@marthajackson1388--Happens way too often, guys (married or not) do not care if the woman is taken, married or not. I call those guys dogs and the women that go along and cheat with them and lose everything--mush for brains. It's called no respect, disgusting, reprehensible etc.....S&G (sodom and gemorrah 200.0 happening right before our eyes.
@@gksmith5072 True but also false 😂😂. I lived in the middle east for a while I am going to tell you two stories from there. It will explain the false part. Someone I knew came back from a lunch break and gave me their subway sandwich. She was upset and mad and didn't want to eat it after all. I asked her what disturbed her. She said a guy stood too close to me in Subway and I had to tear him a new one. I said aren't you overreacting, perhaps he wasn't paying attention. She said it doesn't matter stupid, I am a married woman. No man should ever feel comfortable approaching me if he wasn't my husband, my child, a relative. She spoke about the love and trust that her husband give her comes with the responsibility of protecting their reputation as being their wife and mom. She said if they saw this they will never think anything bad about me but we don't live alone in this world. Why would I put myself in a situation or allow a situation that would make it questionable for anyone else. I will tell you the second story in my other respond since it's already a long answer.
@@gksmith5072 The second story was a woman that opened a boutique. She was married to a very loving and influential husband. Both are extremely devout in their faith. Zero suspicion about her character. When she initially opened the store, she didn't allow men inside the store and only hired women. A women clothing store why would she allow men and she wanted to create a comfortable environment for women. Business tanked. She couldn't understand why because the selections e great and priced reasonably. She thought perhaps not allowing the husband in have caused this. As in the middle east they go shopping with their husbands. So she changed that rule but business still not good. So she hired men like the other stores. Short version is men knew when to flirt. She said she watched how some women get the respectful treatment or even be left to her female employees in a respectful way by the customer request. How some get flirted with and some even groped in the store. I was shocked that she allowed this to happen. Like I said very religious. Very well spoken. She basically said she gave them what they wanted. How if she didn't, she would have lost her savings and business. She started the business from an inheritance she has gotten. She said I treated them with respect but they didn't want that. She recalled how one guy that always rushed his wife when brought her before she allowed men in the store, he has gotten yelled at to take the kids to a bear by ice cream shop. This while his wife was standing in front him being groped. You had to know these two stories so you can understand my response.
as usual, the ex wife is leaving out the details. how many years of resentment towards her husband did she do before she pushed him away? how many years of unsufferable behaviour did she do towards her husband? did she let herself go? was she mean? a man doesn’t willingly stop having relations with his wife. it’d be interesting to hear the husbands side.
What a fool to ask for a separation. This is the one-time counseling that could help. She played a game and lost, so she got to thinking about her coworker.
he's mostly at fault state, and he's survived quite good in divorce, because of what ?,.. the answer is. evidence, and why he's cold to his wife ?.. well, he's already know his own wife secret for a long time, except i can read two side of stories
I think we are missing some major facts. I have never heard of an asset split like this from the court. Also it really looks like the ex husband was not happy with her and when she suggested a 'separation' he was all in. He also realized she had some one lined up for something, and even OP admits it could go further than 'lunch'. OP just needs to accept that life is over and that her only dealings with the ex is their son. Separation is also a pretty extreme step for marriage problems. How about honest communications, and then maybe counseling or even just a few days away at a family members' before a full break or open relationship which is basically a trial divorce.
Separation and cheating with the coworker was the worst ever ideea !!!!! ...what she should have done instead was... go to gym,change diet,tone up , be extra kind,bake good cakes and food- maybe even go to classes or learn proper cooking from online tutorials..a woman needs to make her man look 4ward to come home and give him PEACE , home should be a relaxing place where u find joy and recharge ..Mens most treasured need is not sex but PEACE ( most whomen dont understand this ! ) !!!!!! 😂😂 😂
Notice how this wife doesn't mention the co-worker when she asks for a temporary separation. She claims she's going to her sisters... as if it's not $ex with Chad at work that she's got planned, just 'distance'.
She breaks up her marriage to have an affair with her coworker (the Bible says adultery starts with thinking about it, and she owned up to thinking about having sex with her coworker), and is surprised when her ex husband refuses to accept her blatant disrespect. I'm willing to bet she hadn't been working on herself to drop the "baby weight" she'd picked up, her ex husband likely wasn't sexually attracted to her. Despite not being attracted to her, that man still took care of her out of respect and love for her giving him a child. So instead of working on herself to make the marriage work, she has an affair with the type of man that goes after married women because he doesn't want a woman around demanding things from him. This woman is extremely upset that her AP doesn't want a relationship with her outside of easy sex, and her ex husband has moved on.
27:01 i can only hear this woman stating out loud that she is the problem in the original relationship. This sounds wayy too much like some made up bs beggin for sympathy.
She keeps saying things that points to a psychological problem with this woman, things like “the husband is divorcing us”. “He’s my husband even if we are divorced!” Didn’t she initially want a separation, but now accuses the other women of being home-wreckers?! She didn’t care about him. Now she complains that the focus is no longer on her! She gambled and lost!
As s Danish man who have been married. Who have been accused by my Ex. Many times, despite that when married you do not " take a break from the marriage." Basta. Are you on meds ?? No you had you son, and your single girlfriends told you to Fuck Around, now you Found Out.. If your " needs " are not me, then get a divorce.. But you are American so you didn't think.. Be better at Communicating... Tell you next man. What you want to his face.. Men are from mars, women are from Venus..( is a book).. We don't operate like women do...that a you problem..
