Wife Went Out Partying Without Me Even When i Told Her Not To Go. Later I Found out she cheated.

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  • Wife Went Out Partying Without Me Even When i Told Her Not To Go. Later I Found out she cheated.
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  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar Рік тому +1523

    The amount of guilt OP feels suggests that not only she cheated on him, she's probably used to manipulating him emotionally and gaslighting him... and her hysteric reaction in the therapist proves my point.

    • @wherearetheavocados6089
      @wherearetheavocados6089 Рік тому +36

      to have that reaction in front of the therapist too.. he had to of seen what she was doing

    • @MSSynsyterGates
      @MSSynsyterGates Рік тому +33

      Yeah when her first reaction is "Are you going to leave me?" and then trying to make him keep quiet about it. This is how shes going to lie and turn people against him.

    • @wambamimsam3780
      @wambamimsam3780 Рік тому +4

      that or from not catching it sooner

    • @skyure
      @skyure Рік тому +13

      Actually, guilt is one of the most common emotions beside shock, disgust and rage in such a situation.
      Also the one emotion that cheaters and manipulators build their whole spiel of "don't leave me" "I'll get better if you only give me a chance", "You snooped on me/disrespected my privacy" and last but not least "it's your fault, because-" on.

    • @bastalam
      @bastalam Рік тому +4

      It's called weakness bro. Unfortunately, we try hard to deny it and even come up with excuses but it is purely weakness.

  • @Syrin23
    @Syrin23 Рік тому +922

    "She pleaded me not to tell anyone". Tell EVERYONE, send videos, tell EVERY person she might even know tangentially.

    • @noahnewcomer5180
      @noahnewcomer5180 Рік тому +44

      I think it’s more he needed that leverage to make a clean getaway in the divorce proceedings, so he agreed not to if she would make the divorce less messy ie less costly…

    • @Aequitas887
      @Aequitas887 10 місяців тому +21

      I will say, that was the thing that stuck out the most after being found out. of al things THAT was her concern, her self image probably from my immediate social circle.... god people can be so shit...

    • @slacksviii9824
      @slacksviii9824 9 місяців тому

      ​@@noahnewcomer5180 after the divorce was finalized he should've told everyone anyways, preventative maintenance for relationships

    • @NENOShorts
      @NENOShorts 8 місяців тому +4

      thats a criminal case if send videos of noods of someone.

    • @orestojanovic8405
      @orestojanovic8405 6 місяців тому

      @@NENOShorts Not really. Nudes and sextapes get shared all the time, and even though sometimes you do answer for it, most of the time noone, not even the law gives a shit.
      He should've waited for the divorce to settle and then send the videos and messages to all the mutual friends, her family etc. just so they know that she is a cheating slut that gets passed around like a toy by an entire football team on regular basis.

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar Рік тому +938

    What really angers me about this story is the injustice in all of this. She made OP suffer, forced him into a long divorce battle that almost cost him his life, just to not lose his earnings in addition to everything else... and she completely got away with it and got her "and they lived happily ever after". She doesn't deserve it.

    • @danhandsomeandsome6177
      @danhandsomeandsome6177 Рік тому

      Unfortunately, this is the reality of divorce because of a cheating wife. Only good thing is that OP didn't have any children with her.

    • @A-Warthog-cc1wm
      @A-Warthog-cc1wm Рік тому +93

      Sadly life isn’t fair. The bad guys sometimes win, and good people suffer

    • @darkriku12
      @darkriku12 Рік тому +83

      She got the guy but lost her friends and extended family. Some people just commit hard on the insanity once they get caught. And the best revenge is bettering yourself

    • @C.G.Gaster
      @C.G.Gaster Рік тому

      I blame it on the no-fault divorce states. Sure, they were nice when first added, but now they are a con, a tool to get money from good people. They cause benefit for cheaters who don't work. At least with at-fault, you can divorce and punish them (with proof) via paying you back. So never marry in a no-fault state. You'd be better off being in the same state you were before.

    • @dezmodium
      @dezmodium Рік тому +32

      Sometimes good people are born, suffer all their lives, and then die in pain and alone. There is no "just world."

  • @maiseelauj
    @maiseelauj Рік тому +302

    That child probably wasn’t even her husbands anyway knowing her open leg history.

    • @Mop222
      @Mop222 8 місяців тому +9

      I definitely hope she had stopped drinking before she got pregnant.

    • @Steve60638
      @Steve60638 8 місяців тому +18

      “Open leg history” damn

    • @GhostStoryAlley-e2g
      @GhostStoryAlley-e2g 7 місяців тому +5

      yeaaa, same thought with u

    • @tuliocolaco2045
      @tuliocolaco2045 6 днів тому

      Welcome to real life

  • @Maninawig
    @Maninawig Рік тому +365

    The one thing missing in this story is the bombshell of OP telling his soccer team "I am quitting effective immediately, due to the fact that y'all used my wife as the team sIut"

    • @averagejoe455
      @averagejoe455 10 місяців тому +32

      "You're supposed to juggle the ball, not my wife!"

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 10 місяців тому +32

      @@averagejoe455 unlike the wife, that line is too good to go unused.

