@@miloszruczynski1230 That's the thing. Busy adults don't have time to bother making up their Pronouns. Real life has real problems, like homeless,inflation, housing crisis, middle class disappearing, people not being able to retire Find a hobby or a life...😢
Ya that was a weird thing to say. I don't even know how you even substantiate such a claim. But these same people claim Asians are honorary whites when it fits their narrative🤷
As a citizen of a third world country (Pakistan), I often think to myself that some of ya'll abuse your freedom and since you don't have any real problems, you create them. The first man was just baffling.
I often wonder what would become of all of these woke people, with the very made up problems of what pronouns to use for their goldfish, suddenly found themselves in Afganistan or Ukraine, or some other embattled country.
As a citizen of a first-world country (America), I've come to realize that the more I learn about other countries, the more I understand that a lot of the things people argue about here are very trivial compared to what others have to go through on a daily basis. My friend lives in a country that is being bombed on a day-to-day basis, and we are here debating what gender is. It's embarrassing.
I went to therapy for 4-5 years due to anxiety depression and an ED. If my therapist affirmed everything I said or never challenged me- then what the hell was i paying for?? My therapist was lovely but she told me when i was in the wrong. She saved me because of it.
MLK jr is rolling in his grave at this crap. That man fought so hard to end segregation only for people to want to bring it back with interest 60 years later...
That's exactly what I thought. I'm white and I think what that guy said is an absolute slap in the face to those who fought in the Civil Rights Movement. Probably his grandparents.
As a former therapist I do not believe in blind affirmation or encouraging delusional behavior .. I’m so tired of these so called therapists giving the clinical field a bad rep.. people already thought we were a joke smh
You are so right, it is really sad. Because there are more really good therapists that help people than there are bad. But this type of insanity prevents people who really need the help from getting it because they assume all therapists are as ridiculous as the FOLX therapist shown here!!!!!
In my country licensed therapists aren't allowed to encourage or discourage any behaviour. In fact, they can't express their opinions to patients at all. All they do is ask questions.
i have bipolar and ocd and if my therapist reaffirmed all my bad decisions i’d be gone lmao just because your therapist doesn’t agree with everything you do, it doesn’t mean they’re not showing support!!!!!
Yes! If my therapist had reaffirmed all of my bad thoughts about myself I don't know how I would have got to the better version of myself that I am today. The whole point of therapy is to work through YOUR issues and learn to evolve, not to surrender to your delusions. 🙄
@@illyGalSloth yes, 100%!!! if someone really cares about your progress and wellbeing, they’ll tell you you’re on a destructive path. and :,) thank you so much for your kind words 💛 have an amazing day
Wait, isn't Germany JUST as bad in it's insane gender bending affirmations and lawmaking than the U.S is? I somehow see most of Europe as a cesspool of liberals and gender monsters. Am I wrong about that?
The X seems to be a branding iron for the LGBTQIA+-/*Pi etc people. Just like LatinX. "Latinos" would be all-inclusive, but they had to make up a new word just for them and by them.
i’m a behavioral therapist. i would never judge my clients. however, i refuse to reinforce their negative behaviors. that’d be dishonorable of myself, as i wouldn’t be furthering their success.
As a Christian, I don't force my religion on people. It doesn't offend me if you're not religious, or believes in different religions. It's a free country.
@@alyzak.8997can I ask how you follow in the prophet’s words all the while knowing he kept, traded, sold sex slaves, as well as r@ping child brides? I don’t think I could get past that and struggle to understand how people that are Islamic do. Genuine question.
I miss the early 2000s I was a young child but the world didn’t feel so divided and pushy. Many people did what you too are doing nowadays it’s seems like you have to choose something or your an enemy
@@alyzak.8997I don't understand what that means. Moderate is more a political term than one of a faith that is supposed to be the foundation of a person 's life.
There are still people (should I say "folx", lol) who use use them in a proper way. It's just thay don't get views because now wokes are the ones who are the actual trendy on the social media... But I doubt they actually behave like that in their daily life. At least I hope so!
Yeah, honestly social media needs to go away and go away fast. People were much safer before facebook, twitter, and all the other platforms. The world seemed normal before all these platforms came around. And my opinion would be is, it would not be a 1st amendment issue for destroying all these platforms or suppression like people think it is. Children and sick people just simply wouldn’t be exposed to other people’s nonsense. This is exactly why when I am finally blessed with children they will not have cell phones. It’s a technology that isn’t necessary for them until they are grown adults and can afford to buy one.
What training do they need? This looks like some thing I could jump on the bandwagon for. Whatever your problem I can google an answer for you. Also I plan on charging top dollar to make you feel better about yourself. Win win
Funny story I actually misgendered my pet lizard, because I gave her the name Goku before she was old enough to determine gender. Now that I know I just call her Girlku 😂
I saw that FOLX therapist video the other day and all I took from it is that she will agree with everything you say to her. As far as I know, that's not therapy, that's enabling...
I am a woman, and i will only accept that term for myself!! Call me "'cis" and you will get no acknowledgement from me, no response whatsoever. Respect Works Both Ways Dude!
I’ve benefitted from therapy. My former therapist never affirmed my OCD illogical thoughts and fears. Rather, she had me think logically and outside the box. I could never be as far as I am today without her. Unfortunately a lot of my conservative friends and relatives refuse to go because of the loud woke therapists. It’s very sad.
So why would black children need to be segregated in order for the proper story to be told the way he proposes? Wouldn't it be better for white children to also hear the "accurate history" be told? What does segregation have anything to do with what he said??
