@@azizsaleh8470 What's not okay is how your parents raised you they should've told you that it doesn't matter and you should always be there for people so I'm sorry that they didn't teach you about any of that 🥺
I hate when folks say "why they have to make the character gay"? Somebody, somewhere is going through this and needs to see this. There are more circumstances in the world that are going on and needing attention than just the ones in a single family's world.
@@ZubayrK thats because its not for you. Idk you, but this character is for little black girls who are apart of the lgbtq community, or the parents of said girls.
I kind of like that this hasn’t been a major part of the storyline in the newer episodes because it shows Randall and Beth really aren’t obsessing over it.
I love that after his conversation, Beth and Randall sit down to talk and you would assume that they were going to talk about how scared they are for Tess. But they just move on talk about other things and have a good laugh. So many parents will learn from this. A sexuality other than the most common one is not the end of the world people!
Beth’s reaction 💜 how she stands up, right in front of her to speak to her and show her she’s here, I was sobbing. And the coming out part was so realistic, down to the relief.
Speaking from experience, it's tough for the parent too. But I think Randall and Beth said it best....do you see anything other than two people who love you. That's always the bottom line. It was for me.
As a mother, I would've got up and embraced her as soon as she started crying. I have had these conversations with my children due to society today. I love them unconditionally! Their love is my love, and I love them. Beautiful scene and acting.
I want you to know that No Matter what you are Loved, Wanted and Cared about Always! I know its a cliché to say the right time will come. But there truly is a good time. I came out to my mom sister and dad! I know and believe in you too!!! ❤💛💚💙💜✊
I've watched this clip with the volume off, and I've listened to it with my head buried in a pillow, but I've never watched it outright because the circumstances hit way too close to home and it makes me incredibly uncomfortable. I hope the next generation, kids like Tess, won't have the same associations with coming out.
I watched this with my mom and sis today and it hit me hard... I was terrified for a moment that I would actually cry and they would notice something ))): tess is an amazing & precious kid and beth and randall are amazing parents. I doubt my parents will be that great if one day i bring myself to tell them and it just hurt too much )):
Beth and Randall are the parents I wish I had. I see their calm, peaceful, patient parenting and it’s a miracle to me that this is how some people grow up. y’all are very, very lucky.
I hope parents like my mom can learn for this. She didn't handle my coming out well because my entire family including me is Christian. I hope this helped her when she saw it.
Stop saying it’s because of the religion Christianity never says to be homophobic it’s says you don’t have to support it but you can love the people just as you would love your family ! Your parents are not homophobic cause they are Christian they probably homophobic cause that’s what they are taught by society and their parents ! It’s homophobic people in every religion but it’s not the religion itself ! God loves you and everybody! But your parents are just afraid that’s why it’s a (phobia) and if you parents still wanna be homophobic then say you’ll pray for them !
Having actually read the gospels, I literally don't see how you can be both homophobic and christian. They're basically mutually exclusive if you actually read anything about Jesus.
@@elizabethcimino6559 We are meant to love as Christ loved us. But make no mistake about it, the Bible is very clear about homosexuality. It is a sin. That doesn't make it any better or worse than any sin we all commit, but it is a sin regardless. Loving the person and loving their lifestyle choice is two different things.
this was so intense ( I dont even watch the show ), it did not feel like a scripted screen of a TV show but a HD home video of an actual family. That girl showed some real suffering
My daughter is also a lesbian she came out last year. I admire her strength. I'm so proud of her. I knew. I'm just so glad she told us. My baby is a proud lesbian and I'm a proud mother of a beautiful, brilliant, kind, come at me mother fuc$er lesbian daughter. That's just one part of her. She gets straight As and Bs. She's a fierce friend. She'll protect her family. She's wonderful. She is my world.
Kids this days are very lucky for being able to be themselves from very early on. Not saying its perfect, right now in a lot of places is not even remotely okay, but the good parts are still happening
This scene is really cute I really wish I had the guts to tell my parents in person but I told them that I was a lesbian through a letter that I sent in the mail in 2020 LOL I really like to see positive coming out scenes in shows and movies because I didn’t have that experience and it’s nice to know they were kind people out there that these kind of scenes are based on
it may hurt a little to watch this if your parents did not take your coming out this well but it's an important to recognize that what you experienced was not okay and any kid deserves unconditional love and support like that.