    • @flexjohnson18
      @flexjohnson18 10 місяців тому +11

      I'd be fighting those dudes on that team If it was me I'd be in jail

    • @BeyonderGod
      @BeyonderGod 10 місяців тому +2

      Lmfao

    • @virtualatheist
      @virtualatheist 8 місяців тому +5

      @@Maninawig Too late for the wife... She's already been overused.

  • @LuckeyClover
    @LuckeyClover 10 місяців тому +37

    Keeping the dirty laundry as blackmail to not loose half you're assets in the divorce battle is actually a grade A move, although I love the stories where ops air it out to all family and friends of the cheater😂😂

  • @arcadius3257
    @arcadius3257 Рік тому +575

    These "No fault" states need to get their shit together and punish/consider cheating appropriately in these kind of cases.
    What this man went through isn't justice.

    • @A-Warthog-cc1wm
      @A-Warthog-cc1wm Рік тому +81

      I never understood the point of “not fault” as it just means you can just cheat without any of the consequences

    • @C.G.Gaster
      @C.G.Gaster Рік тому

      ​@A-Warthog-cc1wm The idea was to allow for divorce without having to lie about abuse, from what I've been told. However I agree, it's now just a game, a scam, for cheaters and gold diggers. It's better to just stay dating than get married in a no-fault divorce. Especially without a prenup.

    • @boblee7998
      @boblee7998 Рік тому +28

      That's why I'll never be married unless we move. She's paid to cheat and leave.

    • @BoopleSnuffeGaming
      @BoopleSnuffeGaming Рік тому +15

      IDK how it is in other states, but in Florida, no fault divorce means "A spouse may file for a divorce without his or her spouse having committed any fault."

    • @MrMonnTM
      @MrMonnTM Рік тому

      @@BoopleSnuffeGaming Which basically means I can do shit TO YOU and FILE DIVORCE. No fault is backed up by other pesky things like spousal support, division of assets (retirement included). In at fault states for example for infidelity you can actually safe yourself from alimony or 50/50 asset division (depending on length and depth of affair). You can even demand compensation at some at fault states. No fault states give you "free hands" to spit on your partner and marriage institute and have a gangbang in your marital bed while handing you divorce papers and you can't do shit about this.
      Now let's think objectively in most cases men are the bread winners thus they stand to lose much more materialy, based on buying things women tend on average buy the most depreciating assets. Next is fucking alimony, there are many different cases but in most (i think) you have to pay him/her alimony based on difference in your income so if he or she works but receives much less they still receive alimony based on your income difference. Child support in some states around the world EVEN despite being lied about your child being yours (i.e. paternity fraud) if you signed a birth certificate you are still obligated to pay child support. + About alimony, amount of years you have to pay alimony depends on amount of years you were married + in some cases even if they remarry you still have to pay them, how fair is that?
      At this point I'm asking, why would anyone commit to marriage without a prenuptial agreement? How naive and stupid can you get? Women chose less hours and professions that pay less so even if you will not have children and she lives by mantra, my money is my money and your money is our money you will still get fucked.
      Marriage laws are "genderless" but in reality they are heavily stacked against males. Prenup in most cases equalizes, because you cannot have a prenup that is heavily stacked against one party.
      The worst part many countries are starting to adapt "common law" where people who aren't married are basically given the same status as married people via living together for 3-10 years.
      Both men and women are heavily encouraged to cheat or manipulate their partners and if not encouraged then pardoned or ignored. If my son or daughter cheated they would be disowned, can many people do that to their shitlings? No, many stand for their shitlings to their dying breath while admirable at first in future prospect that means that they are safeguarding a shit stain of a human being who will make other people's life's miserable (maybe including you).

  • @doomedfromthesmart
    @doomedfromthesmart Рік тому +265

    If she goes out once, drop her. If you go out once drop her. I've never wanted to go anywhere without my ex. She left once, cheated, tried lying, refused to touch her again, she got pregnant and tried to gaslight me. Never live with a liar.

    • @ResidentWeevil2077
      @ResidentWeevil2077 Рік тому +17

      Username checks out.

    • @kraquinette2430
      @kraquinette2430 Рік тому +10

      While unfortunate for you, you are not everyone, some people would like to have a life of their own and go out with friends once in a while, it's not a toxic behaviour on its own.

    • @mauricio2456
      @mauricio2456 Рік тому

      Fuck, you're toxic. Not excusing her for cheating... but I understand.

    • @ragingsaviorkami9862
      @ragingsaviorkami9862 11 місяців тому +17

      ​@@ResidentWeevil2077 Hes right tho. A married woman that still wants to go out and party is a red flag. A married man that still wants to go and party, even more so.

    • @sagetusk
      @sagetusk 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ragingsaviorkami9862it depends though. Partying is maybe too much for me personally, but my partner wants to go out with just his friends to a bar? Sure thing. I want to go for the same with my friends? Sure thing. It doesn't happen often, but we allow each other individual space. It's needed

  • @nanadiaries9189
    @nanadiaries9189 9 місяців тому +12

    She stole his time, innocence, love, and many other things . I’m glad he is healing . God bless him and I hope he gets his happily ever after. That woman will definitely get what is coming to her

  • @macrons593
    @macrons593 Рік тому +47

    23:39 bro was stunned, flabbergasted, appalled, left saying unbelievable 💀

  • @arhael3594
    @arhael3594 Рік тому +70

    What pisses me off is that he didn't tip off the new guy. Would cost him nothing to save poor guy's life.

