the high school advice I wish I got

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  • the high school advice I wish I got. I just recently graduated high school and wanted to curate some of my top pieces of advice for you all :) love u guys xoxo
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    Aloha, it's Ava Jules & welcome to my UA-cam channel! I post beauty & lifestyle videos and vlog! I'm currently in my senior year of high school and I'm from Oahu, Hawaii. Subscribe if you want to become apart of our ohana! See you soon ;)
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  • @samakie3814
    @samakie3814 4 роки тому +6200

    Times:
    0:39- boys
    2:25- high school relationships
    3:03- high school
    5:42- girl drama
    7:42- teachers
    8:50- making friends and mean girls
    10:32- social outings and parties
    12:25- bonus round😆

  • @kieral.330
    @kieral.330 4 роки тому +1421

    I like how she genuinely talks about high school and doesn't pretend that she was super innocent. She gives real advice and not the "right" advice

  • @zamantuli9303
    @zamantuli9303 4 роки тому +2936

    "I have served my sentence" - I’m dead😹
    Ava is such a mood

    • @kggroom
      @kggroom 4 роки тому +3

      Zama Ntuli and it was so true😂😂

    • @7lawaneeena
      @7lawaneeena 4 роки тому

      Not the same thing

    • @mlv4h
      @mlv4h 4 роки тому +1

      i’m ur 2,100th like heheehhehe

  • @laurenholloway7426
    @laurenholloway7426 4 роки тому +2044

    “ high school is supposed to be stress free” that’s funny...

  • @lucyc6404
    @lucyc6404 4 роки тому +3829

    Alright big sis, can I steal your clothes now?

    • @duaa6477
      @duaa6477 4 роки тому +32

      i was the like to make it to 1k. appreciate me jk

    • @ifeomamokogwu5809
      @ifeomamokogwu5809 4 роки тому +8

      @@duaa6477 appreciation given

    • @Mai-wd6ge
      @Mai-wd6ge 3 роки тому +1

      @@JungkookBestBoy1 Army you have dirty mind😏Hope you see Dynamite!

    • @lavender5469
      @lavender5469 3 роки тому +4

      김지원 what the actual-

  • @dolanxmendesxgrande3302
    @dolanxmendesxgrande3302 4 роки тому +2401

    i wish you were actually my sister 😭♥️♥️🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @faryals4030
    @faryals4030 4 роки тому +5857

    okay but HOW did she not have a boyfriend until the end of senior year... SHES GORGEOUS

  • @elizabethanderson9679
    @elizabethanderson9679 4 роки тому +104

    “if a boy is making you cry every night he’s probably not right for you” THANK YOUUUU 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @soph4839
    @soph4839 4 роки тому +2892

    you’re so unproblematic i love you so much

    • @cathymarie6842
      @cathymarie6842 4 роки тому +5

      big faxxxx

    • @noa6713
      @noa6713 4 роки тому +48

      *cough* summer mckeen *cough*

    • @kggroom
      @kggroom 4 роки тому +4

      Period

    • @nai1729
      @nai1729 4 роки тому +7

      Clara Style 😐 the necessity of this comment was? hypocrite😂

    • @amandamuttonen275
      @amandamuttonen275 4 роки тому

      Clara Style wait whats up with summer?

  • @ouiouicroissant3213
    @ouiouicroissant3213 4 роки тому +337

    ‘you kinda grow together or you grow apart.’ 😮 wow

  • @orange5308
    @orange5308 4 роки тому +196

    I remember watching the “middle school survival” videos before going into 6th grade and middle school was great, now here we are doing it all over again with high school! 😐
    Edit: wow that was a year ago and I never ended up going lol I’m staying online

    • @joturnerproductions
      @joturnerproductions 3 роки тому +13

      Honestly same! I was so obsessed with “surviving” middle school. I had a great experience though, and I’m back here again freaking out AGAIN about high school

    • @miasmith7448
      @miasmith7448 2 роки тому

      Right

    • @SarahBaird-io2tn
      @SarahBaird-io2tn 2 роки тому

      same! i go into freshman year in two weeks and as a very anxious person i'm literally dying luckily all these videos are here to help me through it

