How We Met + TELLING MY BOYFRIEND I'M TRANSGENDER!

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  •  3 роки тому +54

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    • @AutomationDnD
      @AutomationDnD 3 роки тому +2

      Thanx Mathilda, this was a great story.

    • @aurora3655
      @aurora3655 3 роки тому +1

      I don't see you as transgender. I think that term implies a third gender. An alternate gender. I see you as someone who transitioned.

    • @bigkj2.027
      @bigkj2.027 Рік тому

      How amazing

    • @tonypatino1765
      @tonypatino1765 20 днів тому

      ​@aurora3655 I have no idea how you came to that conclusion mate.

  • @37parman
    @37parman 4 роки тому +884

    As a 52 yr old cis man, I want you to know there are people like me who understand. All the more power to your happy journey.

    • @valerievancouver365
      @valerievancouver365 4 роки тому +48

      Thank you for your comment.
      It does matter a lot to us. We are the same generation. I am 50. I was 17 back in 1987. There are good open minded men. Not all ✓✓✓

    • @crazyshemshem7897
      @crazyshemshem7897 4 роки тому +8

      Oof when you're that old you'd settle with a guy huh?

    • @MrZatyro
      @MrZatyro 4 роки тому +27

      @@crazyshemshem7897 this is unironically the new zoomer meta. "If you ain't me, you gay". You behave like soi rappers lol

    • @crazyshemshem7897
      @crazyshemshem7897 4 роки тому +6

      @@MrZatyro what rapper? All I'm saying when you're a certain age you would settle for a guy

    • @AlexSmall71
      @AlexSmall71 4 роки тому

      37parman I'm with you, bro! I'm totally understand and i see good girl and god man. The transformation is just process, it ended and then you have woman (man) at the end/result of it.

  • @vrigenscaval8698
    @vrigenscaval8698 4 роки тому +202

    As a Filipino transgender woman in Tinder, I have placed it in my profile for men to read. I always believed that being honest at the onset can either make or break the momentum.

    • @winglessfairy564
      @winglessfairy564 4 роки тому +5

      Yess 👍

    • @danielbaltutis4071
      @danielbaltutis4071 3 роки тому +6

      @@watchingyoutube9240 for reproductive reasons

    • @dayanamh
      @dayanamh 3 роки тому +5

      @@danielbaltutis4071 but people are not thinking about reproducing right away. It's like saying a woman or a man who don't want to have children have to put on the profile they don't want kids, or a sterile woman to put on her profile she can't have children. That's way too personal, you have to first chat with the person to know about those details. Now, that's if they already had the surgery and everything, otherwise I don't know, I guess is personal choice how they want to disclose it.

    • @kingmonde
      @kingmonde 3 роки тому +15

      @@watchingyoutube9240 a Trans woman is a Trans woman, and there's nothing wrong with that. They're not just women.
      I love trans people, but the whole Trans women are women thing is just setting you up for failure.

    • @tdns01
      @tdns01 3 роки тому +8

      @@watchingyoutube9240 I can see that argument, but the reality is that it’s a big part of who someone is. At some point it seems like if you don’t tell someone that you’re trans, you’re withholding a big piece of yourself. Many trans people don’t even transition until they’re adults so it would be kind of weird to be in a relationship with someone and never bring that up. Also - what if you find out the person you’re with is transphobic? Wouldn’t you want to make sure they weren’t right away?

  • @Richard-Bullock
    @Richard-Bullock 4 роки тому +389

    You are a very lucky girl. Christian is gorgeous, and he clearly cares for you a lot.

  • @martinlf5034
    @martinlf5034 4 роки тому +975

    we love a man without a fragile masculinity

    • @ecostarr
      @ecostarr 4 роки тому +164

      Christian comes off as a really amazing, supportive guy. I think it's great that he said he is secure in his sexuality, cause that's a really important thing. Too many men are afraid of what other people will think.

    • @monimonimoni3082
      @monimonimoni3082 4 роки тому +10

      ecostarr yup ain’t that the truth

    • @phantasmo9998
      @phantasmo9998 4 роки тому +92

      Not wanting to bone a man that looks like a girl has nothing to do with being fragile. But if he's comfortable that's cool.

    • @jpratt8676
      @jpratt8676 4 роки тому +188

      @@phantasmo9998 but Matilda isn't a man who looks like a girl, she's a woman, who looks like a woman.

    • @femmegirl9933
      @femmegirl9933 4 роки тому +4

      Sam Lee Nobody asked you this. The comment section is of different topic. And here you're telling unnecessary and mismatched garbage. Everbody loves Mathilda. Case close...

  • @blackdahliagirl_
    @blackdahliagirl_ 3 роки тому +325

    She is beautiful. He is also beautiful. I am happy to see them develop their relationship. ❤️

    • @antheaamonini2536
      @antheaamonini2536 3 роки тому +2

      Really???

    • @y0me36
      @y0me36 3 роки тому +4

      @@antheaamonini2536 ?

    • @steviewondek
      @steviewondek 3 роки тому +22

      @@y0me36 Sadly many are jealous and begrudge others being happy, because they will never know what unconditional love is, or be in a caring, sharing, considerate, equal relationship like Mathilde and Christian, they are both lovely genuine people the world needs more like them.

    • @steviewondek
      @steviewondek 3 роки тому +12

      @ML F Jealous, poor didums 😭

    • @lorenzikellery7192
      @lorenzikellery7192 2 роки тому +4

      @@suzannel2414 Get a life terf.

  • @mayorofsimpleton5674
    @mayorofsimpleton5674 3 роки тому +141

    I’m a trans guy. Super scared I’ll never find someone. My biggest dream is to have a family, but it feels like no one could ever love someone like me.

