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Overcoming 20 Years of Marriage Challenges | Dear Future Wifey S6, E632
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- Опубліковано 18 сер 2024
- In this heartfelt episode of "Dear Future Wifey," we explore the incredible love story of Michael and Chavon Bethany. Their journey through 20 years of marriage is a testament to love, resilience, and unwavering commitment. Join us for this beautiful story of "Love + Worship."
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##⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
2:15 The Bethany's Love Story
6:45 Overcoming Marriage Challenges
12:30 Moving to Dallas on Faith
18:40 Financial Struggles and Depression
25:20 Spiritual Growth and Transformation
32:00 Importance of Personal Development
39:10 Healing Through Worship
45:50 Raising a Child with Health Challenges
53:20 Covenant vs. Transactional Relationships
1:00:30 Reconnecting with Faith
1:07:45 Song: "You Will Have the Final Say"
1:14:00 Encouraging Couples to Stay Strong
1:20:50 Song: "Walk with You"
1:27:30 Transformational Moments in Marriage
1:33:00 Final Thoughts and Prayer
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"Someone not committed to growth as an individual, will not be committed to growing as a mate."💣
BARs!!!!
And I will Amen to that!!
I always say this..thank you
Right that statement is SO REAL!
Major!!!!❤🙌🙌🙌Wisdom
The young woman he prayed for is me. I have been separated from my husband for 6 months, and have two young children with me, and it's just been so overwhelming.I went to bed sad with questions in my heart last night. I asked God to please give me an encounter in my sleep, but nothing happened. In the morning I usually will listen to a message or a worship, this morning I asked him "God do you have for me today" and He led me to this. Thank you so much Laterras for your yieldedness. These podcasts have brought me so much hope in my darkest hours, and I have grown tremendously.
I know this is about relationships but my God the worship❤. When he sang that last song, I felt the presence of God. This is definitely one of my favorite episodes.
all will be well🤗🫂
May God bless , comfort, heal, strengthen, uphold & transform you into your purpose, vision & path of a awesome life for you, your children & the man & mate God is preparing for you in a great testimony ❣️😇🙏 in GODS miracle power of love & restoration making you & your life,better than ever before, I n
Christ Jesus name 📛😂 🙏 I pray 🤔😂 👍 🌹 for you & your lives healing & guidance & newness , Amen !!!!!
Bug huge 😂🙏🌹💝!!!
@@olanikeshamonda73 thank you so much
Key to almost 20 years of marriage: “Both of us are pretty obsessive about working on ourselves, individually, and it’s not based on what someone else is doing. It’s because we just wanna be dope as individuals.” Chavon 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Pivotal statement. Love it.
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Look as a man I’ve only cried a handful of times. I just cried listening to him sing it is done. So much confirmation just happened for me. Walk in Faith.
Me too!!! 😮😢
FACTS
Amazing interview. His wife sorry I forgot her name, but she is the epitome of Pr 31. She spoke very few words but not a one word was wasted. THIS is how I aspire to be. 🙏🏽 ❤ 🙌🏽.
Her name is Chavon. I know them personally. They ARE the REAL DEAL❤❤❤
me too she has a beautiful personality
Yes! My thoughts exactly. She reminds me of when Carvens Lissaint said, "Tell them I was one who never spoke unless it improved upon silence." She did that ❤
@@saashaj7649 I love this saying, it speaks to me soul.
Yes I said the same. Her entire presence is Proverbs 31. Such a beautiful spirit.
My husband and I celebrated 25 years together in January! We also got married young as well, he had just turned 23 and I was almost 21. We’re still together stronger than ever!
A man who listens to My Future Wifey ✅ green flag
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This podcast is pre-marital counseling ❤
Big facts
Periodttttt
Major facts ✨🎯
I don't normally write comments, but I was led to express how transformative this episode was for me. After 23 years of marriage, I have been contemplating walking away for various reasons and I felt the Holy Spirit ministering to me through that song " It's Already Done"" that you encountered him to continue. Thank you for allowing the Lord to use you in this moment and season 🙏
Amen! Hold on in faith, enduring until the end, no matter what comes your way. You got this! God’s got you and your marriage.
Sis, I am 21 years in. I thought about separating last year and God said no. Marriage counseling saved us. I hope restoration is on the way for your marriage.
I Wish You All The Very Best In Your Journey! May God Give You Grace!💞
I loved this episode. This is year 18 for us. I got married at 25 years old and people are amazed that we are still together in a healthy relationship. I need to see more of this.
Congratulations 🔥
I pray this for my 19 year old daughter in Jesus's name. She's is beautiful, intelligent, loves the lord and never dated before. My prayer is that the lord bless her with a great husband. A young woman willing to wait is rare in 2023.
