ThatWeirdo OfAKid Zach is the guy who pretends to be your best friend but is secretly in love with you and eventually hits on you awkwardly and it ruins the relationship lmao
Mendoza Juan Chicks dug rejection? If that’s what you’re saying, as a “chick” who knows many other women, we don’t dig that. None of us dig that. If I️ misinterpreted your response, I️m sorry
"Being rejected and being like, whatever I know my worth" people are absolutely admirable. At least, you've tried. Having regrets are worse than being rejected.
in january i asked my crush to go a dance with me and he said "can i get back to you on that?" and lets just say, as of august of 2017, im still waiting for him to "get back to me on that"
Ask him again! He might've forgotten haha And legit some people can forget about it even if they like you back (I was the forgetful one, and the guy who asked me to prom was super shy but he asked me anyway and we talked for a long time BUT I FORGOT TO SAY YES so both of us went to prom single and oops soz fren)
She whispered "Adam Bianchi", he's the cameraman from 'Worth It'. I knew right away because if you go to his Instagram he has a bunch of pictures with her years ago, and it matches up to what she says.
One time I told the guy I like that I liked him and he proceeded to tell me who he liked *instead* of me AND HAD THE DECENCY TO ASK ME IF I COULD TELL THE GIRL HE LIKED THAT HE LIKED HER!!! *I AGREED TO TELL THE GIRL*
Isabelle BBUUURRNNN that same thing happened to me! It was painful. I was in 8th grade and still young and dumb. I felt so low. I wanted to punch my "friend" that told me to tell him i liked him.
I was rejected when... Oh wait, I've never even been close to having a relationship in my 20 years of living... How do I keep forgetting that... I'm gonna die alone with 73 cats and 27 dogs
How many people have you asked out? You have to take risks and put yourself out there to find someone. And you can expect rejection or dud dates 9 out of 10 times for an average person. You just gotta keep trying.
In high school I confessed to a cute guy in my class over email (I was too shy to say it face to face). I nervously waited to hear back and finally saw his response pop up. His reply: I'm gay :) ABSOLUTELY DEVASTATED Luckily we could laugh it off and we're still really close friends almost 10 yrs later ^_^
Honestly, that would be a huge relief for me. No way to internalize it or take it personally and ask "Am I not pretty/smart/cool enough?" because they're gay. It LITERALLY has nothing to do with you, and you could get a good friend out of it! :D
in third grade, i wrote a note to my crush saying that i like him and gave it to him. after reading it, he said "never in a million years" and threw it away. broke my child heart and ended up crying.
Fatima THE DOCTOR Bruh same. Well actually the football player dude was talking with other dude friends behind me in lunch line bragging “i can get any girl” and then the friends said “ud date even her?” and the dude said “hell nah. Ugly BLEEP” (my poor heart)
ItsBethanyBro same but I'm also a person who doesn't like sharing how I feel with anyone and it makes me feel extremely vulnerable which I don't like. Asking someone out would be between 1-3 on things o won't be doing for a very long time.
Same the only the time I kinda confessed was a few years back when a really close friend flat out asked me if I had a crush on him at which point I felt it was pointless to deny it lol.
The worst is when they say "Oh I'm just not looking to date anyone right now" or "You're too good for me" to spare your feelings but then start dating someone else two weeks later. Or how about your crush going with you to prom and then later saying it's because he didn't know how to say no?? ha..ha... #pitydate
Okay but Zach is so good at story telling & he gets so into it. Plus he loves trying to get the details in there (especially when Ella was trying to tell her story)
Once I got the courage to ask my crush out, so I did. He accepted and we took a walk and talked... We started talking about our bad characteristics (ugh.. my english is bad, I do know) and he told me that he can't say no. That is why he accepted. Also because he was feeling sorry for me. I told him I'll not bother him again and he thanked me...
I saw him out in real life on a date once. She was smoking hot. He seemed awkward. I wanted to say hi to him or something but I couldn't remember his name so I just pointed at him and smiled as I passed haha
I told the guy I had a massive crush on in 8th grade (on aim) and his response was that the feelings weren't mutual and he would maybe like me next year. Cue little 8th grader shock and tears. That was 11 years ago and 2 weeks ago we got married. 😊😊
My most embarrassing rejection was when my FRIENDS (this was in highschool- sophomore year) they decided to ask this boy out for me. He was decent looking and was part of the popular group. I liked him since eighth grade. He was popular, but rarely dated anyone. He was the most popular guy's friend. We talked, but since I wasn't in his group.. there was a really big gap between us. So, I told one friend this and it started a chain reaction throughout my whole friend group. They told him, and I was there standing shyly from a distance. I tried to beg them not to, because knew what would happen if they did and if I got rejected. They didn't listen.. I was left to the sidelines to see his reaction. When I turned to look, he was staring at me like I was the most disgusting human being that ever lived and that I was mostly likely a cockroach-human hybrid. He was *looking down on me.* I could have never been more mortified when he said this, "That... *thing. HER?"* My friends didn't even do anything, they just stood there. I was trying not to cry. To top it all off it happened after school and near his more popular friends. This rejection spread like wildfire. It was an outrageous backlash against me. After a couple weeks past it was still the biggest talk. When people saw me in the hallway they *laughed.* My friends didn't even apologize to me. Gosh this scarred me so bad back then. It was the worst thing to happen to me in highschool.
Men are the worst, they only want to date stupid small blondes with plastic surgery faces, like Ariana Grande. If you don't look like lhat then think you don't deserve love. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
I invited a girl to a chinese restaurant for valentines day this year so when we got there I gave her flowers but she said she didn't realise it was supposed to be a date and that she just sees me as a friendd :/
I mean, unless you're clear about it, how is she supposed to know, whether it's Valentine's Day or not? If you're just gonna go off assumptions all the time, you're never gonna have any luck. Communication is important.
But it's Valentine's Day, the day you have to stress that it's not a date if you don't intend it to be a date. She probably knew that and just wanted free food
I've been watching Buzzfeed for years and with every video I become more and more invested in Zach's dating life.... FIND THIS CUTE BOY LOVE, HE DESERVES IT.
