*"I served for over 10yrs".....LOL, you did an entry level job for 10yrs and go on a date with $40 obviously expecting the guy to pay, he should have left your minimum wage ass at the web page, women are supposed to be EQUAL, how about having higher motivation and use your EQUALITY to do more than ask "You want fries with that"* And as far as tipping goes I am not from a country that tips unless unusual requests are accounted for as the COMPANY pays salaries not the customer, admittedly the guy was a douche, but you need to realize you aren't such a catch either.
Isn't it so exhausting?? Once I went on a date with a painfully nice guy who, in his desperation for conversational topics, wound up giving me a mini-lecture on Genghis Khan and the Silk Road. I kid you not. I felt so bad for him that I pretended that I'd learned something new that night. I'm so glad I asked for a coffee + pastry first date - at least he didn't pay for my dinner for nothing.
@@andrewwong8932 I agree, interviewing vibes are not pleasant. I'm a woman and if the conversation is only about asking eachother questions I feel like I'm unable to be myself and flow with him. A spontaneous question here and there is fine but dating is finding a genuine connection it's not a job application. To be so critical and judgmental from the start is a no go for me. I guess it's not about gender but character / communication style and taste.
I’ve been on bumble for a longgggg time like since it first came out and let me tell you, the quality of men that has been on there since I started versus now has gone downhill so much it’s not even funny. Like at this point people download these apps with the intention just to hook up completely disregarding the meaning of meeting new people just because and being inconsiderate to people that are seriously attempting to find a significant other. It’s awful.
The pets portion of the story reminded me of one of the worst Bumble dates I've been on. I met up with this girl for coffee and she lied about her age and looked nothing like her photos. That wasn't the worst part, she admitted she has 6 children and said "but we don't talk about them." and then randomly she told me she has over 300 pet fish and photos of each one. And proceeded to show me every fish. We finished our coffees and she said "well that was nice, but you didn't seem to own any fish so I don't like you, won't be talking to you again." And drove off.
I think she did the right thing. She was cordial until she could get away. He was clearly an egotistical trainer that could possibly be stronger than her. I just know of more than one instance where guys who were turned down on a date lashed out & got violent. This is not a sitcom... I personally think she did the safest thing.
Another way would have been pretending you're going to get something , then just run like mad away from him. Sometimes when you're met with that much disrespect ... it's best to just leave.
You do make a really good point that I’ve never pin pointed out that makes sense~ you say that his looks were basically his key into getting girls and that would do it...like you can be the hottest guy and yet not be able to spark a conversation and be the dead beat in the room! Like you needs to be able to communicate because women do go for the brain too
Yes exactly, which also shows that it must work for him on other girls because he relies on his looks so much. Just hope others out there realize their worth and don't settle for just a pretty face!
No....this is for a rarity of women that looks like this lady. Any other “average” chick would not think this way man. Just a thought. If he acted like this to 90% of women, he’s won. But to women who as attractive as this lady, it’s a different ball game. Just my thought. Hilarious story tho lol.
Why do women ask to pay? I’m not offering to pay for anything! Unless I need to make a point. 🤷🏽♀️ but you didn’t like hm anyways why bother. But I would’ve been left.
Thank you for telling this story! I have a problem with standing up for myself and I constantly make up excuses for the bad behavior of others, and I really shouldn't because those assholes know exactly what they are doing! In my mind I'm like "This is a one time, they didn't mean it..." but it just keeps happening and happening and since I don't make enough of a fuss about the horrible things they do they think that it's acceptable. They think that this is our dynamic now, they do sh*tty things and I'm supposed to take it and not get angry about it, because me getting angry is just me overreacting according to them.
As a 43-year-old man, I feel compelled to share my perspective on an interesting topic that recently surfaced in my social media feed. While I understand that societal norms may have evolved over the years, I believe it is essential to maintain certain traditional values, particularly in the context of social interactions. In my personal experience, I have never found it appropriate to ask a date or even a female friend to split the bill during a meal. This is not solely a matter of financial responsibility but also a reflection of my upbringing and the values instilled in me. I firmly believe that the gentleman should always take the initiative and cover the expenses, regardless of the nature of the relationship. I recognize that this perspective may not align with contemporary social norms, but I believe it is crucial to uphold certain courtesies and traditions that contribute to a harmonious and respectful society.
