Opening Up About Our Biggest Marriage Differences, Fights & Arguments
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Sav is very pushy, bossy and selfish. Not just in this video. You always come off as condescending to Josh. Like the aunty comment. Each person / culture pronounces it different. Your way is not always right. You always make comments like this.
I love Josh & Sav and have been following them since before they were married but really feel Sav comes across extremely spoilt at times and takes Josh for granted.
The whole thing about taking out the trash. Fine if Josh normally does it but to challenge him because you were already doing it is terrible.
The other day when she reacted to her new phone and said herself that she sounded ungrateful. I dare say we only see bits and not all the pieces but it’s not a good look Sav.
Yeah definitely seeing a different side of her.. 😢 Praying for their marriage and relationship with the Lord 🙏🏻🤍
I've seen this side of her throughout. Josh gives and gives and gives and all she does is tear apart, whine, and complain. He'll go out of his way to get her whatever she wants and when he brings it back, she rips it apart. That wears a person down. He will eventually get to the point where he won't do anything anymore. What's the point, she won't appreciate it anyway.
One time he asked her to stop and get him something to eat and she absolutely refused. Came back home and said she didn't feel like it and so she didn't.
Did she literally say I need to use you as my punching bag and he gets the brunt because he’s the only one she can take it out on? Even if it’s a joke, it’s not funny. It’s just not funny. She refuses to see that she’s OOODDDDDD
Sav is doing too muchhhhh like she was fr stepping LIKE CHILL😀 she was making it seem like SHE CANT TAKE OUT THE TRASH when he’s sleeping in after watching the baby at night like girlllllll😂
Glad i'm not the only one that sees it.
She doesn't want to do the trash and she's making it very clear . Don't start reaching .
@@kennaderek0910 and when your husband says, “I know I don’t need it demanded.” That usually means he knows. To pretend this entire video isn’t her being savage is crazy. I get you all love her and I’m not hating on her. I’m simply saying this episode shows the lack of balance and how much Josh has to roll with the punches vs a couple that mutually agrees.
@@cmfocusproductions2147 right😭
@@cmfocusproductions2147 yeah😂
I love yaaaaaa but this made me look a bit diff.. Sav you like to be right and a bit controlling boo. And You don’t like to be wrong.. YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY TO EVERYTHING.. Nothing is your fault it’s all his fault.. Like girl relax it’s ok not to be perfect.. You low key are very entitled boo..
This isn’t going to change her friend, that’s who she is, we aren’t so perfect ourselves you know ❤️
@@Annabelly_ Absolutely hun none of us are. But if your husband is telling it “i don’t like” or “I know what i need to do please don’t tell me what you THINK i need to do” You as a wife shouldn’t be responding with “That sounds like a personal problem” GOD FORBID a husband responded to his wife like that. Ya would be chewing him up
What has the podcast turned into? Josh getting owned by Sav? Sav is ruthless and It really didn't slow down. 0% of this video seemed like she was trying to have an actual equal playing field. Even the mutual rules didn't sound like a mutual thing at all. It sounds more like her demands that Josh has to go with them even if the demands were really a mutual decision. The way the diaper pale was discussed was a little wild. Josh tried to get that on track but she was pretty stern on her verbiage. "Josh's" water, she was rapid to say it's hers because it's her Stanley cup.... let the man call it his water. Every question started with "we're married" but it didnt show a lot of unity. Then at some point she realized these questions make her sound bad and it felt like she needed to show him in a bad light so she was quick to say she had something written down about him. Josh forgetting to go to get coffee while following the GPS, damn. Honestly a caffeine break might calm this conversation? "No its my turn". Was this podcast intentionally keeping Sav at this energy?
At least she admits how you is when she realizes. don't do that though she is a wonderful person, no one's perfect and josh loves her for exactly who she is . Josh is not a victim nor would I think he would want to be seen that way or you coming for his wife like that . Be respectful it's a privilege you even get this information.
