I’m a biological straight woman and I’ve always been more of a “Tom boy”. When did it change from just being a Tom boy? You don’t have to be a straight woman and love dresses and make up.
I graduated high school in 2000. There was a kid (male) who wore eyeliner, makeup, nail polish and occasionally feminine clothes. Ya know what they called themselves? Goth.
"Im wearing a dress and make up so I'm clearly a woman!!" I'm a woman who never wears dresses and wears little to no make up. Yet no one ever questions my womanhood. See how that works?
I was and still am a tomboy. If I had grown up in this time, the schools would be pressuring me to be a boy. 🙄 Nope. I'm straight. I knew I liked boys when I was 5. No changing that.
These people claim they are encouraging people to express themselves, but when a person does something that isn’t traditionally feminine/masculine, that person isn’t their gender anymore
Wearing a kaftan is cultural appropriation of the Arab or Islamic culture, calling the same thing a dress it is an "expression of true self" NOT remotely any sexual appropriation anymore😅 So "cultural gatekeeping" is ok now, but sexual indicators are free for cosplay? Bad costumes too, done with no effort at all. A good Drag Queen is living for the stage and a (paying) audience - a good CosPlayer ia picking the special Events to show the hard work, that went into the cosplay - meeting like-minded friends the "unsuspecting public" gets intreaged of what might be going on, if the event spills into the streets around any congress center, that event takes place in😅
as a gay man I NEVER understood why we feel the need to tell children ANYTHING about sexual preference or anything that has to do with SEXUALITY period.
Schools are doing that for us by my experience My local schools have gay pride clubs and i don’t think its the kind of positive thing they think it is, i support queers my sister is but they shouldn’t be influencing kids, they even go by the kids pronouns and names, my sister didn’t even show any signs in her personality of being trans until middleschool when she started talking to this group of girls and she wanted to take testosterone at 16?! I told her to wait and just give it time your a child, she is but i think its more because she actually cant afford the hormones i asked where my sister was by name picking her up from school when she first decided to be trans and no one knew who i was talking about, i didnt even know how to react when i asked for her by her new name then everyone is like OHHH and the kids i asked smirked at me? Idk how to explain how i even felt😅 And theres such a high concentration of queer kids that it does feel more like a club to fit in somewhere rather than being who you are School is influencing children, i dont think they should be focusing on sexual identity outside of health class, they make it seem trendy or glamorous? More than a life choice in identity or anything else, im a bit repulsed by how schools are treating it but idk how to explain without sounding hateful, like its hard to even have an opinion without being called a hater when your actually concerned
Read My Comment. I Agree with you as a Straight Man. What people do in the Bed Room should not be bought to the Class Room from k-12. A LOT of These "People" aught to have their hard drives Seized. Have a Nice Day.
Well, actually, we have always told them about sexual preferences. We tell them about a man and a woman getting married, or having a boyfriend or girlfriend. If they can know about men and women being together, I don't see why they can't know about men and men being together.
This is what always baffles me, how they can discliaim against 'gender stereotypes' and then go on to claim the very same things as evidence of 'switch' identity Switch: Gender is nothing but a social construct! By the way, this boy is switch. Me: How do you know that? Switch: Because he acts like a girl. Me: 😶 Switch: What? Me: What did you _just_ say?
This is something I don’t see specified enough. Women (including me) regularly wear jeans. Does that mean everyone has to call me ‘Sir’? No, because clothes do not change your gender.
@@user-zx3io2nr8wWhat? You don't see that because some people of the current generations are simple-minded and stupid: in the 80s and 90s we never had this sort of non-issue and if you are up-to-date about fashion in the 2000s, 2010s, women all around wear high waisted jeans in their everyday life. Get out of your bubble once in a while, watch any 90s sitcom or movies, stop being aggravated by social media trends and do your own thing.
The generations post-2010s are more reactionary than the young generation of the 80s and 90s: they need to put everything under a label, meanwhile I was in love with Amy Grant or Helen Hunt on "Mad About You" wearing jeans and a T-shirt back in the day, straight guy having teen crushes on feminine women.
Heck, I've worn several dresses and have worn (stage)makeup. (No, I'm not a drag queen, I'm a theater kid) I'm still straight, I'm still a guy. WTYiff is wrong with these people who can't comprehend the concept of a COSTUME vs someone suffering from Gender Dysphoria. Probably the same whackadoodles who wrote in that Green Ranger "Girl Power" moment in Dino Furry. Girl Rangers NEVER *HAD TO* WEAR SKIRTS (Except maybe pink, but that'd change IF they'd adapt Don Brothers.)
I'm visually impaired. I determine what pronouns I use to what kind of voice you have. Deal with it. (Nothing against people who had a full transition and sound like the gender they prefer.)
I'm 30 and I'm confused. They usually say that clothes have no gender, but they complain because they are not called by the pronoun of the clothes they wear. So, clothes have gender or not? They appear in front of the camera wearing clothes and want to be called with female pronouns but then they tell me not to assume identities based on clothes, since clothes have no gender. I'm confused.
They also say that sex and gender are different. Well the women's room is for people of the female SEX. So why is it that men who claim the female GENDER feel they should be allowed to use that room?
Yikes. I’m a straight woman, happily married to a man and I do not actively wear dresses, skirts, or makeup of any kind. I wear hoodies, jeans, graphic t-shirts and sweatpants but that doesn’t make me a MAN. My clothes don’t define my sexual orientation, my DNA DOES. Even if I was a lesbian, my clothes still wouldn’t define my sexual preference. This is absolute insanity. 😂 People need to get it together. Keep all this bullshit OUT OF CHILDREN’S CLASSROOMS.
I like how they’re like “no no gender stereotypes are bad” But then they’re also like “I’m wearing eyeliner and everything so therefore I am a woman”? Like that’s so hypocritical 😭 And the “leave the kids alone” thing is TOO REAL. These children don’t know left from right and you’re teaching them to change their gender, which can harm their body irreversibly? Like what 😭
I’m a straight woman who played many sports growing up… you could find me climbing trees and playing with the boys. I even got involved in contact sports as an adult. I became an engineer in a male dominated field. None of that defined my gender.
Me too 6 brothers were all I could play with till I started kinder garden. I was sort of happy I didn't have a sister. She would be a baby or a.wanna be mean girl!!
Same here. Worked in male dominated professions for most of my working life. Rode a motorcycle in my early twenties and am riding one again (late fifties 🙈). Never liked wearing dresses too often. But I am and have always been a woman - except for when I was a girl 😁
@@ZZP-SchoolNL what do you think would have happened if we had grown up with all the things kids/teens are being fed with today? At a young age, I might have gotten confused, to be honest…
@@BoxitaH It's hard for me to imagine ... First of all my mom would've never allowed that. She had a mind of her own, was very free spirited and unconvential in her thinking and behaviour. My siblings and I take after her - and then some. 🤣 I definetely felt (like) a girl, though (always have) - just didn't let it limit or even define my choices and what I could or couldn't do. Not then and not now. So I don't think I would've been confused, just bothered by people telling me what I should or shouldn't do. (In those days the comment would be and was "That's not ladylike behaviour" and even as young as 6 years old I would reply, either in my head or out loud, "See if I care". 😆)
My students have accidentally called me Mom, Dad, Grandma, sir, Coach, Mr, etc. NEVER have I gotten offended. (Though the Grandma thing did burn a little. Lol!)
I just think its a little ironic how some ppl will say clothes aren't "gendered", but then use the excuse that "oh I'm wearing a dress cant you tell I'm a woman?".
for real!!! like they say "Ooh clothes don't have a gender a girl can wear blue and boys can wear pink" but as soon as they get misgendered , the (male to female) transgender person is always like "well im wearing (said clothes) can't you tell i'm a woman, because im wearing a dress, or heels. like its so stupid
yeah fr some dudes look hot in dresses and skirts. saying theyre a woman bcs they wear dresses and skirts is mildly sexist. to men who just like dresses and to women who dont like dresses. its mad.
“Transgenderism” is just the latest “sky is falling” social-catastrophe hallucination seized-upon by the far right in their last-ditch attempts to preserve their influence and remain somehow relevant. Frightening their subscription base is a proven tactic to keep donations coming-in and votes forthcoming. Society is changing with extreme rapidity now, becoming more secular and also more tolerant - and conservative white cisgender males are terrified of losing their privilege at the top of the social hierarchy. In social hierarchies, there are the overvalued (wealthy cisgender white males), the undervalued (women, the poor), and the targeted- the scapegoats who are singled-out as the cause of Things Falling Apart. Transgender people are just their scapegoat-du-jour. In the fifties and sixties, it was black people. In the 80s, it was gays & hippies. Right-wingers need an Other - an enemy - to bind their tribe together… and American conservatism has a sociologically tribal mindset. And obsession with sex - prudery, and especially with gatekeeping access to women’s bodies - is a hallmark of right-wing authoritarians throughout history. Gay and transgender people squick them out and are an especially-attractive target for rightwing hate and vilification because they are especially vulnerable. And don't forget their ongoing war against (GASP!!) FEMINISTS!! They can't use abortion anymore so they had to find some social issue to bring back the women in the suburbs. It looks now like not even the whole “transgenders are coming to get your kids” thing isn't working either.
Still trying to intimidate 'girls' into doing what he wants. Most COMPLETELY male attitude. In fact possibly INTRINSICALLY male to automatically see 'female' as opposition to overcome. Like some kind of CONQUEST. A way to express POWER. Like the deepest reaction down to the cells to recognize predator from prey. And to gaslight a woman to silence that a wolf is a sheep.
Saying shit like that is boarderline pedophilia for real. Why would ever ever be bring up a topic like that with children that young.. all their thinking about is playing on the playground and playing games on their tablet that sick to be talking to children about that.
And instead of trying to convince a CHILD! they are sometimes they are not maybe ask them why do they feel that way and try to ENCOURAGE them being comfortable with who THEY ARE instead of convincing they are something THEIR NOT
You are right in all of your analyses!!! As a 73 year old woman, I am already over this whole "transmania" and while I will be civil to someone I encounter who is obviously trans, I will not play the pronoun game. I am so grateful my grandsons are out of school and were never exposed to a trans teacher or school administrator. Protect the children at all cost!!!!
I am so glad I am not raising kids in this day and told my daughter I would take her kids if she sends them to brick and mortar school - it is a good thing we didn’t have all this wokeness in the 80’s as all boy bands had long hair and makeup so I guess they would be girls -
I was glad too, my kids missed that, I'm raising grandkids now though and have to watch them like a hawk. They naturally just don't accept this and are not inclined to play this game. Their farm kids, raised around animals, watched the birth process. They know EXACTLY what male and females are and do.
I keep hearing people ask the question “do you feel like a boy or a girl?” Honestly? I don’t know what “feeling like a boy” or “feeling like a girl” should feel like. I feel like… a person? How would I know? I know what it feels like to not feel right in my body, but like a boy or girl? No clue
How can you know what the opposite gender feels like if you've never been one? I can't know how a boy feels, physically or psychologically because I'm a girl and feeling like a girl is all I have the capacity to know in that regard
They probably want to make sure the newer generations will be tolerable of all this Transgender thing. So they explain it in this weird "innocent" way...
Yeah, working in public sector, I'm a 5'6" female with size DDD cups and I've been called sir many times. I stop, look at them, look down at my chest and laugh. Then they get embarrassed and apologize. I'm not hurt, just suprised! This is the only place Ive ever said anything about it because it's not something that matters to me. But I guess if I'm hyper sensitive about something like being overweight, I would be hurt by comments made intentionally negative or unintentionally. I also know that regardless, only we can let/make ourselves be upset. Other people can say or do what they want, it is up to us to learn how to handle it and not impose our "feelings" on others. There are a lot of cruel people in this life we all have to deal with. But there are far more kind ones in it if you let them be. I love what you said about being respectful of others and just dealing with your own issues without forcing them on others. Luv ya Amala!
🇦🇺I was born female, I don’t wear dresses or skirts. I don’t wear makeup or wear nail polish. I like motorbikes and as a child climbed trees . But I’m still female, my DNA says so.
I agree. It’s getting pretty insulting towards women who like to wear pants 😅. I’ve never had the issue of being called a man because I wasn’t wearing a dress.
Trousers/pants and shorts are for boys and men. Skirts and dresses are for girls and women. Makeup and other artificial stuff are sins. Please, repent before it is too late.
@@jnun8237You've never had that issue because of double standards. Conservatives usually allow girls and women to wear trousers/pants and shorts, play with boys' toys and boys' sports, shop in the male section, wear male costumes for Halloween, etc... However, when a boy or a man do those stuff too, it's suddenly a problem. They call them trans or crossdressers. Both of them are wrong and a sin.
What I don't understand is why they need our friendship? Why do people feel like they are entitled to someone else's friendship, acceptance, and trust. I don't feel like I owe that to anyone.
It's all about validation. They have a constant need for external validation, probably because they're insecure and uncertain as to the legitimacy of their chosen identity, so hearing it from others "proves" they're on the right track.
@@StevenScott-sy7ekalso it’s about boundaries. It used to be if you felt uncomfortable with someone you could just avoid them now we tell kids be kind your feelings of being uncomfortable are not important
Oh fuck yeah. I was playing cards with my buddies a couple of years ago and whoever lost had to go to one of the “Gay-straight alliance” meetings at our HS. So one of my friends went one day at lunch and he came back horrified. Apparently they had posters everywhere about how nothing is tied to a specific gender, and then a clearly male student walks in wearing a dress and everyone’s like “OMG CONGRATS UR A GIRL!!!”
@@ChromaWRLD999 lol yea checks out. Now full disclosure I was at the bar and someone wanted to know why I was wearing boy clothes. I thought I looked nice 🤣 Society is so confusing.
I am a 19-year-old biological female. I hate everything feminine. I am the masculine type, but I'm still a female. Just because someone dresses a certain way, does not mean they are automatically this or that. I dress masculine, I'm still a biological female. My sister is the feminine one. It's an unspoken agreement between us. She handles the femininity, and I handle the masculinity.
Imagine someone walks up to you and asks what color is the sky, and when you say blue they freak out on you that the sky is red with yellow polka dots how dare you not see that. Same level of crazy as this, that's fine you want to look, be or feel a certain way just don't expect or be offended when everyone else does not want to buy into your crazy.