    • @MsWill813
      @MsWill813 10 місяців тому +5

      They don't believe, at least women don't 😢

    • @UnreasonableExpectations
      @UnreasonableExpectations 9 місяців тому +5

      In these scenarios, usually the one who is spilling the beans is the one who comes across as the unhinged one.

    • @arhael3594
      @arhael3594 9 місяців тому

      @@UnreasonableExpectations Like it would matter to him. Those who deem him unhinged can F the right off.

    • @davidteegray9730
      @davidteegray9730 5 місяців тому

      What kind of idiot proposes on the phone before meeting someone in person?

  • @jdavis7613
    @jdavis7613 Рік тому +45

    I hopeOP told the local woman about her cheating husband and I myself would have found a way to send that man a copy of all the videos and texts to that man she married.

    • @VeryGoodDeals
      @VeryGoodDeals Рік тому +3

      Same. Was hoping to hear an update on that

    • @christosm2133
      @christosm2133 10 місяців тому

      I am sorry but this guy married her the first time he met her. He deserves whatever comes to him

    • @Adwiti_Mishra
      @Adwiti_Mishra 8 місяців тому +1

      @@christosm2133 lol ikr the day they get married is the first time they meet irl????

    • @christosm2133
      @christosm2133 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Adwiti_Mishra such a true story right ? hahah

    • @dman052470
      @dman052470 6 місяців тому

      @@christosm2133 dude, I can tell you that sometimes real life is so much more unbelievable and crazy than fiction. Could it be fake? Of course, but that doesn't mean it ISN'T true. I seen some of the most mind blowing shit go down between people that were friends of mine that was just nuts. So yeah, this could very much be real.

  • @markanthony1004
    @markanthony1004 20 днів тому +1

    Heard this one 5 times still never gets old

  • @therarestphoenix5254
    @therarestphoenix5254 Рік тому +16

    All of her relationships will NEVER be blessed. Only cursed... Her life will NEVER know peace. I hope OP will find his happiness that's so richly deserved.

  • @clay5291
    @clay5291 10 місяців тому +6

    I felt that with my ex. She got proposed not long after we broke up and got pregnant. It was heartbreaking to see

  • @scottsommer9843
    @scottsommer9843 Рік тому +120

    "Don't tell anybody"
    Translation: "Don't tell anybody because I want to manipulate the story to be your fault."
    You need to tell people out the gate before you even speak to her. It doesn't matter how "embarressing" it is. It is not embarressing to say your partner cheated.

    • @tallyp.7643
      @tallyp.7643 Рік тому +2

      Or at least keep the receipts and have all the evidence ready to go once the divorce or separation goes through--then drop the truth bomb, especially if the cheater keeps going on about it, thinking they won't get a comeuppance. Watch their smugness burn away as others learn the truth in real time.

    • @christophernoble76
      @christophernoble76 11 місяців тому +2

      it made sense that he hid it until the divorce was over, he saved half his salary because of the way he played it off. after it's legally over, expose her to absolutely everybody, with the proof that he collected over time.

  • @MuhtadisWeg
    @MuhtadisWeg Рік тому +37

    You know if she had a baby While you were still married there would be a posibility that the baby was from "buddy"

  • @mokakom
    @mokakom Рік тому +65

    this yet again proves guys marry ANYONE and give the ultimate commitment to women they dont know because she gave them the bare minimum required in a "relationship". I bet the new husband will be posting someday about how he never expected she would be the one who cheats Lol propose over the phone

    • @C.G.Gaster
      @C.G.Gaster Рік тому +2

      Nah he's just an idiot. She just knows how to get what she wants.

    • @captaingramcrackergrams5990
      @captaingramcrackergrams5990 10 місяців тому +3

      The bare minimum is more than a lot of men get nowadays so in a way I get

    • @davidteegray9730
      @davidteegray9730 5 місяців тому +2

      As they say ”beggars can’t be choosers”

    • @adnanorochi3761
      @adnanorochi3761 5 місяців тому +1

      He thinks he married a catch turn to be he's the catch😂

  • @Fiercetits
    @Fiercetits Рік тому +18

    That’s gotta be the most devastating way to find out your wife is cheating by getting double teamed or a train ran on her, multiple times god damn 😱

    • @davidteegray9730
      @davidteegray9730 5 місяців тому +1

      Heard another one like this but it was at a bachelorette party and they were all getting ran through

    • @Fiercetits
      @Fiercetits 5 місяців тому

      @@davidteegray9730 Dear god

  • @sherrellmccarthy2301
    @sherrellmccarthy2301 3 місяці тому +1

    Stay strong. Better days to come, you will get over her, find a decent woman who will love you and only you, not the footy team. She lives with that hanging over her head. Waiting. I wish you well. Love to hear a follow-up from you. Happily married, four kids. 2 dogs, 2 cats. Take care 😊

  • @ThatOneGuyonHere
    @ThatOneGuyonHere Рік тому +32

    While he still has a chance for a wife and kids it will be more difficult and he is running out of time. This woman stole everything from him. Even time

    • @darkdragonmoderator5504
      @darkdragonmoderator5504 Рік тому +10

      No she didn't. Men typically tend to peak in their 30s and can have kids up to the ages of 70 with high success rates. He still has time to build himself and find someone younger who he can marry and have kids with.
      She's the one who's lost time. Not him.