I was so confused as a teenager when my 14-year-old cousin told me all these stories about "hooking up" with guys, because where I'm from "hooking up" is 100% slang for "having sex" and nothing else. "Hooking up" never means anything but straight-up sex. And I was 17 like "whoa, jeez, you better slow down kiddo, I'm super concerned now" until she finally caught on, was mortified, and explained that on the west coast "hooking up" can mean "kissing/making out." She only used it to denote kissing. But until I figured that out it was the most awkward conversation of all time.
I've only been rejected once by a guy I had a crush on, the thing is I was friends with this popular girl and I was rather naive so I told her and 5 second later she told him and laughed so hard I felt humiliate but 2 years later he hit on me and I shot him down funny how things turn out...
I got rejected this weekend by an acquaintance I've had a crush on for a while. The good part of the story is that my reaction was: "Is it because I'm too pretty?" I guess, at least I really love myself lol.
I have never been rejected because I have never tried to get with anyone because I was afraid of rejection. Btw I'm over 18. I had the most boring teenage years.
Good, don't try to put yourself out there, it's gonna spare you of a lot of suffering. Girls should wait for guys to come to them, if you put effort in looking pretty enough they will come.
Literally me, we are cut from the same cloth haha there were a few guys furgón my school years that seemed like they like me but it never got anywhere cuz I was too afraid it was all in my head
Lmao same thing happened to me but his friend tried to bully me into saying yes when they New my mother has certain rules against dating and other things like that. So I felt like I needed to say no and distance myself to try and get away from him/them. I regret and respect my choice. Mostly regret right now though.
Lizbeth Deloya I was the same when I decided not to da te a guy, but sometimes you've got to take a step back and remember why not instead of fantasizing what could've been. Things always look better in our heads
Tan Ai Ling Yeah I think it's just the fact that having someone really like you but you not liking them and them asking you out over and over and when they stop you just kinda miss that and you develop feelings for them😢
Theres this guy in my band that I really liked. I was talking about liking someone with my my friends, but they didn’t know who. One of them texted me asking if it was this person, and it was. She told me that she thought he liked me, and told me to tell him. I texted him on Instagram and told him, and he blocked and unfollowed me😂 Edit: I should also add that he actually liked me back and we’re dating now, but he freaked out when I told him and I just thought this was a funny story to tell😂
Or what about it being *Chris Reinacher?* Zach’s been dating a blonde lady, who has appeared in vids with him, and they’ve been dating since before he started at buzzfeed; like at college / acting class
i got rejected when i told my crush i liked hm, but he was so fucking sweet, he was like: well, i really really like you but you're kind of my best friend right now and i was like: ughhhh i'm so relieved that i told you and he was like: awww, come on over here and he hugged me. so i got friendzoned, but hey, i ain't mad about, we actually get along even better now xD
I had a teacher who thought he had asked a girl to prom, he said it was pretty clear to him that he asked her to prom but he wasn't as straight forward as he could've been. Fast forward to prom night, he rents a limo, is in his tux, goes to knock on her door for prom and has her corsage and everything, her parents answer the door and then tell him she already went to prom with her date lol. I can't remember if he ended up going to prom or if he just ended up going home but I remember when he told my class this everyone was shocked because they thought he was too good looking for no one to go out with him 🤷🏻♀️
I went up to the guy I'd liked for a while because rumour had it he liked me back (his best mate told me), I finally spoke to him and he told me that he's only sexually attracted to me and he didn't want any relationships until college- he was going out with Miss popular the next day, then the day after that his best mate asked me out... xD
Back in highschool, I had never tried to be asked as a prom date because I think I don't belong to girls who are pretty cool. But meeting one of my peers he told me that how shy he was to ask me because he thought that I am not a friendly type of person.
Probably one of the biggest cockblocks ever. Coming to my last years of High School I fell for this girl, let's just call her "Ellen" lol and being an awkward teenager I didn't know what to do or say to her so I asked one of my friends to give advice. My friend and I talked about the do's and don'ts and all those sorts of things until I finally gained the courage to tell Ellen I liked her. Me and Ellen spoke quite a bit, a little bit of flirting here and there. I finally drop the "I really like you" bomb on her and she tells me she doesn't feel the same way that I was a "good friend" and that she liked someone else but me, being an awkward teenaged boy and all, replied by saying "haha don't worry about it, it was just a dare". A week goes by and she tells her best friend about me liking her and I go to a party and he shows up. He asks me about what was going on between me and Ellen and I said it was just a dare but he then tells me she actually liked me and told me what she said out of panicking but because I said it was a dare turned her off straight away. So folks, that's just a story of how to cockblock yourself. Wishing everyone in this comment section the best of luck with your love life. Stay blessed fam 🙌🏽
It's better to take the risk of asking... I actually saw my husband at the movies when I was 15, about a decade before we actually met online. We independently remembered seeing each other and I wrote him into a book I was writing at the time... but we were too nervous to even say hi.
My worst rejection story: my friend told my crush that I liked him a few weeks before prom, cause I knew that he didn't have a date and I asked her to kind of check out how he felt before I approached him, cause she was actually friends with him and I'd been pining from afar. She said that he was kind of neutral about it, so I figured I'd take the chance. About a week after that, I went up to him before lunch and asked him to prom, but he said he already had a date. Okay, that's fine, walked away with my head held high and prepared myself to whine to my friends. I get to the lunch table with like six other girls and find out that in the last week, he'd asked all of them to go to prom with him. Knowing that I liked him. End of crush.
One time when I asked this guy out to my formal he told me to look in the mirror, then back at him, and that the answer was no. I asked this guy out in front of EVERYONE. I was so embarrassed 😭
Ejsbsbzgsjxbx Gabon jjvmcn hkzka I tried reading them and all I got was "Desmark" XD anybody know a Desmark at BuzzFeed? There are apparently 770 employees there.
