STRANGER DANGER: The Cautionary Tale of Sade Robinson!

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 696

  • @angelabrunson8573
    @angelabrunson8573 2 місяці тому +768

    Brads, Andrew, and Matthew should be required to do/have more. Black women standards should be higher for White men because they have advantages Black men don’t have.

    • @empoweredselfishnesstv4102
      @empoweredselfishnesstv4102 2 місяці тому +1

      Yep! The system is set up to benefit them. This guy didn't even have a car. That was a big red flag.

    • @Yulondia5225
      @Yulondia5225 2 місяці тому +42

      Ditto, Sis

    • @islandgirl8067
      @islandgirl8067 2 місяці тому +32

      💯💯💯💯

    • @Leostarr812
      @Leostarr812 2 місяці тому +39

      thats what i thought!!!!

    • @bissah18
      @bissah18 2 місяці тому +82

      Preach sista cos I don't need know dusty Brad hovering around me

  • @toussaintstraditions547
    @toussaintstraditions547 2 місяці тому +704

    No woman should go to any house / apt on the first date.

    • @The-Oneness11
      @The-Oneness11 2 місяці тому +89

      ​@@ninawestlake14But at least with more dates and interactions you can get a better idea of the mind of the other individual and identity red flags. Plus most crimes are committed based on opportunity so make it difficult for them to have any opportunity.

    • @user-qk9zy1vi1u
      @user-qk9zy1vi1u 2 місяці тому +1

      Could of been prostitute

    • @starblossom1370
      @starblossom1370 2 місяці тому +53

      Yes.. first dates should be in a public location..

    • @onetallgirl1369
      @onetallgirl1369 2 місяці тому +25

      I absolutely agree! That's why I say as adults, bring back stranger danger!

    • @lynnd.5135
      @lynnd.5135 2 місяці тому +1

      Exactly!!! This is whore behaviour. You will always pay the price

  • @whitneypledger1659
    @whitneypledger1659 2 місяці тому +519

    33 and 19 isn’t it either.

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 2 місяці тому +112

      At 19, the oldest guy she should have been dating was someone in their early 20s.

    • @cece3917
      @cece3917 2 місяці тому +74

      Sad thing is he is a predator and she didn’t see it because of age and experience. But he set out on purpose with his evil.

    • @talkswithjas7959
      @talkswithjas7959 2 місяці тому +64

      I say this all the time. I feel like if you are under 25 then a man should be no more than 2 years older than you. You don’t have enough experience to date older men and there’s a reason why these predators struggle with women that’s their age. If you are a young woman that’s under 30 years of age, please take heed to the advice in this video and in these comments. Do not allow these influencers to make you feel like you should be with an older man with money. Yes a man should be a provider, but you also want to genuinely love a man and be his friend, not just an accessory.

    • @ghettogreenbeann
      @ghettogreenbeann 2 місяці тому +29

      I agree. Even when I was her age I thought men his age were gross and too old. I knew they went after younger women for a reason. He preyed on her naivety, and i really hate that this happened to her. What happened to her is so horrific and sickening.

    • @cjacquot2
      @cjacquot2 2 місяці тому +46

      He LIED about his age !!! gather all the facts people

  • @keptbygrace6221
    @keptbygrace6221 2 місяці тому +591

    "Demons come in every culture and color" - Thank you! - RIP, dear sister 😔

    • @cartro25
      @cartro25 2 місяці тому +1

      But 👱🏻 👱🏻‍♀️ are the worst with their history they have

    • @william1077
      @william1077 2 місяці тому +4

      You playing games too misleading blk women - you don’t want to talk about how messing with non blk men puts blk women in more danger as non blk men will get either reduced jail time or no jail
      Time at all if blk women get deleted by non blk men ‼️

    • @keptbygrace6221
      @keptbygrace6221 2 місяці тому +8

      @@william1077 how am I playing games? All you have to do is watch ID channel, Dateline, etc to see that no one race is more dangerous than another. Violence against women is a global issue.

    • @JamesBrooks-hj3dz
      @JamesBrooks-hj3dz 2 місяці тому

      ​@@william1077Ler brad keep unaliving they silly gullible asses.Let them FAAFO!!

    • @JamesBrooks-hj3dz
      @JamesBrooks-hj3dz 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@william1077They don't understand this bro.Its like talking g to children who are rebellious.

