I cry everytime in a father death scene. I lost my father to cancer and I remember the last time I ever saw him he told he told me how much he loved us (my bro and sis) and how glad he was that we were in his life. Every father death scene reminds me of that day.... Every father death scene.
This is such a beautifully tragic scene, because for the first time in years his dad really felt like his dad and he could bond with him but it was also the last moment he got to spend with his father.
Good fathers are such a blessing and not everyone is lucky t get one.. I am blessed with a wonderful dad, a great person.. he acts all tough and strong in front of me.. when i joined college in a different country and he had to leave me and go after enrolling me and taking me to my dorm he said good bye and then turned and walked back.. i looked at him as he walked and when he was abt to reach the car, i ran to give him a hug and at that moment I saw he was Crying, the first time i am seein dat
This scene make me cry, the fact that when he was younger didn't respect him, but in the end he realize his dad is all what he have, breaks my heart. Masterpiece scene. 😭💯
I lost the only person that made me feel like everything was gonna be alright, even though I had a few periods where I didn't actually think things were going to be alright at all, about life in general. That person was my everything and my home and my all---- my dad. This scene was too real. He left me a year ago. I eventually found myself again, but I still feel lost every day, and I am now 60 years old, but I feel like 6 when the pain of my dad being gone hits. I lost it watching this scene. Too real. Too real. Too real.
What's that got to do with the dysfunctional relationship in this scene? Good for you. Glad you had a great dad. Some don't. Go watch any other movie and relate to it, this one isn't for you.
This scene means that most to me , because this showed the true love between child and father and knowing that i may never have that!! He got to say goodbye and thank you for all that he had shown him, i know someone will read this and not understand but not knowing a parent and not getting to have that relationship is the worst thing in the world so to anyone and everyone who reads this. Dont take both your parents for nothing, you are in this world because of them!!
i think this was the best part of the movie, soo real and soo emotional. Had tears in my eyes , well not because of the movie scene ... only because i was cutting onions
This movie has the scens when you just want to sleep, and scens like this.. When you just can't prevent your tears to fall and can't take your eyes of the screen. I love this type of scenes, that show us what we really feel. It show how great you are!
I was on a first date when I first saw this movie, my pops wasn’t doing to well at the time. And I cried big manly tears during this scene. RIP old man.
I agree with both of you-this film needed to be able John and his father. I wish much more time would have been spent on that and not the romance. Amanda and Channing didn’t have any chemistry, so they couldn’t sell their “love” story.
Many just many emotions in a scene. First the innocence of his father. A hobby to bond with his son torn because of obvious adulthood. Many unspoken words now crumbled into a single letter. The first thing John will keep in his father’s memory, coins. The last thing his father will keep, John’s last memory.
People are lucky to have *good* dads. Mine disowned me 20 years ago for coming out as lgbt, hasn't called or anything since. Not a birthday or Christmas goes by where I don't have a void in me telling me I'm not worth being loved or cared for. Would much rather have a dead dad who loved me than an alive one who would never claim me.
The very beginning of the movie you hear the voice over 1:12 and of course naturally you assume he was saying that to her but it turns out it was to the most important person in life: his dad. I love how even tho this moment is so heartbreaking it’s a moment where him and his dad finally embrace each other after being so distant throughout the movie💔
He did such a outstanding performance here my number one favourite movie channing Tatum has ever done this is why I love his acting when he plays rolls like these
My dad and I watched this movie together and I knew this scene was coming and didn’t want him to see me cry so I got up to go to the kitchen to get some food during. Cried in the kitchen before coming back.
He never had a good relationship with his dad, It reminds me a lot of myself, It took him to realize for his dad to be in a dying bed for him to show his guilt and feelings, Thats why this scene makes me cry. Thats why it hits home, Cause both of them delt with pride.