Lovely God bless her and you
I have an 18 year old daughter who also has never dated. And we are believ in God for the same. I stand in agreement with you for your daughter as well.
This blessed me and my husband! Brought us both to our knees in worship. Thank you
That’s beautiful, a husband and wife worshiping together! God’s grace and blessings rest upon you both!!🩷💙🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
Beautiful ❤
I pray my future husband listens to your podcasts! Lots of golden advice 🙏🏾🕊️
Absolutely....it's a must.
me too
I pray my current husband listens to this episode and all the rest. 🤦🏽♀️
This one in particular.
Me too!
This podcast has been my free therapy for many months!! I appreciate and love this!! ❤
It’s not just something on that song, it’s something on that couple. There’s an anointing, a peace, a righteousness that I can feel through the screen. This is one of the few episodes I’ve cried on. God orchestrated this episode for me, from their marriage story to their growth, it was all a testimony I needed to hear. Thank you Jesus🙏🏾🥹
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@EmilioYepez7 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@EmilioYepez7 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
May God give you healing and the restoration that you need.
Thank You God for this podcast! I’m in tears because I’m reminded that I’m not alone in this season! Everything my heart’s desires according to God’s Will for my life, IT IS DONE!! God help me not to become weary in well doing! I praise you in this season Father God! I wait on You Lord!!
Amen ❤
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Amen❤ this part!
I got a notification about this episode at exactly 00:00, I was in tears at that time, at the worst I have ever been in my life, feeling hurt and betrayed and having a lot of doubts.I believe that God had me in mind when He gave you the idea for this podcast. I thank God for using you and your guests in a very very special way. Please continue to pray for me. Abongile…All the way from South Africa
@@abongilewana2585 lifting you in prayer 🙏
I enjoyed this. Chavon has a beautiful spirit and her personality balances the relationship. I pray their relationship continues to grow spiritually and GOD blesses their union.
I don't usually comment but I'm always watching and his whole take on that "adolescences" season gave me chills. That was so good! Love how she's so affirmative when he's speaking wisdom.
Uncle Bethany has a nice voice. Auntie is so soft spoken and has a poise about her that is so calming yet strong
What an ANOINTED UNION, they compliment one another in so many crucial ways…..the way she supports and hold him in high regards through the good or challenged behavior. The LOVE they exemplifies is magnified through true committed faith.
She is mature enough to understand the assignment and caters to the KING he is and reap the benefits for pouring into him.
His voice is so amazing, I am now a recruited fan….job well done🙏🏾❤️
I thank God for Mike!!!! Proverbs 27:6
Faithful are the wounds of a friend; But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. A true friend.
It’s already done, because you will have the final say, Amen! Praise God! Thank you both for sharing and sharing this song!
Trials teach us who owns us, showing us as Christians that we no longer own the Rights to our Life. " For His Glory"
No Words for the level of deliverance I experienced. God led me here as an opportunity to worship. I was like....what??? And now I know. I will hold on. I will wait. I won't walk away. I trust you Lord!!! Thank you PEOPLE OF GOD!!!
Tuning in from South Africa and I just want to declare the divine anointing on this podcast. God is universal and we are all a part of the body of Christ no matter the location. Thank you to the women and men of God that purely present themselves to us through this platform, showing us the reality and practicality of God’s word and promises over our lives.
This is transformational.
Powerful!!! Thank you for ministering to us, Mr. & Mrs. Bethany! I received so much revelation. Ms. Chavon there’s nothing weird about You, You are peculiar and wonderfully made, your support & strength is very reserved but extremely evident. Proverbs 31:25. Thank You both! So powerful! Mr. Laterras, thanking God for You! Great Episode!
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Yahweh be done in my brother's marriage in Jesus name. Glory to your name Father have your way. Amen
I've only seen the opening clip, and having been "successfully" married for nearly 25 years, I can tell you the opening clip is it! If only more couples understood the difference between transactional and unconditional love. It's hard - even when it's what God joined together, but it is so worth it.
The "adolescent" phase -WOW what a word; Blessings to all of you and brother LW 😇
Lord thank you for the different seasons you allow us to go through to build are character and faith 😊
Amen 😇
“The only option you have, is to quit or grow. “ powerful.