Accurate history is that there were slaves all over the world.. from all kinds of tribes.. black/white/asian.. and thus he is not special at all.. and should just stop victimizing and discriminating against white people who did nothing to him. Also what happened in the past to his ancestors is history.. it didnt happen to him.. and its not someones fault that is still alive.. there is noone to blame.. but urself.. hard to get for some. White people should stop pandering to this faulty retoric... black people use their victimhood to get ahead.. because it works...
a good therapist is supposed to challenge your views if they are unbalanced regarding yourself or the world...a good therapist doesn't affirm affirm affirm...that is not helpful
I’m a psychology student. Trying to get my doctorates. My job will not be to affirm someone. My job will be to help someone better their mental health and their wellbeing. There’s a difference between helping someone with mental health issues vs saying “yes you are this!”
6:09 I've always used the word "folks" as it's traditional meaning retaining to multiple people, art, music. So I'm sure you can imagine my frustration with people using the word "folx", is just meaningless when the word they want already exists. They only made up that word to feel different and important. 🙄
I'm a therapist and have a hard time believing this "Folx therapist" has a license. I'm a CBT therapist... that is one evidence based method to help people fix their problems. "Folx" therapy is laughably, "not a thing," as you said, Amala!
In my personal opinion it's all one big giant scam. Just stupid people creating things that aren't even real so they can feel important and try to force their beliefs on other people that don't understand it. It's somewhere down the line it will magically become important or just get push somewhere in the society. It's all one giant big plot to get people's money
@@sarabyrd3374 CBT stands for cognitive-behavioral therapy, DBT is a subtype/offshoot of that. So if that didn't help, CBT probably won't either. Psychoanalysis is your best bet for personality disorders; the effectiveness of therapy will be directly proportional to how much work you(!) put in (so yes, find a therapy style that works for you in that regard!); don't fall for anything that sounds like a miracle. And do stay away from the folx people ;)
If I was separate by race when we were in school I would have got the message we were different. Which happens to be the exact opposite I was taught at home
Hey Amala! Could you talk about our situation here, in Brazil? X/Twitter was shot down by the government yesterday. Plus, if we use VPN to acess X, the government said that we will need to pay 50 hundred reais (9 hundred dollars) as a penalty.
Maybe if NASA wasn't focused on DEI and instead quality of their equipment, we wouldn't have a couple astronauts stranded on the ISS until February when Space X can bring them home.
@@nikkipage6919 DEI is an acronym which stands for "Diversity, Equity (different from equality btw), and Inclusion". I had to look it up because I've never heard the acronym before either
There is a major distinction between therapists with a master's in psychology and therapists without, if you really need help, seek help from a fully qualified psychologist, not some random folx therapist without clinical training.
Here's a response, "Hey, cupcake! The world doesn't revolve around you." If I don't get to tell you what to think or say, neither do you get to tell me what to think or say.
My manager went behind my back and hired a transwoman to work on MY team and then told me 10mins before my shift that I have to refer to him as "they/them." NO!! I only call him by his name. I'm not changing my language that I've been using my whole life, I'm not ignoring what my eyes see and what I was taught in English class. And he is been kept away from ALL areas that have female showers/changing rooms/lavatories. I'm not comfortable with it, we work in a school with 10-18 year old kids
Thanks Amala, for your ongoing sanity, intelligence & healthy humour. You are a gem. Especially as a much needed younger broadcaster. While some continue to try and confuse, divide and therefore weaken & control people... Some have the strength, maturity, balance & awareness to prompt us to take individual responsibility & work together to move forward in a better way... Together.
Just because my brain struggled with that, I'm going to restate your absolutely right statement. (This is a "me" problem here.) "The thing about narcissists is that if you feed the monster, the monster will become more manipulative and dominating." 100% I have seen this happen with people I know irl.
Yet we’re supposed to normalize this kind of ideology. He (yes, HE!) can do and think what he wants and I’m fine with that, but don’t impose your ideology on us and especially not our children.
@@WarHammerWHSometimes I sit in my car and see people who look like that and I wait for them to leave and don’t interact. I’m not joking, I see a couple obese dyed haired people in public weekly. 😂
@@rwaggs2623She used to have a talk show. She was dating the head of the network. I'm sure that had nothing to do with her having her own show. She's supposed to be a comedian.
“Of course I know you did That thing you said you weren’t gonna do… and I support you anyway.” …That sounds like enabling… and that’s not always a good thing.
In the animal kingdom, there's a difference between males and females. They behave differently. So there's no way to switch pronouns when you're talking about animals (by the way, some people seem to forget that the human being is also an animal).
It’s an insult to people such as the Loving couple who fought for their own marriage and others. For the context, the couple was about a white man and black woman being childhood friends, deciding to marry each other in their adulthood. It was illegal in the state they lived in, and they fought their way to change that, and they succeeded at doing so. What that unhinged guy said in that video, made me think that he would have enjoyed that time-period, where an innocent couple would be treated as criminals over an harmless decision.
My mouth fell the f*ck open when that person made that absurd statement. We came so far to see people as equal and we're going BACKWARDS! Why in the HELL would we want to separate people by skin color again?!?!?!?!
Yeaaah.. now that you mentioned it, it does make sense- a lot of people say "you get to believe what you want to believe, just don't force it on me" and yet impose at the same time "you should only call me this" Granted, it can be likened to a "hey, this is my name.. so please call me this" kind of thing, and shouldn't be an issue. But, at the same time, what if though that the how you wanna be called itself infringes on that other person's beliefs so uhh.. who is right? Who is wrong? And why should only one side compromise? 🤔
Close, but no cigar. First person = I, me, us, we. Second person = you, y'all, you guys, y'uns (sp?). This is the one that you "address" people with, and is already gender neutral. Third person = he, she, it, him, her, they, them. This is the one you're talking about... third person pronouns, when people speak ABOUT you. So, nothing they're going to "respond" to in the first place.