    • @fredpoesie2429
      @fredpoesie2429 3 роки тому +4

      😘

    • @nickandbrennan
      @nickandbrennan 3 роки тому +14

      I’m a trans woman, I feel you

    • @sophiemac1632
      @sophiemac1632 3 роки тому +19

      You will find the right person, don't worry. Lot's of people are not bothered about us being trans if they really like us. 😊

    • @mayorofsimpleton5674
      @mayorofsimpleton5674 3 роки тому +5

      @@sophiemac1632 I hope you’re right. :) ❤️

    • @jasminedavis5680
      @jasminedavis5680 3 роки тому +1

      Are u straight?

  • @dvdert6
    @dvdert6 3 роки тому +155

    I put trans on my profile, cuz i dont feel comfortable without letting them know. But then there are men who don’t READ profiles haha

    • @megarabolte7950
      @megarabolte7950 3 роки тому +11

      So relatableeeeee

    • @rustysealey2963
      @rustysealey2963 3 роки тому +10

      Cool.... always good to be up front....you go girl 🙂

    • @odette5031
      @odette5031 3 роки тому +2

      Omg same om Badoo

    • @finessecompeletion5581
      @finessecompeletion5581 3 роки тому +14

      I fucking read make sure I dating a REAL WOMAN NOT A IMPOSTER

    • @pacmanmcgavin7847
      @pacmanmcgavin7847 3 роки тому +10

      @@finessecompeletion5581 same dude. I would never dare a trans woman

  • @lesleygarvs4640
    @lesleygarvs4640 3 роки тому +73

    You look great together! I think is time to open our minds and love people without judgement... God bless you❤️😍😍😍🙏

    • @daisyjosephine768
      @daisyjosephine768 3 роки тому

      thank you for spelling judgement correctly

    • @edwardnigma6568
      @edwardnigma6568 3 роки тому +1

      You cant exclude judgement and try to include God. God judges everyone and his judgement is perfect.

  • @henrytruong2596
    @henrytruong2596 3 роки тому +63

    Best wishes to the both of you. I have to say, I'd be so lucky and honored to find someone like you. Hope you guys stay safe during these tough times with the pandemic. And on the side note, has anyone told you that you kinda look like Gal Gadot?

  • @halifaxdarkrecords1548
    @halifaxdarkrecords1548 4 роки тому +278

    This makes me smile so big 😭 y’all are so cute!

  • @shellcharles3633
    @shellcharles3633 3 роки тому +66

    Your videos are amazing. And he is how every guy should be.

    • @Maatrakha
      @Maatrakha 2 роки тому +2

      She*

    • @roundsdm
      @roundsdm 2 роки тому +1

      @@wghmnb9136 nope, a WOMAN living her TRUTH instead of letting ignorant people like you steal her life away from her for no goddamn reason.

    • @roundsdm
      @roundsdm 2 роки тому +1

      @@wghmnb9136 you’re forsuuuure the weirdo if you came to the comment section of this gorgeous girl’s video just to pretend she’s a “man” - which you’re only even aware of because she was brave enough to let the internet know that she was born a male so she could combat the stereotypes of trans people that live in so many people’s dense heads.

    • @johnison9520
      @johnison9520 2 роки тому +3

      @@wghmnb9136
      I like u😂😂

    • @warangel9436
      @warangel9436 2 роки тому +1

      @@wghmnb9136 they can't, considering they completely ignore biology lol.

  • @starcourt_official
    @starcourt_official 3 роки тому +35

    As an open minded cis male, an attractive woman (whatever may fit your definition of the meaning) is exactly just that! As long as you’re a kind soul, that’s all that matters 🙂
    You guys make a cute couple, and congrats for finding one another!

    • @fadumayusuf9879
      @fadumayusuf9879 3 роки тому +6

      Then your gay

    • @starcourt_official
      @starcourt_official 3 роки тому +8

      @@fadumayusuf9879 Nah, I’m just not a transphobic piece of shit.

    • @babyc.3015
      @babyc.3015 3 роки тому +2

      Maybe you just don't want biological kids, and that's okay

    • @jsjsjsjajsj9928
      @jsjsjsjajsj9928 3 роки тому +1

      @@fadumayusuf9879 how is someone who is attracted to biological women (Yes also to transwomen he was majorly attracted to ciswomen) and only dates female looking people with vagina looking genitalia gay? Omg get a reality check genuinely!

  • @FioMioDesu
    @FioMioDesu 3 роки тому +43

    I started dating this Wonder girl who is transgender and our relationship just started, I became madly in love with her. I dated a few girls out there but her personality hit me before I even knew what happen. She did open up right away like you did but to me, I was having fun with her with our chat and the things we liked and now it doesn't really matter. I'm happy to to be with her and we only met online. Hopefully once covid is over, I can go meet her in real life. Wish me luck.

    • @deedee922
      @deedee922 Рік тому +3

      Update?

    • @melissareed3101
      @melissareed3101 Рік тому +3

      Yeah we need an update on that

    • @FioMioDesu
      @FioMioDesu Рік тому +5

      @@melissareed3101 the relationship lasted one and a half years. I always loved her and probably will hold her place in my heart but she broke up with me and I think it was because I was very serious about it and wanted to move to the next step but she broke my heart. It is what it is. But I was very faithful, never got into an argument and spent as much time into her as I could. For a guy who was straight, I think I did great but that's life, a relationship can't be one sided. Sorry for the bad ending to my story

    • @dion5804
      @dion5804 Рік тому +3

      ​@@FioMioDesuYou're very cute. All relationships are ways to get self-knowledge and maturity.

    • @FioMioDesu
      @FioMioDesu Рік тому

      @@dion5804 I think I gained a lot of experience. She was definitely someone who taught me a lot of things. Everyone has their own speed in a relationship, I learnt that loving someone with all your heart might not match with theirs even tho there is love in the air. I am on my next journey to love, in fact I'm in Vietnam on a family recommendation, she is very cute so far and I am providing as much room as possible but showing off my sweet and manly side :3

  • @amylapratt8964
    @amylapratt8964 4 роки тому +88

    He's a good guy, and perfect for you! He genuinely wants you as a person and that isn't really common. Some people never find someone who genuinely loves them for who they are. So congrats on that. I hope you guys are forever ❤️.