Bad date, wasn’t even the word!!! Lol that’s crazy... I need to tell my crazy dates stories.... I’m glad you are safe and you know your worth... ❤️❤️❤️
You saved the day!! I have been watching these other UA-camrs telling their stories THE WORST WAY POSSIBLE!! How many "likes" can you put in one freaking sentence. You are gifted with natural beauty, street smarts, and great story telling skills. Thank you for sharing your story.
Right , I was watching one who said "whatever, whatever" every other sentence. Then there was one who was trying to say "blah, blah" (meaning that someone was speaking aimlessly) but instead kept saying "blase', blase' ". I finally asked her in the comments if she even knew what the word blase' meant.
Came for the laughs, stayed for the drama, left with just feeling so so bad for you hun. Sorry this happened. He's the worst kind of date!!! I'm so glad you learned from this though ♥️
I had many dates on bumble and had so many bad dates but my last date on quarantine was so bittersweet and still mad at myself for going out with losers from dating apps
Good story. Honestly, you hit the nail on the head early in this story. He was disappointed but didn't want to abandon you on the date. it's not a reason to act like a jerk, but I pretty sure that's why he wasn't talking and being rude. He's also more than likely a narcissist.
Definitely! He was disappointed, but also probably still wanted to see if he could at least "get some" from the date. Not worth either of our time unfortunately
6:21 99% of dates ive been on are like this, also friendships, I carry the whole conversation and come up with topic ideas, Its exhausting i don't return calls anymore or hangout because its a literal mental CHORE !!!
Tariq M. Shaukat President of Bumble is reported to have said "Most customers are social misfits and 'undateables' that signup to Bumble's app and they couldn't get a date if they paid for someone to keep them company. Ironically, these are the people that spend the most money on the site." Good to see the company ethos promoted in such fine style by the head honcho.
He rolled his eyes so hard he saw his brain!!!! I'm dying of laughter!!! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I just got back from weird date... Feeling uncomfortable so searched for other ppl's stories. This really helped me so thank you!
Girl don’t beat yourself up , if you were in a situation where you were alone in a parking garage , and he has the audacity to ask you something like that, then he’s got something wrong with him. Let’s say you did the “you’re an asshole” and smack him and he gets violent with you. He clearly has no respect for women or people for that matter. I think you did the right thing just making an excuse to keep things light and got out of that situation okay. There are women who have been killed for rejecting a mans advances. Even though the dramatic exit sounded nice in theory, you still were in a dangerous situation and it could have been horribly wrong. Sad but true . It’s good that you learned from it but sometimes you just have to get out of the situation alive. Thanks for sharing that story so we all can learn from it!! ❤️ New Subscriber ✨
The more I hear such dating stories, the more I realize how blessed I am with my ability to start a conversation out of nothing, and keep it going for as long as I want... be it with a stranger at a gas station, or a date with an awkwardly quiet girl. I can break the ice with almost anybody, and sometimes I'm a chatter box. One time, I went on a date with a girl who wouldn't stop talking about herself, and I mean WOULD NOT STOP! And, every time I'd take that quick breath you take before you wanna say something, she'd go back at it again, before I can throw a word in. After 30 minutes of blowing my ears off, she has the audacity to say "So, are you gonna start talking or do I have to carry the conversation? Cause I've been carrying the conversation here, and it's kind of a turn off." Bro, what conversation!? It was just you talking, and I stopped listening after like 9 minutes. I had so many things to say during her 30-minute presentation, but she wouldn't stop talking. After she said this, my mind was blown away, she destroyed the vibe, and my level of attraction to her went from 90% to like 3%. I said "No, I have nothing to say to you, and I won't be turning you on." She then, out of the blue, became super flirty, and I mean SUPER. After our first and only date, I kept her as a friend, and a few months later she deleted me off her social media. That little weirdo. Btw, Jacy, you look a bit like Shakira.
I once went on a date with a guy where all he did was stare at me and watch me eat. I basically interviewed him because he didn't talk at all, just stared at me, and I felt guilty that he payed for my food, but he insisted. It was strange. After, he just drove me back home in silence, while, I, again, talked to him. I tried to be really cheerful and happy in disposition and he was completely different in-person than he was when he was talking to me through text. THE STRANGEST DATE, I've EVER been on.
Wow what a disgusting dude! Everything about him so bad, constant complainer, rude to service workers, no respect to use a trash can and a pervert!!! Ughhh. I don’t even like bumble. Thank you for this video, wish I saw it years ago!