And that's how the cookie crumbles😂😂😂 Think twice before doing something that will make you regret your decision. Clearly all of this started based on your action. Cause and effect..
The husband knew about the coworker and the coworker lunches. He just responded in kind. She said it wasn't to see other people, but she was already emotionally cheating before asking for the separation with all the attention she was eating up from her coworker. She tried to play a game, and her ex-husband had better game. He doesn't view women the same anymore. She doesn't wear make up and whines all the time. This means SHE is not trying but expects her husband to still give her QUEEN treatment. She was not her husband's PEACE, so she gets nothing. 99.99 percent of the time when a wife asks for separation, a break, an open relationship, or a divorce SHE HAS ALREADY BEEN CHEATING. Whether or not she has only been grooming a potential affair partner or has already slept with him is a moot argument because both of those scenarios are CHEATING. She was investing her time and energy entertaining her coworker instead of focusing on reconnecting with her husband and she deserves the divorce and to watch him act like Hugh Hefner. She is concerned about their son seeing him be involved with two women? SO WHAT? She was involved with two men...just had been keeping the coworker in the shadows. She is so full of self righteousness that she refuses to acknowledge SHE stepped out of the marriage first. Her exhusband is showing their son that a vast majority of women are users/unworthy/not wife material so you may as well live life to make yourself happy. If my wife asked for a break/separation, I would automatically assume there is another man and I would have NO COMMITMENT to her as soon as she would leave the home to stay with family or a temp apartment...or with her secret lover...and I would file for divorce and ACT like I am divorced the very second she would walk out the door. You don't fight to keep someone in a marriage. You fight other people who attempt to invade it, like the coworker. He was the enemy of the marriage, and the wife became her own enemy by asking for separation. You do not fix something by abandoning it, so she played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. The update sounds too much like trashy behavior/Jerry Springer nonsense.
This woman has some serious balls to think that any man here would go along with her BS! She tried to scheme a scenario, where she could cheat on her husband with a total lie under a disguise of a separation!!!! She deserved every bit of what she got in the divorce!
It’s always interesting hearing the perspective of the wayward wives. Listening to just their side, if you weren’t paying attention, you would SWEAR they were an innocent party that got swindled out of a loving, caring home. In this case, the bit where she describes the husband looking at her in disgust when she mentioned them having sex gave her away super clearly. She cheated on him and he found out, which is what disgusted him so bad. No man would ever be disgusted by sex with their actual faithful wife. To top off her cheating, she also turned out to be a disgusting, unjustly vengeful woman. To try and take “everything” including the son, away from a man you know damn well you cheated on is beyond disgusting; it’s downright evil. This woman deserves to be alone for the rest of her days, taking care of cats that will never love her, as she deserves. Same for her sister, who she inadvertently exposed as a cheater also.
Some times one can create a set of circumstances that can work against their better interests. She did that very thing.. Looks like it has all blown right up in your face..
Ahh. No wonder why the OP doesn't want to come to the comments. She's afraid she's gonna get smacked down again, but verbally instead of physically. It's probably the smartest thing you did in your life. Crap, if your husband is the devil, what does it make you since you caused all this? Congratulations, you played yourself.
I remember this from the first time. Please take this as a hard truth Honestly ma'am, i guarantee you are leaving out parts of the story. There's no way that your ex looked at you with disgust when your son went away to camp for no apparent reason!!! If he really did that, there was already some sort of issue. If i had to guess I would say he probably tried to be spontaneous and flirt with you beforehand and you rejected his advances then when you were finally ready he was mentally and emotionally spent. Ma'am you cant turn it on and off at your convenience. And then you have the nerve to want a "temporary" separation just so you can go one one date with one guy??? Again, you don't get to have something intimate with another person when its convenient for you and get mad when your spouse does the same. When you asked for the separation you turned his switch off. Men are not wired to be turned on and off at the drop of a hat. Once he realized you were that comfortable with a separation he knew it was downhill from there. Then you admit that when you confronted him with the ultimatum of separation he tried to speak and you shushed him. That's one of the biggest ways to disrespect a man and that was another nail in the coffin of you ask me. To be honest you pushed him out the door and then when he realized he liked it on the other side of the door you get mad and appalled. You made your bed now lay in it. And FYI....part 2 didn't help your case at all.
Let it go. Don't bottle up the feelings. Next time communicate. Sometimes you can't fix things. Divorce amicably for the kid and yourself. There will be future events where you both need to be together. This is a 1 % true epic story where I feel both are to blame. She was wrong to ask for separation, which is a deal breaker for many. No Man wants their girl to date/hook up with another man. It's simply a deal breaker. She should have communicated with her husband, and still, the issue was not resolved. She could have simply divorced her husband. Smack Smack to the Husband in this story for bringing the poly girls around a teenager. It is not a fatherly thing to do. He should be a role model. Smack to him. He should have waited for a long, long time before entering a relationship, worked on his grind, hit the gym, etc. He should not mess up his head or with the kid's head.
Some people just don't understand loyalty. You can explain it to them, draw diagrams, give them textbooks on loyalty and they still won't get it. It has to be just the way they are. No amount of explaining will make them loyal to anyone or anything.
