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  • Опубліковано 16 гру 2024

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  • @AskShimon
    @AskShimon  19 годин тому +176

    It was heavy on my heart and mind to make this video and literally 15 minutes after finishing I had a coaching call, one of the main issues we spoke about what being too attached🧘🏾‍♂️maybe it was meant to be

    • @PandaSlothProductions
      @PandaSlothProductions 19 годин тому +2

      Ay brotha, you are one of my biggest inspirations. Thanks for everything you do ❤️

    • @4kJeff
      @4kJeff 18 годин тому +3

      name of background song man , please

    • @jaydento5343
      @jaydento5343 18 годин тому

      @4kJeffsonder

    • @Keilyn12
      @Keilyn12 17 годин тому +3

      @4kJeff it's what you heard by sonder

    • @andrerodriguez6678
      @andrerodriguez6678 17 годин тому +1

      Needed this more today than I knew. Thanks for the reminder to keep on going. Please never stop inspiring others and speaking such a pure message. It's helping me and I appreciate your light.

  • @TavisMoore
    @TavisMoore 18 годин тому +94

    Something I always tell myself now is “it’s not the person, the place, or thing… it’s the feeling”

  • @Malik_Dawson
    @Malik_Dawson 19 годин тому +97

    "Same shit, different toilet" literally my favorite quote 💫

    • @henkermx1221
      @henkermx1221 17 годин тому +1

      yeah!

    • @Malik_Dawson
      @Malik_Dawson 16 годин тому

      @henkermx1221 💪🏾😎 hope all is well family 🫶🏾

    • @snortumsnort2411
      @snortumsnort2411 4 години тому

      What that mean?

    • @Malik_Dawson
      @Malik_Dawson 2 години тому

      @snortumsnort2411 same thing, different day

  • @michaelstyles8649
    @michaelstyles8649 19 годин тому +61

    I’ve been learning de-attachment lately, I’m less attached to an outcome, I’m less attached to people… I’m starting to find it easy to let things be.

    • @mutahard1632
      @mutahard1632 19 годин тому +4

      @michaelstyles8649 any tips or tricks would be very appreciated i want peace

    • @michaelstyles8649
      @michaelstyles8649 19 годин тому +11

      @ It’s all about your mindset, teach yourself that not everything will go as you had hoped or planned and not everyone will stick around, definitely not easy as I’m still working on it myself but your mind has the power.

    • @Kpopequalspeace
      @Kpopequalspeace 18 годин тому

      @@michaelstyles8649yeppp that’s what I be saying to myself actually,so I don’t be that attached anymore

    • @mutahard1632
      @mutahard1632 12 годин тому

      @@michaelstyles8649 I appreciate you

  • @Ness0495
    @Ness0495 17 годин тому +18

    Timing is crazy… recovering from a relationship where I was codependent with a borderline girl 😔 even though I know it’s not a good relationship for me it’s hard for me to detach…

  • @williambessert5960
    @williambessert5960 18 годин тому +20

    You're such a real one Shimon, doing God's work, telling people what they need to hear. God bless, brother!

  • @zzzzz-zz
    @zzzzz-zz 17 годин тому +13

    Divine timing

  • @mutahard1632
    @mutahard1632 19 годин тому +22

    Timing is always on point!
    Im beginning to think i have some kind of anxiety attachments...constantly checking my phone to see if certain people have text back, then overthinking, I think this all started with my last relationship which was my 1st long distance relationship, it ruined me and I still don't think im over it yet almost a year later
    I just gotta keep working on myself and loving myself more and hope I can shake these attachments :(

    • @ixyexan.999
      @ixyexan.999 18 годин тому +1

      me 2 this popped up nd i was like 👀 he read me mind lol

    • @ixyexan.999
      @ixyexan.999 17 годин тому +1

      nd I feel uu on constantly checking my phone n shii it's weired asf

    • @EarthshakerOnamazu
      @EarthshakerOnamazu 17 годин тому

      are you me dawg

    • @mutahard1632
      @mutahard1632 15 годин тому

      @@EarthshakerOnamazu I guess it's nice to know you aren't alone in the same feeling but unfortunately this isn't a nice one for either of us 😅

  • @Maletearsasoil
    @Maletearsasoil 15 годин тому +3

    I'm attached to life only for my mom, she's my only family but i have heart disease in my 20s, walking and breathing is so hard lately but it's hard to let go when you truly love😢

  • @GulsahEmrah
    @GulsahEmrah 19 годин тому +68

    not saying this is bad but ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki on Talesio makes it look basic