    • @Xspurr
      @Xspurr 10 місяців тому

      ​@@darkdragonmoderator5504Even though that is true it would be dumb to have children after the age of 40, as a man. If you have kids at 45 you'll be 65 when they are 20. That's far, FAR from optimal. Add to that the fact the older you are the likelihood of the child being born with for example autism is highly increased. Yes, men CAN have children even in old age but shouldn't.
      /36 year old man

    • @darkdragonmoderator5504
      @darkdragonmoderator5504 10 місяців тому +1

      @Xspurr that's the stupidest reasoning ever. By the time you're 65 and your son is 20, he'll be old enough to take care of himself. It's not bad at all.

    • @darkdragonmoderator5504
      @darkdragonmoderator5504 10 місяців тому +1

      @Xspurr it's not dumb and plenty of children have kids at 40 and live till 80 where their kids are 40. You're just being nonsensical

    • @Xspurr
      @Xspurr 10 місяців тому

      @@darkdragonmoderator5504 Didn't say you need to take care of you son when he's 20. I just think you should give your childen more time with you before you DIE.

  • @drake3934
    @drake3934 10 місяців тому +6

    Dude, wtf money in the Bank is better than a cheater in your life

  • @cn9707
    @cn9707 Рік тому +5

    imagine being the guy that chose to date the team runner LMAO. the "buddy" really did himself a disservice.

    • @stephennombo4657
      @stephennombo4657 Рік тому

      He was Not that dumb. His relationship with that Cheating Women went down after her Divorce, probably bc he refused to give her that very "quick-preparation" Marriage btw them, so she had no choice but to go on a dating site to find a good idiot who'll marry her promptly.
      No one in their right mind will marry someone they don't know, let alone someone you know for being a cheater & the entire team's Hole. "Buddy" was probably dating her just for his fun, while pretending he'll marry someone like her after her divorce, just to jump out of the mess at the very last moment.
      The Entire Team including himself were just having fun with her, and He just wanted some Extra fun. Dating a Cheater is no issue, only those who'll commit, sign contracts & marry them, will suffer from it

  • @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752
    @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752 7 місяців тому +2

    "What do I have? Money in the bank?"
    Me at 23: "Yes!!! If you don't want it, I want it! I can go to Disneyland with my family with that!"

  • @muggyate
    @muggyate Рік тому +15

    I hope her new husband got married in a no fault state because he's also a cheat and is doing it to rob her bind.

    • @davidteegray9730
      @davidteegray9730 5 місяців тому

      In California? I doubt it even if it went like that

  • @MinisterChristopher
    @MinisterChristopher 7 місяців тому +1

    Crazy story. But as a therapist in my 10th year, the handling of that situation was textbook perfect.

  • @icyvividprism
    @icyvividprism Рік тому +8

    Rule number one if a woman tells you to not tell anyone about that situation you screenshot and send it to everyone you explain it all

  • @YuniS772
    @YuniS772 4 місяці тому +3

    Don’t tell the wife if it was one time mistake it’s not worth distorting a family if he’s a serial cheater she’ll find out eventually

  • @buff5158
    @buff5158 Рік тому +59

    Haven't finished listening yet and I know OP's not at fault but he did make a mistake in dating an 18-19 yr old that either lacked relationship experience or maturity or BOTH when he's 5 years her senior.
    Like it's not a big age gap but between someone that's 18-ish and someone that's 24-ish, there's a bit of a gap in life experiences. Like the wife sucks greatly and she's a hundred percent at fault but let this be a lesson- don't date and marry someone that's not your equal.

    • @l-l-l-l-l-l-l
      @l-l-l-l-l-l-l Рік тому +5

      Plus OP only really grown in age and not matured mentally to have that rock solid mentality that would survive this earthquake of emotional disaster. Once she finally grown into her final narcissistic form, he had absolutely no chance against her. Thanked god she not not very smart and too focused on hiding her ongoing affair than fighting her divorce.

    • @erik61801
      @erik61801 Рік тому

      thanks. i was considering someone half my age. different worlds...

    • @Andrew-jt8bg
      @Andrew-jt8bg Рік тому +14

      Age doesn't really have anything to do with it, plenty of young people make good choices and plenty of older folks make bad choices. I'm 3 years older than my wife and we started dating when she was 18. We've been together for 16 years with 3 kids and no issues. Different life experiences are fine and don't equate to 1 party being less than another. You shouldn't look for equality, just loyalty/honesty. Sometimes people are just shit-bags (no matter the age) and need to be avoided.