I don't understand the first thing you said. Said nothing about him being a victim so I'm not sure where that part came from @@kennaderek0910. Also, didn't say people are perfect... your response really doesn't fit what I said well at all.
Actually... everything you wrote was a riddle @@kennaderek0910
Pure spicy from Sav.
@@kennaderek0910It’s a privilege we get to get this information? Girl bye. She stated her opinion (mine as well) Love the channel but Sav was straight SAVage to Josh this episode. He was trying to express himself while saving her feelings and she still was being rude not caring. We got to see them differently this episode.. You don’t like what someone said Oo well 🤷🏻♀️ or in Savannahs words “Sounds like a personal problem”
Recently sav has been a bit much to watch when he’s talking toward josh🥴🙃
So did she really just tell this grown man that he shouldn’t drink water out of a water bottle. 😮🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Savannah 😢
I think Josh wants to be treated like an adult. Therefore, he takes out the trash out of respect for the relationship, and not as a control mechanism..
Correct!
He has respect and love..Sav needs to work on some traits like his. She is immature.
With all due respect, this video is a clear indication that maybe you two should consider ongoing marital counseling. There’s so many red flags 🚩 from this conversation
I've seen this side of her throughout. Josh gives and gives and gives and all she does is tear apart, whine, and complain. He'll go out of his way to get her whatever she wants and when he brings it back, she rips it apart. That wears a person down. He will eventually get to the point where he won't do anything anymore. What's the point, she won't appreciate it anyway.
One time he asked her to stop and get him something to eat and she absolutely refused. Came back home and said she didn't feel like it and so she didn't.
@@MmmMmmGood50 yes unfortunately i remember that
Sav seems to be a very demanding and controlling wife, I get the feeling that everything must be her way. That is so crazy in a marriage, Josh looks like the more chill one and not so aggressive as Sav. I will be praying for you guys.
Agreed. Let’s pray for their marriage and for their marriage to be built on Christ 🙏🏻❤️
This isn’t uncommon. It’s something they can work through
Totally agree , it’s been coming off in many other videos as well
I searched what the light phone was and it’s GENIUS! Especially when you have young kids that they’re at the age you would want and need to contact them but aren’t old enough for social media and all the other things a regular phone entails.
It’s toothpaste girl.. You really complained about your husband this whole podcast.. If ppls biggest problems were their husband didn’t put the toothpaste back in the drawer a lot more relationships would last 🤦🏻♀️
I hope you’re married and are saying this..
@@Annabelly_ YES I AM 💍 6 yrs going on 7 in May with 3 kids to be exact.. now that that’s out the way Marriage is a sacrifice babygirl. When my husband lacks in something i pick up and likewise. Sometimes i take the garbage out sometimes he washes clothes. We’ve done both working and me being a sthm everyone’s situation is different.. All i’m saying is he asked her NOT to tell him what it is he’s “suppose” to do and her response was “that sounds like a personal problem” but your asking me if i’m married 😂 That’s neither me or my husbands response when we’re telling eachother how we feel about something 💅
@@lisamarieresto895 congratulations on your marriage of 6+ years 🥇🥇🥇🎉🎉🎉🌸🌸🌸☀️☀️☀️ to many many more happy years!
Josh you sound like you want to get along and do the right thing. Sav you accuse and criticize your husband like its all about you! I can hardly watch…probably because i can identify….but you have to win.
Yes, Josh. The vibes were weird throughout most of this podcast and these are my reasons why:
"I would literally steal money from out of my mom's purse. (Hahaha)"
"What I basically did was just went throughout my day and thought about the things that you do WRONG. (Hahaha)."
"That (diaper pail) is one thing that I'm NOT taking out!"
"I learned how to change the new diaper pail, but YOU still should do it."
"Yeah, you're the Trash Guy! (Hahaha)"
"No, I still get to tell you that it's you're job (to take out the trash)" .... (even though I just heard you tell me that you don't like it when I tell you that."
