom is hard to describe. No matter what she does for a living no one deserves this.
My heart goes out to her. I've gone through a VERY similar thing with my ex husband. Her husband sounds like he has NPD as well. In the beginning stages they love bomb you and mirror your empathy (because they have none) and then they make you dependent on them. After that is when things become really emotionally and physically abusive. My ex husband almost killed me several times near the end of our marriage (with our baby in the home) and every time I called the police he took my phone. The police didn't do anything the first 5 times I called them. As for being able to use recordings as evidence in court, it totally depends on what state you live in and whether it's a two party state or not. In the end all my money was stolen from me, I lost my home, and have to suffer from severe ptsd every day. He was charged with several felonies but doesn't have to serve time because of a plea deal. There's so much more that I could say here but my point is that this type of abuse happens more than you'd think and the system does NOT help victims. The worst part for me is the impact it's had on my son and that I have to take him to visitations with my ex and can't protect him and if I don't do that then I'll go to jail. There needs to be more help for victims and children of abusers.
It pisses me off so bad when people say “just leave then!” Ok so that the courts can give the person who strangled me last week unsupervised access to my child?? The system is FVCKED and no one knows how bad it is. All the programs people talk about don’t actually f*cking exist.
please don't armchair diagnose strangers with severe disorders that have a high correlation to childhood trauma and neglect. Just call the man an abuser. The man is an mentally abusive piece of shit. Twitter and Tumblr are not peer-reviewed studies.
She never scammed anyone out of money. They were paying for her to stream and read their donos. If they only did that because they thought they'd have a chance with her then that's the least of their problems.
My stepdad was extremely abusive to my mom, brother, and me. Physically, emotionally, and psychologically, but he never threatened our animals! It takes a special kind of evil to threaten or harm animals 😣 I’m grateful I never had to endure those kind of threats. No one deserves to be treated like this, especially when they’re supposed to love and protect you.
I lived her life for a decade. It was hell. During the “good times” they sneakily take over more and more control, that way when they decide its too tiring to treat you like a person they have all these things to control you with. They threaten you constantly and occasionally make good on their threats to let you know how much you really could lose.
No matter how much you don't like her content, any person in this world does not deserve to be abused in any way and that includes Amouranth. I hope she continues to get help regarding everything that's happened.
i didint like her content so i never watched her streams ... but i knew who she was and on twitter i had her blocked to not see what other people retweet but if all this thing is real and those bathtubs streams were just the husband using her as a puppet ..... maybe she will stop doing those things and change her content .... i still woundt watch her streams but good for her if start doing what content she wants to make
Ken you and Buff are one of my favorites for this very reason. Both of you are decent people, you never claim to be better then others, you judge people for their actions and show compassion for people others would not care about besides how they could attention and views out of them. Never change. Both of you are great man and your kids and mary really can be glad to have a man like you in this often so distrubing world ken. And buff you are a legend and a great dude with so much compassion and such a great sense of justice. I love to hear you speak my mind about disgusting people like her husband or the how to catch a predator monsters. Love you guys you always light up my day, never change.
I’ve been thru 2 abusive marriages, and the way he screams at her and gaslights her reminded me so much of my second ex husband and the way he treated me. I feel for her ❤
This is a narcissist. I am a survivor. They are like this. For no reason. It’s all about control. They blow up over nothing. My ex broke my mobile and threatened to kill us both because I didn’t answer him fast enough. He would blow up if I forgot what we’d agree to have for dinner. These are dangerous people to leave. I hope this lady is safe.
From what I could tell, she was streaming earlier today with either her assistant or with a friend while she was taking care of and riding her horses. She seemed extremely happy to be able to see them, and her chat was for the most part supportive and being kind to her, so I can only hope for the best ;;
I’d never watched Charlie until last month and his breakdowns and thoughts on events are really impressive. Dare I say better than Ken and Dane? But I still appreciate watching them talk about it. I really hope this brings more awareness to domestic abuse because it isn’t as straightforward as many believe, and relying on law enforcement isn’t always the best option (especially when the abuser is a LEO).
No idea who this chick is but just because dudes give her money for existing, doesnt mean she deserves less than human treatment. I hope this girl gets away, publicly exposing this was a smart move. Most people like her husband are so terrified of being exposed that, that happening will shut them down. As a dad it breaks my heart to see this...no one's little girl or hell, anyone for that matter, deserves this.
Sometime being lied to hurts...if you dont realize that I dubt youve ever been lied to. While I agree simps need to take 2min and think about what their doing they dont deserve to be lied to.
In regards to recording, she lives in Texas. Texas is considered a "one-party consent" state, which means since she is a part of the conversation and consenting to recording it, it's legal.
As a survivor myself, who never once had a black eye, thank you for being you guys. The team you've built is awesome, and the language you use really does help. You watch a lot of garbage men, and you're ALWAYS putting perspective and dialogue to it that makes me confident my next one will be good (single for 9 years, but maybe!) The shit never goes away, but I'm finally at a place I'm happy surrounding myself with good men, be them my married friends irl or the content I watch. I know yall hate being glorified, you're just people, but you've built a genuine audience, and it shows. Thanks for but being a dumpster fire and giving us a place for community. You're good soup boys
thats what happends when you choose poorly. idk if to believe everything. she sure seemed happy when she was playing around and stuffin a dildo up her ass
Many women get so trapped in these situations and do not have the support or funds to escape, as bad at this is, I hope this brings awareness to domestic violence and how actually common it is. You never know who could be affected.
That guy is nuts,as someone who as seen an abusive and controling relationship first hand I wouldn't wish that on even my worst enemy and I'm just glad that more people are taking a stand and escaping that horror that they went through.
I am so glad that so many creators are making videos acknowledging her situation. After so long of hiding it, this has got to feel so validating. I was in an abusive relationship for a little over a year and it really is so lonely because they isolate you from everyone before you even realize what's happening. And when you realize you need help, you have no one to call. Especially seeing as how she wasn't even able to mention him. I sincerely hope that her coming out and speaking her truth will give her the confidence to get out. She has all the proof she needs now to remove herself from the situation. Trust me when I say I know that it is not that simple. I just really hope that she's able to get to a safe place. I also hope that this opens the eyes of others that are in that situation. If you are, there is help for you. Even though you feel like no one cares because they isolated you, I promise you that if you reach out to a friend or family member and explain your situation, they will help you. No one wants you to be unhappy and abused by your partner. My heart goes out to Amouranth and anyone that is currently with an abusive partner. ❤
Terrible situation this video.