I wonder if those dudes, all the ones that look like this sad attempt at looking like a “woman” - do they all think each other is attractive and actually women? Like are they so delusional that they see another one of them and thing “that’s obviously a beautiful woman”. I can’t imagine it 😂
He said “I’m wearing makeup…” I thought men, especially gay men, are free to wear makeup too & it’s supposed to be toxic masculinity & even sexist to force gender conformity onto men & say they aren’t allowed to wear makeup since it’s not manly enough… now who’s the problematic one🙄
So crazy how they hate people assuming their gender but also want people to assume their gender based on their clothes. Make it makes sense because honey boo boo this is not it
Exactly. The exact same people who say gender stereotypes don't & shouldn't exist, then literally cut off body parts & try changing everything about themselves - because they feel like they're more drawn to certain gender stereotypes & want to fit into gender stereotypes
And in the next sentence they will say that clothes are not gendered and men can wear dresses and make up. I don't even try to understand that anymore.
I asked my daughter (8 yrs) if mommy still looks like a girl without makeup on. And she replied "Yes...but a girl who didn't want to get out of bed today." It was a burn, but an accurate burn.
The need for constant attention from these people is unreal. A lot of the trans people, who are actually struggling with gender dysphoria, likely just want to live their lives out in peace. The TIKTOK crazies just seem to thrive on creating chaos and confusion, and will never be happy no matter what people do.
Their logic is “well! I wear feminine clothes and makeup!!! I’m a woman!” Does that mean that I, doesn’t wear makeup often or feminine clothes, does that mean that I’m a man?
My son got suspended for a week from school for refusing to use a classmate pronouns. I bought him a few games and got him 200 bucks in paysafe. We're in Greece btw.
I live in Athens now and wow really? Im sorry! We live normally in Sweden and it leaked there too. I hate it and its mostly Americans that push their agenda. Its seriously dumb.
One of my pet peeves is that people demand that you don't assume their gender, yet what they want is for you to assume their gender correctly when it's the first time you meet them.
@@catherinemartinez5542 This. I work customer service. I say sir or miss to anyone above the age of 50. Anyone else is just not given anything at all. Because I know the people above 50 are normal people and I don't have to do mental gymnastics with them
Lol so I am known in my hs for being conservative and not hateful, but not very accepting of personal pronouns, so one day a trans kid walks up to me and says “What do you gender me as” and I just say bitch.
@@DeezNuggz Bruh !! Be so kind as to cool it wth the "inter-generational astrology." This is one of many ways TPTB try to divide us (we, the people). Dividing people by sexuality & gender is also what they're doing -- arguably w/ great success -- but dividing people by their age(s) is just assinine.
I actually got yelled and screamed at by a trans "female" because I refused that person's advances AND because I said I'm only interested in biological females. When asked why,I gave the usual truthful list of facts and said person stormed off screaming,lol. Waaaay unhinged,that person was.
Oooh boy. Yes, some people need to realize rejection isn't rude or a way to insult them. If you're not attracted to them for whatever reason, you have the right to say no!! That's consent! Isn't consent a big thing to these people?
"Don't assume my gender identity!!!!" meanwhile "I'm wearing makeup and a dress how can you not tell I'm a woman!" 🙄 I don't want to live on this planet anymore. My biology is not your costume!
i love how they say that transgenderism is beyond looks and is based on feeling, but when you misgender them, their first defense is "I'm wearing something feminine."
Not really like ever for any trans person in real life? I’m trans myself, I’m in highschool, people come up to me and say things like “you’re a tr^nny” or “you’re a girl” or “you’re a she” and I literally could not care less, that’s how all the trans people I know in real life react to those things as well
@@Lizzie519 I feel like tic tok a of people getting offended like that are purposefully played up for views (much like most things in tic tok) I swear we are literally people to most of us don’t act like this 😭
One of my daughters wanted to be a pony and the other wanted to be a big yellow truck. To this day, if I pass a yellow truck on the road, I call her and say, " I think I just passed you." 😊
Did she specify if she wanted to be a girl puppy or a boy puppy? 😂 She probably didn't even think about the gender because little kids don't think about those things on their own.
I work in the beauty industry. I'm a hair stylist. I grew up a tomboy, on a farm with eight brothers. I hate putting makeup on, and having to do my hair everyday to look the part. But I am ALL woman. I've worked with gay people for years, and none of them act like these people in these videos.
I feel like the problem here is that these are the people that are really seen in media and not the normal lgbt people. every community has bad apples, that's how it works, but on the internet those same people seem to have an upper hand when it comes to views and popularity, because their behaviour can and will be called out, and that might even be their goal. but it's just wrong, because they all just push into the already unfavourable stereotypisation, which literally just hurts us all. this is not the way to fight for acceptance, especially when these people contradict (let it be lgbt or general) beliefs ((one of them for example that clothes have no gender)). I agree with this personally, I think people should be allowed to wear whatever they want while staying within reason, and for example the person that went to the bank w what looks to be a wig and a dress while sounding unmistakably masculine, like girl please no. I understand that dresses have been associated with femininity for a long while and they may try to lean on that association, but they shouldn't take it as a sure way to be called or be mistaken as a woman. they should not have made such a big deal out of "oh but I'm wearing a dress" because it doesn't change anything
A lot of this comes from the attention-seeking of social media. There are good sides to social media (like Amala's videos), but many TikToks are a cesspool.
In the live action movie of Scooby Doo where Scooby dresses up like a grandma, not a single viewer watching this movie assumes that Scooby doo is actually a grandma in the movie. We all know it’s a pup named Scoob dressed in a woman’s clothes. You can look and act like a grandma, but the viewer knows it’s a dog. You don’t have to be a grandma or a dog to know. You just have to be able to see.
Teachers these days are so unhinged. Our Humanities teacher in highschool was a gay man, never ONCE saw him in a rainbow anything or with any LGBTQ flags etc in his classroom. Any time a student asked him anything about being gay he'd politely say the question had nothing to do with Humanities and move on...The only place in our school where there were gay pride etc postes was in the kids social club and in the PSE ( physical and sexual education ) class, which is appropriate and exactly where they belonged. Shoutout to Mr Thomas, he's a real one.
Amen! Back in the day, teachers didnt exist outside of school, we didnt know anything about their private lives bcos its not relevant! Kids dont need to know!
Same with my History teacher back in the 90's. He was gay and out, but can never once recall him discussing his private life. So much did he keep it to himself, that one of the pupils thought she could get away with making a false allegation for attention, that fell apart around her ears once that little fact became public knowledge. Screw you, Sonia..
Only in the States. My kids are in primary school and I'm a high school teacher and teachers still teach like they did when I was younger. They have different tools but the rest is the same. They are getting good quality education here ln Europe.
That's so awesome. I wish ALL teachers kept their private lives private and the answers to children's questions AGE APPROPRIATE. When my daughter's (5/6 at the time) ballet teacher announced to the class every update about her pregnancy, it really made me uncomfortable.
I am a twin also. I got used to being called either one of the twins or my twins name Donna if they didn't call me by my name, Darla. These people are majorly unhinged.
I was groomed into thinking I was a boy at 9 by "friends" online I was born a girl and I am a girl but was manipulated into taking hormones and feeling insecure Im happy it stopped at hormones and it was easily fixed with some therapy I'm so happy people are finally speaking up about this utter bullshit.
Thank you for speaking out. So many of ‘these’ (because I can’t think of a better term right now), are predators. I’ve seen & experienced it first hand, more than 45 years ago.
Your parents are crazy for allowing a 9 year old to be online. My daughter is 9 and she is not allowed on social medias. I recently took UA-cam away as well because all she did was watch it and I noticed a change in her behavior. My son has the same rules. They do play Roblox and fort nite though. They are not allowed to talk to strangers on line. To many stories of creepy adults pretending to be kids these days. I try to educate them about predators online and that’s why they aren’t allowed. I’m sorry you weren’t protected. I’m glad you found your true self. It’s a lot of trial and error and you may find yourself several times in your lifetime. I grew up with two older brothers. I wanted to be a boy for so long. I dressed as a boy and always chose boy roles when we played. By 4th grade I grew out of it. I always thought there was something wrong with being a women. It took having my daughter to teach me to appreciate my femininity. Now I am very proud to be a women but it took me till 30 to really step into it. Everyone learns in their own time. I’m a personal trainer and was a bodybuilder for years. So I still do “manly” things. But that’s what I like it doesn’t change that I’m a beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing! And many blessing love and light to you.
@@WeAreGina Roblox gets weird (due to people) to be careful with that and fornite isnt a kids game either. Id say minecraft or something like that would be safer. Or jus Toys
I'm always confused when someone says they finally get to be their "true self" when they're pretending to be something that they're not. Love the REAL you and not the pretend one that you're hoping to be. Even if there is a little inner struggle going on.
Like, I'm not even sure what's going on cuz to me, it seems more like they are running away from being their true selfs by embracing something that isn't true but seems like it is. If you are a man and don't necessarily act masculine, isn't it ok? It doesn't make you a woman, they'll just be a "feminine" man, no? They are against gender stereotypes yet they contradict their beliefs by thinking "if I'm a man but don't like manly stuff but like make-up and skirts, that means I'm meant to be a woman. And vise versa (same for the transmen)". I personally am a tomboy who doesn't like gowns or makeup (although sometimes I feel good wearing them, really depends on my mood tbh) and act like a guy, but im fully aware im a girl, and can't be a boy...
My first sighting of a crossdressing transgender transvestite...whatever....was an obvious bloke in a shirt and twinset plus pearls, working in the Mail sorting area of the Post Office......maybe he was sorting himself out ! Thought it was funny...was back in the 60s.🤭
My only sighting of trans identifying male was at an aftercare group affiliated with the local mental hospital. Never dis-liked anyone that fast before or since. None of the men wanted him around them, so he decided to force the women to accept him. After we told him to "LEAVE US ALONE!" loud enough for the men to hear. He decided to continue coming to therapy, but sleep during it. The individual leading the session would tell him to stop snoring, he'd yell at her for disturbing him. He contributed nothing to the group. He was the most self-centered person that I've ever had the displeasure of meeting.
It's so crazy how like 10 years ago people were saying "gender doesn't matter!" and "my gender doesn't define me" and now people are like this. It's honestly so backwards and the way trans men see women is just so offensive.
Right, why do they think we are a costume? Wearing a dress and makeup doesn't make you a woman. I wear jeans and graphic tees most every day and I don't wear makeup unless its a very special occasion and then I will wear a very small amount of natural makeup (Hide blemishes really and that's it) and I have NEVER been mistaken for a man. It is so crazy that if you misgender them it is like you just threatened their lives, use the gender they want you to and you are just a good person?? I don't understand, if I dunno if you might go by some other "pronoun" I'm just gonna call you "Hey you, over there" and save the headache xD But again Dress and makeup doesn't turn you into a woman, and jeans and tees don't turn you into a man. Stop freaking out on people when you have decided that you want to confuse everyone with your masculine build and female clothes or feminine build and masculine clothes. Men and Women Are Not COSTUMES. Also they need to stop being emo
I have a 7 month old son and i am sooooooo afraid of these type of creepy people trying to confuse these innocent kids. No i take it back, it just really REALLY pisses me off. Ill be damned if my son runs into this type of hype Edited: I appreciate all of yalls stories of experiences and thoughts regarding this matter! I dont have social media except YT and this is the first time ive had this many likes. I am glad Im not the only one feeling this way. Blessings to all and I hope we can overcome this problem!
"My daughter needs to be cancelled, she's not an ally!" That child is guaranteed getting hate for this from people the mom needs support and attention from. She threw her kid under the bus to be raked for attention.
Truth!! I bet that mother has already caused so much trauma to her child. She has the personality/mental issues that would cause a terrible childhood for their kid.
There’s a family on UA-cam that have 3 kids and the dad turned to second mom. The couple stayed together and the dad had surgeries all the way to facial reconstruction to have more female features. It’s disgusting to do that to your children! He was as masculine as they come and is now ‘female’. His voice is still pretty deep which is weird but you’d never know if you didn’t hear his voice. I don’t care what anybody does to their body or how they live their life but when you go from having your kids have a dad and then have to try to understand why dad is now mom is absolutely 100% insane in my opinion! Wait till the kids are grown for goodness sake’s!!
"The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was its final and most essential command." "2+2 is whatever The Party requires." (George Orwell, "1984")
I've noticed the reductionist perspective of femininity and womanhood within the trans community for a long time, and it has always irritated me. I am genuinely offended by the human who posted "Misgendered at the Bank," who says "I am wearing a dress. I am wearing make-up. I am wearing eyeliner and eyeshadow and everything. Like, pfffft." Since I was a little girl, I've been a tomboy. If I had grown up now instead of during the 1990s and 2000's, I am certain I would have been convinced I'm transgender and should transition. When I was a kid, I refused to play on girls' sports teams (rules were often different for girls; we couldn't check in girls' hockey); my teachers assigned me to the boys' buses when we'd go on field trips; I didn't want to grow up to be a woman, in fact, I wanted to be Jean Claude Van Damme in Bloodsport when I was in middle school because I wanted to be strong and disciplined and loyal etc. (Yes, women can be these things but they are often not depicted in such a way in media, especially not in the 90s...as an athletic kid, I didn't identify with sexy seductresses or damsels in distress, but I did identify with male characters who were often faced with physical and mental challenge that they overcame so I got the message it was better to be male). I cried when I started to get boobs because I couldn't walk around shirtless anymore, and it made being in locker rooms with my dude teammates uncomfortable due to their teasing. I fucking hated buying and being forced to wear my first bra with its stupid frilly lace strap things. Yuck. I dressed like a boy because I liked--and still like--boy stuff. I wore baggy pants and boxers and t-shirts. I remember when I started puberty and then high school feeling external and internal pressure to conform so I started to dress more "feminine;" the first pair of American Eagle flare jeans I ever bought made me feel so awkward and self conscious. Blehhh. I can still see myself in my childhood bedroom pulling those jeans on...still see the bedroom door as I walk through it so I could "model" for my Mom who was just so happy I wanted to look "nice." Dude. As an adult woman in her mid 30s, I'm confused for a chapstick lesbian quite often because of the kind of work I do (fisherman, construction, snowmaking, dirt work...) and the stuff I wear like Carhartts and hoodies and flat bill hats. I don't get upset with people when they assume I'm gay, though, because according to social constructs regarding how females should look if they're straight, I don't fit the bill. My internal struggles as a straight woman who is "masculine" according to social constructs are challenging to articulate. But I've always felt pressure to be more "feminine" like to let men take the lead at work or in relationships, to dress in uncomfortable clothes or lingerie, to be less direct... Anyway. I could go on. But womanhood is so much more than clothes. And like other people have said, how can I not feel like a girl? It's the only experience I'm having...do I see the advantages in being male? Yeah, I do. But do males see advantages in being female? Yeah. I'm sure they do. And a lot of those advantages come down to how society has been constructed and actually have nothing to do with being a person in the world who has male or female (or, rarely, both) genitalia. Roar. I'm rambling at this point. Thanks for making this video, Amala.
