Hey ik I’m late but I’m new why do ppl hate meds (I’m not dependent on them) but they kinda saved me and are a part of my routine (u seem rly wise so asking u) Also I cannot function without routine so maybe that is why I like it
Ok but what about a fellow mentally unstable person saying they're here for you. Not here for themselves but here for you (Literally me and my mom ngl)
How am I supposed to explain that a lot of my problems come from some form of mental illness, religous problems, semi narcissistic family members, and overall not being able to function in the way I want to- When u dont even know what being neurodivergent means😭 WHEN I CANT EVEN TELL WHAT'S NORMAL OR NOT- When large uppercase letters start to give me feelings of anxiety and fear😭😭
While I was watching this, the person who caused a lot of childhood trauma for me just showed up to my house and now I'm worried that I'll have to interact with her. Go team.
This has been my coping mechanism since COVID hit. And I think my slope is just now starting to steadily (SLOWLY) go up and stay there for a while. But I'm getting better and I'm gonna get counseling in the fall so... Yay.
does anyone else want to SCREAM but they can't cuz: 1) they live in a house with people who care 2) they live in a shitty household and don't wanna get screwed 3) some other option idk y'alls lives for me, it's 1. my dad is a caring man and my brother SLIGHTLY cares.
Who here gets themselves look some what normal before you go to see your therapist? Like I literally change out of my sweats and hoodie I have been wearing for two days just to change back into them when I get back home so my therapist won't fucking up my med dose.
Literally me!! Some weeks, the only time I'm "put together" is the days I have therapy haha :) Although I had about 3 months this summer when I wasn't working, so my therapist got used to me wearing a hoodie and leggings (because I couldn't be bothered to put pants on lol), but I still always made sure I showered and put makeup on because I need her to think I have it together lmao
i found the tiktok at 4:44 when she smashed the plate with a ax hammer thing her " this is you and this is life'' i said '' no its not you gotta break it more until there is no hope of putting it bck together'' out loud.
I sat here completely stone-faced the entire time (they’re all funny I’m just checked out rn) except for when the pro life one played LMAO. It just hit the mark.
@@DariceFowler It's okay if they are. They aren't there to judge just to help you feel better. I doubt they would be over it though. They'd probably be really happy about the effort you put in!
the girl from 10:18, I never cared when people say: you're not alone. But honestly, I do that every day too. And if I do get one thing done..it's never a lot of it. It's always..a...just f anything.
i don't even have a therapist, but i feel i could relate to these a lot ( the ones where they actually talk about interacting with the therapist, not the ones about actually being depressed, because i relate to those A LOT! and the abuse from my mom etc etc)
Can someone more connected to reality tell me roughly what % of teens and young adults are mentally healthy? Because my perception of it swings wildly from "it must be super low because no one could be happy in the world rn" to "it must be supper high or more would be being done about it" and I have no idea what's actually going on in the world.
I don't know about teens, but approximately 20% of US adults experience mental illness. However, one thing to note is that right now we are all going through a collective trauma (the pandemic, social justice movements, etc.), which has limited our ability to cope. This does not mean we are all mentally ill, but it does mean that mental illnesses that are triggered by stress are more likely to present, and people may be experiencing depression and anxiety as a result of current events. That being said, depression and anxiety are symptoms that everyone experience to some degree at some point in their life -- and experiencing them doesn't necessarily mean they are mentally ill. Also, mental health treatment is lacking in the United States, so our reported numbers are lower than the actual numbers. (this is just coming from what I learned while getting my psych degree, and my work in this field)
Funny little story, I was watching some video comp with my brother like 2 hours ago and someone said “haha, did you know that people who need therapy but refuse to get it use baking as a coping mechanism!?” yes, there was a sheet of fresh cookies they made earlier. Um anyway, guess who uses cooking as a coping mechanism- I’m gonna go cry for an hour and then under estimate and convince myself that my mental illnesses aren’t that much of a problem to me. Then realize that I have a control issue of some sort where I try to pre plan everyday to the point it causes not only anxiety but also insomnia
Me: wow there’s nothing in my life to be sad about rn but I’m still staying up until 1:00 am crying. All the friends I’m leaving to move back to America after a good 10 years in Europe: am I a joke to you
Y'all be winter depression I get summer spring winter depression not stunning tho bc it's just chefs kiss it's like the world is to depressed so j don't have to be
I think I’m one of those people who drives with no destination- coz ya boi do love his long drives and he just started learning how to drive and it’s dope af... 👀
Me : Sometimes I wish I was full of chocolate instead of emotions. I'm going to get some chocolate. Also me : no you can't you'll be sick. How am I supposed to do now?
