EPISODE 59 | CHANGING A MAN, TIPSY FALLS & TELLING IT ALL
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i guess we all just been sad asf these past few days 😭😂🤧
Literally
Something with the moon… js… yall seen that moon last 2 nights? 👀👀
Same I was crying and seeing Chy cry made me cry more 😢
Chy, don't be too hard on yourself. He knows you love him, and he knows who you are. Honestly you never know, that could be a wake up call he needs to do better for himself, for his children and grandchildren! ❤❤❤God bless you and your family. ❤
Facts
Having to face the fact that our parents our getting old and they’re not going to live forever is the hardest thing I’ve had to accept. Medical scares at their age, bring up so many emotions. Can relate so much to chy on this
Yes!!😢
Yep, same
This has had my anxiety at an all time high for the past year more than ever😭 I don’t even want my mom to get a scratch. Glad I’m not alone
I’m over here bouta start crying with Chy and here comes Winter with the comedic relief 🥹🫶🏽
Winter came in clutch for all of us with her wild ass comment “you were being a b??” Hahaha staahppp
winter looking like a stud in this weeks episode 😭
But she looks so good 😂😂😂 fucking winter right
😭😭😭😭
Winter - You are free! Your freedom means more than anything in life. Don't overthink things and let your life flow. Being single is great! Love yourself more than a man can love you because you will deal with less BS.
Exactly! 🫶🏼
I love this!! ❤
!!!!!
Love this❤
We were in a retrograde for almost the entire month .. everyone I know has been hella emotional, including myself 😩
Literally the whole month I did not believe it. Lol. That I enjoyed this … had to keep my attitude in line tho for sure
Omg I’ve been feeling the same say like so freakin sad
Really? I feel like this is the least emotional time I have ever been in , in my life. And I'm on my period 😂 I was just thinking wow this has been a pretty good period cuz I'm not crying😂😂😂😂
I came here to say this lol the retrograde is beating our asses 😅
Why do you guys believe in everything but God? Retrograde is bs. Astrology is bs. You are sad because you are empty. The only thing that can fill that is The Holy Spirit. Jesus isn't a religion he's a person. Peace and blessings my sisters. One day you all shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free! "Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6
I love how real and authentic this podcast is. You guys do a great job of showing how hard life can be and how you navigate it.
Not winter looking like chy’s stud 😭🤣🤣💕 love yall
"I went on his pictures to see if ppl were saying RIP" 😭🤣💀
I JUST SCREAMED
I cried with you Chy 🥺💕 don’t beat yourself up, thank you guys for opening up with us because we all can connect to these situations
No literally I always cry when I feel like I’m being mean to my parents that’s never my intention 🥲🥲🥲🥲 I cried with her too 😫
Little Latino man is funny asfkk 😂😭😭
As a Latina I know she meant Mexican 😭 them Cali cholos
Cause I see what she saying too 😂😂😂😂😂
@@elenam3798 LMAO fr
thank you for your transparency. I know i'm not the only one in the world that is struggling but to see you ladies being vulnerable just made me feel less alone. thank you. The world is in a really critical state right now, sending love to everyone.
Well said🙏 I’m going thru it too.. sending you 🫂
I don’t want to push religion on you Winter but I’ve felt like that before and genuinely having a relationship with God changes everything, you’ll never feel alone again. You’ll feel the warmth and peace in your heart I promise you. Have trust in God❤️
Winter, you arent alone in your journey looking for your tribe. I too am in my early 30’s, no kids, havent found the one, with litterally only 5 immediate family members. I also have a small circle of friends.
You will experience having your own family.
Keep putting your self in places where you will find a like minded man. Also, dont be afraid to change if u need to to get there. You dont have to stick to one persona. We are forever evolving. Remember that ❤
“Please don’t hug me & rock with it.” 🤣💀😂 CAUSE FACTS. Lmaooooo.
Other podcasts really need to take note, y’all transparency is one of the main reasons you have such a loyal following ❤ I can relate to both of y’all in so many different ways
“Gang affiliated today” LMFAOOO
The way they go from sad n crying then cracking a lil joke is so me lollll
Chy: "I'm definitely not the type to wanna slit my wrists"
Winter: "I am'
Iconic
When Chy was talking about her dad saying he be smoking, drinking & cracking jokes. All I heard was CRACK & I almost had a heart attack. 😂😂😂😂😂 I was like that’s too lit. But, that’s how I feel with my dad & cigarettes. I be wanting to fuss. But, it’s like I don’t want to offend him. But, he’s had heart surgery & everything & just can’t stop. So, I get so mad sometimes. So, I totally understand how you feel. I hope he does get better.