Like I said on part 1. She started to cheat on him way before her attempt to communicate by asking for a separation way before her initiating an emotional affair and probably went physical, which her husband was well aware of it. Now she is whining cause she was caught and can not face her consequences. BTW, in a separation is for having space to figure out what you want to do, not to go out on dates since you are still married. She just wanted a dry run, to see how her AP would fit in her lifestyle. She was so delusional by continuing to lie to her husband with the excuse for a separation, while she had another man already lined up to "fill" her needs. Asking for separation to date, yet not allowing her husband to date equates to a one way open relationship.
No wonder he wanted out. Her logic is fk** up. Best thing for him really. When he heard her talk about the separation, it must have been like a lifeline XD Goodbye basket case!
Nah let's tell the real story. Work dude was a flirt. She started a fantasy in her head about the two of them. So she cooks up this half baked "separation" to cheat guilt free. But work dude never sealed the deal. My guess is he got a great big ol whiff of her crazy and bailed before he got stuck in it. So she went back to hubby thinking she would brow beat him into thinking this entire situation was his fault. What she didnt count on was the fact that a lot of women in there 20's are choosing to date older men. And many of these women are more than willing to share. She cut her man loose in one of the craziest dating markets to ever exist for men over 35 and now she's paying the price. Play stupid games... Let's be honest, they may have flirted, but ol boy never sealed the deal because her self esteem is WAY TOO LOW for him to have legit made a move.
Why she so mad that she want a break and he ain’t want to pick it back up my guy upgraded in every way why go back to that old 🐱 when he can have two and why she so worried about his money
After my x left our 18yr marriage I wondered was it me even though she never tried. Months later my teenage daughter and her best friend put us together to date. BF mom was a great woman and we had no issues. Our first date was for dinner and then movie and ended very funny. I remember the usher waking the both of us up. She was exhausted from being mom and I from working lots of OT. My x never came around for daughter. My girlfriend decided to throw me a birthday pool party in my yard. Her 2 youngest kids and all their friends came and it was great. My x never did this for me so many take note but I had many for x. While kids were swimming and having a great time myself and girlfriend were laying on grass just relaxing. Every party I had was me doing everything while x drank and relaxed. I was actually having fun even though lots of kids. X showed up with her sister after drinking and it was midday. They sat on back stairs just looking at me. I got up walked over and told them to leave. She had never come to see daughter before. They got up and went through house but went up to daughters room then left. My daughter came down all upset because her mother told her something. Told her that I threw them out and never see daughter again and that was b.s.. Daughter believed her and that started to ruin my relationship with daughter and girlfriend because she was to blame. Never cover for x because it will come back to haunt you
The husband definitely knew she was cheating, then when she ask for that break just confirmed what he already knew. This lady is clearly not telling the complete truth.
This is an unfortunate story of a marriage that was never good and your bitterness will poison your son. Focus on yourself and heal. Move on or turn into another bitter lonely woman that men will run from.
She made a date wiht co worker before separating lied to her husband about just wanting to be alone. Shes a proven lier she most likely cheated on him and lied about it.
😂😂😂😂 Sounds like Daddy is getting taken care of. Hows that separation going for you? 😂 Are you having fun yet? I've always found it to be hilarious when women hit the wall and don't notice their husband is entering his prime. If a man stays fit and trim into old age he is 90% ahead of the rest of these guys out here. Sounds like her ex has it going on and he will keep hammering away for years to come. Congratulations, "wife". You played yourself. I bet the image of your man smothered in strange women two at a time is burned into your brain every night you sleep alone because Chad don't stay the night with anyone older than 23. Night night! 😂
She has to be leaving stuff out to make herself more of the victim, there's too much contradiction from her own words. She's lonely, but needs space. I'm going to take all his money, but I want my family. The super cringe "he divorced our son". No,he still sees his son, you know, the one you've been jealous of. Get a hobby and some friends, you didn't need to wreck your marriage for your husband to miss you.
Is this real? Actions always speak louder than words always PERIOD. If you went on a lunch date my opinion is there was more than that you cheated and lied to your husband about why you wanted the separation why didn't you tell him about your coworker? Your selfish and delusional.
Did she say she was an English major?😂😂😂😂😂😂 And let me guess part two she hooked up with Chad another metaphor, I just learned I digress he pumped and dumped another metaphor and now she’s pissed off about him too
All I hear is victim, victim, victim. She seems to conveniently forget that SHE caused all of this! Had she not asked for “separation “ so he can “wake up “ (whatever that’s supposed to mean) this is all YOUR fault lady. No deal with it.
Whole story is no good. Guy (co-worker) is a dog, he knows she's married and does not care, he continues. Guys like him need a certain surgery. Husband ray is no good, poly relationships are nothing more than vanity and numbers. I don't care if a person accepts it, you can't 100% love a person while being with someone else and if they can have multiple partners within, whose to say it doesn't go outside and they get an STD and give it to someone. Disgusting. The wife, these women with the same repetitve story over and over--this is routine yet I thought they hate routine? People today are mind numbing. What happened to monogamy? Loyalty? Respect? Hard work and good ethics? This world is upside down in mentality.
Um, divorced means just that, DIVORCED MEANING NO LONGER MARRIED. What a moron she is. As soon as those words spew out of her mouth gentlemen, you END the relationship ASAP.