In elementary school I told my friend that I had a crush on a boy because she had been nagging me about who I liked for months, about 4 days after I told her who I liked she explained to me that she was now in a relationship with him. (This was elementary school so it wasn't a big deal but anyways) I was devastated but that wasn't even the most dramatic part of it...SHE WAS "DATING" ANOTHER BOY AT HE SAME TIME BUT HE WAS ON VACATION AT MEXICO FOR THE BREAK. So she 💯 did it to hurt my feelings but that's okay cause her life is a mess now 😂
My worst rejection story:So in 6th grade I had a huge crush on this guy(let's call him Leo). So Leo and I had been really close that year, and i thought he liked me. So I decide to write him a note. It basically said, I'm in love with you, if you want to know who I am, meet me behind the coke machine at the Valentines day dance. Well so he wouldnt know my handwriting, I had my best friend at the time, Zoey write it the day before. Well the other girl who had a crush on me(let's call her Allie) saw Zoey write the note. So the next day I put it in his locker, where he proceeded to find it 20 minutes later in class. He went up and read it out loud to the teacher because someone(me) had broken into his locker. The whole class laughs, while I have a mental breakdown in my head. At the end of the day, Allie, Leo, and me were alone in homeroom together. Allie says, "I know who wrote the note." "Who?" He asks. She whispers something and he walks out of the room. She throws the balled up note at my head and says I'll never get him. A week later, I overheard him saying that he did like me back, but Allie told him no. So, at the dance, my friends and I got her back. She was dancing with her friends, and Zoey came behind her and poured tomato juice all over Allie. Sad to say, that me and Leo never talked again
My most worst rejection I got, was with a guy I liked a lot. He's a bit older than me. I'm a girl btw. We were like awesome friends, we vibed very well and all that stuff. 3 weeks in our friendship we developed a little bit of Sexual tension at this point. One day we were chilling hanging out and he proceeds to ask me outta nowhere "So.......what type of girls do you date?" 😥😥. He thinks I'm GAY. I felt so defeated. Can you imagine a guy you like thinks you're GAY.....ps. I'm foreign I'm not the best at telling stories in english.
Whyfucking Not Really haven't had anyone I like think I'm gay... I think. But there was this one guy who I was friends with he asked me if I was gay. I think that was last year or two years ago. I just found out he thought he kind of liked me but his friends shut him down. Guess they told him I wasn't the best option... If he'd asked me out I would have said no anyway and I think his friends knew that.
It’s up to us how we are handle rejection towards the person that we love to have a date with them. Instead of thinking it many times that you we’re rejected think for a hundred reasons that you will never give up until you can get a positive response to them.
ok, so one time i liked this boy, and he liked me back. and we literally knew we liked each other, but we were both scared. *looking back at it, i should've said something* anyways, we were flirty and stuff but never were we OFFICIAL, *yet* so after the school year ended, and summer break started we still had feelings for one another. when school started again, we acted like how we did before, but it was a little dull. so my friend and my crush were in the same homeroom, and like on the 5th day of school she texted me saying, hey, so *a girl's name* and *my crush* have been super cuddly in homeroom. when i saw that i immediately had mixed emotions. mostly sad bc we had something great, and he ruined it. but being myself i tried to play it off. after a day or two, my crush and this girl started dating. when i heard the news i completely lost it. i mean, yeah, we're not bf and gf, but damn. time went on and he still looks at me down the halls, and tries to make himself relevant in my life. but eh. after that, we stopped talking, and he's just a boy i see in the hallway. what sucks even more is that i was gonna ask him out. but whatever it's fine.
I wish I had some story to tell about having asked my crush out even if it was a rejection story. We have gone our separate ways. He'll never know how I felt, and I'll never know what could've been. Rejection is a lot better than regrets folks.
Thats totally me, had a crush over this boy for three years we even went to the same college but last year i changed schools and i havent seen him since then :( in fact i think he’s got a gf now :(
This one time in middle school I had a crush on this guy a grade ahead of me. We were like bestfriends, always goofing around in the halls and listening to his jokes. Well one of my friends found out and she ended up telling him and he never talked to me again after that. I felt so betrayed.
Honestly I think prom's gotten kinda outta hand, I'm mean it's great, it's fun, but goddamn do people really need to make these big to dos and proposals for it? Anyway, I went with my friends to the prom, since I had no date and neither did most of us (one of them did). Great fun, no regrets. As for my worst rejection story, there was this guy in middle school I liked and for the longest time I just pined after him, talking to him, and sending him secret admirer letters (once I even sent him chocolates). I asked him to the school dance, and he said he couldn't go or some lame excuse like that. At the dance I saw him dancing with another girl. At this point I probably should've gotten the hint he didn't like me but I was young and stupid and in denial so I kept pursuing him. Eventually, finally I confessed over text that I was his secret admirer and I liked him and then he... never responded. No response. None whatsoever. Thanks. I guess I don't even warrant a response? Months later I found out he stupidly showed my text to some of his friends and they spread through to the whole school that I liked this guy. Fortunately no one harassed me over it and I didn't even find out until months later when likely everybody had pretty much forgotten about it but still it was really embarrassing and infuriating. I mean I suppose it was partially my fault for not taking the hint but... seriously? Anyway, that's my story.
This boy, who is actually now my best friend, asked me out after sitting next to each other in science class for half a year, only I totally freaked out becAuse my girl best friend made it much bigger of a deal. Anyway, we started talking about a week after that and he got my number. We started texting and he asked me out again, and than again a month later. He still likes me, but what surprised him is that I've liked him before he liked me! Only, the funny part of this story is that neither of us are allowed to date, so we became best friends and text everyday and FaceTime each other. So this isn't a rejection story, sort of, but it's the only "relationship" I've had. We plan to date at the end of the year, and claim that we'll still be friends cause we know it's prob not going to work out and we were best friends before boyfriend/girlfriend.
'People are not just like this object of desire that you can imagine what they are like' I make this mistake over and over again.
Nana Gobejishvili same here:(
Same
What is he talking about, am I doing this all wrong?! lol
During Ella's story Zachary is legit everyone like wanting all the details
Keeneland Dublow it's because it's someone he knows so it's more interesting.
*Zach
Lol whenever someone is telling me a story, I am Zach
I've never seen anyone call him Zachary in the comments.
I swear Zack is like every girl best friend, "Ok but like how long was it?"
"Did it mean anything?"
"OMG WAS THERE TOUNGE?!!?!"
ThatWeirdo OfAKid for later refrences, it's tongue :D
ThatWeirdo OfAKid Zach is the guy who pretends to be your best friend but is secretly in love with you and eventually hits on you awkwardly and it ruins the relationship lmao
ThatWeirdo OfAKid Zach*
I agree
celineypie yeap👏🏼
If only I had the courage to ask my crush out, i would have a rejection story.