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette8807 2 місяці тому +330

    Let’s teach our daughters to take care of ourselves and not everyone else.

    • @sparker7768
      @sparker7768 2 місяці тому +27

      I caught that in her mom's tearful statement, that she taught Sade to care for everyone; not the message I'm giving my children, IJS.

    • @alikazan24
      @alikazan24 2 місяці тому +3

      Amen to that!!!

    • @ahmorgan
      @ahmorgan Місяць тому +1

      ​@alikazan24 did she go to his house after the date?

    • @NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime
      @NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime Місяць тому

      Y’all ain’t taking care of everyone else either, black female led households are CHAOTIC. Y’all need help but you don’t have the ability to put the pride to the side to ask for it

  • @lisabrightly
    @lisabrightly 2 місяці тому +573

    She was so young and inexperienced. I remember those years. No discernment or judgement at all.
    The boy looks deranged, but she could not see it. Bless her.

    • @islandgirl8067
      @islandgirl8067 2 місяці тому +83

      I agree! He has crazy eyes, but she was too young & naive to see it. 💔

    • @KevonnieElaine
      @KevonnieElaine 2 місяці тому

      That’s exactly what I thought of when I saw this! This man looks unwell and crazy! What would make her go out with him? He’s not even attractive.

    • @dinkyboss
      @dinkyboss 2 місяці тому

      @@islandgirl8067she just wanted a white bf because other low vibrational women on TikTok are pushing this stupid and racist “hard wig soft life” narrative and she brought in. It’s ridiculous

    • @lisabrightly
      @lisabrightly 2 місяці тому +9

      @@Kap3lka I hear you!

    • @THEIDLESHOW
      @THEIDLESHOW 2 місяці тому +41

      Most of us have done things in our youth that are incomprehensible when we get older and look back. Bottom line ladies, please only public places on the first few dates. Back in my day (pre-internet) I used to go out with the friend of a friend, or a classmate in college, basically someone semi-vetted. Just saying be extra careful with meeting people online. How can you vet someone when you may not even have their real name. RIP Sade. 😢

  • @kaylajames3098
    @kaylajames3098 2 місяці тому +197

    What I learned today as an aspiring hypergamist, keep my standards high for all colors of men.

    • @parler8698
      @parler8698 2 місяці тому +4

      Amen

    • @fa9183
      @fa9183 2 місяці тому +13

      You learnt this today?😢

    • @kaylajames3098
      @kaylajames3098 2 місяці тому +5

      @@fa9183 well, reminded of it.

    • @AmericanLord
      @AmericanLord 2 місяці тому +7

      So who did you lower your standards for before today?

    • @kaylajames3098
      @kaylajames3098 2 місяці тому +6

      @@AmericanLord unfortunately all my exes. I am not that smart.

  • @PurePosey44
    @PurePosey44 2 місяці тому +225

    The grief on her mother’s face is heart breaking!

  • @felicerobinson
    @felicerobinson 2 місяці тому +142

    The Gift of Fear should be mandatory ready for EVERY woman dating!!!

  • @THEIDLESHOW
    @THEIDLESHOW 2 місяці тому +335

    RIP to Sade. I remember the case where NFL player Chad Wheeler beat up his girlfriend unconscious. She woke up and he asked “you still alive?” 😢 😢Like Chloe says race, culture doesn’t matter. An irrational animal will come in all colors and economic brackets.

    • @donnamcintosh2109
      @donnamcintosh2109 2 місяці тому +1

      Young black girls and women should be advised to strive for excellence instead of looking for a white man to give them a lap of luxury and pampering. No man should ever be a savior. The more established a black woman is, the more discerning she should be. She should buy her own pasta and lobster.

    • @amorelockster1023
      @amorelockster1023 2 місяці тому +16

      Omg that’s horrible I hope he fits in prison

    • @bellalegendre2644
      @bellalegendre2644 2 місяці тому

      That dude's a deranged bastard

    • @philiphunter4493
      @philiphunter4493 2 місяці тому +1

      Yeah but what wasn't told was that wheeler was with a sex worker who he made his girlfriend, most white men do this because of their culture and being control freeks

    • @user-vf5bv6vo4b
      @user-vf5bv6vo4b Місяць тому

      😅

  • @dejamcdiva4616
    @dejamcdiva4616 2 місяці тому +95

    I remember when I was chatting with an old wm… the first thing he said to me was I’d like to take you to go hunting…I didn’t need to hear anything else..it was blockity block everywhere. Go take ya momma hunting.