"Well, that sounds like a personal problem! (then proceeds to mock the Bible ) "Cuz as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord. (Hahaha)."
"I'm saying, that's YOUR job! MY job - is the laundry! Period. T. (raises voice, snares, and points fingers for emphasis)."
"You don't have to like it." (dismissive tone)
"You're not strong enough to feel the heat that I like." (In other words, I'm strong than you.)
(Laughs when she hears husband say that the the hot water hurts him a lot, after previously hearing him say that he only joins the hot shower because she asked him to, yet refuses to turn the water down to compromise.)
(Barks orders at husband to kill a spider, demands to know if it is dead, never says thank you, and proceeds to tell a story about how he didn't properly kill a spider from the past. Then says, "Aww. "WE" should have put him outside, knowing full well she wasn't going to do a single thing to get rid of the spider except order Josh around.)
"No, you're not (going to have a few of my pretzel bites). I want ALL of mine. Just get what you want."
"Sorry, babe. That is true, but it's because you're the only person I can take it out on." (Straight face.)
"Sometimes I just need to use you like as my punching bag. Yeah, I can work on that. I think."
"Where's the ones where you're taking a jab at yourself?" (because I don't want to be the only one who looks bad)
(You're a grown ass man, but I lowkey expect you to tell me what you're purchasing before you purchase it so that I can approve of it first, or at least be aware of it, even though I don't tell you all the things that I buy before I buy them.)
"If I'm going to be late because I have to stop and get a coffee, then it's fine." (even though we're already 20 minutes late)
"I need more than one person to tell me something" before I'll take heed, since hearing it from my husband first is not enough.
"Sometimes, honestly, your points usually aren't valid. (Hahaha)."
Sav can benefit from some careful self-reflection, marriage counseling, and therapy. Praying for your marriage.
Yeah this episode had a lot of toxic vibes coming from Sav today. She does not listen to Josh truly and earnestly. Your husband is telling you he doesn’t like something but you dismiss everything he’s saying but when he does that to you you are arguing and defending yourself. Some self reflection needs to happen so Sav checks herself.
Yeahhhh he needs to put her in her place
I agree with some people, I love them both. But sometimes it’s unnecessary. That’s why I stopped at minute 25 lol
We can stop listening, we don’t always need to criticize. I don’t agree with half of the things she says most of the time or the way she talks to him. But that’s for them to navigate, it’s all love.
I feel like I just listened to something I shouldn't have lol
You shouldn’t expect your spouse to do anything. Marriage isn’t “you do this , you do that, this is your job” …Marriage is a union, a team, a compromise, an agreement, it’s love, it’s unselfish, it’s understanding. Don’t make your partner feel like you should always be right and that’s the last word. In God’s eyes it’s very wrong if u really deep it. #WWJD
This is what I said someone responded with "I hope your married saying that" Like whattt 🫤
@@lisamarieresto895 ridiculous honestly
Tbh yeah, I also hope you are married saying this lol. What you said is EVERYTHING that marriage SHOULD be. But ppl who are married understand that marriage isnt the picture perfect paragraph that you gave us. Simply because we are all continually taking steps forward and backward. It would be a lie to say that id never be selfish in marriage, it be a lie for anyone to say that. We all have our moments and nobody is perfect.
All in all I agree that marriage should be what you said, the reality though is that most times its not and thats okay. As long as your marriage works for you and your partner.
of course everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but this is just mine, if you feel differently that it okay! but josh mentioned that people are gonna say there are weird vibes in this video and I think that's for a reason, I haven't really ever found weird vibes from your videos at all, I love watching you guys and your family and I get excited when you guys post, but this is the first video that I do notice some things and it does come off as sav being very controlling and josh being wrong all the time even when he tries his best, but I can also say I could be wrong, I do only see what's posted on the internet so I don't know what goes on in day to day life, this is just my observation from this video.