Wow, that's a funny story Jacy, and this guy Adam is quite cringing, that's not how you go on a proper date with a girl, I mean what a douchebag this guy was, I learned a lot of things from this video, I think this made me a better man and I better human being to be honest, to tell you the truth I've never dated before I know it sounds insane because I'm 34 years old, but this is a good lesson to learn from and I think you for telling your stories, I don't know if I'll date, maybe someday IDK but I'm glad you stood your ground and let that jerk know is not gonna go down, but most men like him are smug and it's unfortunate, I'm sorry about that Jacy, but at least you learn something new and you know your worth as a woman, I give you even more respect that you deserve.
Pretty much EVERYTHING that you shared about your dinner experience BEFORE him NOT tipping was an ABSOLUTE dealbreaker. You definitely deserve better than him. 😑
Sounds to me like he acted just like a girl who knows/thinks she's very attractive. Just assumes the other party should do all the work, because she (in this case, he) is doing the other person a favor for just being there. That's just equality, I guess.
im SEVEN minutes into the video and im already cringing omg i am so sorry you had this experience. i probably would have just started laughing when he took out his phone because i have the habit of laughing in really bad times LOL this one is definitely something to look back at and laugh about hahahahaha
@@JacyErin hahaha yes you live and learn! sometimes you have to actually live through it to believe there are people who actually act like this in the world lmaooo but im glad you never reached out again!
Why the fuck would he ask u to meet him at a fancy restaurant and get annoyed with u when u dont have all the money in cash and didnt appreciate the fact that you were very nice to give him what u had🙄 that dude had nothing going for him, being a personal trainor is nothing
You are beautiful and I enjoy your stories. Some words of advice young lady- He is supposed to pay for the date. NEVER, EVER offer to pay. You're the prize. Glad you're safe. Stay away from online dating . Try focusing on your hobbies and talents, and you will attract someone.
Jacy it's too bad you're in California. I was brought up to respect women. to treat them with kindness. Did you realize he threw such a fit about paying for dinner and rolling his eyes he was trying to make you feel guilty. he had the mindset that you owed him. therefore, the bathroom request at the end. I know you probably felt safe with him, but never put yourself in a position like that with a person you just met. date rape is a very real possibility with a narcissist.
No offense but its LA its known for stuck-up people so the dude was where he needed to be. It sounds like you are different and it sounds like you need to go to the south get a southern gent. This guy makes the whole male species look bad. SMH.
@@JacyErin Well, he was really good-looking and that's what YOU found important. Are you getting my drift? I mean, God forbid he be slightly less handsome but also be a nicer person.
If you think $100 is a lot of money you shouldn’t be dating. You should be working. Also. A tip isnt standard. Bad service doesn’t get tipped (not saying it was bad service in this case) servers are not entitled to a tip.
I've been trying to find a cool new youtuber to watch for so long, happy I found you! I really enjoy your vibe and it makes my day to listen to your videos while I feel lonely! Keep being you!
Girl, im sorry your date sucked ! Honestly he does not seem like a good guy! I've been aserver for about 6 years now and I can definitely understand how annoying it is for customer complaints and not tipping on a 100 dollar bill. You're absolutely a gem, keeping being you. You' def find happiness!
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I found your channel through another video but this one spoke to me. Thanks for your humble Bumble story and your message of self-worth. Wow that guy, haha! Sucks you had suffer through but the wisdom you gained is immeasurable!
Omg I can’t believe he accepted your forty dollars! What ever happened to courtship or being a gentleman? Rolling his eyes at you then expecting sex in the restroom? Don’t feel bad for making an excuse and mentioning you had your period, at least you said “No” imagine you would have been so shy to say no back then and had sex with him just to pay your half of the restaurant or because you felt bad? No girl, you did great
Had to pick my jaw up off the floor…. See like, first I was expecting something like he tried to lick the melted ice cream off your hands right? Then I was thinking oh, he says something weird on the way to your car AFTER y’all washed your hands. But “back door” in a public toilet…. Ewwwww!!!!
To be a strong, courageous, dignified, intelligent woman of integrity has nothing in common with a need to identify and label yourself in the fad of "Feminism". To believe otherwise only proves the level of conditioning you've absorbed. You are a lovely young lady, give this some sincere thought.
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R you mixed race ?? Also was the guy blind ur gorgeous 🤣
*"I served for over 10yrs".....LOL, you did an entry level job for 10yrs and go on a date with $40 obviously expecting the guy to pay, he should have left your minimum wage ass at the web page, women are supposed to be EQUAL, how about having higher motivation and use your EQUALITY to do more than ask "You want fries with that"*
And as far as tipping goes I am not from a country that tips unless unusual requests are accounted for as the COMPANY pays salaries not the customer, admittedly the guy was a douche, but you need to realize you aren't such a catch either.