I've often seen people say "ken you're always late to drama" and yes, I am.
I'm often awake late at night/early morning US time and see the news break. But I don't want to try to rush a video out just to get the views and it be wrong or more info comes out later or whatever could go wrong. Drama videos are a bit out of my expertise but I still want to talk about them.
So if it feels weird to you that we are slow to release videos about current drama that's one of the main reasons. The other is that I don't pressure Scott to crank out the video immediately Just because it was a hot topic. This video was recorded 2 days ago.
idk just felt like I should shed some light on our thought process on drama videos.
totally decent decision to be taking
This is a very important event and taking your time to fully understand the situation to be as accurate as possible is both wise and appreciated
Ken i personally prefer you do it this way. Give it time, no pressure and speak about this when you done your research. This way you dont need to rush videos to correct misinformation.. making videos ofc is a job, but you are not a robot and we dont want you to overwork yourself. Sending big hugs to you, your family and Buff ♡ remember you do as you think is best for you. We will always watch your videos even if you are "late for the drama" 😂 there are pure drama channels for this reasons to watch if someone want to be on top with all dramas happening. Love ya and stay toasty ♡
I prefer finding out this sort of drama from you guys at a later date since you have more of a detached view and it isn’t your main focus which makes someone who wouldn’t typically care about UA-cam drama actually pay attention to an issue as serious as this.
@@foolishlyfoolhardy6004 not at all..
Just for an update, she has access to all her finances now and is taking legal action against her husband.
Oh thank goodness
That's good to hear
How? You can't remove a person from your account without their permission. And if she were to set up a separate account it still would take days to transfer and clear the millions she has....... She at least has over 10 million.
Thank god!
@@joywolf83 likely her management team and herself being able to properly go to authorities because it was proved in front of thousands of people. Media attention really does make the police do their job. He can legally be taken off everything temporarily if there’s sufficient evidence.
She has control of everything again. She streamed after her husband yelled at her and she was wearing a sweater and she said “I’m better, I don’t have to wear shirt that show my cleavage all the time now. I’m free” and that made me cry, im so glad she’s okay.
Good to hear, thnx for the update
"Master gave dobby a sock, Dobby is free" or something like that, it was heartbreaking to hear but happy at the same time
It was fake from jump Street anyway. She's on that Amber Heard attention trip.
I don't watch her, I'm aware or her because sometimes I watch twitch drama but I saw that clip and damn, I saw that and damn, I hope the best for her.
@@faszikilawang8445 Amber was clearly lying but this woman literally has several things to prove her story
I definitely wasn't a fan of Amouranth, I generally have a distaste for thirst trap girls, but holy shit how can anyone, ANYONE, say she deserves this?? Its so obviously real and horrible, I can't imagine having to live with that deplorable man. I really hope she can get help to mentally overcome this; abusive relationships are so damaging to the mind. Sending my support for her, I'm glad she's ok now.
The abusive husband by the sounds of it was essentially forcing her to do the thirst trap stuff, as she did an update about how she has been seeking legal counsel and has control over her finances and accounts and whatnot, and she said she was very glad about not having to show cleavage anymore and being able to wear what she wanted
@@uglytelevision exactly, makes me gag just thinking about it
@@uglytelevision this is sick
@@uglytelevision this was going to be my reply. I really hope she gets out n free
@@uglytelevision Makes you think about how many women who present themselves in a hypersexual way are actual just being forcefully pimped out behind the scenes. There have been several women I've seen post regular over sexual stuff that it later came out were being forced and trafficked. I don't think the boners men get is worth this constant hypersexed culture because it makes trafficking and pimping much easier and more lucrative and with such a low chance of getting caught-I know most will disagree.
Dude seeing Buff listen to that manchild kick off and see the rage, hurt and concern on his face made me cry. I was in an abusive relationship like this myself and got out 4 years ago, and seeing his reaction validated the suffering in a the weirdest ways physically seeing how awful it is for others to hear. There are good people out there in the world, and it's almost impossible to remember that when you've gone through something like amouranth and many of us have, it leaves you trusting nobody. Thank you Ken and Buff for reminding us there are good men out there still 🧡
plus when he stopped everything to ask Ken if amouranth was ok at present like he needed to know, really warmed my heart. it was just so sweet like "wait, hold on, is this stranger ok???"
As someone who has been through a situation like this, 100% its something that happens overtime and starts small enough that you either don't notice you or you shrug off like its no big deal, by the time it gets to this level you feel afraid and trapped, and regardless on who Amouranth is, I hope she will be ok and get away. In my opinion, her airing this publicly is a brave thing to do
It's like the boiling frog apologue. Sometimes people don't really realize the water is getting hotter until they notice they're burning to death.
Exactly! Small things that after they're done love bombing you, you're not even 100 percent sure that it's what really happened.
100%. Its gradual. Thats what narcissists use the good times for.
Oh hey look another victim simp
I was thinking to myself. This sounds exactly like my ex husband. If you’ve been through it you know exactly what it is when you see it again....
She streamed yesterday with an update, she left the vod on her channel. She's safe and seeking legal counsel, as well as therapy, definitely sounds like she's working on a divorce right now. The craziest thing to me was when she said she was excited about not having to show cleavage everyday, and wear what she wants, as well as finally being able to sleep for 8 hours, absolutely crazy. She mentioned streaming what she actually wants to, like animal vids, IRL and travel streams.
I'm so glad she came out about this and that there have been so many people supporting her. I honestly wish her all the best.
I’m glad for her for that! It sounds like he was forcing her to be a simp magnet to get money. I hope she finds her stride
"I can wear clothes again" broke my mfin heart
Awe awesomeee we’ll get to see the real amoranth soon.
Either way good for her!
He really was pimping her whilst the public degraded her for how she behaved & dressed - at his behest!! It must have felt horrible, to being leered & letched at but not feeling like you can stop it.
The whole thing is grotesque & really OF & Twitch should have some kind of wellbeing system for their creators.
So, the image of her that people dislike her for is an image her abusive husband created to make money? Even making her have an Onlyfans account...
That's insane.
It sounds like he's been slowly torturing her for the last few years.
Being excited about not having to show her cleavage anymore says a lot about what kind of woman she really is and wants to be.
Men and women like Amouranths husband are who give dating and marriage a bad reputation.
They aren't looking for someone to love, they're looking for someone to own.
