I had a coworker that got on my nerves asking me questions about stuff I felt as if she should already know sweet girl but I just wanted to clock in and clock out but I am a nice person and willing to help so I would answer her questions about the bible or about debt etc. She wanted to persue other things and put in a 2 week notice. She told me that she looked up to me and seen me as her mentor and thanked me for everything. That absolutely changed my life and I didn't know she seen me as such I thought she was just a naive 24 yr old blondey. It definitely changed my views on new people I meet and my willingness and want to answer people questions or concerns no matter how small I think it is.
That's why you/we have to stop judging people and stop mistreating people who simply want to know more. Like, how can you even knock someone who wants to gain knowledge from you or better themselves? She could have been an angel in disguise, someone there to bless you; that's why it's important to be kind and be helpful to people. Glad you were able to gain that wisdom!
I'm glad that you had a change of heart. People may get under your skin by asking questions, but keep in mind that there was a time when you just didn't know and someone helped you. We carry the fruit of the spirit so others can pluck it; that is how we grow and become a blessing to others. God bless you.
They are definitely not humble. Many use the word humble is the wrong context. The definition of humble is 1.having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance 2.of low social, administrative, or political rank. This is most certainly not them.
Everyone has mentors whether they realize it or not. Mentors are nothing more or less than those who influence our lives (actions, thoughts and decisions). Some mentors are just closer than others... if the truth be told.👍🏾💯
@@mrsbrownsugarsweetz Dear one. You have mentors. Think about all the people who helped influence and shaped your life through actions, words and decisions down through the years. The word mentor is thought about so deeply that we fail to realize how many people have mentored us over the years. Remember... some mentors are closer than others.👍🏾💯
Tab you are so my internet mentor. I got Tab Time on my desktop and play an ep to set me on a super positive and productive path for my day. That show is not just for kids. It's for adults too who would never burn their Kid Card cause they know how valuable it is to their contextual awareness in a world that seems to be in free fall. And I haven't missed watching "Fridays w/ Tab and Chance" because the vibe is so lovingly instructive. Even though last weeks show creeped me out a bit. I made sure I had my nigh lights way up that night. LOL!!!!
I love the way Tabitha looks at Chance when he's speaking.😍 Their love is so beautiful. You can clearly tell how much they've invested into their marriage. Love them!!♥♥
When I think of mentors in religion I think of discipleship, people who choose to walk alongside others and help them not exactly coaching them or having a relationship with God for them. Moreso for accountability and strengthening, especially for those who weren’t raised Christian.
Tabitha you a mentor of me I was a sick person I had all kind of problems medical high blood pressure cholesterol and everything else and you mentored me by making me think that I could get rid of all was that by throwing teaching I did it's been two years now and I got rid of everything they said I had and I want to thank you so much for giving me the courage to do that thank you thank you thank you
Chance, I understand, what you’re saying. If you mentor, young people, on education, loving oneself, and basic life skills, being a leader, not a follower. They can become successful, in all their endeavors
Mehn, Chance epitomizes blacktly y we need r Kingbrothas around r children, esp r sons 👍🏾💪🏾✊🏾👐🏾💯 I agree, admire and b inspired but nobody's else's life, relationship, work etc will b d success keys to r lives; we must discover 4 rCelfs. ..... Tab, I knew u b All cap 😉 Btw, did y'all decide to no longer show d kids? I miss d fam but Raspek whatever u two dem best fa ur children.
Mentor's show us choices for life and expand our views. So much of what I valued came from the actions of others that I admired and not so much their words. For example there was a man at the small church I attended as a kid who was our Vacation Bible school leader. He wore a beautiful suit,spoke and sang with a deep baritone voice and really rallied all of the kids to enjoy and celebrate the the Lord. Brother Hall was my first example of a black male hero. Years later I saw him in stained overalls working at our cities' bus depot and I admired the courage it took for him to lead when his day job wore him out. There are many silent mentors whose actions guide us. God bless them.
