Love Island Season 10: Islanders' DISASTROUS First Impressions, Dating Coach Reacts!
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Hey Ant, in watching this video i think i found that maybe i have the same problems as Mitch.... 😅
It would be very helpful for me if you made another video on this, maybe just breaking down mitch x molly realtionship beacause i actually relate to this i think, what happens to mitch seems to happen to me too
@@DiogoGaming2 Stop being so pushy. If you want to take some coaching, check out my description!
I wanted to let you know this is the first time I'm seeing your video. I think you made very good points about the love Island contestants. I really like you. I wanted to let you know you are a very hadsome man and I am very interested in them things you have to say regarding dating or relationships. I think nobody wants me because of the things I've been thru in my life. I just don't mention it thinking it's better if not telling them but I think that's wrong.
I tried explaining the concept of the full package to other men and they get so upset because they want us women to immediately be sexually attracted to them right off the bat. They don't understand that we become sexually attracted to them once we get to know them better and we feel the full force of their personality and character. It's actually a good thing!
@dahliaherrod4301...Cmon you saying half truths like most women do. The sexual attraction is mainly due to looks not about personality and character. On social media people by instant eye look will tell you if they are sexually attracted to a man or women. Some man are pricks, badboys, rude but if they are very attractive women will say i still with give him the and i can always change his ''character''. If personality and character is such a big weight then even men like Mark Zuckenberg would have women melt over him right .....but many women dont find him attractive.
@@onlineonlineaccount2368 Well it only works if the women like the man's personality and character. There are plenty of men who are objectively handsome, but I can't stand because their character is trash. If a woman is willing to give a cute dirtbag the time of day, I can only look at the women sideways. She's like mentally and emotionally unhealthy. I don't know any healthy women who would give those bums the time of day.
As for "half-truths", I find it laughable that you as a man think you can tell me how I think and feel as a woman. How about you listen to what a woman is telling about how women think and I'll do the same for men?
@@onlineonlineaccount2368yeah well in order to have a sexual attraction to some they need to be ATTRACTIVE it’s the personality and character that allows us to decide if we actually want to go ahead and have sex with you
@@Y0L0vidz But you didnt say anything new though that we didn't know. Its not personality or character its the looks of the man that decides in a fraction of the moment. He needs to be physcicaly attractibe all the character and persona comes later. That why a women looks at guy and sometimes will say ''ohh i would ripped the close of him'' without knowing how he is charcater wise. But she observed he is physcically attractive.
@@onlineonlineaccount2368you just regurgitated what I said 😭
i hope you get a lot of views i'd love to see more of this especially with the more recent islanders and the whole casa amor mess!
omgg yess i agree analyzing the casa amore mess i would like to hear
mitch was just way too intense, showed too many red flags and scared her off. She actually wasn't interested in Zach at first it wasn't until after they kissed attraction grew and in such an intense environment Zach made her feel calm and relaxed... then they grew from there.
Great point. Make sure you keep givin more of ur thoughts I luv em
I never thought ab it this way I thought Molly was in the wrong but nevermind lmao
........ except that Molly's friends on the outside said that Zach was much more Molly's physical type than Mitch.
So I think Molly and Mitch were just friends. No sexual or romantic feelings from Molly's end.
I agree with what you said about Ty, I adore him and Ella together but also Ty separately. People don't like Ty bc he's honest, passionate, and his communication or how he communicates leaves a bit to be desired but if he had more like Andre's personality I don't think he would be as desirable, maybe initially but he would have been voted off.
And ur are correct everybody that leaves the love island , says Ty is so nice
omgg yess u gotta make a part 2 lol i’m obsessed with love island
I would loveeeeeeee to. Share it and like so we can get more people watching
I hope you’re caught up! because I need a video on Catherines personality switch up since recoupling and I guess since you fancy her it’ll be quite soon x
If you guys hit 25k views I’ll make part 2 faster than Zach switches women
@@AnthonyRecenelloLMAO Anthony pls😂
Pls make one now, it's over 25k views now
Also, everything you said about ty was spot on. Ty is a good looking dude so his foot can get in the door easily but his vibe & personality is very good & that’s why it’s quite easy for him to get girls …. He’s got it all to be fair to him.
I think shows like this are interesting in the sense where you can see how different personalities mix & match
I also feel you should do a breakdown of why good guys come last … (if you’ve watched the Ty , Ouzy & Ella saga) it’ll make sense. Thanks again for a great vid & looking to watch some more 👍🏾. Ned
I think Ella was already in love with Ty at that point... Ouzzy was just a blanket for a moment. Also, Ouzzys personality from what I've seen he's a bit beige (no pun intended). lol he's like idk, wsan't a standout to me. But he seems nice, but unsure of himself a bit, I can't see him trying to get a girl just sort falling into things like "you like me, ok I think I like you to, you want to be bf/gf ok, me to" lol Like Trey from Sex and the City.