As someone who does not care for Amouranth at all, it's never ok to say someone deserves something like this. No one does. Yes with a lot of Twitch being based on drama, it's ok to be apprehensive of her accusations, but there's receipts. And I can't imagine any man would be ok with being seen as an abuser just for clout...
Fr. And look at his pathetic tweets trying to save face.
@@roxassora2706 Hey, what's his twitter? I wanna see those pathetic tweets. There's no way for him to excuse that shit. None whatsoever.
nah but deadass. forget about being seen as an abuser, my bf would never yell at me like that, even as a joke. this man is disgusting.
@@zoeywanzi6546 Cannot find it. His name is Nick Lee. He was tweeting about his marriage and trying to save face. He was posting "proof" about her consenting to shit.
@@ghostlyy333 Yeah, he's a baby
The fact that she wasn't the one who wanted to keep the relationship a secret is sad that guys are blaming her like NO one deserves this kind of abuse or manipulation
Did she ever say she dident want to? Could be ofcourse but she did agree to keep it secret?
This is an assumption. She can say whatever she wants now.
Hey Ken, I think the reason you knew about her marriage was because her husband has a Twitter account where 2 years ago he uploaded their marriage certificate trying to prove to everyone that he did not force Amouranth into marriage. I don't know why this wasn't talked about more because to me that's a MAJOR red flag, the fact that he even had to try and dispel those allegations back in 2020.
I agree with the red flag comment. You shouldn't have to prove to other people that you didn't force someone's hand in marriage...
Which… is kinda funny, you know? Just because he had a marriage certificate doesn’t mean he didn’t force her in some way. Not saying it happened but what I am saying is that’s not proof.
That's when ik too
I lived under an abusive household for years. You can tell this has been going on for a long time because he didn't even bother to check if she was still streaming or not before he went nuts. So that means he's comfortable doing this with no repercussions.
Hes confident she would take all the steps to cover up his abuse, because thats what she had been doing for him for years.
With how hard it was for her he probably manipulated her so bad she started blaming herself instead of him. She even said the only reason she broke was to protect her animals, she didnt even think people would be on her side.
Are u ok today? Are u safe?
@@asdghaith Oh yeah , this was 15+ years ago when I was a kid. Thanks for checking though !
Yeah they have been married for 7 years, I couldn't imagine it
Okay, Amber Heard. Except she's a terrible actor.
The internet: She's making it up! She deserves it! Who care?
Dane: IS SHE OKAY!?!
Ken: "rushes to see if she's at least active"
This is why I love watching you both. The empathy each of you express in your videos is genuine. Hearts of gold. 💛
@@NemoTLN I wanna understand what you're saying but it sounds too braindead to understand
Sadly it's not such a surprise, after all the fake BS that goes on in the Twitch world,
I can't rly blame the people who are saying it's all fake and for clout.
I hope it's not fake,
bc this would have a horrible effect on those who rly experienced abuse like that
@@CrazyCatLady84 I don’t think you can really call it fake when she has receipts.. and I don’t think she would risk her career and everything with a lie like that.
@@sadist8902 I don't say it's fake, I only said that I can understand why people may think it is.
I've been in several abusive relationships including having abusive parents, so that's why I hope it's not fake, bc this would cause way more problems for victims than there are already
@@CrazyCatLady84 Nono I wasn’t talking about you personally, the “you” was more in a general way (although reading it back, I didn’t make that clear, I’m sorry). I understand what you’re saying tho and I understand why people are wary, but Charlie made some good points as to why it wouldn’t make sense for her to do so
My younger sister just got out of a relationship like this. They dated for 10 years then were only married for 3 years. I was speaking to her about why she married him if he was abusive, and she stated at first he was great, but then overtime smaller things changed that she ignored thinking it was no big deal, but looking back those small changes were a huge deal. I don't know Amouranthe, but I wish her nothing but strength to get through this and kick this guy to the curb so she can finally work on healing and move on with her life without him.
I am really glad that your sister is okay and she is safe thank you for being there for her.
That's what a lot of people don't understand. People who end up abusive typically are good at masking it. They can be good manipulators and dip their toes. By the time someone realizes they're already in pretty deep at that point.
Your little sister was getting abused by her husband and you didn’t show up to their house with a shotgun? That’s wack af.
I did the same exact things. Like I didn’t really care if he went through my phone. I thought if it gave him peace of mind then the jealousy would disappear when he saw I was faithful. But he was never satisfied with that and it progressed to blowing up when I didn’t answer fast enough, letting me know how uncomfortable with my guy friends he was. I was friends with these young goofy kids(8 years younger than me, viewed them as little brothers) from my job. We all three would hit dabs and laugh our asses off. The only time I brought them to our place, he turned it into a tense political thing( many opinions he didn’t even have, I know now he was isolating me from all my male friends.) he was also very intense and loud when disagreeing with someone, which I believe is the main reason they felt so uncomfortable. I was so upset I cried when they left and my partner just said, if they can’t handle friendly banter we’re they really your friend? He literally ruined that group bc they knew I had an ahole boyfriend and didn’t want him to kick their ass over hanging out with me. I hadn’t had platonic fun like that in awhile and was really enjoying it because I genuinely like male energy better and felt zero mean girl vibes from my favorite guy friends and I always felt that way. by that point we had been in a relationship for a long time. If it had just started that extreme, it would have probably been a lot easier to leave. Before I met him, I would have laughed if a boyfriend told me who I could and couldn’t be friends with.
Glad your sister dropped that loser! ❤✌️
Bruh hearing about how excited she was to be able to wear what she wants to and not have to get pimped out in her update brought tears to my eyes, I hope things continute to look up and that she can get completely out of that shitty sitch
This is Ken and Buff contemplating beating up a scummy abuser for 24 minutes and I am 100% okay with this~
I’m scared to think of how this man has dealt with her stalker situation as well. She’s scared at home and anywhere she goes, not just because of the monsters on the outside, but the one that sleeps next to her. So scary.
I'm wondering if her stalker situation was her trying to cry for help about her husband without coming out and sayin it. Not trying to make light of it if it truly IS a stalker situation as that's a serious thing, it's just got me curious.
@@Spladoinkal She mentioned in her most recent stream that she’s still got stalker problems.
@@xTwilightWolvesx Gotcha. That really sux. I'm not a fan of hers at all but I don't wish this on anyone.
She invites these people by her content. That's majority of the types of people who support her type of work.
@@becks5198 It sounds like she didn’t even want to make that kind of content. It sounds like her husband legitimately pimped her out.