I mean, that's only kinda true, you use them when you're having a conversation with at least three people. Nonetheless, those are pronouns *for* you and not *your* pronouns to begin with.
First clip - And I'm a sci-fi fan used to seeing scary things. This is a 'man' used very loosely - he will always be one, regardless how he makes himself look so monstrous, and I will never, even call a man a woman and a woman a man - never.
Not every therapist is a good therapist. My own older brother is a licensed therapist and when my mom kicked me out and my then boyfriend now husband took me in no second thoughts what did my brother say to my mom? That she should tell my husband to leave me on the side of the highway so that I have no choice but to come home like I should have asked to do in the first place instead of leaving when I was kicked out. I was a 19 year old woman he encouraged my mother to try to convince my husband to leave on a highway in California in august with no money. So yeah just passing your courses doesn’t make you a good therapist
As a therapist, it can truly hurt people when you blindly accept and affirm everything a person has done and thinks. You have to find the areas that are causing distress in a person and help them figure out how to overcome it. You can't just listen to people and say "why are you upset, I accept you as you are." You can accept someone as they are as far as personally, but if they're wanting a therapist, then something is wrong, and it's a therapist's job to help the person overcome that which is mentally harming them.
1. How rich of the first dude to accuse other people of not knowing what gender is! 2. Anyone who unironically uses the term "folx" should never be allowed in the medical field!
So happy I subbed last month. You really know your stuff and argue/point their flaws. What’s going on in the US is slowly coming to Europe unfortunately. UK has fallen. Sweden decadeS ago.
So, the Folx therapist has me convinced that they really appreciate who I am! They're planning on listening very carefully to me. They haven't pre-judged me at all, because they're so proud of me already.
They're mocking women and women's rights. They're like I have long hair, must be a woman...also the attitude is kinda agressive and never once did they show compassion or understanding towards women... yet he's expecting everyone to do as they say...I don't trust him in a bathroom alone with little girls 😢...so much anger in their eyes and their demeanor. How is that reassuring for women...
Hi there! This is an ad hominem logical fallacy, where you completely bypass any valid talking points in favor of insulting the person for their appearance or something just as superficial. If you’re going to be transphobic at least do it right.
I'm from Brazil, and I start to watch your videos a week ago, and I feel so amazed about those people that you react, cause they're just crazy, and I feel even more amazed for the fact that you guys are so used to those things, that it doesn't bother you animore. (For some mistake in my english, I say SORRY)
Unfortunately he's a teacher. Not a very good one nor compassionate one. They're obviously trying to push their ideology into the students they're supposed to be teaching...😢
Gender is a term that came about because the term "sex" was impolite. They are the same. Plus pronouns are used when that person is not around generally. So you never know what pronouns are used for you
When my 11year younger brother said was asked what he wanted to be when he grows up was a lion I said that will never happen. What happened to not lying to kids????????
What was that disclaimer at the beginning? I spent the first 3 minutes looking for it😳😡 I had to go back and watch from the beginning 😆 Anyway... love your content and opinions about what's going on. 😊💙
It really seems like a whole mouth full of hypocrisy, only accepting she her, but then it doesn't have accept beliefs!!!! What the actual F is going on here!
Let's just remember that Elon Musk has been hired by the ISS to get a couple astronauts back safely cause their previous shuttle didn't work so well. and let's also remember Elon had warned against that same spaceship before it was launched
I really want to know when did this woke crap begin? I swear everything was fine, and now the internet is full of these strange individuals with insane ideologies!
My old therapist was extremely open to different “rights” and “wrongs” to the point where it just made me extremely uncomfortable because I didn’t know if the behaviour I was exhibiting was harmful or not😅
I hear ya 😂 i once spoke to a therapist about something i was incredibly worried about being judged for. I was open about that fear. Then she judged me for said thing. She never got anything else out of me 😂😂😂😂
The best thing for any child regardless of race is to avoid any organization founded by Margaret Sanger. Just imagine where the black community would be without her.
PP and LBJ have done more harm to society at large and black demographic specifically than anything else in the last 60 years. In some areas the abortion rate is higher than the birth rate.
I am a constitutional activist and this is one reason people need to know their rights. Arresting people for speech is against the first amendment of the United States they’ve already put a law in Michigan and it will stay on the books unless somebody gets arrested and rides it out ….or somebody sues the state….. free speech is so important and they do not teach your rights to you in school very few schools (if any) do.
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A good therapist is NOT suppose to agree with everything you think or feel
Yes! The point of seeing a therapist is to solve a problem we have, not to convince ourselves it isn't a problem.
I want to address Your comment so I'd like to know Your comment's pronouns. Respectfully Yours/Xers/Xerxes/Xerox
@@miloszruczynski1230
That's the thing. Busy adults don't have time to bother making up their Pronouns. Real life has real problems, like homeless,inflation, housing crisis, middle class disappearing, people not being able to retire
Find a hobby or a life...😢
@@miloszruczynski1230lol Xerxes, Xerox? 👏🏻
@@deyc3760 BIGOT! :D
Wait. Perfectionism is white supremacy culture?! As an Asian, I'm offended 🤣🤣🤣
Ya that was a weird thing to say. I don't even know how you even substantiate such a claim. But these same people claim Asians are honorary whites when it fits their narrative🤷
Ya that's just weird to say. But hey according to these people Asians are honorary whites soo 🤷
"Perfectionism", "sense of urgency"
*Japan and the entire bonsai tree culture* am I a joke to you? 😢😅
@@malumachado4561 yep, I'm Japanese, so I feel like a joke right now, lol
Best comment here!!!
