Empathy in gentle parenting - malayalam
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
- Another significant element in gentle parenting - empathy..
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Empathy = തന്മയീ ഭാവം
സഹാനുഭൂതി എന്ന വാക്കിനെക്കാൾ മനസ്സിൽ ആക്കാൻ എളുപ്പം തന്മയീ ഭാവം ആണ്. താനാണ് ആ സ്ഥാനത്ത് എന്ന് സങ്കൽപ്പിക്കുന്നത്.
Thank you so much.
എനിക്കു മണിച്ചിത്രതാഴിലെ മോഹൻലാൽ ഡയലോഗ് ഓർമ വന്നു "തന്മയീ ഭാവം "
Gangaku naagavalliyodulla sympathy empathy aayi maari 🙂
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I am trying to implement gentle parenting. To be Frank, it is very difficult to follow all the rules every time. But i try my best. I can realize the changes. I had a bad time last year because of PPD. I am sad that I had been so harsh on my kid. I am grateful that I found this channel. Thank you Swati Mam 😘❤️
I am also trying... ❤️
We're all learning ❤️
@krishna haridas: attend gentle parenting session by gotha Hari Priya.. attending such workshops will help... But sometimes we will lose our control, that we have to learn by practice i think..today was a tough day for me... Hope tomorrow eill be better
Post partum deppus 🤣🤣🤣
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Hii swati ... I'm not even married or remotely ready for kids but I enjoy your parenting videos and soo informative
Thank you 🤩
You made me cry. 🥲 I'm not a parent yet still I cried.
Aw shilpa
Same for me I'm not parent but as a child this touched me a lot
Trust me... Some of the examples you shared made me cry😭😭😭
Love you Swathi chechi... The thoughts you shared was awesome ❤️❤️❤️It's invaluable💕
thank you...
I literally cried in every example..
You have to be proud to became parent of maya ...lov u lot dear...this is helpful for all parents
i am .. yes..
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@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 നിങ്ങളുടെ മകളുടെ life ഇങ്ങനെ പബ്ലിക് ആകുന്നത് തന്നെ ബാഡ് പേരെന്റ്റിംഗ്.അവൾ matured ആയി ഒരു age എത്തി ഇങ്ങനെ ഒരു സോഷ്യൽ life തിരഞ്ഞെടുതാൽ ok.അവളുടെ പെർമിഷൻ ഇല്ലാത്ത ഒരു സോഷ്യൽ media influencer എന്ന രീതിയിൽ വളർത്താതെ.ഇതിപ്പോ നിങ്ങൾ ആ കുട്ടിയുടെ മേൽ ഭാവിയിൽ ഇടാൻ പോകുന്ന പ്രഷർ വളരെയധികമാണ്.താങ്കൾ മക്കളെ വളർത്തി എക്സ്പീരിയൻസ്ട് ആവേണ്ടതുണ്ട്.also ഒരു തരം mircomanaging അനുഭവപെടുന്നു.
Even I started crying when she said I heard her coughing all night🥺
Awww mayakutty and ammakutty the last part made tears🥰🥰🥰how sweet is your child maam how you raised that child🥰🥰🥰🥰 hugs to you maam and your daughter from a budding mama
your guidance are very much informative. now me and my wife practicing your methods with our daughters . Thanks alot
Thank you
Maya and her amma are lucky to have each other. Swati, you inspire me to be not just a better parent, but also a better human being.
Thanks Asha
Good parenting mam. Maya ethra matured ayannu samsarikunnathu mayada communication skill super aanu.. Athu mayayumayi mamnnta open communication aanu. Proud of you 😍😍💓
I genuinely cried after watching this video...u are such an inspiration ❤️😍...im going to be a mom in few months...looking forward to see more videos of this kind!!