Hi Ken. As someone who had been in this situation, let me tell you it builds up over time. It starts of great and gives you a sense of security that you've never experienced before, and then it SLOWLY turns to breaking down your confidence so that security is all you have. After you feel like they are the only thing keeping you grounded, that they are too good for you and you could never do better, thats when it turns ugly. Everything before that is kind and warm, and it changes so slowly that you don't notice until it's too late and you feel stuck. It's hard to drag yourself out of that situation and rebuild yourself, and after being broken it can feel impossible... but to everyone who's been in this situation, you are stronger than you think and you can do it.
Thank you. I needed to hear this, honestly. I hope you are in a safe and healthy place now, and thank you for your kindness.
Happened to me. I didn't know what the "love bombing" was. It started so nicely and when I felt safe and happy, he started slowly breaking my confidence down, limiting my time with my friends and family... And it went down hill. It's scary. I never thought that could happen to me.. this experience really traumatic. But! It's not your fault, not my fault.
Later in life I was able to help my close friend to get out of the similar situation because I could recognise the signs. I was able to advise her and offer my home to stay until she gets better. Because of this she was about to get out early and safety... This happens way too often...
As someone who just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship this is so true and I couldn’t agree more.
It’s the boiling frog theory, like the frog is in a pot of water and it slowly gets hotter and hotter but the frog doesn’t realize until it’s too late and he’s burning alive.
thank you for sharing. this is so important for people to know 💗💗💗💗💗
Grateful that Charlie and these guys are putting light on this. The fact that people are saying “she deserves it” or whatever heartless hot garbage they’re spewing is completely despicable. NO ONE DESERVES THIS. Charlie puts everything so perfectly, couldn’t say things better myself.
She stayed with him 🤷♂️. She has money, which obviously didn't stopped her in the past from moving out and distancing herself from him or vice versa
@@Kuter666 can't believe I'm saying this. Go. To. Hell. You clearly don't understand how serious and terrible a situation like this is. My mother was stuck in an abusive marriage with my father for 15 years. You don't understand the circumstances at all and instead of trying to understand or have empathy you chose to remain ignorant and hateful.
And you defending a garbage human being because you think she's hot makes you a sad little simp.
@@Kuter666 wow. You must have led a very lucky and ignorant life
@@Kuter666 did we watch the same video?
Anyone putting blame on her, putting her down, saying she deserves it or celebrating her pain, you're no better then her husband. So sad, no one deserves to be treated that way.
go make your of and cry about it , hopeless rat.
Exactly.
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I agree. This is absolutely horrible and I hope she gets out of that situation quickly and safely. What is also worrying is even if she does get free from him with how he is towards her currently that he's going to backlash even harder when it's all done. I hope she stays safe and is able to work on healing herself because it's definitely not going to be easy.
As someone who has been abused, I’ve often heard “I can’t imagine someone being that crazy! Something must have made them act that way!” when talking about my abuser’s behaviors, which drives me up a wall, personally. Sometimes, Ken, _people are just that way with no stimulus for their behavior._ It’s hard to accept, especially when you have no experience with abuse, but it’s just a fact of life.
In my experience, the only correlation, is a lack of ability to love/comprehend love
There is a reason for everything. The reason wasn't you, but there was a reason. He wasn't blaming Amouranth
@@breerea9928 oh, I didn’t take it as him blaming her! But if you _really_ insist that there _must_ be a reason, the automatic response I give is that it’s in some people’s personalities. But that’s as far as it goes for some, like my abuser. There’s literally no logic behind it.
@@chelmastly5802 Sometimes they are mentally ill, as well. That doesn't excuse it, obviously, but can be a factor in their personalities and abusive tendencies.
@@mermaid_at_heart213 personality disorders are not mental illnesses. Mental illness implies that with the proper treatment you may be able to get well. Abusers with personality disorders rarely if ever stop their abuse. They just move to the next person.
I saw a clip of him screaming at her, it reeks of his narcissism. My heart goes out to her, no one should ever suffer through verbal or physical abuse. Abuse never comes from a place of love.
@Kavetion a smelly dog turd is better than you.
Oh boo hoo a filthy rich twitch thot got yelled at, what a tragedy
@@daporkoil1 I get where you’re coming from, but I lived through a similar situation that led me to study how personality disorders affect families. These 5 years of study plus my lived experience lead me to this thought. Her going off mute was a cry for help. Eventually, if you have enough backbone, a person can find a way out and start healing.
@@daporkoil1 you people will do anything to get abusers off the hook
@@daporkoil1 did... Did you not see what we all saw or?
Watching her break down while her crap husband screams at her on the phone gave me flashbacks to my childhood.
If you see anything like this in your own relationship, please get help and support. Be safe.
Yeah her husband legit SCREAMING his entire conversation with her, he needs to be put away and needs a lot of mandatory mental health anger management classes
I'll be honest, this is the first video I haven't been able to finish of Ken's. I'm recently out of an extremely similar situation and watching the panic set in as she realizes she's entering another bout of abuse is too much for me. Thank you guys and Charlie for the words of support for the situation because people think abuse looks like black eyes or busted lips and it doesn't always.
I hope you’re in a safer and happier place now
If it makes you feel better knowing this, Amouranth is okay now! She’s out of the situation and working towards a divorce as well as getting therapy. She’s hopefully getting her happy end right now. I hope you get yours too. I honestly had to pause the video a few times when her segments came up. Watching her body language and hearing that all too familiar break in her voice as she holds back tears. I hate that feeling, it’s dehumanizing. As someone who was stuck in a relationship like that for 15 years, I can confidently say the first step is setting firm boundaries and cutting off that behavior, or not just the person entirely. You’re on your way Heather, and I know you’re strong enough to see yourself through it.
from woman to woman: stay strong girl, you can get through this
yes it's the absolutely helpless panic and brokenness in her voice and demeanor once he starts again. it's the palpable frustration. it is all to real it is gut wrenching and i'm here with you and all of the other women who found this situation to be an unfortunate mirror.
The most dangerous time for someone in an abusive situation is when they leave said relationship. I hope she's alright
as a victim of emotional abuse, seeing her face and the way she speaks in response to her abuser is just shattering. I hope she is ok and heals from this horrible horrible man.
Emotionally abused and physically by my ex wife. Couldnt leave my child with her.