You are not wrong. If you watch enough of their videos, shorts, and podcasts, you'll see her rude and controlling ways and his quick-to-turn-the-other cheek qualities. Josh can afford to be more firm with her and assert himself as a man and human being. Their more recent videos clearly show a stark decline in her character and likability.
Sav seems immature at times. I hope she gets a hold on it because those cute little girls will learn this trait. Come on girl.
This was different today. Made savannah sound so controlling. Josh seems so calm and she seems like she wants to argue and always have it her way.
I've seen this side of her throughout. Josh gives and gives and gives and all she does is tear apart, whine, and complain. He'll go out of his way to get her whatever she wants and when he brings it back, she rips it apart. That wears a person down. He will eventually get to the point where he won't do anything anymore. What's the point, she won't appreciate it anyway.
One time he asked her to stop and get him something to eat and she absolutely refused. Came back home and said she didn't feel like it and so she didn't.
Why do you keep commenting the same shit? ^ once is enough
Never ever got that from them .. people pick apart anything then project the things they’re going through onto the perception
So many people have made the comment already but this video isn’t sitting well with me. These are common issues in every marriage but it’s the lack of accountability/ disrespect or ungratefulness that’s coming off on Savannah’s part. I don’t view Sav in that way but I know people are looking sideways now. I wouldn’t have really even caught on to it if Josh didn’t say multiple times that he didn’t like the way she was talking to him. Of course we only see what they show so we can’t assume that Savannah is controlling or any of the other negative words used to describe her. I don’t believe this was meant to come off in the way that it did.
I love you guys wholeheartedly and love watching your videos. No disrespect here 🫶🏻
Yeah I had to keep pausing before going back to it bc it made me feel a type of way. Obviously we don't know the full story but it seems weird that it was heavily focused on what Josh does "wrong" and at times felt like Sav didn't even listen to him saying he felt a type of way. It felt like we were eavesdropping on a convo I'd have with my husband in private 😅 I'm like lemme just back out of the room real quick 😂
Marriage is a sacrifice and a partnership! Someone sounds very “entitled”! Certain things my husband does happen to take the responsibility for doing in our home but I will also jump in and do it if I see it needs to be done or if he is not feeling well! I’m happy they are being honest enough to share and be vulnerable but sometimes we need a little self reflection to keep us humbled as well!
Love this comment.. Def agree with you
Amen. Praying for their marriage. And their relationship with Jesus🙏🏻❤️
Agreed! Entitled, spoiled, bratty, bossy and immature!
Very much agreed.
I loveee the fact that you had this vibe for the podcast today. Every married couple can relate to these types of small, day-to-day disagreements. Sometimes they lead to bigger silly arguments and sometimes it’s just something that you talk about and move past. I think you could both probably watch this episode back and learn something about yourself and your spouse to be even better at communicating. It’s so refreshing & relatable!!
Sav is bossy!
In a marriage I believe that the real way is that ITS NOBODY’S JOB to do anything ie taking out the trash, changing the diaper pill, doing the dishes etc …You are married you live together as a family so you TAKE IT IN TURNS. Chores shouldn’t be a MANS or WOMENS job and saying that it is is just rude and selfish. #compromise
No, taking out trash is a guys job period😭
@@Liddy.x sorry but you are just ignorant then.
I agree! I just took out the bag from the diaper pail & the bathroom while my husband was watching our baby and I'm grateful we can both do whatever in the house!
@@Liddy.xno…so wrong! I pull the trash many times and even drive in to the dumpster ….or have our son who has his permit take it which is literally right down the street….especially if my hubby is at work…what in the world makes it “the man’s job”
People are behaving like this dynamic is uncommon in relationship. These “issues” can be worked through
Well in order for someone to work on something they have to first acknowledge it’s something that needs to be worked on
I thought I might have wanted to try dating ⚪️women until I watched this. OMG, this is beyond annoying!
I never comment but I have to say, I love you guys but Sav you can come off dismissive and disrespectful towards josh. Doesn’t mean you are, I often sense a little bit of negative aggressive undertone in how you address him. Can I be wrong? Absolutely. It’s just a simple observation.