I think if you could just go into a little more detail it would be easier for us all to understand. You are too brief, too wishy washy. Elaborate, please.
Nice ramble :-) Thanks :-) Funny, I think we should accept people as they are, not force them to be something they do not want to be, but this LGBT+ acceptance has gottten out of control it seems :-) Gosh, just "be excellent to each other" :-)
It’s such an insane ideology. How do you feel like you’re “born in the wrong body”? You are a woman or man regardless of how you “feel”. They can’t define anything but try to tell you how they define themselves. I’m not a daily wire fan but that “What is a woman” video was sad. You can’t tell people you are a gender then say it has no definition. How do you know what you are then? It’s a ridiculous circle jerk of insanity. Body/gender dysmorphia was a text book psych diagnosis. Till they started changing definitions. Just as dangerous as rewriting history.
i like how these people all say that clothing shouldn’t represent gender, yet at the end of the day the guy with the bank sitch thinks they should be treated as women just cuz they wear a dress and makeup.
@@spearement9903 you're missing the point. These people literally say clothing has no gender. Dresses are not feminine. But then he shows his hypocrisy by wearing a dress and expecting to be seen as a woman. And he says that in the video if you watched it.
In middle school my class had a lesbian teacher we all knew she was one because someone knew her from outside of school. That was never a discussion we had she kept her professional and personal life separate she would talk about herself but she wasn’t talking about anything that could effect us.
And that’s exactly how it should be. I don’t know when it became part of a child’s education to involve them in a teacher’s sexuality or delusion. Crazy!
As a gay man I have a higher register. I am constantly misgendered and called Mam and She. I have never once yelled at anybody for it. Never cried over it. Never even felt the need to correct anyone because it’s not important. My home girl is natural born woman but was constantly told she had a member and that she was secretly a boy because she was a bit masculine and tall and liked sports. it happens to everyone. Not just transgendered people.
Bet you and your friend never sat down in front of a camera and tried to teach kids about how to properly appreciate sexual preferences. Because you are not predators.
@@SBBunny93lol I had a friend who had this happen to them when they had longer hair, they were a bit on the heavier side so they constantly got called she or her and he always just laughed it off😂
As an old lady; my position is that what goes on between consenting adults in the privacy of their own homes or adult-only environments, is nobody's business and God bless them. But that's as far as I can go with this. Children should NEVER be in a situation where they're being deliberately confused by things that are far beyond their years. Thank you.
From one old lady to another, I feel exactly the same way...this insanity will pass. But not for the children who were damaged for a fad and now have to suffer for life.
When tiktok started giving them the attention they didn't get when they were kids - I'm trans and will be happy when tiktok is banned. This is literally ridiculous
@@IsaacDaniels777exactly. I have a couple of older trans patients. They just want to live their quiet lives and be left alone. This nonsense is making their lives very difficult.
@@melfreemans Something to note is that also tiktok has made it so people self diagnose, as opposed to older trans patients who typically were diagnosed by a professional under strict guidelines cause of the severity of things.
Whenever I leave the house i think "I am the literal God emperor of the universe, this is all mine" and I'm really confused when people don't bow before me, grovel at my feet or refer to me as "God emperor" it's really upsetting 😪
The first thing that comes to mind when my daughter doesn't agree with me is that I set up my camera, howl into the camera, edit the video and put it on the Internet
Imagine orphaning your own child, then dressing like her, and then not allowing her, her confusion and pain and grief, and then co-opting her into a socially disruptive viral social craze, and then tearfully demanding to be re-parented, all by your own daughter no less! ..we will look back on this pandemic of shapeshifting and hardly believe it ourselves. Edit: thank you for being patient with the typos.
I work in elementary schools and I had a coworker who literally changed pronouns every week and it confused the kids bc she would wear femme clothing and say call me Mr.
After the weirdo conversations forced on kids. It caused the kids at my daughters school to just go into a bizarre guessing game of their classmates. My daughter very high functioning on autism spectrum. In gifted. Great grades, but markers like stimming. This was in elementary school ... My position is normal for kids to be nonbinary when little, the I like playing football with my cousins like I did, but also like crafting. We're back to moronic a hobby equates gender norms, or outside norms. Ages ago people shamed football being forced on boy by their dad's... How did it circle back to you played Barbies as a boy you now want to be a girl?
@@SamTheBug I know what it's called honey. But I don't think children should have to deal with that if it's not their family member. We ended up having to change our regulations so that kids didn't call us Miss or mister anymore, just by our name because it was stressing the kids out at that school. The biggest problem was that appearance did not match her pronoun. If she was dressing like a guy when she wanted to be called Mr. and like a girl when she wanted to be called Miss, it would have been easier for the kids to deal with. But I still think in general when you're working with little kids, you should pick a pronoun. Do what you want in your personal life.
I was “misgendered” when i was young. I was about 10 or something and i had one a jube jube guessing contest. In the email it said “your daughter won, blah blah blah.” I can see why i easily misgendered. I had ski clothes on, so my face wasn’t very visible, i had long hair that was probably poking out of my hat/helmet, and I WAS YOUNG so i sounded like a girl! I laughed then because i thought it was hysterical. I still laugh because i still think it’s hysterical 😂
Please stop to read this no matter what side you are on. At age 14 I socially transitioned behind my parents backs and was called what I wanted at school and once I turned 18 I went on hormones for four years. I was completely with all the physical changes, and imagined myself a man well into old age. I had done my research, been socially transitioned for years before going on hormones. I was 1100% convinced I was meant to be a transgender man. But one day I woke up and started thinking about why. No one talks about why. There is no “why” you’re trans, it’s just who you are, right? No. There’s always a why. My mindset on a few things has always been the same. I never once believed I was going to be a real man and needed to be treated as such. I never once believed men belong in women’s sports or spaces. I don’t believe getting on hormones should take less than a year. I used the men’s room once I passed and wouldn’t make anyone uncomfortable. I loved it. But despite constantly thinking about the why for years and not seeing one so believing I was just born this way, one day it didn’t make sense. I wasn’t born this way. Why was I able to decide my own medication and treatment? Why was I able to get life altering drugs after a twenty minute consultation over the phone, without bloodwork? You’re not born trans. It is and always will be a mental DISORDER. Which is why insurance covers the hormones and surgeries! It is a mental disorder to be so absolutely revolted with your sex parts to want to completely remove or mutilate them. But no one ever once suggested why can’t you be okay with your body and the way you were born? What’s so wrong with fighting for that instead of fighting to change yourself? Would you be this encouraging if someone was so revolted with their nose they wanted a nose job? I was completely manipulated by people and adults who themselves have no right invading upon such a topic when they themselves are uneducated on it. The doctors who took an oath to do no harm are doing harm in order to keep their jobs. To not get sued for discrimination. The very people that approved the doctors and these treatments have no idea what the effects are going to be! I had horrible cramps and found out the testosterone was literally eating my uterus dissolving the vaginal canal. We are ruining our nation. Sweden and Denmark and Norway have already seen what puberty blockers do and are no longer prescribing them. The same drug they use to chemically castrate sex offenders being used on our kids! I’m so grateful I never had any surgery but I am now stuck with a deep voice forever and for the next couple years at least, facial hair. I have no idea how to be a woman and now that I want to try to be comfortable with the way I was born I will have a deep voice that will never go back. I can no longer sing good. I ended an 8 year relationship to get away from that lifestyle and now I have no idea how to be a woman and cannot imagine a man finding me attractive now. My heart breaks for every child who has lost years of their lives, their body parts, and their physical health and wellbeing for this insane massacre. I hope people wake up and wake up soon. God Bless you all I love you all. I say this even though scared to share my story. I feel more ashamed saying I am not a transgender man than I was saying I am trans. I say this to spread awareness that this is not a sustainable path for anyone. The drugs will kill you. The surgeries will leave pieces of you missing. Please try to love yourself for who you are. Please. EDT: thank you for reading. I am trying to remain hopeful God still has a husband and family in my path. I will walk wherever His Good will leads.
It takes a lot of courage to step away from a lifestyle once you are in it (and even more courage to speak about it), and as a fellow girl I want to encourage as you are recovering and embracing your femininity! I just want to let you know that I'll be praying for you, and that no matter what happened, you'll always be a fellow sister. ❤
What an impressive and articulate statement. Your story has such depth and poignancy that it deserves to honored, and I pray that you find compassion, kindness and love in this world and for the rest of your life.
Great comment. I've been watching a lot of videos on trans and detransition lately, trying to figure it all out. Its just so strange to me that anyone would want to change gender. Apparently it can be a result of trauma at a young age but many claim to have suffered no such trauma. Can I ask what you think is the cause?
@@wingnut71 I’ve always believed the reason people transition is because they suffer something called gender dysphoria. Nowadays people go so far to say that you don’t even need that mental illness to be transgender, but then why transition? From what I’ve gathered from the many different transsexuals I’ve spoken with, many stated they didn’t have a cause other than the gender dysphoria. I think a lot of different things can impact people and SOME teenagers to be diagnosed with gender dysphoria. For me, and it was eight years into transition that I discovered this and other trauma played a part into ME developing gender dysphoria, never saw my father ever really be nice to my mom and he always spoke of women very negatively, and I was naturally on the hairier end of girls and always felt very shamed about that and I viewed being a woman as what looked like the most exhausting and horrible thing to live as and I was raised to be a tom boy. I’ve worn one dress in my life. I am and always have been a very masculine person, short hair, etc. However I have an older sister who could be a model if she wanted to, very very feminine. So when impressionable 13 year old I “found out” from some equally traumatized kids at school that you could be the other gender, I thought I found the perfect thing. I did the research and even though I didn’t know at the time that being uncomfortable with your body was NORMAL for a teenager child, I equated that uncomfortableness to gender dysphoria and with severe mental illness that just really evolved the gender dysphoria into becoming so bad I seriously wanted to not exist because of it and what made me so willing to medically transition. I 100% believe you develop gender dysphoria either from trauma or by your own perception. I was so dysphoric about my breasts I’d wrap myself in ace bandage 12 hours a day. Now I like them, but I felt so horrible from mental illness and home life my child mind really needed something to focus those feelings on and it became my gender. Just from my experience most transsexual people completely refuse to dig into the why. It doesn’t even exist to them. If you don’t think about it it’s not a problem. I couldn’t deal with even the image of trying to lie to my future children about who I was going to be to them. I thank God for opening my eyes. It’s like I’m wearing glasses and I can finally see this for what it is. Money grab. Billion dollar industry. I pray for these kids because I thought I was smarter than this. Adults are becoming sucked into this. I recommend What is a Woman by Matt Walsh. Hope to have educated you some
for the facial hair, you can get laser hair removal. try to grow your hair out and style it. for your voice, i doubt its that bad, ive met girls with strange and weird voices, even my own voice is kinda deep, and u mentioned it being like that for the next few years, then that means it will wear off(?). which is a good thing. i would also recommend you to wear maybe dresses and skirts and stuffs that are cute. you should probably get rid of things (clothes, accessories..) that reminds you of your past (you could sell them or gift them). this one might be hard but you should cut contacts with old friends and partners. try to make friends through the hobbies you have (finding friends that like the same things as you, this could be painting, drawing..). and if you have the money for it, i highly recommend therapy. i hope you do well and i pray for your healing. if it makes you feel better, in middle school i was so confused with everything, growing up behind my phone, seeing all these lgbt videos, i was confused about my identity. whenever i saw an attractive girl and call her pretty to my online friends, they would call me gay, lesbian, bi.. it made me very confused and i began wondering if that was really the case. i was fed so many lies i began genuinely believing that i was anything but straight. all because i called a pretty girl pretty. only later did i realize that i can only see myself with a guy and have a family only with a man. after my eyes opened to the realization, i blocked all of those friends and did my best to stay away from anyone a part of it. looking back, i was so brainwashed that i can't help but think how stupid i was to think i was anything but a straight girl. this experience makes it so hard for me to support the people and their stupid beliefs. good thing is i found god and a good friend group that did not support lgbt. i am in a better place now, mentally and physically. may god help you further heal. and may you find the right people and the right path.
When the bank customer said, "...and I look like this," I thought, "a hot mess!" It reeaaally bothers me when "transgender women" think, "If I just put on a dress, a long wig, some make up and high heels, I'm a woman!" No, no you're not! I am a woman. I'm not fond of wearing dresses, make up or high heels. Yet, I'm a woman. To them, it's all superficial. It's not going to matter 170 years from now when an anthropologist digs up their bones and identifies them as a man!
The trans community is built on misogyny and I said what I said. They don't see us as whole people with separate experiences from them. That's why they think they can be us. Delusional.
What I find interesting is that I have never “felt” like a girl. I have never “felt black. I know I am female and black which is only a part of who I am
Honestly that "mother" seems like she wants to brain wash her kids into her beliefs and is confused why they don't just bend to her will over something like gender. I am all for listening to your elders and parents, but it should tell you something when younger and younger kids start to rebel against the adults in their lives. And it should be eye opening for that "mom" that their own child isn't a slave to that brain washed bs. I assume that woman had some sort of role in raising their kid and still failed to make the child conform to her beliefs.
@neilwinslow8374 Maybe it's time we ALL chimed in and made sure that we all UNITE and let people (educators) know this is NOT okay. We vote... make sure these elected officials KNOW it will NOT be tolerated!
My husband’s biological daughter from a previous relationship identifies as female, and is female. She really wants to declare that my son is gay (he was 10 at the time, and he is autistic so he is just not there yet with crushes) and tried to ask him questions leading to that and telling him that he is gay. This and many other things have made us refuse to allow her into our lives.