This scene reminds me of my dad. This is almost exactly how it is. The Doctor decided to take my dad out of the Room because he is already dying. It was just like this, my mom called me, had a video call with my dad. At the very end, I spoke to him just like this. The only thing that is different is, I talked to my dad just like the old times, telling jokes and we still laugh up until the very end. Im glad he was able to rest in piece. In the past when we were young, we don’t talk too much about our feelings. We used to always talk about silly stuff and just have a genuine good times. Miss you Dad, hope you’re doing okay up there ❤️🙏
When my dad was dying in hospice clinic in 2012, I was 25. I was there by his side every single day as he laid in a coma dying of esophagus cancer. When my mom left, I began reading him long things I would type up the night before when Id head home and not sleep in my early grief, not understanding how this was happening, I read the news to him and read funny things I found on reddit. He heard me. I know he did. He would squeeze my hand or moan a mumble. When the doctor came in and said he was near death, we brought a pastor and my mom and I both told him he needed to let go and we would be ok....he mumbled NO very clear and loud and took a lot for him to do this and i remember the doctor in complete shock saying he was so drugged and his body shutting down he shouldnt have been understanding let alone able to speak a word. Stubborn man he was!! This scene rewatching it years later after losing my favorite person really hit me.
If you're a man this makes u cry, every man loves his dad or a father figure in his life if their real dad wasn't around, and that's sad if they weren't
I thought he meant Savannah in this letter because he got broken heart after what she did and I thought he still loves her but after reading comments I think you all are right he means his dad by saying ( you ).
I believe this was the most important scene in the whole movie. It's a love story. He learned to love his father!
Did you read the book? If not you sure got it right. It does reveal how grateful he is to Savanah for teaching him to accept and love his father.
+windstrucklady1 Yes. I read the book. It's better. I love this story because of my relationship with my dad.
aww.. much happiness to you in accepting things as they are,
You little dickens youuu... comment that brings a tear to a mans eyes lol. Shaddup.
He always loved his dad
I am not ashamed to admit that I just cried.......manliest man tears of cause.
No shame, it is an amazing scene that makes it dusty in here whenever I see it too.
I cry everytime in a father death scene. I lost my father to cancer and I remember the last time I ever saw him he told he told me how much he loved us (my bro and sis) and how glad he was that we were in his life.
Every father death scene reminds me of that day.... Every father death scene.
No shame this scene was touching
@@Moleman_eyes may god have mercy on his soul
@@Moleman_eyeswatch “the judge” with RDJ, I cried multiple times and it’s a father son type movie
This is such a beautifully tragic scene, because for the first time in years his dad really felt like his dad and he could bond with him but it was also the last moment he got to spend with his father.
This was the best scene in the whole movie..
Good fathers are such a blessing and not everyone is lucky t get one.. I am blessed with a wonderful dad, a great person.. he acts all tough and strong in front of me.. when i joined college in a different country and he had to leave me and go after enrolling me and taking me to my dorm he said good bye and then turned and walked back.. i looked at him as he walked and when he was abt to reach the car, i ran to give him a hug and at that moment I saw he was Crying, the first time i am seein dat
Correct...I wasn't
To finish his sentence, this is what he was suppose to say:
"The last thing I thought of was you."
He was referring to his dad.
+Rainbow Dashie How do you know that?
+Amber Bassham in the beginning of the movie this is how it started sort of like a in medias res
+Nida Ziyadeh an in medias res*
+Nida Ziyadeh Oh okay thx
I think he was referring to his gf
This was such a good scene. Sometimes when your about to lose someone, you find the value in it. His dad was always so considerate of him.
This scene never failed to make me cry.
I Always cry at this :( his dad is so adorable
Man tears are just rolling! This was the sweetest scene ever!
i have a brother with autism and this scene made me cry my eyes out.
Perfect acting, beautiful!
+Daiken I have autism :(( its so bad and it really hurts my life :c
+sd dss wow please start hanging out around people more....
The dad was autistic
same :)
He had asbergers not autism
Richard Jenkins, the dad, is just such an amazing actor. I love anything he is in. I loved him on Six Feet Under
This scene make me cry, the fact that when he was younger didn't respect him, but in the end he realize his dad is all what he have, breaks my heart. Masterpiece scene. 😭💯
Channing's acting here is so beautiful.
yes it is
Lost my dad this year he died at 50 he was never in my life but if I I could of been close to him I would have
This is precious moment of him reconciling with his dad.. This is moving.. Hard not to cry..
This hits me on the bottom of my heart. Lost my dad and couldn't say Goodbye...wish I could hold him on my arms for just a moment....
Just a beautiful moment. I love movies and the people who make them, their ability to create scenes like this. Wonderful.
I lost the only person that made me feel like everything was gonna be alright, even though I had a few periods where I didn't actually think things were going to be alright at all, about life in general. That person was my everything and my home and my all---- my dad. This scene was too real. He left me a year ago. I eventually found myself again, but I still feel lost every day, and I am now 60 years old, but I feel like 6 when the pain of my dad being gone hits. I lost it watching this scene. Too real. Too real. Too real.
