well a lot of ppl say that they didn't sympathise with him because he do the same thing like his mother do.. but that what is called as traumatic experience.. he even tell her mother that he just a shell of man.. and don't know how to express his feeling to the woman he's loved.. that's what people called broken soul.. and it can't be repaired if it's broken for too long..
Just because someone had a traumatic experience, their shitty actions and the pain they caused can't be erased and excused. That's why people don't feel.pity for him.
@@Kitt-nun-cute it's easy to blame someone like that when you'll experience something like that in future ( hope so you will never ) but somehow you will then you will definitely realise that logic , humane and kindness towards people surrounding us become so much diminshed in our heart and brain. And if that continues for so long , we could have lost the capability of even knowing what's wrong or right
@@Êíøw57 I have experienced way worse than this, as a child. But there's something called accountability for making mistakes and trying to be a better person, which he clearly lack. Also, no matter how much pain you've been through, there are certain lines you don't cross. It doesn't make it ok for you to hurt, drag and destroy other innocent people, just cause you had a sh-tty childhood. There are some mistakes you'll never be forgiven for by others. I hope you never learn that lesson the hard way..
@@wakeywakey22 Not true. It's not because we are trauma-free, it's because we learnt something called holding one another accountable for evil/nasty actions. Weirdly I never see fangirls defending evil female characters with the same/similar logic. Even if someone is a cheater, or a psycho serial k-ller, as long as he's a decent/handsome looking man, there would be people defending him to the end. But female characters get hated for not giving that psycho m-rderer a chance lol 😂
No. You can choose different. It is not that you have to follow. You find the Strength. To walk a Different Path. You cannot say "Oh poor me - when I was a child they did this. " So I am this way. You fight the dark. You do better with your Wife/Husband & make the Family you always wanted & All of it Heals you🙏🏼💜
@@faizah9005 No. You can choose different💜💜 It is not that you have to follow. You have to find the Strength. To Walk a Different Path. You cannot say "Oh poor me - when I was a child they did this. " "So I am this way." You fight the dark💜💜 You do better with your Wife/Husband & make the Family you always wanted💜💜 & All of that Heals you. You have to take Responsibility for your own Life💜💜 & do better. (Many ppl do.) & they have happy Lives & make those Lives full of laughter & good times💜💜 The Past is Another Country. They do things differently there🙏🏼💜
Agreed but it is important to confront the concept of cause and effect...a farther teaches decipline but a mother teaches how to love .... when that's corrupted and suppressed over years the outcome could be so immense the we can't even see the little broken hearted boy....it's like the saying I'm not wrong what's wrong is the world..... just saying....thus the reason why God I the judge I guess... he's not right but damn is he broken
You become the antithesis of what you hate. Not reiterate the hell your parents have caused to another person. My father was an absolute narcissist and horrible husband. He didn’t cheat but he insulted and physically abused my mother. Results: I choose to stay single. Without depending on anyone. Yes it’s trauma response but I would still say it’s better than emulating what I grew up watching and tearing another person’s soul
Same. I don't understand why my fam kept on pushing me to get into a relationship tho. They already have shitty relationships, can't they tell I'm traumatized by that? * Sighs *
The problem is majority of people who carry such trauma actually inflicted the same trauma to other's. They understand and know this language and subconsciously they behave in same manner.
Yup I don't. We make our own path. We all have pain, we all have traumas. Blaming others instead of choosing to heal is just an excuse. It's like Batman and Joker, both have horrible trauma, but one chose to be good and another evil.
They know they had a problem instead of trying to fix it they go a head and continue to hurt others like how they had been hurt,they are just narcissist and extremely selfish,no excuse for them they knew what they were doing.
I don't. He made his choice to be the same. He's an adult that could choose to be better than his mother but he didn't. He chose to hurt others too knowing it hurts. No excuse. The ones who needs to feel sorry for are the ones that got cheated.
Well I do understand where people saying he could've chosen to be different are coming from. But it's simply not that simple to just 'choose' to be 'different' sometimes. Traumas can make you something you never wanted to be.
@@Avalanche1970 - "Choice" may be to simple a word. But knowing the result of his actions should have given him some control over his actions. He cheated for years. Was he respectul or "cared" enough to hide it. Could he have chosen a random woman outside their social circle or not a friend of hers, could he not have been messing around in her presence, could he not have gottene the mistress pregnant ?? Maybe she could ignored some of his actions, but the disrespect and humiliation probably took her out!
