Fatherhood: How do you define it? | Fridays with Tab and Chance
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- In today's episode we talk about fatherhood. What it was like to grow up with a father and without one. Fatherhood can mean different things to each of us, lets get into it!
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Shout to chance for being vulnerable!
His fear of the camera and how he overcame that and now he sits on here every Friday and opens up for us to help us on our way! DOPE DAD! 👨🏾♥️
Back in the day we had a community of men who would step in, I wish this generation had these experiences
Same.
Definitely
I was just having that conversation yesterday.
I love how Tab looks at Chance. True LOVE.
Goodaftern., Hi, I agree with U & the way Chance 🤓@ Tab as well. 😀💕💝 YeSs, that have True ❤️. 💯👍🏾
Please do an episode with Chance's Mother, if possible, she deserves her flowers for raising Chance. Also can we get an episode with Tabitha's "Deddy"( how she pronounces it). That would just make alot of us smile, May GOD continue to shine upon you to keep spreading that Carolina Joy!!!
A. Chance didnt see a lot of fathers. It wasn't his world.
B. He couldn't miss where there was no deficit.
C. His family was his normal.
D. Life taught him what a father should be. His mother didn't focus on what he didn't have.
Perfectly summed up❤
My father passed on when I was 3yrs old but my step father was a big influence on me and taught me that a father is a man that takes you forward in life with wisdom strength and beauty to be absolute and divine.
He sounds like he was blessed to have a village 🙏🏾 . Our children need a village today 💖 Thank you all many blessings 😊
Hey Tab and Chance. I love, love Fridays with Tab and Chance!😊❤❤
I Love Tabitha and Chance.❤❤❤
I came to the comments just to say that!!! Lol
I love the way they look at each other❤
I love how how they've been married for years and still learn things about each other..it's so beautiful how their conversation flow and on camera at that..just inspiring.
Happy Father’s Day to Chance, Your Daddy and all the other Fathers and Father Figures!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
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I’m so blessed to have a husband that doesn’t mind helping with house responsibilities and being hands on with the kids. He’s the only child like Chance and he doesn’t fool with many people like Chance 😂 Happy Father’s Day!
My husband and I started watching Fri w Tab n Chance when we entered Therapy on 10/2022. I'm like you Tab my Dad is everything to me. I called him Cliffee, not Daddy. I lost my Dad on 4/13/2020 and my Mom on 4/19/2020. I miss them every day. The pain is always there but Fri w Tab and Chance get my mind off of them. I laugh so hard. Good show.
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 She gave Chance the same look that Choice gives her momma when Tab talk about her and Chance doing the nasty!!🤣🤣🤣
My life is the female version of what Chance went through, my father was not around and I never missed anything. My uncle and other family members gave me so much love I didn’t think I missed or needed anything else. It was my norm, bc it was what I saw around me growing up.
Happy Father's Day Chance and all the men who play a role in any child's life. Enjoy your day!! Happy Heavenly Father's Day to my Dad and the special men that helped form my life your spirit lives on. Tab and Chance, keep bringing us "Fridays with Tab & Chance. I love it!!
Chance testimonial on his journey of fatherhood is beautiful.
I was just like chance was. Growing up I don’t think I ever missed him because of all the love I had around me.
This was ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT and BEAUTIFUL!!! Thank you so much for sharing this.❤❤❤
He didn't realize it, but he needed that apology from his dad.
That is so true, Tab you can’t miss something you never had.
I didn’t really have a relationship with my father coming up as a child.
This notification, "Time for Tab & Chance", is the only one I pay attention to / look for. Really do appreciate you both and your sharing yourselves with all of us. Happy Fathers' Day Chance!
Happy (Early) Father's Day to Chance, Tab's Daddy, and all Fathers that read this! 💐
Everytime I watch these lovely video’s I Laugh, I cry laughing, and I love the stares you both give each other and the Black Love & Excellence! I love to see love and it’s amazing to see. Please Keep Growing & Glowing! Much Love From Detroit!❤
The intro song is everythanggg! "Bring the beat in!!" Ayeee Fridays with Tab and Chaaaance 🎶🗣
I know exactly how Tabitha feels, because I am also a daddy's girl. And although my dad is no longer here, that special bond that he left with me, will never die! ❤
My father was present when my parents were married but once they got a divorce he wasn’t. I wish I never met him then maybe I wouldn’t miss him as much or be envious or jealous of others who have what I once had.
