Your male manager should be fired. Security should have been called ASAP. So sorry this happened I am a guy and used to work at Disney and would have called ASAP for you.
I'm prior military. First and foremost, your " guy " manager should be reprimanded for this by his manager. I'm a manager at Universal Studios Orlando, and I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to this behavior. On two separate occasions, I've had two female colleagues subjected to similar circumstances, in which you described. I followed each one to there car to make sure they were safe and always had a open door policy for this sort of behavior. Glad your ok, and security was on top of it. Disney security is great, but seems as though your boss could use some more additional training..
@Bob Smith You can thank me or any veteran for allowing you to have the freedoms to Express your thoughts openly, as you just did.. Either you dont understand, or do.. but just want some attention. There, you got it.. I'll let you have the last word, because you seem to be 'that guy who needs it'. Enjoy!! Later..
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Why didn't your manager force them to leave or better yet ban them from at least your store?? That's serious stalking. Sorry you had to go through that
HELPFUL TIP to all guys .... if the girl you are interested in starts walking away or looks paniced ..... your conversation IS OVER ! Just leave and be on your way , she is not interested . Simple .
The “boy leaders” who do not take this seriously need to be reported up the chain of command; for them to excuse it makes them complicit in sexual harassment, which is exactly what this is. Sadly we women have been taught to say “I’m sorry” when rebuffing this crap; even Disney can’t scold you for telling them “this is inappropriate please leave”. The next call should have been to Disney Security or Orange County Sheriff. And this does sound just as scary as you say it felt-TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS! You felt threatened and you had every right to such feelings!
Anyone who acts creepy or sexually harasses cast members should be banned from all parks immediately. There’s no excuse for that behavior. It’s scarier than you made it sound. Glad you’re okay! Disney is supposed to be a safe happy place for everyone not to worry about stuff like this.
Allie, I worked at Disney World as a Costumer, & I had one of My girls come to me saying there was a creep following her around the Park...I proceeded to take of My costumer shirt & what's called 'black out' because you're all in black undershirt & pants...Got a hold of my Security Friend...& We literally went out both grabbed the guy by each arm...& physically hauled him off to Disney Jail where he was 'booked' & 'banned' from entering the Park again...It really ticks me off when non-performing Cast Members such as yourself tell me your Managers & Co-workers make light about stalkers...They need thrown out & that's it!
Rorro8a That sounds like THOSE people from the countries that think women are nothing more than baby making sex slaves. Not cool. Men are perfectly capable of learning to control themselves if they are given the incentive to do so. Personally, I go nowhere without at least a knife, usually two, and I keep an asp in the front seat of my truck. I've never been bothered.
The comments are referring to how men "can't control themselves" because in my video, I mention how my male leader says to me, "Sometimes men can't help it." I never said all men are like that. I even mention that I don't think that is true and it's unfair to categorize all men like that. That's why I made this video, cause it's an abnormal situation. People are just referring to that statement. Not being feminist.
They were adamant that you were going to have a drink with them. My guess is that drink would contain a drug to knock you out. They were pretty brazen to stalk you for that long in a public place.
Michelle Great point! They even went to so far to entertain the idea of bringing a drink to her at her place of employment. Something's telling me they've done this before in a similar scenario and it worked. All they wanted to do was get a drink in her and they knew she would have been putty in their hands.
@@taffysaur there are drugs that dont make you unconscious they simply make you pliable and easy to control. Had they gotten some of that into her system they could have easily lead her out of the park so it looked like she wanted to go with them and then sold her into a sex trafficking ring
Don’t be silly. Many guys offer drinks to girls in clubs. They don’t use knockout drugs, because the alcohol is the drug (makes girls happy). Sometimes girls offer the drink to the guy (same reason). Some guys are stalkerish which is just dumb .
ugh i totally get what you're saying, guys never take this shit seriously. I've had so many experiences at work with creepy customers and even one time a security guard that would literally follow me around as i was closing and stand behind me so close i could feel his breath. Something was done about it only once i told a female supervisor.
As a male, I am deeply, deeply ashamed of men like that! Stalking and harassment are definitely things I cannot stand or tolerate! And this story indeed send chills in my skin and made my blood boil! I'm glade you and the Cast Members took action after it gotten worse however! Hope you don't ever have to deal with that again! But point is- glade you're safe!
Kasey Enloe you shouldn’t be ashamed by the actions of another just because you share the same sex. This is disgusting behavior, but not your behavior.
That is so creepy. I'm glad you're ok. You said it doesn't sound that big of a deal now while telling it but yea it's a huge deal. One thing to deal with weird and crazy customers but c'mon up to the point where you're afraid for your safety is way too much to have to endure. I felt scared for your safety while you were telling the story. Lol "I hope they found their couch." And "Just go find your couch!" That had me dyiiinnnn 😂😂😂
Wow, those managers suck. That is not ok for anyone to have to go through. You should feel comfortable at work. You're not there for their entertainment.
People are strange. Sometimes people don’t see it as a big deal until something happens on their watch & then they feel bad about it. I’m glad the other manager called security and understood the situation better.
Stores lead, 7 years, DCA and hotel stores. Had you been my cast member I would of had you sit in the stockroom while I called security. I'm sorry your leads sucked. I think most leads I worked with would have done the same. Glad security was eventually called, though your manager sucked too.
Ugh. I had a similar situation in retail. A similar store where you need to be super friendly and accommodating. When I didn’t go with a man he said he would wait outside for me that night at ___ time. Freakishly the time he said was when I got off the clock. My boss sensed I was uneasy and when I told him he walked me to my car so I could leave 30 mins early. Managers should be really accommodating with this stuff. The friendliness has to be toward employees as well. It’s sick how many women have to deal with these things, but ain’t am glad you were also okay.