At 3:55 I was laughing really hard because I relate to it so much then i was on the verge of tears but couldn't cry because my mom called me a crybaby all my life so i consciously cant cry anymore. Thanks mom.😑😑😑😶
ngl i was at therapy today and she was like let’s have you’re mom in here for the first ten minutes, and then the second she comes in my therapist goes so how’s your anxiety this week. i was like uuuuuuugh not in front of my mommmmm 🤦🏻♀️
What I hate is that I have social anxiety, so if I go to meet up with anybody I’ll start to feel kind of unwell and really nervous, but whenever I tell my mum that she’s just like, ‘oh, it’s ok, there’s no reason for you to feel like that’ and it really annoys me because it makes me feel like my feelings aren’t valid and I should stop feeling that way, can anyone relate??
Me just chilling My brain: hey remember hat time you tried to come out to you're mom and it became a really but fight and she told you that you wee steering you're family apart
i just noticed...that i tell my friends ill fight someone for hurting them...but they never said it back to me...and im actually hurt by this realization.
Like it just me or anybody else kinda nopped out on emotions and bottled them up but now u forgot how to get to them so they’re just there chillin under the surface till u breakdown no lol
My favorite part is when my parents say "I'm going to kill you" and I say please do, forgetting that my mental illnesses are only funny online, and I get a whole can of whoopass for dinner.
part 6 is up!
Hey ik I’m late but I’m new why do ppl hate meds (I’m not dependent on them) but they kinda saved me and are a part of my routine (u seem rly wise so asking u)
Also I cannot function without routine so maybe that is why I like it
@@Briisneat Aww thank you
Thx ❤️
I love your compilations ❤
this is so scarily painfully fricking accurate what is my life
that moment when you ask your friend for healthy coping skills and the ask what coping skills are. " I see you are privileged, eh?"
People who can just naturally cope with stuff are wild. Like how? How do they do it? Who taught them to subconsciously live in peace huh?
@@breeze5926 why is this such a mood
when mentally stable people are like "I'm here for you" I'm like girl you don't know how to be here for me
like i don't even know how to be here for me!!!
@@macydiy9697 trueee
Yesss!!!! Finally someone who gets it
Ok but what about a fellow mentally unstable person saying they're here for you. Not here for themselves but here for you
(Literally me and my mom ngl)
How am I supposed to explain that a lot of my problems come from some form of mental illness, religous problems, semi narcissistic family members, and overall not being able to function in the way I want to-
When u dont even know what being neurodivergent means😭
WHEN I CANT EVEN TELL WHAT'S NORMAL OR NOT-
When large uppercase letters start to give me feelings of anxiety and fear😭😭
While I was watching this, the person who caused a lot of childhood trauma for me just showed up to my house and now I'm worried that I'll have to interact with her. Go team.
I'm so sorry. Keep being strong. At least try. Let's go trying team!!
I'm so sorry! Stay strong
Damn the one at 1:40 was way too damn relatable oooooooooof that’s an ouchie from me
saaaaame
Same
mm 👴👍
Its not rlly relatable bcuz I don't have good friends 🤷♀️
"Why are people Pro-Life...
It´s not even that good"
I felt that on a different level
i literally have that on a letter board in my apartment because i related so much
Me: I don’t really know my coping mechanism.
1 video later
Me: oh shit watching these is my coping mechanism-
it's not a bad coping mechanism :)
oh🦲
This has been my coping mechanism since COVID hit. And I think my slope is just now starting to steadily (SLOWLY) go up and stay there for a while. But I'm getting better and I'm gonna get counseling in the fall so... Yay.
Here we don't talk talk about our social trauma, we make jokes about it
Too true. We get momentary relief, but we end up hurting ourselves more. Yay
Yes very true
10:18 My emotions in a nutshell.
oh my god same🥴
Where is the lie? I haven’t done my freaking homework yeeeetttttttttttttrttttrrrrsndkxnzicnskxndjxbsjz
ExActly
does anyone else want to SCREAM but they can't cuz:
1) they live in a house with people who care
2) they live in a shitty household and don't wanna get screwed
3) some other option idk y'alls lives
for me, it's 1. my dad is a caring man and my brother SLIGHTLY cares.
Y E S!!! I want to scream while breaking things.
8:19 see my problem is my anxiety gets in the way of me contacting my therapist at all outside of sessions
Who here gets themselves look some what normal before you go to see your therapist? Like I literally change out of my sweats and hoodie I have been wearing for two days just to change back into them when I get back home so my therapist won't fucking up my med dose.
Literally me!! Some weeks, the only time I'm "put together" is the days I have therapy haha :) Although I had about 3 months this summer when I wasn't working, so my therapist got used to me wearing a hoodie and leggings (because I couldn't be bothered to put pants on lol), but I still always made sure I showered and put makeup on because I need her to think I have it together lmao
But I also do virtual therapy still, so it's a bit different when I'm in my apartment vs. going out in public :)
If I look stable for therapy then I tell myself my life issues are solved...