Tabbbbbb you’re soooo funny I’m telling you such a beautiful couple just beautiful and yessssss with the mentors and Chance you’re absolutely right!!!!🫶🏾❤️👍🏾
“And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:” Ephesians 4:11-12 KJV “not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.” Hebrews 10:25 KJV “So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” Romans 10:17 KJV
Hello! Mr. And Mrs. Brown, somethings Y'all Talked About Concerning Mentorship I do not agree with and so Mrs. Tab, their are 2 True Pastors That I know of Those Are The Late True Honorable Apostle Bishop SC Johnson And The Late True Honorable Bishop EW Tookes that could open up your eyes concerning The Lord Jesus Christ, he's not personal he is universal do you understand me?
Hello Tab& Chance, Mentorship to me, is having patients, for a person. I enjoy people, I’m a people person, that allows me, to utilize my gift from God! I’m chosen by God and not by man. The Bible says many are called and few are chosen. It’s so many people are not walking in their calling, that’s why they give up so easily! I love what I do it’s a passion for the love of God.
Although I love you Tabitha and your beautiful family however I totally disagree with you on church. First of all by going to church every Sunday doesn't get you saved but, if we called on the name of the Lord and asked him to come into our hearts and forgive us of our sins and confess with our mouths that Jesus Christ is Lord then we are saved!! However anybody that you're in a relationship with you go by their place of residence and visit them, and the same goes with God, if you love him then you will go by and visit him( church) and besides God said forsake not the assembly with others. Y'all be blessed
Greeting this beautiful FRIDAY! Happy to see both of you. You both are amazing helping to motivate and inspire people. Mentorship is powerful and especially important when you need guidance and new directions for new opportunities and new adventures in a new starting place in life. You are right every marriage is different but great marriages also have a head start by learning what a marriage partnership is all about before committing yourself to a oneness. I also feel that if your desire is to be married don’t just wait to get with the person start your development process by learning and getting a mentor before committing yourself to a relationship to manifest into marriage.
Ma'am Faith cometh by hearing the word of God, so we need a True Holy Strong God sent preacher called and sent by God to open up our understanding through the word of God and if we believe our understanding will be open by the help and the grace of the good Lord ma'am do you understand me ma'am?
Chance you are True church should not be an entertainment, it should be able saving souls, so Tab please listen to your husband ma'am do you understand me?
We don't use the term we go to church in our faith, we use the term We go to worship the Lord in spirit and in truth, so we are true Holiness, so no one should not go to church unless they are going to church where all the truth is do you understand me?
I had a FB friend, just today, ask me if I was a counselor because she has learned so much from the context of my posts! This has lit a new fire under me to get my license to be a professional counselor because I do have the required education (a Master's degree in Psychology). It's like Tab and Chance were saying sometimes we can mentor others without even realizing we are mentoring them. 💖💖
Y’all are Speaking! Especially regarding the spiritual aspect, No one can Have a Relationship with God that’s based on the Salvation of Others, You Have to Know Him for Yourself ❤️ Relationship not Religionship
Yes, it takes a village (aka Mentors) to grow effectively. We were not created by God to do the journey alone. Even Jesus had to mentor His disciples. They couldn’t do the mission without His leadership 🥰
I've always gravitated towards the older people in my family (my parents first) especially in the work place for mentorship. They have so much knowledge, experience and wisdom. I don't ask people what I should do instead I ask people what have they done as well as what was the outcome.
Forget the mentorship I can see the love in the intro of this video. Y’all are an absolutely beautiful couple. I love to see Chance laughing at Tab ❤ Scoot over I’m joining the marriage.
Hi Tabitha and Chance! This was such a GREAT conversation and topic to be discussed!!! Thank You Both for SHARING this with us!!! ❤🙏🏾💯👏🏾God Bless the Both of You.