That is honestly awful that your leader didn't do anything. Safety is the number 1 priority for Disney and the fact that he didn't help you is kind of disappointing that he didn't take it seriously. I am sorry that you dealt with that. You definitely handled it well!!
I am a guy. Relatively large, bearded, a few more muscles than the next guy, and ugly. I ride a Harley in my spare time. I love Disney World, and the best part of WDW, of any Disney experience for that matter, are the Cast Members. MY wife and I just love you folks and the way you are dedicated to making our visits wonderful. Some of them are very young and very attractive. I may be over 60, but I notice. I started shaking while listening to your story, Allie. I have two daughters who are both young and attractive. This is exactly the kind of situation that gave me nightmares while they were growing up (they're both older than you). I am glad you are OK and it never got any further than it did. It also bothers me that creeps like that are stalking a wholesome place like WDW. All I want to ask is whether you could report your male supervisors for trying to send you back out on the sales floor when those creeps were stalking you? Wouldn't HR want to know about that?
You said it doesn't sound scary when you are telling it now. I disagree, it sounds very scary and disturbing. If you were my daughter and I could have found those guys I would have wished I could kill them. That is so damn serious and shame on the Disney Managers who didn't take it serous at first. Years ago, my wife and I noticed two older guys walking around Typhoon Lagoon and they looked really weird and like they were up to something. I was keeping my eye on them and they were getting really close to young girls in the wave pool and were trying to touch them when the waves crashed. I told security and I'm not sure if anything was done about it, but I really wanted to beat the crap out of them.
Wow. That’s so sad and messed up that they didn’t take that seriously. Harassment is always a big deal and should not be minimized. It’s about your safety and you deserve respect.
That is insanely creepy I'm a guy and that creeps me out security should have been notified immediately and your management was a joke you should have came before anything else this is not the first time I've heard I almost got into a fight with somebody over something like that there
Why are Managers now a days getting more and more lazy and too absent minded for their jobs in recent years , huh ?? The moment an employee , be it male or female , starts saying they feel harassed , they should be looking for the nearest pair of security guards and to see who is the one harassing you . Right ??
They were asking about a couch to insinuate going back to your place. Disgusting! You were right to worry that they would follow you home because that very much seemed to be their intention. Thank you for sharing this story! I’m sorry that this happened to you and that your leads didn’t handle it appropriately at first. I know this was posted a year ago, but I very much enjoy these story time videos :)
When I clicked on the this video I definitely assumed you had been a face character, you’re gorgeous and look just like a Disney princess! Great story time.
I am sorry you went through that and can't believe that your superiors thought that was acceptable behavior! You are right! You should never feel uncomfortable or be harassed into not being able to do your job and you did nothing wrong! I can't believe you were even in danger of getting in trouble! Glad everything worked out ok.
The real problem is that it's probably not just this person who those two creeps were harassing. It could easily have been one of the guests who are probably less aware of their surroundings with the excitement of being at the park; maybe they *did* go after another person when they got the hint that she was not about to let them harass her. Security should've been called ASAP to ensure the safety of not just her, but everyone in the park.
I'm sorry this happened to you! as you said you should never have to be made to feel uncomfortable while working (or at all for that matter) and the fact that it physically kept you from doing your job! but I'm glad they didn't come back and most importantly that you're safe :) also random side note but you're super pretty! 😂 :)
I worked merchandizing at Hollywood Studios for my ICP and during the Holidays we had this purchase with purchase throw, so I was ringing up two guys’ purchase and I offered them the pwp and they said “yeah no, I want your number”. And I told them I couldn’t give them my number and they kept insisting and getting more and more intense, but thankfully my manager saw I was uncomfortable and asked me to go backstage and got rid of them. But still, SUCH CREEPS. One of the guys even said “I heard Cast Members had to make sure we were happy and your breaking my heart right now, so that’s messed up”. EW. I’m glad you were okay ❤️
that was a very desperate,creepy, and disrespectful way to try and get u to hangout. I mean they were trying try hint at going back to your place which is just horrible unnecessary and completely disrespectful. I think i can speak for all of us when we say we are sorry that happened. And idk what type of guys would allow that to happen, your co workers, if anyone of my female co workers was in that situations i would be the first to step up and try and help the best way i can
I’m a floor lead at my workplace and safety and our staff feeling safe is the top priority. I’m so sorry you were stuck with crappy leads, you should never feel uncomfortable in your workplace.
I was similarly harassed at my job and one of my male co-workers stepped up for me and scared the guy away and he also walked me to my car. I was so grateful I had someone there to help me because the guy was three times my size and wasn't taking no for an answer. The second a guy comes up and questions him he acts like a kicked puppy, it's so bizarre honestly.
God I keep hearing terrible stories involving WDW Cast Member Managers. Like you always see the happy lower level CM's (like yourself) who usually need up leaving because of terrible treatment - and every single one of them has absolute horror stories about how terrible, incompetent, and just don't give a shit type attitude that the managers have. I wonder why thats the case, you would hope that the enthusiastic amazing CM's who decide to stay would work their way up the ranks and become good managers but clearly that isn't happening. Sorry that you were treated like that. (Both by the creeper guests and by your managers who clearly either didnt believe you or worse just didnt care about you remotely). I'm a frequent WDW visitor (AP & DVC member) and its easy to not realize all of the garbage that most of the CM's have to put up with. Thanks for still making it a magical place for all the non-stalker guests despite having to deal with that.