  • @DeRochaJ
    @DeRochaJ 4 роки тому +185

    You and Christian are a cute couple. I wish you both nothing but happiness.

    • @dayceem
      @dayceem 4 роки тому +5

      You are so lucky to have each other - Mathilda for having such an understanding guy and Christian for having such a beautiful woman, among other things. May you find much joy together.

    • @nadiamordvinkin6310
      @nadiamordvinkin6310 4 роки тому +5

      @@dayceem "Such ununderstanding guy" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 This guy just doesn't want to accept to himself that he is gay. So he choose to take guy who look like girl 😃

    • @dayceem
      @dayceem 4 роки тому

      @@nadiamordvinkin6310 As I understand it, sexual identity is made up of at least a couple of components - the physical and the psychological. For most people, the two line up; physically they look like a girl and psychologially they feel like a girl (and vice versa). For transgender people, there is a mismatch; they look like one but feel like another. The psychological component is very strong and dominates over the physical one. Psychologically, Mathilda feels feminine and considers herself a woman. Christian is therefore in a relationship with a woman.
      Now if someone has a preference for a woman with male physical parts or if it's something they overlook, that's their business. I don't think it necessarily means they're gay, but so what? In the end, a person likes what a person likes, Christian says he is secure, and their happiness is what counts most.

    • @nadiamordvinkin6310
      @nadiamordvinkin6310 4 роки тому +1

      @@dayceem Sex made up by biological factors: chromosomal set and body structures and organes that comming from chromosomal factors. Psychology of human being is depending of work of parts of brain and neuronal connections between them.

    • @dayceem
      @dayceem 4 роки тому

      @@nadiamordvinkin6310 The largest sexual organ in the body is the brain.

  • @kristengilliam-coomber8457
    @kristengilliam-coomber8457 3 роки тому +17

    This is the way it should be! It shouldn't matter, if the person was a male before. This gives me so much hope for our world and that people can accept everyone no matter what sex or gender they are.

    • @kristengilliam-coomber8457
      @kristengilliam-coomber8457 3 роки тому +5

      @Kuzuri Kam Yes I agree with being honest and upfront and she was. She told him right away. Other than not being able to birth children, I see a woman not a man. I think the key is allowing the other person to make the decision as to whether or not it matters so honesty is integral at the very beginning. I think we as a society has stigmatized this as a bad thing, but I can't imagine being born in the wrong body. I want equal opportunity for the trans gender population to find love and acceptance for being themselves.

    • @alyalenox2129
      @alyalenox2129 3 роки тому +2

      @Kuzuri Kam she was honest. so shut up and take your tossic masculinity elsewhere.

    • @alyalenox2129
      @alyalenox2129 3 роки тому +8

      @Kuzuri Kam She* not he. at least respect the pronoun. (SHE)

    • @romamegalopolis469
      @romamegalopolis469 3 роки тому

      @@alyalenox2129 To call a male "she" is incorrect. Didn't you study English grammar? "She/her" is used for females while "he/him" is used for males. Females have vaginas, period, X chromosomes, get pregnant while males (such as "Mathilda") have penises, XY chromosomes, produce sperm, cannot get pregnant. Those who end up cutting their junk have _fake_ vaginas which do not turn them into women.

    • @alyalenox2129
      @alyalenox2129 3 роки тому +3

      @@romamegalopolis469 Shut up Transphobic.

  • @transgamerlive
    @transgamerlive 4 роки тому +96

    Girl you got a man that looks like Paul Wesley (Stephen) from the Vampire Diaries.

  • @clutchcargo2419
    @clutchcargo2419 3 роки тому +20

    Good looking couple. I am a straight guy and as far as women go you are very attractive. Best wishes to you both for a happy and full filling life.

  • @PGM82607
    @PGM82607 3 роки тому +28

    I don’t think this is gay for what he doing, she is more attractive enough to be a female and could of fooled me, I support your relationship and feel like in the future; more people will be more supportive

  • @vivirenthlei6141
    @vivirenthlei6141 4 роки тому +9

    I'm so happy to see both of u understanding each other and laughing happily together,u guys were amazing,,...To me,the reason why u tell him that ure a trangender,its because u loved him so much..sweet couples,live happily 4ever

  • @jonathanmol4489
    @jonathanmol4489 3 роки тому +8

    My friend/ girlfriend I knew was transgender. It has almost been 8 yrs. I have seen her evolution. We have made a connection. She was still married when I met her. We didn't have anything other than a hug until her divorce.
    On the plus side, she only had to kiss one frog. 😘🐸
    I always tell people " I am her first love and she is my last romance. " ❤❤

  • @That_Woodland_Gardener
    @That_Woodland_Gardener 4 роки тому +66

    I feel you on the non dating cos of dysphoria . Thats how i am atm . One day it will change. Would you consider doing a video of whats it like being trans in sweden? How does your gov support you if they do and how do swedish ppl react to trans ppl?

    • @ValMephora
      @ValMephora 4 роки тому +10

      Short answer, they are handeling it quite well
      It's basically free If you visit a therapist and the people there are quite supportive, with some exeptions.
      Which is basically how it is in a Lot of european countries

    • @cherepaha3
      @cherepaha3 3 роки тому

      If you trans refugee Muslim black it's ok. Only when you're heterosexual native Swedish you're discriminated against

    • @nikemaraje5
      @nikemaraje5 2 роки тому

      I feel u

  • @jokerwolf8687
    @jokerwolf8687 3 роки тому +49

    True Love Has No Genders, It Joins Two Souls.