😂😂😂
I'm completely w you on that
Chy, I had a very similar situation with my own dad a while back & let me just say this: your dad (and parents in general) understand better than anybody having to reprimand someone out of love. They’ve had to do it to you & their own kids your whole life. They know it’s coming from a place of love just like it did from them when you were growing up & they were wishing you understood that everything they do/say is coming from a loving place. It’s just getting older, tables turn & we have to start parenting them 😂 I’m glad you clarified to him how you felt after the fact, I’m sure he more than understands ❤
Absolutely lovedddd the mental health talk❤️❤️it's so refreshing to here that people are still going through loneliness no matter how much money or fans you have
Ugh thank you for this episode guys. Seriously bad bitches get sad too and I’ve been feeling the same way 😢
Chy never fails to mention Beyoncé 😂
Chy had me crying with her 🥹❤️
I just want to hug winter and let her know how special and BRAVE she is!!!!!!
I guess we be sad all together 😭😭 I was crying all day the day before and yesterday. I feel like a lonely soul. I needed to hear this. I love y’all ❤
Winter just get your man back (ex) I feel like she’s truly missing him and feels bad about the breakup even though it was mutual
i soooo understand what chy was saying about her dad🥺 you just love him and it came out in anger and that’s okay.. your heart was coming from a good place 🫶🏽
usually a silent watcher but i resonated with this episode so much , im going through one of the toughest times of my life right now and to know that me Chy and Winter are all goin through it rn makes me feel not so lonely even a little bit lol 💗
not me bawling with chy as she’s like “i’m just sad” it’s that mf aquarius moon.
Chile yesss that Aquarius moon hit DIFFERENT 😩 we be going thru so much internally fr fr !
Not it's not. It's because you are empty. You dont have to remain empty tho. You can be filled with The Holy Spirit.
I’ve watched every podcast sometimes reruns but let me say this one was on point like I found myself relating so many times 💯
Yes an hour !!! I always check how long the pod is before I watch it. Lmao Love you guys ❤️❤️
Truly this is the only podcast I watch and will continue as long as y’all keep posting! I relate to everything you guys said, happy you guys still keep is real all these episodes later🥹😭❤️❤️
29:16 that story kept getting more and more hilarious lmao 😂
i feel you so hard winter on not having friends, family, a community etc. i’m in the same exact boat genuinely not feeling like i have something or people to enjoy
Also Winter, that man did you a favor! He wasn’t the one and sometimes we overlook red flags because we’re flexible and want things to work but based on your story he wasn’t a good fit anyway lol. Getting ghosted the first time is traumatic though lmao I was like damn I need to stop doing this to people 😭
I’m here for the hour episode… Im going thru a rough time right now. Low key hit rock bottom. I’m thankful for my support system but I am so mad at myself and going thru the motions. Things were going well..☹️ So thankful for this podcast! I subscribed to the Patreon and it’s worth it. “This too shall pass” 🙏🏼
Do not feel pressure because you see others getting things you want. Your time will come ladies ❤
It’s been 4 years since my dad passed this October. Chy.. you are totally justified in feeling how you did in that situation. You were expressing your concern and that’s ok!! Bottom line.. he knows your heart and loves you just the same❤ love yall!!
It's been 2 yrs for my Dad going home and I completely understand :( My Dad left at 60 too young. Enjoy your parents if you still have them ppl ❤
Awe this was great! Winterr be sure to have kids with the right person. Having a kid with the wrong person could change your life in the worst way. ❤
Girl we all been going through it! Chy thank you for being vulnerable I think this is the first time we see you cry and I think its well needed because although we like that your funny and bubbly this podcast focuses on relatability a lot and we all relate about going through it rn and being emotional. God got us though and we gon get through it!!
This is why I fuck with y’all. Thank you for sharing bc God is definitely putting us all through a test. Stay strong ladies this will pass. God bless
Amen😭🙏 this episode and last weeks was really needed
YES ANOTHER HOUR EPISODE 🍾
As a 30 year old with a parent in their 70 Chy I totally understand! We just know that they won’t be here forever and we just get our feelings ❤❤❤
Chy you got my ass boohoo crying right now but I’m the same way with my mom I’m so over protective. But it’s funny how life works as we get older we literally become the parents to our parents😅💖 love yall✨✨✨
I’m crying w you Chy, literally I said something mean to my mom, few weeks later she was diagnosed w stage 4 cancer, within 30 days she passed so trust me, I understand your guilt to the fullest 💔
I'm so sorry for your loss, sending you so much love 🥺💕
Chy! 1 Peter 5:7 says, "Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you".