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For those of you that don't know there's a very serious and very real social hierarchy at Disney World. The seniority and levels of authority are very real even if you, personally, don't care for them. Managers (what we call 'Leaders') and Coordinators are the ones that tell us what to do and there really isn't the option to say 'No'. Like, if you get told to do something you have to do it even if it's something crazy like going back onstage to be harrassed by guests. It's very easy to get fired at Disney if you're not willing to listen to your leaders because the control they have is immense. I've worked a lot of places in Disney and honestly it's the management that gets me more than the guests; they're very unlikely to help you or empathize. This experience she had is honestly not uncommon, I've had uncomfortable situations like that too with fellow cast members and I cant do anything because it would be breaking character which is a HUGE no-no. Nevermind the fact that Disney male cast members can be very, very sexist. Like the amount of shit I've heard backstage directed towards women is unimaginable. Which is surprising because merchandise cast members are 90% women; like you'd think there would be more understanding and more equality but its like the exact opposite. It's crazy the social hierarchy like, until you've seen it or experienced it you cant understand. It's not even like a regular work area with gossip and shit, DW is so huge it's basically a whole fucking town. You do some shit somewhere in another park and it finds you in a completely different one I swear to god.
Watching this after the Brett Kavanaugh incident ... this is just another story of how some men just don't get it. How dare your manager make you go out when you told him you were concerned for your safety. I would make sure he got additional training as he is obviously incompetent on ensuring employee safety. I'm glad you posted this video!! This aggressive behavior by men must stop and should not be tolerated. I'm glad you are safe
Wow. I came across this video by accident, and decided to watch it. That is creepy. What is wrong with people?! And not just the stalking creeps; but your manager, as well? As a leader - hell, as a human being - they should know that protecting the members of their staff is more important than any work that has to be done on the floor! That’s crazy! I’m glad you had at least one co-worker that saw the need to come to your aid and that, eventually, security was called. I’m so sorry such a creepy and scary thing as that happened to you. The behavior of the guests was way out of line, very early on - even before they approached you! I’m glad you are okay.
I used to work at Disney springs and all my coworkers and I would walk to the parking lot in pairs because it's so spooky going alone. It's a long, like ten minute, walk and if you're alone, at night without a ton of street lights, in an area where you know people have been drinking and maybe isn't the safest, and it's totally reasonable that you would be worried.
Wow!!! That is truly scary!!! The first red flag was that they were asking such a young person about a bar, but I can see where that would be something that is expected of all cast members to know. The huge enormous Red Flag is asking about a bar with a Couch. As soon as you said that, It was obvious their intentions. Everything those guys were saying and doing was wrong. They did get the hint, they just knew what they were doing and they didn't get the answer they wanted. Shame on whoever was in charge and didn't immediately call security because of their own stupid ideas of "someone not being able to help themselves". As if it's okay for anyone to do anything "because they can't help themselves". Who decides what your boundaries are? Let me guess . . . the other person(s) who can't help themselves. I'm very familiar with people like that. You were asking for help and no one was taking you seriously and pushing you back into a highly dangerous situation just because they lacked insight and common sense. It's obvious those creepy guys thought they could pressure you into going to the bar. They were going to drug you, which is why they were going to bring you the drink. Those two creepy guys are really horrible. Who knows how many times they've done that before and, or will do. This is one of those situations where because those creepy guys didn't succeed, then there are people who don't want to take the situation for as serious as it was. It would have been great if one of the people in charge had contacted security sooner, if anything it might have discouraged those creepy guys from seeking a victim at that amusement park. Halfway through your story I was already terrified and thought Oh my God why isn't someone calling security like now!!! I'm so glad that someone who obviously has good sense about them helped you and had the good insight to call security. That was a traumatic experience I hope you're better and healing from that trauma.
That's awful! I was stalked my my then boyfriend, but being followed by 2 random guys whilst working... My god, I'm glad you're okay from it and nothing bad happened!
Girl. You’re so smart to stand your ground and continue to say no because this is how women and children get trafficked. They’re too nice and give in. People don’t realize that this kind of thing actually happens at Disney and it’s a little scary. You’re not the first person I’ve heard similar stories from.
I'm feeling so much anger that the managers did not take that more seriously - it makes anyone feel unsafe. I hope they know for again, nobody deserves to feel pressurised into going out to face harassment :(
I’m so glad nothing too serious happened. This kind of reminds me what had happened to one of my coworkers. I wasn’t working this day, but she told me about this later. I work at a small town burger joint (best hamburgers EVER) and the one old guy came in one day. He’s really creepy his eyes aren’t always lined up straight. So she’s ringing him up and he says, “I know you’re a bit too young to date me, but I think you have a cute a**” and so she just smiles awkwardly and finishes ringing him up then went to the back room to tell our manager. None of us can talk to him except to ring him up. He stopped coming in as often.
That is creepy honestly and the managers should have done something and not just send you back when the situation hasn't been dealt with. That's so ridiculous. The "Magic" disappears when your trying to do those things to a girl who is just there to do her job
I completely know what that felt like from personal experience. I worked at Six Flags for a few years and my second year a guest started followong me around the park and eventually got a job at the same park as me. He continued tp stalk and harrass me all the way through the rest of the season. HR never did anything about it until I left the company. It sucks when your place of employment doesn't take the claims seriously amd just lets it slide by.
That really upsets me that the male managers acted like it was no big deal. It's a very big deal! Those men had no good intentions, I can tell you that! Glad you're safe.