    • @lolaispure4296
      @lolaispure4296 23 дні тому +1

      😂😂wow take you hunting. I am glad you Ran on his ass, sis

  • @cv8452
    @cv8452 2 місяці тому +167

    Do a background check on everyone before you date them. Don’t let looks and words fool you.

    • @Anna-st5dm
      @Anna-st5dm 2 місяці тому +56

      And still don’t let down your guard. A background check tells nothing if they’ve never gotten caught.

    • @Lisette121
      @Lisette121 2 місяці тому +16

      Yep. I found out on two different occasions that a guy I was seeing had a history of car theft, the other burglary.

    • @Lisette121
      @Lisette121 2 місяці тому +5

      ​@@Anna-st5dmright

    • @ChiChe555
      @ChiChe555 2 місяці тому +2

      What site are y’all using for the background checks and the cost? Thank you!

    • @Anna-st5dm
      @Anna-st5dm 2 місяці тому +12

      @@ChiChe555 some states have publicly available court records that are free to check. I personally don’t do a full background check on every first date. I take precautions like not giving out my personal number (tied to address and info-I use an app number), no coming to my home, no being in the car with them, meeting in a well populated public place, meeting during the day, I don’t let them walk me to my car - so they won’t have my license plate…things like that.

  • @RoseAStarr-ws6uf
    @RoseAStarr-ws6uf 2 місяці тому +260

    I remember being approached by this middle aged white guy a few months ago and he offered to buy me some drinks and as we continued talking he was so ready to mention his heroin addiction and his overall toxic failed life. He was trying to get me to drop him home. I ran as fast as I could. The bar is set too low and it’s no telling what he could’ve did to me.

    • @KevonnieElaine
      @KevonnieElaine 2 місяці тому +26

      Omg!😳

    • @patriciahercules6852
      @patriciahercules6852 2 місяці тому +34

      He was going to rob and unalive you.

    • @ssoomee
      @ssoomee 2 місяці тому +84

      Omg 😦 he also probably thought that as a BW you would be sympathetic to him, how dare he! 😡 I’m glad you got away from that nasty gross man!!

    • @dinkyboss
      @dinkyboss 2 місяці тому

      All these silly black women online sounding desperate and slow begging for attention from any and all white men make it so hard man

    • @IAMHERE486
      @IAMHERE486 2 місяці тому +16

      He was more than likely a homeless.

  • @Ang_Nicole
    @Ang_Nicole 2 місяці тому +280

    No woman deserves this type of crime or treatment. May she rest in heaven 😔❤️‍🩹

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette8807 2 місяці тому +592

    I cringe when our sisters declare online that they need a white man. They think that’s all the qualifications and everything else will fall in place. It doesn’t work that way!!! 🤦🏾‍♀️ They’re making themselves a target 🎯

    • @KevonnieElaine
      @KevonnieElaine 2 місяці тому +73

      Exactly! It’s very weird

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 2 місяці тому +1

      That type of mindset is getting BW in dysfunctional and dangerous situations.

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 2 місяці тому +92

      Yes, and most yt men don't even like bk women like that anyway. Usually when they date out, it's with an Asian or a mediterranean looking Latina.

    • @patriciahercules6852
      @patriciahercules6852 2 місяці тому

      Most black women do not want them, only those who do not have self esteem.There is nothing to gain by dating them.

    • @dinkyboss
      @dinkyboss 2 місяці тому

      The same simple minded thinking that lands them the trash black men they don’t want will lead them to landing trash white men too. And every other race. It’s so dumb

  • @Remss777
    @Remss777 2 місяці тому +73

    I have never been on a date in my 27 years of living. Not that I am closed off to it but every man that has asked me out ghosts me once they realize I will not be alone with them the first few dates. Like as soon as they realize I don’t budge on my safety precautions, they all bounced. Idc, I’d rather be single and alive then be killed out of desperation.

    • @Clau574
      @Clau574 Місяць тому +7

      Amen to that. And good that they showed their true colors right away.

    • @thepragmatist
      @thepragmatist 29 днів тому

      100%. Good for you.

