Jordan Peterson - How You Become Mature
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- Jordan Peterson - How You Become Mature
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When i realized my parents didn't know things i knew is when i started the grow up transition
@{Delete this} how old are you?
{Delete this} felt this completely particular with my relationship with my grandma however one thing I realize too is don’t confuse a message with the messenger cause even tho they’re not the brightest they still have wisdom from just having existed that can prove valuable as I recently experienced just hanging out with my usually toxic grandma and her helping me cook a meal for myself and my girl friend
Same and it was at 16. My hunger for knowledge changed the way I saw everything and in that time I realized that grown ups are humans too and can be wrong and when I started to question them I also realized they don’t really know that much.
@@sirmeurtrier6951 very smart observation from you. I realized this at around the same age, but I REALLY realized this around 19 when I started to really enter an adult world lol
@@TeamDazu I know what you mean lmao
I became mature when I stopped being naive.
Naivety is a dangerous state to be in.
You must teach loved ones a good knowledge of evil.
i ve read 2 books that revolve around the evil nature . the "all quiet on the western front" and "pimp by iceberg slim" , its a fairly sufficient amount but am too stubborn , any more recomendations ?
@@tahasoomro7465 study the dark triad and light triad personality types.
It will allow you to pick up red flags.
Key thing is that when I was exposed to narcs was that I didn't take their characteristics seriously. I wouldn't look to much into it. Have to be aware of danger of toxic people
@@od8163 i will study those thankyou , but i do have ample awareness to understand people and their aims , still the problem is falling to their games even knowing it , cause its not second nature to avoid or maneuver myself through them . maybe its lazyness
i didnt mature until i was 25 & during deployment which threw me into a different chaos that took me about 3 & 1/2 years to climb out of
Good for you, you should be proud.
Maturity can only come from accountable measures you take on about your own self development
Thanks for your wisdom "Dad"
All you had to do was follow the Damn train Cj
One dad, millions child
yes, that's our real dad is ......
It is interesting to hear the specific content from about 6:40 where he had mentioned that in some instances how our minds seem to be able to slow down time during critical events. I remember asking an acquaintance on how he handled himself when fights occur while he was working as a bouncer. He said that whenever the situations escalated to a fight, time seemed to have always slowed down for him as he could always out manoeuvre the attacks and neutralise them.
Wishing I had access to these videos 20 years ago...if I had the opportunity for college then maybe things would have been different 🌬💕thank you Jordan. Your wisdom and empathy are doing wonders for the people who need adequate information.
College won't teach you this knowledge.
College is not really prepped for what this gen needs. Dr. Peterson is highly critical of todays college curriculum. The political fault lines are cracking due to college indoctrinations. He has some thoughta on that as well.
Clean your room 😂
Don't be ungrateful to your parents. If you become parents ever, you will know how much pain they bear to raise you. They might not teach you these things but still they are the one who cared, protected and loved you when you knew nothing.
Not all parents.
Yes it must of been painful: sexually, physically and emotionally abusing your own children.
Ridiculous statement. Some people, like myself, have personality disordered abusive parents so....
@@lisagiannetti6765 Everyone's situation is different. In general, a person should Leave abusive parents if its unbearable to live. But taking care of them at least from distance is necessary.
People project their bs on any positive statements. If it doesn't apply to your situation, ignore the advice. No need to insult the person. Even positive universal values seem to trigger people nowadays.
"Be kind to people".
"What about murderers and sexual predators?" smh
I really admire him 😊😊😊
Amen. It all makes perfect sense. I think I need to read maps of meaning now.
I have already , 3 times. Always great.
You should definitely give it a try
I know JP does not like Jung typology for various reasons, one being how limiting it is to the process of human growth and thus being inaccurate for personality research and so on... But I’m convinced that his genius and passion grew from a preference of INFJ. Of course if he preferred that type, then he would reject the label and proceed to express the complexities of humanity. This is our generations Sigmund Freud but more edgy and likable! Yay!
Hi, I think this is the first time I've come across someone who is interested in function-based Jungian typology as opposed to all that letter-typing stuff. I've been interested in Jungian typology for a long time and I am still not sure of my type. Can you type me?
7:25 - “How they got that last an ethics committee is beyond me.” -> has he heard of VSauce doing the train experiment?
Probably not.