He doesn't want x : So, what did She do, to make her husband Not want bedroom action? She's not telling us the whole story! Sounds like she cheated and the husband was repulsed by her. From Johnny delly
Wow this 304 is something else oo he sends to much time with our kid, I want a temporary end of marriage, I did want any one else well talking to another guy before there kid left for camp
It’s honestly sad when a woman, or anyone for that matter, is too embarrassed or ashamed of their feelings that they feel like they can’t even speak honestly about it….”Where’s MY forehead kisses??” Oh. Yeah. Yikes😬…Nvm. Burry that sh!t
Because the guy has the look it's ok that he hits on fellow female workers. It is funny how women allow this even though it is how predators work. Then when he gets what he wants you continue thinking your special. Instead of protecting the one thing he wants and even reporting him you give in. I never allowed myself to be alone with a woman at parties or work. After x left I had a FWB and it proved to me that I wasn't the problem during marriage. After first marriage some longtime female friends tried hooking me up but when i explained my view of their lifestyle it got quite. Never went with women that openly wanted something usually I was there because something in there house was broken. I never realized that all these calls to fix something might not actually be real. These women actually would stay and talk the whole time I worked and I was stupid to the reason. The craziest ones were from my wife's Brazilian girlfriends that were all dressed to kill. When I came home I think my wife was checking me out and I never failed but I never even thought it was more than a woman with no heat. The last time I went to fix a heater my wife told me something after i got home. This woman went to Brazil and had lots of surgery on butt, belly, boobs, and face. Even though she had shirt unbuttoned to expose cleavage that I snuck looks at. I honestly didn't realize it might be a test and I passed and my wife realized I was hers and she could hang her head high knowing she had a faithful husband
So she wants to mess around with other guys because her marriage has become a little stale instead of talking with her husband to resolve things between the two of them. While she is messing around with co workers she expects her husband to stay home and not talk to other women. Good riddance I hope her new experiences was worth the break up of their family.
The son doesn't need to see other females in the house when he is with his father there and like wise he doesn't need to see other men in the house with his mother. And if they are dating others they should be tested every so often as well not to pass anything to their son also without knowing it and giving an extra excuse they didn't know.
I think a lot of these stories on these similar channels are fake and have the sole purpose of keeping the men that have had bad relationships (we all have) in a constant state of anger or "against" women. Creating a constant inflated tension, feeding these men on how to think, treat and act towards women as a whole. Consuming a lot of this content myself I've only just realized how this all seems manufactured, in the sense that only the hate, anger, and controversy gets amplified and put in front of our faces for views, for consumption.
Honestly, I don't agree with what the husband is doing, neither. Indeed, the ex-wife is piece garbage and is the cause for all of this. That is no excuse, however, the expose a child to this kind of fooliness/degeneracy.
Lady, your story doesn't add up. obviously the critical parts of the story are missing. I'll bet if we heard husband's side of the story you wouldn't think they even lived in the same reality.
Of course OP you can argue that violence wasn’t justified but the reality is that you disrespected those women and assumed they would give into your entitled rant instead the punch was reality you have no invincible force field learn to duck lol
O/P, your story devolved from non-accountable delusion to full-fledged insanity. Seek professional help before you get worse, immediately if not sooner.
Both husband and the wife were in the wrong. She was wrong for wanting to give in to attention from this guy at work and he definitely neglected his wife and he obviously had a woman loved up to hope in a relationship that soon.
"When you marry someone you're still married even if you get divorced" this chick is delusional 😂😂😂
She thinks of responsibilities on his part, not on her part.
That's religious, right? She wanted to break her vow to forsake all others, but somehow invoke marriage is eternal.
She wanted a one-sided poly relationship (cuck her husband) but when he got side-chicks, she got mad.
Damn she is seething with jealousy over her ex husband doing better than her.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
She was a selfish cheater who destroyed her family yet doesn't want to take responsibility for her own actions.
She is clearly a user but the guy that wants to take out a married woman is amazing 😂😂😂
@marthajackson1388--Happens way too often, guys (married or not) do not care if the woman is taken, married or not. I call those guys dogs and the women that go along and cheat with them and lose everything--mush for brains. It's called no respect, disgusting, reprehensible etc.....S&G (sodom and gemorrah 200.0 happening right before our eyes.
Guys that hit on women they know are married need to taken out back for an attitude adjustment. Scumbags.
@@gksmith5072 100% truth/fact. Big thumbs up
@@gksmith5072 True but also false 😂😂. I lived in the middle east for a while I am going to tell you two stories from there. It will explain the false part.
Someone I knew came back from a lunch break and gave me their subway sandwich. She was upset and mad and didn't want to eat it after all. I asked her what disturbed her. She said a guy stood too close to me in Subway and I had to tear him a new one. I said aren't you overreacting, perhaps he wasn't paying attention. She said it doesn't matter stupid, I am a married woman. No man should ever feel comfortable approaching me if he wasn't my husband, my child, a relative. She spoke about the love and trust that her husband give her comes with the responsibility of protecting their reputation as being their wife and mom. She said if they saw this they will never think anything bad about me but we don't live alone in this world. Why would I put myself in a situation or allow a situation that would make it questionable for anyone else. I will tell you the second story in my other respond since it's already a long answer.