    • @solyane9814
      @solyane9814 2 роки тому

      Lmao same but middle school was a nightmare for me, glad it's over

  • @janahofer9942
    @janahofer9942 4 роки тому +179

    i had a boyfriend almost all freshman year, we broke up this summer and i‘m actually SO happy bc i am not restricted and i can do what i want without having to justify myself ALL THE TIME

  • @MelDiyx
    @MelDiyx 4 роки тому +2269

    the fact i'm gonna be a senior but i still need advice skslskdk

    • @mommi8888
      @mommi8888 4 роки тому +36

      lol thats pretty normal, theres always room for advice

    • @tihanakozar9083
      @tihanakozar9083 4 роки тому +8

      This comment killed me 😂😂

    • @itzelleg
      @itzelleg 4 роки тому +11

      mariana c. if anything we need more advice

    • @MichaelaMartinm
      @MichaelaMartinm 4 роки тому +7

      Honestly just need the no drama aspect of this cuz I’m trying to have a stress free senior year.

    • @alyssacampbell8046
      @alyssacampbell8046 4 роки тому +2

      same lol

  • @lillyjames321
    @lillyjames321 4 роки тому +417

    Oh my gosh..when she said consider me your big sister I almost cried bc I don't have a sister and she would be a perfect sister

  • @quinnrogstad3406
    @quinnrogstad3406 4 роки тому +599

    because of quarantine, the next time i go to school is going to be in high school

    • @kierstinbruner9885
      @kierstinbruner9885 3 роки тому +45

      Same its so nerve wracking 😣👁👅👁

    • @aetosia6490
      @aetosia6490 3 роки тому +27

      Same, I hope school is actually able to start

    • @hannahisagoose
      @hannahisagoose 3 роки тому +10

      Hey bet same

    • @lillianglover06
      @lillianglover06 3 роки тому +10

      SAME- I’m soooooo nervous

    • @hannahstrobel3061
      @hannahstrobel3061 3 роки тому +11

      same, here in Michigan my school is giving us a choice of going in full time or doing 100% online so I’m going in since it’s my freshman year, I would much rather get to go in for at least a few weeks if things shut down again so I can learn my way around the school, get a feel for my classes since I’m doing a few honors classes and get to know people

  • @soqhiaa
    @soqhiaa 4 роки тому +1339

    the most important one: DON’T VAPE, SMOKE, DRINK, OR DO DRUGS🤢

    • @Cewdipie
      @Cewdipie 4 роки тому +64

      Too late 🥱

    • @LovetoPlay-bv7vo
      @LovetoPlay-bv7vo 4 роки тому +16

      Is it just me or is her profile pic tripping when I scroll?

    • @shaharunhaque6060
      @shaharunhaque6060 4 роки тому +71

      I'm in 8th grade and... GOt iT.
      That's the last thing if ever want to do ... I also have a nice skill of umm... Avoiding peer pressure. (Most of the time)
      There's a lot of people in my school that vape.

    • @mariakiwi1428
      @mariakiwi1428 4 роки тому +58

      sophia and if u drink,learn ur limit and respect it

    • @avapitcher3004
      @avapitcher3004 4 роки тому +2

      agreed

  • @saralawson5806
    @saralawson5806 4 роки тому +383

    have ur sis in more videos!!! she’s adorable

  • @megsterchick5
    @megsterchick5 4 роки тому +41

    I was depressed and suicidal throughout high school, I never even saw myself graduating high school.... I just graduated college with 2 degrees, and I’ve been depression free for a year. I promise it gets better guys. 💕 don’t be afraid to reach out and get help. Try everything you can to get better. ❤️

  • @cb5125
    @cb5125 4 роки тому +88

    Her smile is literally the most beautiful smile I have seen! It’s true

  • @mariabotelho7556
    @mariabotelho7556 4 роки тому +224

    "enjoy highschool!"
    corona : bet

    • @aetosia6490
      @aetosia6490 3 роки тому +8

      Im going into high school and if the school year doesn't start on time because of corona I'm gonna be so mad

    • @yatsaki4720
      @yatsaki4720 3 роки тому +2

      @@aetosia6490 fr bruh i already imagined what its gonna be like smh

    • @leccionesdevida.podcast
      @leccionesdevida.podcast 3 роки тому +1

      same lol

    • @user-dj2my3gu6j
      @user-dj2my3gu6j 3 роки тому +2

      I don't even wanna get started on that lol, corona just gotta go ruin everything literally when it hit I was on vacation and I haven't said anything to one of my friends in a while, and then like no trips on or nothing. Honestly, screw corona for ruining yet another one of school years, like it's already hell.