@@cindyhoomalu1566 You are well within your rights and responsibilities as a mother to refuse to allow your son to be manipulated by a confused clown.
I struggled with my gender identity since my early teens. But never pursuited transitioning. I did seek out therapy and have been diagnosed with DID. It is so important people seek out professional help when struggling with their identity instead of getting influenced by confused people with their own agenda. I still struggle with my identity but I have a much broader understanding where it comes from and learned to accept myself as I am and to be extra kind to myself at those hard moments where I struggle.
Remember one thing, be happy, what you're born with. Whether it is your race, you're skin or you're gender. You should be happy with yourself what you're born with. The most important thing is loving and understanding your body and yourself. But if you try to change yourself, especially race, skin, or gender, that you want to get rid of it and want to make better for yourself to change it. It's means you don't love yourself, but you want to ruin your body to make it better for yourself. Which doesn't show any true form of love at all towards your body that you're born with.
Not for nothing, but most people dont mind others doing what they want with their body ... its when they try to change societal norms and involve others (especially kids) or take away accolades from those who worked for them for years that it becomes a point of contention. Good luck to you ❤❤❤
I'm a lesbian and have young kids. I am so sick of all this "T" bull💩. If you are an adult, do what you want. But, for the live of god, leave the kids ALONE!
Right! Why can’t they just be who they want and get it out of the kids face? It’s truly weird how they have turned this into a strange way to try and confuse the most vulnerable little people. It’s actually evil
@@thetagreta9875 I don't even like PDAs. It isn't my place to introduce my lifestyle to other people's children. Holding hands is one thing, but I am not out there sucking face and making out with another woman in public.
My nephew is now my "niece", at family gatherings I just can't! I address him by terms of endearment (honey, sweetie, etc.) but I just cannot bring myself to call him she or her or by the new name. He was a gorgeous man, even did male modeling, he was on billboards on the side of 2 buildings in Chicago. Now he looks like a 6'3" very thin man in a dress. When my sister explained that the name I had known for 28 years was now his "dead name" I seriously felt like I was grieving my nephew. I can only hope & pray some day he gets the mental health help he desperately needs 🙏🏼
I understand how you feel. My niece transitioned, had her breasts removed and started on shots and meds. Her parents are so hurt and when we talk about her they just refer to their "kid". Although she legally changed her name, no amount of surgery or meds will ever take away her "pixie" looks or increase her 5' 2" height. It's just very sad.
@@reneebuchko In my case the worst part is that my sister and her husband are totally behind all of it and support it 100%... Standing behind all this insanity and going to pride parades🤯 I just don't know what happened to them, my sister and her family are such brainwashed crazy leftist woke liberals that we barely communicate except for the holidays. All I can do is pray for him at this point 🙏🏼
Some kids never stopped playing make-believe and some 'adults' unwisely decided to let them be. Now the grown up kids keep getting angry when others don't wanna join their game.
I guess since I’m not wearing makeup today or a dress and currently have short hair I must be a guy? Give me a break. We are so much more than what we wear. Costumes don’t make you a woman, we aren’t a caricature
Right on. Most of the time I hear people who subscribe to this new gender theory what I really hear is a lot of individual sexist or homophobic statements that I was deprogrammed of in the 90s.
10:34 “Why can’t you be a male woman?” For the same reason, you can’t be sorta pregnant. You are either pregnant or you’re not. You’re either a male or a female. You can be a male and pretend that you’re a woman. You could do that, but others shouldn’t have to pretend along with you. When you grow up from a child to an adult, the pretending game is over. That ship has sailed, and you must deal with reality. The reality is, that you were born a male, plain and simple, and no amount of make-up, pigtails, clothing, or pretending is going to change that fact. People don’t treat you like a woman for one simple fact. YOU’RE NOT A WOMAN.
Pretend on Halloween! I remember when a group of boys dressed up like women on Halloween. Hilarious watching them wobble up the sidewalk on high heels! I bet they were never so happy, then to get back in the regular clothing!
Just respect ones neighbor bro, they aren't going to hurt you in your daily life so no need to feel offended by their presence. It's easier to not start a fight over your beliefs and just respect them as a person.
@@cyndi.K9090Indeed 😂 My brother and two of his friends, once dressed like Charlie's Angels 😂 It was hilarious, yet it never crossed my mind to believe they were gay.
I’m so thankful I grew up when I did. I legit went through “I’m a boy” stage when my older brother didn’t want to hang out with me anymore (context: we’re almost 6yrs apart, he was in middle school and I was in 3rd grade) so he and his friends would hang out with me. Straight up it lasted 6 months and then I was over it. If that happened now, I would have been transitioned. Literally thank God every day for that.
Yes, if I was in school in this generation they would’ve pressured me into thinking I was a boy because I liked to do everything. Play with bugs, climb trees, get dirty, I was a tomboy ( stilled liked boys) I played with trucks and Barbie’s… sign kids can’t be kids anymore
I was and still am a tomboy, and I’m so happy I got out of school when I did or everyone would’ve been up my ass on transitioning. But I’m so happy that didn’t happen I enjoy being a female that just likes wearing comfortable clothes, playing dinosaurs based games and enjoy not worrying about make up. I mean people need to remember Tomboys and Feminine Males exist, without being trans.
"Just treat me like a woman." I thought I was supposed to treat women like everyone else? I thought we were all equal? They just can't keep their narrative.
When I was a kid in the 60`s I used to see men walking around in dresses and makeup. Back in those days we used the correct word to describe them. That word is transvestite.
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No matter how many times you put a pig in a bird suit it's still a pig in a bird suit.
@@randall-thehorrorwriter Sir, this is a Wendy’s.
You've finally caved! I'm not complaining, I totally understand.
yes girl make that $$$
Yeah showed my sister the ms Rachel thing n she took it off all tge kids tablets
I'm a biological woman. On the days I don't wear a dress or makeup, I don't magically turn into a man
😅😅😅😅 for real so so more to it then that they can't even come close to understand
By todays standards, you do.
Exactly!!
I’m a biological straight woman and I’ve always been more of a “Tom boy”. When did it change from just being a Tom boy? You don’t have to be a straight woman and love dresses and make up.
Right! But if you identify as a trans man, then you are a man. Simple
I graduated high school in 2000. There was a kid (male) who wore eyeliner, makeup, nail polish and occasionally feminine clothes. Ya know what they called themselves? Goth.
Goth and scene and emo
seriously. I find guys who wear alternative and light makeup like that as attractive sometimes.
Real!
For real though
Like Johnny Depp or an attractive rock star? Sure. But these guys? Nope.lol@@DarkStaria
"Im wearing a dress and make up so I'm clearly a woman!!"
I'm a woman who never wears dresses and wears little to no make up. Yet no one ever questions my womanhood. See how that works?
I was and still am a tomboy.
If I had grown up in this time, the schools would be pressuring me to be a boy. 🙄
Nope. I'm straight. I knew I liked boys when I was 5.
No changing that.
So, you’re a man?
😉😂
And HE just looks like a man in a dress, with pink hair and a VERY BAD makeup job. Sorry, sweetie, that does not make you a woman!
These people claim they are encouraging people to express themselves, but when a person does something that isn’t traditionally feminine/masculine, that person isn’t their gender anymore
Wearing a kaftan is cultural appropriation of the Arab or Islamic culture, calling the same thing a dress it is an "expression of true self" NOT remotely any sexual appropriation anymore😅
So "cultural gatekeeping" is ok now, but sexual indicators are free for cosplay? Bad costumes too, done with no effort at all. A good Drag Queen is living for the stage and a (paying) audience - a good CosPlayer ia picking the special Events to show the hard work, that went into the cosplay - meeting like-minded friends the "unsuspecting public" gets intreaged of what might be going on, if the event spills into the streets around any congress center, that event takes place in😅
as a gay man I NEVER understood why we feel the need to tell children ANYTHING about sexual preference or anything that has to do with SEXUALITY period.
Schools are doing that for us by my experience
My local schools have gay pride clubs and i don’t think its the kind of positive thing they think it is, i support queers my sister is but they shouldn’t be influencing kids, they even go by the kids pronouns and names, my sister didn’t even show any signs in her personality of being trans until middleschool when she started talking to this group of girls and she wanted to take testosterone at 16?! I told her to wait and just give it time your a child, she is but i think its more because she actually cant afford the hormones
i asked where my sister was by name picking her up from school when she first decided to be trans and no one knew who i was talking about, i didnt even know how to react when i asked for her by her new name then everyone is like OHHH and the kids i asked smirked at me? Idk how to explain how i even felt😅
And theres such a high concentration of queer kids that it does feel more like a club to fit in somewhere rather than being who you are
School is influencing children, i dont think they should be focusing on sexual identity outside of health class, they make it seem trendy or glamorous? More than a life choice in identity or anything else, im a bit repulsed by how schools are treating it but idk how to explain without sounding hateful, like its hard to even have an opinion without being called a hater when your actually concerned
Thank you!
Read My Comment. I Agree with you as a Straight Man. What people do in the Bed Room should not be bought to the Class Room from k-12. A LOT of These "People" aught to have their hard drives Seized.
Have a Nice Day.
Well, actually, we have always told them about sexual preferences. We tell them about a man and a woman getting married, or having a boyfriend or girlfriend. If they can know about men and women being together, I don't see why they can't know about men and men being together.
The incredulity of "i'm wearing eyeshadow and everything" just goes to show how deluded they are.
I wouldn't call Jack Sparrow "ma'am".
😂
Alice Cooper?
Kiss?
Several 1980s rock bands?
I had no idea they were all LGBT!
And apparently The Village People were straight? ....
bucky barnes is officially a ma'am
I think calling them jack sparrow or a kiss band member name would be more appropriate l9l
This is what always baffles me, how they can discliaim against 'gender stereotypes' and then go on to claim the very same things as evidence of 'switch' identity
Switch: Gender is nothing but a social construct! By the way, this boy is switch.
Me: How do you know that?
Switch: Because he acts like a girl.
Me: 😶
Switch: What?
Me: What did you _just_ say?
That's your problem bro, we're using our eyes. Sexuality isn't clothes. I've worn jeans and t-shirts since the 80's. Still a straight woman.
This is something I don’t see specified enough. Women (including me) regularly wear jeans. Does that mean everyone has to call me ‘Sir’? No, because clothes do not change your gender.
@@user-zx3io2nr8wWhat? You don't see that because some people of the current generations are simple-minded and stupid: in the 80s and 90s we never had this sort of non-issue and if you are up-to-date about fashion in the 2000s, 2010s, women all around wear high waisted jeans in their everyday life.
Get out of your bubble once in a while, watch any 90s sitcom or movies, stop being aggravated by social media trends and do your own thing.
The generations post-2010s are more reactionary than the young generation of the 80s and 90s: they need to put everything under a label, meanwhile I was in love with Amy Grant or Helen Hunt on "Mad About You" wearing jeans and a T-shirt back in the day, straight guy having teen crushes on feminine women.
Heck, I've worn several dresses and have worn (stage)makeup. (No, I'm not a drag queen, I'm a theater kid) I'm still straight, I'm still a guy. WTYiff is wrong with these people who can't comprehend the concept of a COSTUME vs someone suffering from Gender Dysphoria.
Probably the same whackadoodles who wrote in that Green Ranger "Girl Power" moment in Dino Furry. Girl Rangers NEVER *HAD TO* WEAR SKIRTS (Except maybe pink, but that'd change IF they'd adapt Don Brothers.)
I'm visually impaired. I determine what pronouns I use to what kind of voice you have. Deal with it.
(Nothing against people who had a full transition and sound like the gender they prefer.)
I'm 30 and I'm confused. They usually say that clothes have no gender, but they complain because they are not called by the pronoun of the clothes they wear. So, clothes have gender or not? They appear in front of the camera wearing clothes and want to be called with female pronouns but then they tell me not to assume identities based on clothes, since clothes have no gender. I'm confused.
That's the agenda: confusion.
You cannot make sense of a lunatic's motus operandi.
so are they!!
They also say that sex and gender are different. Well the women's room is for people of the female SEX. So why is it that men who claim the female GENDER feel they should be allowed to use that room?
Girl, I'm 46 and I'm confused AF, too.
Yikes. I’m a straight woman, happily married to a man and I do not actively wear dresses, skirts, or makeup of any kind. I wear hoodies, jeans, graphic t-shirts and sweatpants but that doesn’t make me a MAN. My clothes don’t define my sexual orientation, my DNA DOES.
Even if I was a lesbian, my clothes still wouldn’t define my sexual preference. This is absolute insanity. 😂 People need to get it together.
Keep all this bullshit OUT OF CHILDREN’S CLASSROOMS.
The child is clearly affected by her parent decision.i wouldn’t condone it either
Oh stop it, you and your common sense.
@ lol
I'm a woman. I hate wearing dresses and rarely wear makeup.
Dresses and makeup do not make someone a woman. So sorry, men.
Same
Wild how almost every one of these videos is of Men trying to take over Women’s spaces and being mad when others don’t respect it or get confused.
Natural faces are far more beautiful than painting over mental issues.
The necessity for makeup is a social construct. 😜
Same with any woman wanting to be a. Man just cuz you wear a suit and tie does not make you a man
I love the look of a woman in a dress just not men
"Why can't you be a male woman?" For the same reason that you can't be a married bachelor.
Or a white black man.
95% vegan
A blind target shooter
Oxymorons the whole lot of them😂
How about a "Feminine Man"? That is very self explanatory!
Politics and adult sexual orientation has absolutely no place in a small child’s classroom.. wtf
Preachhhh
Thats what they do all over the place, check what disney got busted for too.
I agree 💯
It doesn’t belong in ANY classroom.
I'm trans and bi and i agree, kids that are in elementary don't to be worrying abt those type of things
I like how they’re like “no no gender stereotypes are bad”
But then they’re also like “I’m wearing eyeliner and everything so therefore I am a woman”? Like that’s so hypocritical 😭
And the “leave the kids alone” thing is TOO REAL. These children don’t know left from right and you’re teaching them to change their gender, which can harm their body irreversibly? Like what 😭
I'm gay and if I walk into my son's class and his teacher is wearing a pride flag dress, I would take my son out. What is wrong with these people?
A lot of things are wrong with them. But I think it starts with how they see themselves.
This is why I'm homeschooling my future kiddos, then there's NO risk of their teacher dressing that way lol
Teachers need to TEACH not indoctrinate with their beliefs.