Men go through this all the time but are afraid to speak up for obvious reasons. Being trapped and abused is horrible, but my daughter comes before myself
@@burtknighten4438 I am so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you are in a safer position now
I'm glad she went public with this. No one deserves to be treated that way. I had a friend who's ex almost unalived her and it's scary how quickly someone can flip from loving to extremely dangerous
Having survived a situation like this, I'm so glad she reached out for help. Screw every single person defending that garbage man on the other line.
hope you’re doing okay after having to deal with that situation
Update: Amouranth has returned to streaming. She said she has control of all her accounts & finances now. Her husband is off "getting help". She also said that was the first time her husband heard a recording of himself. He previously always refused to listen & even broke her phones so he didn't have to listen to himself. Amo has retained legal & emotional counsel. She's definitely getting ready to face this battle head-on.
If she stays with him regardless of him getting "help". I will stop caring.
Good for her. That takes initiative.
It’s extremely rare for people like him to change even with long term and intensive therapy. He is only doing this so she doesnt leave him, because his main goal is to regain control over her. I hope she also does some research on Narcissistic Abuse, she is currently in the “Hoovering” period of the cycle, and the cycle only repeats itself to infinity.
@@chasejackson7248 that’s fine, she doesn’t need you to care. But abuse is multi-layered and it can be hard for people to leave the situation even after they receive help because it’s what they know, they have feelings for the person, fear etc. Victims will never heal without grace. Like I said she doesn’t need your grace, but make sure you have grace for the survivors in your life.
@@chasejackson7248 Shows how small your brain is.
As a Vtuber, in our community a lot of female creators get attacked by fan or even dropped by sponsors if they enter relationships with someone and are public because it ruins thier "brand" of being a waifu to their viewers then views drop and so does the income. It can get pretty toxic.
I know it's a few days since it happened but this Amouranth situation really triggered me, it made me question myself as a man and if I treat my partner good enough (I think I do), the most heart breaking thing is when she came back on live stream a couple days later and said things like "I can finally wear clothes" and "I can sleep for 8 hours again". The whole situation just breaks my heart and Twitter is a cesspool of tater tot incels on it. Well done Charlie and you guys for covering this.
If this made you ask that about yourself. That's weird bud.
I was abused for 8 years by my ex wife bc I couldn't leave my daughter alone to be raised by her mainly. I've always been the main caregiver. Men dont speak up about abuse because we don't want to be pitied or viewed as victims. Also Noone cares when men are abused
Apparently he didn’t know that he was heard on stream. She was originally going to mute and leave the stream for a bit to take his call but decided to make it public. Absolutely scary situation but it’s great that she decided to show how awful of a person her “husband” is. Hope she can finally move away and heal.
It was really smart of her. One of the biggest things about being in an abuse situation, if you can, record EVERYTHING. You’ll have mountains of evidence. She did one better and LIVE-STREAMED it so EVERYONE could see how awful this creature of a man treats her.
watching so many people on twitter try and say "why didn't she just leave?" makes me so angry because if you've ever been in a toxic/abusive relationship it's not as easy to just leave. the toxic/abusive person ensures they have twisted their way into your life so you don't feel like you can live without them. and for amouranth her husband had access to literally everything that has made her career. saying "just leave" is one of the most brain dead takes on this entire situation, so, yeah, i feel so bad for her, she deserves so much better
People pretend society has gotten better about it, then turn around and say exactly that. It's a downwards circle
I wish it were more common knowledge that people are more likely to be hurt or eliminated by an abuser when they try to leave. Dangerous people get more dangerous when they lose control of others.
@@WaitingxInxSilence Exactly what I was thinking!
you have to pick your moment to leave safely. the graveyards are full of people who tried to leave
Not to mention abusive relationships where they threaten to do horrible things if you DO try to leave. And fully have the power to make good on those threats. You never fully know other people's situation so saying it should have been simple with only an outside perspective is ignorant at best and just plain hateful at worst.
Yea her husband is the one who pushed her to say she was single because she’d make less money… he was also financially abusive (go figure). I hope she gets help to deal with this a-hole.
Gotta love how everyone acts like she was some sort of helpless fish that couldn't make her own decisions and say no. All victim simps like you accomplish is enablement of victim behavior.
@UC-3SiG3s_iTpbfvyPzDJdwQ It seems like it’s the former, she stated in he was the one that came up with the hot tub stream idea and she told him tearfully on the phone during the VOD “you used my body to build this empire.”
Apparently she’s already posted saying she’s okay and taking legal action against her husband, filing for divorce and seeking therapy to heal from this nightmare
She's probably had to plan this for a long time before she got the guts to record it. She would've had to make sure he felt comfortable enough to record him while doing the stream.. I remember the sort of high stress plotting it takes to leave an abusive relationship without violence and trying to survive retaliation, and I'm glad she has taken this careful first step.
wow... heard she was in an abusive marriage and went "that sucks" but after watching this, I felt myself about to tear up. nobody should have to go through this and nobody should be told it doesn't matter because of what they do for a living
As someone with a narcissistic and abusive father, it really does start small until you’re trapped and feel there’s no way out
I couldn’t even get through 2 minutes of that phone call without being triggered. It’s 100% narcissistic behavior
I hope the best for her bc there IS a way out but it is NOT easy, legally physically and mentally
And I can hear the trauma this guy has through his words too. His parents were definitely narcissistic as well, normal people don't flip out like that over being misheard. Abusive garbage omfg
The legal system barely take physical violence seriously so its easy to feel trapped when the law is waving it off because there's no bruises. He hijacked her accounts and like Andrew Tate, is a modern day pimp
You are probably right, narcs hate to clarify what they say, the argument is so close to a blow up that the narc in my life did; I was right back being a kid trying to figure out desperately how to stop my mom from throwing this tantrum and making her “feel heard” without getting punished for just not understanding what she mumbled under her breath.
This entire situation completely flipped how I feel about Ammo on its head. I’m wondering now if all the weird tax evasion stuff she was doing (buying a gas station to pay less in taxes) if it was her husband’s idea or maybe she was trying to somehow get assets away from her husband’s control.
All her two factors go to HIS number.
He has COMPLETE control over her accounts.
He was making her stream 20+ hours a day.
She was a prisoner in a very fancy prison. A slave to this man and the webcam. I wouldn’t be surprised if she dips out entirely after this is over.
I Honestly hope she takes a break from streaming and stuff. She needs time to heal
She said she was taking a break to process things and bc she hasnt had one in years. She has content that shes excited to be able to make though, now that she has freedom to do what she loves. She wont be forced to show cleavage and shell be able to see her animals whenever she wants. She seemed fairly hopeful.