  • @Alsyoutubeaccount
    @Alsyoutubeaccount 3 роки тому +53

    I wish/hope every trans person can find a partner like this ❤️

  • @k00LGuY671
    @k00LGuY671 3 роки тому +108

    Love is love as long as both are adults who love each other. There’s nothing wrong with that. Congrats

    • @alekylores5845
      @alekylores5845 3 роки тому +42

      @Ashutosh Gurao So is it? he accepted she as are . that's what matters, she's a girl now :)

    • @waynegraham7611
      @waynegraham7611 3 роки тому

      Well said 👍

    • @OASTEPANEK
      @OASTEPANEK 3 роки тому +23

      @Ashutosh Gurao lol but she has bigger balls then you. Because she made her self happy she listened to her body and so and done it.and been even so brave to give it to public.and you negative pay her bills then say something. Democratic and tolerant
      friend.

    • @romamegalopolis469
      @romamegalopolis469 3 роки тому +2

      @Kali Evelynn You said it right: she _looks_ like a woman but in reality she is _not_ a woman. The person has a penis and women do not have penises but vaginas.

    • @alyalenox2129
      @alyalenox2129 3 роки тому +13

      @@romamegalopolis469 but will you stop commenting on everything? you look ridiculous. sex and gender are two different things. educate yourself.

  • @michellestephens1634
    @michellestephens1634 4 роки тому +11

    Thank you for sharing! I hope I can find someone to be in my life that accepts me the way Christian has accepted you! Blessings to you both for joy and happiness!

    • @jamesb4898
      @jamesb4898 4 роки тому +1

      You have a long way to go, mister.

    • @ashleyford7932
      @ashleyford7932 4 роки тому

      James B jeez your a terrible person

    • @Aisakdik69
      @Aisakdik69 4 роки тому

      Lmao nver thought id see a male karen

  • @pollyannaprinciple5860
    @pollyannaprinciple5860 4 роки тому +26

    Mathilda you are so beautiful and your boyfriend is so handsome. He looks like the guy from Vampire Diaries. You two make a cute couple. Wishing you both well!

    • @cherepaha3
      @cherepaha3 2 роки тому

      Lookism discrimination of ugly people. Social justice warriors are watching your comment

    • @antresia.9723
      @antresia.9723 Рік тому

      Right.

  • @bibidarlene
    @bibidarlene 4 роки тому +57

    I love how boys never really go into detail they’re so simple and us girls like to know EVERYTHING! I love watching your videos so much 🥰 you’re one of my fav youtubers now! I’m glad I found your channel :’)

  • @redolentofmark
    @redolentofmark 4 роки тому +51

    He's so kind. Definitely he doesn’t care! 😂

  • @RyAn-zc2ji
    @RyAn-zc2ji 3 роки тому +20

    You can't tell that she's a trans just by looking at her. She's beautiful. ♥️♥️ best wishes for you.

    • @nikemaraje5
      @nikemaraje5 Рік тому

      ​@shoahshanagoldberg-shekels5253
      Small head, average nose, average hands.
      Stop lying, you're just projecting cuz you look like Shrek 💀

  • @nathanbelcher1139
    @nathanbelcher1139 Рік тому +2

    Her telling him straight away is really important. If they're the person for you, they won't reject you. But they could reject you on the basis of being lied to. Without honesty there isn't a real relationship.

  • @mitchroperos
    @mitchroperos 4 роки тому +13

    Transgender woman also here from philippines🇵🇭 mixed of spanish🇪🇸 and portugese🇵🇹😊 sis me too i always say to all guys directly that im a trans cuz i dont want to waste my time and effort to those homophobics 😊

    • @rhys896
      @rhys896 4 роки тому +2

      @Stony Korpes And still looks better then you i bet.

  • @thelibtard7358
    @thelibtard7358 4 роки тому +479

    This is the most Nordic looking dood I’ve ever seen lmao

    • @lulusaintly631
      @lulusaintly631 4 роки тому +15

      He looks exactly like my Swedish lodger.

    • @reptilesspurky937
      @reptilesspurky937 3 роки тому +14

      Nordics are just chads naturally wtf i want what they have for my population

    • @AutomationDnD
      @AutomationDnD 3 роки тому +7

      @@reptilesspurky937 Careful.... some SJW will accuse you of breeding the Master Race again
      can't have any pride in white things now, CAN WE? ....LoL but yeah, *these 2 are "Nordic" fer sure*

    • @firekoovin3347
      @firekoovin3347 3 роки тому +1

      A dood like that can gt India and get a harem of real wamen.

    • @firekoovin3347
      @firekoovin3347 3 роки тому +1

      @@reptilesspurky937 take the blackpill

  • @stuffwithjasmine1025
    @stuffwithjasmine1025 4 роки тому +10

    Omg i totally understand! Everyone thinks im like somekind of pornstar when i tell them im trans and its really hurtful. Thats why its so hard to figure out who to talk to!

  • @tentrickspony8925
    @tentrickspony8925 2 роки тому +4

    I respect you for acknowledging that it's a gender dysmorphia. I soooo love that you were mindful of him and his sexual health by telling him beforehand allowed him to exercise his sexual autonomy.

  • @RainbowCockee
    @RainbowCockee 3 роки тому +5

    You both look cute together omg ♥️ I am a trans as well. I recently started to talk with a boy I met him online and he's so far the only guy who has been interested in wanting to be in a relationship with me. I met him on Grindr surprisingly.

  • @Sukisunn
    @Sukisunn Рік тому +2

    If you want someone to accept you lovingly... best way to find that person is being honest. So you where honest with an honest guy and got a very honest loving result.

  • @RhennMakeupArtistry
    @RhennMakeupArtistry 3 роки тому +13

    I wish local men in my country like your boyfriend openminded in terms of trans relation , thank you for sharing your love story Very inspiring love wins 🌸🌸🌸

  • @aidenalamo6262
    @aidenalamo6262 19 днів тому

    I'm glad you tell people early on about your journey because it helps the relationship.

  • @marcintime
    @marcintime Рік тому +3

    Thanks for sharing your story with us, Mathilda. You two are great together!