    • @madisonmoran8542
      @madisonmoran8542 3 роки тому +1

      my freshman years is about start in friggin december

  • @katarinaajic5474
    @katarinaajic5474 4 роки тому +1202

    You will probably be able to drive by then..
    Europe: *you wish*

    • @jemima6452
      @jemima6452 4 роки тому +11

      Katherine D. In Italy you can drive when your 14

    • @valentinaberlanda5074
      @valentinaberlanda5074 4 роки тому +31

      @@jemima6452 ehhhmmmm... Not really, I'm from Italy and I can tell you, you can get a driving license for a car only at 18, you can't drive before that age. However you can drive a motorcycle from 14. 🤗

    • @angelicapolicastro8396
      @angelicapolicastro8396 4 роки тому +15

      @@jemima6452 if u're lucky u can drive the last few months of "senior year"

    • @jemima6452
      @jemima6452 4 роки тому +1

      Valentina Berlanda ye that’s what I meant 😄

    • @valentinaberlanda5074
      @valentinaberlanda5074 4 роки тому +2

      @@katarinaajic5474 Me too, and it costs a lot to get your driving license here in Italy, so I just can't do it now. I have to wait until I get a bit more money😢🙄

  • @eliimarija.5438
    @eliimarija.5438 4 роки тому +464

    Ava: junior year is when you will probably going to drive.
    My country: o heaaall naaaww maan 18 yrs or nothing!

    • @mere1067
      @mere1067 4 роки тому +2

      Bushbaby XOXO SAME

    • @GraceThao
      @GraceThao 4 роки тому +2

      Bushbaby XOXO : I felt that, because same

    • @meikexx3739
      @meikexx3739 4 роки тому +3

      Same 💋💋 from the Netherlands

    • @squidneythesquid2487
      @squidneythesquid2487 4 роки тому +2

      I didn’t get my license until I was way well beyond 17. Lol I had my permit for 2 years

    • @awesomebrownie1707
      @awesomebrownie1707 4 роки тому

      Ours is 14 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mommi8888
    @mommi8888 4 роки тому +62

    omg the GENES??!!!!! yall are so beautiful and emit the best big sister vibes

  • @janie9352
    @janie9352 4 роки тому +621

    the first thing is boys
    me being gay: 😳

  • @emberodgen1796
    @emberodgen1796 4 роки тому +173

    “Severed my sentence.” Lol love you Ava 💕

    • @lydiakss
      @lydiakss 4 роки тому +2

      Served not severed
      No hate, just pointing it out 😁

  • @zamantuli9303
    @zamantuli9303 4 роки тому +318

    **drops everything is doing to watch Ava Jules
    Anyone else💆🏽‍♀️😹
    I love you Ava ❤️

  • @victoria-su9uj
    @victoria-su9uj 4 роки тому +36

    Everyone: you should always have self confidence
    Me: *dances in the middle of the classroom*

  • @MarisaVX
    @MarisaVX 4 роки тому +55

    i'm almost in highschool and imma be a single pringle :3

    • @leccionesdevida.podcast
      @leccionesdevida.podcast 3 роки тому +10

      chilllll its better not to have a relationship at 15 they dont lastttt focus on yourself and use this time to grow as a person and learn to love yourself 💖💖

  • @amiralezin8431
    @amiralezin8431 4 роки тому +69

    I love her background music!

  • @highkeyadulting
    @highkeyadulting 4 роки тому +74

    literally graduated this year haha but I'm def here still watching lmaooo!