As a single your podcast show me the practical side of what it means to be in a relationship and married. Being with someone takes patience, courage, vulnerability, self reflection, selflessness, and compassion. This podcast has blessed me in so many ways. Praying and believing by faith that I will meet the right one in God’s timing not mine! ❤
MY GOODNESS...my brain can barely contain the number of gems that are dropping on this episode....Lord have mercy. And even as the Bethany's are speaking God is showing me the why's of so many of my trials and winter seasons....my goodness. What a good Father our God is!!!!🙏🏾
🙏 amen🥰
This has to be one of the best marriage interviews that I have ever heard! So much raw, authentic, real conversation that all married couples need to hear. When we surrender our all to Jesus, everything changes for the better!🙏❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🙏
“Whatever you bring in a transformational moment..can be transformed in a moment!” PROFOUND!!! Again I say: To God be the glory for this episode and deliverance!!! Awesome God!!!❤️🙏🏽
Change doesn’t start with somebody else...it starts with you. The words of wisdom in this episode 😢😢 Beautiful, thought provoking...humbling. May God bless everyone involved in bringing this episode to life.
Blessed God… is all I can say. I’ve been married 29 years and I learn from every podcast. The covenant I made with God is why I’m still married.
When I say my soul and spirit was just so blessed from this podcast and yes Laterrus I was crying with you. Such amazing couple and the worship songs he song just was the icing on the cake. Glory Be To God!!🙌🙌🙌🙌❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏😊😊😊
See this is the type of husband that I pray for!!! It’s the honesty, humility, and the continued growth!!! I love it ❤ this gives me hope that men like this exist 🙏🏽🙏🏽
This episode was a Praise and Worship session! Sometimes all we need to do is praise and worship God! Just to be in His presence is more than enough!! Nothing but tears of joy, freedom and a reminder that God’s love for me will never end.
Thank you, thank you!!!
This one is ministering to me. Not even just the marriage portion, but trusting God through the processes he takes us through to build and mold us to our purpose. The growing! The breaking of old ways and renewing. The transition spaces between the breakthrough. To trust God and know that you know it’s already done! God is not a man that he would lie! This blessed me truly!🙌🏾🙌🏾
Wow! What a powerful episode! The moment he asked to pray and said to the young woman, I instantly started to cry from the beginning to the end of that prayer. I felt God was speaking to me through him. Thank you for this episode. God bless you all! Glory and praise be to our Lord Jesus Christ.
And the winner for an Emmy for the best podcast goes to Dear Future Wifey. So good best episode
🇯🇲 I've always maintained that everyone should have that even one person with whom they can be absolutely vulnerable and brutally honest. A place where no offense is taken within or without, mentally or otherwise, a space where deep secrets are shared and there is no judgement within or without, mentally or otherwise....a sincere place, a place where the ugly is covered by counsel and prayer and virtue is celebrated, a place where confidentiality is within the unspoken/unwritten covenant, trust is safe and gossip remains the sin it is....these are the principles that are upheld in the very few friendships I've had over the years.
As believers it is even MORE critical, not only for our spiritual health but also for our mental and physical health.
Never forget this a secret/cover-up is a weapon in the hand of the enemy used to suppress, oppress and paralyze.
..... much love
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The anointing on this episode is fire 🔥 Holy Ghost fire 🔥 I never cried watching one of these before.
The way this has ministered to me is priceless. My hope has been restored & faith has increased knowing God can do it for me.
I appreciate you and thank you for what God is doing through your Dear Future Wifey journey.
God bless you
The Presence of the Lord in this ministry has transformed my heart. The move of the Holy Spirit through the songs said it all. The transparency of the couple blessed my heart tremendously. Yes, this is one of the best podcasts, even though I know there is more to come. I cannot wait to hear the album that is coming out on June 30, 2023. Keep being a Blessing to us through this platform of influence Brother, yes keep it LIT.
This episode was such a powerful blessing. I am currently in my season of adolescence and often feel like I can’t move forward. I now know that this is a transformative experience and although I can’t see the outcome, I have restored faith that this is necessary and temporary. Thank you to Laterras and this beautiful couple for blessing me!
Thank you, Laterras, Michael, and Chavon Bethany!!!❤❤❤ This is the episode I did not know I needed. I loved the analogy of a marriage having an "adolescent" stage. I'll be married 13 years in August, and I feel like we're in this stage of marriage. I'm thanking God in advance for this temporary season. I can't wait to see the blessing He has for us on the other side of our marriage journey 🙏🏾 🎉
Wow!!!! ❤❤❤❤ Thank You All. This has been the most Annoiting Show. Especially this last song I want to walk with You. I can't stop crying❤ May God continue to Bless all of You. Thank you God! Thank you! ❤❤❤❤
I know this is about relationships but my God the worship❤. When he sang that last song, I felt the presence of God. This is definitely one of my favorite episodes.