Let's get 25,000 views in July for a Part Deux.
Hey Ant, in watching this video i think i found that maybe i have the same problems as Mitch.... 😅
It would be very helpful for me if you made another video on this, maybe just breaking down mitch x molly realtionship beacause i actually relate to this i think, what happens to mitch seems to happen to me too
Dude, stop manipulating your followers & making them work for you. You need to put in the work to keep them. It's a relationship, but they are only obligated to watch-- NOT go out and get you views. That's YOUR job, so put in the work. You don't keep your promises anyway, so why would they? You never made this next video for them.
Tip: Stop talking about yourself so much. Concentrate on the video you're analyzing without constantly bringing it back to yourself. Also, don't be so pushy with yourself onto the viewer in the beginning of the video, take your own advice, be cool, and save it for the end of the video. As a first time viewer, it put me off and I've never had such a visceral reaction to not wanting to watch, like or follow someone, even though I find the concept interesting. Watch other creators to see how to charm viewers or use your as-advertised well-honed social skills to bring in the viewer as you would a date/friends maybe?? Not trying to be mean, but helpful. I was a virgin viewer and am not tough but found you a bit insincere. Don't make it about the money. You're successful going by your CV, you don't need push so hard. Cheers!🍻☮️
BTW~ You're way off on Molly & Zachariah. Idk how you missed that they were mad attracted & Zach looked like he was falling for the first time EVER. Molly was turned off by Mitchel's manipulative personality. Ty & Ella's fights were a problem- he's got a heart of gold but she's petty & too proud to admit her faults. She says she wants a mature guy while acting incredibly immature herself. Although they're attracted, I don't think Ty is the type to put up with hypocrisy. He's straight-up.
and thank you for offering the skillshare course! I'm someone who really struggles with conversation as a painfully shy person with social anxiety & i hope that this is helpful to a lot of people! :)
Of course! Happy to help
Yeah the Mitch and Molly relationship was super interesting to me too. Coz it truly just feels like Mitch scared her away.
Molly pointed out herself that she falls fast, so my assumption is - she sees it as a common issue that she was trying to avoid this time. I think this time she wanted to take it slow, take a step back, but Mitch was NOT about that pace...and I do think that may have been a dealbreaker for her.
I do also agree tho that Mitch and Molly seemed from what we see as the better match....to an extent I even wondered if Molly is not in a way selfsabotaging, coz she does NOT want to fall in love..and it does truly feel like with Mitch there was there a basis for something serious -something potentionally heartbreaking if it does not work out, with Zach it feels like she likes him, but it feels much safer, it feels like one of those relationships you go into coz you get each other and on paper it makes sense, but not because you fell in love..which is a type a of relationship that is a lot less scary.
AGREED
I agree with self -sabotaging.. Mitch is a much better Match for her, Zach is the easier option, more safe..
I agree with you about Molly not acting to fall in love do she grabbed lover boy knowing she just liked him and it isn't going to get deeper or serious. Molly would definitely do that. Molly and Mitch had great chemistry and she was so much happier and bubbly with Mitch but with Zach she hardly spoke.
@@judithdavis9191 lmao she's actually nervous around Zach because she likes him. Mitch was the safety option.
I feel like Mehdi came off soft with a steel core and Whitney came off hard with a soft core. It was actually a good mix but Mehdi effed it up. He was mad disrespectful and Whitney didn't deserve all the heat he gave her.
Exactly!!!! Why do Sammy and Mehdi get SO defensive??? They seem to be kind people otherwise.
But I also think the viewers didn’t like his heart rate scene. Cuz most of the girls afterwards said how they were grossed out. I think it was the kisses and the defensiveness that had him leave.
@@AnthonyRecenelloAgreed! Plus I think Whitney became a LI sweetheart so we feel a need to defend her a little bit.
When she finally broke down in that episode is was one of the sweetest moments
@@AnthonyRecenello I think it was good for her. Everyone needs release so we can move on and start fresh. Good on Jess for pushing Whitney to get it out
Jess is super socially aware
omg. we need more analysis. this season of love island has been wild!
please keep analysing the show! love your perspective and opinions
Thank you! Will do!
@@AnthonyRecenelloAre you going to analyze the show now that it's completed?
Your delivery is amazing, I just had to subscribe and it takes a lot for me to have the urge to follow people just off of the first video I see on their channel. Thank you for the valuable knowledge.