Chance cracks me up. "They was doing some work....." "They came here on the lust......bus"🤣😂 I'm a Daddy's girl also Tab!!! Love Love Love my Daddy💜💜💜
I enjoyed the conversation and Chance's perspective was enlightening. His kids are blessed to have him as a father. Great job Chance! I know you will be a part of that same kind of village you were blessed with for other kids when the opportunity arises. Happy Father's Day!
I can totally relate to Chance growing up. I wasn't curious about my father until Middle school. The years after him passing away, I thought about him more. I really didn't think too much about him until later in life. I miss him more now.
I'm so sorry sis but I bet you had so much love from your mommy and family and I know you are the best mother in the world if you are a mom and if not when you do become a mom your going to be the best mother in the world sis I know your hurting but I know your father was hurting as well he missed out on knowing one of the smartest and gifted woman in the world keep your head to the sky sis
Y’all made it to 1 million subscribers, CONGRATS ❤️❤️❤️
Chance, I so admire you, for your being real about being a father!
Happy Father’s Day to Chance and all of the fathers and father figures out there. *Congratulations Tab on 1M Subscribers.*
This was so good. You're a great father Chance and thank you for being vulnerable and helping us understand fathers in a whole. ❤️
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You came here on the lust bus!!!!!!!!!!!! This had me rolling!!!!!!!
Love 💕 the intro song 🎶🎶🎶🤗 peace and blessings to both of you
Auntie Tab can yall talk about setting boundaries with the in-laws and projections on your marriage.
I’m an only child like Chance and when we are raised by our single mothers our natural instinct is to make her proud of us, listen, stay out of trouble, make good grades and succeed in life. Chance struggled with this topic but I admired his vulnerability and how Tab carefully navigated his experiences with his father. Regardless of the relationship with absent parents there should be some kind of communication between them so that we learn our family history and pass this information along to our children. We owe our ancestors the history behind our family life
Congrats on getting to 1M subscribers! Praying for continuous blessings. 🥰
This is a beautiful, poignant discussion! Appreciate you both for wanting to open dialogue on father (biological or not) roles and its impact❣
My son asked me if he had a dad he was about 6 at the time 😮...I answered so quickly " of course"! Lol...he said well where is he?? I said to him " when your daddy grows up and matures to be a real good daddy he's gone come looking for you".. anyways fast forward to now my son is 13 and his dad did just that!! Grew up and came looking for his son to be a father and for all the years my son cried from missing out on fathers day dinners at school etc..because he just wouldn't go or let me take his space fir the events but I feel like all the laughs he shares with his dad now is sooo satisfying! I wish all the fathers who feel guilty for not being there would show up for the kids!! Deal with the guilt/shame with therapy but if the child is willing to meet you fathers out there I say go for it!! 😊
I really enjoyed this talk. So much truth shared. Thank you
Chance is a strong man and father!!!
I’m excited… I anticipate Fridays with uncle Chance and auntie Tab❤
Well you deserve to buy a Father's Day gift for yourself for once. I love watching you guys.
Chance had a lot of puzzle pieces to make him who he is. There are puzzles that have different numbers of pieces. He had like a 200-piece puzzle where others had 20 pieces of puzzles because the men played a bigger role in their life. But both make great men
Chance and I have a similar vantage point. I had a grandfather who was Father I came to know.
Fridays! Fridays! Fridays! with Tab and Chance...
It takes a village to raise kids
Chance is 2 funny...lol
😂😂😂😂 @Chance "the lust bus" 😂😂😂😂
Chance, you’re getting it right. Because I believe, you’re giving your children, what you didn’t have. Love, and understanding, wisdom and guidance
Never brought a Father’s Day gift.. hit home. I haven’t either 😢 Happy Father’s Day Chance!