  • @TheWhisperCooks
    @TheWhisperCooks 4 роки тому +533

    me: *casually just watching this video*
    youtube ads: WITH GRAMMERLY YOU CAN WRITE BETTER

    • @luv4sunoo917
      @luv4sunoo917 4 роки тому +4

      Haily sOcRaTe they know

    • @nerdalert580
      @nerdalert580 4 роки тому +17

      Grammarly** I think you might need it

    • @__GOD__000
      @__GOD__000 3 роки тому

      LOL, DOWNLOAD SHADOW RAID LEGENDS TODAY !!

    • @Rose-vx3vh
      @Rose-vx3vh 2 роки тому

      I got an ad with Olivia Rodrigo and her "beauty routine"

    • @0fi12
      @0fi12 2 роки тому

      @@__GOD__000 bro are you a sponsor or something!

  • @oliviapeck1384
    @oliviapeck1384 4 роки тому +230

    So happy for you that you’re out of prison- I mean SCHOOL :)💛✏️

  • @asilsalamii
    @asilsalamii 4 роки тому +184

    I go to an all girls catholic school soooo there’s no boy drama to deal with lol 😂💀
    Love you Ava❤️

  • @marinabanialtaweel6191
    @marinabanialtaweel6191 4 роки тому +6

    i swear people need to hear this

  • @sunitahoffmann3603
    @sunitahoffmann3603 4 роки тому +34

    omg i definitely needed this.. AVA’s ADVICE IS THE BEST ADVICE 🥰💖

  • @Rose-ft3ts
    @Rose-ft3ts 4 роки тому +10

    Omg she’s such a positive person wow I feel her positive energy

  • @Aurora-et8we
    @Aurora-et8we 4 роки тому +169

    high school advice: Bring Bread 🥖

  • @itzelleg
    @itzelleg 4 роки тому +60

    legend says if youre this early and dont skip the ads ava will heart your comment and maybe even reply

  • @lilycarreto4512
    @lilycarreto4512 4 роки тому

    Ava, ilysm and i'm so glad that your fliming this video bc i'm going to be a freshman this year and knowing all of this makes me feel a lot less nervous thanks you so much!

  • @cheyenneclausen8296
    @cheyenneclausen8296 4 роки тому +18

    I love these types of videos bc they're just so helpful and I love Ava

  • @danielleguerin5713
    @danielleguerin5713 4 роки тому +22

    whoever is friends with ava is so lucky 😉❤️💘

  • @emilybrooke
    @emilybrooke 4 роки тому +30

    arg i genuinely love watching all of your videos 🥺

  • @sallyhamson531
    @sallyhamson531 4 роки тому +1

    You have such a comforting personality and just gave me so many happy vibes when I was watching this :)

  • @madic6479
    @madic6479 4 роки тому

    i love Ava her energy is so good and happy! thank you so much for this! 💞💞

  • @BaileyDir
    @BaileyDir 4 роки тому +165

    who else doesn’t wanna go back to school?!?😅😂 bc SAME🤪🥰💕

    • @ria920
      @ria920 4 роки тому +1

      Bailey Dir I feel like we’re subscribed to the similar UA-camrs bc I’ve seen your comments on most of the youtubers that I watch

    • @NatalieMarte
      @NatalieMarte 4 роки тому

      Bailey Dir I start in 3 days 😭😭

  • @gabrielabrito7697
    @gabrielabrito7697 4 роки тому +61

    clicked as fast as i could , love you sm btw u looked rlly cute in this girly ♡🧚🏻‍♀️

  • @unimoon3862
    @unimoon3862 4 роки тому +2

    I cannot thank you enough for this video Ava ( and Kayla) because these advices are so so helpful 💗💓

  • @lunadelafonteyne4056
    @lunadelafonteyne4056 4 роки тому

    such good advice! thank you ava for being a big sister for the ppl who don’t have one💞

  • @Mia-ue1jx
    @Mia-ue1jx 4 роки тому +12

    Ava I just wanna say I love you😂 and thanks for posting this a day before I start school

  • @emilyreginaldo5564
    @emilyreginaldo5564 4 роки тому +19

    thank you so so much for this video,you’re my big sister that I wished I had 🥺❤️ love you lots ava❤️

  • @ahuvah2223
    @ahuvah2223 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you do much for the honesty, Ava. Like, you talking about real things that really happen, and not just glossing over anything. I could really use the big sis advice💕💕💕💕💕💕🌊🌊🌊