@@erinjones1700 LMAO same dude same but then you wonder if you made the whole thing up in your mind
When I went to therapy, I didn’t haha 😂
me who doesn't get therapy but can somehow relate to this-
that might be why you can relate to these 👀 haha jk jk all love here ♥️
Fr I'm scared to get therapy but I think I might really need it after relating to all these (I definitely know I need it but I'll act like I don't 😃)
tbh same but yeah just gotta pretend like everything's fine 😃
therapy sessions scare me so i stopped going to them :D
Yeah I can't afford therapy-
aparently i have therepy at 2 now ;-; so I can watch this uwu
oooh yes i love that for you
i found the tiktok at 4:44 when she smashed the plate with a ax hammer thing her " this is you and this is life'' i said '' no its not you gotta break it more until there is no hope of putting it bck together'' out loud.
I sat here completely stone-faced the entire time (they’re all funny I’m just checked out rn) except for when the pro life one played LMAO. It just hit the mark.
The 8 dislikes are from the therapists that got sent this
hahahaha
Consider this! Make a PowerPoint for your therapy session and use a different aesthetic each time!
i love that idea but i’m honestly too scared that my therapist would be over it after like the second one hahahaha
@@DariceFowler It's okay if they are. They aren't there to judge just to help you feel better. I doubt they would be over it though. They'd probably be really happy about the effort you put in!
I'm literally in this emotional support group chat where we have to find positive quotes and this is what I do
7:38 this is it. i'm subscribing.
glad to have you here
I. DEMAND. MOAR!
I love that I just tried to recall the last time that I was truly happy and couldn’t think of anything.
✨goalz✨
the girl from 10:18, I never cared when people say: you're not alone. But honestly, I do that every day too. And if I do get one thing done..it's never a lot of it. It's always..a...just f anything.
I live for these compilations XD
“Hahah How are you so funny”.
Me: I do dark humor and change it normal humor :)
i don't even have a therapist, but i feel i could relate to these a lot ( the ones where they actually talk about interacting with the therapist, not the ones about actually being depressed, because i relate to those A LOT! and the abuse from my mom etc etc)
that seems to be a common theme! :) I just titled it this because they are tiktoks that I would send to my therapist ahahah
3:23 I dont know what a rose quartz does, but if Steven universe (future included) taught me anything, it means you need therapy even more
More like IMMEDIATELY
0:53
dat kinda hurted me doh...🥺🥺🥺🥺
Me too 🥺🥺🥺
sending you love
Can someone more connected to reality tell me roughly what % of teens and young adults are mentally healthy? Because my perception of it swings wildly from "it must be super low because no one could be happy in the world rn" to "it must be supper high or more would be being done about it" and I have no idea what's actually going on in the world.
I don't know about teens, but approximately 20% of US adults experience mental illness. However, one thing to note is that right now we are all going through a collective trauma (the pandemic, social justice movements, etc.), which has limited our ability to cope. This does not mean we are all mentally ill, but it does mean that mental illnesses that are triggered by stress are more likely to present, and people may be experiencing depression and anxiety as a result of current events. That being said, depression and anxiety are symptoms that everyone experience to some degree at some point in their life -- and experiencing them doesn't necessarily mean they are mentally ill. Also, mental health treatment is lacking in the United States, so our reported numbers are lower than the actual numbers.
(this is just coming from what I learned while getting my psych degree, and my work in this field)
LMAO MAKING JOKES ABOUT TRAUMA IS THE FUNNIEST SHIT TO ME I RELATE SO MUCH LMAOAOOOOO
hahahah same
Funny little story, I was watching some video comp with my brother like 2 hours ago and someone said “haha, did you know that people who need therapy but refuse to get it use baking as a coping mechanism!?” yes, there was a sheet of fresh cookies they made earlier. Um anyway, guess who uses cooking as a coping mechanism-
I’m gonna go cry for an hour and then under estimate and convince myself that my mental illnesses aren’t that much of a problem to me. Then realize that I have a control issue of some sort where I try to pre plan everyday to the point it causes not only anxiety but also insomnia
3:23 im a witch and this resenatess with me
omg sameeeeee hahahhaha
@@DariceFowler hahahah
don't you hate it when search depression memes and the suicide helpline comes up. like leave me alone and let me kms in peace...
Some people wake up happy in the morning? That sounds fake, but okay.
Love the videos keep it going! Stay safe and make sure to drink some water
you too!
6:57 you would throw homestuck right in the middle of this shit and have me almost pissed myself out of pure fucking nostalgia?