  • @bluemoontmd2594
    @bluemoontmd2594 14 годин тому +2

    "i feel like i don't know anything...and I'm constantly seeking information" I wasn't expecting that to resonate the way it did

  • @Kwuuiw
    @Kwuuiw 19 годин тому +4

    this really hit home, I started crying lol 😅 this video got me thinking about some deep attachment I still have with an ex.. like right now, I'm wearing his sweater.. it's been 4 months since our breakup and everyday I always find something that holds memories.. I cling onto them so hard.. I don't even realize that I wear his sweater often or when I have my plushies he gave me it's the only thing that helps me sleep at night.. it hurts.. it really does and I know that it's wrong but part of me wants to stay here forever.. however your video brought some light to me.. not sure how long it will take for me to actually follow through but I really needed to hear this

    • @k_crossover2399
      @k_crossover2399 3 години тому

      Kwuuiw I’m sorry you’re going through this. learn to love your self. I’ve been the one who walked away seeing the person you left suffer and cling on to you gives the other person that left a sense of validation and won’t come back if they do it’s because they see your happy again. Work on your self and never look back.

  • @vikylikk
    @vikylikk 19 годин тому +7

    the only channel that helped me a lot🤲

  • @sorfb4k
    @sorfb4k 19 годин тому +2

    I just wanna say from the bottom of my heart, thank you. Atm me and my LDR girlfriend are currently dealing with miscommunication. And Ive been have the feeling of things not being the same anymore. Ive been trying so hard for the past 2 weeks trying to fix our relationship and get back what I once had. But in the process, I only started hurting myself more and Ive been angry and sad. Ive been having thoughts of "im not good enough" and "shes cheating on you" because Ive been in a past relationship where I was replaced. And that hurt, alot. Hearing those words and that advice is what Ive needed for so long. I never took it into consideration to actually try, SPEAKING to me. Trying to channel that negative energy thats been following me for so long. Feels so good, so thank you so much man. I appreciate it.

  • @djshortfuselittleredbirdpr4768
    @djshortfuselittleredbirdpr4768 18 годин тому +2

    LOVE that you're jammin that guitar 🎸 My husband builds them and he and both my sons are musicians! I just love to see the love for music in others like you have❤

  • @BackStageWess
    @BackStageWess 18 годин тому +2

    Negative emotions hold more weight if ur emotionally dependent on them. Ur emotions arent wht make u, u are wht makes u. U are in control of ur emotions and how they impact u. Its a hard thing to learn but tht wounded person is you.

  • @thewhiteboydaniel
    @thewhiteboydaniel 19 годин тому +33

    THIS VIDEOS PERFECT TIMING. first off thank you so much for posting when you do. second off off the title yes i attach all the time. i’m proud of myself bc i really liked this girl and this morning i texted her telling her i was gonna unadd her and she asked why and i told her bc she wasn’t over her ex and maybe in a few months we can talk again. (i saw she posted a thing of her ex on her close friends forgetting i was on it) but yea amazing timing love the videos. stay safe everyone reading this comment

    • @mutahard1632
      @mutahard1632 19 годин тому +1

      Don't worry mate there's someone out there for the both of us it just isn't the right time or person, everything should become clear soon just don't give up and keep doing the things you enjoy 💙

  • @Kpopequalspeace
    @Kpopequalspeace 18 годин тому +1

    Your videos just be so relatable and been helping me to heal and focus on me

  • @cloudyplayz334
    @cloudyplayz334 19 годин тому +6

    First and yes I recently got attached and idk how to get out of it, I love her but she doesn’t reciprocate, but she tell me she loves me too

    • @mutahard1632
      @mutahard1632 19 годин тому +1

      Actions speak louder than words my friend, it's better for her to show love than to just say she loves you because you deserve to have your love and feelings reciprocated back to you

    • @cloudyplayz334
      @cloudyplayz334 19 годин тому

      @ bruh, sometimes she’s acts like I’m the most important thing to her then the next minute it’s like she doesn’t care

    • @mutahard1632
      @mutahard1632 19 годин тому

      @cloudyplayz334 I feel like I've been where you are right now, but back then I didnt understand that insted of her just saying it she should have just showed me it insted like I was showing her, it's sort of like she's giving you bread crumbs? But at the end of the day you should be shown love too, best bet would be talk and tell her how her actions make you feel and what you need from her to not make you feel like this anymore

    • @cloudyplayz334
      @cloudyplayz334 19 годин тому

      @ thank you bro, imma subscribe

  • @Sabr776
    @Sabr776 4 години тому +1

    Thank u bro

  • @Isaac_r-j
    @Isaac_r-j 6 годин тому +1

    Bro! Meeting you one day is part of my bucket list....much💙 love from 🇬🇭

  • @Huhhuhwhuhuhh
    @Huhhuhwhuhuhh 11 годин тому

    This is exactly what I needed to hear. Truly. Thank you.