My dogs pronouns are feed/me.
It's not feed/pet?
Lol
@@BlueSmokie I don’t think pets would think of themselves as pets
My cats are food/litter boxes/treats
best comment
As a citizen of a third world country (Pakistan), I often think to myself that some of ya'll abuse your freedom and since you don't have any real problems, you create them. The first man was just baffling.
This!!! Thank you!!!!!
I often wonder what would become of all of these woke people, with the very made up problems of what pronouns to use for their goldfish, suddenly found themselves in Afganistan or Ukraine, or some other embattled country.
I agree with you completely
As a citizen of a first-world country (America), I've come to realize that the more I learn about other countries, the more I understand that a lot of the things people argue about here are very trivial compared to what others have to go through on a daily basis. My friend lives in a country that is being bombed on a day-to-day basis, and we are here debating what gender is. It's embarrassing.
@@sebastianmosqueda5959 I completely agree with you. My heart goes out to your friend.
Saying that perfection is not necessary at NASA is absolutely mental
IKR?
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Even garbage collection. Anything. Why not do it correctly and avoid 800 problems later?
I went to therapy for 4-5 years due to anxiety depression and an ED. If my therapist affirmed everything I said or never challenged me- then what the hell was i paying for?? My therapist was lovely but she told me when i was in the wrong. She saved me because of it.
Exactly! I pay my therapist to tell me when I’m doing something harmful to myself and need to change! Ridiculous!
Folx therapist, Faux therapist. Same thing.
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Just remember, these people are voters. 😒
I understand the concept of Folx, considering how well Latinx went over 😅
@@junior.von.clairenew rule - I’m giving Gen X authority over their own letter. You wanna make a new word with X you have to file a permit with them.
It's satire. Surely.
MLK jr is rolling in his grave at this crap. That man fought so hard to end segregation only for people to want to bring it back with interest 60 years later...
Hold up, let them cook
That's exactly what I thought. I'm white and I think what that guy said is an absolute slap in the face to those who fought in the Civil Rights Movement. Probably his grandparents.
As a former therapist I do not believe in blind affirmation or encouraging delusional behavior .. I’m so tired of these so called therapists giving the clinical field a bad rep.. people already thought we were a joke smh
I've yet to see a major in Folx therapy. My BFF is getting her masters in psychology and she hasn't seen a masters for it either😂
You are so right, it is really sad. Because there are more really good therapists that help people than there are bad. But this type of insanity prevents people who really need the help from getting it because they assume all therapists are as ridiculous as the FOLX therapist shown here!!!!!
In my country licensed therapists aren't allowed to encourage or discourage any behaviour. In fact, they can't express their opinions to patients at all. All they do is ask questions.
They really have made a joke out of therapy. I’d be terrified to trust anyone getting in my kids heads with these wackos around.
In Canada they are forced to, or risk losing their license to practice . That's all health professionals.
Male and female are not religious ideas. They are reality based facts. 3:33
It's called biology and it doesn't change based on feelings. These people...???
i have bipolar and ocd and if my therapist reaffirmed all my bad decisions i’d be gone lmao just because your therapist doesn’t agree with everything you do, it doesn’t mean they’re not showing support!!!!!
PREACH it louder for the people in the back
Yes! If my therapist had reaffirmed all of my bad thoughts about myself I don't know how I would have got to the better version of myself that I am today.
The whole point of therapy is to work through YOUR issues and learn to evolve, not to surrender to your delusions. 🙄
Sometimes, support means helping someone stop their destructive behaviors. I hope you're getting the support you really need ❤️
@@illyGalSloth yes, 100%!!! if someone really cares about your progress and wellbeing, they’ll tell you you’re on a destructive path. and :,) thank you so much for your kind words 💛 have an amazing day
@@bricksbydave. yes, exactly!!!! that’s what support from a GOOD therapist should be like. glad to hear you’ve become a better version of yourself 💕
In German we say: There are no herbs against stupidity. Meaning nature gave us herbs to fight illnesses, but nothing to fight stupidity.
i can think of one particular herb to fight stupidity. eheheh well said
Here in the southern parts of the USA we have a similar saying: we can’t fix stupid, but duct tape helps 😂
Wait, isn't Germany JUST as bad in it's insane gender bending affirmations and lawmaking than the U.S is? I somehow see most of Europe as a cesspool of liberals and gender monsters. Am I wrong about that?
Well there is but it's illegal or there is a warning to not consume. Darwinism has been eliminated by feelings.
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There was absolutely no need to put an x on the word folks it was already as neutral as can be. I can't stand woke people 🤦
I think they do the x as a signal to each other.
They shall not ruin my favorite letter.😤
The X seems to be a branding iron for the LGBTQIA+-/*Pi etc people. Just like LatinX. "Latinos" would be all-inclusive, but they had to make up a new word just for them and by them.
“S” is white supremacy
@@bobl703 I actually heard the latino/hispanic community HATE the word LatinX
i’m a behavioral therapist. i would never judge my clients. however, i refuse to reinforce their negative behaviors. that’d be dishonorable of myself, as i wouldn’t be furthering their success.
we absolutely need more people like you in this field. thank you for what you do.
@@mrh3002 that’s very kind. thank you🖤
As a Christian, I don't force my religion on people. It doesn't offend me if you're not religious, or believes in different religions. It's a free country.
same. Moderate muslim here
@@alyzak.8997can I ask how you follow in the prophet’s words all the while knowing he kept, traded, sold sex slaves, as well as r@ping child brides? I don’t think I could get past that and struggle to understand how people that are Islamic do. Genuine question.