@@gksmith5072 The second story was a woman that opened a boutique. She was married to a very loving and influential husband. Both are extremely devout in their faith. Zero suspicion about her character. When she initially opened the store, she didn't allow men inside the store and only hired women. A women clothing store why would she allow men and she wanted to create a comfortable environment for women. Business tanked. She couldn't understand why because the selections e great and priced reasonably. She thought perhaps not allowing the husband in have caused this. As in the middle east they go shopping with their husbands. So she changed that rule but business still not good. So she hired men like the other stores. Short version is men knew when to flirt. She said she watched how some women get the respectful treatment or even be left to her female employees in a respectful way by the customer request. How some get flirted with and some even groped in the store. I was shocked that she allowed this to happen. Like I said very religious. Very well spoken. She basically said she gave them what they wanted. How if she didn't, she would have lost her savings and business. She started the business from an inheritance she has gotten. She said I treated them with respect but they didn't want that. She recalled how one guy that always rushed his wife when brought her before she allowed men in the store, he has gotten yelled at to take the kids to a bear by ice cream shop. This while his wife was standing in front him being groped. You had to know these two stories so you can understand my response.
as usual, the ex wife is leaving out the details.
how many years of resentment towards her husband did she do before she pushed him away? how many years of unsufferable behaviour did she do towards her husband?
did she let herself go? was she mean?
a man doesn’t willingly stop having relations with his wife.
it’d be interesting to hear the husbands side.
Great story True, & Thank you for not using the AI!!!
What a fool to ask for a separation. This is the one-time counseling that could help. She played a game and lost, so she got to thinking about her coworker.
“He’s turned into the devil” 😂 IDK why that took me out 💀
Why do they come up here and don't tell the full story. Your ex husband most likely hired a PI and knows you cheated that's he divorced you.
Because they like to play the " victim" card ! 😂
Yeah.. boohoo..
he's mostly at fault state, and he's survived quite good in divorce, because of what ?,.. the answer is. evidence, and why he's cold to his wife ?.. well, he's already know his own wife secret for a long time, except i can read two side of stories
Exactly!
I think we are missing some major facts. I have never heard of an asset split like this from the court. Also it really looks like the ex husband was not happy with her and when she suggested a 'separation' he was all in. He also realized she had some one lined up for something, and even OP admits it could go further than 'lunch'. OP just needs to accept that life is over and that her only dealings with the ex is their son.
Separation is also a pretty extreme step for marriage problems. How about honest communications, and then maybe counseling or even just a few days away at a family members' before a full break or open relationship which is basically a trial divorce.
Oct2024: Uhh, let-me-see....Wife asks for a separation and is replaced by TWO younger women. Yeah, that's gotta hurt. Retired in Sacto.
Heres my thoughts "BWHAHAHA HAHAHA HAHAHA NO!!!!!!"
Separation and cheating with the coworker was the worst ever ideea !!!!! ...what she should have done instead was... go to gym,change diet,tone up , be extra kind,bake good cakes and food- maybe even go to classes or learn proper cooking from online tutorials..a woman needs to make her man look 4ward to come home and give him PEACE , home should be a relaxing place where u find joy and recharge ..Mens most treasured need is not sex but PEACE ( most whomen dont understand this ! ) !!!!!! 😂😂 😂
Notice how this wife doesn't mention the co-worker when she asks for a temporary separation. She claims she's going to her sisters... as if it's not $ex with Chad at work that she's got planned, just 'distance'.
She breaks up her marriage to have an affair with her coworker (the Bible says adultery starts with thinking about it, and she owned up to thinking about having sex with her coworker), and is surprised when her ex husband refuses to accept her blatant disrespect. I'm willing to bet she hadn't been working on herself to drop the "baby weight" she'd picked up, her ex husband likely wasn't sexually attracted to her. Despite not being attracted to her, that man still took care of her out of respect and love for her giving him a child. So instead of working on herself to make the marriage work, she has an affair with the type of man that goes after married women because he doesn't want a woman around demanding things from him. This woman is extremely upset that her AP doesn't want a relationship with her outside of easy sex, and her ex husband has moved on.
27:01 i can only hear this woman stating out loud that she is the problem in the original relationship. This sounds wayy too much like some made up bs beggin for sympathy.
She keeps saying things that points to a psychological problem with this woman, things like “the husband is divorcing us”. “He’s my husband even if we are divorced!” Didn’t she initially want a separation, but now accuses the other women of being home-wreckers?! She didn’t care about him. Now she complains that the focus is no longer on her! She gambled and lost!
I just love a happy ending when karma is served on time.
Well, she set herself up for life of stewing in her own sauce of bitterness, grudge and regret.
As s Danish man who have been married.
Who have been accused by my Ex. Many times, despite that when married you do not " take a break from the marriage." Basta.
Are you on meds ??
No you had you son, and your single girlfriends told you to Fuck Around, now you Found Out..
If your " needs " are not me, then get a divorce..
But you are American so you didn't think..
Be better at Communicating... Tell you next man.
What you want to his face..
Men are from mars, women are from Venus..( is a book)..
We don't operate like women do...that a you problem..
What about me? What about Raven?!
And that's how the cookie crumbles😂😂😂
Think twice before doing something that will make you regret your decision.
Clearly all of this started based on your action.
Cause and effect..