No sympathy for him at all. He could have been different from what he had lived but he choose to do the same that too to the woman he says he loves. That’s not how you love somebody.
You're r8 but there was no one who could show him the right path. Children learns from adult & express them as thry grow up. But for him there was no one
@@samiatahsin179 you're also right but once you're mature you know the difference between good and bad, and then it's up to you what you choose even if there's no guidance you clearly know what you're doing is right or wrong cause you can feel it but you are afraid to admit it cause once again you KNOW what you're doing
Well it not his fault because it happened to him since when he was small and he grow up with it because no one show him anything since when he was small to grow up
@@ania_94F how do YOU know what's good and bad? The answer is simple because you are TAUGHT by someone and growing up in this kind of environment will definitely affect a child seriously for him it'll be a normal thing to cheat there's a reason why some people become a good person and some become bad it depends on their environment so don't go around saying things you don't know
@@killua-nb1og so he was child his whole life ? And growing in a bad environment means you're gonna create more bad instead of doing good and I KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING and it's true it will affect him seriously so what I'm saying is that he/she should overcome it instead of adding more problems in their life and then regreting it and if they won't be able to do it they'll regret it even more so once again you're mature adult sit and think carefully and take wisely timed decisions and actions so you won't regret and I wasn't saying this to him only I was saying on the whole
To be honest a lot of people don't know how to be a parent Its not like its a course or something anyone can plan for easily What he went through is something people shouldn't experience but when you experience it, "That's a lesson of What not to become not a reason to make mistakes"
What's so sad is that parents don't realize kids are affected by these things they understand what's going on so he became what he hated most which was his mother did his father also cheat because that's the thing I wasn't sure the kid that him and his wife were raising is that his mother's illegitimate child or his father's illegitimate child
A drunkard have 2 son. one grew up watching his father and becoming exactly like him... The other watched his father and grew up exactly opposite like him. you see how you grew up is how you see things around you.
Hurt people hurt people. He should've learned from his mother's mistakes instead of repeating them. He chose to cheat and now he's suffering the consequences. I don't feel bad for him at all
No. You can choose different💜💜 It is not that you have to follow. You have to find the Strength. To Walk a Different Path. You cannot say "Oh poor me - when I was a child they did this. " "So I am this way." You fight the dark💜💜 You do better with your Wife/Husband & make the Family you always wanted💜💜 & All of that Heals you. You have to take Responsibility for your own Life💜💜 & do better. (Many ppl do.) & they have happy Lives & make those Lives full of laughter & good times💜💜 The Past is Another Country. They do things differently there🙏🏼💜
Everyone just say villians are bad but in reality people around him make him villain ,they torture him physically as well ae mentally Nd really what a coincidence I really feel m also a Villain bcz from childhood to now I really suffered by one of my family member But the saddest thing my own mother never tried to understand me Result is worst bcz I m not only hate that person but also destroying myself And the fun fact is nobody cares But everyone just let you feel ,they care but no one Bcz of this I have lost my good thoughts for people and now I really feel that I m heartless I m the worst version of myself now Thanks to that person Never gona forgive her
My mom did this too with my dad, with me. She secretly tried to cheat with my dad, but I caught her. I caught her many time, but she did this continuously. Now I have lost trust from woman’s. I don’t believe any women, I never loved anyone. And Inshallah, I won’t love any woman. Inshallah I will not marry anyone.
Not everyone is same my mother and father always loyal to each other.. everyone destiny is different maybe you can found good one partner in your life in future just trust in yourself and be loyal in future👍
Yes it's true he had a traumatic past and that his actions are the reflection of his trauma but him cheating was his choice if the villians don't want to become the villian who is the society to make them the villain
I feel for him and his trauma but having a child and a mistress for ten years is a choice not a mistake. Just because some one hurts you doesn’t mean you have the right to hurt someone. You got all this money and didn’t think therapy was necessary
I don’t like him at all. He did the same thing. No matter what your parents did to you or what they did in their life doesn’t define you as a person. You can always see the positive in the bad. No matter what your parents have done just shows you at a young age of what not to be like. Be better than your parents. Don’t stoop down to their level. You can have a better life than them.
It's easy to be positive. You need to experience something like that. Not every person is a hard person that can bear such things and this is beyond vulgar.