Me: wow there’s nothing in my life to be sad about rn but I’m still staying up until 1:00 am crying. All the friends I’m leaving to move back to America after a good 10 years in Europe: am I a joke to you
Y'all be winter depression I get summer spring winter depression not stunning tho bc it's just chefs kiss it's like the world is to depressed so j don't have to be
The social work one didn't have to beat the shit out of me like that
I always come into these looking for a good time and I always get beat up like-
as a counselor, i agree wholeheartedly lmao
8:09 as one who cuts and self harms..this is hilarious especially how the person said"its a little bit funny"its not but it is
1:35 hit different
5:03 i do the same thing- minus the tumblr account ofc
maybe i'm just old hahahah
I think I’m one of those people who drives with no destination- coz ya boi do love his long drives and he just started learning how to drive and it’s dope af... 👀
i'm the same way haha
0:56 WTF THAT MADE LAUGH SO HARD IM SO SORRY FDNVHEWFBVHFVF
Me : Sometimes I wish I was full of chocolate instead of emotions.
I'm going to get some chocolate.
Also me : no you can't you'll be sick.
How am I supposed to do now?
1:44 why did she have to call me out like that? ;-;
I think you're a bad bish :)
@@DariceFowler thx :3, i do my best xD
At 3:55 I was laughing really hard because I relate to it so much then i was on the verge of tears but couldn't cry because my mom called me a crybaby all my life so i consciously cant cry anymore. Thanks mom.😑😑😑😶
I’m sorry but the second one is so true and also that sound is from a 1D interview hahaha
ngl i was at therapy today and she was like let’s have you’re mom in here for the first ten minutes, and then the second she comes in my therapist goes so how’s your anxiety this week. i was like uuuuuuugh not in front of my mommmmm 🤦🏻♀️
What I hate is that I have social anxiety, so if I go to meet up with anybody I’ll start to feel kind of unwell and really nervous, but whenever I tell my mum that she’s just like, ‘oh, it’s ok, there’s no reason for you to feel like that’ and it really annoys me because it makes me feel like my feelings aren’t valid and I should stop feeling that way, can anyone relate??
When your therapist tells you if you were her child she would take your bedroom door off ✨✨🕺👍🏻
Someone pls make me stop watching these at 2 am after having mental breakdowns
0:55 omg same bestie!! it was my mom but same difference yk haha
10:43 me realising I am alone and nobody comes to my house to see me at the point I think i am just lonley even though I have friends
When you get diagnosed with depression, but it never makes you feel sad because all your sense of emotion went away when you were 12: 💃🕺💃🕺
0:11 thats from a 1 Direction interview and its harry and niall :D
i’m not having a fucking breakdown because all that showed up when i searched up “how to die” was a sewer side prevention number.
2:13 mood
10:18 hit a little too close to home. too accurate sister
Me just chilling
My brain: hey remember hat time you tried to come out to you're mom and it became a really but fight and she told you that you wee steering you're family apart
I have never felt so seen
i just noticed...that i tell my friends ill fight someone for hurting them...but they never said it back to me...and im actually hurt by this realization.
not everyone has the same type of response, but that doesn't mean they don't care!
Don't have your own kids, just adopt the ones that already exist in this fucked up place, don't bring innocent new souls into this hellscape.
5:40 what is the music behind the talking sound?? Can I find it here?
I should probably know this, but what does “SH” mean?
Umm if u really want know, it means self harm-
@@neon6810 Oh, that makes sense. Thank you for telling me.
I literally just messaged my friend and did this and came back to watching this video only to get greeted by this 1:15
the video read your mind (also I do the same lmfao)
2:43 Holy fuck I haven't heard that song in, like, a decade
right?!
Anyone else literally on here for FREE therapy......
Like it just me or anybody else kinda nopped out on emotions and bottled them up but now u forgot how to get to them so they’re just there chillin under the surface till u breakdown no lol
I played uno with my therapist today:]
My favorite part is when my parents say "I'm going to kill you" and I say please do, forgetting that my mental illnesses are only funny online, and I get a whole can of whoopass for dinner.
7:48 sooo me😅
Haha same Omg 😂 אני ממש נהנת כאן בעולם הזה
5:02 wait is that actually not normal because- aaaaaghhhhjxhxhsnsmxkx
it's common for sure, but ... I wouldn't recommend
3:24 never related more
5:06 :0 MOOD
I was talking to a girl at school a few days ago and she said "are you okay??" like no tf. Are you? By the way this was a normal conversation for me 😂
literally is anyone okay
@@DariceFowler I don't know lol. Maybe?
I just realized that it took me 40 minutes to finish this almost 11 minute video. W...T...F...?
Go team 👍
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