Agreed! But, if she comes off that way, then she IS that way. She can, oftentimes, be very rude, dismissive, mean, harsh, bully-like, and more. Let's keep it a buck. She oftentimes treats him like crap and laughs about it afterwards. Sometimes he laughs too. Her behavior is not okay. Their oldest daughter has observed her behavior, can sense energy like most kids, and seems partial to Josh in every clip when both parents are in the room, even though we only see snippets of their lives. Kids know when something is off. I am sure both love her very much though.
@@LoveFirstYou thank you for your insight. I just made an observation and can’t say for sure she is like that, however if this is the behaviour you have been noticing you have the right to hold your truth as is. I do believe they do love each other despite it all. I just hope Josh knows his worth as well. Much love to you :) - Briana
@jolie-brianawilliams1428 you are not wrong , she undermines Josh ALOT!!!!! The disrespect is real and she talks to him like a child, it comes off as she’s trying to change him and she’s always correcting him and his verbiage
I've seen this side of her throughout. Josh gives and gives and gives and all she does is tear apart, whine, and complain. He'll go out of his way to get her whatever she wants and when he brings it back, she rips it apart. That wears a person down. He will eventually get to the point where he won't do anything anymore. What's the point, she won't appreciate it anyway.
One time he asked her to stop and get him something to eat and she absolutely refused. Came back home and said she didn't feel like it and so she didn't.
@@GentleGiant4christ thank you for sharing your thoughts on this, I also felt that in some of their videos. I’m sure Sav has never heard anyone tell her how dismissive she can come off. If what people are saying is true, I hope Josh knows his worth as well. Regardless I can only wish for their love to overcome it all.
I’m 15 minutes in and dying at how relatable y’all are! I love you guys being so unfiltered and willing to show your little petty, imperfect conversations. Thanks for being so authentic! ❤
I don’t know… I love you guys. ❤️❤️❤️But “trends” like this are just petty. This isn’t therapy…. This is just unnecessary argument waiting to happen. 🤷🏻♀️
Sometimes it’s just best to pick and choose your battles. Knowing you can both contribute and be respectful at the same time.
That’s just how the vibe feels.
Love you both though 🙏
“Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.” -Proverbs 21:19 ❤
Are you saying that sav is nagging?? Like we as women should not be telling men what to do around the house. Women would not be “nagging” if men knew what to do when it comes to household chores
@@daniixxgisselle A mature wife will communicate her needs n a way that is not nagging. Plain and simple.
Nagging is 100% necessary because men are hard headed and don’t know what they’re doing lol you tell them nicely to do something and they ignore you. That then resorts to us women having to nag and get stern because we shouldn’t have to do the work by ourselves. My husband and I are 1 year in and we fought so much throughout our first year because he wouldn’t listen to my requests and I had to get to the point of nagging. Now we’re at the point where we rarely argue about cleaning anymore because he finally got the point and was tired of me nagging 🤷🏾♀️
@@terranaden Sounds like you chose to marry a messy man who didn't respect you or care enough about you to listen to you. Further, it sounds like it took you a year AFTER MARRIAGE to gain his respect and to TEACH A GROWN MAN how and why he should care to keep a tidy house and care about your feelings. That's a personal problem. Nagging isn't healthy or appropriate while dating or married. When you have a spouse who respects you and your union, you will never have to resort to nagging. Sad that it had to be this way for you two. Glad you're finding progress.
@@LoveFirstYou then raise men to know how to run a household instead of being grown ass children. You cannot have communication with a child
"So who's going to order things for me?......checkmate"
That silence was the biggest dub 😂😂😂😂😂
its pregnancy for sure with our feet getting a lil bigger
Also, the money thing is kind of scary.. I think it’s telling about boundaries between parent /child relationships and lack of respect. Not to make it about race, but I wonder if it’s a cultural thing? Cause my mind isnt registering how that’s okay LOL
Absolutely agree!