I ❤y’all…My father was a Coach and a Science teacher but he was a caring person that like to mentor his kids and was like a father to them as much as he was to me and my brother
Thank you for this episode. It may seem like religion came up incidentally but I’m glad you shared. Tab I feel your connection to the community felt and experience of going to church when you were younger and chance I feel you on finding a church that resonated with you. I loved the basketball talk. I am married to a coach with a heart for kids. It was good to hear this segment. Y’all be blessed! ❤
We All Naturally Wanna Seek God And Its Spiritually In Us To Do So. But It's Truly Only One Way To Seek Him And Over The Years I've Learned That God Is A Man Of Order And Obedience. So To Receive God's Mentorship You Must Humble Yourself First And Seek Him Through His Gospel (The Bible) You Won't Find God's Word No Where Else But There. "Seek ye out of the book of the Lord, and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and his spirit it hath gathered them." (Isaiah 34:16) KJV As God's Children We Have To Set Aside Our Own Vain Beliefs What We Think He Expects Of Us And Seek What He Do Expects Of Us. Thats The Division Between Us And God Is That We Put Words In His Mouth Rather Than Reading The Book He Left For Our Learning. Church Ain't For Feel Good It's For Correction Thru The Word. 💯 Entering Into The Kingdom Comes By Faith And Works.
This is definitely timely to me. I was just listening to a video of Tyler Perry speaking at various places motivating folks. I realized that Steve Harvey and Tyler is that for me.
Mentors in marriage I agree with Chance IF AND ONLY IF you're dealing with a situation where abuse is NOT part of the situation. Often times victims THINK their struggle is "part of the process" when IN FACT they are in danger. Who can they go to if their circle leaves them to their own devices??? YES it is a fine line but when you don't know better, solid advice for a healthy striving couple is DEADLY for a couple engaging in domestic violence.
These kids need to learn to lose. Losing gives you motivation to work harder, examine yourself, identify your strengths and weaknesses. I don't like the "everyone gets a trophy" concept. NOW, a certificate for participating is acceptable. Failures should be taught to be stepping stones❣️❣️ Success includes Failures❣️❣️
Hi Tab & Chance, This was a very insightful conversation in regards to mentorship. I really enjoyed it. Tab the analogy you used... you can be in a garage but that doesn't make you a car. My pastor here in Riverside, CA, Bishop Ron M. Gibson has been using that for years. It made me smile😊. 💜 U 2 for just being yourself.
People can be mentors but not know it. They give an example. So you can work on a relationship and get advice. Lots of things to learn, like doing your share of housework regardless of what your parents did. Like listening. Like improving your communications skills. Like learning when to pick your battles. Like not instigating. Like showing respect. Like gratitude. Like dealing with abandonment issues. Take the advice but also do the work.
The word of God states that He sent One Greater!! God never sent us a man to teach us!! Say it TAB!! Going to church doesn’t make you saved, the only way to be saved is to seek, accept and do the Will of Christ❤️🙏🏾 God is our everything and He will teach you all you need to know if you trust HIM and not man!
Anyone seeking a mentor MUST ensure that you and your mentor are equally yoked! BC it is a relationship that you form. Chance mentioned "face value," never take a "mentor" at face value, do your homework first!
Many, many, many years ago I was hired by a company and soon realized there wasn’t much my new boss could teach me. Well, I was wrong….through his actions he taught me how not to treat people, how not to embarrass co-workers etc. I walked away from that position realizing I would never be like him if I ever had people reporting to me. Guess everyone can be a mentor, it’s what you do with what you’ve learned…..good and bad.
You can definitely have mentors to help you grow in your faith. Women of faith have taught me how to make decisions (not make decisions for me) taught me how to pray (not pray my prayers for me) taught me how to hear from God (not hear from God for me). There is a personal walk and a community walk. It's dangerous to be a Lone Ranger Christian. Find good people a bible study, a prayer group, a church. Its easy to be deceived if you are out there own your own. I appreciate opinions but always the Word has to be your measuring stick.
Come on Chance!!! He is really breaking it down and I truly appreciate his guidance of mentorship! trying to show ppl the importance of an independent mindset!! Too much co-dependency going on today… don’t be a mimicker know your motives for seeking a mentor…because if you seek a mentor without having an identity you are setting yourself up for being a follower.
Pastor Barlow is my pastor, and he definitely helped me understand and grow my relationship with God. And you are so right. No one can have a relationship with God for you just like no one can be saved for you. I love you both. Blessings ❤
Merriam-Webster defines MENTOR as a trusted counselor or guide wtbs we automatically become mentors when we step into certain positions or roles. Many people are mentors but do not realize it. Mentorship requires dedication. You have to be intentional and self aware to be a mentor.