Ugh I had this happen at a previous workplace. The guy kept asking for photos with me (which wasn't that unusual) but in one of them his hand got too close to my chest. I hid and called security. They deleted all his photos and kicked him out 8)
Disney Springs (or Downtown Disney when I worked there on my first DCP) gets a lot of weirdos like that simply because it's free. Thankfully, it's not as bad but clearly, they still have a ways to go.
Ok, so I LOVE Disney but I will say that Disney clearly needs to train there team leaders and management on how to deal with people like that and on sexual harassment situations, because you were harassed by staff and guests. The men were definitely up to no good and for the male teamleaders to just dismiss it is just as disturbing as what the 2 guests were doing. So glad someone finally stepped and that you followed your gut to keep yourself safe.
honestly, there is a fine line between harmless flirting and harassment/stalking. that guy employee that was looking out for you and the lady manager that finally had radio'd security for you were awesome and actually helped the best they could without making a huge scene. the guy manager that was acting as if you were exaggerating the situation should have gotten in trouble for misjudging the situation. that could have took a very bad turn. luckily, in the end, you got help and that you're okay.
That's frustrating. If a guest ever makes my cast feel uncomfortable, let alone actually stalk them, you best believe I would be calling security. We all have work to do, and you should be able to do it in a safe environment.
I think it's disgusting that security wasn't called from the beginning and the guy members just brushed off your concerns. I would think everyones safety would be a concern whether public or staff. Glad you're ok and it hasn't affected your confidence in any way.
No girl....that’s totally scary! I can’t believe your male coworkers weren’t more interested in helping you. I used to be a bartender. I had to deal with handsy weird DRUNK dudes but thankfully I always had awesome kitchen staff or bar backs that would stick up for me if needed.
I know the feeling... I work in retail and I had a repeat customer older guy like old enough to be my dad. stair hard core at me and would walk and look at me at the same time it gave me chills im 28 sooo he's old old. It got so bad I had a panic attack and one of the mangers told him he needed to stop or will be kicked out. I wish he never come back. But since he doesn't say anything or do anything to me they can't kick him out. But I walk away when I see him and hide. It still freaks me out...
I have to say, if I was in that situation, I would have been quite scared. It's a shame your guy manager didn't seem to take it too seriously, especially when they had been trying to get you to have alcohol. Seriously, what a couple of creeps.
Being that the manager did nothing, if something had happened to you after you left, Disney would be in deep shit. That's a serious issue. Glad you're ok.
always makes me angry when i hear about guys not taking these kind of things seriously. i remember i was a night shift elementary school janitor for my first job out of highschool and i would walk a good handful of the female teachers to their cars after dark or even if they just felt uncomfortable going out when there was still sunlight. we live in a pretty messed up world and we gotta be there for each other
Don't apologize for your feelings -they're always valid. I personally think your male supervisor needed a retraining/upper management talk for his part in that.
Glad that they called security. Working fantasmic a few years ago we had guest who were reported to be looking for girls to put into sex trafficking. I was petrified because I had to walk 2 miles back to my car and there would be these people wearing suits in the lot asking girls to go with them. Come to find out they were trying to kidnap a girl apart of our team. Be super careful! My coordinators didnt even care and that is what made me leave the company. You never know what could happen until it does. Glad you are safe.
Your male manager should be fired. Security should have been called ASAP. So sorry this happened I am a guy and used to work at Disney and would have called ASAP for you.
Mike Farnham Agree 100%
I agree with you gentlemen it nice to see men seeing it as overwhelming
I was with you until you brought up how you could have saved her. Don't make it all about you.
The male manager definitely should have been fired.
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I'm prior military. First and foremost, your " guy " manager should be reprimanded for this by his manager. I'm a manager at Universal Studios Orlando, and I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to this behavior. On two separate occasions, I've had two female colleagues subjected to similar circumstances, in which you described. I followed each one to there car to make sure they were safe and always had a open door policy for this sort of behavior. Glad your ok, and security was on top of it. Disney security is great, but seems as though your boss could use some more additional training..
@Bob Smith You can thank me or any veteran for allowing you to have the freedoms to Express your thoughts openly, as you just did.. Either you dont understand, or do.. but just want some attention. There, you got it.. I'll let you have the last word, because you seem to be 'that guy who needs it'. Enjoy!! Later..
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You're a good guy you could have saved one of them
Why didn't your manager force them to leave or better yet ban them from at least your store?? That's serious stalking. Sorry you had to go through that
Harmin Vlogs that kinda breaks the magic
WhEthin people get banned when they’re in the wrong “breaking the magic” isn’t always the concern in potentially hazardous situations
because that isn't the 'disney way'. kicking them out is losing money
The store nnnooo all Disney parks🙄
WhEthin Safety is the #1 rule, while Show is only #3. Therefore her safety is more important than maintaining Disney magic. 🤷
I’m annoyed not all your managers took it seriously. Glad everything turned out okay.
As long as its not him getting it up the butt. Right 🤔
HELPFUL TIP to all guys .... if the girl you are interested in starts walking away or looks paniced ..... your conversation IS OVER ! Just leave and be on your way , she is not interested . Simple .
Sammy Lane oh no. You need to stroke their fragile ego and don’t dare say NO what is no?? 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Some guys don't take no for an answer and it can escalate quickly
1000s of girls. Move onto the next one.
The “boy leaders” who do not take this seriously need to be reported up the chain of command; for them to excuse it makes them complicit in sexual harassment, which is exactly what this is. Sadly we women have been taught to say “I’m sorry” when rebuffing this crap; even Disney can’t scold you for telling them “this is inappropriate please leave”. The next call should have been to Disney Security or Orange County Sheriff. And this does sound just as scary as you say it felt-TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS! You felt threatened and you had every right to such feelings!