Can a brotha get a chance it worked for mom?lol ;)
I will go on a date with you but you must pay for everything LoL hehehe.
I just went on a date with a guy where I felt I was interviewing him too lmao thank you for this
Ugh that's the worst, conversation has to be a two way street 😅
Isn't it so exhausting?? Once I went on a date with a painfully nice guy who, in his desperation for conversational topics, wound up giving me a mini-lecture on Genghis Khan and the Silk Road. I kid you not. I felt so bad for him that I pretended that I'd learned something new that night. I'm so glad I asked for a coffee + pastry first date - at least he didn't pay for my dinner for nothing.
@@sargassopearl 😂
Women who interview men on dates are immediately disqualified
@@andrewwong8932 I agree, interviewing vibes are not pleasant. I'm a woman and if the conversation is only about asking eachother questions I feel like I'm unable to be myself and flow with him.
A spontaneous question here and there is fine but dating is finding a genuine connection it's not a job application.
To be so critical and judgmental from the start is a no go for me.
I guess it's not about gender but character / communication style and taste.
I already hate him lol I would’ve just told him I don’t like your attitude bye
Haha I've definitely gained that kind of self confidence over the years, wish I could tell that to my former self lol
I’ve been on bumble for a longgggg time like since it first came out and let me tell you, the quality of men that has been on there since I started versus now has gone downhill so much it’s not even funny. Like at this point people download these apps with the intention just to hook up completely disregarding the meaning of meeting new people just because and being inconsiderate to people that are seriously attempting to find a significant other. It’s awful.
yep. got off the app for this reason. waste of time on low value people.
You look like a single mom. That would make you a 3/10 at best. Lmao
@@xdandychiggins Did the quality go down, or did your standards go up due to the sheer attention you were getting?
Lol stay single hun
The pets portion of the story reminded me of one of the worst Bumble dates I've been on. I met up with this girl for coffee and she lied about her age and looked nothing like her photos. That wasn't the worst part, she admitted she has 6 children and said "but we don't talk about them." and then randomly she told me she has over 300 pet fish and photos of each one. And proceeded to show me every fish. We finished our coffees and she said "well that was nice, but you didn't seem to own any fish so I don't like you, won't be talking to you again." And drove off.
Okay wut?!?! Sounds like you need to make your own Bumble storytime, because that is absolutely insane 🤣 and 6 kids?? Yikes!
5 dislikes...I guess that Adam guy has 5 accounts. Lol
for reals lol
This is a great story time. I hope that you’ll do more!
Thank you! My dating life has been wild, so I have a few more up my sleeve :)
@@JacyErin Are you still single?
Damn girl, WHY did you put yourself through all that? I'd have called it at the RESTAURANT!
I wish I had the self confidence back then to do just that 😅 I've grown alot since then, that's for sure!
I think she did the right thing. She was cordial until she could get away. He was clearly an egotistical trainer that could possibly be stronger than her. I just know of more than one instance where guys who were turned down on a date lashed out & got violent. This is not a sitcom... I personally think she did the safest thing.
That guy waved so many red flags 🚩. Im glad you liked the octopus dish ! Octopus is very yummy!
Yeah, I'm glad I've grown up and have learned to recognize them sooner. And also glad I grew up to appreciate seafood more 😅
There's a touching documentary I recommend "My Octopus Teacher".
Even though the way you said no to him wasn’t ideal, the important thing was you said no at all. Good job!
Another way would have been pretending you're going to get something , then just run like mad away from him. Sometimes when you're met with that much disrespect ... it's best to just leave.
You have a real gift for storytelling!! This was unreal 🥴. Would love to see more stories from you💜
Thank you!! Sadly I do have more dating horror stories 😅 I'll be sure to film those soon!
Big yikes I would mentally clocked out at the being rude to the waitress thing
You do make a really good point that I’ve never pin pointed out that makes sense~ you say that his looks were basically his key into getting girls and that would do it...like you can be the hottest guy and yet not be able to spark a conversation and be the dead beat in the room! Like you needs to be able to communicate because women do go for the brain too
Yes exactly, which also shows that it must work for him on other girls because he relies on his looks so much. Just hope others out there realize their worth and don't settle for just a pretty face!
No....this is for a rarity of women that looks like this lady. Any other “average” chick would not think this way man. Just a thought. If he acted like this to 90% of women, he’s won. But to women who as attractive as this lady, it’s a different ball game. Just my thought. Hilarious story tho lol.