  • @muhammadsalaam649
    @muhammadsalaam649 12 годин тому +1

    I just started my new job and it has been very demanding of me. I moved out and began living on my own. Life has been very difficult for me as far as adjusting. Positive self talk has been getting me through it all. I love everybody and everything’s gonna be okay ❤

  • @CesarGonzalez-ru4nr
    @CesarGonzalez-ru4nr 7 годин тому

    This came thru during the perfect time. Thanks again for all the light and knowledge you bring into this world ! You're truly a gift from God. God bless you always my brother. 🙏🏻

  • @blaccforcess_3276
    @blaccforcess_3276 11 годин тому +1

    it’s genuinely scary how perfect this timing was

  • @xasdfwgfxd
    @xasdfwgfxd 15 годин тому +1

    Tysm Shimon for this advice, the timing of your videos are brutal my guy like damn

  • @evanswaggerty
    @evanswaggerty 19 годин тому +8

    This video is literally perfect TIMMING I woke up to my ex who I have been off and on with this whole year text me idk what to do guys 🤦🏿‍♂️ probably the wrong thing again

    • @Soul.2s
      @Soul.2s 14 годин тому

      Don't do it

    • @evanswaggerty
      @evanswaggerty Годину тому

      @ I need my phone took I was waiting for this moment and I slipped back up and now it’s another cycle that I know won’t work fml

  • @Malik_Dawson
    @Malik_Dawson 19 годин тому +2

    Timing is impeccable 💯

  • @oaivpeolgnhp
    @oaivpeolgnhp 57 хвилин тому

    Thank you video much needed. I’ve been feeling so lost and this is going to put me back on track. I’m 23 and been doing nothing but self development for a long time and I got off track a little bit.

  • @boxing_classics285
    @boxing_classics285 19 годин тому +3

    I agree with everyone when i say the timing of this video could not have come at a better time, and i think everyone would agree..

  • @twizzy_2002
    @twizzy_2002 19 годин тому +7

    I like her bro we got so much in common. Wanna meet up w her but don’t wanna come off to needy

    • @kramposs
      @kramposs 18 годин тому +3

      Ask her out man. I went out with a girl not so long ago and we also had alot in common. It was a bit awkward at first but that was just the first 5 minutes or so. You won't seem needy man.

    • @jodeebell-24
      @jodeebell-24 17 годин тому

      ask her!!! asking to hangout is never needy (lol unless ur asking to hangout with her every day), she prolly would appreciate the fact that you initiated the hangout or she was feeling the same way!

  • @TobyL-tl3ws
    @TobyL-tl3ws 9 годин тому

    thanks men, i literally needed this

  • @axo573
    @axo573 19 годин тому +1

    this has been ur most helpful video tome ever i really bad attachment issues and this really sets a new perspective for me thank you really.

  • @isaiaha240
    @isaiaha240 3 години тому

    You released this when I needed to hear it most thank you!!

  • @marstender7874
    @marstender7874 19 годин тому

    Literally how I been feeling over the past days….Thank you Shimon you’re so wise.

  • @keisharay4751
    @keisharay4751 2 години тому

    This video came at the right time because it has been weighing heavy on my mind/heart. Honestly a breathe of fresh of air❤️

  • @fxtly
    @fxtly 19 годин тому +1

    timing is crazy bro i am so thankful for you

  • @mrdoggo6094
    @mrdoggo6094 16 годин тому +1

    Hi Shimon . new to your channel but have to say ...much respect to you , your doin good for people man

  • @djshortfuselittleredbirdpr4768
    @djshortfuselittleredbirdpr4768 18 годин тому

    The wisest owl I've come across in a very long time! God bless youl❤

  • @lopez.carlos.armando
    @lopez.carlos.armando 7 годин тому

    This video talked abt everything i was thinking abt. I love this video

  • @Kqqiix
    @Kqqiix 19 годин тому +1

    Hey Davis, just would like to say I love your videos, I've been here for a brief moment of time but not as long as I thought I would be but you've inspired and motivated me to do alot of things to help my mental health and found my capacity to do things I was not able to do before. And I thank you for that. God bless you, and I hope you reach your goal of a million.

  • @ScumiGumi
    @ScumiGumi 19 годин тому

    Hey Shimon, I came across your vids not long ago when I needed guidance. I'm trying to heal myself and I want to heal but its scary to face the past. Your vids are just the thing I needed to hear as of where I am in my life and in my journey. It's not easy to open up about the past, I don't feel comfortable doing it but I needa heal. I'm grateful I came across your channel, keep up the good work !