I miss the early 2000s I was a young child but the world didn’t feel so divided and pushy. Many people did what you too are doing nowadays it’s seems like you have to choose something or your an enemy
Christians are commanded to share the Good news of Jesus. It doesn't make you sad that so many people are lost?
@@alyzak.8997I don't understand what that means. Moderate is more a political term than one of a faith that is supposed to be the foundation of a person 's life.
Social media is the worst thing to ever happen to the human race...smh🙄
There are still people (should I say "folx", lol) who use use them in a proper way. It's just thay don't get views because now wokes are the ones who are the actual trendy on the social media... But I doubt they actually behave like that in their daily life. At least I hope so!
Yeah, honestly social media needs to go away and go away fast. People were much safer before facebook, twitter, and all the other platforms. The world seemed normal before all these platforms came around. And my opinion would be is, it would not be a 1st amendment issue for destroying all these platforms or suppression like people think it is. Children and sick people just simply wouldn’t be exposed to other people’s nonsense. This is exactly why when I am finally blessed with children they will not have cell phones. It’s a technology that isn’t necessary for them until they are grown adults and can afford to buy one.
And the 13th amendment
I mean you're not wrong
@@thatguyd3516💀 💀
*I'm a Folx Therapist! Of course I'm mentally unstable and insane!*
Lollll 😂! Love it! You got it!!!
@@deyc3760I’m a fold therapist, of course 100 years ago I would have been forced into a mental asylum
@@ninja-ginger197325 years ago!!
@ninja-ginger1973 100 years? Not that far, 30 years ago would be enough. In my opinion they should send her now too!
That’s most therapists.
"I'm a folx therapist. Of course I'm going to positively reinforce your narcissism."
What training do they need? This looks like some thing I could jump on the bandwagon for. Whatever your problem I can google an answer for you. Also I plan on charging top dollar to make you feel better about yourself. Win win
Funny story I actually misgendered my pet lizard, because I gave her the name Goku before she was old enough to determine gender. Now that I know I just call her Girlku 😂
Lmao
Did she off herself?
Lol
@@melaniegrace7707 hopefully my pet Gohan doesn't identify as girlhan
dead naming a loss d? lmao had to
I saw that FOLX therapist video the other day and all I took from it is that she will agree with everything you say to her. As far as I know, that's not therapy, that's enabling...
I'm a folx therapist. Of course I contribute nothing to society
put that in quotes,otherwise it looks like a admitted statement about oneself
@@bloodlove93 It's a joke...
Of course what I’m proposing isn’t obvious. Of course.
@@monicanavarro2906No, it's the truth.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
14:30 - Can you imagine telling an astronaut that the engineers working on their spacecraft didn't care about perfectionism. Wild.
That list is so racist. The notion and assumption that people from other cultures don’t care about the things on this list is offensive.
Exactly! This exemplifies that they do not see people from other cultures as their equals.
Anyone saying they're wanting to validate a reptiles pronouns should be in a padded room not giving anyone therapy.
I am a woman, and i will only accept that term for myself!!
Call me "'cis" and you will get no acknowledgement from me, no response whatsoever.
Respect Works Both Ways Dude!
I’ve benefitted from therapy. My former therapist never affirmed my OCD illogical thoughts and fears. Rather, she had me think logically and outside the box. I could never be as far as I am today without her.
Unfortunately a lot of my conservative friends and relatives refuse to go because of the loud woke therapists. It’s very sad.
So why would black children need to be segregated in order for the proper story to be told the way he proposes? Wouldn't it be better for white children to also hear the "accurate history" be told? What does segregation have anything to do with what he said??
Accurate history is that there were slaves all over the world.. from all kinds of tribes.. black/white/asian.. and thus he is not special at all.. and should just stop victimizing and discriminating against white people who did nothing to him. Also what happened in the past to his ancestors is history.. it didnt happen to him.. and its not someones fault that is still alive.. there is noone to blame.. but urself.. hard to get for some.
White people should stop pandering to this faulty retoric... black people use their victimhood to get ahead.. because it works...
Great point.
Shhh, if you make too much sense at these people they spontaneously explode 😂
It doesn't because he's a idiot.
Ah, it seems that you may have missed the point. You see, he’s very stupid
How can someone group "perfectionism" with "quantity over quality" and not implode by cognitive dissonance ?
a good therapist is supposed to challenge your views if they are unbalanced regarding yourself or the world...a good therapist doesn't affirm affirm affirm...that is not helpful
I’m a psychology student. Trying to get my doctorates. My job will not be to affirm someone. My job will be to help someone better their mental health and their wellbeing. There’s a difference between helping someone with mental health issues vs saying “yes you are this!”
Flying cars they said
Hover boards they said
Food in pill form they said
@@thatguyyouis I can live without that one. The pizza was cool though
Right 😭 I want flying cars
@@starsxspace That's what we need to focus our science research on, not this stuff lol
6:09 I've always used the word "folks" as it's traditional meaning retaining to multiple people, art, music. So I'm sure you can imagine my frustration with people using the word "folx", is just meaningless when the word they want already exists. They only made up that word to feel different and important. 🙄
I'm a therapist and have a hard time believing this "Folx therapist" has a license. I'm a CBT therapist... that is one evidence based method to help people fix their problems. "Folx" therapy is laughably, "not a thing," as you said, Amala!
I don’t even know what Folx is. I could Google it but don’t even care.
@@WarHammerWH Genuinely same.