This made me feel so good. Keep commenting cuz it keeps me going ❤️
Love these reactions! Definitely more of that ❤
this is so interesting to see as an autistic person. I've always struggled with socialising and it's cool to see how non-autistic people act with romantic relationships and I'm curious of how different i would be. anyways, this was really interesting and I'd love to see more
Yay! Did you sub?
I watch love island as an autistic person to learn about all kinds of things!
Absolutely fascinating, love to study & better understand human relations 😅. Really enjoyed your insights.
Thanks so much Christine I hope I see ur comments again
WITHOUT WATCHING THE WHOLE THING I LOVE IT AND WANT MORE
This was very entertaining! Love the content!
So glad u liked it. Plz comment more so we can talk.
Thank you so much for this! This was like the icing on the cake after watching the final last night. Its so great to her your perspective as an expert as well as an American....please Sir can we have some more ❤
you need to be the shows actual dating coach 👏👏
Awwww thanks I wish
i don’t know if you guys have watched the reality show called Temptation Island where it’s basically similar to casa amour but there are actually real couples made from outside the villa and the 4 couples are split into villas (just like Love Island customer). Their host is like a therapist/relationship coach and I would believe they would be a great addition if Love Island adds them
Saying im absolutely fascinated by phsycology of these types of interactions .keep going im subscribed now all the way from Uganda ❤
Thanks! I’d love to visit one day.
More pls!!!! Thanks Anthoney!!!
Thank you!
You should definitely try season 8 next!!! Best season so far, and much more real conversations a long the people!!!
Please can you analyze the recoupling episode? I would love to hear what you have to say about the islanders and how’ve they’ve navigated the show up until that night at the recoupling. This was such a good video!
That’s a GREAT idea! Let’s hope we can
Nothing but facts!! 😂 love these breakdowns
it was very useful for me
thank you Anthony!
I’m so glad!!!
We need more of these videos!! This was funny and interesting at the same time.
Woot woot! Did you sub?
@@AnthonyRecenellodidn’t even realise I wasn’t subscribed till you asked. Now I am 👌
@@thatgirlcamillatravel6393 woot woot
Would love to see your views on the couples and characters even more so now that the show is coming towards it's end soon. Some of the couples have come a long way and have shifted and evolved into completely different people which has been interesting to watch!
this video was amazing!! i hope you do more parts and definitely a part 2 at least until to casa amor & please include scott and catherine especially analysis
Share w ur friends so we can hit 25k
You are absolutely correct. I am starting to judge myself because I don't have that hour glass body anymore. I'm 54, been thru so much and I call myself ugly, fat and nobody wants me like this. Everyone else looks great.
love the energy you have in this video, pleeeeassse react more to love island, we need you for advice….. :)
More of thus! This is somethibg I have in common with my twentysomething niece and her friends (ONLY the UK version).
Thanks! I’d love to
@@AnthonyRecenellois youtube copyright not fucking you anymore?
It was a remarkably quick copyright turnaround time.
I have never heard of you before & i was recommended your videos on the UA-cam algorithms & I’m so happy I came across it. A lot of ‘ relationship coaches ‘ talk rubbish but you’re so spot on. I analyse behaviours & I feel the way you break it down is great. I wish you do more videos. I even sent this to one of my friends. Please do more.
Also, your take on Andre is spot on. This is why Andre never captured Catherine like ellom is , Andre is not assertive & he isn’t confident & that’s his downfall. Hence why ruche & Catherine were not feeling him. The good thing on Andre side is that he’s tall & good looking but again alluding to what you said earlier in the video; looks is not everything at all. I’ve learnt this in the dating game. Obviously the better looking you are, it’s far easier to get your foot in the door but vibe, personality & game clinches the girl or guy depending on who you go for.
Great breakdown & I’ve subscribed & looking to more content.
Guys like this video. This coach actually talks sense unlike many others. 👍🏾
You don’t know how much this comment means! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ please keep commenting
Love this video ! Pls make more parts
Btw- brit here
A prettyboy is a specific type of boy, jess isn't just saying a generally good looking boy
Ohhhhhh he’s like a “preppy” is what we say in the states? Clean cut aesthetic
@@AnthonyRecenello it's hard to explain but if you Google 'Essex boy meme' you'll get what I mean hehe🤣
Ok doing it mow
This was my fave Love Island season ever 😍.Mitch was great for making this into a dramedy, Ty was very charming, and Jess was my fave girl ever! I love how Jess seemed to be her true self the entire season.❤
cant wait for the next season!
New subscriber brought here by the love island content!!!