Which culture? Not all white peoples are the same,the same with black peoples. We whites in Europe are not the same…different parts of Europe
,different cultures,customs etc. I’m from the Balkan,our parents,especially mothers are very strict,sometimes too much so we can’t do many things we want just like that. That’s among whites in the USA.
@@iss2500 you’re right.
Josh seems to be very chill and Sav is more vocal. If the dynamic works it works. Love your channel
It’s not just a man’s job to take the trash out god.. your fully capable of taking it out lol 🤦♀️
So relatable and confirmation that men and women brains are different and will always be lol😅. Reminder that I gotta make sure I'm not trying to force my husband to think like me lol. We are Different for a reason and communication is key.
A size 6.5 in shoes lol I feel like mine are clown feet now. 😂😂 That's so small.
Sav is a lil spicy today! lol
🌶🌶🌶
I can definitely relate to the toothpaste and garbage situation. It gets sooo frustrating!
She is 😄
I'm 40 min in and I love this episode!😍 My boyfriend is always leaving toothpaste with the lid of on the counter as well😂 You guys are so relatable! ❤
She’s something else very bossy
Men are generally just simpler minded individuals. Women are wired differently. And it shows in this podcast. Once one can identify and understand that about the other and accept it for what it is, then life and relationships improve significantly.
Sav...you need to see a gastroenterologist. I found out I have digestive issues. I will pray for you that you don't keep experiencing problems❤❤❤
I love this podcast, but this episode was too wild. I usually listen to y’all when I’m cleaning or getting work done. It’s like I’m having a conversation with some friends and helps me think about topics I wouldn’t come up with myself. After listening to this episode, it was just stressful lol. I don’t love the concept of hearing a couple somewhat “bicker” back and forth. It left no room in the conversation for me to add my own thoughts. This episode was for you guys and not for the listeners. I only say this so that if you do read this, maybe avoid posting content like. Yes it’s real couple content so it shows y’all are raw, but honestly as a listener it’s not entertaining while getting work done. I’ve seen this trend before and it’s funny, but y’all attempted it wrong by low key fighting the entire time. I’m going to continue to watch y’all’s stuff but maybe avoid content like this episode.
Well I found it very helpful and I hope they do more .
Sorry you didn’t like!! Thank you for rocking with our other content though 🤎
As a married woman it’s refreshing to see couples “struggle” with silly arguments and use amazing communication skills to work through them before they become bigger issues. It’s very relatable to me.
@@kaitlynbyrd13 I totally see your perspective. Now that I have read more comments, it makes sense for them to post relatable content that is silly. Most of what I was saying is a me problem that I can fix lol. I’m learning what is serious and what isn’t so thanks for your response! I’m realizing it really wasn’t that big of a deal and I don’t know why I thought I should comment. I’ll be more mindful before I actually share an opinion 😂🤦♀️
I would like to apologize for commenting harshly and unnecessarily. I sound so immature reading this back. My bad Josh and Sav 🫶🏼💕. Y’all are great liven your lives!
I think the trash take out topic is one of the most relatable situations in almost all marriages
This was the marriage counseling episode. I really love y’all’s channel and this pod cast but the passive aggressive comments from both y’all was crazy. At least y’all can talk things through in an adult type of way for the most part.
Sav doesn’t sound controlling. She is just saying out loud the thoughts she has inside…more people should try it. Josh & Sav have a solid strong relarelationship that will from time to time be like THIS. I believe they have what it takes to get through life, just like the best of us. They are HUMAN. Littles humans in my phone, but still human 😂 love y’all ❤
“Baby smoosh it!!!” **after Josh kills it** “Awh we shoulda put it outside” 😂😂 okay but literally me😂
What Sav does not understand is no GROWN MAN wants to be told what to do by their woman. Of course, can you suggestion things to him in a gentle matter, YES. But demanding and saying it’s his job to do x,y and z is not beneficial to their marriage.