@@hollowsoul9870 I’ve experienced something worse. This is motivation for people who are having it tough. Nobody should let the bad people in their life take away their happiness or their life
@@AmusiaAsia-xp3sx I've also experienced a lot and in exchange I got so much cold that I can't even feel anything warm towards anyone and i find it horrible. Sometimes people around me show some affection towards me but I can't just know how to receive it or what words should I use for them to know that I get it what u trying to do and not to do again since i'm not capable of respecting someone's feelings anymore
No. You can choose different💜💜 It is not that you have to follow. You have to find the Strength. To Walk a Different Path. You cannot say "Oh poor me - when I was a child they did this. " "So I am this way." You fight the dark💜💜 You do better with your Wife/Husband & make the Family you always wanted💜💜 & All of that Heals you. You have to take Responsibility for your own Life💜💜 & do better. (Many ppl do.) & they have happy Lives & make those Lives full of laughter & good times💜💜 The Past is Another Country. They do things differently there🙏🏼💜
He did the same thing as his mother. What's wrong is still wrong. He hurts others. Since people on this UA-cam channel don’t know who I am, I want to share my story too. My father did the same thing as the mother character in this TV drama. He hurt my mother, he hurt us, and he broke the family. Since then, I decided to stay single for the rest of my life (well i'm 26 this year). I have never dated anyone because I know the trauma is still there, and I don’t want anyone else to get hurt because of my own trauma. I choose not to hurt anyone. So there is no justification for someone with the same trauma to CHOOSE to hurt others. What a lame excuse it would be if someone used trauma as a reason to cheat. Don't drag someone into your own misery. Please choose to heal yourself & choose not to hurt others.
So this explains why. But it doesn’t justify what he has done. From this scene you can actually see that even as a child he felt that it was wrong. So to a certain degree he understood. There are so many kids that grow up to be decent adults in spite of bad role models around them.
Don't pin your choices on someone elses your an adult now make the right decision and stop blaming the people around you and be accountable for your actions
Even if he had a past trauma cheating is cheating there's nothing to be done if anyone happened to experienced it in real life i would suggest just walk off and do well in future and live in peace 🙌🌚
The acting is on point which makes us hate that character..❤ Am i the only one who felt sorry for him!!! I know he cheated on his wife but still when we saw his past i actually felt bad ..i cried when he cried bruhh literally 🥺
Now trauma is becoming a trend and gives people excuse to do such terrible things. Even though as human growing up we learn what's right and wrong. We meet new people and see. Human has freedom to choose. Humans made mistakes and humans are smart enough to learn from that mistakes. Don't use trauma as an excuse. Villains are villain because they choose to become villains. No excuses. Period.
Sorry but I don't sympathize him....why? He didn't feel good about it since he was a child but still did it. Its a different story if he grow up seeing that but didn't feel anything and did it when he grew up since he thought its natural, but its not. can't express his love to the woman he loves? but can express warmth to someone else. Cheating is non-negotiable.
This edit alone convinced me to watch the whole series!!!!! Can i post this on tumblr?? With credits...please This edit is too gorgeous!! I wanna eat it up!!! Please!!!!
Yes he could have been different from his parents and break generational trauma, but it's not that easy. A lot of people don't recognize the pain in themselves until later in their life and the harm is done. It's not just something you always can grasp and switch around. Yes you can do better, make different choices go to therapy, surround yourself with better people and a better environment. But first you have to find out about yourself, recognize your actions are driven by trauma and believe you are worthy enough of change and you can take care of yourself and others. A lot of people don't get all of that. If it were so easy, a lot less people would turn into shitty or broken adults, who harm themselves our the people around them. Edit: I don't think it's an excuse, it is an explanation on how his life turned out to be like this. Of course he is responsible.
i have seen my mother doing the same thing as this one. we are not this rich of course but the damage and harm that have caused are the same. she is doing the same thing as her mother and she thinks it's ok because her mother did the same thing. I hate her and can't even tell my mom, I don't know why but this doesn't seem right in any way. sometimes it takes decades to9 understand that what we saw as child and did to others was wrong.