Proverbs 3:5-6 explains: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”
It’s okay to cry and release those emotions! Just remember God got you! 🙏🏽🤍
I needed to see this🙏🏼🫀
Amen 😞🤍
when chy started crying , it triggered tf outta me because my mom passed away 3 years ago and i was so fustrated about how she lived her life and tbh it still hurts 😢
Aww Chy 🥹 I really felt this.. My dad is 70 too & I feel soo fortunate that he takes care of his health. I just came from visiting him too & felt so emotional leaving cause I feel like I need to be there more for him.. We have to show our parents tough love sometimes too, but he knows it’s from a place of love ❤
An hour?!? HELL YEAHHH 🥳💗
I'm so sorry chy :( I lost my dad in June to alcoholic cirrhosis of the liver, it happened so quick and I hold so much guilt. Just spend whatever time you can with them while you can❤
I was like who’s that man next to chy??!! Love you winter 😂😂❤❤
Crying with chy & crying laughing while winter makes jokes abt about dying 😂😂
Chy, go back to church baby!!!! You know the Lord is waiting for you ❤ Depression is nothing against the Holy Spirit ❤️🩹
& God will reward Chy for her faith ♥️
You are lost because you don't have God. Jesus isnt a religion, he came to set us free from addiction, anxiety and depression. He sent us his Holy Spirit so you dont have to be lonely. Read the book of John. THE MOST HIGH wants a relationship with each and every one of us. You wont what you are looking for in this world. No amount of money, sex, relationships, fame, status, or success will fill the void. Wake up you are asleep!
First of all Chy don’t ever make me cry like that again at work 😂❤ But Winter I think I love you so much and have been following since bad girls club because you are so relatable to me , I am also mixed with black and white and my mom raised me as an only child , I too grew up a bit of a rebel, my mom smokes cigarettes, I don’t have a big family like we don’t get together never was close with grandma or aunts and uncles , and I never knew my dad or his side of the family . Just know you are not alone boo , and following you makes me realize I found my ppl 🫶🏽💕
“Ohhhh i was on a benderrr hehehehe” WINTER🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You guys are literally two peas in a pod. I love yall and we’re best friends in my head 😁
I can't wait to meet yall chy and winter god gonna bring us together soon to meet amen amen 🙏
I started crying at 10:40 at the same time as Chy, I know exactly what she means, I be mean to my mom and she just got knee surgery and I want her with me and she just turned 50 and she’s young but she will get older so sometimes I feel guilty to chy don’t worry
when chy said it’s been an aquarius full moon i said “ohhhhh that’s why i been going tf through itttt” 😭😭 it’s insane how i’ve been feeling the past few weeks.. love yall always💗
Top tier episode all the way around ❤
oooo yall i needed this for sure, how are we all going through the same shit? But as Chy said this too shall pass! God is preparing us for something so amazing
I love this episode so much!!❤️ i’ve been going through so much myself and Felt so alone, you guys just gave me so much comfort 🙏🏾🥹 love you both such beautiful souls 🥰
Why we all depressed rn 😭
Winter it’s sounding like you need to come to Christ ❤️ God will fill the gap in your heart Jesus Christ can give you peace that that no one else can give you. Praying for you babe!
😂😂I was literally thinkin that, go to church as much as you be going to the gym lol
6:25 Chy definitely said nepotism 😂😂😂😂 LMAO I thought I was hearing things!
The realist episode, not me crying with you guys 💕 I love the transparency
I love you girl I’m alone but y’all have made me feel like I have sisters. Y’all have taught me so much I’m so proud of you both. Chy I cried with you I needed this because it will be okay even if it’s not that such a girl thing to say but BIG FAITH. Winter I’m so thankful for your strength shows through your character. Don’t stay being you ladies. Just Thank You FR
I HAVE BEEN SOOOO SAD I just read something about retrograde so let’s hope it gets better now 😢😅😅
Chy you made me cry!! Thank you for being vulnerable!!❤❤
Winter I agree with the pressure. 33 no kids, no relationship. Most of my friends have families and busy. I’m just going back to school so I can have a financially secure future 😅
Aww I love this episode. You guys really opened up and showed us your vulnerable sides. I could definitely relate with feeling empty and unhappy inside. I think it’s important for us as people to realize what our true life’s purposes are. Like what motivates you to wake up in the morning and/or what do you want to contribute to the world? How do you want to be remembered? Once you have an answer to these questions, I believe that it will help fill that void inside of you. Just know that we are all here for a reason. Don’t just waste your life away. What helped me the most was knowing that I wanted to help people and getting to know God and his purpose for me.