Hello Tab and Chance, I really enjoy your videos. Having or being a mentor is a gift. Not everyone can pour into others. Keep bringing us these very needed conversations!!!
This just came to me while watching. Why is it that when people talk about mentoring we think of everyone but parents. Parents should be kids first and most important mentor. I do understand that it takes a village but parents shouldn't wait for someone else to mentor their child or children.
Maybe we shouldn’t tell each other what to do, but what NOT TO DO… cause we know that won’t work, or what that will cause or the effects of THAT… so not what to do, but what not to do… stay clear of, avoid!
So listening to this reminds me of something I feel like at times professionals in some positions think more about the money then the actual job. Like teachers truly don't get paid enough, but some teachers are like when the bell rings I'm done. However, others will stay after class, extend emails and just make sure the lesson that needs be learned is learned. But yall are correct mentorship is very important to make sure that if you take on the responsibility it's your responsibility to mentor.
In the black community there are few and far between to find who are willing to take time to mentor kids. Becareful out there in asking for mentors because people will use that to their advantage. Ask but be willing to step away if doesn't feel right or they asking you to do something morally wrong.
Heaven is real, and Hell according to God’s word means the grave. Everyone doesn’t know about God yet, the babies who died before their time because they were aborted will not go to hell, and anyone else who died without knowing Jesus.
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I had a coworker that got on my nerves asking me questions about stuff I felt as if she should already know sweet girl but I just wanted to clock in and clock out but I am a nice person and willing to help so I would answer her questions about the bible or about debt etc. She wanted to persue other things and put in a 2 week notice. She told me that she looked up to me and seen me as her mentor and thanked me for everything. That absolutely changed my life and I didn't know she seen me as such I thought she was just a naive 24 yr old blondey. It definitely changed my views on new people I meet and my willingness and want to answer people questions or concerns no matter how small I think it is.
That's why you/we have to stop judging people and stop mistreating people who simply want to know more. Like, how can you even knock someone who wants to gain knowledge from you or better themselves? She could have been an angel in disguise, someone there to bless you; that's why it's important to be kind and be helpful to people. Glad you were able to gain that wisdom!
@@GoogleAccount00 Never knocked them down but definitely gained wisdom in the proccess thank you for your response
I'm glad that you had a change of heart. People may get under your skin by asking questions, but keep in mind that there was a time when you just didn't know and someone helped you. We carry the fruit of the spirit so others can pluck it; that is how we grow and become a blessing to others. God bless you.
My favorite couple on Fridays with Tab and Chance! ❤️💙❤️💙❤️💙
I love Tabitha and her Chance they are so humble
I ❤️them 2 as well. Yes they are.😎👍🏾😍🤗🥰😘
They are definitely not humble. Many use the word humble is the wrong context.
The definition of humble is 1.having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's own importance
2.of low social, administrative, or political rank.
This is most certainly not them.
Everyone has mentors whether they realize it or not. Mentors are nothing more or less than those who influence our lives (actions, thoughts and decisions). Some mentors are just closer than others... if the truth be told.👍🏾💯
I don’t but I’m hopeful that I will get one eventually
@@mrsbrownsugarsweetz Dear one. You have mentors. Think about all the people who helped influence and shaped your life through actions, words and decisions down through the years. The word mentor is thought about so deeply that we fail to realize how many people have mentored us over the years. Remember... some mentors are closer than others.👍🏾💯
Tab you are so my internet mentor. I got Tab Time on my desktop and play an ep to set me on a super positive and productive path for my day. That show is not just for kids. It's for adults too who would never burn their Kid Card cause they know how valuable it is to their contextual awareness in a world that seems to be in free fall. And I haven't missed watching "Fridays w/ Tab and Chance" because the vibe is so lovingly instructive. Even though last weeks show creeped me out a bit. I made sure I had my nigh lights way up that night. LOL!!!!
We need more of those strong family connections again! Young people today are missing out on those experiences
Plus eating at home usually is so much healthier than eating out. People rely on fast food way too much!
💯 Exactly, Yes they are, it's sad to right?