Some borderline human trafficking shit.
@@SlightlyDisturbed123 yeah some andrew tate shit
Im not gonna lie that door cracking open made me so scared for her and nearly made me jump out of my skin. I didn't know who she was but I hope she is safe and secure now
I left an abusive marriage six years ago. If you have never lived situations like this, you have no right to voice an opinion against this woman. I have cPTSD from living in this for 15 years. It is legit, please be supportive of people who have lived through this and have had the courage to stand up to this kind of treatment.
Yeah my ex wife was abusive physically and emotionally. Was trapped bc ill be damned to leave my daughter alone with her all the time
She apparently just did a stream where she explains what happened after and also did a stream with her horses so she's fine and it was so sad hearing her say she can finally do the small stuff like wear baggy clothes, actually take care of her horses herself, have 8 hours of sleep, etc...like he not only abused her but over worked her
She is extremely brave for putting this out like that... I hope that she can find peace and gets away from his abuse.
What pisses me off the most about keemstar's take is that Amouranth literally explains that it was her husband who made her pretend to be single. But of course why would keem ever use his common sense before posting his opinions.
Tbh, besides that, it's also an unreasonable expectation from a content creator. A content creator shouldn't have to have the details of their life be known because some fans are delusional and think they'll be with them one day. They aren't responsible for these delusional people who are watching them.
Nobody deserves to be emotionally, financially and physically threatened like this. It's heartbreaking to see some of the posts she's making and the idea that she couldn't even wear comfortable clothing on days when she just wanted to stream and be comfy because he was dictating what she had to wear on stream to bring in money. It seems like she wanted a loving, supportive husband and what she got was an abusive pimp. I hope she finds peace and support because she's gonna need a lot of it right now.
As a recent victim of narcissistic abuse, I have so much empathy for her and I’m actually happy she shared bc it gives me more hope that people will believe me. They make you feel so over emotional for truly normal reactions to their erratic behavior.
As someone who has been in abusive relationships in my past…hearing Ken say that he’s never personally experienced an abusive relationship (and thank God) really caused me to realize something. Not everyone has experienced an abusive relationship. It’s not news to me but somehow hearing him say that really caused something to click. The things that seem “normal” parts of growing and going through relationships to someone who has been in abusive relationships isn’t normal.
It’s just really odd to hear someone truly acknowledge that they don’t understand the things that are involved in a relationship like that and really validates the reason behind why it’s so hard to get out of them. It’s one of the hardest things and it’s something I wish no one had to understand.
I love that you're primarily a comedy channel but you take the time to have really important conversations like this ♥️
The fact that she stayed fairly calm during most of the conversation shows how used she is to being treated like this. It's heartbreaking
grow a dick, hopeless simp.
This phone call straight up gave me a panic attack. Keem is a monster.
I feel so sorry for his daughter. She will never see him as a safe person to go to if she gets (which I hope never ever happens. To anyone.) SA'd
@@fawnieee KEEM STAR HAS A DAUGHTER?! holy shit...poor girl that must be terrible for her..
Being a guy who’s been on the receiving end of an abusive relationship I can’t even watch this. It’s such a horrible thing to go through and I wouldn’t wish her situation on anyone.
I never watched Amouranth, I just knew of her, and I heard about this situation so I tuned into it. I cried the entire time watching her video because it was like watching myself in a mirror back when I was in an abusive relationship. She has been gaslit so bad that she doesn't know left or right, and being that disconnected from reality and forgetting who you really are SUCKS. I'm so proud of her for taking action and I hope she receives all the love and therapy she needs to remember who she is again and love herself. This woman deserves respect.
I just checked her stream yesterday to see how things are, apparently he's getting therapy and she's talking about leaving him. She said it lasted for 7 years and hadn't slept for more than 4-5 hours a night. She also said less skimpy outfits and more fun because most of that was due to him telling her to get higher ratings.
Side note It felt like he was also more abusive to her animals than I thought as well. She was saying she never got to see her horses and the man constantly yelled at her and her dogs off camera.
Good for her!
I was literally just watching Charlie’s video on this I’m glad you decided to shed some light on this and I truly hope that Amouranths abuser faces the consequences of her actions.
His name is Nick Lee💗
Ok simp
@@Alexandra-ng1ih I can see how much that guy is going to be hated
***** consequences of his actions. My bad
What UA-camr isn't shedding light on this you better say.
As someone that doesn't watch her content, it breaks my heart watching this. Her p.o.s. husband is trash.. I was in a relationship like This a few years ago. My ex controlled everything in my life. I hope she can find a way to get out of this shitty situation.
As I watched everyone complaining she's been scamming viewers, I too recalled that her marriage was leaked years ago and somehow everyone forgot.
"I want to fight people like this." Mood. As someone with a temper, I've seen people flinch when I lose it and yell, and I hate that, it always makes me want to be better. So when someone either doesn't care, or worse enjoys making people scared, they deserve a good smackdown. I'm one of the many who doesn't watch Amouranth, and roll my eyes whenever she does something that makes it into news, but I really hope she's safe and gets help/away from this guy. No one deserves abuse.
Buff's takes are truly legendary in this video.
The only way I can keep up with this kind of issue is by having Ken and Buff there to break up the tension, it's genuinely triggering to watch so seeing two wholesome dadbros discuss it with authenticity is kind of a relief
Ken with the "oh my relationship gonna ruin the business" exposing every kpop entertainment company. Crazy
Kpop, jpop and chinese pop too. H!Project groups basically young girls marketed to single men who get the boot when they get married (or smoke lmao lmao). H!Project has been doing this since the 90's, I think good ol Tsunku was the first with this bussiness model that spread through asia like cancer.
My mother had bipolar and that phone call you heard was pretty much my entire childhood. My mom would scream on the top of her lungs over simple things like not hearing her and then she would threaten to take my cats back to the shelter. She’d beat me daily. This started when I was just a baby girl. I finally whooped her ass when I was 20 years old. I kicked her in the stomach and threw her out of my house and I never talked to her again. I have borderline personality disorder because of the abuse she inflicted on me. Listening to this phone call has brought up so much memories of about 90% of the Hell hole that was my life. I feel bad for amaranth but luckily she’s not a child and she has the power to get away, unlike I did.