  • @abigailchalfont5912
    @abigailchalfont5912 4 роки тому

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO! love all that you do!! good luck in college :)))

  • @zayanam1451
    @zayanam1451 4 роки тому +11

    This advice is so great - thanks Ava ❤️💕

  • @siddhikanepal
    @siddhikanepal 4 роки тому +17

    i go back to school next week so i’m super glad you made this video

  • @juliar5498
    @juliar5498 4 роки тому +4

    Ur sister seems so natural on camera just like u! I love having her ❤️

  • @gabriellastein8675
    @gabriellastein8675 4 роки тому +9

    i seriously loved this video, thank you so much for making this, i’m going to be a freshman this year and this really helped me. also your sister seemed so so nice and it was great to hear her advice too, she seemed like she knew what she was talking about

  • @cathymarie6842
    @cathymarie6842 4 роки тому +32

    I LOVE YOU AVA 💞
    thanks for being the big sister we all need

  • @hirayousufxo1938
    @hirayousufxo1938 4 роки тому +14

    I remember watching your videos about highschool grwm and stuff and this year. Oh well love you

  • @lianapowley8174
    @lianapowley8174 4 роки тому +1

    I love how you are so nice and honest! Keep doing great videos :)

  • @zuzannazrk
    @zuzannazrk 4 роки тому

    you’re the best big sister i could ever imagine, so grateful to have you in my life❤️

  • @jillscreativeoutlet
    @jillscreativeoutlet 4 роки тому +9

    "Or Theatre!" wow I love your sister :)

  • @sydnee7678
    @sydnee7678 4 роки тому +13

    as someone who doesn’t have an older sister to help out with things, this video warmed my heart and was really helpful, thank you ava ❤️

  • @glove8292
    @glove8292 4 роки тому

    this video helped me out a lot- i’m going into highschool next year and i’m constantly stressing about it but you really answered all of my questions and fears about it. thank you so much 💗

  • @emaa7228
    @emaa7228 4 роки тому

    i start high school in 2 weeks (my first year) and im so happy that i watched this video. now i feel like im prepared. ily ava 💗

  • @stellac2209
    @stellac2209 4 роки тому +6

    i just started my freshman year and this helped so much! love u ava and thanks :))

  • @quinn6636
    @quinn6636 4 роки тому +4

    Ava ilyyy❤️ you are legit sooo gorgeous and an inspiration

  • @maryarmstrong355
    @maryarmstrong355 4 роки тому

    Honestly this video really hit me in a good way. It made me think about the way I act and just making sure that I am kind and that I and doing the right thing. Thanks Ava!!

  • @jaclynsworld7782
    @jaclynsworld7782 4 роки тому

    Ava your so kind thanks for sharing your smile with us🥺💓

  • @lexiewilson9977
    @lexiewilson9977 4 роки тому +5

    THANK YOU AVA 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 love you so much!!!

  • @faitht7956
    @faitht7956 4 роки тому +47

    who’s watching this because high school starts this fall for them? I know I am 😭

  • @laurenshipton4745
    @laurenshipton4745 4 роки тому +2

    I'm going into my senior year and this advice still helped me!! Love you:)

  • @zoek2902
    @zoek2902 4 роки тому +1

    ur amazing. been going through some rough times and ur so inspirational

  • @larastojanovski9731
    @larastojanovski9731 4 роки тому +28

    i just love how positive the comment section is 💞

  • @oliviar6834
    @oliviar6834 4 роки тому +5

    Love your videos Ava! Keep up the great work x:)

  • @Parisxdiamond
    @Parisxdiamond 2 роки тому +1

    omg this was a life saver! highschool is really stressfull in the wrong mindset. this really helped me understand how to deal with situations that may happen in the future or how to avoid drama ect. everyone remember to take 1 step at a time a 1000 mile walk starts with one step

  • @ameliapilarte9682
    @ameliapilarte9682 4 роки тому

    Your legit my inspiration I’m so glad to look up to you

  • @bellap1499
    @bellap1499 4 роки тому +11

    ava you’re so beautiful😭😭 i wish i went to high school with you!🥺

  • @cb5125
    @cb5125 4 роки тому +6

    I went to Hawaii this summer and was like I AM ON THE SAME ISLAND AS AVA!! I literally love her

  • @taylormorgan9224
    @taylormorgan9224 4 роки тому +2

    you and your sister are so beautiful ♥️
    also to everyone who sees this...don’t let anyone bring you down and just spread happiness! 💛

  • @desi1448
    @desi1448 4 роки тому

    oh my goodness i seriously needed this. it's my first day in high school and it was a little rough. but this gives me a little hope, aghhh this is why i love you so much!!