I tell my nieces and nephews all the time how blessed they are to have family👨👩👧👦 around them growing up!!! ❤
I love the way Tabitha looks at Chance when he's speaking.😍 Their love is so beautiful. You can clearly tell how much they've invested into their marriage. Love them!!♥♥
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💢💢💢💢💢💢💢
Yes you both are definitely my UA-cam mentors. God bless and I can never thank you enough for all that you do. Bless ❤
When I think of mentors in religion I think of discipleship, people who choose to walk alongside others and help them not exactly coaching them or having a relationship with God for them. Moreso for accountability and strengthening, especially for those who weren’t raised Christian.
Tabitha you a mentor of me I was a sick person I had all kind of problems medical high blood pressure cholesterol and everything else and you mentored me by making me think that I could get rid of all was that by throwing teaching I did it's been two years now and I got rid of everything they said I had and I want to thank you so much for giving me the courage to do that thank you thank you thank you
I love these open and honest conversations with you all. Love you guys❤
Yes! Mentors and Coaches are important.
Chance, I understand, what you’re saying. If you mentor, young people, on education, loving oneself, and basic life skills, being a leader, not a follower. They can become successful, in all their endeavors
Mehn, Chance epitomizes blacktly y we need r Kingbrothas around r children, esp r sons 👍🏾💪🏾✊🏾👐🏾💯 I agree, admire and b inspired but nobody's else's life, relationship, work etc will b d success keys to r lives; we must discover 4 rCelfs. ..... Tab, I knew u b All cap 😉
Btw, did y'all decide to no longer show d kids? I miss d fam but Raspek whatever u two dem best fa ur children.
Mentor's show us choices for life and expand our views. So much of what I valued came from the actions of others that I admired and not so much their words. For example there was a man at the small church I attended as a kid who was our Vacation Bible school leader. He wore a beautiful suit,spoke and sang with a deep baritone voice and really rallied all of the kids to enjoy and celebrate the the Lord. Brother Hall was my first example of a black male hero. Years later I saw him in stained overalls working at our cities' bus depot and I admired the courage it took for him to lead when his day job wore him out. There are many silent mentors whose actions guide us. God bless them.
Tabbbbbb you’re soooo funny I’m telling you such a beautiful couple just beautiful and yessssss with the mentors and Chance you’re absolutely right!!!!🫶🏾❤️👍🏾
“Faith comes by hearing and hearing through the Word of God.”
I love these Tab and Chance Fridays 💚💚😂😂
I love when you put God front and center.That's your audience base.❤
Yes, mentors and coaches. I think so.
Love yall! ❤
That’s why y’all are loved! It’s the truth🙏🏽💜✝️💜
“And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; for the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:”
Ephesians 4:11-12 KJV
“not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.”
Hebrews 10:25 KJV
“So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”
Romans 10:17 KJV
You two are made for each other 😂
Hello! Mr. And Mrs. Brown, somethings Y'all Talked About Concerning Mentorship I do not agree with and so Mrs. Tab, their are 2 True Pastors That I know of Those Are The Late True Honorable Apostle Bishop SC Johnson And The Late True Honorable Bishop EW Tookes that could open up your eyes concerning The Lord Jesus Christ, he's not personal he is universal do you understand me?
Now Tab...
Would u have been cool w/Chance on his phone while u were talking ???
U my girl...but that ain't righhhht 👀
Hello Tab& Chance, Mentorship to me, is having patients, for a person. I enjoy people, I’m a people person, that allows me, to utilize my gift from God! I’m chosen by God and not by man. The Bible says many are called and few are chosen. It’s so many people are not walking in their calling, that’s why they give up so easily! I love what I do it’s a passion for the love of God.
Although I love you Tabitha and your beautiful family however I totally disagree with you on church. First of all by going to church every Sunday doesn't get you saved but, if we called on the name of the Lord and asked him to come into our hearts and forgive us of our sins and confess with our mouths that Jesus Christ is Lord then we are saved!! However anybody that you're in a relationship with you go by their place of residence and visit them, and the same goes with God, if you love him then you will go by and visit him( church) and besides God said forsake not the assembly with others. Y'all be blessed
Greeting this beautiful FRIDAY! Happy to see both of you. You both are amazing helping to motivate and inspire people. Mentorship is powerful and especially important when you need guidance and new directions for new opportunities and new adventures in a new starting place in life.