The way I cried watching this whole podcast than smiled. I felt you and Chy so deeply, especially Chy. It’s good to know other are going through these motions.
I feel you were speaking from a place of fear.. often anger masks a feeling of something else. Underneath it all you were worried and love him and don’t want anything bad to happen to him. Is there a time and a place for things.. sure. But you’re human and that’s your daddy. From someone who lost their dad young.. I would’ve acted the same way. The fact you’re getting emotional proves it’s from a genuine place of concern and you just want him to alter his lifestyle to stick around as long as he can. Aaaaand to add.. I’d be frustrated too if a previous injury reoccurred that could’ve been prevented! So let it all out and when you feel ready give him a call so you can truly reach him and you’ll both feel better in the end. Sending much love to you. 🤍
Wishing I could jump through the screen and give Chy a hug!
Chy made me cry 😭 i lost my Dad about a year ago and he was only 50. don’t beat yourself up Chy. just love on him while he’s still here ❤
not the NY fashion week look i’m crying😂
Bro 😂😂😂
Chy I see you!!! My dads 71 and he doesn’t drink or smoke but he doesn’t exercise or eat super healthy and I always have to tell him to do better and that I want him to live long 😭😭 nobody talks about life with older parents
Really like how Chy talks thru her feelings. Dope podder. Both of them! ❤
Chy you said out loud what I’ve been feeling about being sad and when is it gonna be better 😭😭 the new beginnings gonna make you appreciate the tears that had to come with it
Ryan had me tearing up last episode and Chy got me started on this one 😫😭
This episode hits so different 🥺💕
Waking up in the morning thinking about so many things I just wish things would get better 😭😭 no but fr life has definitely been lifing lately, keep pushing through ladies things will get better 🫶🏼
Winter is funny af LOOOOOOOOL
Chy hearing you talk about your dad resonates with me fr I love my dad so much and I hate when I worry about him I could not lose him
Winter, I know that pressure your feeling and I too had those same thoughts until I met an amazing man when I least expected it, got married and had my first daughter at 35. You have time. Enjoy your single life bc even though I love my family you can’t help but miss those get up and go free moments. It will happen for you because you have too much to offer for it not to. Be patient and enjoy the present. ❤❤❤
please never stop posting I literally look forward to Wednesday 😩❤️
Loved this episode so much thank y’all for being so open and vulnerable ❤
Chy! You’re peeling infront of us like an onion! 😢🤍 I hate to see you cry, but thank you for coming to us so raw. I’ve been in that EXACT situation w my dad except he slammed his head into the oven glass. I felt guilty for chastising him, but it seems the older they get the more WE become parents to them. Winter we also love your comedic relief on hard times. Great job to you both for coming and grinding on your tough days. You showed up for us and yourself. Sending yall my blessings. 🙏🏾🤍
Chy, the fact that you feel guilty speaks volumes .. hugs ❤️
You guys were literally talking to ME when y’all said we can’t change a man . Oof you guys said everything I been thinking . love y’all thanks for reassuring me and I don’t feel as crazy anymore
Me watching this after bawling my eyes out yesterday from feeling the same way 😩 it will all turn around for us 🤞🏽
YAY finally hour long episode 🥰
Chy don’t beat yourself up about it. He probably needed to hear that and the fact that you feel so deeply about it shows that you care about your father. Falls can be fatal at that age!
Thank ya'll so much for being so vulnerable!! It's so helpful to see
Ive been in the BEST mood these past weeks. Literally been feeling upbeat, composed and positive. Then I ran out of ashwagandha two days ago and been sooo sad, so emotional, so depressed. It made me think are we truly happy as a society or is our happiness dependent on our vices (coffee, weed, alcohol, validation, a person, etc) 🤔 Because the people I see always smiling and happy and upbeat are addicted to something. Not to say the addiction has to be bad. It could be an addiction to working out but there’s something a happy person is usually dependent on that results in their happiness
love this episode🥺 so raw and real (not saying the other episodes arent) just seeing another side of you ladies and how you guys handle the hardships and things someone more “famous” goes through. 🫶🏽 you guys!