Janet Roberts Completely agree.
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Anyone who acts creepy or sexually harasses cast members should be banned from all parks immediately. There’s no excuse for that behavior. It’s scarier than you made it sound. Glad you’re okay! Disney is supposed to be a safe happy place for everyone not to worry about stuff like this.
Allie, I worked at Disney World as a Costumer, & I had one of My girls come to me saying there was a creep following her around the Park...I proceeded to take of My costumer shirt & what's called 'black out' because you're all in black undershirt & pants...Got a hold of my Security Friend...& We literally went out both grabbed the guy by each arm...& physically hauled him off to Disney Jail where he was 'booked' & 'banned' from entering the Park again...It really ticks me off when non-performing Cast Members such as yourself tell me your Managers & Co-workers make light about stalkers...They need thrown out & that's it!
Woah. How scary. Glad the female cast member and security took it seriously and kept a close watch.
This is terrifying. What’s more terrifying is that the male managers tried to brush it off. So glad you were okay and that they never showed up again!
Teena D Exactly, I hate how these type of situation are handed or brushed off. People like that need to be out in their place...
Being a man should not be an excuse for stalking or harassment. I don't know how people take that as something normal sometimes :/
Rorro8a That sounds like THOSE people from the countries that think women are nothing more than baby making sex slaves. Not cool. Men are perfectly capable of learning to control themselves if they are given the incentive to do so.
Personally, I go nowhere without at least a knife, usually two, and I keep an asp in the front seat of my truck. I've never been bothered.
Way to take it racist
Shut the fuck up, dude. It has nothing to do with feminism. It's a frightened girl not wanting to deal with two creepy assholes. Move along.
I don't have to re-read shit. I'm not even reading your long, annoying ass comment either. You're a douche. Have a nice day.
The comments are referring to how men "can't control themselves" because in my video, I mention how my male leader says to me, "Sometimes men can't help it." I never said all men are like that. I even mention that I don't think that is true and it's unfair to categorize all men like that. That's why I made this video, cause it's an abnormal situation. People are just referring to that statement. Not being feminist.
They were adamant that you were going to have a drink with them. My guess is that drink would contain a drug to knock you out. They were pretty brazen to stalk you for that long in a public place.
Michelle Great point! They even went to so far to entertain the idea of bringing a drink to her at her place of employment. Something's telling me they've done this before in a similar scenario and it worked. All they wanted to do was get a drink in her and they knew she would have been putty in their hands.
What would knocking her out in the middle of her store accomplish for them, lol?
@@taffysaur there are drugs that dont make you unconscious they simply make you pliable and easy to control. Had they gotten some of that into her system they could have easily lead her out of the park so it looked like she wanted to go with them and then sold her into a sex trafficking ring
Don’t be silly. Many guys offer drinks to girls in clubs. They don’t use knockout drugs, because the alcohol is the drug (makes girls happy). Sometimes girls offer the drink to the guy (same reason). Some guys are stalkerish which is just dumb
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Girl this is crazy! Harassment should never be minimized, and good for you for standing up for yourself. F politeness!
ugh i totally get what you're saying, guys never take this shit seriously. I've had so many experiences at work with creepy customers and even one time a security guard that would literally follow me around as i was closing and stand behind me so close i could feel his breath. Something was done about it only once i told a female supervisor.
As a male, I am deeply, deeply ashamed of men like that! Stalking and harassment are definitely things I cannot stand or tolerate! And this story indeed send chills in my skin and made my blood boil! I'm glade you and the Cast Members took action after it gotten worse however! Hope you don't ever have to deal with that again! But point is- glade you're safe!
Kasey Enloe you shouldn’t be ashamed by the actions of another just because you share the same sex. This is disgusting behavior, but not your behavior.
The way you described the way that the male cast member leaders act about harassment is just disgusting; I cant believe they think that's 'normal'....
That is so creepy. I'm glad you're ok. You said it doesn't sound that big of a deal now while telling it but yea it's a huge deal. One thing to deal with weird and crazy customers but c'mon up to the point where you're afraid for your safety is way too much to have to endure. I felt scared for your safety while you were telling the story.
Lol "I hope they found their couch." And "Just go find your couch!" That had me dyiiinnnn 😂😂😂
Wow, those managers suck. That is not ok for anyone to have to go through. You should feel comfortable at work. You're not there for their entertainment.
People are strange. Sometimes people don’t see it as a big deal until something happens on their watch & then they feel bad about it. I’m glad the other manager called security and understood the situation better.
Stores lead, 7 years, DCA and hotel stores. Had you been my cast member I would of had you sit in the stockroom while I called security. I'm sorry your leads sucked. I think most leads I worked with would have done the same. Glad security was eventually called, though your manager sucked too.
Ugh. I had a similar situation in retail. A similar store where you need to be super friendly and accommodating. When I didn’t go with a man he said he would wait outside for me that night at ___ time. Freakishly the time he said was when I got off the clock. My boss sensed I was uneasy and when I told him he walked me to my car so I could leave 30 mins early. Managers should be really accommodating with this stuff. The friendliness has to be toward employees as well. It’s sick how many women have to deal with these things, but ain’t am glad you were also okay.
Wow. Your male manager/leaders sounds absolutely horrible...
That is honestly awful that your leader didn't do anything. Safety is the number 1 priority for Disney and the fact that he didn't help you is kind of disappointing that he didn't take it seriously. I am sorry that you dealt with that. You definitely handled it well!!