You are right every marriage is different but great marriages also have a head start by learning what a marriage partnership is all about before committing yourself to a oneness.
I also feel that if your desire is to be married don’t just wait to get with the person start your development process by learning and getting a mentor before committing yourself to a relationship to manifest into marriage.
Ma'am Faith cometh by hearing the word of God, so we need a True Holy Strong God sent preacher called and sent by God to open up our understanding through the word of God and if we believe our understanding will be open by the help and the grace of the good Lord ma'am do you understand me ma'am?
Enjoyed this season with Tab and Chance ❤ you all
The Bible says: Seek ye 1st the kingdom of God and his righteousness and ALL things will be added unto you.
👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾Heyyyy Tabitha & Chance. T.G.I.F. Happy St. Patrick’s Day to you both.☘️☘️☘️☘️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
We definitely need strong mentors and leaders
Chance you are True church should not be an entertainment, it should be able saving souls, so Tab please listen to your husband ma'am do you understand me?
That's not true Tab we not a God sent preacher called and sent by God to preach and teach us the holy word of God do you understand me ma'am?
We don't use the term we go to church in our faith, we use the term We go to worship the Lord in spirit and in truth, so we are true Holiness, so no one should not go to church unless they are going to church where all the truth is do you understand me?
God will take you just as you are! Let him clean your heart ❤️ love ya'll Tab & Chance😊
Yes mentors can be a great help Tfs ❤
I love his passion for the Kids❤❤ Also how Tab love her husbands Passion❤❤
We need spiritual leaders if you are believers in Christ 🙏🏾
Thank you both for sharing, God bless you Tab and Chance
Real conversations I love it 👏🏽
I had a FB friend, just today, ask me if I was a counselor because she has learned so much from the context of my posts! This has lit a new fire under me to get my license to be a professional counselor because I do have the required education (a Master's degree in Psychology). It's like Tab and Chance were saying sometimes we can mentor others without even realizing we are mentoring them. 💖💖
Congratulations on your new endeavor!
Y’all are Speaking! Especially regarding the spiritual aspect, No one can Have a Relationship with God that’s based on the Salvation of Others, You Have to Know Him for Yourself ❤️ Relationship not Religionship
Yes, it takes a village (aka Mentors) to grow effectively. We were not created by God to do the journey alone. Even Jesus had to mentor His disciples. They couldn’t do the mission without His leadership 🥰
I've always gravitated towards the older people in my family (my parents first) especially in the work place for mentorship. They have so much knowledge, experience and wisdom. I don't ask people what I should do instead I ask people what have they done as well as what was the outcome.
We are always being observed by people that look like us, especially when you are successful
Forget the mentorship I can see the love in the intro of this video. Y’all are an absolutely beautiful couple. I love to see Chance laughing at Tab ❤ Scoot over I’m joining the marriage.
You said a word!!! “PERFORMANCE!” ❤
I love how God is using the both of you to inspire and motivate people all over the world. Love you Tab and Chance. ❤❤❤❤
The ending tho
I absolutely love you guys!! I feel like my marriage is similar to yours which makes you guys a mentor indirectly 😉 😊 thank you for that! ❤
Hi Tabitha and Chance! This was such a GREAT conversation and topic to be discussed!!! Thank You Both for SHARING this with us!!! ❤🙏🏾💯👏🏾God Bless the Both of You.
Hello 👋🏽 Tabitha and Chance!!! Happy Friday!! Happy St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ to you.
I got so many great gems from this! Thanks as always ❤️
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Yes it’s necessary to have mentors. I mentor people mental health back to healing.
Amen To God Be The Glory!