Salute Tabitha Brown & Chance you both are amazing thank you auntie Tab for your outpouring of love youve shown my autism community ❤❤
I appreciate these Fridays with Tab and Chance. I appreciate your thoughtful and thought provoking conversations. It’s not easy to be truly open and honest, but I sense that you both are, and it’s also apparent that you’ve both thought about these life issues that you tackle each week. Thank you!
Ok, Chance, start with yourself, buy a fathers day gift for yourself and find several men to share a gift with. You can also rake notes from them. Maybe you see something you want to replicate from them.
Thank you Tab and Chance for taking the time out to have these important conversations ❤
I get it.. my dad was not around until I was 22yrs old my mom died when I was 12.. I’m used to not having parents and I don’t have any feelings towards my dad. So I don’t call and check on him because it’s not something that cross my mind also when I’m going through things or need something I don’t call him because I forget and it doesn’t come to mind to call him.
Your are such a inspiration you both keep on going when you can talk on this please address the subject of personal hygiene here in Michigan we use to have a great radio host whom was a women men would talk to her about women's hygiene and it just important for women to know plusen as well thank you again
Salute Team Brown
Congratulations 🎉 Auntie Tab on your 1M subscribes ❤
Tabitha, you blessed to have been raised with your father guiding and teaching you through life. You are truly a daddy's girl. I didn't have that luxury and to many of us; it is a luxury. It's not the norm. I can relate more to Chance, you can't miss something you never had. I met my dad later in life and I even got to know of him as person and a man. I still never met the father in him. I saw a father in others growing up and through life. My understanding of father finally came through my personal growth with God and the understanding of His word. I am a Father's girl too but it is to my Father in Heaven. I think for Chance to be the amazing father and husband is a testimony to a man wanting differently for himself and his children and wife. It's obviously you have to want to be different from your norm. It's a choice rather than making excuses to being what the stats say about your norm. I can relate. Thank you both for this conversation. It's a much needed topic in this day and time back then, but Chance is an excellent example than you can over the fatherless syndrome and still be a GREAT father. It is a CHOICE....Happy Father's Day today and every day after today Chance 💙🙏 I love you both... May God continue to bless you and keep you in good health and spirits.
Great questions Tab! 👏👏 Thank you for sharing Chance and Happy Father's Day! 🌟 Awesomeness conversation Tab and Chance! 🙌
Thank you both for your realness and just sharing your positive vibes. You're both an inspiration and the world need more of this! Happy Father's Day to all the fathers/uncles/men who act in the role of a father.
Happy Father’s Day….Thank you sooooo much CHANCE…. for sharing YOUR story with us all… Blessings to you both!!!
As a little girl, I have never desired to know my dad🤔 I’m 54 now
Uncle Chance reminded me that it does take a village to raise a child. Uncle Chance had a real village ❤of elders
💓🤎🖤💟🙏🙏😇God Bless you Chance❣🤍
Hallelujah, I saw God all up in your story chance.
Hearing tab and chance completely different experience with "fathers" actually explains A LOT about my own. Always Present but NOT PRESENT at the same time.... Hard working, and here, but not loving, patient or present in mine or his grandchildren's lives, so still feel a void🤔
This resonated with me. I knew my dad but he was never a dad to me. I had my step daddy who was dad but when I was younger I always wished my biological dad was there but mom never talked down on my biological dad she let me snd my siblings see that he didn’t want or care for us.
Chance! Let Tab dance she is bringing in the Joy Spice! Chance next Friday we want to see you doing a dance too with the Chance Spice! 💃🏽 ❤🎉🌶🌿🕺🏾🎷🧂🌶✨️
I understand Chance. I never longed for a daddy either because I didn’t know what it was like to have a dad. Can’t miss or long for what you never had.
Yes Tab, Chance, mother did a good job keeping him happy. Thanks Tab, for letting him release is childhood.
Really great episode Tab and Chance. I especially appreciate the mention of you telling your two daughters that they should be proud that they contributed to the way their younger brother is coming up. As the eldest myself I have definitely struggles with feeling like the guinea pig child. Like all the mistakes were made on me, but I'm so glad my brother and sister (who are 12 and 13 years my junior) are where they are in life. That was a much better perspective on the matter.