ഞങ്ങടെ മോന് frontൽ 2 പല്ലില്ല.. 3 വയസ്സാവുമ്പോ വീണിട്ട് പൊട്ടിപോയതാ.. now he is 5 yrs.. ഇപ്പൊ സ്കൂളിൽ പോയി തുടങ്ങിയപ്പോ കുറെ കുട്ടികൾ കളിയാക്കി എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞ് വീട്ടിൽ വന്ന് ഭയങ്കര കരച്ചിൽ ആയിരുന്നു.. ഞാൻ പറഞ്ഞു നീ നാളെ പോയി ടീച്ചറോട് പറയണം ഇത്.. വേണെങ്കി അമ്മേം വരാം കൂടെ ന്ന്.. പിറ്റേന്ന് തന്നെ സ്കൂളിൽ ചെന്ന് ആ കുട്ടികളെ കണ്ട് സംസാരിച്ച് അവർ സോറി പറഞ്ഞു.. പല്ലില്ല എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞ് കുടുംബത്തിലുള്ള കളിയാക്കൽ വേറെ.. ആദ്യം ഒക്കെ പോട്ടെ വെക്കുവാർന്നു.. bt ഇപ്പൊ ഞാൻ അവരോട് react ചെയ്യാൻ തുടങ്ങി നല്ലോണം
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I too felt many children making fun of animals. Killing ant, fly etc. Cutting feather of fly. The things you said are very true. Empathy is getting out from children now adays.🥺
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@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 thank you for your reply mam.🥰how can we convey them about the things you are sharing with us ? A huge communication difficulty is felt with them. 😐
Oo my god..correct aan mam paranjat ..njn friends neyo bf neyo choose cheyumbo..empathy is so important determining factor as far as im concerned. .nte school il njn oru tomboyish gurl aairin..atukond tanne ottjri friends um indaarny..pkshe ive never felt like a true friend. .oru otta manishyerk illa empathy aaloich nokiye..oru school il etre kurikl indaavum..but you could barely meet someone with empathy. .njn ituvare atukond tanne oru true friend ine kandeteetilla
You'll find your tribe... Soon.
Great video mam....maya is very lucky to have you as her parents..and you both bringing her up as a great human being....Very touching video..Thankyou for sharing your experiences..
Actually njn oru parent avano ennu confusion l aanu...pala കാരണങ്ങൾ ഉണ്ട്...pne ഞൻ അത്ര motherly flng ulla aal alla...but sometimes chila bonding,,ith പോലത്തെ experience ok kelkumbo i feel like i want to be a gentle parent ❤️❤️very touching story mam.. thankyou for sharing..
I was like that too.. Until I got pregnant and attended workshops and started reading more. We can all be amazing parents if we have the right info and if we are willing to change and learn ❤️
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Very well said.. Empathy.. Most of the parents forget to teach this to their kids.. Most of the parents fail to make a good exposure for their kids.. Eye opener video.. Thanks a lot
Thank you so much for this video. Hearing about this gentle parenting first time. Wish I had an info earlier. Hav been a bit harsh at times on my seven year old daughter at times which happened even today and was disturbed after the incident... I came through this video this time of the day. Ur video brought tears in my eyes. I realise it's me as a mother who needs more control over my emotions. From this time onward I will surely try to implement this gentle parenting and I hope Iam not late. Thanks a lot🙏
You'll get there..
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Mam all your videos are just mind blowing...it has given clarity to so many things i have gone through.Though not a parent I would surely carry all these qualities in my life.I can also become a kind mother in future.Thanks a lot💓
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Thank you so much Ma'am..
This video is very useful to differentiate between Emotional & Cognitive empathy 🙏🏼
I was really moved in that last part❤️as u said let humanity be celebrated 😊
Yesterday my baby was playing around and I was telling him you would fall,finally he fell down .at that time I said I already told u and laughed...he cried for some time then told me..Amma enthina enne kaliyakkiyath enn...he is 4 year old ,,I felt very guilty,today iam watching this,crying at the moment....
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You are really lucky to have a daughter like her..Also, u deserve her..last mol schoolil poya karyam paranjappol kannu niranju poy
Hi swathi... My 👧 is 7 now, I'm trying to impliment gentle parenting since starting... It's so difficult 😣 sometimes I just lost control myself... She's sooo active that everyday she's doing something ............. My husband also teasing me nowadays that you're doing gentle parenting that's why she's doing like this... But I know she's a gooood girl... When u says these things about Maya, I'm also felt the same about Vedu.. She is also empathetic towards things.. The coughing story!!! At the same time I'm also crying!!! Luv ❤ u Swathi and Maya from bottom of my 💖 and thanku🙏 for inspiring us!!!
പോയി പണി എടുത്തു ജീവികടി
@@Naughty_RENJITH k chettaa..
ഞാനും ഒരു proud mom aanu ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️വളരെ happyaanu... Parenting കൂടുതൽ അറിയാനും പഠിക്കാനും ഇഷ്ടാണ് ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Awesome da
Very true what you said .which is soo sad .love your videos .thank you soo much 💜
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I am in charge of handling 1st std , It is so sad to scold them always....but managing the discipline in school is also necessary or to teach them to sit silently without making any disturbances. Can you please do a session for how to handle the children gently in school especialy how to handle primary class children....how can we cultivate their empathy or to improve their emotional intelligence through gentle teaching.....and guiding...