Kids are easier to brainwash into their new progressive ideas
@@mikedoggieThe new belief is that there is no absolute truth. Your perception is reality. So science doesn't matter.
I’m a straight woman who played many sports growing up… you could find me climbing trees and playing with the boys. I even got involved in contact sports as an adult. I became an engineer in a male dominated field. None of that defined my gender.
Me too 6 brothers were all I could play with till I started kinder garden. I was sort of happy I didn't have a sister. She would be a baby or a.wanna be mean girl!!
Same here. Worked in male dominated professions for most of my working life. Rode a motorcycle in my early twenties and am riding one again (late fifties 🙈). Never liked wearing dresses too often. But I am and have always been a woman - except for when I was a girl 😁
@@ZZP-SchoolNL what do you think would have happened if we had grown up with all the things kids/teens are being fed with today? At a young age, I might have gotten confused, to be honest…
@@cherylhart5955 that sounds like a fun upbringing for sure.
@@BoxitaH It's hard for me to imagine ...
First of all my mom would've never allowed that. She had a mind of her own, was very free spirited and unconvential in her thinking and behaviour.
My siblings and I take after her - and then some. 🤣
I definetely felt (like) a girl, though (always have) - just didn't let it limit or even define my choices and what I could or couldn't do. Not then and not now.
So I don't think I would've been confused, just bothered by people telling me what I should or shouldn't do. (In those days the comment would be and was "That's not ladylike behaviour" and even as young as 6 years old I would reply, either in my head or out loud, "See if I care". 😆)
To the parent having the break down: It's not your child's responsibility to validate you.
That poor child. Idk her but I'm proud of her. Imagine having daddy all of a sudden start to play & dress like mommy. Smdh.
Exactly
Somebody has to be the rational adult. It's always a shame when the child has to be the parent.
Sooooo many parents use their kids to validate and love then and "fix" them. It's disgusting.
@@so-shuseitzler8403There’s a reason why a lot of criminals target child killers and child molestors and the like in their own prisons.
My students have accidentally called me Mom, Dad, Grandma, sir, Coach, Mr, etc. NEVER have I gotten offended. (Though the Grandma thing did burn a little. Lol!)
And remember boys and girls. Luna has a last name. It's tic.
Luna tic.
Hahhahah
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
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This is awesome!
😂
The first Tik toker is a true creep
absolutely despicable behavior
Dressed as a kids UA-camr to groom is fucking creepy
Should be in jail.
He is a groomer so is Jeffery Marsh and Jeffrey Starr.
People would be mad if it was a white guy with a nazi symbol trying to get kids to be nazis then People would care
Why are these people targeting OTHER PEOPLE'S KIDS??????? 😡 😡 😡
Because they want to have fun with the kids..."fun"
They want to be 'validated'
Because they want to teach them
@reneep.1978 it's sick and they should be charged with child endangerment
pedos
In what world is Blasting your daughter on the internet, A good decision for a parent?
In the insane leftist rainbow world apparently
I just think its a little ironic how some ppl will say clothes aren't "gendered", but then use the excuse that "oh I'm wearing a dress cant you tell I'm a woman?".
for real!!! like they say "Ooh clothes don't have a gender a girl can wear blue and boys can wear pink" but as soon as they get misgendered , the (male to female) transgender person is always like "well im wearing (said clothes) can't you tell i'm a woman, because im wearing a dress, or heels. like its so stupid
There’s so many contradictions like this when you look at pretty much all of these “communities” (woke, lgbtq+, fat acceptance, etc).
yeah fr some dudes look hot in dresses and skirts. saying theyre a woman bcs they wear dresses and skirts is mildly sexist. to men who just like dresses and to women who dont like dresses. its mad.
Omg fr, it’s insane
“Transgenderism” is just the latest “sky is falling” social-catastrophe hallucination seized-upon by the far right in their last-ditch attempts to preserve their influence and remain somehow relevant. Frightening their subscription base is a proven tactic to keep donations coming-in and votes forthcoming.
Society is changing with extreme rapidity now, becoming more secular and also more tolerant - and conservative white cisgender males are terrified of losing their privilege at the top of the social hierarchy.
In social hierarchies, there are the overvalued (wealthy cisgender white males), the undervalued (women, the poor), and the targeted- the scapegoats who are singled-out as the cause of Things Falling Apart.
Transgender people are just their scapegoat-du-jour. In the fifties and sixties, it was black people. In the 80s, it was gays & hippies. Right-wingers need an Other - an enemy - to bind their tribe together… and American conservatism has a sociologically tribal mindset.
And obsession with sex - prudery, and especially with gatekeeping access to women’s bodies - is a hallmark of right-wing authoritarians throughout history. Gay and transgender people squick them out and are an especially-attractive target for rightwing hate and vilification because they are especially vulnerable.
And don't forget their ongoing war against (GASP!!) FEMINISTS!!
They can't use abortion anymore so they had to find some social issue to bring back the women in the suburbs. It looks now like not even the whole “transgenders are coming to get your kids” thing isn't working either.
“Girl come on, I’m wearing a dress” soooo are you wanting us to assume your gender based on your appearance?
Still trying to intimidate 'girls' into doing what he wants. Most COMPLETELY male attitude. In fact possibly INTRINSICALLY male to automatically see 'female' as opposition to overcome. Like some kind of CONQUEST. A way to express POWER. Like the deepest reaction down to the cells to recognize predator from prey. And to gaslight a woman to silence that a wolf is a sheep.
Yes, yes it does
need to figure out the species first dont we?
@@nfr333 man I ain’t nothing but a toadie I can’t keep up with all these rules 😬
If I saw him irl I'd be like "does he want me to call him a woman or gay?????"
People like that first guy should be charged with child grooming
10000%
@@Cidney37 why?
Ok is it weird yes, but he's not entirely Grooming....though I do find it offensive for the trans community- (I'm a cis women not trans!)
Saying shit like that is boarderline pedophilia for real. Why would ever ever be bring up a topic like that with children that young.. all their thinking about is playing on the playground and playing games on their tablet that sick to be talking to children about that.
And instead of trying to convince a CHILD! they are sometimes they are not maybe ask them why do they feel that way and try to ENCOURAGE them being comfortable with who THEY ARE instead of convincing they are something THEIR NOT
You are right in all of your analyses!!! As a 73 year old woman, I am already over this whole "transmania" and while I will be civil to someone I encounter who is obviously trans, I will not play the pronoun game. I am so grateful my grandsons are out of school and were never exposed to a trans teacher or school administrator. Protect the children at all cost!!!!
I am so glad I am not raising kids in this day and told my daughter I would take her kids if she sends them to brick and mortar school - it is a good thing we didn’t have all this wokeness in the 80’s as all boy bands had long hair and makeup so I guess they would be girls -
I was glad too, my kids missed that, I'm raising grandkids now though and have to watch them like a hawk. They naturally just don't accept this and are not inclined to play this game. Their farm kids, raised around animals, watched the birth process. They know EXACTLY what male and females are and do.
😢😢😢 I'm glad I left school and didn't have to deal with this too.
I keep hearing people ask the question “do you feel like a boy or a girl?” Honestly? I don’t know what “feeling like a boy” or “feeling like a girl” should feel like. I feel like… a person? How would I know? I know what it feels like to not feel right in my body, but like a boy or girl? No clue
Pokemon: The only place I feel it's appropriate to really ask, "Are you a boy or are you a girl?"
@@white.rabbit1871 agreed
How can you know what the opposite gender feels like if you've never been one? I can't know how a boy feels, physically or psychologically because I'm a girl and feeling like a girl is all I have the capacity to know in that regard
EXACTLY!!!!!!
The closest I ever got to knowing what a boy feels like is raising a son. He taught me a lot.
Their obsession with ‘educating’ children in private never ceases to astound me
They probably want to make sure the newer generations will be tolerable of all this Transgender thing. So they explain it in this weird "innocent" way...
I think you meant "ceases" to astound.
"Astound" is not the word I would use.... But I will use the Fifth.
@@blackenreed1425 yep you’re right lol.
groomers gonna groom.
it went from don't force a gender on a child to, force transgender on all children
GREAT POINT
@blumenthal7528It's a classic case of the "boiling frog strategy."
@@brianyoung8999 As Rush Limbaugh had said many times, it's all about incrementalism.
@blumenthal7528 - the "slippery slope" was always an accurate explanation
Very well said!
Yeah, working in public sector, I'm a 5'6" female with size DDD cups and I've been called sir many times. I stop, look at them, look down at my chest and laugh. Then they get embarrassed and apologize. I'm not hurt, just suprised! This is the only place Ive ever said anything about it because it's not something that matters to me. But I guess if I'm hyper sensitive about something like being overweight, I would be hurt by comments made intentionally negative or unintentionally. I also know that regardless, only we can let/make ourselves be upset. Other people can say or do what they want, it is up to us to learn how to handle it and not impose our "feelings" on others. There are a lot of cruel people in this life we all have to deal with. But there are far more kind ones in it if you let them be.
I love what you said about being respectful of others and just dealing with your own issues without forcing them on others. Luv ya Amala!
Maybe ur chest ain’t that big lol DDD is small on chubbs
🇦🇺I was born female, I don’t wear dresses or skirts. I don’t wear makeup or wear nail polish. I like motorbikes and as a child climbed trees . But I’m still female, my DNA says so.
I agree. It’s getting pretty insulting towards women who like to wear pants 😅. I’ve never had the issue of being called a man because I wasn’t wearing a dress.
Xx chromosome here, same girl, same.😊
Cap prove it
Trousers/pants and shorts are for boys and men.
Skirts and dresses are for girls and women.
Makeup and other artificial stuff are sins.
Please, repent before it is too late.
@@jnun8237You've never had that issue because of double standards.
Conservatives usually allow girls and women to wear trousers/pants and shorts, play with boys' toys and boys' sports, shop in the male section, wear male costumes for Halloween, etc...
However, when a boy or a man do those stuff too, it's suddenly a problem. They call them trans or crossdressers.
Both of them are wrong and a sin.
What I don't understand is why they need our friendship?
Why do people feel like they are entitled to someone else's friendship, acceptance, and trust. I don't feel like I owe that to anyone.
THIS!!!
Exactly!
because they've been convinced that their problems can and should be solved by others.
It's all about validation. They have a constant need for external validation, probably because they're insecure and uncertain as to the legitimacy of their chosen identity, so hearing it from others "proves" they're on the right track.
@@StevenScott-sy7ekalso it’s about boundaries. It used to be if you felt uncomfortable with someone you could just avoid them now we tell kids be kind your feelings of being uncomfortable are not important
“Feminine things/clothes aren’t what make a woman!”
“I’m wearing a dress can’t you tell I’m female?!”
Also:
"doctors only determine biological sex visually, they can't know what you _really_ are"
"Use your eyes, it's not rocket science"
Oh fuck yeah. I was playing cards with my buddies a couple of years ago and whoever lost had to go to one of the “Gay-straight alliance” meetings at our HS. So one of my friends went one day at lunch and he came back horrified. Apparently they had posters everywhere about how nothing is tied to a specific gender, and then a clearly male student walks in wearing a dress and everyone’s like “OMG CONGRATS UR A GIRL!!!”
@@ChromaWRLD999 lol yea checks out. Now full disclosure I was at the bar and someone wanted to know why I was wearing boy clothes. I thought I looked nice 🤣
Society is so confusing.
I'm glad other people on here said this
I am a 19-year-old biological female. I hate everything feminine. I am the masculine type, but I'm still a female. Just because someone dresses a certain way, does not mean they are automatically this or that. I dress masculine, I'm still a biological female. My sister is the feminine one. It's an unspoken agreement between us. She handles the femininity, and I handle the masculinity.
Imagine someone walks up to you and asks what color is the sky, and when you say blue they freak out on you that the sky is red with yellow polka dots how dare you not see that. Same level of crazy as this, that's fine you want to look, be or feel a certain way just don't expect or be offended when everyone else does not want to buy into your crazy.
The delusion to just assume that everyone peceives you as a woman just cos you are wearing a dress is really amazing to me 😂😂.
If I was gonna try to "correctly gender" that person, I would have assumed he was a they/them. Lol 🤷♂️
@Didipunx Super misogynistic. Their whole ideology is.
I wonder if those dudes, all the ones that look like this sad attempt at looking like a “woman” - do they all think each other is attractive and actually women? Like are they so delusional that they see another one of them and thing “that’s obviously a beautiful woman”. I can’t imagine it 😂
it also supports the gender stereotypes and roles that they’re trying so hard to deconstruct
He said “I’m wearing makeup…” I thought men, especially gay men, are free to wear makeup too & it’s supposed to be toxic masculinity & even sexist to force gender conformity onto men & say they aren’t allowed to wear makeup since it’s not manly enough… now who’s the problematic one🙄
Imagine holding your phone to your face and crying and then looking at your phone after and posting it
BRO FOR REAL
Embarrassment 100
I literally don’t understand it.. it’s so pathetic
Lmao. Social media in general! 100%
Look everyone look !! Look how my terrible daughter makes me cry !
So crazy how they hate people assuming their gender but also want people to assume their gender based on their clothes. Make it makes sense because honey boo boo this is not it
Exactly. The exact same people who say gender stereotypes don't & shouldn't exist, then literally cut off body parts & try changing everything about themselves - because they feel like they're more drawn to certain gender stereotypes & want to fit into gender stereotypes
And in the next sentence they will say that clothes are not gendered and men can wear dresses and make up. I don't even try to understand that anymore.
How simply correct you are.
You are one of the most sensible UA-camrs I have come across with. Love your content.
I am a biological woman and I don't wear makeup and I only wear dresses at church. I guess that makes me a man.
Same lol. I have 3 kids too! But only occasionally wear a dress to church and no make up. Guess I am a man
U can drop " biological " you're a woman: trans "women" are men. cheers
Could be worse. I was in the garage this morning, and now I identify as a car. Now I have to go out and get a tag!
Same! We must be female men!?! 🤔🤯😂😂😂
Same!
I asked my daughter (8 yrs) if mommy still looks like a girl without makeup on. And she replied "Yes...but a girl who didn't want to get out of bed today." It was a burn, but an accurate burn.