No, I do same thing when girl is fat, its better if girl reject me. When she is fit then I am nice to her
I ve known a lot of women who not only didn't care if a guy had a brain they didnt care how bad he treated them --stupid
Sorry your date sucked! You’re beautiful 😍
That guy sounds disgusting!
Ugh literally the worst 😅
I can still remember a time (1970s) when a woman was considered an Old Maid if still single and without family by late twenties.
Times have changed!
@@JacyErin Mother Nature didn’t get that memo.
@@andre1987eph if you're into underaged girls just say it and go lol
Why do women ask to pay? I’m not offering to pay for anything! Unless I need to make a point. 🤷🏽♀️ but you didn’t like hm anyways why bother. But I would’ve been left.
yes! then he treated her like shit I would’ve left him where he stands 🤷🏾♀️😂
Thank you for telling this story! I have a problem with standing up for myself and I constantly make up excuses for the bad behavior of others, and I really shouldn't because those assholes know exactly what they are doing! In my mind I'm like "This is a one time, they didn't mean it..." but it just keeps happening and happening and since I don't make enough of a fuss about the horrible things they do they think that it's acceptable. They think that this is our dynamic now, they do sh*tty things and I'm supposed to take it and not get angry about it, because me getting angry is just me overreacting according to them.
That was one of my biggest problems too, it took a while to gain the confidence to know my own standards. But just keep standing up for yourself!
This date was a narcissist!!!!
As a 43-year-old man, I feel compelled to share my perspective on an interesting topic that recently surfaced in my social media feed. While I understand that societal norms may have evolved over the years, I believe it is essential to maintain certain traditional values, particularly in the context of social interactions.
In my personal experience, I have never found it appropriate to ask a date or even a female friend to split the bill during a meal. This is not solely a matter of financial responsibility but also a reflection of my upbringing and the values instilled in me. I firmly believe that the gentleman should always take the initiative and cover the expenses, regardless of the nature of the relationship.
I recognize that this perspective may not align with contemporary social norms, but I believe it is crucial to uphold certain courtesies and traditions that contribute to a harmonious and respectful society.
Bad date, wasn’t even the word!!! Lol that’s crazy... I need to tell my crazy dates stories.... I’m glad you are safe and you know your worth... ❤️❤️❤️
Haha let me know if you ever post one! They're so fun to watch!
Yikes... Well, here's your bottom! It can't obviously EVER EVER be worse! I got such a terrible image. The b.. Line seal it!!
First of all, you are GORGEOUS!! 😍 And I diedddd at 15:00
Thank you!! Stay safe bumbling out there lol
You saved the day!! I have been watching these other UA-camrs telling their stories THE WORST WAY POSSIBLE!! How many "likes" can you put in one freaking sentence. You are gifted with natural beauty, street smarts, and great story telling skills. Thank you for sharing your story.
You are too sweet!!! Thanks for checking out this crazy story 🤗
Right , I was watching one who said "whatever, whatever" every other sentence. Then there was one who was trying to say "blah, blah" (meaning that someone was speaking aimlessly) but instead kept saying "blase', blase' ". I finally asked her in the comments if she even knew what the word blase' meant.
oof once on a not so great date my date didn’t tip the waitress so i found her and begged for her cashapp so i could tip her
Oh my gosh, I wish I would've thought of that!!!
Came for the laughs, stayed for the drama, left with just feeling so so bad for you hun. Sorry this happened. He's the worst kind of date!!! I'm so glad you learned from this though ♥️
Worst date: just got back from it. He paid for the bill early and said, "I'm tired, and I have some stuff to do."
LOL. I'm mortified.
Omg 💀💀 dont be mortified, at least you didnt waste any more time of the date!!
I had many dates on bumble and had so many bad dates but my last date on quarantine was so bittersweet and still mad at myself for going out with losers from dating apps
Losers? What kind of men could be regarded as losers? Just asking...
@@francisduran9220broke men, cheating men, disrespectful men, unintelligent men
Carousel rider spotted
Good story. Honestly, you hit the nail on the head early in this story. He was disappointed but didn't want to abandon you on the date. it's not a reason to act like a jerk, but I pretty sure that's why he wasn't talking and being rude. He's also more than likely a narcissist.
Definitely! He was disappointed, but also probably still wanted to see if he could at least "get some" from the date. Not worth either of our time unfortunately
This is why u should meet new people with friends first. Just to be safe.I don’t have friends so I’m screwed.