Sav, half the time Josh orders something, it's either for you or something included for you.
I appreciate you guys honesty and admitting your wrongs
‘Your terminology isn’t coming off sweet’ bahaha my favorite podcast ever!
i think this is so relatable for every marriage. everyone has the things they just don’t do and expect their spouse to do it. even if that thing is unspoken.
I was not expecting to read these comments lol I was about to come on here and say SAV IS SO ME! 😂 with my boyfriend. I dont see how people can take this personally when they don’t really know you guys. Obviously Josh knows his wife, how she talks, her mannerism, when she’s joking, when she’s serious..I think he’s fine lol
Love this podcast 😊❤ wishing you many blessings
12:22 stopppppp 😂😂😂 I canttt Sav is nottt comprehending. I can’t help but to comment so much this episode is so good already
I think Sav has OCD or perfectionism. I see a lot of negatice comments about how she acts. I think its unrealistic to expect her to be so perfect. I relate a lot to Sav. My husband is super chill like Josh. If we were public, I think people would say the same about us.
It’s WILD that Sav took money for her moms wallet 😳 obvs it wasn’t malicious but a wallet is a personal item. That is the ultimate “kids don’t give a damn and you lose all privacy” when you have kids 😂
3:53 i literally said something about loving Josh’s hoody as soon as the video started. The color makes your skin pop ! Okkkk you firee
"____ is crazy" and " ____ is wild" is so funny hahahha😆
Our feet grows a 1/2 size with each pregnancy.
Probaly some of those drinks with the abundance of sugar.
Haha I feel like you guys use this podcast as a therapy session 😂❤
I love y’all’s transparency, a lot of those are so relatable. It’s nice to hear these types of conservations between a married couple. Thank you for another great podcast! Btw the arm crossing from the last episode still has me cracking up. 😂😅
Sounds like she likes to argue…..
She likes to be understood 😊 be nice
@@kennaderek0910 No, be real. She likes to argue, be right all the time, be dismissive, be rude, and be mean towards her husband. Many of us are not okay with that and are clearly calling it out in hopes that her attitude and behavior towards him will improve. She can attempt to be understood without behaving poorly towards him.
Savannah I loveee youu soo much but I really want to fix you hair. The style is cute and you def can rock it but maybe you could add more hair from the front, sides, in the ponytail ❤😘
Just got done listening to last episode and realized another one was posted today is a great day! I could listen to y'all all day! ❤
Women love HOT showers and baths! It's just a must for us! We often do apologize that men can't take the heat though. Red marks and all get that Water HOT!
Eww I don’t like her after this 👎
Oh boy..your discussing about the who taking out the trash. I'm not taking out the diapers?
I am so new to the pod. Usually I don’t comment but I got married at 18. I think some people will find that crazy but it’s in my culture. Born and raised in the Middle East moved here when i was 15. But I see a lot of my relationship in you guys. Love your videos. I live now in Michigan. I think you guys are so cute. May God take care of you and your children.
11:30 why do you refuse to take out the diaper pale? I’m confused.
This honestly made me giggle! Y’all are so much like my husband and I and I love it!! Thank you guys so much for showing your true self to us!😊
This is just another instance of a time sav was like this, I can’t wait for the day Josh lets her have it & puts her in her place. Just going to unsub at this point, you guys used to be so fun but she absolutely ruins it and just wants to let everyone know including him that she controls him. Ick
Love these guys but this pod did not do well for sav. 😅😬😭
Yo!!! When she said for me and my house, Why did I say the same scripture lol? Lol!!!!!!!!!!!