  • @ninawilhelmy8823
    @ninawilhelmy8823 4 роки тому +16

    Kayla is so well spoken and she really seems like the person who holds your hair when your vomiting

  • @katesheldon7656
    @katesheldon7656 4 роки тому +3

    You’re such a good person! I strive to be as kind as you!

  • @vanessap-g3123
    @vanessap-g3123 4 роки тому

    the vibe her and her sister give are honestly the best ever and i need them in my life.

  • @ariyannacouillard2028
    @ariyannacouillard2028 4 роки тому

    This was soooooo helpful. I don’t think you understand how much I love and appreciate you❤️❤️

  • @carlarodrigues2728
    @carlarodrigues2728 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much ava for the advice, I'm going back in September, and you've really motivated me to be myself. Also would be cool if you put on Instagram a thing were we would put our school problems and you made a video giving advice for each problem Xx

  • @oona60
    @oona60 4 роки тому +5

    i was just watching one of your videos and i got this notification of this beautiful video! 💗🍞

  • @yanness5183
    @yanness5183 4 роки тому

    girl. you are GLOWING!!

  • @katieburke7103
    @katieburke7103 4 роки тому

    So glad you talked genuinely about relationships. Thankyouuu 👏

  • @kenzcanuel1
    @kenzcanuel1 4 роки тому +19

    This was so helpful I wish I saw this before I graduated high school. This video is perfect for all incoming freshman

  • @e.chiltonbarrow7945
    @e.chiltonbarrow7945 4 роки тому +10

    thank you so much for the advice! You're so sweet

  • @rashmi.m.r
    @rashmi.m.r 4 роки тому +1

    ava is the best big sister to all of us... WE LOVE YOU and also wow thank you for this video i needed this.

  • @susmithajayanthi7919
    @susmithajayanthi7919 4 роки тому

    ok but why is she literally perfect. Love this video 💘

  • @mistakengenius27
    @mistakengenius27 4 роки тому +3

    This is all I wanted to hear, I can't wait to go back to school yay 😍😍

  • @graycieclemens1006
    @graycieclemens1006 4 роки тому +24

    WHEN YOU SAD GRAYCIE THAT LITERALLY SCARES ME SO BAD BECAUSE THATS MY NAME😭

  • @gabriellamorello9712
    @gabriellamorello9712 4 роки тому

    I love you so much and thank you for giving me advice/ positivity!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @trinitysmet7852
    @trinitysmet7852 4 роки тому

    I’m going into my senior year of high school and even to this day like all of this advice helped and it is so important, thank you Ava!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @elyset5072
    @elyset5072 4 роки тому +4

    hi, just going off of what ava said when it comes to college and ap classes! a lot of times private or top tier colleges tend to not accept college credit compared to ap credit bc community college classes can’t be standardized by colleges compared to ap testing, where the test is the same across the nation. at the end of the day, choose what’s best for u but know ur options, choices, and their effects in hs

  • @jzminn8249
    @jzminn8249 4 роки тому +90

    When i thought youtube was getting boring ...
    But then AVA UPLOADS😆🎊❤

  • @dylanpolinske3236
    @dylanpolinske3236 4 роки тому

    you are amazing and have such a beautiful personality 💞 my heart
    also about talking about drama to certain people about other people...talk to your mom..my mom always said "your mom will always be your best friend and she will never lie to you"

  • @alliee1925
    @alliee1925 4 роки тому

    first i love you so much and i loved these videos( and your sisterrr!!!!!) but you should make a video on how to not care or let other people opinions bother you and how to be confident because you seem so unproblematic and it’s so easy for me to let the things they say get to me so yay ! i would love your option on that!❤️❤️