This made me cry
Hello mam.....You are doing a great job...Your videos are truly empowering and beneficial...May God bless your family and may you light up more lives ahead in life...I have a suggestion that.. Could you make playlists so that it would be easy for us to watch?
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Thank you so much for sharing your immense knowledge and experience with this regard. How do we handle the situations where kids are being physically harassed by their own friends like beating or pushing while playing or even at school?
Before I used to say, don't revenge on them, just inform your teacher. But it became a regular issue that my son will come to me complaining any of his friends misbehaved with him.
In these kind of situation how we can train our kids to respond empathetically?
Im an 18 y/o girl.
Covid timeil yente parents toxic aanen manassilapol yengane ee toxicityl ninnum rekshapedam yenn nokiyapol aanu mayas amma insta id kandath
Almost 1.5 yrs aai follow cheyan thudagit
Ethoke kanumbol yenik manassilai yente parents yennodu cheyuna yella karyavum opposite aait cheyta njn nalla better person aavum.
Yenik yente gene vecha kutty venda
Aa toxic genes eniyum ee bhumilot kond varan njn agrahikunnila
Pakaram njn adopt cheyt (cuz ottaik jeevikan eshtamalla) yennitu gentle parentingloode valarthum
Nothing wrong with your genes. You can always start your healing process before giving birth ❤️❤️❤️
Great lesson dr. Keep going🥰
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why not.. do try to attend meet and greets i organize in various cities.. updates on upcoming meets will be on website. www.mayasamma.com
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ഒത്തിരി നന്ദി .... ❤️
I had similar experience with my 4 year old son. Aduthulla tempilil ulsavathinu kondu vanna aanayude kalile wound kandu avan chodhichu sharikkum ee aanaykk vedhanikkunnundaville, athinte ammaye kanan thonnunnundaville ennokke.. Ethu kettu മുത്തശ്ശി ദൈവകോപം വരും മിണ്ടാതിരിക്കൂ എന്നു പറഞ്ഞു 😇
Aw how pure are children 💕
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Ee video kandappol sathyam paranjaa ente kanne niranju njaan ente mone treat cheyyunnathe oorthu poyii sathyam paranjaa njaan deshyam.vannal.ente mone njaan thallarunde vazhakke parayarunde athu avanode ullaa deshyam allaa ente stress ane paavam avanode theerkkunnathe... Ethra control cheythittum.enike athu mattan pattanillaa ithinu enthengilum.solution pranje tharamoo
The thoughts you shared was sooo valuable & relevant. Thnkuu
Thank you dear for sharing ur valuable knowledge .hop that we could also create empathy in our kids .im 4 months pregnant .i too want to be an good example for ma kid.
Really good,I will try to become a gentle parent.
1yr difference age il ulla kuttikal thammil vazhakku koodumbol..athu palappozhum pala karanangal kondaavam..pakshe angane ulla situations engane handle cheyyam ennonnu paranju tharaamo..my cjildrens are 2 and 3 yr old
Kuttikalude Communication skill development ne patti parent nu cheyyan pattunna karyngale kurich video cheymo...pls
Parent can read the book NON VIOLENT COMMUNICATION, and boundary boss and nannayittu communicate Cheytha mathi..
So informative! Love and energy to you and Maya !
thanks
❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you Mayas Amma .. Nothing more to say 💓💓
Njan kure videos gentle parenting pati ketitund.....apo vicharikum eni monod desyapedathe nikanam ennu...but kuruthaked at its peak aavumbo gentle parenting rules ellam maranu povunu..my boy is 3yrz old now.
Ende monu 6 year old avan baby aayappo thotte over empathy aa vere kuttikal veenal avana cry chaiyyar nalla budimuttayirunnu fell aaya kutti chilappo karayilla avanayirikkum crya chaiuka. Ennitt njan doctor kand chodichappo avar parannu avan empathy konda enn. eppo karachilokke maari. Eppo friends okk avane bullying chaiua avan "NO"parayan budimutta njan orupad parann manacilakkum eppo kurach parayan try chaium but other kids over smart athukond avan paraunnath kelkilla appo pinne karachilakum. Njan aanegil single parenting aan. Avande achan indengilum oru karyamilla covert Nacri aa oru help ella confused aakki vidum atha ayaal chaiunnath
Swathy mam oru request aanu mam ..npd relationship orupadi struggle cheyyunnavar Und.. Ethu introvert extrovert Und. Introvert npd ethu reethyil handle cheyyamm? .enthannu npd? Athu enthukondannu undavunnathu..main tool manipulating gaslating lovebomp isolating close friends and family silent treatment.. Mam oru video cheyyumoo
😞😞 literally I cried( 21.15)
Gentle paranting books suggest cheyyamo ma'am ?