But my friend got rejected like 3 times
Lul, pusse
Mwerpso Lot unless they say yes
Mendoza Juan Chicks dug rejection? If that’s what you’re saying, as a “chick” who knows many other women, we don’t dig that. None of us dig that. If I️ misinterpreted your response, I️m sorry
Mwerpso Lot yeah mine too
I tried to do that once, I ended up getting friend-zoned
Zach is so respectful. "Can I say the gender pronoun?"
he asked because Ella is bi
Rebecca Barry he is a pandering little man
aside from interjecting every other time she tries to talk i guess
He is a simp.
Beta as fu**
can't get rejected if you never asked someone out 😏
So true 😂
me tho
Thats Isak can't find love if you never asked someone out 😏
I have the picture in my head, the meme is still alibe
I've never asked a girl out before.
Zach is absolutely adorable.
Ikr all my friends don’t think so and I’m like WHO ARE YOU? Lol
Give me a name-
Ella- Tim
Zach- Thelonius
Watch the "if adults dated like middle schoolers ".
They explain whos thelonius
He’s a character from the 100. 😂😂😂😂
Margaret S. I WAS THE 666TH LIKE. MUAHAHAHA
Margaret S. Im ur 1k liker :)
Isnt it Phelonious?
"Being rejected and being like, whatever I know my worth" people are absolutely admirable. At least, you've tried. Having regrets are worse than being rejected.
I told this boy I liked him in the 8th grade; he rejected me. He is now my gay best friend lmao
Dude, I dated this incredible guy in 8th and now he's gay and I'm bi
i kind of want this
Mary Gill that’s hella creepy...
SAME!!!!
He tells you he is gay
in january i asked my crush to go a dance with me and he said "can i get back to you on that?" and lets just say, as of august of 2017, im still waiting for him to "get back to me on that"
XD that literally happened to me at the end of eighth grade
Ask him again! He might've forgotten haha
And legit some people can forget about it even if they like you back (I was the forgetful one, and the guy who asked me to prom was super shy but he asked me anyway and we talked for a long time BUT I FORGOT TO SAY YES so both of us went to prom single and oops soz fren)
megxjanis TEXT HIM
megxjanis :(
that's so dicky
She whispered "Adam Bianchi", he's the cameraman from 'Worth It'. I knew right away because if you go to his Instagram he has a bunch of pictures with her years ago, and it matches up to what she says.
Sarah N. 😱 good job 👏 my friend 😂❤️❤️
Sarah N. Thank you for doing the work for me!!!
Well done stalking 👏
Have you considered working for FBI? Or CIA? Or MI6?
Class a internet stalker 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 well done
One time I told the guy I like that I liked him and he proceeded to tell me who he liked *instead* of me AND HAD THE DECENCY TO ASK ME IF I COULD TELL THE GIRL HE LIKED THAT HE LIKED HER!!! *I AGREED TO TELL THE GIRL*
Isabelle BBUUURRNNN that same thing happened to me! It was painful. I was in 8th grade and still young and dumb. I felt so low. I wanted to punch my "friend" that told me to tell him i liked him.
Omgggggggg 😂😭😭
LMFAOOOOOO That's so fucked up but funny
Ohhhhh ouch that'd literally kill me, this sounds like something I'd do though cuz I'm so nice
Isabelle BBUUURRNNN same has happened to me
I was rejected when... Oh wait, I've never even been close to having a relationship in my 20 years of living... How do I keep forgetting that... I'm gonna die alone with 73 cats and 27 dogs
20 is quite young! Maybe you will find love someday! :) If not, unconditional love from pets is pretty awesome too! :)
This needs more likes 🤣
I met my husband when I was 21. Never had a relationship before. So...
it's okay I will too 👍
How many people have you asked out? You have to take risks and put yourself out there to find someone. And you can expect rejection or dud dates 9 out of 10 times for an average person. You just gotta keep trying.
I could just picture Zach as a 17 year old dropping the cup and running out the school doors in slow-mo
Caitlen Peck like sobbing his eyes out and running home
Caitlen Peck that’s gonna be a Netflix series scene lol
Oh my god!!! I pictured the same exact thing
In high school I confessed to a cute guy in my class over email (I was too shy to say it face to face). I nervously waited to hear back and finally saw his response pop up.
His reply: I'm gay :)
ABSOLUTELY DEVASTATED
Luckily we could laugh it off and we're still really close friends almost 10 yrs later ^_^
i know im 4 months late but that guy later turned into idubbbz
Claire Sully your amazing for doing this i don't have the courage to this I've liked a person for 2 years no he has no clue
Claire Sully oh at least he was polite.
Claire Sully Almost all of the cute guys in World are guy. Lol XD
Honestly, that would be a huge relief for me. No way to internalize it or take it personally and ask "Am I not pretty/smart/cool enough?" because they're gay. It LITERALLY has nothing to do with you, and you could get a good friend out of it! :D
in third grade, i wrote a note to my crush saying that i like him and gave it to him. after reading it, he said "never in a million years" and threw it away. broke my child heart and ended up crying.
Fatima THE DOCTOR omg i am so sorry. I did similar thing but in college. He was sweet enough to write that he liked me as a friend
third graders are shitbags
Aww
Fatima THE DOCTOR Bruh same. Well actually the football player dude was talking with other dude friends behind me in lunch line bragging “i can get any girl” and then the friends said “ud date even her?” and the dude said “hell nah. Ugly BLEEP” (my poor heart)
*Micheal Kelso voice* BURRRRNNNN
Ive never had a rejection because ive never let people know i like them and i shove it down it disappears because i have a huge fear of rejection
ItsBethanyBro same but I'm also a person who doesn't like sharing how I feel with anyone and it makes me feel extremely vulnerable which I don't like. Asking someone out would be between 1-3 on things o won't be doing for a very long time.
Same the only the time I kinda confessed was a few years back when a really close friend flat out asked me if I had a crush on him at which point I felt it was pointless to deny it lol.
Jacky Star same
Caramel Victim that would be me too
Your profile pic says it all
Rejection stories, where do I begin?
It was the year 1985...
*gasp* Sarah Scribbles?
Wow that was a long time ago.
Aliyah Warsame 34 years ago 😂
Omg granny tell is a story!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
1864 mystic falls
The worst is when they say "Oh I'm just not looking to date anyone right now" or "You're too good for me" to spare your feelings but then start dating someone else two weeks later.