    • @CherryGryffon
      @CherryGryffon Рік тому +5

      It REALLY depends on the person. My husband is 17 years my senior but we could not be more similar in interests and maturity. So much so that he, thrice divorced and already had the 2 kids he wanted, changed his mind on never marrying again AND having more kids, just to make this a permanent relationship. Now we're 15 years on, most of which married, with no end anywhere in sight.
      The key is KNOWING the person you are with. Most people don't really ask the big deep questions, let alone hypotheticals, but really that's all we've done for this decade and a half. "If this situation happened, how would you react? What would you think?" And then watch to see that their words line up with how they react to situations in reality. If they line up, you've got a good idea of who your partner is and how they think. If they don't, well.. That's how you get these kinds of spouses T: @@erik61801

    • @CherryGryffon
      @CherryGryffon Рік тому

      Exactly!!
      @@Andrew-jt8bg

  • @newturtle3
    @newturtle3 Рік тому +6

    OP is just grieving his sham of a marriage and how he got duped.
    His version of his wife never existed and now some other poor sap has to deal with her.
    OP dosn't need envy that. He should be grateful he dodged a nuclear warhead

  • @kiyajohnson4436
    @kiyajohnson4436 Рік тому +5

    I'm glad you got rid of her good luck you'll find someone better. My support is with you. ❤❤❤

  • @isaidajhooks7631
    @isaidajhooks7631 8 місяців тому +3

    I don’t think you did ANYTHING wrong at all!!!!!!! Good for you! I’m happy you’re out

    • @CorgiFanWoof
      @CorgiFanWoof 7 місяців тому

      He targeted a teenager as a grown man in his 20s. That's wrong. The woman is lucky to be away from him.

  • @bored_boar
    @bored_boar 6 місяців тому +1

    I was waiting for this dude to go scorched earth right after the divorce was finalized after collecting all that evidence.. He didn't fail to disappoint.

  • @jogovender
    @jogovender 8 місяців тому +6

    Nah, I don't buy it. I've been close to blackout drunk more than once but have never felt the urge to cheat or sleep around. This is just some grade A BS, blaming alcohol for your cheating.

  • @cboss9085
    @cboss9085 9 місяців тому +2

    Is it just me these videos are start letting me be more aware around people I'm around❤

  • @SinTransphobicTrigger
    @SinTransphobicTrigger Рік тому +64

    Always tell your story to as many people as possible. Women show no mercy to men who did everything right. There's no such thing as it being difficult for you to do so because you love them. The moment they are unfaithful is the moment you drop that love because it wasn't real to begin with just misplaced feelings and a terrible mistake.

  • @joshfly210
    @joshfly210 11 місяців тому +2

    It is crazy how some guys and girls just have random babies and never stay together because they can’t see how things will go in the future. Some 20 -30 year olds are popping out babies like they’re 16 and have never had intercourse before. That’s how people break up later because they’re trying to make relationships work just because they have a kid now.

  • @MatthewRatburg
    @MatthewRatburg Рік тому +3

    28:09, No OP. There’s slim chance she would’ve given birth to your child. I don’t even think the child is her new husband’s ether

  • @adnanorochi3761
    @adnanorochi3761 5 місяців тому +3

    She belongs to the streets ❌
    She is the streets ❌
    She is the highway ✅

  • @stevenaldoroty489
    @stevenaldoroty489 11 днів тому

    I don’t know which of these stories are fiction or real, but regardless, what this guy is going through, and the feelings he is experiencing, are so real.

  • @00keziah
    @00keziah 9 місяців тому +2

    Cheating is a horrible time for someone. She has no feelings. When she needs to have a reference in the future, she will find out what a pariah she has become. May she have another man do this to her.

  • @c16621
    @c16621 Рік тому +9

    OP is not a bad person. The fact that he is worried about his own moral standing means he isn’t bad. He had to lead the cheater on to get out of suffering any consequences of HER actions. He didn’t deserve to suffer any consequences.
    She got married to some online dude? What a m0r0n. “That poor man” is right. She’ll cheat on him too. She sounds like a grifter.

  • @PRPRINCESSCEDES
    @PRPRINCESSCEDES 9 днів тому +1

    THIS BROAD FOUND 3 DUDES AND I CANT EVEN FIND 1 GOOD ONE LOL

  • @ace_x420
    @ace_x420 Рік тому +20

    why do no fault states exist? like cheating can make a person suicide bro and in every single divorce woman takes 20% pf a guy’s inheritance his mom/dad trueted him to

    • @ronaldocruz4594
      @ronaldocruz4594 Рік тому +4

      And why do these nice guys marry at no fault states? They should move to a state that has at fault state if they want to get married smh

    • @ace_x420
      @ace_x420 Рік тому

      @@ronaldocruz4594 i heard from a guys who’s my brother’s frnd that his fiance wants to stay at a no fault state and my brother immediately told him not to go to he hesitated first but when her fiance didn’t let him take a peternity (idk how to spell it) test he then got convinced and called of the marriage (that was a 5 years old of rltn and she tried to take his money and manipulate plus baby trap him) and tbh most girls convince their man to go to no fault states plus they act like sum crazzy mental girl if a guy wants a peternity test like whah if yk he’s the kid then let him take a test? like a guy setting boundaries is insecurity but a girl setting boundaries is normal like usa has become prison for most males ngl

    • @KillerTurnus
      @KillerTurnus 10 місяців тому +1

      No fault laws are designed for women. It was so that men couldn't divorce women and leave them destitute, it's one of those things that is good on paper but then when you actually put it into practice it destroys everything.