I’m sorry but I feel no sympathy for him. Yes I understand he went thru a lot when he was a child but every human has been gifted a brain. Every human has been given wisdom. If he had problems there’s a thing called help. Even he didn’t wanted to seek help he was lucky enough to find a good woman but he threw it all away. Whatever he did every action of him was his “choice” he was not forced to do it. He had the power to control himself, his every action. Yet he didn’t he cheated on her over and over never stopping. She would’ve understood his struggles if he let her. She would stand with him and help him in every way possible all he had to do was share his mental health issues with her,his insecurities, his problems but no instead chose to ruin it all just because his mother did it. It would’ve been a slap on his mother’s face if he would’ve done the opposite and become the best husband/man in the world. I loathe cheating the most in life. I understand life is no flowerbed and there flaws in it but I would everything for my man to help him get thru hard times. I am a loyal person but I draw the line at cheating. No matter how much we were in love you cheat and you’re out of my life. And thru my experience a lot of woman are like that. So he had it coming.
Honestly I feel very sorry for people that are gone through this. Always remember that you are the exception and you will have a better life than your parents that failed to raise you in a good way. Make it happen you can change and demonstrate to your parents that you are better that them
11 more thing that if you have traumas, it doesn't make that you will also be like that person who was wrong.Imagine if I'm seeing murder in my childhood and I also become a murderer and I say I have a childhood traumas so doesn't we think about the victim who has suffered because of that?I mean , you choose to be whatever you want and you are a villain if you become bad
Drama: Red Swan
Song : Summertime sadness
Какая серия?
@@ПаркПарк-б8фred swan
Where I can see it ?
First they portrait them as villan then show the most heart wrenching painful scene from them .. we can't even hate the villans
who can’t ?
After all villain are made not born
Well, something turned them into villains...
Not with NPD or pyschopath. They are born with it. @@SainDMonster
😢
That's why he has relationships problems. Some parents fail to recognize their actions affect their children . He has trust issues.
Me tooo
Me to
And just like he has,His wife did it again 😢
I can totally agree with you. Still struggling up to this day😢
Right 💯
He became the monster he was born from.
That's the thing abt childhood trauma.
well a lot of ppl say that they didn't sympathise with him because he do the same thing like his mother do.. but that what is called as traumatic experience.. he even tell her mother that he just a shell of man.. and don't know how to express his feeling to the woman he's loved.. that's what people called broken soul.. and it can't be repaired if it's broken for too long..
Just because someone had a traumatic experience, their shitty actions and the pain they caused can't be erased and excused. That's why people don't feel.pity for him.
Because they didn't go through that. The one who did knows how it feels. @@Kitt-nun-cute
@@Kitt-nun-cute it's easy to blame someone like that when you'll experience something like that in future ( hope so you will never ) but somehow you will then you will definitely realise that logic , humane and kindness towards people surrounding us become so much diminshed in our heart and brain. And if that continues for so long , we could have lost the capability of even knowing what's wrong or right
@@Êíøw57 I have experienced way worse than this, as a child. But there's something called accountability for making mistakes and trying to be a better person, which he clearly lack. Also, no matter how much pain you've been through, there are certain lines you don't cross. It doesn't make it ok for you to hurt, drag and destroy other innocent people, just cause you had a sh-tty childhood.
There are some mistakes you'll never be forgiven for by others. I hope you never learn that lesson the hard way..
@@wakeywakey22 Not true. It's not because we are trauma-free, it's because we learnt something called holding one another accountable for evil/nasty actions. Weirdly I never see fangirls defending evil female characters with the same/similar logic. Even if someone is a cheater, or a psycho serial k-ller, as long as he's a decent/handsome looking man, there would be people defending him to the end. But female characters get hated for not giving that psycho m-rderer a chance lol 😂
The actor did his job accurate af...very perfect. I literally cried while he was expressing 😢
It’s crazy how u pick up on those habits u despise the most of a person probably coz ur so focused on it
I hate the truth of this
No.
You can choose different.
It is not that you have
to follow. You find the
Strength. To walk a
Different Path.
You cannot say "Oh poor
me - when I was a child
they did this. "
So I am this way.
You fight the dark.
You do better with
your Wife/Husband
& make the Family you
always wanted &
All of it
Heals you🙏🏼💜
@@faizah9005
No.
You can choose different💜💜
It is not that you have
to follow.
You have to find the
Strength. To Walk a
Different Path.
You cannot say "Oh poor
me - when I was a child
they did this. "
"So I am this way."
You fight the dark💜💜
You do better with
your Wife/Husband
& make the Family you
always wanted💜💜
& All of that
Heals you.