I feel you… in my opinion no one hurts someone like their parents can. Especially when it comes from our mothers 😔 There is absolutely no excuse for abuse! I am glad to hear you are free and better new 💚 Stay safe and keep in mind it was never your fault, you were and are enough and your life matters 🙏 Take care and love yourself!
I feel you. Hearing that phone call sent me into a flashback
I have bipolar disorder. It is our responsibility to take ownership of our mental health to prevent these very issues. I mess up a lot, but my kids are my life. Medication, therapy and a psychiatrist have been instrumental in my life. Not everyone has that advantage. I'm sorry for everything you've endured.
I’m so sorry. I’m glad you’re away from that monster.
Fucked up you beat your mother
This was really difficult to watch. My heart shatters for her. I hope she gets all the help she needs
the fact that people were hounding on her for trying to get help through a live is so ridiculous! What else is she supposed to do when he has access to everything and everyone??? And the fact that she didnt expose him sooner shows how terrified she is of him. I don't even like her content (still won't unless it changes) but I feel so incredibly bad to see her have to go through that and hope she gets the healthy love she deserves
(I’m halfway through watching writing this so I’m not sure if this part was shown in this specific video yet) but one of the most heart wrenching things I heard her say in the video was “I don’t want to do a 3some” meaning he might MAKE her do adult content she does not want to do. On top of him forcing her to do 24 hour streaks???? This poor woman my mind can’t comprehend the horrors she has probably gone through. I hope everyone woman or man that is a victim of domestic abuse can get out and get help fast. Horrific
She said he forces her to wear shirts that show her cleavage, so I wouldn't throw the possibility out the window
Thank you Buff, no matter if you are married you owe someone nothing.
I'm 5 years out of a 4 year abusive relationship. It starts very small, and usually comes with an insane over the top apology. And then it just builds up, gets worse, and it all just feels "normal". I can't watch the whole video as its very triggering but I really hope she leaves safe and sound. The trauma never leaves you but at least you can be free and not living in fear.
I hope you’re still learning to heal and love yourself 💗 everything you feel is valid and i’m so glad you were able to get out of this type of situation, you deserve the absolute world
It is kinda disgusting how so many people literally are like...dehumanizing her. She has feelings, hopes, and dreams. I hope everything gets better for her.
She gets her tits out on the internet. Get a real job and your dreams are validated
Props to the people on the internet that care about each other and standing up for the people that need help. I'm grateful she has so much support during this time.
The video she made about being able to have clothes (more covering) really hurted. 🥺 I hope they do get divorced and she is able to make content she is the most comfortable with or do whatever she wants with her life rather than being made to do things just for money.
Her husband is like my brother. Enabled and abused from birth, and plays victim through the rest. I hope for her safety and pray anyone going through the same shit peace.
My marriage was similar to this..and I actually told family about it. They didn't believe me because he acted so different around others. Sometimes its hard to get out, but its so freeing when you do. I hope she gets away from him.
It's so sad to know so many people go through situations like this, me also being one the them, once I escaped I literally became a different person, an even better person than how I was before meeting my abusive ex. I still remember getting tons of messages a minute like that and having him constantly threaten me to keep me in line. I've never been interested in Amouranth however hearing about the fact that she's out of that abusive situation and is able to do what she wants really makes me feel so happy for her, I wish her all the best!
As someone who dealt with narcissistic abuse and physical abuse, this is a class A narc. It makes me so sad knowing more people fall victim to them than they do legitimately damaging scams nowadays.
In my senior year of highschool I was in a relationship much like this one and the petty argument and tone of voice brought back a lot of unwanted memories. My ex forced me to abruptly cut ties with all my friends which caused them to start picking on me for “losing the ability to speak” or for choosing him over them (when you’re in that environment it’s hard to make your own decisions). In the long run I guess they were never my friends but still.
I’m not writing this so you’ll feel sorry for me or anything but I felt like a shell of my former self and I was constantly getting ridiculed and beaten down every minute of the day. You feel like you’re not your own person anymore, and to think that’s how this woman feels is so terrifying and sickening. I hope she gets out of this horrible situation
Listening to this dude screaming at her gives me war flashbacks of my ex. Getting furious over the littlest details... It's been years, but I'm still healing. I hope she's alright 💔
It is a long way to heal but it is the best course to take. Been years for me too but will never ever allow someone like that in my life again. Stay strong xxx
@@tinybutmightycookie2518 it's better to be happy alone than miserable together. I wish you all the best and thank you so much ❤️
Same. I remember my ex constantly saying that "it's the little things that truly matter" making a mountain out of an anthill. Glad you got out. Abuse from a narcissist is almost like an addiction. The manipulation, the need for validation, all of it.
You never fully heal from DV - I too winced and had cold chills running down my spine when I heard him screaming and it took me back to my ex and all I can say is, stay strong and keep the bad in your rear-view mirror.
I have tried more than once to get out of an abusive relationship, and unfortunately that is the hardest part. People think it should be so easy, or that you just dont respect yourself enough to leave, but that is rarely the case in abusive and toxic relationships of any kind.
And then the guilt trips + holding the fact that you tried to leave them iver your head.... it makes a shitty situation even worse.
I hope she is able to make it out of this situation okay. Leaving and bringing light to it is the hardest part.
not to mention I’m sure a lot of the stuff she’s doing online she has been FORCED TO DO BY HER HUSBAND. she wanted to tell her audience she was married, her husband said no. she didn’t want to do hot tub videos, her husband told her she has to.
I learned she's a creative streamer who used to show her cosplay process. I don't know a lot still I'm relieve to see the update on Twitter and I really hope she heals from everything. I hope she can stream with her dogs and horses!
This gave me flashbacks of some bad times, but I have a feeling she is strong enough to make it out. It takes work but once you do the relief and freedom is hard to describe. No matter what she does for a living no one deserves this.
My heart goes out to her. I've gone through a VERY similar thing with my ex husband. Her husband sounds like he has NPD as well. In the beginning stages they love bomb you and mirror your empathy (because they have none) and then they make you dependent on them. After that is when things become really emotionally and physically abusive. My ex husband almost killed me several times near the end of our marriage (with our baby in the home) and every time I called the police he took my phone. The police didn't do anything the first 5 times I called them. As for being able to use recordings as evidence in court, it totally depends on what state you live in and whether it's a two party state or not. In the end all my money was stolen from me, I lost my home, and have to suffer from severe ptsd every day. He was charged with several felonies but doesn't have to serve time because of a plea deal. There's so much more that I could say here but my point is that this type of abuse happens more than you'd think and the system does NOT help victims. The worst part for me is the impact it's had on my son and that I have to take him to visitations with my ex and can't protect him and if I don't do that then I'll go to jail. There needs to be more help for victims and children of abusers.