    • @greenbrickbox3392
      @greenbrickbox3392 7 місяців тому

      No fault states exist because it is idiocy for the state to force people to stay in a bad marriage just because no one is proven to be at fault via adultery, abandonment, incarceration or violence. Prior to this people would have to do ridiculous workarounds like faking adultery or moving to a state where no-fault divorce exists to have a "migratory divorce".
      Also inheritance isn't a marital property, don't place it in joint accounts or with marital property and get legal advice if you really don't want it to be divided up in a divorce. If you have property which needs to be protected ahead of time you should get legal advice regardless as marriage is above everything else a legal contract between two people which gives legal status, new rights/responsibilities and gives your spouse additional powers over shared assets and medical decisions should you be incapacitated.

    • @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115
      @nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115 6 місяців тому

      because addy state needs money. Divorce is the ultimate weatlh transfer.

  • @lizardoanddeathskull198
    @lizardoanddeathskull198 8 місяців тому +2

    26:00 BRO IMAGE PROPOSING ON CALL 💀 💀

  • @Muavegirly
    @Muavegirly 10 місяців тому +2

    I am so angry that people like this exist this actually made me try and led me to watch alot more of these videos all leading in me crying 😢

  • @TaleToast
    @TaleToast 6 місяців тому

    I can't believe she went out and partied even after you told her not to. The moment you discovered her cheating through the iPad was just shocking. Stay strong.

  • @chilpeeps
    @chilpeeps Рік тому +4

    Marriage is today day age is stressful chaos I know many people are wanted it but it is really worth it .
    It’s high time infidelity in marriage should become a crime otherwise free people from alimony and maintenance this is pure injustice

  • @nessaFernandez-pv5qf
    @nessaFernandez-pv5qf 5 місяців тому

    You will get through this and I know it is very painful. Your happiness will come, just be patient. I wish you the best.

  • @joemccay9978
    @joemccay9978 Рік тому +7

    The new dude should get a paternity test.

  • @KilroyWasHere83
    @KilroyWasHere83 10 місяців тому +1

    Dating in the westen world in general, and especially here in America is a cesspool of broken people

  • @thepriorstone4064
    @thepriorstone4064 8 місяців тому +1

    OP: feels bad for losing his morality by blackmailing
    Also OP: purposely leads her on to get a clean and easy divorce
    Not saying he’s in the wrong, I just thought it was funny

  • @Hr1s7i
    @Hr1s7i 7 місяців тому +1

    I wonder how many "buddies" ended in a ditch somewhere.

  • @wallacematheus6994
    @wallacematheus6994 Рік тому +4

    It wouldn't have been your child man it would have been Chad and Tyrone's child relax. You've lost nothing.

  • @Dehay24
    @Dehay24 Рік тому

    It is absolutely possible to instantaneously fall out of love and start loathing someone.

    • @virtualatheist
      @virtualatheist 8 місяців тому

      Love and hate are on the same side of the coin, the other side is indifference.

  • @James-sq4sc
    @James-sq4sc Рік тому +1

    He needs to move on and stop obsessing over the literal trash fire that is his ex. He’s lucky he wasn’t stuck co parenting with her. It’s only a matter of time before she cheats on her new husband. Assuming she isn’t already

  • @AriaRosetti
    @AriaRosetti Рік тому +12

    Love the longer vids, thanks telltales!

  • @arhael3594
    @arhael3594 10 місяців тому

    Can't believe OP didn't make all evidence public post divorce and did not reach out to new husband.

  • @CopperCrest
    @CopperCrest 10 днів тому

    He needs therapy. He’s talking & thinking abt his cheating wife 3 yrs later. He has centered his entire life abt making sure he hears nothing abt her life. Therapy will help with his distrust, setting boundaries, & moving forward.

  • @aksprkl6594
    @aksprkl6594 Рік тому +6

    Are any of these Telltale stories real? They ALL have the same format 😂

    • @thisdude9363
      @thisdude9363 11 місяців тому

      Most of them aren't. These subreddits are mostly full of bitter incels and angry divorced men who think "ALL WOMEN BAD." These stories are catharsis to them, especially if there's EPIC REVENGE!

  • @dannyalvens5418
    @dannyalvens5418 11 місяців тому

    After the divorce was finalized,He should have sent out binders of every text,email and screenshot of all the communications between his ex and her lover to everyone they know.....And,If she kicked the guy to the curb,He should have an extra binder prepared to be dropped off to the next guy she gets involved with....