I thought you were like 18 but you said you've been serving for over 10 years so you are probably in your 20's, you are so pretty and glowing omg!!!
27! But hoping to stay young forever haha
thanks for this story, i really enjoyed this. please keep em coming. 100 dollar tab and no tip, how embarrassing.
Just posted another bad date story!
Just came back for the worst date of my life, this has cheer me up. Btw love your makeup!
Jeez that date just kept getting worse.
6:21 99% of dates ive been on are like this, also friendships, I carry the whole conversation and come up with topic ideas, Its exhausting i don't return calls anymore or hangout because its a literal mental CHORE !!!
“And homeboy...”
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Tariq M. Shaukat President of Bumble is reported to have said "Most
customers are social misfits and 'undateables' that signup to Bumble's
app and they couldn't get a date if they paid for someone to keep them
company. Ironically, these are the people that spend the most money on
the site." Good to see the company ethos promoted in such fine style by
the head honcho.
Aww honey the old me would not have cut a date like this off either. What a turd. Love your storytimes Jacy xx
It's all about growth and learning your own standards, so I'm glad I'm not the only one. Thanks so much :)
He rolled his eyes so hard he saw his brain!!!! I'm dying of laughter!!!
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I just got back from weird date... Feeling uncomfortable so searched for other ppl's stories. This really helped me so thank you!
Sorry to hear you had a bad date, but happy to have helped out however I could. Good luck out there in this crazy dating world ♥
Girl don’t beat yourself up , if you were in a situation where you were alone in a parking garage , and he has the audacity to ask you something like that, then he’s got something wrong with him. Let’s say you did the “you’re an asshole” and smack him and he gets violent with you. He clearly has no respect for women or people for that matter. I think you did the right thing just making an excuse to keep things light and got out of that situation okay. There are women who have been killed for rejecting a mans advances. Even though the dramatic exit sounded nice in theory, you still were in a dangerous situation and it could have been horribly wrong. Sad but true . It’s good that you learned from it but sometimes you just have to get out of the situation alive. Thanks for sharing that story so we all can learn from it!! ❤️ New Subscriber ✨
The more I hear such dating stories, the more I realize how blessed I am with my ability to start a conversation out of nothing, and keep it going for as long as I want... be it with a stranger at a gas station, or a date with an awkwardly quiet girl. I can break the ice with almost anybody, and sometimes I'm a chatter box.
One time, I went on a date with a girl who wouldn't stop talking about herself, and I mean WOULD NOT STOP! And, every time I'd take that quick breath you take before you wanna say something, she'd go back at it again, before I can throw a word in. After 30 minutes of blowing my ears off, she has the audacity to say "So, are you gonna start talking or do I have to carry the conversation? Cause I've been carrying the conversation here, and it's kind of a turn off." Bro, what conversation!? It was just you talking, and I stopped listening after like 9 minutes.
I had so many things to say during her 30-minute presentation, but she wouldn't stop talking. After she said this, my mind was blown away, she destroyed the vibe, and my level of attraction to her went from 90% to like 3%. I said "No, I have nothing to say to you, and I won't be turning you on." She then, out of the blue, became super flirty, and I mean SUPER. After our first and only date, I kept her as a friend, and a few months later she deleted me off her social media. That little weirdo.
Btw, Jacy, you look a bit like Shakira.
This made me laugh
@@gabygaby9911 A hundred bad days make a hundred good stories, haha!
My number one turn-off is dating a man who never asks me one single question about myself. I won’t date him again.
I once went on a date with a guy where all he did was stare at me and watch me eat. I basically interviewed him because he didn't talk at all, just stared at me, and I felt guilty that he payed for my food, but he insisted. It was strange. After, he just drove me back home in silence, while, I, again, talked to him. I tried to be really cheerful and happy in disposition and he was completely different in-person than he was when he was talking to me through text. THE STRANGEST DATE, I've EVER been on.
I've had that happen before. So charismatic over text but dead in person. Sociopath or a narcissist 😂
Every woman friend of mine has said the same thing: never date a personal trainer. They've only trained their bodies, not personality or brain.
BACKDOOR! 😂😂😂😂😂
ALWAYS look up the restaurant beforehand. And you're allowed to suggested a slightly more low-key one.
Wow what a disgusting dude! Everything about him so bad, constant complainer, rude to service workers, no respect to use a trash can and a pervert!!! Ughhh. I don’t even like bumble. Thank you for this video, wish I saw it years ago!
Personal trainers are ALWAYS a red flag. Trust me.