So she wanted to sleep around and disrespect her husband but her husband wasn’t allowed to do the same. She is living in a delusional world 😂
The husband knew about the coworker and the coworker lunches. He just responded in kind. She said it wasn't to see other people, but she was already emotionally cheating before asking for the separation with all the attention she was eating up from her coworker. She tried to play a game, and her ex-husband had better game. He doesn't view women the same anymore. She doesn't wear make up and whines all the time. This means SHE is not trying but expects her husband to still give her QUEEN treatment. She was not her husband's PEACE, so she gets nothing. 99.99 percent of the time when a wife asks for separation, a break, an open relationship, or a divorce SHE HAS ALREADY BEEN CHEATING. Whether or not she has only been grooming a potential affair partner or has already slept with him is a moot argument because both of those scenarios are CHEATING. She was investing her time and energy entertaining her coworker instead of focusing on reconnecting with her husband and she deserves the divorce and to watch him act like Hugh Hefner. She is concerned about their son seeing him be involved with two women? SO WHAT? She was involved with two men...just had been keeping the coworker in the shadows. She is so full of self righteousness that she refuses to acknowledge SHE stepped out of the marriage first. Her exhusband is showing their son that a vast majority of women are users/unworthy/not wife material so you may as well live life to make yourself happy. If my wife asked for a break/separation, I would automatically assume there is another man and I would have NO COMMITMENT to her as soon as she would leave the home to stay with family or a temp apartment...or with her secret lover...and I would file for divorce and ACT like I am divorced the very second she would walk out the door. You don't fight to keep someone in a marriage. You fight other people who attempt to invade it, like the coworker. He was the enemy of the marriage, and the wife became her own enemy by asking for separation. You do not fix something by abandoning it, so she played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. The update sounds too much like trashy behavior/Jerry Springer nonsense.
Her husband knew what she was up to and was one step ahead.
This woman has some serious balls to think that any man here would go along with her BS! She tried to scheme a scenario, where she could cheat on her husband with a total lie under a disguise of a separation!!!! She deserved every bit of what she got in the divorce!
It’s always interesting hearing the perspective of the wayward wives. Listening to just their side, if you weren’t paying attention, you would SWEAR they were an innocent party that got swindled out of a loving, caring home. In this case, the bit where she describes the husband looking at her in disgust when she mentioned them having sex gave her away super clearly. She cheated on him and he found out, which is what disgusted him so bad. No man would ever be disgusted by sex with their actual faithful wife.
To top off her cheating, she also turned out to be a disgusting, unjustly vengeful woman. To try and take “everything” including the son, away from a man you know damn well you cheated on is beyond disgusting; it’s downright evil. This woman deserves to be alone for the rest of her days, taking care of cats that will never love her, as she deserves. Same for her sister, who she inadvertently exposed as a cheater also.
Some times one can create a set of circumstances that can work against their better interests.
She did that very thing..
Looks like it has all blown right up in your face..
She takes no accountability.
Ex wife meet the undefeated WALL 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ahh. No wonder why the OP doesn't want to come to the comments. She's afraid she's gonna get smacked down again, but verbally instead of physically. It's probably the smartest thing you did in your life. Crap, if your husband is the devil, what does it make you since you caused all this? Congratulations, you played yourself.
Ross was on a break🎉😂😂😂😂
I remember this from the first time. Please take this as a hard truth
Honestly ma'am, i guarantee you are leaving out parts of the story. There's no way that your ex looked at you with disgust when your son went away to camp for no apparent reason!!! If he really did that, there was already some sort of issue. If i had to guess I would say he probably tried to be spontaneous and flirt with you beforehand and you rejected his advances then when you were finally ready he was mentally and emotionally spent. Ma'am you cant turn it on and off at your convenience. And then you have the nerve to want a "temporary" separation just so you can go one one date with one guy??? Again, you don't get to have something intimate with another person when its convenient for you and get mad when your spouse does the same. When you asked for the separation you turned his switch off. Men are not wired to be turned on and off at the drop of a hat. Once he realized you were that comfortable with a separation he knew it was downhill from there. Then you admit that when you confronted him with the ultimatum of separation he tried to speak and you shushed him. That's one of the biggest ways to disrespect a man and that was another nail in the coffin of you ask me. To be honest you pushed him out the door and then when he realized he liked it on the other side of the door you get mad and appalled. You made your bed now lay in it.
And FYI....part 2 didn't help your case at all.
Her delusion morphed into insanity - full insanity - in part 2.
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Let it go. Don't bottle up the feelings. Next time communicate. Sometimes you can't fix things. Divorce amicably for the kid and yourself. There will be future events where you both need to be together. This is a 1 % true epic story where I feel both are to blame. She was wrong to ask for separation, which is a deal breaker for many. No Man wants their girl to date/hook up with another man. It's simply a deal breaker. She should have communicated with her husband, and still, the issue was not resolved. She could have simply divorced her husband. Smack Smack to the Husband in this story for bringing the poly girls around a teenager. It is not a fatherly thing to do. He should be a role model. Smack to him. He should have waited for a long, long time before entering a relationship, worked on his grind, hit the gym, etc. He should not mess up his head or with the kid's head.
she not even about that life she need to stop with her goofy ass LUL
Some people just don't understand loyalty. You can explain it to them, draw diagrams, give them textbooks on loyalty and they still won't get it. It has to be just the way they are. No amount of explaining will make them loyal to anyone or anything.