  • @m96216
    @m96216 Рік тому +15

    “More dept than there is cash in our account”
    And they make 5,5k combined, how is that possible ?
    Let’s say the rent is 2k and all the monthly expenses 1k so 3k , where does the rest go?😂
    In my country 5,5k a month is considered rich rich 😂
    P.S: haven’t heard the rest of the story yet, so he may explain later the no savings

    • @Thanatossssx
      @Thanatossssx Рік тому +9

      They are prob from the US and maybe from an expensive area where the rent is a lot more than 2k, they may also have student debt, maybe car payments too and voila, you live paycheck to paycheck

    • @chilpeeps
      @chilpeeps Рік тому

      I think they used to go to bar and restaurant on weekends which can cost around between 300-500 usd easily also some people by expensive stuff on loans so interest rates get included I am happy that is able to get financially strong and doesn’t lose his wealth

    • @TheSergio1021
      @TheSergio1021 Рік тому +1

      Wife probably spending a shit ton. 5.5k a month is pretty wealthy even by American standards

  • @Erick-zg6qr
    @Erick-zg6qr Рік тому +5

    So, did Op said something to the wife of the guy from Tenesse she was hooking up while being with that "buddy". The one Op found out was married?

  • @tomahawk3645
    @tomahawk3645 8 місяців тому +1

    Does this annoy anyone else? He mentions that family members would keep calling him to tell him what his wife was up to and he'd have to explain what happened. He mentions that even after telling them that he wouldn't reveal the full picture. He was shocked when he saw his ex with a baby and his family supporting her. And yet he mentions that the constant phone calls bothered him and seeing his ex-in laws supporting her bothered him.
    And yet he made a stupid promise that he wouldn't tell anyone. He'd be rid of the annoying phone calls at least if he told everyone about it. This is a stupid move imo

  • @STKHub
    @STKHub 11 місяців тому +1

    I pray this story is fake. They usually are, but please let this not be an exception.
    The poster hardly has self respect, didn't warn the wife being cheated on from another family, and didn't warn the newly wed husband.
    Real piece of work, this guy.

  • @jdavis7613
    @jdavis7613 Рік тому +1

    It would not have been your child. She was with too many men for it to be yours. You dodged a bullet.

  • @brendas9498
    @brendas9498 6 днів тому

    My boyfriend’s ex did the same to him after he just wanted a break, he was planing to get back together with her but need space to work on himself and stop the co dependency they had but she screamed that he sa her in front of her family so he left, the town found out and everyone hated him the only ppl that believed him was his family his bff and funny enough the girls best friend. She pushed her to tell the truth which she did but by then it was too late and all the old ppl in the community still see him as the person that did it

  • @Jack_Russle732
    @Jack_Russle732 7 місяців тому +2

    Why you get married in no fault states?

    • @davidteegray9730
      @davidteegray9730 5 місяців тому +2

      Lack of knowledge + “that could never happen to me” same reason prenups don’t get signed

  • @jestosebno666
    @jestosebno666 Рік тому

    I'm 41 guy and my gf is 36, we are together for 13 years and live together for 10 years. None of us were ever married, no children, no common assets, separate bank accounts. We have excelent relationship. All of those mentioned things are just a strain on a relationship.
    Do we really need a paper from a governement to prove we love each other?

  • @Capricious_Muse
    @Capricious_Muse 6 місяців тому +1

    Gender reveal? Poor man needs a history lesson about his wife and a paternity test.

  • @jenniferfoster426
    @jenniferfoster426 2 місяці тому

    The state you marry in does not matter. If you move and can show you have been there for at least 6 months then if you divorce- the laws in that state are what you go by.

  • @baboonman846
    @baboonman846 Рік тому +2

    Ngl i would probably go round to Buddys house and rearrange his face for disrespecting me like he did. But thats just me

  • @marendor9087
    @marendor9087 Рік тому +10

    This Happened To My Buddy Eric

    • @Valthoron
      @Valthoron Рік тому +3

      My Condolences To Your Buddy Eric

  • @cubbleshasreturned6968
    @cubbleshasreturned6968 10 місяців тому

    I hope someone tipped off the new husband on what type of person he married

  • @drifter139
    @drifter139 Рік тому

    tell everyone. she couldn't be loyal to you so you don't her owe any loyalty in keeping her secrets

  • @zacharystrickland216
    @zacharystrickland216 4 місяці тому

    He shouldn't feel bad one bit about pretending to want to reconcile to get out of it without paying her.. when the system is rigged against you. And it is immoral. You don't play by the system. Good for him.

  • @ReiCaixa
    @ReiCaixa 9 місяців тому

    Not much injustice, her live will be as it is forever.
    She'll cheat all her next partners, and her value is always going down through age.
    While OP makes money, so his value will only grow untill he's 50, and never really go down.
    He can get a girl better and younger than her if he wants, since he's closer to his prime and she's reaching the end of hers.

  • @TheManny1283
    @TheManny1283 6 місяців тому

    After divorce I would expose it all anonymous

  • @mazthebear
    @mazthebear Рік тому

    There are so many guys in this world that are blinded by “ love “ that they willingly refuse to see the issues in front of them. Take those damn rose colored glasses of for the love of whatever is holy. This chick never loved him, she found herself a nice guy. The guys you would settle and know for a fact that they are the best a taking care of things financially atleast. Any woman that cheats on their own spouse never truly loved them. Its so obvious that this guy lived with rose colored glasses and refused to see the issues for what its worth. Shes an alcoholic? Yea that’s normally how alcoholics are. Its girls like this that ruin everything for every other good girl out there in the world.