Any person acting rude to a server is AUTOMATICALLY a turn-off. Had a woman do that once; never looked back.
“Want to” I’m dead lmao 😂😂😂😂🤣💀💀💀💀... boy bye
I simply cannot believe you have so few subscribers... You look so pretty, nice and friendly
Aww thank you so much! I'll get up there in subs one day 🤗
Wow, that's a funny story Jacy, and this guy Adam is quite cringing, that's not how you go on a proper date with a girl, I mean what a douchebag this guy was, I learned a lot of things from this video, I think this made me a better man and I better human being to be honest, to tell you the truth I've never dated before I know it sounds insane because I'm 34 years old, but this is a good lesson to learn from and I think you for telling your stories, I don't know if I'll date, maybe someday IDK but I'm glad you stood your ground and let that jerk know is not gonna go down, but most men like him are smug and it's unfortunate, I'm sorry about that Jacy, but at least you learn something new and you know your worth as a woman, I give you even more respect that you deserve.
Defenitley should have gone on a coffee date😁for the first date..ive learned that the hard way..
Lesson definitely learned 😅
Pretty much EVERYTHING that you shared about your dinner experience BEFORE him NOT tipping was an ABSOLUTE dealbreaker. You definitely deserve better than him. 😑
Absolutely! Still disappointed in myself for letting it go on as long as it did, but lesson learned for sure!
Hahaha
Sounds to me like he acted just like a girl who knows/thinks she's very attractive. Just assumes the other party should do all the work, because she (in this case, he) is doing the other person a favor for just being there.
That's just equality, I guess.
I don’t think women want equality. It looks like they want special treatment
im SEVEN minutes into the video and im already cringing omg i am so sorry you had this experience. i probably would have just started laughing when he took out his phone because i have the habit of laughing in really bad times LOL this one is definitely something to look back at and laugh about hahahahaha
now im 16 min into the video. ABSOLUTELY NOTTTTTT
@@milamaciel7669 Haha I'm embarrassed I let it go on for as long as it did. But hey, you live and learn!
@@JacyErin hahaha yes you live and learn! sometimes you have to actually live through it to believe there are people who actually act like this in the world lmaooo but im glad you never reached out again!
Why the fuck would he ask u to meet him at a fancy restaurant and get annoyed with u when u dont have all the money in cash and didnt appreciate the fact that you were very nice to give him what u had🙄
that dude had nothing going for him, being a personal trainor is nothing
Thank you for sharing this experience. Safety is important. Next time you can thank these types of guys for the viral story you're going to share. Lol
Women put up with men like this because of their looks. We need to stop rewarding bad behavior on both sides and the world will be better for it.
You are beautiful and I enjoy your stories. Some words of advice young lady- He is supposed to pay for the date. NEVER, EVER offer to pay. You're the prize. Glad you're safe. Stay away from online dating . Try focusing on your hobbies and talents, and you will attract someone.
O..M..G.. Love your work to this day in 2024
Jacy it's too bad you're in California. I was brought up to respect women. to treat them with kindness. Did you realize he threw such a fit about paying for dinner and rolling his eyes he was trying to make you feel guilty. he had the mindset that you owed him. therefore, the bathroom request at the end. I know you probably felt safe with him, but never put yourself in a position like that with a person you just met. date rape is a very real possibility with a narcissist.
You’re really pretty! Ewww he’s pathetic, he didn’t even tip?!?! Great story time; Thanks for sharing.
Thank-you for sharing your story Jacy! It's really horrible the way some people can behave sometimes. Talk about a walking red flag! 🚩🚩🚩
Your personality is so fun his loss
We need more bad date stories!
Another Bad Date Story Time is up now!
Who doesn’t tip?!?!?!! I live in a country where the servers get a living wage and I would still never tip below 10% 🤷🏼♀️ surely it’s common decency?
No offense but its LA its known for stuck-up people so the dude was where he needed to be. It sounds like you are different and it sounds like you need to go to the south get a southern gent. This guy makes the whole male species look bad. SMH.
Just don't go to Atlanta, Jacy. Lol.
I can tell you have great essays because this story was sooo put together. Literally, I could never🤣🤣🤣
Sounds as though he may be spectrum to some degree, not your fault.
So you dated a guy who thought he was God’s gift to women. Hahahahaha nice!!!
Haha exactly! I wish I had the confidence back then to humble him more 😅 but I hope he's matured since then!
@@JacyErin Well, he was really good-looking and that's what YOU found important. Are you getting my drift? I mean, God forbid he be slightly less handsome but also be a nicer person.