"Bimbo 2 decked me in the face"😂😂😂😂
A.remain loyal
B.cheat
C.ask for separation
or how about
D.be honest and talk to your husband about how you feel.
You belong to the streets…😂😂😂
The “break” is an ending. Understand this. There’s no coming back, so be careful what you wish for.
Like I said on part 1. She started to cheat on him way before her attempt to communicate by asking for a separation way before her initiating an emotional affair and probably went physical, which her husband was well aware of it. Now she is whining cause she was caught and can not face her consequences. BTW, in a separation is for having space to figure out what you want to do, not to go out on dates since you are still married. She just wanted a dry run, to see how her AP would fit in her lifestyle. She was so delusional by continuing to lie to her husband with the excuse for a separation, while she had another man already lined up to "fill" her needs. Asking for separation to date, yet not allowing her husband to date equates to a one way open relationship.
No wonder he wanted out. Her logic is fk** up. Best thing for him really. When he heard her talk about the separation, it must have been like a lifeline XD
Goodbye basket case!
I'm not a cheater, says every cheater who has ever existed. I don't want to cheat again, says every cheater ever who has existed.
The break was for her to cheat, without feeling guimty, just loke open up the relationship
Nah let's tell the real story. Work dude was a flirt. She started a fantasy in her head about the two of them. So she cooks up this half baked "separation" to cheat guilt free. But work dude never sealed the deal. My guess is he got a great big ol whiff of her crazy and bailed before he got stuck in it. So she went back to hubby thinking she would brow beat him into thinking this entire situation was his fault.
What she didnt count on was the fact that a lot of women in there 20's are choosing to date older men. And many of these women are more than willing to share. She cut her man loose in one of the craziest dating markets to ever exist for men over 35 and now she's paying the price. Play stupid games...
Let's be honest, they may have flirted, but ol boy never sealed the deal because her self esteem is WAY TOO LOW for him to have legit made a move.
Why she so mad that she want a break and he ain’t want to pick it back up my guy upgraded in every way why go back to that old 🐱 when he can have two and why she so worried about his money
After my x left our 18yr marriage I wondered was it me even though she never tried. Months later my teenage daughter and her best friend put us together to date. BF mom was a great woman and we had no issues. Our first date was for dinner and then movie and ended very funny. I remember the usher waking the both of us up. She was exhausted from being mom and I from working lots of OT. My x never came around for daughter. My girlfriend decided to throw me a birthday pool party in my yard. Her 2 youngest kids and all their friends came and it was great. My x never did this for me so many take note but I had many for x. While kids were swimming and having a great time myself and girlfriend were laying on grass just relaxing. Every party I had was me doing everything while x drank and relaxed. I was actually having fun even though lots of kids. X showed up with her sister after drinking and it was midday. They sat on back stairs just looking at me. I got up walked over and told them to leave. She had never come to see daughter before. They got up and went through house but went up to daughters room then left. My daughter came down all upset because her mother told her something. Told her that I threw them out and never see daughter again and that was b.s.. Daughter believed her and that started to ruin my relationship with daughter and girlfriend because she was to blame. Never cover for x because it will come back to haunt you
The husband definitely knew she was cheating, then when she ask for that break just confirmed what he already knew. This lady is clearly not telling the complete truth.
This is an unfortunate story of a marriage that was never good and your bitterness will poison your son. Focus on yourself and heal. Move on or turn into another bitter lonely woman that men will run from.
She made a date wiht co worker before separating lied to her husband about just wanting to be alone. Shes a proven lier she most likely cheated on him and lied about it.
😂😂😂😂 Sounds like Daddy is getting taken care of.
Hows that separation going for you? 😂 Are you having fun yet?
I've always found it to be hilarious when women hit the wall and don't notice their husband is entering his prime. If a man stays fit and trim into old age he is 90% ahead of the rest of these guys out here. Sounds like her ex has it going on and he will keep hammering away for years to come.
Congratulations, "wife". You played yourself. I bet the image of your man smothered in strange women two at a time is burned into your brain every night you sleep alone because Chad don't stay the night with anyone older than 23. Night night! 😂
She has to be leaving stuff out to make herself more of the victim, there's too much contradiction from her own words. She's lonely, but needs space. I'm going to take all his money, but I want my family. The super cringe "he divorced our son". No,he still sees his son, you know, the one you've been jealous of. Get a hobby and some friends, you didn't need to wreck your marriage for your husband to miss you.
Yeah, time to buy those cats!
Once a week, luxury
You are the one who cheated and destroyed his marriage and broke his heart but his the devil take note boyz thats some women math right there
Is this real? Actions always speak louder than words always PERIOD. If you went on a lunch date my opinion is there was more than that you cheated and lied to your husband about why you wanted the separation why didn't you tell him about your coworker? Your selfish and delusional.
Take what a woman admits to and multiply it by 100. That’s likely closer to the truth.
Did she say she was an English major?😂😂😂😂😂😂
And let me guess part two she hooked up with Chad another metaphor, I just learned I digress he pumped and dumped another metaphor and now she’s pissed off about him too
All I hear is victim, victim, victim. She seems to conveniently forget that SHE caused all of this! Had she not asked for “separation “ so he can “wake up “ (whatever that’s supposed to mean) this is all YOUR fault lady. No deal with it.