You have to take
Responsibility for
your own Life💜💜
& do better.
(Many ppl do.)
& they have happy Lives
& make those Lives
full of laughter
& good times💜💜
The Past is Another Country.
They do things differently there🙏🏼💜
@@youreverypicture3877 it’s easier said than done..
@@youreverypicture3877 Ik us people are trying but it doesn’t happen so fast it takes patience, less expectations and distance.
I felt so sad for this kid as a grown up when he died in the drama
It was so sad
He acted so well
Both the actors are really amazing 😢❤❤
I don't feel bad for the man he is now but i do feel bad for the child he was
Still, it doesn't justify his actions...cheating is choice
Agreed but it is important to confront the concept of cause and effect...a farther teaches decipline but a mother teaches how to love .... when that's corrupted and suppressed over years the outcome could be so immense the we can't even see the little broken hearted boy....it's like the saying I'm not wrong what's wrong is the world..... just saying....thus the reason why God I the judge I guess... he's not right but damn is he broken
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You become the antithesis of what you hate. Not reiterate the hell your parents have caused to another person.
My father was an absolute narcissist and horrible husband. He didn’t cheat but he insulted and physically abused my mother.
Results: I choose to stay single. Without depending on anyone. Yes it’s trauma response but I would still say it’s better than emulating what I grew up watching and tearing another person’s soul
Same. I don't understand why my fam kept on pushing me to get into a relationship tho. They already have shitty relationships, can't they tell I'm traumatized by that? * Sighs *
HAha you wrong, sometime you have to become like them to win, not saying in his case but in some cases.
@@thematrix2661 win against who? What's the point of winning when u'll lose urself against the person u hate?
@@ly.ad_0284 winning is winning and some time you have no choice.
You are right it's better
Villains are not born they are created by the society
A wise person
he hate his mother for cheating
He done same what difference
Don't sympathize him
The problem is majority of people who carry such trauma actually inflicted the same trauma to other's. They understand and know this language and subconsciously they behave in same manner.
Yup I don't. We make our own path. We all have pain, we all have traumas. Blaming others instead of choosing to heal is just an excuse.
It's like Batman and Joker, both have horrible trauma, but one chose to be good and another evil.
Psychology says people having complex trauma create what they hate
@@PotatoChibi-ci4om Sad.
They know they had a problem instead of trying to fix it they go a head and continue to hurt others like how they had been hurt,they are just narcissist and extremely selfish,no excuse for them they knew what they were doing.
I literally feel bad for him😢😢😢
He knew his behavior was not good. Trauma or not. He could have chosen to be different from what he had seen as a child. 😢
Every person is different,not everyone is like you@@mizbootsie8175
I don't. He made his choice to be the same. He's an adult that could choose to be better than his mother but he didn't. He chose to hurt others too knowing it hurts. No excuse.
The ones who needs to feel sorry for are the ones that got cheated.
Well I do understand where people saying he could've chosen to be different are coming from. But it's simply not that simple to just 'choose' to be 'different' sometimes. Traumas can make you something you never wanted to be.
@@Avalanche1970 - "Choice" may be to simple a word. But knowing the result of his actions should have given him some control over his actions. He cheated for years. Was he respectul or "cared" enough to hide it. Could he have chosen a random woman outside their social circle or not a friend of hers, could he not have been messing around in her presence, could he not have gottene the mistress pregnant ?? Maybe she could ignored some of his actions, but the disrespect and humiliation probably took her out!
Doing exactly what his mother did
His acting was sooooo good and song feets well to this part ❤
Thats the best example of villains are not born they are made
" Villians are not born, they are made " 😢
I didn't liked him much at first but after knowing his real self he became my favourite!❤
No sympathy for him at all. He could have been different from what he had lived but he choose to do the same that too to the woman he says he loves. That’s not how you love somebody.