  • @peyton3348
    @peyton3348 2 місяці тому +163

    Oh man 😢 "imagine trying to bury your niece with no body" that made me cry 😢

  • @user-tn6fg2du6v
    @user-tn6fg2du6v 2 місяці тому +606

    Discernment isn’t something we should waiver on in any relationship. Please

    • @clashon4life843
      @clashon4life843 2 місяці тому +14

      @@ninawestlake14You don’t go to a Pure Strangers House After A Few Hours Of A Date! That’s Not Something To Discern! That’s Just A Decision To Make And Say No Thank You 🙏 And Then How About Doing Your Research 🔬 On The Man To See If He’s Criminal! There Are Many Things That Could’ve Been Done!!!

    • @champagnewhite8112
      @champagnewhite8112 2 місяці тому +13

      Discernment is EXACTLY what was missing, IF YOU DON’T USE IT- YOU LOSE IT‼️ God gave us an internal feeling ( or voice) some call it the Holy Ghost,,,,,to warn us when danger is near💯 I’ve taught this to my child at a very early age, The times when I myself ignored it - I paid the consequences.

    • @Harlem-ub3tn
      @Harlem-ub3tn 2 місяці тому +6

      Maybe She just liked white boys. She was just a baby and didn't have discernment skills yet. When younger I put myself in some situations that it wasn't for the grace of God I might not have made it this far in life. We need to be open and honest with our daughters about how to get out of situations that go to the left

    • @bigcoop3717
      @bigcoop3717 2 місяці тому +5

      @@Harlem-ub3tn b3d w3nch babble

    • @rebeccamorris3955
      @rebeccamorris3955 2 місяці тому +9

      to be fair she was still a teenager who was still learning right from wrong when it comes to dating. unfortunately it costed her life.

  • @Universityofuncommonsense
    @Universityofuncommonsense 2 місяці тому +135

    He is HID-DEE-OUS

  • @islandgirl8067
    @islandgirl8067 2 місяці тому +169

    This is why it’s important for content creators to be mindful of the messages they’re putting out there. This poor baby might have ignored the psychotic look in this demon’s eyes because of all the wyte male worship on these platforms. RIP & condolences to her family. 💔🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @Lisette121
      @Lisette121 2 місяці тому +18

      Sad but true

    • @mikesta6337
      @mikesta6337 2 місяці тому +16

      I wish everyone could see this comment. But sadly those content creators won’t let go of there hatred/trauma and will continue pedestalizing wm

    • @Nethanda
      @Nethanda 2 місяці тому

      Those women including Chrystelyn K are dangerous. They are setting black women up as lambs for the wolves out there. Parents, caretakers be careful. Monitor your charges use of social media if need be and explain the dangers of divestor rhetoric. A lot of divestors are racist animals in blackface

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins 2 місяці тому +6

      Or her own mother should have raised her daughter not to be so trusting of others and that everyone does not need to be cared for by her daughter.

    • @2009juicyfruit
      @2009juicyfruit Місяць тому +1

      This is very accurate because she was rumored to be a Woman that wanted to date out

  • @MysticButterfly22
    @MysticButterfly22 2 місяці тому +348

    As I black woman myself, I’ve dated out my race numerous times, men of other races. However, “I don’t subscribe to tearing black men down and putting white men in particular on pedestals”. It’s heart breaking this young beautiful lady’s life was violently taking by the hands of a predator! May she and her family have justice.😇❤❤❤

    • @bellalegendre2644
      @bellalegendre2644 2 місяці тому +6

      Amen sis!

    • @Nethanda
      @Nethanda 2 місяці тому

      That's why divestors are unhinged and delusional. Putting a race of men that has dehumanized black women on a pedestal and continues to do so.

    • @rtbyup23
      @rtbyup23 2 місяці тому

      As a white guy who has been white their entire life, I feel confused as to where this stereotype of "white men" on a pedestal comes from. I'm not sure if everyone realizes this but most white people are dirt poor. And I don't mean poor as in homeless or has nothing. I mean poor as in fell victim to the rat race, is drowning in debt, and is surrounded by depreciating assets. Most white people I know who appear to be mid or upper class are actually living way outside their means and are teetering on the edge of a giant financial volcano ready to blow. This is not a position anyone should strive to obtain.