Aww that’s kinda cute tho😂😂☺️
That type of honesty from kids is why I can't have my own... I would cry because it's true. 😅
Your daughter is awesome
Your daughter just called me out in 3255 languages (as someone who almost never wears makeup) 😂!
I would love to see how many trans people there would be WITHOUT social media and the need for attention it creates
There was hardly any before social media 😂
@@80sbrunnette exactly 😂
The need for constant attention from these people is unreal. A lot of the trans people, who are actually struggling with gender dysphoria, likely just want to live their lives out in peace. The TIKTOK crazies just seem to thrive on creating chaos and confusion, and will never be happy no matter what people do.
@@80sbrunnette exactly it is nothing but a trend for most
I don't believe 80%-90% of the ones claiming to be trans.
Yes, they're doing this for attention. It's the "in thing".
It's insane.
Their logic is “well! I wear feminine clothes and makeup!!! I’m a woman!” Does that mean that I, doesn’t wear makeup often or feminine clothes, does that mean that I’m a man?
My son got suspended for a week from school for refusing to use a classmate pronouns. I bought him a few games and got him 200 bucks in paysafe. We're in Greece btw.
No way.....for real?? That's fucking absurd.
@user-vs4rp1qc6q I thought so too but it is what it is.
Smart kid you have
@user-vs4rp1qc6q This has been happening across the country. Good for them rewarding their child for standing their ground.
I live in Athens now and wow really? Im sorry! We live normally in Sweden and it leaked there too. I hate it and its mostly Americans that push their agenda. Its seriously dumb.
One of my pet peeves is that people demand that you don't assume their gender, yet what they want is for you to assume their gender correctly when it's the first time you meet them.
I feel bad for customer service workers. How do they know what your delusional fantasies are?
@@catherinemartinez5542 This. I work customer service. I say sir or miss to anyone above the age of 50. Anyone else is just not given anything at all. Because I know the people above 50 are normal people and I don't have to do mental gymnastics with them
Lol so I am known in my hs for being conservative and not hateful, but not very accepting of personal pronouns, so one day a trans kid walks up to me and says “What do you gender me as” and I just say bitch.
@@sinny5404thats a good way to go about it, but lets not pretend gen X'ers and boomers arent their own brand of stupid.
@@DeezNuggz Bruh !! Be so kind as to cool it wth the "inter-generational astrology." This is one of many ways TPTB try to divide us (we, the people). Dividing people by sexuality & gender is also what they're doing -- arguably w/ great success -- but dividing people by their age(s) is just assinine.
I actually got yelled and screamed at by a trans "female" because I refused that person's advances AND because I said I'm only interested in biological females. When asked why,I gave the usual truthful list of facts and said person stormed off screaming,lol. Waaaay unhinged,that person was.
Oooh boy. Yes, some people need to realize rejection isn't rude or a way to insult them. If you're not attracted to them for whatever reason, you have the right to say no!! That's consent! Isn't consent a big thing to these people?
What does this have to do with the video? You implying they’re all like that?
@@elliestrong3220men being men. Forcing themselves on people. Nothing feminine about that behavior.
@@TheDivineSystem did u not just watch the fucking video? yes, they are all crazy like that.
@@TheDivineSystemnot all but MOST of them are lol
"Don't assume my gender identity!!!!" meanwhile "I'm wearing makeup and a dress how can you not tell I'm a woman!" 🙄 I don't want to live on this planet anymore. My biology is not your costume!
i love how they say that transgenderism is beyond looks and is based on feeling, but when you misgender them, their first defense is "I'm wearing something feminine."
@@chlojojojoo If you want to avoid confrontation just ask, you a real human
Not really like ever for any trans person in real life? I’m trans myself, I’m in highschool, people come up to me and say things like “you’re a tr^nny” or “you’re a girl” or “you’re a she” and I literally could not care less, that’s how all the trans people I know in real life react to those things as well
grl i love how similar our usernames are omg 😂👯♀️also fr, a lot of stuff these ppl say is super hypocritical 🙄
@@lightdarkerygood on you for not getting offended because I see so many people get offended so quickly and it gets on my nerves lol
@@Lizzie519 I feel like tic tok a of people getting offended like that are purposefully played up for views (much like most things in tic tok) I swear we are literally people to most of us don’t act like this 😭
MY DAUGHTER WANTED TO BE A PUPPY WHEN SHE WAS LITTLE...I DIDN'T TAKE HER TO A VET!!! KIDS DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT HALF THE TIME!!!
One of my daughters wanted to be a pony and the other wanted to be a big yellow truck. To this day, if I pass a yellow truck on the road, I call her and say, " I think I just passed you." 😊
I wanted to be a dalmatian 😂
@@favoriteswubby Not quite a truck but thought this might amuse you:
ua-cam.com/video/4Ag6lFQrexU/v-deo.html
I was desperate to be a bird when I was younger😂
Did she specify if she wanted to be a girl puppy or a boy puppy? 😂 She probably didn't even think about the gender because little kids don't think about those things on their own.
I work in the beauty industry. I'm a hair stylist. I grew up a tomboy, on a farm with eight brothers. I hate putting makeup on, and having to do my hair everyday to look the part. But I am ALL woman. I've worked with gay people for years, and none of them act like these people in these videos.
cuz the ppl in the vids are not gay but transgender, which in a few countries in south america is listed as a mental illness.
I feel like the problem here is that these are the people that are really seen in media and not the normal lgbt people. every community has bad apples, that's how it works, but on the internet those same people seem to have an upper hand when it comes to views and popularity, because their behaviour can and will be called out, and that might even be their goal. but it's just wrong, because they all just push into the already unfavourable stereotypisation, which literally just hurts us all. this is not the way to fight for acceptance, especially when these people contradict (let it be lgbt or general) beliefs ((one of them for example that clothes have no gender)). I agree with this personally, I think people should be allowed to wear whatever they want while staying within reason, and for example the person that went to the bank w what looks to be a wig and a dress while sounding unmistakably masculine, like girl please no. I understand that dresses have been associated with femininity for a long while and they may try to lean on that association, but they shouldn't take it as a sure way to be called or be mistaken as a woman. they should not have made such a big deal out of "oh but I'm wearing a dress" because it doesn't change anything
Gay and transgender are definitely different in a lot of ways.
A lot of this comes from the attention-seeking of social media. There are good sides to social media (like Amala's videos), but many TikToks are a cesspool.
Most LGBTQ+ people I’ve seen or met are actually really nice
In the live action movie of Scooby Doo where Scooby dresses up like a grandma, not a single viewer watching this movie assumes that Scooby doo is actually a grandma in the movie. We all know it’s a pup named Scoob dressed in a woman’s clothes. You can look and act like a grandma, but the viewer knows it’s a dog.
You don’t have to be a grandma or a dog to know. You just have to be able to see.
Teachers these days are so unhinged. Our Humanities teacher in highschool was a gay man, never ONCE saw him in a rainbow anything or with any LGBTQ flags etc in his classroom. Any time a student asked him anything about being gay he'd politely say the question had nothing to do with Humanities and move on...The only place in our school where there were gay pride etc postes was in the kids social club and in the PSE ( physical and sexual education ) class, which is appropriate and exactly where they belonged. Shoutout to Mr Thomas, he's a real one.
Amen! Back in the day, teachers didnt exist outside of school, we didnt know anything about their private lives bcos its not relevant! Kids dont need to know!
Same with my History teacher back in the 90's. He was gay and out, but can never once recall him discussing his private life. So much did he keep it to himself, that one of the pupils thought she could get away with making a false allegation for attention, that fell apart around her ears once that little fact became public knowledge. Screw you, Sonia..
Only in the States. My kids are in primary school and I'm a high school teacher and teachers still teach like they did when I was younger. They have different tools but the rest is the same. They are getting good quality education here ln Europe.
@@surlespasdondinedepends where in Europe in the UK depends where you go but in Czechia it’s great.
That's so awesome. I wish ALL teachers kept their private lives private and the answers to children's questions AGE APPROPRIATE. When my daughter's (5/6 at the time) ballet teacher announced to the class every update about her pregnancy, it really made me uncomfortable.
I'm a twin. I got called by my sister's name A LOT!!! I didn't lose my mind and throw a temper tantrum over it.
THIS IS SO REAL, even by my close family members
I get called all different names other than my own. Melissa, Melinda, Michaela, Pikachu (long story lol), etc. I just roll with it
I am a twin also. I got used to being called either one of the twins or my twins name Donna if they didn't call me by my name, Darla. These people are majorly unhinged.
@@michelleraborn6886I’m so curious about the pikachu comment 😭
Pikachu 😂😂@@michelleraborn6886
These teachers don’t want students they want an audience that is powerless to reject them.
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Yes!! Exactly.
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just like they do with pop culture, a hijacked audience is a false audience.
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I was groomed into thinking I was a boy at 9 by "friends" online I was born a girl and I am a girl but was manipulated into taking hormones and feeling insecure Im happy it stopped at hormones and it was easily fixed with some therapy I'm so happy people are finally speaking up about this utter bullshit.
Thank you for speaking out. So many of ‘these’ (because I can’t think of a better term right now), are predators. I’ve seen & experienced it first hand, more than 45 years ago.
Your parents are crazy for allowing a 9 year old to be online. My daughter is 9 and she is not allowed on social medias. I recently took UA-cam away as well because all she did was watch it and I noticed a change in her behavior. My son has the same rules. They do play Roblox and fort nite though. They are not allowed to talk to strangers on line. To many stories of creepy adults pretending to be kids these days. I try to educate them about predators online and that’s why they aren’t allowed. I’m sorry you weren’t protected. I’m glad you found your true self. It’s a lot of trial and error and you may find yourself several times in your lifetime. I grew up with two older brothers. I wanted to be a boy for so long. I dressed as a boy and always chose boy roles when we played. By 4th grade I grew out of it. I always thought there was something wrong with being a women. It took having my daughter to teach me to appreciate my femininity. Now I am very proud to be a women but it took me till 30 to really step into it. Everyone learns in their own time. I’m a personal trainer and was a bodybuilder for years. So I still do “manly” things. But that’s what I like it doesn’t change that I’m a beautiful woman. Thank you for sharing! And many blessing love and light to you.
Sorry this happened to you! Maybe you can help others not fall in this trap
oof, will you be ok? thanks for sharing
@@WeAreGina Roblox gets weird (due to people) to be careful with that and fornite isnt a kids game either. Id say minecraft or something like that would be safer. Or jus Toys
I feel terrible for a child with a parent like that.
@@stuartmac910well, a good parent won't enable delusions so you're right, the child needs help.. therapy!..
He's just creepy.
How dare that guy who went into the bank assume the member of staff was a "she".
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That is a very very good point
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And the teller is paid to be a teller not an expert on trans issues.
Exactly my thoughts
I'm always confused when someone says they finally get to be their "true self" when they're pretending to be something that they're not. Love the REAL you and not the pretend one that you're hoping to be. Even if there is a little inner struggle going on.
Like, I'm not even sure what's going on cuz to me, it seems more like they are running away from being their true selfs by embracing something that isn't true but seems like it is. If you are a man and don't necessarily act masculine, isn't it ok? It doesn't make you a woman, they'll just be a "feminine" man, no? They are against gender stereotypes yet they contradict their beliefs by thinking "if I'm a man but don't like manly stuff but like make-up and skirts, that means I'm meant to be a woman. And vise versa (same for the transmen)". I personally am a tomboy who doesn't like gowns or makeup (although sometimes I feel good wearing them, really depends on my mood tbh) and act like a guy, but im fully aware im a girl, and can't be a boy...
If you work for the post office, you can be a mailwoman, but you can never be a male woman.
My first sighting of a crossdressing transgender transvestite...whatever....was an obvious bloke in a shirt and twinset plus pearls, working in the Mail sorting area of the Post Office......maybe he was sorting himself out ! Thought it was funny...was back in the 60s.🤭
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LOL I'm so dead! 😭
My only sighting of trans identifying male was at an aftercare group affiliated with the local mental hospital. Never dis-liked anyone that fast before or since. None of the men wanted him around them, so he decided to force the women to accept him. After we told him to "LEAVE US ALONE!" loud enough for the men to hear. He decided to continue coming to therapy, but sleep during it. The individual leading the session would tell him to stop snoring, he'd yell at her for disturbing him. He contributed nothing to the group. He was the most self-centered person that I've ever had the displeasure of meeting.
I have a feeling he was trolling.
It's so crazy how like 10 years ago people were saying "gender doesn't matter!" and "my gender doesn't define me" and now people are like this. It's honestly so backwards and the way trans men see women is just so offensive.
Right, why do they think we are a costume? Wearing a dress and makeup doesn't make you a woman. I wear jeans and graphic tees most every day and I don't wear makeup unless its a very special occasion and then I will wear a very small amount of natural makeup (Hide blemishes really and that's it) and I have NEVER been mistaken for a man. It is so crazy that if you misgender them it is like you just threatened their lives, use the gender they want you to and you are just a good person?? I don't understand, if I dunno if you might go by some other "pronoun" I'm just gonna call you "Hey you, over there" and save the headache xD
But again Dress and makeup doesn't turn you into a woman, and jeans and tees don't turn you into a man. Stop freaking out on people when you have decided that you want to confuse everyone with your masculine build and female clothes or feminine build and masculine clothes. Men and Women Are Not COSTUMES. Also they need to stop being emo
"clothes are genderless! 😍"
"did you just call me sir even when i'm wearing a skirt and heels😡!?!?!?"
I birthed my children in no makeup...nursed them in no makeup or dresses...I'm 42...still a tomboy...Mom of 3...still a female. ❤
You must be a female man!
Same ❤
Same.. even 3. 😂 just not age.
Way to go, Tomboys! I wrote a poem for you. I use it now for the girls who are unsure about these things.
@@ianboggs9211😮 duuuuude! You cant tease like that. Give us the poem!
when i close my eyes, i feel... like myself
Him: "It's not rocket science."
Me: "No it's not rocket science, it's molecular cell biology."
it’s the amount of X you have in your chromosomes
@@wyatt.the.horseyor the presence of a Y.
@@herideahomestead LOL
I have a 7 month old son and i am sooooooo afraid of these type of creepy people trying to confuse these innocent kids. No i take it back, it just really REALLY pisses me off. Ill be damned if my son runs into this type of hype
Edited: I appreciate all of yalls stories of experiences and thoughts regarding this matter! I dont have social media except YT and this is the first time ive had this many likes. I am glad Im not the only one feeling this way. Blessings to all and I hope we can overcome this problem!
i recommend homeschooling. you know he’s not talking to weird teachers
homeschooling is on the rise more and more chdirlena r ebeing yanekd out of schools and we cna reverse indctrination
Public education is rotten to the core.