  • @fongsalyphabmixay1842
    @fongsalyphabmixay1842 4 роки тому +12

    Congratulations, lovely genuinely, kindness couple. I very happiness with you're both. Enjoyed life together.

  • @peterojas2740
    @peterojas2740 4 роки тому +5

    Mathilda appreciates his sense of humor, other wonderful personality traits which have made him a loyal boyfriend.

  • @davidvignola1752
    @davidvignola1752 4 роки тому +1

    So, I have a partner, FWB who is preop trans. When we started fooling, she pushed my boundaries a bit, and made me seriously think about my sexuality. Also, it awakened the life long identity that I had always felt guilty and suppressed. She has allowed me to step forward, and start transitioning as well. Stories like yours make me so happy, that love can be found no matter what our meat suits may say, and glad you found someone who recognized your gender for what and who it is.

  • @mrmvpvip
    @mrmvpvip 3 роки тому +3

    I like your way of saying "I wasn't born a girl" instead of "I'm transgender". Sometime the word "transgender" can carry a lot of social perceptions and get in the way of letting people know who you are as a person.

  • @rogervossen3883
    @rogervossen3883 2 роки тому +2

    Good vibe between the two of you! Nice communication and respect towards eachother. Very pleasant to watch you two!

  • @mirage2101
    @mirage2101 4 роки тому +7

    It’s really difficult to find the right time and the right people when you’ve got a “backpack” like this.
    I’m a crossdresser and submissive and tell people right away too. I don’t want to force anything on them but I don’t want to be in a relationship where I hate to hide my real self either.

    • @gattaca7g
      @gattaca7g 4 роки тому

      If you just crossdress (which is fine), it means that you have 2 "self", one masculine the other feminine, that you want to express depending on your mood, desires, etc. But it does not mean that if you hide a (dressing) part of your feminine side to your partner you are not yourself. There are other ways to express your feminine side such as care, creativity, etc.

  • @marti7343
    @marti7343 6 місяців тому

    Two special people. If it would only happen for me! Very good tip to tell someone "I was not born a woman." Yes, tell someone early on - why waste your time, can be dangerous. Mathilda's videos are just so great and helpful.

  • @bootlegger8818
    @bootlegger8818 3 роки тому +6

    I think you are beautiful. I'm 48 and have only been in relationships with cisgender women, but now I'm single. As I grow older and wiser, all that interests me now is a decent personality. I could see myself falling in love with the right transgender woman and being perfectly happy

  • @monimonimoni3082
    @monimonimoni3082 4 роки тому +63

    Couple goals!!! You two are such a cute couple ❤️

    • @jamesb4898
      @jamesb4898 4 роки тому +2

      I love gay male couples too

    • @CashLundBeats
      @CashLundBeats 4 роки тому +17

      @@jamesb4898 But they are a straight couple tho

    • @ashleyford7932
      @ashleyford7932 4 роки тому +6

      James B hope you find the right man for you 😌 unfortunately there’s only 1 mane in this vid and he’s taken

    • @monimonimoni3082
      @monimonimoni3082 4 роки тому +1

      Ashley ford lol and replying to something 2 months ago? Someone has a lot of time on their hands

    • @ashleyford7932
      @ashleyford7932 4 роки тому +1

      Moni Omnas literally

  • @arxonbby
    @arxonbby 4 роки тому +17

    I'm unbelievably happy for you! This gives me hope. I'm still genderqueer and a cross dresser just working on small things, but I do want to transition. My parents aren't going to let that happen under their roof so I have to cross dress in secret and really live my life in secret, but hopefully I'll be able to move out within the next 2 years. One of my fears (that wasn't going to stop me anyway) was relationships. Personally, I'd likely be a lesbian, but I'm just glad that there is hope for that. Thank you! You're my favorite trans UA-camr

  • @cooloneuk
    @cooloneuk 4 роки тому +10

    It's great that you have found someone who loves you for who you are. I am so happy for you both and wish you both a bright and happy future.

    • @madelinemitchell104
      @madelinemitchell104 2 роки тому

      @@wghmnb9136 You're a sad case, huh? Nothing better to do with yourself than shit on other people. Other people that you'll never meet. You obviously have a lot of self hatred and lots of serious insecurities. Trying to make other people feel bad about themselves is both pathetic and viciously cruel. I hope you figure out a better way to interact with other humans.

  • @billiepie8562
    @billiepie8562 4 роки тому +51

    We need more men like him

  • @francescajensen7733
    @francescajensen7733 4 роки тому +3

    OMG! The two of you are so cute together! Both of you are keepers and fit together so well that it seems like fate. I really enjoyed this video and I especially enjoyed watching the interactions between the two of you. Much love! 😊😘💋❤💃💞💞💞

  • @JumpingJimmyJet
    @JumpingJimmyJet 4 роки тому +6

    Wow, you have a wonderful boyfriend... You're a very lucky girl Mathilda. It's harder for me, I'm a trans woman but I like only women, it's so hard to find a gal who likes trans women. I wish you both all the happiness that life may bring...

    • @allyhouser1495
      @allyhouser1495 4 роки тому +2

      J. J. J.
      Im 48, 6 months in to my transition, and haven't even begun to consider dating yet.
      Im thinking that finding another woman who is willing to date a transgender woman, such as myself, is going to be terribly difficult.
      I'll just have to hope for the best when I decide it's time to try to start dating.
      Best wishes for you in your journey.

    • @jamesb4898
      @jamesb4898 4 роки тому +8

      So you’re a straight man then. Why transition at all?