What's that got to do with the dysfunctional relationship in this scene? Good for you. Glad you had a great dad. Some don't. Go watch any other movie and relate to it, this one isn't for you.
It's always the scenes with the parents that make me cry in Nicholas Sparks movies. It's never the love story.
This scene means that most to me , because this showed the true love between child and father and knowing that i may never have that!! He got to say goodbye and thank you for all that he had shown him, i know someone will read this and not understand but not knowing a parent and not getting to have that relationship is the worst thing in the world so to anyone and everyone who reads this. Dont take both your parents for nothing, you are in this world because of them!!
Briana Nash
I Agee, I just never got in time to the hospital to say goodbye to my dad when he took his last breath
''the last thing I thought of was you'' 🧡
First time I ever cried because of a movie, it hit me so hard. Beautiful movie
Whoever wrote this movie, I love you.
Lost my dad 2 months ago, miss him so mucho :(
I'm sending up prayers for you and you family
Prayers:) Be strong.
This scene was when I realized Channing’s talent. All of those subtle gestures he makes that show affection for his dad.
I couldn't hold my tears...best part
He goes there to support his dad and his dad ends up comforting him.
i could not stop crying this was such a sad scene :(
i think this was the best part of the movie, soo real and soo emotional. Had tears in my eyes , well not because of the movie scene ... only because i was cutting onions
This movie has the scens when you just want to sleep, and scens like this.. When you just can't prevent your tears to fall and can't take your eyes of the screen. I love this type of scenes, that show us what we really feel. It show how great you are!
I was on a first date when I first saw this movie, my pops wasn’t doing to well at the time. And I cried big manly tears during this scene. RIP old man.
Honestly, if a guy cried during this scene on our first date, he would definitely get a second date ❤️
Wait, were you the dude with the popcorn bucket with the hole in the bottom on his lap? If so, I defintiely remember you, you sneaky bastard!
I cried at this part when I first saw it and still do. I can relate.
Single handed The most heart wrenching,
Gut wrenching sobbing scene I have ever seen. No contests that come close
one of the saddest scenes ever ... i cried like a baby
I cried like a little bitch
I've watched this movie like a million times and it makes me cry EVERY TIME.
The love story was boring as fuck, but this... I'm in pain.
A huge missed opportunity by wasting so much time on the love story part.
I agree with both of you-this film needed to be able John and his father. I wish much more time would have been spent on that and not the romance. Amanda and Channing didn’t have any chemistry, so they couldn’t sell their “love” story.
Many just many emotions in a scene. First the innocence of his father. A hobby to bond with his son torn because of obvious adulthood. Many unspoken words now crumbled into a single letter. The first thing John will keep in his father’s memory, coins. The last thing his father will keep, John’s last memory.
People are lucky to have dads .. My dad passed away 12 years ago due to cancer.. Fathers are the best
Sorry to hear that 😢😢😢 rest in peace.🙏
People are lucky to have *good* dads.
Mine disowned me 20 years ago for coming out as lgbt, hasn't called or anything since. Not a birthday or Christmas goes by where I don't have a void in me telling me I'm not worth being loved or cared for. Would much rather have a dead dad who loved me than an alive one who would never claim me.
This scene was one of my favorites.So sad and moving. His dad always loved him. He just didn't know how to show it.
Richard Jenkins as a dying/dead father figure always makes me cry
The very beginning of the movie you hear the voice over 1:12 and of course naturally you assume he was saying that to her but it turns out it was to the most important person in life: his dad. I love how even tho this moment is so heartbreaking it’s a moment where him and his dad finally embrace each other after being so distant throughout the movie💔
I watched this with my friends and at the en of that scene I was hysterically crying and I couldn't stop
He did such a outstanding performance here my number one favourite movie channing Tatum has ever done this is why I love his acting when he plays rolls like these
My dad and I watched this movie together and I knew this scene was coming and didn’t want him to see me cry so I got up to go to the kitchen to get some food during. Cried in the kitchen before coming back.