I'm not a parent but I do fear for my nieces and nephews running into these type of morons
At this point don’t even let your babe on tiktok it’s FILLED with this shit
"My daughter needs to be cancelled, she's not an ally!"
That child is guaranteed getting hate for this from people the mom needs support and attention from. She threw her kid under the bus to be raked for attention.
we getting put in a shitty nursing home in this one 🗣🗣🗣
"Allies" are the most toxic
Truth!! I bet that mother has already caused so much trauma to her child. She has the personality/mental issues that would cause a terrible childhood for their kid.
Wretched mom. Social media is an infection for some
Honestly, the daughter probably said that because of what that parent has probably put her daughter through, and I don’t blame her.
There’s a family on UA-cam that have 3 kids and the dad turned to second mom. The couple stayed together and the dad had surgeries all the way to facial reconstruction to have more female features. It’s disgusting to do that to your children! He was as masculine as they come and is now ‘female’. His voice is still pretty deep which is weird but you’d never know if you didn’t hear his voice. I don’t care what anybody does to their body or how they live their life but when you go from having your kids have a dad and then have to try to understand why dad is now mom is absolutely 100% insane in my opinion! Wait till the kids are grown for goodness sake’s!!
"The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was its final and most essential command." "2+2 is whatever The Party requires." (George Orwell, "1984")
Yes! Who knew that book would be so prophetic. Ironically, it is often banned, though more people these days ought to read it.
TOTALLY AGREE with the Orwellian comparison!! All these new words would/could/SHOULD be considered "Newspeak" (1984)😉
Efforts are being made to publicly discredit Orwell and ban his books. The motive should be obvious
Or painting the grass green - soviet style.
That book and Brave New World should be read by EVERYONE, and then have them make comparisons to what we are seeing nowadays. 😢
I've noticed the reductionist perspective of femininity and womanhood within the trans community for a long time, and it has always irritated me. I am genuinely offended by the human who posted "Misgendered at the Bank," who says "I am wearing a dress. I am wearing make-up. I am wearing eyeliner and eyeshadow and everything. Like, pfffft."
Since I was a little girl, I've been a tomboy. If I had grown up now instead of during the 1990s and 2000's, I am certain I would have been convinced I'm transgender and should transition. When I was a kid, I refused to play on girls' sports teams (rules were often different for girls; we couldn't check in girls' hockey); my teachers assigned me to the boys' buses when we'd go on field trips; I didn't want to grow up to be a woman, in fact, I wanted to be Jean Claude Van Damme in Bloodsport when I was in middle school because I wanted to be strong and disciplined and loyal etc. (Yes, women can be these things but they are often not depicted in such a way in media, especially not in the 90s...as an athletic kid, I didn't identify with sexy seductresses or damsels in distress, but I did identify with male characters who were often faced with physical and mental challenge that they overcame so I got the message it was better to be male). I cried when I started to get boobs because I couldn't walk around shirtless anymore, and it made being in locker rooms with my dude teammates uncomfortable due to their teasing. I fucking hated buying and being forced to wear my first bra with its stupid frilly lace strap things. Yuck.
I dressed like a boy because I liked--and still like--boy stuff. I wore baggy pants and boxers and t-shirts. I remember when I started puberty and then high school feeling external and internal pressure to conform so I started to dress more "feminine;" the first pair of American Eagle flare jeans I ever bought made me feel so awkward and self conscious. Blehhh. I can still see myself in my childhood bedroom pulling those jeans on...still see the bedroom door as I walk through it so I could "model" for my Mom who was just so happy I wanted to look "nice."
Dude. As an adult woman in her mid 30s, I'm confused for a chapstick lesbian quite often because of the kind of work I do (fisherman, construction, snowmaking, dirt work...) and the stuff I wear like Carhartts and hoodies and flat bill hats. I don't get upset with people when they assume I'm gay, though, because according to social constructs regarding how females should look if they're straight, I don't fit the bill.
My internal struggles as a straight woman who is "masculine" according to social constructs are challenging to articulate. But I've always felt pressure to be more "feminine" like to let men take the lead at work or in relationships, to dress in uncomfortable clothes or lingerie, to be less direct...
Anyway. I could go on.
But womanhood is so much more than clothes. And like other people have said, how can I not feel like a girl? It's the only experience I'm having...do I see the advantages in being male? Yeah, I do. But do males see advantages in being female? Yeah. I'm sure they do. And a lot of those advantages come down to how society has been constructed and actually have nothing to do with being a person in the world who has male or female (or, rarely, both) genitalia.
Roar. I'm rambling at this point.
Thanks for making this video, Amala.
You sound just like my daughter! Sounds like the same experience she had growing up
She tells me she is so grateful she was born in 1977.
So did Marc Bolan, David Bowie etc but they had no issue with there identity. There is something wrong in the head with these people.
I think if you could just go into a little more detail it would be easier for us all to understand. You are too brief, too wishy washy. Elaborate, please.
Nice ramble :-) Thanks :-)
Funny, I think we should accept people as they are, not force them to be something they do not want to be, but this LGBT+ acceptance has gottten out of control it seems :-) Gosh, just "be excellent to each other" :-)
It’s such an insane ideology. How do you feel like you’re “born in the wrong body”? You are a woman or man regardless of how you “feel”. They can’t define anything but try to tell you how they define themselves. I’m not a daily wire fan but that “What is a woman” video was sad. You can’t tell people you are a gender then say it has no definition. How do you know what you are then? It’s a ridiculous circle jerk of insanity. Body/gender dysmorphia was a text book psych diagnosis. Till they started changing definitions. Just as dangerous as rewriting history.
i like how these people all say that clothing shouldn’t represent gender, yet at the end of the day the guy with the bank sitch thinks they should be treated as women just cuz they wear a dress and makeup.
ALL OF THIS!
No it’s because they feel like a woman and feel more comfortable dressing womanly?
@@spearement9903 you're missing the point. These people literally say clothing has no gender. Dresses are not feminine. But then he shows his hypocrisy by wearing a dress and expecting to be seen as a woman. And he says that in the video if you watched it.
@@spearement9903 They feel like a what?
He should be arrested!!! 2:58
In middle school my class had a lesbian teacher we all knew she was one because someone knew her from outside of school. That was never a discussion we had she kept her professional and personal life separate she would talk about herself but she wasn’t talking about anything that could effect us.
And that’s exactly how it should be. I don’t know when it became part of a child’s education to involve them in a teacher’s sexuality or delusion. Crazy!
Just because someone PRETENDS to be something they're not doesn't mean I have to PRETEND
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"I feel like..." Nope! You can't feel like something you're not and have never been.
You feel like being something you’re not. I might feel like walking away.
FRRR
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“I look and sound like THIS…”
Everyone else: “Exactly!” 😂
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Yep. Looks and sounds like the man he is. 😂
I love this whole, “use your eyes!” thing despite being told over and over again that we shouldn’t “assume people’s genders”… so, um… wtf? 🤦♀️
Lol so real
As a gay man I have a higher register. I am constantly misgendered and called Mam and She. I have never once yelled at anybody for it. Never cried over it. Never even felt the need to correct anyone because it’s not important. My home girl is natural born woman but was constantly told she had a member and that she was secretly a boy because she was a bit masculine and tall and liked sports. it happens to everyone. Not just transgendered people.
Bet you and your friend never sat down in front of a camera and tried to teach kids about how to properly appreciate sexual preferences. Because you are not predators.
@@luthasunspell8365 definitely not lol 😂
@@SBBunny93lol I had a friend who had this happen to them when they had longer hair, they were a bit on the heavier side so they constantly got called she or her and he always just laughed it off😂
@@SBBunny93 right
@@BoundlessStupidity
Her, she, she, she
As an old lady; my position is that what goes on between consenting adults in the privacy of their own homes or adult-only environments, is nobody's business and God bless them. But that's as far as I can go with this. Children should NEVER be in a situation where they're being deliberately confused by things that are far beyond their years. Thank you.
From one old lady to another, I feel exactly the same way...this insanity will pass. But not for the children who were damaged for a fad and now have to suffer for life.
At what point did these people start thinking we care if they get offended.
When tiktok started giving them the attention they didn't get when they were kids - I'm trans and will be happy when tiktok is banned. This is literally ridiculous
@@IsaacDaniels777exactly. I have a couple of older trans patients. They just want to live their quiet lives and be left alone. This nonsense is making their lives very difficult.
@@melfreemans Something to note is that also tiktok has made it so people self diagnose, as opposed to older trans patients who typically were diagnosed by a professional under strict guidelines cause of the severity of things.
Thank you for who you are & the work you are doing. It is so important. Cheering you on sister
Whenever I leave the house i think "I am the literal God emperor of the universe, this is all mine" and I'm really confused when people don't bow before me, grovel at my feet or refer to me as "God emperor" it's really upsetting 😪
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Hey me too! False god!!!
Thoughts and prayers 🙏 😂
See, when you put it that way, it shows the obvious narcissism/psychopathy in these people. Scary!
That would be upsetting. 😂
The first thing that comes to mind when my daughter doesn't agree with me is that I set up my camera, howl into the camera, edit the video and put it on the Internet
You too?? 😅
Yeah, would never have been off the Internet when she was 14 😂😂😂
Imagine having your feelings hurt by a child
Imagine orphaning your own child, then dressing like her, and then not allowing her, her confusion and pain and grief, and then co-opting her into a socially disruptive viral social craze, and then tearfully demanding to be re-parented, all by your own daughter no less! ..we will look back on this pandemic of shapeshifting and hardly believe it ourselves.
Edit: thank you for being patient with the typos.
THIS. I LOVE this!!!!
I work in elementary schools and I had a coworker who literally changed pronouns every week and it confused the kids bc she would wear femme clothing and say call me Mr.
That is child abuse. SMH.
After the weirdo conversations forced on kids. It caused the kids at my daughters school to just go into a bizarre guessing game of their classmates. My daughter very high functioning on autism spectrum. In gifted. Great grades, but markers like stimming. This was in elementary school ... My position is normal for kids to be nonbinary when little, the I like playing football with my cousins like I did, but also like crafting. We're back to moronic a hobby equates gender norms, or outside norms. Ages ago people shamed football being forced on boy by their dad's... How did it circle back to you played Barbies as a boy you now want to be a girl?
@@HallieWiseleyCraigmore like brain abuse
@@LilyAlcee it's called genderfluid, honey
@@SamTheBug I know what it's called honey. But I don't think children should have to deal with that if it's not their family member. We ended up having to change our regulations so that kids didn't call us Miss or mister anymore, just by our name because it was stressing the kids out at that school. The biggest problem was that appearance did not match her pronoun. If she was dressing like a guy when she wanted to be called Mr. and like a girl when she wanted to be called Miss, it would have been easier for the kids to deal with. But I still think in general when you're working with little kids, you should pick a pronoun. Do what you want in your personal life.
I was “misgendered” when i was young. I was about 10 or something and i had one a jube jube guessing contest. In the email it said “your daughter won, blah blah blah.” I can see why i easily misgendered. I had ski clothes on, so my face wasn’t very visible, i had long hair that was probably poking out of my hat/helmet, and I WAS YOUNG so i sounded like a girl! I laughed then because i thought it was hysterical. I still laugh because i still think it’s hysterical 😂
Please stop to read this no matter what side you are on. At age 14 I socially transitioned behind my parents backs and was called what I wanted at school and once I turned 18 I went on hormones for four years. I was completely with all the physical changes, and imagined myself a man well into old age. I had done my research, been socially transitioned for years before going on hormones. I was 1100% convinced I was meant to be a transgender man. But one day I woke up and started thinking about why. No one talks about why. There is no “why” you’re trans, it’s just who you are, right? No. There’s always a why. My mindset on a few things has always been the same. I never once believed I was going to be a real man and needed to be treated as such. I never once believed men belong in women’s sports or spaces. I don’t believe getting on hormones should take less than a year. I used the men’s room once I passed and wouldn’t make anyone uncomfortable. I loved it. But despite constantly thinking about the why for years and not seeing one so believing I was just born this way, one day it didn’t make sense. I wasn’t born this way. Why was I able to decide my own medication and treatment? Why was I able to get life altering drugs after a twenty minute consultation over the phone, without bloodwork?
You’re not born trans. It is and always will be a mental DISORDER. Which is why insurance covers the hormones and surgeries! It is a mental disorder to be so absolutely revolted with your sex parts to want to completely remove or mutilate them. But no one ever once suggested why can’t you be okay with your body and the way you were born? What’s so wrong with fighting for that instead of fighting to change yourself? Would you be this encouraging if someone was so revolted with their nose they wanted a nose job? I was completely manipulated by people and adults who themselves have no right invading upon such a topic when they themselves are uneducated on it. The doctors who took an oath to do no harm are doing harm in order to keep their jobs. To not get sued for discrimination. The very people that approved the doctors and these treatments have no idea what the effects are going to be! I had horrible cramps and found out the testosterone was literally eating my uterus dissolving the vaginal canal. We are ruining our nation. Sweden and Denmark and Norway have already seen what puberty blockers do and are no longer prescribing them. The same drug they use to chemically castrate sex offenders being used on our kids! I’m so grateful I never had any surgery but I am now stuck with a deep voice forever and for the next couple years at least, facial hair. I have no idea how to be a woman and now that I want to try to be comfortable with the way I was born I will have a deep voice that will never go back. I can no longer sing good. I ended an 8 year relationship to get away from that lifestyle and now I have no idea how to be a woman and cannot imagine a man finding me attractive now. My heart breaks for every child who has lost years of their lives, their body parts, and their physical health and wellbeing for this insane massacre. I hope people wake up and wake up soon. God Bless you all I love you all. I say this even though scared to share my story. I feel more ashamed saying I am not a transgender man than I was saying I am trans. I say this to spread awareness that this is not a sustainable path for anyone. The drugs will kill you. The surgeries will leave pieces of you missing. Please try to love yourself for who you are. Please.
EDT: thank you for reading. I am trying to remain hopeful God still has a husband and family in my path. I will walk wherever His Good will leads.