This was done nicely, however; please stop saying “we love you no matter what” like possibly being gay is some flaw to still love someone despite. Just make this no big deal. A non issue. You might like girls? Awesome. Just be you, kid. 😘
I honestly forget how much of a deal it is for kids to acknowledge and tell their parents they're gay. I can't wait until there's a time "coming out" becomes outdated. Nobody should have to feel the need to announce their sexuality unless being hit on by someone who doesn't float yah boat.
I honestly hope that there is an episode where, in order to help lift Tess’ spirits, her parents show her that there are celebrities in the same boat as her and there are songs that she can relate to. Some lgbt+ children can sometimes feel down and out and even more so in a world that’s cruel.
Prolly a while after when it finishes, I'd be hoepful and guess spring summer but it wouldnt surprise me if it didnt come out until season 4 hits the air
‘ look at me , look at your father do you see us do you see anything other than two people who love you’ that got me
Hush.
I was trying (and failing) not to cry, it just hit different
Someone give that little girl an award 😭
I'm sayin I balled my eyes out 🥺
They won SAG twice as best cast so that speaks volume. This is an ensemble piece, all them good
the relief in her entire demeanour when she told her parents, brilliant. tears
this is one of the best coming out scenes i’ve ever seen wow i’m crying,,
And that's how parents should react when kids come out to them.
My parents just said okay and that was that
Kids should never come out you people are soft encouraging something that is not ok
@@azizsaleh8470 you need to cure yourselves.
@@azizsaleh8470 Has nothing to do with being ok or not ok. You have an issue, your parents should be the first one to talk to...at least SOMEONE.
@@azizsaleh8470 What's not okay is how your parents raised you they should've told you that it doesn't matter and you should always be there for people so I'm sorry that they didn't teach you about any of that 🥺
This kid has a bright acting career ahead of her. What a scene!
I hate when folks say "why they have to make the character gay"? Somebody, somewhere is going through this and needs to see this. There are more circumstances in the world that are going on and needing attention than just the ones in a single family's world.
Andre Suston exactly!
THIS
I honestly dont care
@@ZubayrK You have no face and a made up name, who gives a damn?
@@ZubayrK thats because its not for you. Idk you, but this character is for little black girls who are apart of the lgbtq community, or the parents of said girls.
The fact that the dad was ready to go on a rant about her not getting a boyfriend
I kind of like that this hasn’t been a major part of the storyline in the newer episodes because it shows Randall and Beth really aren’t obsessing over it.
I love that after his conversation, Beth and Randall sit down to talk and you would assume that they were going to talk about how scared they are for Tess. But they just move on talk about other things and have a good laugh. So many parents will learn from this. A sexuality other than the most common one is not the end of the world people!
@onyourleftbooob studies ey? From whom?
Who's Beth and Randall?
@@Lou-db2fc the man and woman in this. Not the child
Beth’s reaction 💜 how she stands up, right in front of her to speak to her and show her she’s here, I was sobbing. And the coming out part was so realistic, down to the relief.
she is such a great young actress. The young actors on this show are incredible.
when the mother says "we love you no matter what" that got me
This is what parents are supposed to do. We should all have Randall and Beth as ours.
Makes me ugly cry every time - they’re all such amazing actors! 😭
Speaking from experience, it's tough for the parent too. But I think Randall and Beth said it best....do you see anything other than two people who love you. That's always the bottom line. It was for me.
Yes u can see bet crying
I agree. We see tears in Beth's eyes & I took that as an internal struggle.
GIVE HER AN OSCAR NOW!😭💔
Well they can't sis - it's television... Instead, they could give her an Emmy though. Ha!
OR A PRIMETIME EMMY AWARD.
As a mother, I would've got up and embraced her as soon as she started crying. I have had these conversations with my children due to society today. I love them unconditionally! Their love is my love, and I love them. Beautiful scene and acting.
so relatable. i felt her fear through the screen. i started crying
That girl is an excellent actress
One of the best coming out screen's I have seen in a long while
I love their relationship, other than Rebecca and jack you can see that they really love each other and knw how to work things out.
This is us always gets me with the music 😭💕
Yeah they're an incredible soundtrack this is why the show is a real masterpiece
awee her parents were so supportive 🥺.
Yeeeeeeeeees finally 😭😭😭😭 i have been waiting for this video tess acting was surprisingly amazing here gosh she has a future
I’m actually sitting in my room freaking balling this show gets me every time
I'm not out to my parents and I can only dream that my parents would ever react to my coming out like this...