But they didn’t have to pass an ethics committee. The guy who worked as an ethicist told them it wasn’t acceptable. More than that, I think that the entire thing was probably fake.
That show is produced by YT, ergo Google. No way they opened themselves up to that level of liability.
I felt like my childhood personality was destroyed but I resisted that because of the people that were in my life if that makes sense
Since then I reckon I’m actually moving forward which is so foreign to me
3:17
What if you had to go up young were always mature for your age and when middle aged you are sick and tired of it?
Anna Vajda Happened to me a bit too• I’m 25 and am trying to take advantage of this conscious of this occurrence• Any recommendation?
@@Ivansthename well you're not young or middle aged. I'm talking about kids being given lots of responsibility then continuing to be responsible and how when you get older you might resent having had responsibilities put on you. At 25 I lived on my own worked 40 hours a week to pay my bills and had a dog I walked several times a day. When I got a night off I would usually try to have some fun but often just stayed home because the dog missed me.
If I were 25 now I would avoid people as much as possible which is what I am trying to do now at 40.
My father passed away when I was 17 so I picked up a lot a young age• I feel a bit resentment but hopefully I can get some things straightened out soon and can go back to college to enjoy my youth a bit more• Time truly is more valuable than money• Now the only thing to work out is how valuable money actually is•
I'm sorry, staying in because ur dog misses you doesn't count as being mature much
When we were kids, my dad used to get us to look up suicide methods because he didnt know how to use computers. Good times.
Don’t be like that JP, I followed your analogy perfectly
Sure you did.
Ah I see. Independent and self support.
Jordan Peterson looks like my old gym teacher
Jack doss - butler high school 🤣
I'm so immature I laughed when I heard arousal 6:29
Wait so this video didn't make you mature? Wow
@@DaveA7 i have no idea what you're trying to ask lmao
@@myaccount0307 Read the title of the video.
I'm so immature that l immediately clicked ur timestamp
@@DaveA7 That's not being mature. He just laughs at things like that.
name the video 'how you become mature' then watch him talk about cartoons
Thats why i like jojo
It’s a metaphor
I knew that. But I’m still considered a child
it's because other people have complexes also. if parents downtalk you and can't accept that you are grownup then they had also parent(s) who downtalked them. it's like they say in bible 4 generation sins you get on you. i'm not christian or try to force that context but i think that is very good analouge.
@@MeelisMatt often times it's not really about them getting down talked before. It's their resentments and bitterness towards life that leads them to down talk their children, they don't even need to derive that from their parents, although sometimes it is the case.
A man/child because of intellectual disability. There's no hope for Willy.
coaches don't play
🧡💛💙💚 All the ice-cream flavours in the world and we still couldn't figure out who killed Jeffrey Epstein 🧡💛💙💚
OMG, he looks like Robert Downey Jr.
not a Sickman Fraud fan.
Not going to lie, I think his all meat diet borders on amoral. It has nothing to do with consuming animals as amoral. It has to do with its inherent relationship to greed. There is no way we could produce enough meat from everyone to eat this carnivore diet. How can you say it’s healthier to only eat meat when we all know the burden it would place on sustaining animals as our total food source. If it’s healthier for Professor Peterson and if it’s also healthier for everyone, as his own story might demonstrate, how is that realistic? His daughter created the Carnivore Diet. Let’s hope it only works for a very select few, and that those people are wealthy. The Slaughter House Rules.
He switched to only veg a while back i think
You approach the possibility of a Fact, and one that even if it is true most people wouldn't change anything, as some kind of immorality. If something is truly better, the inability for everyone to theoretically do that better thing has absolutely nothing to do with its morality or immorality. That makes no logical sense.
If people live on a radioactive island, and it's much healthier to move to the next island over, although there isn't enough space for everyone there, it doesn't make moving to the other island immoral; nor does it make distributing the information that one should move to the other island for their health immoral.
In fact it would be immoral to not let people know there is a healthier way to exist. This is even more true when you realize that not everyone will believe the information, and only a small number of those who believe will act on it, and only a small number who act on it will be successful. And this is even further exemplified if there isn't much if any negative results for those who hear and don't act, and for those who try and fail.
Your argument is illogical, and your understanding of how morals work is deeply flawed.
Jordan Peterson : How to become a junkie.
The intellect are more susceptible to depression, luckily you won’t you experience it