@@jeffw1267 you're projecting. Who broke your heart?
And omg gross ..that back door comment is plain ass 🤮
If you think $100 is a lot of money you shouldn’t be dating. You should be working. Also. A tip isnt standard. Bad service doesn’t get tipped (not saying it was bad service in this case) servers are not entitled to a tip.
Nah I have a great job, just would rather spend $100 on things other than food, especially on a first date
That last comment he made was golden. Holy fuck that’s unbelievable.
Me at 15:58 : OWH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Btw i LOVED you! Keep on making story times ure super fun
Haha thank you so much 🤗🤗
All I can say is WOW!!!! Good message at the end pertaining to dating!!
Thank you! I always try to offer advice with my stories lol
Back door for a reason lol wow. Only one reason yes, an exit door.
I've been trying to find a cool new youtuber to watch for so long, happy I found you! I really enjoy your vibe and it makes my day to listen to your videos while I feel lonely! Keep being you!
Wow, thank you so much!! I will be happy to keep you company :)
Oooooooohkay. Can we talk for just a minute about how freaking stunning this lady is!? 😳👸🏼
You’re far too kind Tessa 🤗
It's funny you mention that because she looks like the woman who trims my hair at the hair salon. Her name is Tracy and it rhymes with her name. Haha.
Your voice sounds similar to the famous TV Twins Tia and Tamara mowry lol
You should date vegetarians
Girl, im sorry your date sucked ! Honestly he does not seem like a good guy! I've been aserver for about 6 years now and I can definitely understand how annoying it is for customer complaints and not tipping on a 100 dollar bill. You're absolutely a gem, keeping being you. You' def find happiness!
Thanks so much! Definitely learned a lot from that date, and have certainly raised my standards 😅
Sweetheart you are a 💎, he's on the down low! The end. Also keep you a lil key chain pepper spray or small knife.
U R GORGEOUS
Thank you so much 😭
Wow. You weren't kidding when you said that you about to deliver the coup de gras. He definitely deserved the schmuck of the year award.
And you are super pretty.. f him
Sad thing is this guy probably got with a lot more girls after. I hope not though.
That was an amazing story.😂 💕 definitely took my mind off this toothache I’m having . Thanks for sharing! 🙏🏾
Toothache?? Yikes, hope you feel better soon ❤❤
Try Theraneem Naturals Brand Tooth oil...just rub some oil on your finger and spread it lightly on the affected area. Sprouts & Mothers Market carries it. Hope you feel better and Avoid Sugar and Soda at all costs!
You went for ice cream! After ??
I was not a smart or confident cookie back then. I've definitely grown alot since this awful date!
I found your channel through another video but this one spoke to me. Thanks for your humble Bumble story and your message of self-worth. Wow that guy, haha! Sucks you had suffer through but the wisdom you gained is immeasurable!
i want a pic of him so i can avoid his asz
Omg I can’t believe he accepted your forty dollars! What ever happened to courtship or being a gentleman? Rolling his eyes at you then expecting sex in the restroom? Don’t feel bad for making an excuse and mentioning you had your period, at least you said “No” imagine you would have been so shy to say no back then and had sex with him just to pay your half of the restaurant or because you felt bad? No girl, you did great
Thank you! I have definitely grown as a woman since then, but still proud I handled it like I did 😭
Great storytelling, thanks. Keep on sharing your life adventures.
Wow the levels this journey went to. Never gonna unsee the way this ended, from how it began.
He was not interested in you.
Agreed, as I mention a few times in the vid
Had to pick my jaw up off the floor…. See like, first I was expecting something like he tried to lick the melted ice cream off your hands right? Then I was thinking oh, he says something weird on the way to your car AFTER y’all washed your hands. But “back door” in a public toilet…. Ewwwww!!!!
To be a strong, courageous, dignified, intelligent woman of integrity has nothing in common with a need to identify and label yourself in the fad of "Feminism". To believe otherwise only proves the level of conditioning you've absorbed. You are a lovely young lady, give this some sincere thought.
Ok, first - you are really beautiful 💜
Second - this guy is ridiculous, but either way glad you had this experience, you live you learn😅
wowza you are too kind!! but definitely, lesson learned haha
I've seen that as an issue with some guys where they don't ask questions and just stay quiet if I don't talk.... how do they make friends????
They don't.
You saw for yourself, they are the quiet types.
We are not mind readers here.
no, it's a part of succumbing to the bad boy/break up loop and believing that one day you'll get that bad boy to wife you up 😂🤣