In my personal opinion it's all one big giant scam. Just stupid people creating things that aren't even real so they can feel important and try to force their beliefs on other people that don't understand it. It's somewhere down the line it will magically become important or just get push somewhere in the society. It's all one giant big plot to get people's money
what is cbt? ive done dbt therapy (wasnt my thing) so i would love to try a new kind of therapy other than dbt and behavioral
@@sarabyrd3374 CBT stands for cognitive-behavioral therapy, DBT is a subtype/offshoot of that. So if that didn't help, CBT probably won't either. Psychoanalysis is your best bet for personality disorders; the effectiveness of therapy will be directly proportional to how much work you(!) put in (so yes, find a therapy style that works for you in that regard!); don't fall for anything that sounds like a miracle. And do stay away from the folx people ;)
"I'm a folx therapist. Of course nothing I say is based on science or evidence".
You can tell Chelsea Handler is such a happy person because she spends so much time telling the world how happy she is.
And talks about the edibles she’s taking. apparently there is a selection she has to choose from.
She sounded sarcastic, she may be trolling...unless I'm dense.
I'm a Mexican American biological woman and I agree with you.
Thanks for sharing your opinions, it takes a lot considering backlash.
If I was separate by race when we were in school I would have got the message we were different. Which happens to be the exact opposite I was taught at home
@emanon9 maybe they can separate us into skin tones and we can battle it out to see who really is the ‘superior race’
Hey Amala! Could you talk about our situation here, in Brazil? X/Twitter was shot down by the government yesterday. Plus, if we use VPN to acess X, the government said that we will need to pay 50 hundred reais (9 hundred dollars) as a penalty.
Sorry for my English, to be more correct, 50 thousand reais (9 thousand dollars)
Maybe if NASA wasn't focused on DEI and instead quality of their equipment, we wouldn't have a couple astronauts stranded on the ISS until February when Space X can bring them home.
I keep seeing DEI. What does that mean?
@@nikkipage6919 DEI is an acronym which stands for "Diversity, Equity (different from equality btw), and Inclusion". I had to look it up because I've never heard the acronym before either
@@spam-el3ee thank you for informing me! I was so confused every time I saw it!
I was hoping that someone would make this comment. Some perfectionism would have helped Suni & Butch.
Came here to say this. NASA has more urgent problems than DEI. Hope those astronauts are ok.
A good therapist doesn't judge but doesn't lie, and help clients face reality, that includes challenging them in non shaming ways...
Who else didn't notice the speck on her face until they brought it up? LOL😂😂😂
I still can't see it, nevermind I found it. Had I not been looking, I would not have seen it
@thatguyyouis LOL same. Still watching her video, and I completely forgot about it till I got this notification of your comment LOL
noticed it straightaway, had me distracted throughout the video... 😫 {also somehow missed the disclaimer at the start]
i think its adorable
Sorry to say, but I did notice it. And with al due respect, I think all of us did.
There is a major distinction between therapists with a master's in psychology and therapists without, if you really need help, seek help from a fully qualified psychologist, not some random folx therapist without clinical training.
Here's a response, "Hey, cupcake! The world doesn't revolve around you." If I don't get to tell you what to think or say, neither do you get to tell me what to think or say.
I wish I could give this comment more than 1 👍
My manager went behind my back and hired a transwoman to work on MY team and then told me 10mins before my shift that I have to refer to him as "they/them."
NO!!
I only call him by his name.
I'm not changing my language that I've been using my whole life, I'm not ignoring what my eyes see and what I was taught in English class.
And he is been kept away from ALL areas that have female showers/changing rooms/lavatories.
I'm not comfortable with it, we work in a school with 10-18 year old kids
Thanks Amala, for your ongoing sanity, intelligence & healthy humour. You are a gem. Especially as a much needed younger broadcaster.
While some continue to try and confuse, divide and therefore weaken & control people... Some have the strength, maturity, balance & awareness to prompt us to take individual responsibility & work together to move forward in a better way... Together.
The thing about narcissists is, if you feed the monster will become more manipulative and dominated.
Just because my brain struggled with that, I'm going to restate your absolutely right statement. (This is a "me" problem here.)
"The thing about narcissists is that if you feed the monster, the monster will become more manipulative and dominating."
100% I have seen this happen with people I know irl.
Garden path sentence!! 😂
They are not allowed to take folks from me. I am from the country and use that as a reference for my family.
I’ll never listen to someone with one side of their head bald and the other side long and dyed purple 😂😂😂
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for real what was that thing
@@hgriff14I'm assuming he/she/it identifies as an Emo Troll Doll.
Yet we’re supposed to normalize this kind of ideology. He (yes, HE!) can do and think what he wants and I’m fine with that, but don’t impose your ideology on us and especially not our children.
@@WarHammerWHSometimes I sit in my car and see people who look like that and I wait for them to leave and don’t interact. I’m not joking, I see a couple obese dyed haired people in public weekly. 😂
Creating a society to conform to others emotions who can't control their own. It is insanity.
Chelsea Handler is a good example of trying anything to become relevant.
I’m pretty sure she’d ride a spaceship made by Boeing just to prove a point. Would rather exchange her for those poor astronauts still stuck up there.
Who is this Chelsea Handler? I've only heard of her on videos making fun of her.
@@rwaggs2623She used to have a talk show. She was dating the head of the network. I'm sure that had nothing to do with her having her own show. She's supposed to be a comedian.
She's relevant? I don't think I've seen her on anything in a decade.
@@Debbles-F😂😂 your last line was all I could come up with. Supposed to be a comedian. But she was never funny, was she?
00:57 wtf is that thing
I thought it was fake till I heard it talk
His pronouns are fee/fi/fo/fum. 😂
“Of course I know you did
That thing you said you weren’t gonna do… and I support you anyway.” …That sounds like enabling… and that’s not always a good thing.