You're r8 but there was no one who could show him the right path. Children learns from adult & express them as thry grow up. But for him there was no one
@@samiatahsin179 you're also right but once you're mature you know the difference between good and bad, and then it's up to you what you choose even if there's no guidance you clearly know what you're doing is right or wrong cause you can feel it but you are afraid to admit it cause once again you KNOW what you're doing
Well it not his fault because it happened to him since when he was small and he grow up with it because no one show him anything since when he was small to grow up
@@ania_94F how do YOU know what's good and bad? The answer is simple because you are TAUGHT by someone and growing up in this kind of environment will definitely affect a child seriously for him it'll be a normal thing to cheat there's a reason why some people become a good person and some become bad it depends on their environment so don't go around saying things you don't know
@@killua-nb1og so he was child his whole life ? And growing in a bad environment means you're gonna create more bad instead of doing good and I KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING and it's true it will affect him seriously so what I'm saying is that he/she should overcome it instead of adding more problems in their life and then regreting it and if they won't be able to do it they'll regret it even more so once again you're mature adult sit and think carefully and take wisely timed decisions and actions so you won't regret and I wasn't saying this to him only I was saying on the whole
To be honest a lot of people don't know how to be a parent
Its not like its a course or something anyone can plan for easily
What he went through is something people shouldn't experience but when you experience it, "That's a lesson of What not to become not a reason to make mistakes"
I think what hurt him the most was the fact that she was unrepentant 😢
What's so sad is that parents don't realize kids are affected by these things they understand what's going on so he became what he hated most which was his mother did his father also cheat because that's the thing I wasn't sure the kid that him and his wife were raising is that his mother's illegitimate child or his father's illegitimate child
the fact that I can relate to this a bit... 💔
😢😢😢very sad . When parents are ignoring to children at last children will suffer 😔
A drunkard have 2 son.
one grew up watching his father and becoming exactly like him... The other watched his father and grew up exactly opposite like him. you see how you grew up is how you see things around you.
I feel his pain he doesn't deserve this 🥺💔💔💔
𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘵'𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘺 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘢𝘪𝘥 " 𝘈𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘥 "
Hurt people hurt people. He should've learned from his mother's mistakes instead of repeating them. He chose to cheat and now he's suffering the consequences. I don't feel bad for him at all
No.
You can choose different💜💜
It is not that you have
to follow.
You have to find the
Strength. To Walk a
Different Path.
You cannot say "Oh poor
me - when I was a child
they did this. "
"So I am this way."
You fight the dark💜💜
You do better with
your Wife/Husband
& make the Family you
always wanted💜💜
& All of that
Heals you.
You have to take
Responsibility for
your own Life💜💜
& do better.
(Many ppl do.)
& they have happy Lives
& make those Lives
full of laughter
& good times💜💜
The Past is Another Country.
They do things differently there🙏🏼💜
R.I.P Yongkook 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 you deserves to have a better life 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Everyone just say villians are bad but in reality people around him make him villain ,they torture him physically as well ae mentally
Nd really what a coincidence I really feel m also a Villain bcz from childhood to now I really suffered by one of my family member
But the saddest thing my own mother never tried to understand me
Result is worst bcz I m not only hate that person but also destroying myself
And the fun fact is nobody cares
But everyone just let you feel ,they care but no one
Bcz of this I have lost my good thoughts for people and now I really feel that I m heartless
I m the worst version of myself now
Thanks to that person
Never gona forgive her
The cast was so accurate 🤩
My mom did this too with my dad, with me. She secretly tried to cheat with my dad, but I caught her. I caught her many time, but she did this continuously. Now I have lost trust from woman’s. I don’t believe any women, I never loved anyone. And Inshallah, I won’t love any woman. Inshallah I will not marry anyone.
Not everyone is same my mother and father always loyal to each other.. everyone destiny is different maybe you can found good one partner in your life in future just trust in yourself and be loyal in future👍
Yes it's true he had a traumatic past and that his actions are the reflection of his trauma but him cheating was his choice if the villians don't want to become the villian who is the society to make them the villain
That man was broken from a very early age....it was soo sad.
I feel for him and his trauma but having a child and a mistress for ten years is a choice not a mistake. Just because some one hurts you doesn’t mean you have the right to hurt someone. You got all this money and didn’t think therapy was necessary
Snowflake thinning - sorry
Therapy is Not for Everybody💜💜
He could have avoided those blunders her mother did. He knew the feeling of being cheated. So why did he made the same mistake?
He is the most affected person as oh wan soo and so do yeon
Loved the drama❤❤❤
Wow my life is being show cashing as a ideal traumatic character building back story
Cheating and Actions Sometimes isn't choice , But Programming...
Same Consequences though...But different Self Destruction...
I don’t like him at all. He did the same thing. No matter what your parents did to you or what they did in their life doesn’t define you as a person. You can always see the positive in the bad. No matter what your parents have done just shows you at a young age of what not to be like. Be better than your parents. Don’t stoop down to their level. You can have a better life than them.