    • @JamesBrooks-hj3dz
      @JamesBrooks-hj3dz 2 місяці тому

      You mean you been passed around by other races of men??

  • @tiffanylynn8376
    @tiffanylynn8376 2 місяці тому +68

    R.I.P to this beautiful baby. I’ve dated out of my race plenty of times and what I learned from the very first date with my first white dude was “A man is a man”. I tell younger girls all the time, no matter the race they all operate the same. Do plenty vetting and pick based on the person not the race.

  • @RealShanJor
    @RealShanJor 2 місяці тому +153

    I think the only reason she let her guard down is because his father is rich. She probably thought he was just eccentric. The house he has was paid for by his rich father who they say was very popular in that town. Off looks alone he looks crazy but his family resume probably made her at ease because would he really jeopardize his future and family?
    Unfortunately yes …. Doesn’t matter the class and status. Nepo babies are sometimes worse because they haven’t found their purpose in life so they go around blaming everyone for their shortcomings. Their rich families are constantly cleaning up their mess. Because of this they tend to abuse drugs and people.

    • @dinkyboss
      @dinkyboss 2 місяці тому +22

      Nah she was on TikTok listening to all the birdbrains babbling about lobster and hard wigs. I knew something like this would happen

    • @RealShanJor
      @RealShanJor 2 місяці тому +19

      @@dinkyboss that’s possible … all money ain’t good money. Especially nepo kids.

    • @hawkrose2698
      @hawkrose2698 2 місяці тому +17

      This is a more logical take.

    • @milanC4659
      @milanC4659 2 місяці тому +6

      ​@@RealShanJorBeautiful well said !!!

    • @AyaEgbuho
      @AyaEgbuho 2 місяці тому +9

      So true about people using their money to clean up messes, but never actually resolving the issue!

  • @MichelleG333
    @MichelleG333 2 місяці тому +146

    He wasn’t even cute. Smh I hate that this happened to her . 😫 my sister is her age and had a talk with her about having standards

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie 2 місяці тому +28

      Was just thinking this!! She was far too good for him ❤

    • @belizegal29
      @belizegal29 2 місяці тому +35

      Looked dirty and homeless.

    • @ghettogreenbeann
      @ghettogreenbeann 2 місяці тому

      His eyes sit close together... I dont trust men whose facial feathers are squished in together. Shii makes my skin crawl.

    • @MichelleG333
      @MichelleG333 2 місяці тому +5

      @@belizegal29 exactly!!!!

    • @briantbmoth6472
      @briantbmoth6472 2 місяці тому

      Exactly, he looks the part of a murderous incel. Aint no way I would have given this dude the time.

  • @elizabethpieters7798
    @elizabethpieters7798 2 місяці тому +226

    He ain't even cute. He looks cray cray and his eyes is abnormally close to eachother.
    May her soul rest in peace and condolences to her family.

    • @jumpscare1530
      @jumpscare1530 2 місяці тому +56

      Yes it looks like his eyes, nose and mouth are all squashed in the middle of his face

    • @starblossom1370
      @starblossom1370 2 місяці тому +36

      Abnormally close 👀 😂😂 . Gave me a chuckle 😃 in this sad case.

    • @ghettogreenbeann
      @ghettogreenbeann 2 місяці тому +21

      I know we are on a serious topic... but I laughed at this close set eyes comment. I recently had a man made me mad and his his eyes sit close together and his eyelids are droopy. 🤣🤣

    • @Israelite-iq1gd
      @Israelite-iq1gd 2 місяці тому +24

      He white, that's all that mattered.

    • @lajoycelewis795
      @lajoycelewis795 2 місяці тому +9

      Add it looks like he rides the bus.

  • @msgameconsciouscarter1475
    @msgameconsciouscarter1475 2 місяці тому +139

    He drove her car to a black inner city area, it’s a bad area then he got on public transit went back to his suburban house . Her iPhone was how they caught him

    • @patriciahercules6852
      @patriciahercules6852 2 місяці тому

      He most likely drugged her, drove her car to his house , unalived her.