Or how about your crush going with you to prom and then later saying it's because he didn't know how to say no?? ha..ha... #pitydate
Ellen is my sisters name and Tim is her boyfriend
HelloKatie it's almost like those are two common names
Nimmin haha
HelloKatie that's crazy
AGS SPEC OVER 9000!!!! Listen girls are allowed to have boyfriend
AGS SPEC OVER 9000!!!! Stfu
Okay but Zach is so good at story telling & he gets so into it. Plus he loves trying to get the details in there (especially when Ella was trying to tell her story)
Once I got the courage to ask my crush out, so I did. He accepted and we took a walk and talked... We started talking about our bad characteristics (ugh.. my english is bad, I do know) and he told me that he can't say no. That is why he accepted. Also because he was feeling sorry for me. I told him I'll not bother him again and he thanked me...
kakk akakaa Awww I'm sorry that must of sucked
Lesley Paulino *must have
kakk akakaa GIRL SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME AS WELL. but tbh i feel like im bothering him because of how concerned i sound when i send him messages
kakk akakaa yasssss
Omg that's awkward 😬 sorry about that :)
Zach asking questions is exactly how I am when someone is telling me a juicy story
OMG zach was literally like a girl, being all like " give me details"
One time I told my crush I liked him , he kindly declined and said he wasn't ready too date , but the next day he started dating my friend
Oh no...
miah lo Boys will be Boys
Zach is such a cutie. I know multiple girls who are die hard fans of his and would love to date him haha
Cora LovesGlam but not you right, you like him as a friend lol
Cora LovesGlam Meee
Cora LovesGlam 👋👋👋 hi I'm here it me
Cora LovesGlam if anything this makes him even more appealing! If it's not me, hoping Zach finds the kind of loving girl he deserves.
I saw him out in real life on a date once. She was smoking hot. He seemed awkward. I wanted to say hi to him or something but I couldn't remember his name so I just pointed at him and smiled as I passed haha
I told the guy I had a massive crush on in 8th grade (on aim) and his response was that the feelings weren't mutual and he would maybe like me next year. Cue little 8th grader shock and tears. That was 11 years ago and 2 weeks ago we got married. 😊😊
Kelsey Henke awww
Goals
That’s so sweet and awwww!!!!!
Wo wo wo who just says "oh I don't like you but play your cards right and maybe I'll like you next year" LIKE BOI😂
Aww
“Can I use the gender pronoun?” So sweet he asked!
How is that sweet? The girl is bi and wants to keep it a secret.
Revealing the gender gives 50% of the information.
passerell it’s sweet that he asked and didn’t just give it away without her permission
Zack: What song did he sing?
Ella: I don’t remember
Zack: I just want to figure out how he charmed you 😂👏
THERE IS ALWAYS A TIM
letsma fucking tim😑
My most embarrassing rejection was when my FRIENDS (this was in highschool- sophomore year) they decided to ask this boy out for me. He was decent looking and was part of the popular group. I liked him since eighth grade. He was popular, but rarely dated anyone. He was the most popular guy's friend. We talked, but since I wasn't in his group.. there was a really big gap between us. So, I told one friend this and it started a chain reaction throughout my whole friend group. They told him, and I was there standing shyly from a distance. I tried to beg them not to, because knew what would happen if they did and if I got rejected. They didn't listen.. I was left to the sidelines to see his reaction. When I turned to look, he was staring at me like I was the most disgusting human being that ever lived and that I was mostly likely a cockroach-human hybrid. He was *looking down on me.* I could have never been more mortified when he said this, "That... *thing. HER?"* My friends didn't even do anything, they just stood there. I was trying not to cry. To top it all off it happened after school and near his more popular friends. This rejection spread like wildfire. It was an outrageous backlash against me. After a couple weeks past it was still the biggest talk. When people saw me in the hallway they *laughed.* My friends didn't even apologize to me. Gosh this scarred me so bad back then. It was the worst thing to happen to me in highschool.
Aurora Wordsworth Ugh i'm so sorry you had to go through that.
Aaaw.
Wow, no one should have to go through that. Harsh.
Men are the worst, they only want to date stupid small blondes with plastic surgery faces, like Ariana Grande. If you don't look like lhat then think you don't deserve love. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
NatUTubeful it's funny that you say that because Ariana Grande is a brunette
My brother made out with my prom date on prom night
The Vegetarian Baker omg, that's horrible
I know. I'm a triplet and he also started dating her the same week.
The Vegetarian Baker Oh my gosh I'm so sorry, that's horrible!
The Vegetarian Baker damn
The Vegetarian Baker I'm so sorry I read this as,"my brother made out with my mom with my prom date," I'm too twisted
Rejection is better then regret. So at least you know what did happen then a what if.
okay but I need to know who thelonius is
Eugene
Whatttt
Brian
Jassymine
Eva eugene
I invited a girl to a chinese restaurant for valentines day this year so when we got there I gave her flowers but she said she didn't realise it was supposed to be a date and that she just sees me as a friendd :/
Wik Af but it was valentines day😭😞
Wtf how did she not pick up on that
She just wanted the food my man
I mean, unless you're clear about it, how is she supposed to know, whether it's Valentine's Day or not? If you're just gonna go off assumptions all the time, you're never gonna have any luck. Communication is important.
But it's Valentine's Day, the day you have to stress that it's not a date if you don't intend it to be a date. She probably knew that and just wanted free food
What about the time when Ella rejected Zach on Why aren't we dating ? ;)
voguevintage She is dating Hannah Hart
I know she is :) the video i'm talking about is from 1 year ago
sandra muhigana lucky.
omg I was thinking the same😹I literally thought they were gonna talk about each other when I saw them in the thumbnail
voguevintage maybe she knew her sexuality by then
I've been watching Buzzfeed for years and with every video I become more and more invested in Zach's dating life.... FIND THIS CUTE BOY LOVE, HE DESERVES IT.