I am a guy. Relatively large, bearded, a few more muscles than the next guy, and ugly. I ride a Harley in my spare time. I love Disney World, and the best part of WDW, of any Disney experience for that matter, are the Cast Members. MY wife and I just love you folks and the way you are dedicated to making our visits wonderful. Some of them are very young and very attractive. I may be over 60, but I notice. I started shaking while listening to your story, Allie. I have two daughters who are both young and attractive. This is exactly the kind of situation that gave me nightmares while they were growing up (they're both older than you). I am glad you are OK and it never got any further than it did. It also bothers me that creeps like that are stalking a wholesome place like WDW. All I want to ask is whether you could report your male supervisors for trying to send you back out on the sales floor when those creeps were stalking you? Wouldn't HR want to know about that?
You said it doesn't sound scary when you are telling it now. I disagree, it sounds very scary and disturbing. If you were my daughter and I could have found those guys I would have wished I could kill them. That is so damn serious and shame on the Disney Managers who didn't take it serous at first. Years ago, my wife and I noticed two older guys walking around Typhoon Lagoon and they looked really weird and like they were up to something. I was keeping my eye on them and they were getting really close to young girls in the wave pool and were trying to touch them when the waves crashed. I told security and I'm not sure if anything was done about it, but I really wanted to beat the crap out of them.
Wow. That’s so sad and messed up that they didn’t take that seriously. Harassment is always a big deal and should not be minimized. It’s about your safety and you deserve respect.
That is insanely creepy I'm a guy and that creeps me out security should have been notified immediately and your management was a joke you should have came before anything else this is not the first time I've heard I almost got into a fight with somebody over something like that there
Why are Managers now a days getting more and more lazy and too absent minded for their jobs in recent years , huh ?? The moment an employee , be it male or female , starts saying they feel harassed , they should be looking for the nearest pair of security guards and to see who is the one harassing you . Right ??
It’s unbelievable that security wasn’t called immediately. Safety for cast members is the number one priority.
Makes me so mad that the guys didn't take it seriously, geez. supposed to be the ones protecting you
They were asking about a couch to insinuate going back to your place. Disgusting! You were right to worry that they would follow you home because that very much seemed to be their intention. Thank you for sharing this story! I’m sorry that this happened to you and that your leads didn’t handle it appropriately at first. I know this was posted a year ago, but I very much enjoy these story time videos :)
When I clicked on the this video I definitely assumed you had been a face character, you’re gorgeous and look just like a Disney princess! Great story time.
No, I think Disney only hires very good-looking people. Another discriminatory practice but that's another topic for another video.
I am sorry you went through that and can't believe that your superiors thought that was acceptable behavior! You are right! You should never feel uncomfortable or be harassed into not being able to do your job and you did nothing wrong! I can't believe you were even in danger of getting in trouble! Glad everything worked out ok.
The male managers that thought this was no big deal, likely act the same way towards women.
“Let’s call security,” should have been the first response.
The real problem is that it's probably not just this person who those two creeps were harassing. It could easily have been one of the guests who are probably less aware of their surroundings with the excitement of being at the park; maybe they *did* go after another person when they got the hint that she was not about to let them harass her. Security should've been called ASAP to ensure the safety of not just her, but everyone in the park.
You have THE MOST beautiful hair!
I'm sorry this happened to you! as you said you should never have to be made to feel uncomfortable while working (or at all for that matter) and the fact that it physically kept you from doing your job! but I'm glad they didn't come back and most importantly that you're safe :) also random side note but you're super pretty! 😂 :)
So not okay! It's crazy that you would get in trouble for staying backstage while those stalkers were out there!
I worked merchandizing at Hollywood Studios for my ICP and during the Holidays we had this purchase with purchase throw, so I was ringing up two guys’ purchase and I offered them the pwp and they said “yeah no, I want your number”. And I told them I couldn’t give them my number and they kept insisting and getting more and more intense, but thankfully my manager saw I was uncomfortable and asked me to go backstage and got rid of them. But still, SUCH CREEPS.
One of the guys even said “I heard Cast Members had to make sure we were happy and your breaking my heart right now, so that’s messed up”. EW.
I’m glad you were okay ❤️
that was a very desperate,creepy, and disrespectful way to try and get u to hangout. I mean they were trying try hint at going back to your place which is just horrible unnecessary and completely disrespectful. I think i can speak for all of us when we say we are sorry that happened. And idk what type of guys would allow that to happen, your co workers, if anyone of my female co workers was in that situations i would be the first to step up and try and help the best way i can
Girl! I understand. I worked at a truck stop for a couple years and some people are creeps!!
I’m a floor lead at my workplace and safety and our staff feeling safe is the top priority. I’m so sorry you were stuck with crappy leads, you should never feel uncomfortable in your workplace.
I was similarly harassed at my job and one of my male co-workers stepped up for me and scared the guy away and he also walked me to my car. I was so grateful I had someone there to help me because the guy was three times my size and wasn't taking no for an answer. The second a guy comes up and questions him he acts like a kicked puppy, it's so bizarre honestly.
God I keep hearing terrible stories involving WDW Cast Member Managers. Like you always see the happy lower level CM's (like yourself) who usually need up leaving because of terrible treatment - and every single one of them has absolute horror stories about how terrible, incompetent, and just don't give a shit type attitude that the managers have. I wonder why thats the case, you would hope that the enthusiastic amazing CM's who decide to stay would work their way up the ranks and become good managers but clearly that isn't happening. Sorry that you were treated like that. (Both by the creeper guests and by your managers who clearly either didnt believe you or worse just didnt care about you remotely).