  • @shawnbarran5464
    @shawnbarran5464 5 місяців тому

    A great mentor of mine always stressed to me to never sleep with married women. He told me even if she undresses infront of you walk away. I never understood until I got older. It was the best advice I had ever gotten. Ladies and gentlemen go home and pleasure yourself first and then decide if you want to cross that bridge.

  • @moisesmartinezmorales5885
    @moisesmartinezmorales5885 8 місяців тому

    Aint nk way she said "yes i did tye nasty with him and another guy...i think they might of been more people" like HUH? WHAT DO YOU MEAN MORE PEOPLE?!

  • @Mentallect
    @Mentallect Рік тому

    Fault occurs in every divorce, and I recommend that either you get married in a Fault state or have an iron clad pre-nupt w/ infidelity clauses in it.

  • @GeordieGunner96
    @GeordieGunner96 8 місяців тому

    Cheaters cheat & if you take them back its as it you're giving them permission to do it again & again but the they'll become more frequent & closer to home.

  • @markmessina7895
    @markmessina7895 9 місяців тому +1

    Yes I’m leaving you. File for divorce . Marriage is over.

  • @t0n51
    @t0n51 11 місяців тому

    Last update hit hard. I took am 32 and childless. And I also thought I'd be a father by now so I understand

  • @LaidenTelmor
    @LaidenTelmor 8 місяців тому

    Nice questin. Why havent she changed the passwort lol 😂😂😂

  • @ssfn1_
    @ssfn1_ Рік тому +26

    Sometimes I understand sharia law

  • @jvbutalid8316
    @jvbutalid8316 5 місяців тому

    Well, she cut her losses and everything worked out for her in the end. OP lost this one.

  • @ericerto8250
    @ericerto8250 6 місяців тому

    I went through a pretty bad divorce myself. Very selfish self-centered woman. I tried dating shortly after my divorce about 2 years to be approximate. And I felt like I was running down the same path again so I'm just single I plan on remaining that way I don't want to be but I haven't found a good woman and I don't think I will ever find one

  • @reedergrant6108
    @reedergrant6108 5 місяців тому

    Story of a man who just can’t let it go.

  • @richardthompson3296
    @richardthompson3296 Рік тому

    Why would a guy in this Position not trick her into believing he wants to make it work. But needs to divorce in order to get back his decision to continue on. Not being forced. Agree that both sides get nothing but what you came into the relationship with. Then ditch the smitch. Worth a shot i think 😂😂😂

  • @nightlight3157
    @nightlight3157 8 місяців тому

    Sounds like my ex, didn't get married but dodged that bullet

  • @julife.ka.3899
    @julife.ka.3899 11 місяців тому

    "In another timeline, right now, that could have been my child" i remember when my ex told me he got his 'just someone im seeing' pregnant and i got mixed emotions bc i knew i didn't want kids and he did but not qith her nor like that and also the fugging BULLET i was dodging oh my goodness

  • @solidale21
    @solidale21 Рік тому +3

    I swear all of these crapshows happen in california.

  • @tbnrwolff3354
    @tbnrwolff3354 Рік тому +4

    Remember people most of the time someone tries to commit suicide and survives they regret it the majority of people regret trying to end their lives so get through whatever you're going through and more than likely you will be fine maybe not financially but in that aspect of wanting to harm yourself

  • @caitlinkehler2708
    @caitlinkehler2708 8 місяців тому

    I'd be contacting the new hubby to suggest a paternity test

  • @loki1033
    @loki1033 3 місяці тому

    This woman will cheat her whole life.🤮🤮

  • @peterwilliams6361
    @peterwilliams6361 Рік тому +52

    Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Рік тому

      its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Рік тому

      If you look up Shelly Renee White online, you will find all the information you need. Thank you.

    • @ChaoticHoly
      @ChaoticHoly Рік тому

      @@peterwilliams6361 A...voodoo priestess. Uh huh.

    • @JakinThebox12
      @JakinThebox12 Рік тому

      ​@@peterwilliams6361 bot much?

  • @dollyl5596
    @dollyl5596 9 місяців тому

    if she can cheat on OP with AP and cheat again with that “old flame” then she is most likely continuing this till her marriage with the poor soul she caught recently with other guys, my goodness she did a g*ngb*ng with OP’s buddies too so no surprise she loves to play as the ball” in that team…with the record she had of doing I’m not surprised the baby she is carrying is not even the husband’s
    OP had the upper hand in all this as he has proof in her infidelity, lies and manipulation. Yet he chose to want out, well it’s better than getting it worse, she can turn her family against him and possibly say he was the problem why she resorted to cheating or he did not appreciate her enough or more why she chose “buddy” and many more excuses…just cut her out and move on, she is not worth it

  • @two76730
    @two76730 Рік тому

    No way this chick gets more relationships than me.