Hannah P. I'm here for it
I was so confused as a teenager when my 14-year-old cousin told me all these stories about "hooking up" with guys, because where I'm from "hooking up" is 100% slang for "having sex" and nothing else. "Hooking up" never means anything but straight-up sex. And I was 17 like "whoa, jeez, you better slow down kiddo, I'm super concerned now" until she finally caught on, was mortified, and explained that on the west coast "hooking up" can mean "kissing/making out." She only used it to denote kissing. But until I figured that out it was the most awkward conversation of all time.
She is so beautiful, who in their right mind would reject her.
I've only been rejected once by a guy I had a crush on, the thing is I was friends with this popular girl and I was rather naive so I told her and 5 second later she told him and laughed so hard I felt humiliate but 2 years later he hit on me and I shot him down funny how things turn out...
You sound bitter and spiteful about it.
Zach is sitting there like someone who's getting interstellar explained to them. Priceless XD.
Kris Kamweru I LOVE INTERSTELLAR
i like seeing zach do non-tryguys stuff! ella is also really fun. more stuff with zach and ella :))
ZACH IS SUCH A CUTE LITTLE JEWISH MUFFIN 💕💕💕💕💕
salma سلمى YESSSSS
Zach seems like a jealous boyfriend during Ella’s story 😂
I am Zach in these discussions. Give me more details!
She is saying " Its Brian "
ella rejected Zack before
nina lit i was literally thinking that lmao
nina lit she is dating Hannah Hart
nina lit *zach
never forget.
really? lol what video did I miss
Am I the only one who's dead curious who rejected Ella?!
does anyone read lips?
ME !
I
NEED
TO
KNOW
WHO
THELONIOUS
IS !!!
OhGodNo I skrta believe its Eugene since she said he works with Zach
I GUESS it's the dude who worked in navy before hand. She was his boss at that time.
@@kslizzle7777 he's bisexual so he likes boys AND girls
Watch the "if adults dated like middle schoolers ".
They explain whos thelonius
I got rejected this weekend by an acquaintance I've had a crush on for a while. The good part of the story is that my reaction was: "Is it because I'm too pretty?" I guess, at least I really love myself lol.
shboomgirl you go girl
Your so cute 💜
You go girl yas
You guys are so nice!
That's what I am gonna say the next time I get rejected
I have never been rejected because I have never tried to get with anyone because I was afraid of rejection. Btw I'm over 18. I had the most boring teenage years.
Good, don't try to put yourself out there, it's gonna spare you of a lot of suffering. Girls should wait for guys to come to them, if you put effort in looking pretty enough they will come.
NatUTubeful that's the stupidest advice you could've given
NatUTubeful That's probably the worst advice you can give. Girls should do what they feel like, the rejections will teach them.
Crispy Liza same I always ask my crush's friends to find out if they like me or not then I chicken out
Literally me, we are cut from the same cloth haha there were a few guys furgón my school years that seemed like they like me but it never got anywhere cuz I was too afraid it was all in my head
His shirt:
Zach
Ned
Rkeith
Beugene
i laughed more than i should have
XD
Artsingitup Hahahha
Artsingitup yesss
Artsingitup BEUGENE-
I wonder how many times they actually said the name, and had to re-take it...
i want a friendship like theirs so bad
is Zach slowly glowing up or is it just me?
Yes, he is!
No I totally see it too. I actually came to the comments to see if someone thought the same xD haha
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Who could reject Zach 😍😍😊✨
Sufia... Ella did lol
Sufia I wouldn't. He's so cute. Rejecting Zach would be like punching a kitten in the face.
Jet Paskinski
She did, really? I imagined Zach having very high standards for girls, since he's a dude and all. Ella is crazy for rejecting him!
Ella is dating Hannah Hart.... so...I'm sure you can figure that out.
I rejected a guy who asked me out at least 4 times, and now I like him after he stopped completely. Screw my life.
Tan Ai Ling ask him out! 👽
Lmao same thing happened to me but his friend tried to bully me into saying yes when they New my mother has certain rules against dating and other things like that. So I felt like I needed to say no and distance myself to try and get away from him/them. I regret and respect my choice. Mostly regret right now though.
Lizbeth Deloya
I was the same when I decided not to da te a guy, but sometimes you've got to take a step back and remember why not instead of fantasizing what could've been. Things always look better in our heads
Tan Ai Ling
Yeah I think it's just the fact that having someone really like you but you not liking them and them asking you out over and over and when they stop you just kinda miss that and you develop feelings for them😢
Tan Ai Ling same 😂
Zach's like "I NEED ALL THE DETAILS!!!"
Theres this guy in my band that I really liked. I was talking about liking someone with my my friends, but they didn’t know who. One of them texted me asking if it was this person, and it was. She told me that she thought he liked me, and told me to tell him. I texted him on Instagram and told him, and he blocked and unfollowed me😂
Edit: I should also add that he actually liked me back and we’re dating now, but he freaked out when I told him and I just thought this was a funny story to tell😂
BuzzFeed super fans are about to try to figure out the mystery dude.
Vannah its probs Zach Evans I think....cuz Thelonius was his name in the 'if adults dated like middle schoolers video'.
Archisha Dhar yesssss thats what i was thinking. Maybe its just his go to random name
Anddd zach does have a girlfriend now
Or what about it being *Chris Reinacher?*
Zach’s been dating a blonde lady, who has appeared in vids with him, and they’ve been dating since before he started at buzzfeed; like at college / acting class
fla la Nah, he's been with Yessica for a few years.
i got rejected when i told my crush i liked hm, but he was so fucking sweet, he was like: well, i really really like you but you're kind of my best friend right now and i was like: ughhhh i'm so relieved that i told you and he was like: awww, come on over here and he hugged me. so i got friendzoned, but hey, i ain't mad about, we actually get along even better now xD
Freya Schütze that's the best friend zoning I've ever heard
Yes, the same thing happened to me. I was still sad afterwards though, we're still friends but I cried for two days straight.
He's gay
I rejected once one of my friends (hes a boy and me too) because im not gay.