I want you to know that No Matter what you are Loved, Wanted and Cared about Always! I know its a cliché to say the right time will come. But there truly is a good time. I came out to my mom sister and dad! I know and believe in you too!!! ❤💛💚💙💜✊
Seeing some of these comments made me see how important it is to have scenes like these... love is love💋
I've watched this clip with the volume off, and I've listened to it with my head buried in a pillow, but I've never watched it outright because the circumstances hit way too close to home and it makes me incredibly uncomfortable. I hope the next generation, kids like Tess, won't have the same associations with coming out.
This is my favorite scene of the entire series so far. I hope they'll eventually explore this storyline further.
And they did in season 4
I’m actually crying, this is beautiful 😭
I love this Scene... thats how parents should handle their childrens coming out.... tears
I watched this with my mom and sis today and it hit me hard... I was terrified for a moment that I would actually cry and they would notice something ))): tess is an amazing & precious kid and beth and randall are amazing parents. I doubt my parents will be that great if one day i bring myself to tell them and it just hurt too much )):
Hey just say I hope you the best and I'm sure your parents will understand you, there's absolutely nothing wrong about it. Have a nice day 💕
I am so sorry that you need to keep this to yourself. Everyone deserves to be their TRUE self. I hope you find someone you trust to discuss this with.
How all coming out moments should go. 😭😭😭Yes, I am ugly crying.
Beth and Randall are the parents I wish I had. I see their calm, peaceful, patient parenting and it’s a miracle to me that this is how some people grow up. y’all are very, very lucky.
That scene was awesome. And that little girl, is a great actress!!!
Like baby girl your grandpa was bi, LGBT run in the family get in here so I can hug youuuuuu
Bri C lmfaoooo stahp it
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I hope parents like my mom can learn for this. She didn't handle my coming out well because my entire family including me is Christian. I hope this helped her when she saw it.
I'm not out but my family is mostly straight and Christian (I'm probably the one exception)
Stop saying it’s because of the religion Christianity never says to be homophobic it’s says you don’t have to support it but you can love the people just as you would love your family ! Your parents are not homophobic cause they are Christian they probably homophobic cause that’s what they are taught by society and their parents ! It’s homophobic people in every religion but it’s not the religion itself ! God loves you and everybody! But your parents are just afraid that’s why it’s a (phobia) and if you parents still wanna be homophobic then say you’ll pray for them !
I am very sorry. I always believed "Christian" meant LOVING everyone as Christ loved us. A person's sexuality is no one's business.
Having actually read the gospels, I literally don't see how you can be both homophobic and christian. They're basically mutually exclusive if you actually read anything about Jesus.
@@elizabethcimino6559 We are meant to love as Christ loved us. But make no mistake about it, the Bible is very clear about homosexuality. It is a sin. That doesn't make it any better or worse than any sin we all commit, but it is a sin regardless. Loving the person and loving their lifestyle choice is two different things.
UGHHHHHHHHH WHY DID THIS SPOILER COME UP IN MY RECOMMENDED 😭😭😭😭😭😭
right that made me so mad
SAME
Same 😭 I've just finished season 2 😢
this was so intense ( I dont even watch the show ), it did not feel like a scripted screen of a TV show but a HD home video of an actual family. That girl showed some real suffering
I wish all kids/adults have it this easy to come out..I hope all kids and adults are ready to accept this as just another normal thing.. 💕
Yeah, but the things is that it is not normal
yes, because it’s perfectly normal!💕
My mom would of been like "get tf out my house"😭💯
I would be too.
This always makes me cry because this is not how my parents reacted
Her acting is on pointtt
She's got her hair done up very fancy considering it's bedtime
DYING🤣
I'm not crying, you're crying 😭😭😭
I actually have goosebumps. Wow.
My daughter is also a lesbian she came out last year. I admire her strength. I'm so proud of her. I knew. I'm just so glad she told us. My baby is a proud lesbian and I'm a proud mother of a beautiful, brilliant, kind, come at me mother fuc$er lesbian daughter. That's just one part of her. She gets straight As and Bs. She's a fierce friend. She'll protect her family. She's wonderful. She is my world.
Love that for you guys
This clip never gets old!
They're just like my parents. So cool.
Parenthood Goals ❤️
This seen will help so many parents deal with this subject matter
Best scene this season! Made me cry!