I see my reflection in you two thank you for doing the work naturally
That's us 25 Years in , Excellent message but we be getting sleepy when it's time. To-do the things #GodsConstruction ☮️❤️💡
I ❤y’all…My father was a Coach and a Science teacher but he was a caring person that like to mentor his kids and was like a father to them as much as he was to me and my brother
Thank you for this episode. It may seem like religion came up incidentally but I’m glad you shared. Tab I feel your connection to the community felt and experience of going to church when you were younger and chance I feel you on finding a church that resonated with you. I loved the basketball talk. I am married to a coach with a heart for kids. It was good to hear this segment. Y’all be blessed! ❤
Hey Gdm. Y'all, Tab/Chance.
Drop the Beat! Fridayyzzz, Fridaayyzzz, Fridaayyzzz with TaB. & Chanceee, Badummp
bummp bummp! 😀😂😂😘❤️this Fridaayz song & beat. 😍🤗🥰
Tab sounding like a homecoming at a HBCU. HAHAHA I WAS SINGING IN THE CONCERT...I MEAN KITCHEN AND MY FRIEND HAD TO CHECK ON ME😂😂😂😂
Tab be gettn that in Da Jerk Doe!!!! 🤣
#PissedmeOFF 😳, now I thought I wasn't gon finish the video because I kept rewinding that part!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ya so funny . Sometimes you need a mentor but God and bible always first.
We All Naturally Wanna Seek God And Its Spiritually In Us To Do So. But It's Truly Only One Way To Seek Him And Over The Years I've Learned That God Is A Man Of Order And Obedience. So To Receive God's Mentorship You Must Humble Yourself First And Seek Him Through His Gospel (The Bible) You Won't Find God's Word No Where Else But There.
"Seek ye out of the book of the Lord, and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and his spirit it hath gathered them."
(Isaiah 34:16) KJV As God's Children We Have To Set Aside Our Own Vain Beliefs What We Think He Expects Of Us And Seek What He Do Expects Of Us. Thats The Division Between Us And God Is That We Put Words In His Mouth Rather Than Reading The Book He Left For Our Learning. Church Ain't For Feel Good It's For Correction Thru The Word. 💯 Entering Into The Kingdom Comes By Faith And Works.
This is definitely timely to me. I was just listening to a video of Tyler Perry speaking at various places motivating folks. I realized that Steve Harvey and Tyler is that for me.
I lost my mom when I was young and something I heard which I always remember is to take what you like & leave the rest. That's always helped me ❤
Mentors in marriage I agree with Chance IF AND ONLY IF you're dealing with a situation where abuse is NOT part of the situation. Often times victims THINK their struggle is "part of the process" when IN FACT they are in danger. Who can they go to if their circle leaves them to their own devices??? YES it is a fine line but when you don't know better, solid advice for a healthy striving couple is DEADLY for a couple engaging in domestic violence.
These kids need to learn to lose. Losing gives you motivation to work harder, examine yourself, identify your strengths and weaknesses.
I don't like the "everyone gets a trophy" concept. NOW, a certificate for participating is acceptable.
Failures should be taught to be stepping stones❣️❣️ Success includes Failures❣️❣️
Hi Tab & Chance,
This was a very insightful conversation in regards to mentorship. I really enjoyed it.
Tab the analogy you used... you can be in a garage but that doesn't make you a car. My pastor here in Riverside, CA, Bishop Ron M. Gibson has been using that for years. It made me smile😊. 💜 U 2 for just being yourself.
People can be mentors but not know it. They give an example. So you can work on a relationship and get advice. Lots of things to learn, like doing your share of housework regardless of what your parents did. Like listening. Like improving your communications skills. Like learning when to pick your battles. Like not instigating. Like showing respect. Like gratitude. Like dealing with abandonment issues. Take the advice but also do the work.
Thanks for accepting the topic of mentorship and sharing the information to all the viewers, great for educational purposes 😀 😉 lovely family ❤️ 💙 💜 💖
The word of God states that He sent One Greater!! God never sent us a man to teach us!! Say it TAB!! Going to church doesn’t make you saved, the only way to be saved is to seek, accept and do the Will of Christ❤️🙏🏾 God is our everything and He will teach you all you need to know if you trust HIM and not man!
Joyce Meyer would always say that quote “You can spend years in a garage doesn’t make you a car”
Love all the subject matters. All about life, laughter, challenges; things to think about and family discussions where each person/family are.