I am not a mother but I like the concept but have doubt do these children will able to survive in real world
What is real world? Who is Making violence, selfishness and lack of empathy REAL?? these children will create the real world according to me.
Hii can you please add English sub titles
Such a valuable channel 😍🤩😘
Love you
Mam ithente oru request Anu ningal parental favouratism kurichu oru Viedeo cheyyanam please
I am a working mother of 2year old baby. Its very hard to control her behaviour on crowd...she also had some speech delay...so most of the times,she shows agressive nature and I couldn't control myself from anger .what would I do?I usually become nervous and scolded her badly...but even after that i feel so guilty for doing that??? Can u please tell me a solution to overcome this??
Amma mayaya yodu dheshikkarilley?
കണ്ണ് നിറച്ചു 😍😍
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Hi Maya's Amma...could you make a video about the impact on a child of being a single child vs having siblings?
Will talk about it in some video.
Dear whats the difference between authoritative and gentle parenting? Are they same?
ma'am can you please make a video explaining "edging" in sex?? what is edging?? what does it mean?
How gentle parenting practice to a kid who have ADHD ?
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Hi dear
What if their grandparents are living with us and gentle parenting pattumo avde avarod nammal ethra paranjalum avar kunjine atheennu distract cheyyikuanu aa situationil nth cheyyum?
We need to have strong boundaries with grandparents. No other go.
gentle parenting videos te playlist udaki ido.your videos very informative
This is great.
Ma'am can you please put english subtitles on your videos? There are some people who are watching your videos who don't know Malayalam and Tamil.
Nku empathy koodutal aanon toneetund..coz palapozhum avrkullil veshamam undaavuma enn kariti enne hurt cheyumbozhum..i make them feel comfortable. .which is not so good trait for me
Read more about being an empath. Also let me add, being empathetic doesn't mean you don't have you boundaries. When something hurts you, you'll have to move away. I'll do more videos on boundaries
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 ok mam..how can we contact you..how can i get an appointment of yours. .wht can i do..ive texted on the number youve mentioned. .but there was no response
Is it possible to meet u directly mam. I do watch all ur videos from recent time. Iam from Cochin. Please do reply.
Good video ma'am.. ❤️
No words ❤️❤️❤️
U made me cry 😢
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excellent
Thank you so much for the session. Quite useful. What rondo when we see disobedience multiple times? Eg - child keeps shouting or raising voice when they want something.
Watch all videos. Especially hitting children video. Understand their brain.. Then for more information attend workshops with @gotha_hari_priya on Instagram or get books. No other way to understand children.
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Njan PPD OCD n anxiety illa oralanu... treatment edutu epolm I'm not ok.. emotions control cheyan patarila... I'm trying to implement gentle parenting.. but...
Go to more professionals until you find solutions. There are some amazing people on my website www.mayasamma.com under affiliates and counselors section.
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 thank you so much ma'am..Oru reply expect cheydirnila... I don't know what to say... thank you
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mam, i need ur help😑
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗....swathy mam
Can you made more videos for teenagers..
Make video in English or hindi mam I am from maharastra
Enikum inganethe oru childhood experience chythitond appo enik thoniyath ivarok ennekatilum orupad valiyavaran... Njan enough alla ennok vicharichirunu
You are always enough 🤗❤️
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 You made changes in mam... I am always greatful to you mam... Mam nte insta stories um instafeedum liveumnokk anu nte mattathin karanam
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 You made changes in mam... I am always greatful to you mam... Mam nte insta stories um instafeedum liveumnokk anu nte mattathin karanam
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Very nice video... I heard in one of ur videos that maya got potty trained by the age of 1.5yrs...i would like to know how you did that... Please.. Reply
I believe each child takes its own time.
My baby also potty trained in his early age.... There are lot of videos in UA-cam regarding potty training
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 oohhk.. What are the ready factors??
Empathy thanmayibhavam. I guess
Anukamba
17:47 first don't teach മതം ജാതി Divisions.
20:53 🥹 proud
Mubis Paradise (hell) ne onn roast cheyyuo? Highly recommended....such a toxic lady
What I didn’t get , but I would like to practice in my kids n family .. 🥺🥹
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