  • @rashidaalharazi7503
    @rashidaalharazi7503 18 годин тому

    everything you said made me self aware thanks

  • @TheVivaciousVictoria
    @TheVivaciousVictoria 19 годин тому +1

    So glad I found your channel, your videos are so refreshing.
    Things I implement day to day, just watching it be spoken back to me is heart warming.
    Keep doing what you’re doing, making such an impact on everyone 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @Nighttime.Ghoul.
    @Nighttime.Ghoul. 18 годин тому +1

    Shimon, thank you. Watching your vids really helps me figure out myself in me mental space and with learning to work with my shadow self, your words sound like the voices in my head that don’t give up on me😹 much love 🤍

  • @EarthshakerOnamazu
    @EarthshakerOnamazu 16 годин тому

    dude is like my guardian angel or some shit how you always know whats happening 😭😭😭😭😭😭♥

  • @vibeswithtroyrie
    @vibeswithtroyrie 19 годин тому +1

    I love your videos ✨

  • @eitanethan
    @eitanethan 15 годин тому

    Thank you Shimon 🙏🏼

  • @Brooklyn-mn8yq
    @Brooklyn-mn8yq 19 годин тому

    shimon’s mindset is so beneficial to the world, you are helping so many ppl man honest 🙏🏻

  • @stephenotieno9021
    @stephenotieno9021 19 годин тому

    Thank you 💯

  • @Gregness745
    @Gregness745 18 годин тому +1

    Egregious timing bro 😭🙏 actual goay

  • @noodlestrings9852
    @noodlestrings9852 15 годин тому

    Thank you, brother

  • @RolledUpBill
    @RolledUpBill 18 годин тому

    really needed to hear this

  • @joshuuajackson
    @joshuuajackson 17 годин тому

    love your content man! please keep it up

  • @PVNKBLISS
    @PVNKBLISS 19 годин тому +1

    Your channel has help me grow and shape me into becoming a better person. Thank you for making content for all of us to learn from. Keep on going and doing what you’re doing!! 🤍

  • @VifuBun
    @VifuBun 19 годин тому

    Thank you for this video again Shimon! ❤

  • @Dhiman-surath
    @Dhiman-surath 19 годин тому

    I understand what you going through
    Thanks for the advice ❤❤blove you broo

  • @Mizk.
    @Mizk. 16 годин тому

    I got an epiphany today and just realized how much you've actually helped me throughout the hardest year of my life, please never stop uploading these videos. I'm sure they help ALOT of people out there including me. Thanks alot Shimon

  • @biscotezebi3477
    @biscotezebi3477 19 годин тому

    Its been a long time since i've watched your videos. Its allways a pleasure, and a lot of learning. Thanks for those videos, its rlly great.

  • @edgesgirl8628
    @edgesgirl8628 39 хвилин тому

    Thank you

  • @fullautoant
    @fullautoant 19 годин тому

    bro at the exact moment i needed it you came in clutch beyond belief 🤝🏼

  • @analogsmog
    @analogsmog 13 годин тому

    with the unbeknownst waxing gibbous last night in the sky with watts in lulling me to sleep a d waking up with lewis you young man are my reminders to feel earth's vibrations
    I caught a few minutes of your live stream. I didnt get to hear you play that guitar tho.
    maybe next time

  • @NbYannaofficial17
    @NbYannaofficial17 8 годин тому

    Congrats on that 1K bro thanks for helping me these past 9 months

  • @thelifeofirvine
    @thelifeofirvine 8 годин тому

    Hey, man thank you Shimon Davis! I will take your advices. Im take a breka from youtube and social media. I don't how long. But, im planning to read more books and improce myself. Your video as of today that I watch, made me want to push myself out my barriers.

  • @andricamabusela92
    @andricamabusela92 6 годин тому

    bro with the timing.😂... this is crazy

  • @exchangingvalue1099
    @exchangingvalue1099 19 годин тому

    Literally Perfect timing 🤯

  • @lushlemon
    @lushlemon 11 годин тому

    could you do a video elaborating on how you view things from multiple perspectives? i think that’s something i struggle with, only seeing something from a limited point of view. love the video !!