Anyone seeking a mentor MUST ensure that you and your mentor are equally yoked! BC it is a relationship that you form.
Chance mentioned "face value," never take a "mentor" at face value, do your homework first!
Many, many, many years ago I was hired by a company and soon realized there wasn’t much my new boss could teach me. Well, I was wrong….through his actions he taught me how not to treat people, how not to embarrass co-workers etc. I walked away from that position realizing I would never be like him if I ever had people reporting to me. Guess everyone can be a mentor, it’s what you do with what you’ve learned…..good and bad.
Coach Prime aka Deion Sanders is a PRIME example of a coach that’s most definitely also a mentor at the highest level!!! 🐐
You can definitely have mentors to help you grow in your faith. Women of faith have taught me how to make decisions (not make decisions for me) taught me how to pray (not pray my prayers for me) taught me how to hear from God (not hear from God for me). There is a personal walk and a community walk. It's dangerous to be a Lone Ranger Christian. Find good people a bible study, a prayer group, a church. Its easy to be deceived if you are out there own your own. I appreciate opinions but always the Word has to be your measuring stick.
Come on Chance!!! He is really breaking it down and I truly appreciate his guidance of mentorship! trying to show ppl the importance of an independent mindset!! Too much co-dependency going on today… don’t be a mimicker know your motives for seeking a mentor…because if you seek a mentor without having an identity you are setting yourself up for being a follower.
I could listen to you two all day! Thanks for giving us something so beautiful to look forward to weekly. Such a blessing 🙏🏾❤️
Pastor Barlow is my pastor, and he definitely helped me understand and grow my relationship with God. And you are so right. No one can have a relationship with God for you just like no one can be saved for you. I love you both. Blessings ❤
I feel it's necessary to because often times we need someone because we get off course especially with communication.
Just love watching this two souls loving on each other. So inspiring 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Whoever did that HaHaHa in the beginning, My ear caught that👌🏽and took me back! They don't do that anymore in music.
My favorite couple, Chance and Tabitha Brown; love you both. ❤❤
Oh thank y'all. Love you❣️. I really needed this. Was good timing!
Merriam-Webster defines MENTOR as a trusted counselor or guide wtbs we automatically become mentors when we step into certain positions or roles.
Many people are mentors but do not realize it.
Mentorship requires dedication. You have to be intentional and self aware to be a mentor.
I love your shirts!! Where you get those?Love the videos too!! Just found these. Done watched like 5/6 episodes.
Hello Tab and Chance,
I really enjoy your videos. Having or being a mentor is a gift.
Not everyone can pour into others.
Keep bringing us these very needed conversations!!!
Tabitha you are sooo down to earth in every way. And that make you a mentor. I love y'all's Content thank you. ❤🥰💕💕💕🙋♀️
This just came to me while watching. Why is it that when people talk about mentoring we think of everyone but parents. Parents should be kids first and most important mentor. I do understand that it takes a village but parents shouldn't wait for someone else to mentor their child or children.
Maybe we shouldn’t tell each other what to do, but what NOT TO DO… cause we know that won’t work, or what that will cause or the effects of THAT… so not what to do, but what not to do… stay clear of, avoid!
So listening to this reminds me of something I feel like at times professionals in some positions think more about the money then the actual job. Like teachers truly don't get paid enough, but some teachers are like when the bell rings I'm done. However, others will stay after class, extend emails and just make sure the lesson that needs be learned is learned. But yall are correct mentorship is very important to make sure that if you take on the responsibility it's your responsibility to mentor.
In the black community there are few and far between to find who are willing to take time to mentor kids. Becareful out there in asking for mentors because people will use that to their advantage. Ask but be willing to step away if doesn't feel right or they asking you to do something morally wrong.
Heaven is real, and Hell according to God’s word means the grave. Everyone doesn’t know about God yet, the babies who died before their time because they were aborted will not go to hell, and anyone else who died without knowing Jesus.
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Occasional advice is okay. Great conversation! Thank you Tab and Chance!
You both are so much fun. I enjoyed every minute of this topic. 👍❤
Tabitha what do you mean about Organized Religion?