It pisses me off so bad when people say “just leave then!” Ok so that the courts can give the person who strangled me last week unsupervised access to my child?? The system is FVCKED and no one knows how bad it is. All the programs people talk about don’t actually f*cking exist.
please don't armchair diagnose strangers with severe disorders that have a high correlation to childhood trauma and neglect. Just call the man an abuser. The man is an mentally abusive piece of shit. Twitter and Tumblr are not peer-reviewed studies.
@@septicember what? You don't need to be rude..
She never scammed anyone out of money. They were paying for her to stream and read their donos. If they only did that because they thought they'd have a chance with her then that's the least of their problems.
My stepdad was extremely abusive to my mom, brother, and me. Physically, emotionally, and psychologically, but he never threatened our animals! It takes a special kind of evil to threaten or harm animals 😣 I’m grateful I never had to endure those kind of threats. No one deserves to be treated like this, especially when they’re supposed to love and protect you.
I lived her life for a decade. It was hell. During the “good times” they sneakily take over more and more control, that way when they decide its too tiring to treat you like a person they have all these things to control you with. They threaten you constantly and occasionally make good on their threats to let you know how much you really could lose.
No matter how much you don't like her content, any person in this world does not deserve to be abused in any way and that includes Amouranth. I hope she continues to get help regarding everything that's happened.
i didint like her content so i never watched her streams ... but i knew who she was and on twitter i had her blocked to not see what other people retweet
but if all this thing is real and those bathtubs streams were just the husband using her as a puppet .....
maybe she will stop doing those things and change her content ....
i still woundt watch her streams but good for her if start doing what content she wants to make
I loved Mary's channel!
That's so sad that she was forced to stop doing videos because of stupid people online =(
As Swoop says "it's not drama, it's dangerous"
Poor girl. I'm sorry she had to go through this. Abuse is never easy, and never simple.
Ken you and Buff are one of my favorites for this very reason. Both of you are decent people, you never claim to be better then others, you judge people for their actions and show compassion for people others would not care about besides how they could attention and views out of them. Never change. Both of you are great man and your kids and mary really can be glad to have a man like you in this often so distrubing world ken. And buff you are a legend and a great dude with so much compassion and such a great sense of justice. I love to hear you speak my mind about disgusting people like her husband or the how to catch a predator monsters. Love you guys you always light up my day, never change.
I’ve been thru 2 abusive marriages, and the way he screams at her and gaslights her reminded me so much of my second ex husband and the way he treated me. I feel for her ❤
The people saying she should have kept it private is just straight up victim blaming and gross. She did the right thing and I hope she gets out safe.
This is a narcissist. I am a survivor. They are like this. For no reason. It’s all about control. They blow up over nothing. My ex broke my mobile and threatened to kill us both because I didn’t answer him fast enough. He would blow up if I forgot what we’d agree to have for dinner. These are dangerous people to leave. I hope this lady is safe.
From what I could tell, she was streaming earlier today with either her assistant or with a friend while she was taking care of and riding her horses. She seemed extremely happy to be able to see them, and her chat was for the most part supportive and being kind to her, so I can only hope for the best ;;
I’d never watched Charlie until last month and his breakdowns and thoughts on events are really impressive. Dare I say better than Ken and Dane? But I still appreciate watching them talk about it. I really hope this brings more awareness to domestic abuse because it isn’t as straightforward as many believe, and relying on law enforcement isn’t always the best option (especially when the abuser is a LEO).
No idea who this chick is but just because dudes give her money for existing, doesnt mean she deserves less than human treatment. I hope this girl gets away, publicly exposing this was a smart move. Most people like her husband are so terrified of being exposed that, that happening will shut them down. As a dad it breaks my heart to see this...no one's little girl or hell, anyone for that matter, deserves this.
"What is she DOING that's hurting these people?" being a woman on the internet that isn't dating them
Sometime being lied to hurts...if you dont realize that I dubt youve ever been lied to. While I agree simps need to take 2min and think about what their doing they dont deserve to be lied to.
In regards to recording, she lives in Texas. Texas is considered a "one-party consent" state, which means since she is a part of the conversation and consenting to recording it, it's legal.
As a survivor myself, who never once had a black eye, thank you for being you guys. The team you've built is awesome, and the language you use really does help. You watch a lot of garbage men, and you're ALWAYS putting perspective and dialogue to it that makes me confident my next one will be good (single for 9 years, but maybe!) The shit never goes away, but I'm finally at a place I'm happy surrounding myself with good men, be them my married friends irl or the content I watch. I know yall hate being glorified, you're just people, but you've built a genuine audience, and it shows. Thanks for but being a dumpster fire and giving us a place for community. You're good soup boys
I love seeing UA-camrs that are big stand up for her
Ken and buff have become part of my daily routine for years now! 😂🤣
No one deserves abuse, no matter whether you like someone or not.
I never heard of this streamer before this but I support her 100%, man is unhinged.
thats what happends when you choose poorly. idk if to believe everything. she sure seemed happy when she was playing around and stuffin a dildo up her ass
Many women get so trapped in these situations and do not have the support or funds to escape, as bad at this is, I hope this brings awareness to domestic violence and how actually common it is. You never know who could be affected.
That guy is nuts,as someone who as seen an abusive and controling relationship first hand I wouldn't wish that on even my worst enemy and I'm just glad that more people are taking a stand and escaping that horror that they went through.
I am so glad that so many creators are making videos acknowledging her situation. After so long of hiding it, this has got to feel so validating. I was in an abusive relationship for a little over a year and it really is so lonely because they isolate you from everyone before you even realize what's happening. And when you realize you need help, you have no one to call. Especially seeing as how she wasn't even able to mention him. I sincerely hope that her coming out and speaking her truth will give her the confidence to get out. She has all the proof she needs now to remove herself from the situation. Trust me when I say I know that it is not that simple. I just really hope that she's able to get to a safe place. I also hope that this opens the eyes of others that are in that situation. If you are, there is help for you. Even though you feel like no one cares because they isolated you, I promise you that if you reach out to a friend or family member and explain your situation, they will help you. No one wants you to be unhappy and abused by your partner. My heart goes out to Amouranth and anyone that is currently with an abusive partner. ❤