I agree. Beautiful voice
Am I the only one that literally cries during every episode?!? The conviction, the constant eye openers and the wisdom shared takes me out every time!
i teared up too
AMEN!!! AMEN!!! AMEN!!! This is exactly what I needed to experience!! Going through a difficult season and I was feeling lost and I felt the God forgot me. I know now that he is always with me. How spoke through this episode to confirm it!!! Thank you!!! ❤
OMG.what a session! I watched your sessions all the time while I work remotely, but this one here, I couldn't do my job for the tears of praise & worship. This was powerful, it was a moment of renewal for me. I appreciate how you have allowed God to use you in this area. Some of the most powerful therapy sessions I had. Tell your guest Michael & Chavon Bethany to keep spreading the ministry through music and the Word. This was a moment to remember!!
Beautiful couple!! Awesome worship!! 🙏❤🙌 Thank you Jesus ❤❤❤
This message is for my marriage thank you lord for speaking throughout this message
Thank you , Laterras for this Awesome podcast. This Beautiful couple and Awesome music got me crying. I receive everything in the name of Jesus!Thank you for being a Blessing to others you guys! Laterras keep Shining King!
Wait whaattt?!?! I just saw this man on The Basement, and now Future Wifey 😮. My two favorite pods in the same day. This my first time hearing him that I’m aware off. Definitely appreciate his heart and listening to some of his music after this episode.
"Walk with You" brought tears to my eyes. That type of songwriting is deeply needed in today's Christian music. God bless you! 🙏 This was a great episode, and I really appreciate this couple. I see myself in Chavon. Introverts unite! Just amazing all around.
This podcast touched my soul could not hold back the tears I have experienced a creation of a song in my broken season this was a blessing keep on doing a good work for GOD❤😇😭
His eye is on the sparrow was this most beautiful conversation I had with my mother, she just passed away this past Sunday! She wants me to have a godly marriage, she wants me to have 100% joy! She is working with God! It’s crazy! I can’t even express words! This!
The Spirit is so evident in this episode. Yes it's about the marriage and yet the message of God's love thru character development is so loud!! Oh goodness. Thank you Jesus.
It was like God curated this episode JUST FOR ME!! Thank You Jesus!! Definitely buying the album and following this couple!!
Me too! 👍🏾
Thank you Jesus I needed that prayer
My favourite episode thus far just spoke so directly to my heart and confirmed God’s move in my life right now, this podcast is a vessel that continues to pour God’s word for so many of us I can testify ❤
Your choices of panel guest’s. They represent total “Unconditional Love” & how to grow, within the Most High’s Grace.🔥Amen💜
I know I say this for every episode but this is my best episode!!! Michael got me out here crying and worshipping!! His so talented 💯
At 18:59, I, too, experienced being dumped or ghosted because I was labeled “boring.” (I found out through someone else) At first, it bothered me, but I had to realize his rejection was God’s protection…..This episode blessed me.
I'm here. I ❤️ this podcast! Ready to gain knowledge because these guests bring it all the time 😁
I just listened to this episode on Spotify and it really blessed me to hear this couple speak. I never heard this brother Michael sing before but man, the songs at the end were so beautiful. Like this brother can sing man and personal worship is so important. This made me want to write again.
The gems dropped in this episode are priceless!!!
#Itstoolatetolose
#Itsalreadydone
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Did anybody else feel a running and praising in their spirit around the 57:49..i am at work watching and had to compose myself.
Hallalujuah " Its too late to loose its already done, to late to loose the victory is WON!!
The spirit is all over their union🙏🏾 This was so profound Laterras! God is using you my brother.
When he said, she pretended to come back into the Church. The question is, why did you pretend? She said because," I WANTED TO BE FOUND." I screamed!!! Only those who are waiting in faith, purposely staying lost, to be found can understand this!
I absolutely loved this episode! I know Mike and to see how he has allowed God to stand so tall in him is so amazing…I am so Godly proud of him. The worship throughout this episode was heartfelt and anointed….God’s presence was definitely felt from the beginning to the end. They are such a beautifully blessed couple. Thank you for having them on.
I don’t know how to explain how powerful this episode was everything they been through I’m going through now and this episode just gave me confirmation that I’m going to get through it… Thank you God for letting me watch this episode thank God for y’all.. be blessed ❤❤❤
Thank you, thank you, thank you! This message was for me and I receive it in Jesus name! We should not fear our adolescent stage, but rather be thankful because the transition to our purpose is going to be worth it. As long as we can grasp the fact that "we go through the valley of the shadow of death" key word is through, we ain't going to stay there, as long as we keep our faith as praise God while we are going through!! Amen!