Awesome! Thank you!
can't wait to see more
Omg theres been so many episodes i copleteley forgot that mitch said that on the first day, but I remeebr when he said that I was like ewww anyone who says that isn't a nice guy
Funny how since Catherine’s gone, everyone’s actually nice to Scott, they really ruined their relationship so upsetting.Elom is nice guy but he is not for her Scott adored her chemistry was insane he truly liked her 😔💔😭
Nice reaction & analysis
Thank you so muchhh
I love this!!! I would love you to do a video on tge downfall of Catherine because I was sooool confused lol
Your analysis of Tyrique really surprises me! Would love to hear if your opinion is the same now
I do really need an analysis of each character please i really enjoy your videos 👌🏽👍😊
Thanks so much I hope I see more comments from you Sandrine
Usually these type of videos are corny and bullsh*t. But as a man who’s PULLED A LOT of women in his time (prior to marriage), you broke down all the guys perfectly lol you get it. Anyone watching, listen to this man lol
Most dating coaches are scam artist phonies
Please do a part 2
i wish you did every episode😭😭
Me too
Please continue this 😂
25kkk!
i hope you get the views because i desperately want to see another part 😢
Me too trust me
refresh at least 10,000 more times and we'll get it.
I haven’t seen the view count, I don’t like jinxing it. You think we’ll hit the 25k goal?
More love island Uk vids please!!
This is going to be a story in the book "The Dating by Confessions" by Logan Tindell.
Lol what?!
We need more love island video!
I agree
@@AnthonyRecenellothen make one I have been waiting for ur video about all the new dramas
I would love to see more videos
Thanks so much I hope we can do a pt 2
For the next one you gotta show the convo when Ty pulled kady for a chat in front of Ella. He Rizz’d her up😂 would love to see you break that down!
I used to be among the ones who thought shows like this were pathetic and pointless. It is just an opportunity to be on tv and maybe become recognizable...
Because alot of people look down on reality shows like this.
Many years down the line, and able to make up my own mind. Now i see the potential to learn and grow by analysing like you just did.
Great vid Anthony!
@Matt_Nor I mean its common sense to learn from this reality shows. But what you over see is that alot of these realityshows are scripted and shaped to push a certain images and narratives. Love Island UK often promote men who are tall ( 5ft 11 to 6f5 +) as the ideal men for women. So if a man is shorter side of the stick they ridiculize them implicitly. Also women are often only ''blond with blue eyes'' are seen as the ''attractive women''. So you will hear contestants say ''oh she is beautiful'' despite objectively being not but just because she is blond she ''so called is''. There is alot subliminal agendas in these reality shows.
Hey Ant, in watching this video i think i found that maybe i have the same problems as Mitch.... 😅
It would be very helpful for me if you made another video on this, maybe just breaking down mitch x molly realtionship beacause i actually relate to this i think, what happens to mitch seems to happen to me too
PLSS DO A PART 2
Now that I've seen the series and after season podcasts can't believe how wrong you got mitch molly and zack dynamic. Molly mitch just got friend vibes while zack and molly were real deal, a team approach.
Pls do prt2😢
You're sooo right about Mitch and the whole "nice guy" thing! I can sense when a guy's like that and it's definitely off-putting and unattractive.
Couldn't agree more
If you make a video on Ty and Ella if was it 2M times
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DO SEASON 11!!!
Can you do a video on nut from jublee🙏
Not finished the video yet so apologies if you speak about it later on but I need you to do a video on sammy and Jess because I can't cope with it. I think Jess is being ripped the shit out of. And Ty and Ella. Can't tell if he's faking the whole emotional arc and being a better guy for Ella
This MUST be an old video because your take to Whitney's personality is soooo off. You say she hides her real self and doesn't show vulnerabilities / weird side. She is 100% herself in this show and has not held anything back even if it caused conflict. She also openly enjoys what she enjoys and what would be considered niche why she comes off so authentic
I actually disagree and i love Whit😁 she doesn’t show her real side she doesn’t show her vulnerabilities and i personally think that’s why it ended with Mehdi. He wanted her to show her softer side as well as her strong side
@@Chidi_xx I have to disagree 😅 things with Medhi ended because he was voted out - probably because the public saw him be very disrespectful and distant with Whitney. It took foreverrr for him to kiss her and she was having to initiate a lot. Whitney has actually been very vulnerable but also has her guard up which you kind of have to protect yaself
I love Whit 😂 but I have to disagree those who truly know Whatsapp know Whitney isn't being her true self she has been carefully weaving a part of her personality that isn't vulnerable and wont step on toes at all ...she is aware of the optics so she can't be her full self especially after what we saw what happened to Cat
I wish you would comment on Leah's eye contact game
I could it’s just Leah is bland to me. And I’m really not feeling her charm. I actually just think she’s a very pretty girl but her personality didn’t sway most of the boys, but with Montel it’s a perfect match…. Hopefully.