I'm a frequent WDW visitor (AP & DVC member) and its easy to not realize all of the garbage that most of the CM's have to put up with. Thanks for still making it a magical place for all the non-stalker guests despite having to deal with that.
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if a male manager said that, then ask to speak to HR and that should scared the fuck outta them.
Zamn. WoD needs new leaders, that's ridiculous they didn't stick up for you. Guests can be crazy
For those of you that don't know there's a very serious and very real social hierarchy at Disney World. The seniority and levels of authority are very real even if you, personally, don't care for them. Managers (what we call 'Leaders') and Coordinators are the ones that tell us what to do and there really isn't the option to say 'No'. Like, if you get told to do something you have to do it even if it's something crazy like going back onstage to be harrassed by guests. It's very easy to get fired at Disney if you're not willing to listen to your leaders because the control they have is immense. I've worked a lot of places in Disney and honestly it's the management that gets me more than the guests; they're very unlikely to help you or empathize. This experience she had is honestly not uncommon, I've had uncomfortable situations like that too with fellow cast members and I cant do anything because it would be breaking character which is a HUGE no-no.
Nevermind the fact that Disney male cast members can be very, very sexist. Like the amount of shit I've heard backstage directed towards women is unimaginable. Which is surprising because merchandise cast members are 90% women; like you'd think there would be more understanding and more equality but its like the exact opposite. It's crazy the social hierarchy like, until you've seen it or experienced it you cant understand. It's not even like a regular work area with gossip and shit, DW is so huge it's basically a whole fucking town. You do some shit somewhere in another park and it finds you in a completely different one I swear to god.
“You can’t just leave” haha people are so weird! Great video hun! I definitely subscribed and left a big thumbs up! Keep it up hun!💕
Watching this after the Brett Kavanaugh incident ... this is just another story of how some men just don't get it. How dare your manager make you go out when you told him you were concerned for your safety. I would make sure he got additional training as he is obviously incompetent on ensuring employee safety. I'm glad you posted this video!! This aggressive behavior by men must stop and should not be tolerated. I'm glad you are safe
Wow. I came across this video by accident, and decided to watch it. That is creepy. What is wrong with people?! And not just the stalking creeps; but your manager, as well? As a leader - hell, as a human being - they should know that protecting the members of their staff is more important than any work that has to be done on the floor! That’s crazy! I’m glad you had at least one co-worker that saw the need to come to your aid and that, eventually, security was called. I’m so sorry such a creepy and scary thing as that happened to you. The behavior of the guests was way out of line, very early on - even before they approached you! I’m glad you are okay.
I used to work at Disney springs and all my coworkers and I would walk to the parking lot in pairs because it's so spooky going alone. It's a long, like ten minute, walk and if you're alone, at night without a ton of street lights, in an area where you know people have been drinking and maybe isn't the safest, and it's totally reasonable that you would be worried.
Wow!!! That is truly scary!!! The first red flag was that they were asking such a young person about a bar, but I can see where that would be something that is expected of all cast members to know. The huge enormous Red Flag is asking about a bar with a Couch. As soon as you said that, It was obvious their intentions. Everything those guys were saying and doing was wrong. They did get the hint, they just knew what they were doing and they didn't get the answer they wanted.
Shame on whoever was in charge and didn't immediately call security because of their own stupid ideas of "someone not being able to help themselves". As if it's okay for anyone to do anything "because they can't help themselves". Who decides what your boundaries are? Let me guess . . . the other person(s) who can't help themselves. I'm very familiar with people like that.
You were asking for help and no one was taking you seriously and pushing you back into a highly dangerous situation just because they lacked insight and common sense.
It's obvious those creepy guys thought they could pressure you into going to the bar. They were going to drug you, which is why they were going to bring you the drink. Those two creepy guys are really horrible. Who knows how many times they've done that before and, or will do.
This is one of those situations where because those creepy guys didn't succeed, then there are people who don't want to take the situation for as serious as it was. It would have been great if one of the people in charge had contacted security sooner, if anything it might have discouraged those creepy guys from seeking a victim at that amusement park.
Halfway through your story I was already terrified and thought Oh my God why isn't someone calling security like now!!!
I'm so glad that someone who obviously has good sense about them helped you and had the good insight to call security. That was a traumatic experience I hope you're better and healing from that trauma.
That's awful! I was stalked my my then boyfriend, but being followed by 2 random guys whilst working... My god, I'm glad you're okay from it and nothing bad happened!
Girl. You’re so smart to stand your ground and continue to say no because this is how women and children get trafficked. They’re too nice and give in. People don’t realize that this kind of thing actually happens at Disney and it’s a little scary. You’re not the first person I’ve heard similar stories from.
That was a very creepy situation, glad your ok 👍🏻
That's so creepy! Glad your okay 💙
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if theres any threat to SAFETY whether it be a cast member or a guest .....call security
I'm feeling so much anger that the managers did not take that more seriously - it makes anyone feel unsafe. I hope they know for again, nobody deserves to feel pressurised into going out to face harassment :(
thank goodness for the female staff finally offered some help - that should have been done much sooner for you
"Hopefully they found their frickin couch" - LOL - I'm so sorry that happened to you!! You absolutely did the right thing, what CREEPS!! :(
omg I thought your pug snoring was my pug snoring from the other room LOL PUG LIFE
I’m so glad nothing too serious happened. This kind of reminds me what had happened to one of my coworkers. I wasn’t working this day, but she told me about this later. I work at a small town burger joint (best hamburgers EVER) and the one old guy came in one day. He’s really creepy his eyes aren’t always lined up straight. So she’s ringing him up and he says, “I know you’re a bit too young to date me, but I think you have a cute a**” and so she just smiles awkwardly and finishes ringing him up then went to the back room to tell our manager. None of us can talk to him except to ring him up. He stopped coming in as often.