We are still good friends now :D
Freya Schütze
That was cute
I had a teacher who thought he had asked a girl to prom, he said it was pretty clear to him that he asked her to prom but he wasn't as straight forward as he could've been. Fast forward to prom night, he rents a limo, is in his tux, goes to knock on her door for prom and has her corsage and everything, her parents answer the door and then tell him she already went to prom with her date lol. I can't remember if he ended up going to prom or if he just ended up going home but I remember when he told my class this everyone was shocked because they thought he was too good looking for no one to go out with him 🤷🏻♀️
I love how Zach was so invloved and asking questions about her story
7:58 Zach saying “oh sweetie” is the cutest things ever, then he moves into the cringe dance 😂
I went up to the guy I'd liked for a while because rumour had it he liked me back (his best mate told me), I finally spoke to him and he told me that he's only sexually attracted to me and he didn't want any relationships until college- he was going out with Miss popular the next day, then the day after that his best mate asked me out... xD
Yhtwxd27a11ii but did you say yes?
Yhtwxd27a11ii Did you say yes?!
Did you say yes?
Yhtwxd27a11ii what did you say?
I need answers!!! Did you say yes?!
I can't even get a date, I'm an ugly piece of chicken nugget.
Arianator_Moonwalker 4ever excuse me
chicken nugget oh shet sorry
That's priceless 😂
All chicken nuggets are beautiful 😂😂
"I just wanna know how he charmed you" - Zach. I got an idea why you wanna know that Zach xD
Back in highschool, I had never tried to be asked as a prom date because I think I don't belong to girls who are pretty cool. But meeting one of my peers he told me that how shy he was to ask me because he thought that I am not a friendly type of person.
“It was so embarrassing.”
“Yeah...yeah.”
😂😂 great job, Zack
I got rejected by a random dude because he thought I was looking at him in a 'crush way'
like what
Annkward Ana this made me laugh so hard 😂
What's wrong with going to college a virgin? Why is there such a stigma?
There's nothing wrong with it, it just wasn't something that he personally wanted to do.
Hugo lol 69 likes you know why that means!
I think Hugo went to college a virgin
Hugo
Guess people want to seem like, “hey! I’m not completely some teenage screw-over who’s constantly horny!”
Angelina Morales I don’t have enough likes for chicken nuggets
Probably one of the biggest cockblocks ever. Coming to my last years of High School I fell for this girl, let's just call her "Ellen" lol and being an awkward teenager I didn't know what to do or say to her so I asked one of my friends to give advice. My friend and I talked about the do's and don'ts and all those sorts of things until I finally gained the courage to tell Ellen I liked her. Me and Ellen spoke quite a bit, a little bit of flirting here and there. I finally drop the "I really like you" bomb on her and she tells me she doesn't feel the same way that I was a "good friend" and that she liked someone else but me, being an awkward teenaged boy and all, replied by saying "haha don't worry about it, it was just a dare". A week goes by and she tells her best friend about me liking her and I go to a party and he shows up. He asks me about what was going on between me and Ellen and I said it was just a dare but he then tells me she actually liked me and told me what she said out of panicking but because I said it was a dare turned her off straight away. So folks, that's just a story of how to cockblock yourself. Wishing everyone in this comment section the best of luck with your love life. Stay blessed fam 🙌🏽
Self cockblocking is the worst cockblocking.
Haven Henare-Heke wat, why did Ellen tell you that SHE LIKED SOMEONE ELSE THEN WHEN SHE LIKED YOU?!?!!
That's why you should always stay behind your words... even when it's awkward
It's happened to me way too much
TrashyWaffle yeah, well she shloud have been honest. Wouldn´t have happend.
I feel bad...
It's better to take the risk of asking... I actually saw my husband at the movies when I was 15, about a decade before we actually met online. We independently remembered seeing each other and I wrote him into a book I was writing at the time... but we were too nervous to even say hi.
All those questions... that's the level of details REAL friends require from you!
My worst rejection story: my friend told my crush that I liked him a few weeks before prom, cause I knew that he didn't have a date and I asked her to kind of check out how he felt before I approached him, cause she was actually friends with him and I'd been pining from afar. She said that he was kind of neutral about it, so I figured I'd take the chance. About a week after that, I went up to him before lunch and asked him to prom, but he said he already had a date. Okay, that's fine, walked away with my head held high and prepared myself to whine to my friends. I get to the lunch table with like six other girls and find out that in the last week, he'd asked all of them to go to prom with him. Knowing that I liked him. End of crush.
HeyJessie wtf I'm so sorry u had to go through that.
HeyJessie wow what a dishhead🤬🤬🤬
HeyJessie what an a**hole
HeyJessie it's OK u deserve better
One time when I asked this guy out to my formal he told me to look in the mirror, then back at him, and that the answer was no. I asked this guy out in front of EVERYONE. I was so embarrassed 😭
Namira Mendes Well thank you very much😊! But eighth grade me was devastated back then 😅
What an ahole. Girl be glad he didn't say yes, you're worth better.
Jessica January Agreed!
GeeWizGrl huh u're beautiful tho :((
Thank y'all so much! I wasn't expecting to get the comments I've received😳 (And please don't murder the boy, karma got him in the end)
I want to know who Ella got rejected by
I tried to read her lips.......but the bias in me might have imagined the EUGENE part because he's obviously the most beautiful man on Buzzfeed
I heard Eugene but idk...
Crysta Blade omggg sameeee
Ejsbsbzgsjxbx Gabon jjvmcn hkzka I tried reading them and all I got was "Desmark" XD anybody know a Desmark at BuzzFeed? There are apparently 770 employees there.
wait whooooo
idk why but i can see a similarity between logic and zach
Who would reject Zack he is soooo adorable?!
Part 2: Find Ellen and ask for her side of the story
Zach has so much hair everywhere except his head :( cute, though!
In elementary school I told my friend that I had a crush on a boy because she had been nagging me about who I liked for months, about 4 days after I told her who I liked she explained to me that she was now in a relationship with him. (This was elementary school so it wasn't a big deal but anyways) I was devastated but that wasn't even the most dramatic part of it...SHE WAS "DATING" ANOTHER BOY AT HE SAME TIME BUT HE WAS ON VACATION AT MEXICO FOR THE BREAK. So she 💯 did it to hurt my feelings but that's okay cause her life is a mess now 😂
''But that's okay cuz her life is a mess now'' lmao!