This was a wonderful video and topic.
Love y'all Tab and Chance ❤❤❤
I'm the same as Chance, in that I never once wondered or missed having a dad. He was never there for me to miss, so I can't miss what I don't know. After over 35 years two years ago he got in contact...but nothing has changed. I don't feel the need to call him. He'll try to call here and there but honestly I ignore the calls and make some excuse later on text. We don't have anything in common like that, so I'm good. I do recognise that situation in itself is sad though.
Brother, keep in mind, though I don't know your story, it sounds like you're that father you never had to your children. Give yourself some credit for that. You are present and relatable with your children. You are making provisions for them.
You're also present for your wife. That's a great man. Man of God! Keep up the great work.
My Favorite Queen and King, The Browns ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Chance You are Amazing My Nephew died not knowing his dad and was in therapy for years because of my sister, Proud of 😢 Chance Happy Father’s Day!!!!!
Happy Father’s Day!❤️🎉🎉
Can someone say talk show? with tab and chance
U guys r AWESOME!!! Tab I would love meet u...love ur spirit...
HAPPY FABULOUS💖FRIDAY YALL
Happy Father’s Day Chance. And to all the fathers that are reading this❤
I love my mom, but I LOOOOVVEEEE my daddy! I'm a daddy's girl and I appreciate you Donnie Lee Mack got never leaving your baby, your name sake. I hope you are proud of me. RIH daddy I love you way past death 🥹🥹🥹
This topic and discussion was great!!!!! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Amen , Chance, Happy Father’s Day, to all the Fathers!
I'm a father's girl as well I'm the only girl out of six boys and and my three best friends didnt have a father but he was a father to them as well we're in our early fifties now my Father is gone home😢 now my mommy as well he was the best thing the smartest man on earth no one on this earth couldn't no way walk a mile in my father's shoes love you Tab and Chance
Chance, thank you for sharing your story with us. My father was also not present and I get very uncomfortable talking about it. Thanks for having the courage to share with us, and Tab thank you for guiding the conversation. You guys are AWESOME!
I can totally relate to Chance. U can’t miss something that you never had. It was normal to me as well. Ppl think I’m crazy to not yearn for that father figure. I just don’t.
Happy Father’s Day we love and appreciate all y’all do and the example (positive) y’all demonstrate to our children families and in the community
The intro 🙌🏾🔥🔥
😂😂😂 my lil brother crazy I love you both you two always makes me smile
Happy Father's Day Chance. Love you two so much!!!! Keep helping us.
Thank you, Tab and Chance! I like when Chance said "speak life into me." POWERFUL! That's what it all boils down to, imo, in those critical moments from a father or father figure!
I had & knew my Dad, YahWeh rest his soul cause I just lost him Jan. 21, 2023 😢.... I am still going thru right now dealing with his passing 😔 & this was the 1st Father's Day without him 😔.... He didn't raise me though & our relationship was not the Best @ ALL & I still wished it was better, but those days r now gone 🥺.... I dew know 1 thing for sure though, even though our Relationship as Dad & Daughter was not Great, I know Deep Down in my now 💔 that he Loved me & I him 💯!!!! Continue 😴ing N ☮ DaDDy!!!!!!! 💙
You know we love you guys, deeply appreciate you from sharing with the world about The Importance of Community and it doesn't have to be family.. Stay blessed, keep shining and let's go! 👪👪👪👪👪👪
Chance....this is your cousin Phillip. Love ya'll bro just talked to mom's call me.
👋🏾 Thank you for being transparent. I can relate to @Tabitha Brown's husband, Chance, being fatherless. It's true what he says. You never miss what you never had.
I can’t relate to Chance.. My Father was the only Parent in my life.. Knew my mother but My Dad was the One not the Two.. Did everything to make sure we had everything we needed I’m a 70’s Baby.. An today my Dad live with me.. He’s a Grandpa Now we Love Him Very Much..