Thanks for positive and inspiring comment
@@ThuThuyNguyen-sy5vj of course!!! Thank you for liking my comment :D
It's easy to be positive. You need to experience something like that. Not every person is a hard person that can bear such things and this is beyond vulgar.
@@hollowsoul9870 I’ve experienced something worse. This is motivation for people who are having it tough. Nobody should let the bad people in their life take away their happiness or their life
@@AmusiaAsia-xp3sx I've also experienced a lot and in exchange I got so much cold that I can't even feel anything warm towards anyone and i find it horrible. Sometimes people around me show some affection towards me but I can't just know how to receive it or what words should I use for them to know that I get it what u trying to do and not to do again since i'm not capable of respecting someone's feelings anymore
No.
You can choose different💜💜
It is not that you have
to follow.
You have to find the
Strength. To Walk a
Different Path.
You cannot say "Oh poor
me - when I was a child
they did this. "
"So I am this way."
You fight the dark💜💜
You do better with
your Wife/Husband
& make the Family you
always wanted💜💜
& All of that
Heals you.
You have to take
Responsibility for
your own Life💜💜
& do better.
(Many ppl do.)
& they have happy Lives
& make those Lives
full of laughter
& good times💜💜
The Past is Another Country.
They do things differently there🙏🏼💜
He did the same thing as his mother. What's wrong is still wrong. He hurts others.
Since people on this UA-cam channel don’t know who I am, I want to share my story too. My father did the same thing as the mother character in this TV drama. He hurt my mother, he hurt us, and he broke the family. Since then, I decided to stay single for the rest of my life (well i'm 26 this year). I have never dated anyone because I know the trauma is still there, and I don’t want anyone else to get hurt because of my own trauma. I choose not to hurt anyone.
So there is no justification for someone with the same trauma to CHOOSE to hurt others. What a lame excuse it would be if someone used trauma as a reason to cheat.
Don't drag someone into your own misery. Please choose to heal yourself & choose not to hurt others.
So this explains why. But it doesn’t justify what he has done.
From this scene you can actually see that even as a child he felt that it was wrong. So to a certain degree he understood.
There are so many kids that grow up to be decent adults in spite of bad role models around them.
Still it doesn't mean you can cheat also
Enemies were never born they were created!💔
Just because mom is cheating frequently and dad knew it, doesn’t necessarily be the blame of the child sufferings. It must be something else Extra.😅
Don't pin your choices on someone elses your an adult now make the right decision and stop blaming the people around you and be accountable for your actions
Единственная женщина, которую я любил😢
Tears are falling already wow 😢
Now i finally understand him.. going to watch this drama 😢
Powerful performance......damn wish this was on Ike or Netflix or Prime or UA-cam..........
And she has the nerve to wanna get rid of her? Men like this, the more they cheat...the more they hate themselves
Even if he had a past trauma cheating is cheating there's nothing to be done if anyone happened to experienced it in real life i would suggest just walk off and do well in future and live in peace 🙌🌚
You always have a choice to heal and move forward especially if you love someone it can be for them
“ villains are not born they made”
Pls which app you use for editing??
newly married couples should give time to themselves but they MUST be very CAREFULL after becoming A PARENT..........
Why I never wanna have a bf. I don’t wanna be abused
He deserves all the love care from their family and wife I'm not happy with his ending
If u hv relationship prblms then don't do relationship and hurt innocent people, cheating is not excuse
The acting is on point which makes us hate that character..❤ Am i the only one who felt sorry for him!!! I know he cheated on his wife but still when we saw his past i actually felt bad ..i cried when he cried bruhh literally 🥺
Now trauma is becoming a trend and gives people excuse to do such terrible things. Even though as human growing up we learn what's right and wrong. We meet new people and see. Human has freedom to choose. Humans made mistakes and humans are smart enough to learn from that mistakes. Don't use trauma as an excuse. Villains are villain because they choose to become villains. No excuses. Period.
*THIS IS HOW VILLIANS ARE FORMED* :C
Telling people to Follow their dreams 8/50
Am planning to watch this drama...is it good??
No wonder villains aren't born but created...😢💔
Series name???
He hates cheaters but cheated himself😂
Where to watch
Parents need to be careful of their actions, coz karma can be passed to the children
The bitter true is always a soft heart becomes villain.