    • @sssa4511
      @sssa4511 4 роки тому +2

      @@jamesb4898 I struggle with that concept too . All that hassle to be with women but some people want to be a girl

    • @atlchopperz1765
      @atlchopperz1765 4 роки тому

      Very lucky man mathilda. I think your auto correct messed that up, good thing I caught it ;)

    • @savagediva485
      @savagediva485 3 роки тому +2

      You are beautiful don't let the haters bother you

  • @UserName-vv1ws
    @UserName-vv1ws 4 роки тому +19

    It’s crazy how you can suffer from dysphoria years after transitioning and the transition was so successful. I guess I don’t understand, so it never goes away? It’s like a chronic illness I guess, sometimes it’s good and sometimes not? It’s a confusing disorder (it is a disorder right?) idk trying to understand better, dysphoria is so foreign to me

    • @itzsha3130
      @itzsha3130 4 роки тому +9

      if she was born a girl she wouldn't have gender dysphoria

    • @itzsha3130
      @itzsha3130 4 роки тому +11

      the gender dysphoria will still exist bc she was born physically a boy( dna..ect).

    • @jacoblauver4598
      @jacoblauver4598 4 роки тому +12

      itz sha False If Matilda was born a girl she wouldn’t have Gender Dysphoria because that would mean there would be no feeling of Distress about the body not being aligned to the female sense of self that’s why Gender Dysphoria is a thing I know because I have It myself so If I was born a female I wouldn’t be feeling dysphoric but I do most of the time

  • @experiencelife9234
    @experiencelife9234 3 роки тому +3

    You are an angel. I wish both of you a happy and a prosperous future.

  • @oliviatrue2907
    @oliviatrue2907 3 роки тому +2

    I really appreciate how respectful u are to each other.

  • @naomy1701
    @naomy1701 4 роки тому +11

    girl u got a real keeper right there, a guy that loves u no matter ur past and and rightout said it doesnt bother him, thats a rare find ^^

    • @branielsolano8358
      @branielsolano8358 3 роки тому +1

      Thats a guy

    • @naomy1701
      @naomy1701 3 роки тому

      @@branielsolano8358 no shes not, srsly how ignorant can ppl be.. she was a guy, but as u should be able to see with ur 2 eyes, shes not a guy anymore

  • @jonathanstatham88
    @jonathanstatham88 Рік тому +1

    I think this is soooo critically important to discuss and share. I was just about to bring this up on another video you made about how hurt you are when being misgendered. I am a straight guy. I am obviously an ally. I also want to be a support to help the world and each of us figure out how to better understand and deal with this. Its so complicated on both sides of the fence. Everyone has concerns and misunderstanding on both sides of the fence. I think as members of the ally club that it's our responsibility to be open and understanding to both sides of the fence's concerns and questions so that we can hopefully one day come to a peaceful understanding. I think it's important that we target the specific section of the scenario by developing a think tank that helps us pull together the concerns and beliefs of both sides (allys, and non-allys) so that we can find constructive ways to work through this. Otherwise there's just going to be continued hurt and ongoing harm done in both directions. As allys we are the only ones that seem to be willing to work towards this goal of understanding. Therefore it makes it a bit of a responsibility of ours. Anyway, just my thoughts. Unless we get organized and start to sort things out in a constructive manner in order to help educate this is going take forever for people to understand and be accepting.

  • @AylaBuvelle
    @AylaBuvelle 3 роки тому +6

    I wish to meet a guy as sensible and understanding as Christian... I've been through good times and bad times, but ... let's be honest, it's not that impossible to find a guy who is able to accept something like this, but relationship will either work out or it will not work out, but the problem is - how many of them are there willing to try a relationship ... ?
    And thats it, I really don't know where to look anymore ... 🙄
    For me it's really hard and stressfull to think about when I have to tell him, because even if it's not something that obvious, I want the person I want to be with to know 😒

    • @romamegalopolis469
      @romamegalopolis469 3 роки тому +1

      Well, if you're a post-op who passes like a real woman 100% and end up with a straight man, you'd have to hide it from him - if who you want is a straight guy.
      On the other hand, if who you want is a guy who wants to be with you despite your being transgender, then the only option is a gay guy because straight guys want to be with real women.

    • @AylaBuvelle
      @AylaBuvelle 3 роки тому +3

      @@romamegalopolis469 Well, thats nice and all, but do you really think gay guy wants to be with a women? Because the reason he is gay, is that he wants to be with a man. You know, this is really difficult... Gay doesn't want to be with MtF transgender, because he is gay and str8 guy doesn't want to be with MtF, cuz he cannot cope with the knowledge/image of the woman's past... but still.. MtF woman is more suitable for a str8 man, from the point of view of a standard couple, because she is basically just a woman, it only depends on coming to terms with the past ... this is really complicated

    • @romamegalopolis469
      @romamegalopolis469 3 роки тому

      @@AylaBuvelle Personally, if you were a post-op trans girl who I really liked, I would not have an issue. Surely the limit of not being able to have biological children is still a big deal but, for the rest, I think I'd be good with it. Every guy is different, and you might find the one that is perfectly fine with who you are.
      As for the gay thing, as long as a guy plays with a penis, he's either gay or - if he's also into women - bisexual. Personally, I could never deal with the fact that there's a penis attached to the person, and no matter how cool the person may be, I cannot force myself to like and accept something that I naturally reject.
      So, if I personally met you, Ayla Buvelle, as a fully operated woman I found attractive/hot, I would be in your sack in no time. And I say this with 100% honesty.

    • @AylaBuvelle
      @AylaBuvelle 3 роки тому +1

      ​@@romamegalopolis469 Thanx for your honesty, I appreciate it :)

    • @mattydudak5250
      @mattydudak5250 3 роки тому

      @@romamegalopolis469 have you ever eat fried flies?

  • @chellinobile4914
    @chellinobile4914 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you both for sharing your story. I think you both make a very nice couple. You've taught me how to talk to any future boyfriends. :)

  • @lornakurien7962
    @lornakurien7962 3 роки тому +3

    You are so feminine, and your smile is so endearing. How fantastic to find love, you make a great couple!

    • @lanachild7731
      @lanachild7731 Рік тому

      It's probably a woman who is scamming the Trans band wagon.