It takes a lot of courage to step away from a lifestyle once you are in it (and even more courage to speak about it), and as a fellow girl I want to encourage as you are recovering and embracing your femininity! I just want to let you know that I'll be praying for you, and that no matter what happened, you'll always be a fellow sister. ❤
What an impressive and articulate statement. Your story has such depth and poignancy that it deserves to honored, and I pray that you find compassion, kindness and love in this world and for the rest of your life.
Great comment. I've been watching a lot of videos on trans and detransition lately, trying to figure it all out. Its just so strange to me that anyone would want to change gender. Apparently it can be a result of trauma at a young age but many claim to have suffered no such trauma. Can I ask what you think is the cause?
@@wingnut71 I’ve always believed the reason people transition is because they suffer something called gender dysphoria. Nowadays people go so far to say that you don’t even need that mental illness to be transgender, but then why transition? From what I’ve gathered from the many different transsexuals I’ve spoken with, many stated they didn’t have a cause other than the gender dysphoria. I think a lot of different things can impact people and SOME teenagers to be diagnosed with gender dysphoria. For me, and it was eight years into transition that I discovered this and other trauma played a part into ME developing gender dysphoria, never saw my father ever really be nice to my mom and he always spoke of women very negatively, and I was naturally on the hairier end of girls and always felt very shamed about that and I viewed being a woman as what looked like the most exhausting and horrible thing to live as and I was raised to be a tom boy. I’ve worn one dress in my life. I am and always have been a very masculine person, short hair, etc. However I have an older sister who could be a model if she wanted to, very very feminine. So when impressionable 13 year old I “found out” from some equally traumatized kids at school that you could be the other gender, I thought I found the perfect thing. I did the research and even though I didn’t know at the time that being uncomfortable with your body was NORMAL for a teenager child, I equated that uncomfortableness to gender dysphoria and with severe mental illness that just really evolved the gender dysphoria into becoming so bad I seriously wanted to not exist because of it and what made me so willing to medically transition. I 100% believe you develop gender dysphoria either from trauma or by your own perception. I was so dysphoric about my breasts I’d wrap myself in ace bandage 12 hours a day. Now I like them, but I felt so horrible from mental illness and home life my child mind really needed something to focus those feelings on and it became my gender. Just from my experience most transsexual people completely refuse to dig into the why. It doesn’t even exist to them. If you don’t think about it it’s not a problem. I couldn’t deal with even the image of trying to lie to my future children about who I was going to be to them. I thank God for opening my eyes. It’s like I’m wearing glasses and I can finally see this for what it is. Money grab. Billion dollar industry. I pray for these kids because I thought I was smarter than this. Adults are becoming sucked into this. I recommend What is a Woman by Matt Walsh. Hope to have educated you some
for the facial hair, you can get laser hair removal. try to grow your hair out and style it. for your voice, i doubt its that bad, ive met girls with strange and weird voices, even my own voice is kinda deep, and u mentioned it being like that for the next few years, then that means it will wear off(?). which is a good thing. i would also recommend you to wear maybe dresses and skirts and stuffs that are cute. you should probably get rid of things (clothes, accessories..) that reminds you of your past (you could sell them or gift them). this one might be hard but you should cut contacts with old friends and partners. try to make friends through the hobbies you have (finding friends that like the same things as you, this could be painting, drawing..). and if you have the money for it, i highly recommend therapy. i hope you do well and i pray for your healing.
if it makes you feel better, in middle school i was so confused with everything, growing up behind my phone, seeing all these lgbt videos, i was confused about my identity. whenever i saw an attractive girl and call her pretty to my online friends, they would call me gay, lesbian, bi.. it made me very confused and i began wondering if that was really the case. i was fed so many lies i began genuinely believing that i was anything but straight. all because i called a pretty girl pretty. only later did i realize that i can only see myself with a guy and have a family only with a man. after my eyes opened to the realization, i blocked all of those friends and did my best to stay away from anyone a part of it. looking back, i was so brainwashed that i can't help but think how stupid i was to think i was anything but a straight girl. this experience makes it so hard for me to support the people and their stupid beliefs. good thing is i found god and a good friend group that did not support lgbt. i am in a better place now, mentally and physically.
may god help you further heal. and may you find the right people and the right path.
When the bank customer said, "...and I look like this," I thought, "a hot mess!" It reeaaally bothers me when "transgender women" think, "If I just put on a dress, a long wig, some make up and high heels, I'm a woman!" No, no you're not! I am a woman. I'm not fond of wearing dresses, make up or high heels. Yet, I'm a woman. To them, it's all superficial. It's not going to matter 170 years from now when an anthropologist digs up their bones and identifies them as a man!
💯% agreed! I have said the same thing. Doesn't matter what they do 100-200 years from now, and they get dug up, they're going to see a male skeleton.
They’ll rise from the dead and yell at them
@@saved.by.christ.24748”No sir, that’s a female penis”
The trans community is built on misogyny and I said what I said. They don't see us as whole people with separate experiences from them. That's why they think they can be us. Delusional.
Is it hurting you?
The fact that when they were referring to the person at the bank as she? But they’re telling people to not assume is so dumb.
What I find interesting is that I have never “felt” like a girl. I have never “felt black. I know I am female and black which is only a part of who I am
Because you don't make it your entire personality like they do and you aren't using it to get special treatment like they are
This is what I think.Gender is not a feeling it’s a physical thing so I’ve never understood when trans people say they ‘feel’ like this or that??
I agree. I have never felt or thought I was a girl or woman. I guess that’s because I know I am a woman. Never gave it much thought
The "mom" at 9 minutes has just made life for her child FAR more challenging. She'll be labeled and attacked as a bigot at school and elsewhere.
Honestly that "mother" seems like she wants to brain wash her kids into her beliefs and is confused why they don't just bend to her will over something like gender. I am all for listening to your elders and parents, but it should tell you something when younger and younger kids start to rebel against the adults in their lives. And it should be eye opening for that "mom" that their own child isn't a slave to that brain washed bs. I assume that woman had some sort of role in raising their kid and still failed to make the child conform to her beliefs.
I don't think that was mum.
Pretty sure that is a dude
@neilwinslow8374 Maybe it's time we ALL chimed in and made sure that we all UNITE and let people (educators) know this is NOT okay. We vote... make sure these elected officials KNOW it will NOT be tolerated!
Thought the same! Could even lose scholarships among other opportunities in her future due to this label.
why is it always men-to-female people who want to reach out to young children on sexual topics?
My husband’s biological daughter from a previous relationship identifies as female, and is female. She really wants to declare that my son is gay (he was 10 at the time, and he is autistic so he is just not there yet with crushes) and tried to ask him questions leading to that and telling him that he is gay. This and many other things have made us refuse to allow her into our lives.
@@cindyhoomalu1566
You are well within your rights and responsibilities as a mother to refuse to allow your son to be manipulated by a confused clown.
Because men.
How is talking about genders that you feel comfortable being sexual?
@@TheImpluse.because trying to teach kids that is disgusting grown people shouldn’t be obsessed with kids
your doggy is so adorable … i want more screen time with the puppy!
I struggled with my gender identity since my early teens.
But never pursuited transitioning.
I did seek out therapy and have been diagnosed with DID.
It is so important people seek out professional help when struggling with their identity instead of getting influenced by confused people with their own agenda.
I still struggle with my identity but I have a much broader understanding where it comes from and learned to accept myself as I am and to be extra kind to myself at those hard moments where I struggle.
Good for you and thankyou so much for your honesty, very brave of you ❤
Remember one thing, be happy, what you're born with. Whether it is your race, you're skin or you're gender. You should be happy with yourself what you're born with. The most important thing is loving and understanding your body and yourself. But if you try to change yourself, especially race, skin, or gender, that you want to get rid of it and want to make better for yourself to change it. It's means you don't love yourself, but you want to ruin your body to make it better for yourself. Which doesn't show any true form of love at all towards your body that you're born with.
that`s a lot wow...it is not an easy road to face it, good luck to you!
Not for nothing, but most people dont mind others doing what they want with their body ... its when they try to change societal norms and involve others (especially kids) or take away accolades from those who worked for them for years that it becomes a point of contention.
Good luck to you ❤❤❤
I'm a lesbian and have young kids. I am so sick of all this "T" bull💩. If you are an adult, do what you want. But, for the live of god, leave the kids ALONE!
Right! Why can’t they just be who they want and get it out of the kids face? It’s truly weird how they have turned this into a strange way to try and confuse the most vulnerable little people. It’s actually evil
If you're a lesbian, how do you have kids? Just curious...
@@destructivegamer8228 have you really been under that troll bridge so long you are unaware of infertility treatments that ANY woman can utilize?
@@thetagreta9875 I don't even like PDAs. It isn't my place to introduce my lifestyle to other people's children. Holding hands is one thing, but I am not out there sucking face and making out with another woman in public.
@@destructivegamer8228adoption, maybe the kids were from a straight relationship even
I wore a dog costume, and I barked, and they still called me "sir".
I should be called a "DOG"!
Hmmmmmmmm...
@@cliffm8846 💀💀💀💀
fr,like dogs have genders anyway😭
@IMSLAYYYYfr, humans just dont get us ❤
Nah, you should be called “DAWG”
@@BenitoMilan Can I pet dat dawwwwwwg!
That puppy is everything!
My nephew is now my "niece", at family gatherings I just can't! I address him by terms of endearment (honey, sweetie, etc.) but I just cannot bring myself to call him she or her or by the new name. He was a gorgeous man, even did male modeling, he was on billboards on the side of 2 buildings in Chicago. Now he looks like a 6'3" very thin man in a dress. When my sister explained that the name I had known for 28 years was now his "dead name" I seriously felt like I was grieving my nephew. I can only hope & pray some day he gets the mental health help he desperately needs 🙏🏼
I'm sorry to hear that.
I hope many people realize that what they need is help, not some transitions that can change their life forever.
Sounds A-G-P. Most H-S-T-S's tend to keep their new name as close as their original name.
I understand how you feel. My niece transitioned, had her breasts removed and started on shots and meds. Her parents are so hurt and when we talk about her they just refer to their "kid". Although she legally changed her name, no amount of surgery or meds will ever take away her "pixie" looks or increase her 5' 2" height. It's just very sad.
@@reneebuchko In my case the worst part is that my sister and her husband are totally behind all of it and support it 100%... Standing behind all this insanity and going to pride parades🤯 I just don't know what happened to them, my sister and her family are such brainwashed crazy leftist woke liberals that we barely communicate except for the holidays. All I can do is pray for him at this point 🙏🏼
You didn’t have any ideas like he might actually be a woman when he got into modeling?
Some kids never stopped playing make-believe and some 'adults' unwisely decided to let them be. Now the grown up kids keep getting angry when others don't wanna join their game.
Very well said
I disagree. Kids who play make believe know it is just for fun and not real. Adults who do the same are delusional.
@@Gomba13it's the delusional adults that help these ideas spread to children sometimes. Not all but some. I'm talking about parents.
@@Gomba13delusion and escapism caused by … trauma.
I guess since I’m not wearing makeup today or a dress and currently have short hair I must be a guy? Give me a break. We are so much more than what we wear. Costumes don’t make you a woman, we aren’t a caricature
Right on. Most of the time I hear people who subscribe to this new gender theory what I really hear is a lot of individual sexist or homophobic statements that I was deprogrammed of in the 90s.
If black face is offensive then woman face should be as well.
They're mocking us.
So ... like, what ARE your pronouns exactly???
😉
@@Rugmunchersauce3 ? I’m a married woman with two kids?
@@SteampunkSinnerdon’t feed the troll. -_-
My cousin is 2 months old and cant even sleep without ms Rachel
10:34 “Why can’t you be a male woman?” For the same reason, you can’t be sorta pregnant. You are either pregnant or you’re not. You’re either a male or a female. You can be a male and pretend that you’re a woman. You could do that, but others shouldn’t have to pretend along with you. When you grow up from a child to an adult, the pretending game is over. That ship has sailed, and you must deal with reality. The reality is, that you were born a male, plain and simple, and no amount of make-up, pigtails, clothing, or pretending is going to change that fact. People don’t treat you like a woman for one simple fact. YOU’RE NOT A WOMAN.
Pretend on Halloween! I remember when a group of boys dressed up like women on Halloween. Hilarious watching them wobble up the sidewalk on high heels! I bet they were never so happy, then to get back in the regular clothing!
Just respect ones neighbor bro, they aren't going to hurt you in your daily life so no need to feel offended by their presence. It's easier to not start a fight over your beliefs and just respect them as a person.
@@cyndi.K9090Indeed 😂 My brother and two of his friends, once dressed like Charlie's Angels 😂 It was hilarious, yet it never crossed my mind to believe they were gay.
I’m so thankful I grew up when I did. I legit went through “I’m a boy” stage when my older brother didn’t want to hang out with me anymore (context: we’re almost 6yrs apart, he was in middle school and I was in 3rd grade) so he and his friends would hang out with me. Straight up it lasted 6 months and then I was over it. If that happened now, I would have been transitioned. Literally thank God every day for that.
Yes, if I was in school in this generation they would’ve pressured me into thinking I was a boy because I liked to do everything. Play with bugs, climb trees, get dirty, I was a tomboy ( stilled liked boys) I played with trucks and Barbie’s… sign kids can’t be kids anymore
I was and still am a tomboy, and I’m so happy I got out of school when I did or everyone would’ve been up my ass on transitioning. But I’m so happy that didn’t happen I enjoy being a female that just likes wearing comfortable clothes, playing dinosaurs based games and enjoy not worrying about make up. I mean people need to remember Tomboys and Feminine Males exist, without being trans.
"Just treat me like a woman." I thought I was supposed to treat women like everyone else? I thought we were all equal? They just can't keep their narrative.
That is a statement that should only be said in private contexts...like sex.
Adapt "every other Tuesday" Chef's kiss!
When I was a kid in the 60`s I used to see men walking around in dresses and makeup. Back in those days we used the correct word to describe them.
That word is transvestite.
Based
Agree. They look and act nothing like women when they "transition". Transvestite is more accurate.
As a kid growing up in the 70s they used to call them sissies!
In what place on Earth was this in the 1960s in which a kid would regularly cross paths with cross dressers?
Hmmm... 🤔
Is that cuz they were trans, and wore their vests real tight? 😁