THIS IS THE PEAK OF THE MOVIE.. IT JUST MELTS ME
Bruh why am I doing this to myself, I know when I watch it it's gonna make me cry again. It still kicking me 😭
Richard Jenkins, he's done a ton of small film roles through the years
I miss My dad so much he died when i was 5 i lost my mom a few years back i miss my parents
Watched my marine dad pass away with a heart warming letter he wrote to me before he went 😢
He never had a good relationship with his dad, It reminds me a lot of myself, It took him to realize for his dad to be in a dying bed for him to show his guilt and feelings, Thats why this scene makes me cry. Thats why it hits home, Cause both of them delt with pride.
this is the real Dear john Letter
Damn all it took was a couple seconds this nigga almost got me to tear up damn
Brings tears to my eyes!
still trying to get over this scene
Channing Tatum did so good with this scene
This hits me in a certain place, reminds me when I was losing my father😭
Sorry to hear that, how long ago was that
Channings best acting moment.
No doubt about it
This scene reminds me of my dad. This is almost exactly how it is.
The Doctor decided to take my dad out of the Room because he is already dying. It was just like this, my mom called me, had a video call with my dad. At the very end, I spoke to him just like this. The only thing that is different is, I talked to my dad just like the old times, telling jokes and we still laugh up until the very end. Im glad he was able to rest in piece. In the past when we were young, we don’t talk too much about our feelings. We used to always talk about silly stuff and just have a genuine good times.
Miss you Dad, hope you’re doing okay up there ❤️🙏
WAH. At least you had a dad to lose in the first place.
Best scene in the entire movie
I cried my heart out when watching this scene
Yeah this movie definitely made me shed some tears.
First a breakup then a family death😭
This scene give me a heart ache
I wish I could tell my dad one last time that I love him hold him
When my dad was dying in hospice clinic in 2012, I was 25. I was there by his side every single day as he laid in a coma dying of esophagus cancer. When my mom left, I began reading him long things I would type up the night before when Id head home and not sleep in my early grief, not understanding how this was happening, I read the news to him and read funny things I found on reddit. He heard me. I know he did. He would squeeze my hand or moan a mumble. When the doctor came in and said he was near death, we brought a pastor and my mom and I both told him he needed to let go and we would be ok....he mumbled NO very clear and loud and took a lot for him to do this and i remember the doctor in complete shock saying he was so drugged and his body shutting down he shouldnt have been understanding let alone able to speak a word. Stubborn man he was!!
This scene rewatching it years later after losing my favorite person really hit me.
The fucking coin thing kills me😭
'The last thing I thought of was you' 💖
My dad's a piece of shit and I cannot relate but even I get emotional here
This scene breaks my heart
I cried everytime 😭😭😭
i have never cried this hard😭
There is a fire. Inside of my chest..
This scene actually killed me 😭
Every time, I cry
I love john he is cute, and lovely man.
so do i
This the scene where I cried so much. I love Dear John. #NicholasSparksFanPH
Sadly my dad walked out of my life several years ago but I can still feel the pain this character is experiencing I’m this movie. Very good scene!
*in, you fucking dolt.
This movie has objectively too many tear-jerking moments
If you ever have any problems with your dad let this be a lesson. This movie affects me so much and wish things had been different
My dad and I haven’t spoken in over a decade, fuck him, why would you cry over someone that doesn’t want you anyways? Lmao
If you're a man this makes u cry, every man loves his dad or a father figure in his life if their real dad wasn't around, and that's sad if they weren't
I remember my father when he was dead and I come to hospital and touch his feet it was cold i hold it tight I taught may be he wake up but .....
This what the story should have been about…not the shitty person who left him high and dry
Miss u dad.
Such a powerful scene :/
Great job cropping the video, dude. Much respect.
I just cried 💔
No the last thing he thought about was his father. He chuckled up because his father was dying.
I love this movie!
This scene killed me.
I love this movie
PLEASE, Anybody knows the name of this BGM ?
Dear God I cried without even remembering his dad has Asperger's
I actually cried 💖
i have an autistic dad, this hits home
This scene on its own is a masterpiece. It deserved to be in a much better movie.
RIGHT?? Ugh, I wish the film focused on father and son instead of the romance. The romance part (which was the majority) sucked 😫
I thought he meant Savannah in this letter because he got broken heart after what she did and I thought he still loves her but after reading comments I think you all are right he means his dad by saying ( you ).
You read the novel of Dear John. Itz more heartbreaking...
Best scene in the movie 💖
Omg... im crying