@@AnthonyRecenello I'll admit that her personality doesn't give me anything that makes me interested in her. The major selling point at first glance would be how she seems to just stare at you. Great for sexual tension but not enough on its own to create a spark.
@@AnthonyRecenelloLeah is SOOOOOO boring my lord. She won the good looks lottery but lost the personality lottery lol.
what do you think about the whole Ty&Ella and Catherine&Scott situation right now
I love Ty and Ella. And I don’t think Scott cares for Cath. I think she is great with this new guy!
@@AnthonyRecenello you don’t think Scott cares for Catherine?? What??? Have you not seen the latest episode? She’s literally out here gaslighting him
Ngl idk why i’m even asking you. Seeing you say “you love ty and Ella” when that man is toxic af saying “you were never mine just my turn” these two will never work he would cheat on her the min he got out. But you got heat for Scott??? Can’t take yiu seriously whatsoever💀
I’m American the episodes take five days to come here. Don’t give me spoilers!
Scott doesn’t care for Catherine full stop. And my man Ty called him out on it. Nobody on this show so far has been deserving of Catherine.
seeing this now makes me realize that catherine never liked scott cause scott comes off just as introverted as dre 😭😭
I think cath is just so likable and charming that she can connect w any hot guy she wants. But up until the new Casa guy, nobody has liked her as much as I have. 🤦🏻♂️
@@AnthonyRecenelloI don’t understand the hate, she’s sweet. I think her and Scott just don’t understand each others point of view.
I would love to see a full video on how mad cath is moving in the villa
Anything cath is what I want I have a big crush 🙈
Can u please give u'r best advive for weather nate wyatt and aisha mian like each other or they are just friends
Please do a Classic Charm video on Henry Cavill
Good idea! I will someday!
22:40 Tyrique very much does run the boys in the villa! He was seen as the "alpha" of the group. They all did EVERYTHING that he said!! Also, what do u mean by him not being stereotypically attractive? He is the 2nd best looking guy there, after Scott. I know ur not trying to say bc he's a black man that he isn't seen as attractive 🤨 bc every girl there wanted him at one point 😂 white men are actually the ones who are seen as less desirable 🥴 yt women aren't feeling yall like that anymore lmaoo
this is the most black twitter comment I've ever read in my life 😂
Yes, Molly and Mitch got along so good. She should have gave it a chance before jumping into Zach's arms. My heart was broken. I didn't see anything that Mitch did too push her away. I just think she wanted the hottest good looking man. That's my honest opinion..😢
11:30 - 12:15you were only speaking facts at this moment
Thank u ❤️
Ella better be careful Anthony gonna try & steal Ty when they get out to the real world
Literally not even kidding
I just love Ella and Ty,
However I like guys like Mitch lol
He and Ty are the ones I would have went for
Agreed
Why would you agree to liking Ella and Ty they are toxic
I can’t comment as I stopped after they happily got back together. I plan on continuing soon. Don’t tell me anything!
I think Ty looks away a lot to listen with his L ear
I would agree, but do all the islanders have a bad ear? Cuz they all do this. I think it’s to see who’s watching and to not look to eager w who they’re chatting with.
This season is so poor compared to the others, only one proper couple so far and she ruined it somewhat after casa 😅 I hope it improves. Happy to see you cover this though and see your insight, as a British person 😊 they would do well to get someone like you on the show analysing it in real time! Thankyou for the course also, genuinely really helpful for those of us that aren’t so confident 🙏🏼 *edit I LOVED Mitch and molly and I don’t think she should’ve gone for zach at all 😢
It’s been pretty good imo, especially compared to the last 3 seasons.
@@felixszn2606 season 8 is way better then this.
@@narcisgabri forgot about that season tbh. The first couple of weeks weeks were really good and felt like prime love island but it went a bit stale after Casa.
Make sure you come back to correct me on my misunderstandings of British culture cuz I truly want to learn
@@felixszn2606season 7 was good imo because of Faye and Teddy, season 8 was overrated, this season (10) is probably the best season.
Damn just get to the point. Stop all that side commentary!!
I’m not a reaction channel. I give social skills and dating advice using tv and movies as a vehicle. Sometimes people get confused.
The swearing is too much to listen to while watching this video
Yeah sorry I can’t help it. I just talk the way I coach people in the moment.
@@AnthonyRecenelloI'm here for the swearing tbh lols
Hell yeah