In the animal kingdom, there's a difference between males and females. They behave differently. So there's no way to switch pronouns when you're talking about animals (by the way, some people seem to forget that the human being is also an animal).
0:03 Imagine if a white man said that about white kids? Ooh the ladies on the view wouldn't shut up about it.
It’s an insult to people such as the Loving couple who fought for their own marriage and others.
For the context, the couple was about a white man and black woman being childhood friends, deciding to marry each other in their adulthood.
It was illegal in the state they lived in, and they fought their way to change that, and they succeeded at doing so.
What that unhinged guy said in that video, made me think that he would have enjoyed that time-period, where an innocent couple would be treated as criminals over an harmless decision.
My mouth fell the f*ck open when that person made that absurd statement. We came so far to see people as equal and we're going BACKWARDS! Why in the HELL would we want to separate people by skin color again?!?!?!?!
@@nikkipage6919Marxism, that's why.
@@nikkipage6919 Because Progressivism has no rudder and no guardrails.
Thank Bob Iger and Disney for the view.
I cancelled my Disney+ membership a while ago for that and many reasons. I hope everyone else does too.
Yeaaah.. now that you mentioned it, it does make sense- a lot of people say "you get to believe what you want to believe, just don't force it on me" and yet impose at the same time "you should only call me this"
Granted, it can be likened to a "hey, this is my name.. so please call me this" kind of thing, and shouldn't be an issue. But, at the same time, what if though that the how you wanna be called itself infringes on that other person's beliefs so uhh.. who is right? Who is wrong? And why should only one side compromise? 🤔
Pronouns are only used in the third person. So it's not something that you're even around for.
Close, but no cigar.
First person = I, me, us, we.
Second person = you, y'all, you guys, y'uns (sp?). This is the one that you "address" people with, and is already gender neutral.
Third person = he, she, it, him, her, they, them. This is the one you're talking about... third person pronouns, when people speak ABOUT you. So, nothing they're going to "respond" to in the first place.
I mean, that's only kinda true, you use them when you're having a conversation with at least three people. Nonetheless, those are pronouns *for* you and not *your* pronouns to begin with.
@joob40 That’s why I say, “MY pronouns are me and I. How other people refer to me is none of my business.”
@@joob40they/them is grammatically 3rd person plural. He, she, it, him, her are singular pronouns. So OP stands right unless one over hears you
@@TimothyBlanc-x6jThat's what I said... that they're third person. OP is not correct because 1st and 2nd person pronouns are also a thing. Read again.
Shame is a tool used by narcissists to drive desired behavior.
First clip - And I'm a sci-fi fan used to seeing scary things. This is a 'man' used very loosely - he will always be one, regardless how he makes himself look so monstrous, and I will never, even call a man a woman and a woman a man - never.
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You're right. Even if he thinks he's a woman...he still have to stay in reality and understand the world is not delusional like him...
I’m a FOLX therapist, of course I instill and perpetuate the very mental illness and distress I should be helping you overcome and transcend
I am NOT now or HAVE I EVER BEEN a PRONOUN.....I am a person and will ALWAYS be a PERSON.....☺
THANK YOU 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
NO YOU ARE A PRONOUN. BOW DOWN TO THE IDEOLOGY .....☺
@@alyzak.8997 🤣🤣🤣 I’m a noun….person is a noun…🤣🤣🤣
That isn’t therapy, that’s enabling. You’re paying to be enabled 😂
Not every therapist is a good therapist. My own older brother is a licensed therapist and when my mom kicked me out and my then boyfriend now husband took me in no second thoughts what did my brother say to my mom? That she should tell my husband to leave me on the side of the highway so that I have no choice but to come home like I should have asked to do in the first place instead of leaving when I was kicked out. I was a 19 year old woman he encouraged my mother to try to convince my husband to leave on a highway in California in august with no money. So yeah just passing your courses doesn’t make you a good therapist
Wtf????,
@@svetlanaandrasova6086 Yeah…he’s still practicing too. As a marriage and family counselor
I like how precise, articulate and fair your arguments are.
My family did not own slaves. My family served in the Union Army for the human rights of black people. Why would I owe anyone for anything?
I'm half black, half white. Do I owe myself money? 😂
@@nikkipage6919 My family came here in the 50's, am I also guilty?
@@nikkipage6919LOL, in today’s world? Yep, you owe yourself money!!
@@nikkipage6919You have to ask yourself for reparations! How come you haven't already done this?? 🤔🤷
Anthony Johnson was a black slave owner. How is that going to work?
As a therapist, it can truly hurt people when you blindly accept and affirm everything a person has done and thinks. You have to find the areas that are causing distress in a person and help them figure out how to overcome it. You can't just listen to people and say "why are you upset, I accept you as you are." You can accept someone as they are as far as personally, but if they're wanting a therapist, then something is wrong, and it's a therapist's job to help the person overcome that which is mentally harming them.
NASA kinda does need things to be perfect??? Otherwise uh oh we have rockets exploding everywhere
Isn't SpaceX in the process of rescuing astronauts because a spaceship they didn't make broke?
1. How rich of the first dude to accuse other people of not knowing what gender is!
2. Anyone who unironically uses the term "folx" should never be allowed in the medical field!
Ask anyone who uses the term cisgender what it means and what the term cis means and where it comes from. They'll probably say TikTok
So happy I subbed last month. You really know your stuff and argue/point their flaws.
What’s going on in the US is slowly coming to Europe unfortunately. UK has fallen. Sweden decadeS ago.
If Chelsea goes to the moon on a spaceship that was NOT built by Elon Musk, I have to ask: How is she going to get back?
Honestly, it comes off as anti KH, to me....she seemed sarcastic the whole time, and mocking a female president.