  • @Drwwy4
    @Drwwy4 9 годин тому

    Thanks

  • @MARI-2K7
    @MARI-2K7 19 годин тому

    Much love bro ❤

  • @wizardofthewest6761
    @wizardofthewest6761 19 годин тому

    Bro always spitting big F A C T S

  • @will.davlin
    @will.davlin 19 годин тому +2

    It's overrrr

  • @alexanderbradley5051
    @alexanderbradley5051 13 годин тому

    perfect timing, wow

  • @andreburgess9708
    @andreburgess9708 19 годин тому

    Perfect timing bru🙌🏾

  • @ItsTheRudraShow
    @ItsTheRudraShow 18 годин тому

    Dude… the timing is just immaculate

  • @cailaaa__
    @cailaaa__ 2 години тому

    new hair is fire 🔥🔥

  • @theki_ngst
    @theki_ngst 13 годин тому

    Perfect timing

  • @ARTHURKenney-i2o
    @ARTHURKenney-i2o 19 годин тому

    nobody talks about the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki on Talesio but it’ll flip how you see everything

  • @SICKBOY1970
    @SICKBOY1970 17 годин тому

    Great video Shimon

  • @BIGJONNN559
    @BIGJONNN559 12 годин тому

    Good Job Shimon 🍊

  • @rahim7696
    @rahim7696 14 годин тому

    needed that

  • @lisapost9088
    @lisapost9088 19 годин тому

    How are you so wise for such a young man? ❤

  • @ifeoluwadavid-l7s
    @ifeoluwadavid-l7s 19 годин тому

    Love you brother ❤❤❤

  • @kokomisdonelol
    @kokomisdonelol 19 годин тому

    Just wanna let you know that your videos are super helpful, keep up the great work, Shimnon!!!

  • @Hassani18
    @Hassani18 19 годин тому

    the best

  • @aminata_1
    @aminata_1 19 годин тому +1

    What sound you always play on the background of your videos? It brings me so much peace🤍

  • @viktormarques6411
    @viktormarques6411 19 годин тому

    love you man

  • @Sazzyoff1
    @Sazzyoff1 17 годин тому

    You can't even imagine how much I needed to hear this Shimon ! I really appreciate you man 💪🏼💪🏼

  • @Neshawn__
    @Neshawn__ Годину тому

    The ending was giving Jimi Hendrix😭

  • @ErMomone
    @ErMomone 19 годин тому

    I didn't even watch the video but keep up the good work bro.

  • @LemanBurcu-u6z
    @LemanBurcu-u6z 19 годин тому

    trusting this over the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki on Talesio no wonder the same cycles keep happening

  • @KlassicScorpion-
    @KlassicScorpion- 19 годин тому

    oh my lord the timing.

  • @Godsbusinessonearth
    @Godsbusinessonearth 17 годин тому

    Hi your subtitle got me where am at i pray i get out soon

  • @micahvanm6324
    @micahvanm6324 19 годин тому

    Crazy timing

  • @NoahJaminee
    @NoahJaminee 19 годин тому

    Hey Shimon. I love you so much. I've been observing the atheists, the satanists, and the prideful. Continue to be a Faithful Servant ❤ John 16:4

  • @Szzzzzzzzzzzz
    @Szzzzzzzzzzzz 18 годин тому

    You are the best love u fam❤️🫂

  • @Crosco23
    @Crosco23 10 годин тому

    No no I’m aware trust me

  • @xvlrqx
    @xvlrqx 19 годин тому

    I love being early to these videos

  • @loom2daeye2danose
    @loom2daeye2danose 19 годин тому +8

    what the hell is with your timing?

  • @SharrIbrahim
    @SharrIbrahim 19 годин тому

    I actually do ❤

  • @vincentopperman1420
    @vincentopperman1420 19 годин тому

    What do I do now?
    I asked my mom if I could paint my nails because it’s trendy and I think it looks cool.
    She kept asking why and I felt all the courage that I worked on go away.
    I reverted to who I was last year, everything I achieved this year feels like it was for nothing.
    Can’t even be sad about it cause any bit of negativity or expressing negative emotions come from the devil.
    I just we wanted to rant, thanks for reading.

    • @viabii
      @viabii 18 годин тому +1

      Chin up, paint your nails! It’s okay to express yourself (side note: Love ur pfp)

    • @vincentopperman1420
      @vincentopperman1420 18 годин тому

      @ I don’t wanna get kicked out of my house, I’m still a teen.

    • @viabii
      @viabii 18 годин тому

      ⁠@@vincentopperman1420 Is that a legitimate threat your mom has brought up or is it just a fear conjured from previous experiences?

    • @vincentopperman1420
      @vincentopperman1420 18 годин тому

      @ I’ve had this fear for a while and she said that she’d never do that to me, but as I see it now , her beliefs are the only way to live buy, I legitimately can’t be myself in her presence, so I assume that I’ll get kicked out seeing as she won’t tolerate my way of living.