This sounds so creepy!! Glad it turned out okay!
That is creepy honestly and the managers should have done something and not just send you back when the situation hasn't been dealt with. That's so ridiculous.
The "Magic" disappears when your trying to do those things to a girl who is just there to do her job
People are so creepy!
ylime thedisneygirl Right?! 🤦🏼♀️
Allie Stamper what a name change
I completely know what that felt like from personal experience. I worked at Six Flags for a few years and my second year a guest started followong me around the park and eventually got a job at the same park as me. He continued tp stalk and harrass me all the way through the rest of the season. HR never did anything about it until I left the company. It sucks when your place of employment doesn't take the claims seriously amd just lets it slide by.
That’s harassment!! I’m so happy that the cast member intervened, literally made me sick the entire time
"it doesnt sound that scary when i put it out there"
yes it does omg i'd be horrified.
That really upsets me that the male managers acted like it was no big deal. It's a very big deal! Those men had no good intentions, I can tell you that! Glad you're safe.
Ugh I had this happen at a previous workplace. The guy kept asking for photos with me (which wasn't that unusual) but in one of them his hand got too close to my chest. I hid and called security. They deleted all his photos and kicked him out 8)
Disney Springs (or Downtown Disney when I worked there on my first DCP) gets a lot of weirdos like that simply because it's free. Thankfully, it's not as bad but clearly, they still have a ways to go.
I'm glad you're ok. God bless you.
I subscribed to you because this video popped up and I listened to this video I’m so sorry that happened to you girl that’s really scary
Ok, so I LOVE Disney but I will say that Disney clearly needs to train there team leaders and management on how to deal with people like that and on sexual harassment situations, because you were harassed by staff and guests. The men were definitely up to no good and for the male teamleaders to just dismiss it is just as disturbing as what the 2 guests were doing. So glad someone finally stepped and that you followed your gut to keep yourself safe.
honestly, there is a fine line between harmless flirting and harassment/stalking. that guy employee that was looking out for you and the lady manager that finally had radio'd security for you were awesome and actually helped the best they could without making a huge scene. the guy manager that was acting as if you were exaggerating the situation should have gotten in trouble for misjudging the situation. that could have took a very bad turn. luckily, in the end, you got help and that you're okay.
That's frustrating. If a guest ever makes my cast feel uncomfortable, let alone actually stalk them, you best believe I would be calling security. We all have work to do, and you should be able to do it in a safe environment.
I think it's disgusting that security wasn't called from the beginning and the guy members just brushed off your concerns. I would think everyones safety would be a concern whether public or staff. Glad you're ok and it hasn't affected your confidence in any way.
Security should have been called much earlier by management... Sorry you had to go through that.
Yikes! A manager should have called security so much sooner!
You look so much like Snow White! I thought you were a character cast member at first. Scary story though!
You know your a fangirl when you see the WDW on a Disney channel and still thought it was Why Don’t We and not Walt Disney World
That description reminds me of Gaston and le fou
No girl....that’s totally scary! I can’t believe your male coworkers weren’t more interested in helping you. I used to be a bartender. I had to deal with handsy weird DRUNK dudes but thankfully I always had awesome kitchen staff or bar backs that would stick up for me if needed.
Was there a couch at the bar?
I know the feeling... I work in retail and I had a repeat customer older guy like old enough to be my dad. stair hard core at me and would walk and look at me at the same time it gave me chills im 28 sooo he's old old. It got so bad I had a panic attack and one of the mangers told him he needed to stop or will be kicked out. I wish he never come back. But since he doesn't say anything or do anything to me they can't kick him out. But I walk away when I see him and hide. It still freaks me out...
I have to say, if I was in that situation, I would have been quite scared. It's a shame your guy manager didn't seem to take it too seriously, especially when they had been trying to get you to have alcohol. Seriously, what a couple of creeps.
I could hear snoring and thought it was my pug but he’s downstairs so I thought I was hearing things but aw so cute😂💜💜
wow thats so scary!!
This is serious. Can't believe they weren't kicked out.
Being that the manager did nothing, if something had happened to you after you left, Disney would be in deep shit. That's a serious issue. Glad you're ok.
always makes me angry when i hear about guys not taking these kind of things seriously. i remember i was a night shift elementary school janitor for my first job out of highschool and i would walk a good handful of the female teachers to their cars after dark or even if they just felt uncomfortable going out when there was still sunlight. we live in a pretty messed up world and we gotta be there for each other
What do you do to hide the arm art ?
I was wondering what that noise was and you said it was your pug snoring lol I thought I was hearing things
Don't apologize for your feelings -they're always valid. I personally think your male supervisor needed a retraining/upper management talk for his part in that.
If I saw that in person, I would’ve tell those two guys to leave you alone!
Glad that they called security. Working fantasmic a few years ago we had guest who were reported to be looking for girls to put into sex trafficking. I was petrified because I had to walk 2 miles back to my car and there would be these people wearing suits in the lot asking girls to go with them. Come to find out they were trying to kidnap a girl apart of our team. Be super careful! My coordinators didnt even care and that is what made me leave the company. You never know what could happen until it does. Glad you are safe.
“Just go find your couch..” 😂
"Just go find your couch" 😂
Keep up the great work on the videos!!