  • @orlando098
    @orlando098 4 роки тому +4

  • @DiamondLover1
    @DiamondLover1 4 роки тому +8

    I am trans and I think that nobody would want to be with me....this gives me some hope

    • @jaysonscott187
      @jaysonscott187 4 роки тому +3

      Be yourself. Be confident. There is someone out there youll meet and be happy with

    • @krystopherturner3149
      @krystopherturner3149 4 роки тому +1

      Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
      It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
      Your playing small does not serve the world
      There is nothing enlightened about shrinking down so others won’t feel insecure around you. We were all meant to shine as children do.
      Its not just in some of us it’s in everyone.
      And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
      As we are liberated from our own fear.
      Our presence automatically liberates others.

  • @alessandrocalastrini7521
    @alessandrocalastrini7521 7 місяців тому +1

    What hit me the most is that EVEN a transgender person is ashamed of explaining openly what means to be transgender.
    Leaving people like me, who does not know, to a google search or to ask other people.

  • @mgm8393
    @mgm8393 4 роки тому +13

    That wasso sweet. Your boyfriend id a lucky guy. It is nice to see thstbyou met somebody supportive and the accept and love you. You are so adorable it always makes md happy to watch your videos.

  • @Freya12
    @Freya12 4 роки тому +2

    You make a BEAUTIFUL COUPLE! Both stunning and fit like puzzle pieces 🧩❤️🌈
    P.S Christian needs to get his bum to a film studio he is like actor perfection, reminds me a bit of someone but I can’t think who!

    • @97mrking
      @97mrking 4 роки тому

      I don’t know the actors name, but he reminds a lot like the guy from the vampire dairies, kind’ve 😁

  • @erinchillmusic8930
    @erinchillmusic8930 3 роки тому +41

    What a beautiful couple!

  • @MarcoDePolo64
    @MarcoDePolo64 3 роки тому +2

    He was able to see you for who you are as a person :) as it should be. Like someone for their personality. Happy for you two ❤

    • @stefaniefanny9949
      @stefaniefanny9949 3 роки тому

      Transpeople who transitioned usually want to be Physically atractive to their partners as the gender their gender, like if someone likes me just for my personality i would feel bad, like dysphoria doesn't 100% disapear after transition, and being atractive as your gender to your partner helps you to alleviate the remaining dysphoria. In conclusion both thing are important for most trans people.

    • @ericfreshcorn3590
      @ericfreshcorn3590 Рік тому

      @@stefaniefanny9949 Are you a Transgender Woman?

  • @josephswayzee241
    @josephswayzee241 3 роки тому +6

    So he is actually with another boy lmao

  • @OREMETOSMusic
    @OREMETOSMusic 4 роки тому +7

    Your videos are always soo helpful. Gives me the motivation to keep on going 😊
    Because of your videos I was able to discover who I am truly, like in my country there are no transgender girls/women that appear like cis women. Idk why but pretty much all of them I know are actually like the stereotype that people think of when they hear trans. Also this caused me to not being able to identify with them, since I don't want to be any what associated with guys. Like if I could be a cis woman that would be just it. I didn't think it was possible until I saw your videos and then also others. It gave me hope, allowed me to identify myself with a specific type of transgender women and took a lot of my fear. Thank you so much! I can't possibly put in words how much this means to me 🙏🏻

  • @ILOVEMEW10
    @ILOVEMEW10 4 роки тому +10

    He’s so lovely. Congratulations ❤️

    • @saritakotze5638
      @saritakotze5638 3 роки тому

      Who do you mean ? The man on the left or right.

    • @bintousylla5443
      @bintousylla5443 3 роки тому

      Sarita Kotze the person on the left is a women and they meant the person on the right

    • @saritakotze5638
      @saritakotze5638 3 роки тому

      @@bintousylla5443 Natural born woman that God made. You are what your born with. You cant turn a man into a woman.

    • @bintousylla5443
      @bintousylla5443 3 роки тому +1

      If she identifies as a woman then she is a woman

  • @stellarhyme3
    @stellarhyme3 3 роки тому +3

    I think telling someone five minutes in is good, that way you won’t waste time.

  • @blackbelttroll4008
    @blackbelttroll4008 3 роки тому +3

    SHES WHOLESOME ! 😙

  • @kroxiss1569
    @kroxiss1569 4 роки тому +2

    Looking beautiful as always girl, love your videos ❤. Cant wait to see what the the next one will be about .

  • @laralovy7804
    @laralovy7804 3 роки тому +8

    So happy for you.

  • @DragoMorke
    @DragoMorke 4 роки тому +6

    I think if I looked like you I would have way less dysphoria - I mention this because you said you still suffer from it.
    My experience with it is that it correlates with some contitions: If I feel good about my life in general dysphoria lessens. It also lessens if I take care of myself better visually. Clothing and makeup and how my hair looks.
    But it's also random. Such things as lighting conditions.
    Finally it is about accepting yourself as you are. I had SRS but nothing done to my barely a cup breasts. That was an issue for me for years but now I am much happier with it and don't plan on having anything done. Learning to love yourself and not forcing yourself to be a stereotypical woman...

  • @EllieRose1997
    @EllieRose1997 4 роки тому +41

    I also never had a relationship until now after I transitioned..

    • @samuelakpade7140
      @samuelakpade7140 4 роки тому +1

      Hi

    • @ladyinred9656
      @ladyinred9656 4 роки тому

      You are still a man

    • @EllieRose1997
      @EllieRose1997 4 роки тому +8

      @@ladyinred9656 no I am not, Science proves that Trans women are women! Even if you don't think so. does not effect me.. I never was one nor am I...