A forehead kiss.. I do that too ... even though my kids are now adult....
They are my kids.she is my ex.. for a reason..
Whole story is no good. Guy (co-worker) is a dog, he knows she's married and does not care, he continues. Guys like him need a certain surgery. Husband ray is no good, poly relationships are nothing more than vanity and numbers. I don't care if a person accepts it, you can't 100% love a person while being with someone else and if they can have multiple partners within, whose to say it doesn't go outside and they get an STD and give it to someone. Disgusting. The wife, these women with the same repetitve story over and over--this is routine yet I thought they hate routine? People today are mind numbing. What happened to monogamy? Loyalty? Respect? Hard work and good ethics? This world is upside down in mentality.
Um, divorced means just that, DIVORCED MEANING NO LONGER MARRIED. What a moron she is. As soon as those words spew out of her mouth gentlemen, you END the relationship ASAP.
Someone please tell this woman that none of us are married to her.
Therefore, none of us have to believe her stupid lies.
He doesn't want x :
So, what did She do, to make her husband Not want bedroom action?
She's not telling us the whole story!
Sounds like she cheated and the husband was repulsed by her.
From Johnny delly
Wow this 304 is something else oo he sends to much time with our kid, I want a temporary end of marriage, I did want any one else well talking to another guy before there kid left for camp
It’s honestly sad when a woman, or anyone for that matter, is too embarrassed or ashamed of their feelings that they feel like they can’t even speak honestly about it….”Where’s MY forehead kisses??” Oh. Yeah. Yikes😬…Nvm. Burry that sh!t
Because the guy has the look it's ok that he hits on fellow female workers. It is funny how women allow this even though it is how predators work. Then when he gets what he wants you continue thinking your special. Instead of protecting the one thing he wants and even reporting him you give in. I never allowed myself to be alone with a woman at parties or work. After x left I had a FWB and it proved to me that I wasn't the problem during marriage. After first marriage some longtime female friends tried hooking me up but when i explained my view of their lifestyle it got quite. Never went with women that openly wanted something usually I was there because something in there house was broken. I never realized that all these calls to fix something might not actually be real. These women actually would stay and talk the whole time I worked and I was stupid to the reason. The craziest ones were from my wife's Brazilian girlfriends that were all dressed to kill. When I came home I think my wife was checking me out and I never failed but I never even thought it was more than a woman with no heat. The last time I went to fix a heater my wife told me something after i got home. This woman went to Brazil and had lots of surgery on butt, belly, boobs, and face. Even though she had shirt unbuttoned to expose cleavage that I snuck looks at. I honestly didn't realize it might be a test and I passed and my wife realized I was hers and she could hang her head high knowing she had a faithful husband
Tbf I know what it’s like to be in a dead bedroom relationship starved of sex and intimacy so I don’t fully blame her really.
So she wants to mess around with other guys because her marriage has become a little stale instead of talking with her husband to resolve things between the two of them. While she is messing around with co workers she expects her husband to stay home and not talk to other women. Good riddance I hope her new experiences was worth the break up of their family.
The son doesn't need to see other females in the house when he is with his father there and like wise he doesn't need to see other men in the house with his mother.
And if they are dating others they should be tested every so often as well not to pass anything to their son also without knowing it and giving an extra excuse they didn't know.
He knew
I'm just curious if she introduced.
The guy she was dating to her husband
Must be a glitch in the matrix...where the heck is part 2? It just repeats
Okay there is something she's not telling us. There is no way this is the whole truth.
Well.. I’m the beginning of the story… all she really had to do… was lose weight…
I think a lot of these stories on these similar channels are fake and have the sole purpose of keeping the men that have had bad relationships (we all have) in a constant state of anger or "against" women. Creating a constant inflated tension, feeding these men on how to think, treat and act towards women as a whole. Consuming a lot of this content myself I've only just realized how this all seems manufactured, in the sense that only the hate, anger, and controversy gets amplified and put in front of our faces for views, for consumption.
Honestly, I don't agree with what the husband is doing, neither. Indeed, the ex-wife is piece garbage and is the cause for all of this. That is no excuse, however, the expose a child to this kind of fooliness/degeneracy.
Lady, your story doesn't add up. obviously the critical parts of the story are missing. I'll bet if we heard husband's side of the story you wouldn't think they even lived in the same reality.
Of course OP you can argue that violence wasn’t justified but the reality is that you disrespected those women and assumed they would give into your entitled rant instead the punch was reality you have no invincible force field learn to duck lol
Why do women continue to do this stupid break garbage it never ends well
27:16 lady this the first time you got smacked?
Yup. The first time someone smacked her in the face for running her mouth.
O/P, your story devolved from non-accountable delusion to full-fledged insanity. Seek professional help before you get worse, immediately if not sooner.
There is something wrong with story..
Get your ex. To tell is from his angle !!!
You are nok telling EVERYTHING...
I'm usually with the huzbent in most of these stories this guy is definitely a JERK !
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FA and Find Out
Both husband and the wife were in the wrong. She was wrong for wanting to give in to attention from this guy at work and he definitely neglected his wife and he obviously had a woman loved up to hope in a relationship that soon.
Pretty sure the guy was already cheating on his wife. You can't neglect the wife if you want a healthy marriage.
Maybe. But we only got one side of the story.
Yeah, she wanted attention from Dick, Peter, and Johnson.
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