My first thought too. Maybe she plans to walk back?
😂
Better be prepared to spend major holidays away from, well, nearly everyone.
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Hopefully, she doesn’t get back…
So, the Folx therapist has me convinced that they really appreciate who I am! They're planning on listening very carefully to me. They haven't pre-judged me at all, because they're so proud of me already.
@the first lady: do these people actually think they look good or are they intentionally trying to be ugly?
They're mocking women and women's rights. They're like I have long hair, must be a woman...also the attitude is kinda agressive and never once did they show compassion or understanding towards women... yet he's expecting everyone to do as they say...I don't trust him in a bathroom alone with little girls 😢...so much anger in their eyes and their demeanor. How is that reassuring for women...
Hi there! This is an ad hominem logical fallacy, where you completely bypass any valid talking points in favor of insulting the person for their appearance or something just as superficial. If you’re going to be transphobic at least do it right.
@@spam-el3ee: No because I am not trying to debate the person's argument so that fallacy doesn't apply.
@@chengliu872 Oh okay, just a normal hater. Ignore my previous comment 👍
@@spam-el3ee: Yes, I hate when people intentionally make themselves ugly.
I'm from Brazil, and I start to watch your videos a week ago, and I feel so amazed about those people that you react, cause they're just crazy, and I feel even more amazed for the fact that you guys are so used to those things, that it doesn't bother you animore. (For some mistake in my english, I say SORRY)
It’s the confidence to leave the house like that. If you want to be taken seriously present yourself as someone who takes themselves serious.
It's called histrionic personality disorder.
Thank you for all your work it must be gut wrenching at times.
Please find out what the purple haired, rotund gent does for a living.
It sounds like he/she/it/thing is a teacher. Poor students
Unfortunately he's a teacher. Not a very good one nor compassionate one. They're obviously trying to push their ideology into the students they're supposed to be teaching...😢
@@deyc3760 He's a walking homeschooling ad.
Being a groomer
@@queenofspiders AGP
So happy you did the work, so I only have to listen to clips of some of these folks to get a picture of the madness.
One side of head shaved, other side dyed purple..and they are outraged at not being taken seriously!?
I dont even want my son to be around that crap
The speck never would’ve been noticed had that intro not happened 😅hahaha
Can’t win for losing 😭
Thank you for making sense of this nonsense, Amala!
Gender is a term that came about because the term "sex" was impolite. They are the same. Plus pronouns are used when that person is not around generally. So you never know what pronouns are used for you
well not really it was first coined by a psycho sexologist in 1955 who was a major perv but i like your perception better xD
It’s clear they’re confusing “gender” with expression and/or “gender roles”. Thank ol’ child pred, Dr. John Money.
When my 11year younger brother said was asked what he wanted to be when he grows up was a lion I said that will never happen. What happened to not lying to kids????????
The first one pisses me off so much. “You cant tell me how to live but i can dictate how you do” jfc. How can anyone take that thing seriously
Refusal to believe reality is pretty much the definition of INSANITY!
12:24 saying objectivity and individualism is a white power thing is WILD. this makes them sound like a cult.
@@yuutamoto7311 how
And isn't objectivity a cornerstone of SCIENCE? Which is what NASA is supposed to DO? HOW is objectivity tied in any way to any race? It's SCIENCE!
@@epiccg6872 you answered that with your first comment, that's why they're a cult. They twist objective truths to their narrative.
What was that disclaimer at the beginning?
I spent the first 3 minutes looking for it😳😡
I had to go back and watch from the beginning 😆
Anyway... love your content and opinions about what's going on. 😊💙
If we are going to segregate schools, then my tax dollars should go with my child.
18:20 bro thought he was saying something 😂
It really seems like a whole mouth full of hypocrisy, only accepting she her, but then it doesn't have accept beliefs!!!! What the actual F is going on here!
Blind support of a therapist helps no one
I enjoy Amala’s perspective on what is happening in the world today. We share an admiration of Thomas Sowell’s writings.
When did "support" become synonymous with "validate"?
Let's just remember that Elon Musk has been hired by the ISS to get a couple astronauts back safely cause their previous shuttle didn't work so well. and let's also remember Elon had warned against that same spaceship before it was launched
I really want to know when did this woke crap begin? I swear everything was fine, and now the internet is full of these strange individuals with insane ideologies!
If you mean this whole gender nonsense, late 1800s (it was small).
It's time to make horror movies with these creatures cause they're scarier than any fiction
My old therapist was extremely open to different “rights” and “wrongs” to the point where it just made me extremely uncomfortable because I didn’t know if the behaviour I was exhibiting was harmful or not😅
I hear ya 😂 i once spoke to a therapist about something i was incredibly worried about being judged for. I was open about that fear. Then she judged me for said thing. She never got anything else out of me 😂😂😂😂
The best thing for any child regardless of race is to avoid any organization founded by Margaret Sanger. Just imagine where the black community would be without her.
PP and LBJ have done more harm to society at large and black demographic specifically than anything else in the last 60 years. In some areas the abortion rate is higher than the birth rate.
I know about her. Which is why I’m against Planned Parenthood. They keep the racist agenda alive, while they cover themselves. Stay awake.
I am a constitutional activist and this is one reason people need to know their rights. Arresting people for speech is against the first amendment of the United States they’ve already put a law in Michigan and it will stay on the books unless somebody gets arrested and rides it out ….or somebody sues the state….. free speech is so important and they do not teach your rights to you in school very few schools (if any) do.
Im white / straight / Male / republican
I gotta say this was hard to listen to these woke people go on with the imagination they come up with.
If I were an astronaut, you better believe I’d want my team to have the trait of perfectionism