This was a perfect response, these parents dont seem real!! 😯
Kids this days are very lucky for being able to be themselves from very early on. Not saying its perfect, right now in a lot of places is not even remotely okay, but the good parts are still happening
Stop make me cry like this I'm at work
Definitely they are really good parents. Someday I will deal with my kids like Beth.
👁👃🏾👁
👄
This girl is an amazing actor to be able to cry on the spot like that
Imagine your parents loving you ✌️😚
This show man .... The feels
This is so beautiful. I relate to this so much
This scene is really cute
I really wish I had the guts to tell my parents in person but I told them that I was a lesbian through a letter that I sent in the mail in 2020 LOL
I really like to see positive coming out scenes in shows and movies because I didn’t have that experience and it’s nice to know they were kind people out there that these kind of scenes are based on
it may hurt a little to watch this if your parents did not take your coming out this well but it's an important to recognize that what you experienced was not okay and any kid deserves unconditional love and support like that.
Brilliantly portrayed.
My parents and sister saw this clip on a commercial and changed it and I was like “bro why!”
This was done nicely, however; please stop saying “we love you no matter what” like possibly being gay is some flaw to still love someone despite. Just make this no big deal. A non issue. You might like girls? Awesome. Just be you, kid. 😘
It is a flaw though since it's not the norm. I think it makes sense that the parents might think in that manner.
relaxdrawlive you’re entitled to your opinion. You’re wrong. Being gay is not a flaw.
IM SAYING
relaxdrawlive being gay isn’t a flaw, it’s not dirty.
@@carolinestonehouse831 woah woah you've got me wrong. I'm saying that's how the parents would think.
My ultimate fav scene I just love their response
I honestly forget how much of a deal it is for kids to acknowledge and tell their parents they're gay. I can't wait until there's a time "coming out" becomes outdated. Nobody should have to feel the need to announce their sexuality unless being hit on by someone who doesn't float yah boat.
Now playing: No Matter What - Calum Scott 🎶
I wish so bad that my parents were this supportive...
SHIT. IM SO BEHIND AND IM CRYING SO MUCH
i’m not crying you are.
It hurts knowing my parents won't ever except me.
Which season n episode did tess first start questioning please?
Man, this could never happen in a Caribbean household. She'd have to carry that secret to the grave! Lol 😅😂😂
Damn the Stealth Onion Cutter back at it again
Okay. I'm yet to start watching this season. This scene is amazing.
I honestly hope that there is an episode where, in order to help lift Tess’ spirits, her parents show her that there are celebrities in the same boat as her and there are songs that she can relate to. Some lgbt+ children can sometimes feel down and out and even more so in a world that’s cruel.
When I came out at 14 my dad handled it like a boss..my mama not so much lol
I watch this scene everyday
I wish this could have been my reaction when my son came out.
I dont know why Randall’s present day family reminds me of blackish, and I am not saying that cause both families are black
Can you not put spoilers in the title? 😠
When watching the episode you see that Randal accepts it but Beth seems to be rejecting the idea
Damn you for disliking this
Lord have mercy. This is why I am not ready to watch this show.
I just know I'm going to be bawling through the whole thing.
Powerful.
Thanks for that effing spoiler!!!
Laura Knox when people complain about something that already aired. 🙃🙂🙃🙂
@@sheenachante calm down chante not all of us are privileged with cable 😉
Laura Knox isn’t your fault since u didn’t scroll past and u watched the video
@@shaynasearria1172 👏👏👏👏 I didn't watch the video at all! since all TV guide wants to do is make spoilers through their titles...🤣🤣🤣
sheena chante' it hasn’t aired in every country
when will season 3 b on netflix?
Prolly a while after when it finishes, I'd be hoepful and guess spring summer but it wouldnt surprise me if it didnt come out until season 4 hits the air
Just get Hulu they have all seasons and air the episodes the next day
@@ah-re9kn looked into it but I'm Canadian so there goes that option lol
All I can say is I love this
Loved this.
Ive not came out to my parents yet either i have a girlfriend but they dont know all my friends have came out but me
I AM crying.
Wait! Is this new season on Netflix now?!? :D
Kianna Martinez-Cayer It's on Hulu. Netflix sadly doesn't have This Is Us
ESTE VIDEO SIEMPRE ME HACE LLORAR, me toca mucho, LO AMO 😭😭🫶🫶
The parents I deserve
that girl needs a Emmy, she made me cry 😢.
Is this the full clip
I love this 😭😭😭🖤🖤🖤
I swear i knew it since season 1