Who else is about to get into the closet with scented candles, just to be still, worship, and pray?? I was up until 2AM watching this episode. Loved so much about it. Thanks for sharing.
Cried through the prayer as he said, God is saying stop fighting, stop resisting,. Thanks for letting God use you. I cried through the prayer. This was for me. Thank you.
🙌🏾 I love you Lord and I lift my voice to worship you, oh my soul rejoice. Take joy my King in what you hear, let it be a sweet, sweet sound in your ear.🙌🏾
Another inspirational episode. Thank you to this couple for sharing their journey. 🙏🏾
“We did not have character to sustain the vision” no I had to share this with my fiancé - May God continue to be our main focus no matter how well we “think” we may be doing- without God, we aren’t going anywhere fast or anywhere good at all !🙆🏽♀️🙏🙏🙏
"Every purpose journey has an adolescence season" So powerful!
Am divorcee since listening to ur podcasts I hv learn alot from ur guess and you nw am goin to apply some of the tools in my second marriage whn God bless me again .Thank you Sir all the way from South Africa stay blessed
Every day, I keep getting confirmation on how both individuals will need to do the inner work with the help of the Holy Spirit. As women, we will win our husbands over with a quiet, submissive, and humble spirit while allowing the Holy Spirit to do the work in our significant other.
This podcast has thought me so much. I am learning so I don't make a mistake next time. May God continue to bless you and guide you. May God bless you with a Godly woman.
Oh my goodness! So many connections to this. My journey is single now, but I hear God and there is a peace that I will have a blessed marriage one day! This gives me so much comfort, the whole season gives me comfort! Whew!
I needed this sooo much. My spirit feels so refreshed. I couldn't stop crying. Thank you so much LaTerras and Michael and Chavon for letting God use you for such a time as this. I've truly been blessed
This was so good! Such a blessing! So many people give up during the adolescent phase! Keep going!! It will all come together! Beautiful voice! Getting this album.
Lord...I can't stop crying. Blessings to all of you. In Jesus name...Absolutely loved this Podcast ❤👑🙏🏽
I don’t normally comment or cry over a podcast but the song he sang called “Already done” brought tears to my eyes. Laterris this has been one of your best shows. Your platform is definitely bringing something special to the world.💜👏🏾👏🏾
I felt the holy spirit speaking and moving through them. That prayer in the end was for me! I'm going to listen to this one again! So many gems!
Praise the Lord!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
Omg. I am old enough to be this couple’s parents, but after listening to this episode of Dear Future Wifey with Michael Bethany and his beautiful wife Chavon, I wanted to fine a number to see if I could go to counseling with them. They blessed me at 12:51 am in the morning with their interview. When he said don’t give up in your adolescent season and explained it, I felt like I could breathe again. My husband and I have been walking in that season, because of what God is calling us to do. Then he sang the song “It’s too late to lose , It’s already done. Michael I just want to say thank you and that you always bless My husband and I every time that you lead worship on Saturday evening at Gateway Church. As soon as worship starts we look to see if you are in the building with us. We will get your new music on the 30th of June. Thanks for being everything that God has called you guys to be. Much Love.
With tears in my eyes, this PODCAST/ this SONG "its too late to lose, it's already done." O my God it touched my heart and soul. Thank you guys for sharing your testimony its saving life all across the world. God blessed.❣️
Jesus, I needed this. It will be 4 years for us in October and I have faith that God will do a NEW thing! “And, it is so.” ❤🙏🏾❤️
This was one of my favorite episodes for some reason. There was so much wisdom that was shared from enduring and seeking God through hardship. Many blessings to this couple. Thanks for persevering to encourage the rest of us. 💜
Their story was powerful. However, his worship - whew 😭😭. Does he have any recorded music?
Link in bio
Thanks! I have enjoyed many of the podcasts and they have been an inspiration and encouragement to me in this season.
He said every you need the character to walk in the vision.
Every purpose journey has an adolescent season!! Whew!!😮😮
I was truly blessed by this episode from beginning to end. God blessings on their marriage and ministry.
That voice 🙌🏾🙌🏾! So effortlessly awesome & beautifully praising the Lord! You have to love that! ❤️
That adolescent period just helped me. It just blessed my whole life I was just about to turn
God Bless Dear future wifey podcast.Every episode just keeps getting better by the day.Worship was epic.Blessed couple there
I am so in love with this podcast! I KNOW God is using this platform to heal! I’m so elated to see your transparency and honesty about YOU! The guests are always spot on! Healing is the children’s bread and “Ima gone and say” thank you Baker Man with your beautiful self! I see you @Laterras!