    • @yc8679
      @yc8679 4 роки тому +1

      A word from GOD ALMIGHTY in Prophecy 153 at amightywind.com. Thus sayeth GOD ALMIGHTY " And I have another thing to say to you who think you can just change your sexes. Though I created you to be a man and gave you all the sexual equipment to prove it, plus the DNA, the hormones and you women who say, "I want to be a man," I have a secret for you. You will appear before the FATHER OF CREATION-in the sex that I decreed that you were to be from the moment that you were implanted inside as an egg in that mother's womb. You'll not fool Heaven. So repent while you can. For you're not fooling Heaven. You can fool the earth, you can fool yourself, but you're not fooling your CREATOR. I tell this world to repent. “

    • @yc8679
      @yc8679 4 роки тому

      A word from GOD ALMIGHTY in Prophecy 153 at
      amightywind.com. Thus sayeth GOD ALMIGHTY " And I have another thing to
      say to you who think you can just change your sexes. Though I created you to be
      a man and gave you all the sexual equipment to prove it, plus the DNA, the
      hormones and you women who say, "I want to be a man," I have a secret
      for you. You will appear before the FATHER OF CREATION-in the sex that I
      decreed that you were to be from the moment that you were implanted inside as
      an egg in that mother's womb. You'll not fool Heaven. So repent while you can.
      For you're not fooling Heaven. You can fool the earth, you can fool
      yourself, but you're not fooling your CREATOR. I tell this world to repent. “
      GOD ALMIGHTY will accept you if you repent and change your old ways. Everyone is making reservations for HEAVEN or hell. You decide.

  • @zubenel444
    @zubenel444 3 роки тому +7

    Mathilda, I just had to laugh when you said "Good answer!" to Christian!! You sounded so much like my ex-wife, who would say that to me every once in a while, as enthusiastically as you did. 😄 (It WAS a good answer!)

  • @elliemay1748
    @elliemay1748 4 роки тому +13

    "I wasn't born a girl".... ooh, Imma use that one!

  • @jennahyser7245
    @jennahyser7245 3 роки тому +1

    I think people should tell the person they’re talking to before anything physical happens or even before they meet if possible for there safety.

  • @ericakilian3
    @ericakilian3 4 роки тому +16

    He's a gem.

  • @ASingleLettuceLeaf
    @ASingleLettuceLeaf 3 роки тому +1

    It's official. Most gorgeous couple in the world

  • @Chris-c1n5z
    @Chris-c1n5z Рік тому +4

    Your gorgeous❤. I am male currently with a transgender girl. Both my gf and you could be sister. She is stunning. And i love her. When she first told me i had to step back. Like OMG. Then i kissed her.

    • @Breezybeef
      @Breezybeef Рік тому +3

      Absolutely disgusting. You’re gay. You are dating a man

    • @Baddiebeebumbling
      @Baddiebeebumbling Рік тому +4

      @@Breezybeefyou’re homophobic which is absolutely disgusting.

  • @nelchuchunel5967
    @nelchuchunel5967 4 роки тому +5

    I dont think it's a good idea to admit to the whole world that he is your boyfriend. Relationships often don't seem to survive after going on social media. He is new to this world and people will set their critics on him which might alter his mind. Keep your relationship life and your work life separate. Love is precious, respect it and don't let it destroy by social media. 💛

    • @ianorias5883
      @ianorias5883 4 роки тому +7

      I think they did that because they wanna know the whole world that there is nothing bad about dating a transgender. They just somewhat share awareness about the issue circulating about the LGBTQ community. And it somewhat inspires other couple like them that there is nothing to hide about the relationship that they had. ❤❤❤ Yes social medias are scary but as long as they won't let that platform to affect and ruin the relationship that they had, and as long as they keep stronger together and was able to inspire other people then I don't see any problem with them making their relationship public. 🙂❤❤

    • @raymonde4272
      @raymonde4272 4 роки тому

      They have been together for 6 years so there is stability in their relationship.

  • @amphibdriver1
    @amphibdriver1 4 роки тому +3

    Glad you uploaded this video. You two make a great couple.

  • @destinyminaj607
    @destinyminaj607 3 роки тому +6

    gurll im soo happy for u

  • @coisalinda2424
    @coisalinda2424 3 роки тому +7

    You are such a beautiful couple congratulations love conquers all

  • @emzt5289
    @emzt5289 3 роки тому +2

    I’m shocked at some of the disgusting and ignorant comments on here. It’s made me really angry. I think you’re lovely Mathilda and I’m really enjoying your videos.

  • @AB-su7jt
    @AB-su7jt 3 роки тому +8

    so this is what being a good looking young guy in 2020 gets you

  • @trapperman9488
    @trapperman9488 4 роки тому +1

    What a good dude, you're both fortunate to have one another.

  • @darthvader0219
    @darthvader0219 4 роки тому +17

    Christian reminds me of Arnold Schwarzenegger’s T-800

    • @masterchat1998
      @masterchat1998 4 роки тому

      @@discotrain173 That apostrophe is referring to the character that Arnold portrayed in the saga. He is not talking about possesion.

  • @sanjagoceva3054
    @sanjagoceva3054 4 роки тому +1

    you did a good job on your tranzition, i would never in a million years would look at you and say she is trans, even your voice is amazing

  • @nongthombamloyanganba6478
    @nongthombamloyanganba6478 4 роки тому +7

    I am glad that you got a nice person!!!

  • @denverrandy7143
    @denverrandy7143 3 роки тому +1

    What a Lucky Guy!!!😜j/k that's great that you to found each other.

  • @jesselaw2575
    @jesselaw2575 4 роки тому +9

    Frowning while still smiling, I've never seen that before

    • @Janelou42
      @Janelou42 4 роки тому +4

      Can see that with lots of germans/europeans xD at least I do

  • @Captainval28
    @Captainval28 3 роки тому

    Great video it was supposed to be a video about how you met but turned into a comedic moment of reflection love it

  • @funlightfactory6031
    @funlightfactory6031 2 роки тому +1

    I am soo jealous. You and your boyfriend are absolutely gorgeous.

  • @karenortiz9917
    @karenortiz9917 4 роки тому +5

    Mathilda, I admire you so much, you're my favorite UA-camr hahah. Thanks for your videos, I love all of them!💕