It’s crazy the negative comments people have on this video ?? Of course no one is perfect and we could all continue to evolve and work on ourselves but this is a regular healthy at that marriage ?? Like yes there’s things she reacts in a way I personally wouldn’t with my man or she always puts blame on him and says things are his fault which is kinda sad :/ but like I said we can all evolve . I see the love they have for each other a lot of relationships don’t have that
I found this episode helpful as a married woman because you guys were your true authentic selves and you didn’t pretend like your marriage was sunshine and rainbows, because marriage has ups and downs. So I appreciate the authenticity. However, Sav did seem to be alittle disrespectful or dismissive to Josh, but it seems like Josh is genuinely a chill guy who brushes things off. If that’s works for them, then that’s fine. Opposites attract in my opinion. But Sav just has things to work on, just like I’m sure Josh does. We all have things we need to work on. All in all, you guys are one of my favorite podcasts!! Love you guys❤️ God bless
I agree with you Josh about the job thing and sound bad
Did you ever find your wedding ring, Josh?😂
I literally said Josh is staring at my girl hard in this podcast… 😍😂
He’s thinking like “She’s wild……. That’s crazy” 😂😂
@@lisamarieresto895 😂😂😂 facts!
I thought it was a “mute” point as well!
I need to know what Sav’s ringtone is!
Every fab Savanah made we’re at Josh!! Agree with Josh!! This was hilarious
She asked “why is everything making me look…..” Then proceeds to take a jab at him again.. Love them but def not one of my fav episodes.. Made me look at her a lil diff
@@lisamarieresto895 Not me; It only confirmed what has been clear to me for awhile now. I sincerely think she needs therapy, including anger management. I pray that Josh continues to be patient and feel loved. Josh was raised with Christ in his heart, and it shows. She wasn't raised with any form of religion or spirituality, and it shows. I will certainly be praying for them.
Sav if it bothers you that he isn’t “noticing” the trash overflowing then speak up and simply say “baby can u please pull the trash and take it out and I’ll put a new bag in?” And then it’s all good and you won’t hold resentment becuz YOU ended up pulling it. My hubby and I don’t have “jobs” around the house …we both work so if he gets home before I do then he sees trash full he pulls it or dishes to be done he does them or vice versa it’s literally a 50/50 relationship UNLESS one of us aren’t feeling well then the other picks up the slack. I feel like that’s the way it should be.
But I think it’s great that you two can talk and joke about things and still move past it ❤
I totally agree when it comes to that shopping comment, sometimes the spouse who typically does the ordering and the shopping they tend to think about the home and the kids and themselves and completely forget about their partner.
Y'all use to go at y'all momma huh... is so hilarious to me lmaaoooo
😂😂😂😂
My phone had the exact same issue… 1 month below the 1 year Apple warranty… they provided me a new one.
It’s a common issue.. probably not a you issue…
Josh really loves Sav you can see in the way he looks at her, I learned a lot from your podcast, such a lovely couple
Some of y’all need to chill lol, they just living life and y’all picking apart every little thing 😂 they’re just people having fun making us content!
I’m mad I’ve suggested the double shower head shower to my man as well because showering together is actual misery! 😂
Love y'all podcast so much!! On my top #3 list of pods.
I know it's the holidays and we all looking crazy at each y'all gone and lift 🛗 them saintified hand's my my my this is the 8th quarter 🌜🌛 don't do that stop telling folks to shut up and throw in the towel y'all give him some praise amen 🙏🏼 we know Yahweh got it stored up gentile it's not my fault here
❤ I’m not married yet.. but I Loved this episode. It clearly shows that marriage is two different people and thier different ways of doing things..joining together as One ❤
By the way I agree with Savannah. 100% the trash is the man job. Sorry Josh.
I thought it was a moo point
JOSH I WAS RIGHT THERE WITH YOU MY GUY! WHEN SAV SAID MOOT POINT I THOUGHT SHE SAID “MUTE” WEIRDLY LOL😂❤❤❤
Lol tbh I loved this episode I laughed so much is like I understood the vibe, the language! I love it! Related to the max love y’all
i loved this episode! 😂
I love Sav! She’s so cute!!! I swear she remind me of myself and my sister. Josh remind me of one of my brothers. Your videos are great, God willing be well. I can’t stop watching