Drama name
Sorry but I don't sympathize him....why? He didn't feel good about it since he was a child but still did it. Its a different story if he grow up seeing that but didn't feel anything and did it when he grew up since he thought its natural, but its not.
can't express his love to the woman he loves? but can express warmth to someone else. Cheating is non-negotiable.
This edit alone convinced me to watch the whole series!!!!!
Can i post this on tumblr?? With credits...please
This edit is too gorgeous!! I wanna eat it up!!! Please!!!!
The Only thing that a child can never tolerate😡😡🤬
Yes he could have been different from his parents and break generational trauma, but it's not that easy. A lot of people don't recognize the pain in themselves until later in their life and the harm is done. It's not just something you always can grasp and switch around. Yes you can do better, make different choices go to therapy, surround yourself with better people and a better environment. But first you have to find out about yourself, recognize your actions are driven by trauma and believe you are worthy enough of change and you can take care of yourself and others. A lot of people don't get all of that. If it were so easy, a lot less people would turn into shitty or broken adults, who harm themselves our the people around them.
Edit: I don't think it's an excuse, it is an explanation on how his life turned out to be like this. Of course he is responsible.
Yarr his death was so sad 😢😢 😭
Episode?
Wait …. He cheated on his wife and now he’s calling her a cheater?! Typical
Did you even saw how he was influenced due to the childhood trauma his mother has turned him into
@@sm_91Stop making up sh!t to justify Infidelity.
bro rlly had to witness his mother cheating on his own father thats just painful and hard to take in
It’s kind of similar to me.
i have seen my mother doing the same thing as this one. we are not this rich of course but the damage and harm that have caused are the same. she is doing the same thing as her mother and she thinks it's ok because her mother did the same thing. I hate her and can't even tell my mom, I don't know why but this doesn't seem right in any way. sometimes it takes decades to9 understand that what we saw as child and did to others was wrong.
I feel very sorry for the people who had parents like this. I hope you and the other people who have gone through this will have a happy life🤗
Wow! Your father knows.
We are so broken that we break the one we love.
So twisted.
I’m sorry but I feel no sympathy for him. Yes I understand he went thru a lot when he was a child but every human has been gifted a brain. Every human has been given wisdom. If he had problems there’s a thing called help. Even he didn’t wanted to seek help he was lucky enough to find a good woman but he threw it all away. Whatever he did every action of him was his “choice” he was not forced to do it. He had the power to control himself, his every action. Yet he didn’t he cheated on her over and over never stopping. She would’ve understood his struggles if he let her. She would stand with him and help him in every way possible all he had to do was share his mental health issues with her,his insecurities, his problems but no instead chose to ruin it all just because his mother did it. It would’ve been a slap on his mother’s face if he would’ve done the opposite and become the best husband/man in the world. I loathe cheating the most in life. I understand life is no flowerbed and there flaws in it but I would everything for my man to help him get thru hard times. I am a loyal person but I draw the line at cheating. No matter how much we were in love you cheat and you’re out of my life. And thru my experience a lot of woman are like that. So he had it coming.
Villans are not bad they are made😢😢😢
Things are getting out of hand for the vice-chairman he can't even protect his love because of his family😢
Ntg relatable yet i cried
People who went through the exact same experience as a kid attend here 👇🏼
Me first lol
Honestly I feel very sorry for people that are gone through this. Always remember that you are the exception and you will have a better life than your parents that failed to raise you in a good way. Make it happen you can change and demonstrate to your parents that you are better that them
That doesn't looks like acting, it was so realistic..
what happened with the man in his childhood? someone pls explain
Villains are not born they are produced by the society 😢😢😢😢😢😢
And women say teach boys to make them gentle men. No Treat them like a gentle man first
This drama is good?
If this is trauma then my entire childhood is trauma full and it is because I saw those things at the age of 5 that just ........... 💔
That's why a family centric man should marry a family centric woman without past
Shame, I want to hold him and comfort him. Parents shouldn't do this, it is not right😥😥😥😥😥😥💔💔💔❤️🩹 it breaks my heart
Name
11 more thing that if you have traumas, it doesn't make that you will also be like that person who was wrong.Imagine if I'm seeing murder in my childhood and I also become a murderer and I say I have a childhood traumas so doesn't we think about the victim who has suffered because of that?I mean , you choose to be whatever you want and you are a villain if you become bad