Michelle Knutson DANG
**ELEMEMTRY** SCHOOL, WTF HAS THIS WORLD COME TOO?
Wtf
Michelle Knutson why is this my life, down to the vacation in Mexico
This is what I needed before doing my dare of texting my crush and asking him out
My worst rejection story:So in 6th grade I had a huge crush on this guy(let's call him Leo). So Leo and I had been really close that year, and i thought he liked me. So I decide to write him a note. It basically said, I'm in love with you, if you want to know who I am, meet me behind the coke machine at the Valentines day dance. Well so he wouldnt know my handwriting, I had my best friend at the time, Zoey write it the day before. Well the other girl who had a crush on me(let's call her Allie) saw Zoey write the note. So the next day I put it in his locker, where he proceeded to find it 20 minutes later in class. He went up and read it out loud to the teacher because someone(me) had broken into his locker. The whole class laughs, while I have a mental breakdown in my head. At the end of the day, Allie, Leo, and me were alone in homeroom together. Allie says, "I know who wrote the note." "Who?" He asks. She whispers something and he walks out of the room. She throws the balled up note at my head and says I'll never get him. A week later, I overheard him saying that he did like me back, but Allie told him no. So, at the dance, my friends and I got her back. She was dancing with her friends, and Zoey came behind her and poured tomato juice all over Allie. Sad to say, that me and Leo never talked again
My most worst rejection I got, was with a guy I liked a lot. He's a bit older than me. I'm a girl btw. We were like awesome friends, we vibed very well and all that stuff. 3 weeks in our friendship we developed a little bit of Sexual tension at this point. One day we were chilling hanging out and he proceeds to ask me outta nowhere "So.......what type of girls do you date?" 😥😥. He thinks I'm GAY. I felt so defeated. Can you imagine a guy you like thinks you're GAY.....ps. I'm foreign I'm not the best at telling stories in english.
Whyfucking Not Really haven't had anyone I like think I'm gay... I think. But there was this one guy who I was friends with he asked me if I was gay. I think that was last year or two years ago. I just found out he thought he kind of liked me but his friends shut him down. Guess they told him I wasn't the best option... If he'd asked me out I would have said no anyway and I think his friends knew that.
Ella looks very pretty
Bexter Hedgehog manly
I am Zach asking ALL the details
"what karaoke song did he sing?" 😂😂
When Zach said Tim and Ellen started hooking up, I yelled “NOOOOOOOOOOOOO”😂😂😂
It’s up to us how we are handle rejection towards the person that we love to have a date with them. Instead of thinking it many times that you we’re rejected think for a hundred reasons that you will never give up until you can get a positive response to them.
ok, so one time i liked this boy, and he liked me back. and we literally knew we liked each other, but we were both scared. *looking back at it, i should've said something* anyways, we were flirty and stuff but never were we OFFICIAL, *yet* so after the school year ended, and summer break started we still had feelings for one another. when school started again, we acted like how we did before, but it was a little dull. so my friend and my crush were in the same homeroom, and like on the 5th day of school she texted me saying,
hey, so *a girl's name* and *my crush* have been super cuddly in homeroom.
when i saw that i immediately had mixed emotions. mostly sad bc we had something great, and he ruined it. but being myself i tried to play it off. after a day or two, my crush and this girl started dating. when i heard the news i completely lost it. i mean, yeah, we're not bf and gf, but damn. time went on and he still looks at me down the halls, and tries to make himself relevant in my life. but eh. after that, we stopped talking, and he's just a boy i see in the hallway. what sucks even more is that i was gonna ask him out. but whatever it's fine.
I wish I had some story to tell about having asked my crush out even if it was a rejection story. We have gone our separate ways. He'll never know how I felt, and I'll never know what could've been. Rejection is a lot better than regrets folks.
tatatinaa yeah me too. I had a crush for so many years. This year we graduated and I haven't seen him since. But now he'll never know. 😔
tatatinaa Oh my god are we the same person ?!
Thats totally me, had a crush over this boy for three years we even went to the same college but last year i changed schools and i havent seen him since then :( in fact i think he’s got a gf now :(
Why does this video describe my life?
And now Zach's ENGAGED 💍💕
Zach is so cute I couldn’t even imagine 🤦🏾♀️
This one time in middle school I had a crush on this guy a grade ahead of me. We were like bestfriends, always goofing around in the halls and listening to his jokes. Well one of my friends found out and she ended up telling him and he never talked to me again after that. I felt so betrayed.
Honestly I think prom's gotten kinda outta hand, I'm mean it's great, it's fun, but goddamn do people really need to make these big to dos and proposals for it? Anyway, I went with my friends to the prom, since I had no date and neither did most of us (one of them did). Great fun, no regrets.
As for my worst rejection story, there was this guy in middle school I liked and for the longest time I just pined after him, talking to him, and sending him secret admirer letters (once I even sent him chocolates). I asked him to the school dance, and he said he couldn't go or some lame excuse like that. At the dance I saw him dancing with another girl. At this point I probably should've gotten the hint he didn't like me but I was young and stupid and in denial so I kept pursuing him. Eventually, finally I confessed over text that I was his secret admirer and I liked him and then he... never responded. No response. None whatsoever. Thanks. I guess I don't even warrant a response? Months later I found out he stupidly showed my text to some of his friends and they spread through to the whole school that I liked this guy. Fortunately no one harassed me over it and I didn't even find out until months later when likely everybody had pretty much forgotten about it but still it was really embarrassing and infuriating. I mean I suppose it was partially my fault for not taking the hint but... seriously? Anyway, that's my story.
Pie Pierrot what a jerk.
This boy, who is actually now my best friend, asked me out after sitting next to each other in science class for half a year, only I totally freaked out becAuse my girl best friend made it much bigger of a deal. Anyway, we started talking about a week after that and he got my number. We started texting and he asked me out again, and than again a month later. He still likes me, but what surprised him is that I've liked him before he liked me! Only, the funny part of this story is that neither of us are allowed to date, so we became best friends and text everyday and FaceTime each other. So this isn't a rejection story, sort of, but it's the only "relationship" I've had. We plan to date at the end of the year, and claim that we'll still be friends cause we know it's prob not going to work out and we were best friends before boyfriend/girlfriend.
Hey girl! I'm currently to know what happened! I don't really think youll reply, but it's worth a shot!! :)
HOLY CRAP!!! LET HER FINISH HER STORY!!!!!!!
Best way to not get your prom date stolen, go solo with a bunch of your friends and play cards and steal someone else’s date because you have cards
Who remembers when she rejected Zach in the "Why aren't you dating" video? 😂