    • @dinkyboss
      @dinkyboss 2 місяці тому +61

      They see us as easy targets because of how openly desperate some many black women act on social media 💀

    • @theconceptofmentalwellness355
      @theconceptofmentalwellness355 2 місяці тому +65

      They see us as target and it's not because of us
      It's because they are predators

    • @rosellajoseph5307
      @rosellajoseph5307 2 місяці тому

      Exactly ​@@theconceptofmentalwellness355

    • @benirpierre2671
      @benirpierre2671 2 місяці тому

      ‼️‼️ ​@@theconceptofmentalwellness355

  • @ButterflyBree
    @ButterflyBree 2 місяці тому +35

    Ladies it's okay to not be overly nice to people. Especially males that you don't know. Don't allow people who haven't shown a consistent record of trustworthiness in your house and vehicle. I pray for Sade's family and friends. Being too nice can be fatal to you. Predators and abusers come in all backgrounds and socioeconomic statuses. 😢😢😭😭

  • @Kariberri208
    @Kariberri208 2 місяці тому +47

    I wonder if she felt a nudge to not go out with him, but ignored it. Ladies, listen to your intuition! Trust your gut. It's your second brain!

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins 2 місяці тому +5

      Remember, she was only 19 yrs old and inexperienced.

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 Місяць тому

      ​@@nmhoskinsyeah blame age, not her own mindset or the pasta and lobsta crowd 😂

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins Місяць тому

      @@alphabarre9096 Do you feel the same way about BM who are unalived by their Beckies?

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 Місяць тому

      @@nmhoskins unalived by Becky? No such things, maybe lied to and get in major trouble because of that?

  • @ssoomee
    @ssoomee 2 місяці тому +208

    I think the reason why BW will have high standards for BM but then lower them significantly for WM is because they never really GREW UP around WM. I say this as a BW who went to PWI for my entire childhood, and being in close proximity to them made me see them not as a monolith, but as a collection of different yt ethnicities with their own complicated socio-economic hierarchy, and how they treat each other accordingly. It was really insightful to see because I think it influenced a lot of how I interact with (and date) WM in general.

    • @purpleflows5680
      @purpleflows5680 2 місяці тому +80

      Well said. If you grew up around WP, it’s 💯 clear that they, like any group, are not a monolith. Dust comes in all colors and men are men. So move wisely and with discernment no matter the color.

    • @Lisette121
      @Lisette121 2 місяці тому +13

      Facts

    • @IAMHERE486
      @IAMHERE486 2 місяці тому

      I disagree.I think many BW just simply have extremely low standards.

    • @Israelite-iq1gd
      @Israelite-iq1gd 2 місяці тому

      How are you going to have lower standards for a white man is a system of white supremacy. Your standards for Brad should be twice as high. This show the level of self hate in the black community.

    • @7mariposas775
      @7mariposas775 2 місяці тому

      I grew up around them and have several white girlfriends and have had the privilege of seeing how their brothers, brother’s friends and fathers operate. Believe me they aren’t that wonderful either. They physically, psychologically and financially abuse too.

  • @e3xiii315
    @e3xiii315 2 місяці тому +54

    I have been dating out since the start. But I tell black women who are new to it that white men aren’t the “answer”. We as black women are always a target for all. We have to be careful. Black Femicide is really high. And there is a double standard for black women who date out versus black men who date out.

  • @Yulondia5225
    @Yulondia5225 2 місяці тому +98

    I had no idea when I was a teenager/young adult My mom cut/headed off/fended off alot of guys when I was in those developmental stages of life I had no idea until I was older. I thank my mom every day in my prayers that she shielded/nurtured/protected me and all 8 of my sisters like such....

  • @meansnas
    @meansnas 2 місяці тому +67

    She was beautiful. Im so sorry this happened to you baby girl. I’ve dated white men before and they have sickos in their community as well. Young girls please be safe and do not go to these men homes. Go on actual public dates and trust your gut, call your family and friends to let them know where you are. Love you all! ❤

  • @tarawilliams5204
    @tarawilliams5204 2 місяці тому +66

    "CHARITY STARTS AT HOME" Mothers must start Teaching, Grooming, Educating, Molding, Shaping and Nurturing the children that are produced from their womb💯💯💯

    • @faith1614
      @faith1614 2 місяці тому +1

      Some of these mothers DO. However as soon as you turn 18 people will do what they want and sadly the lesson learned from choices made will be the last.

  • @lexyred6289
    @lexyred6289 2 місяці тому +33

    This broke my heart this Sunday Morning. This could have been me. I moved to Milwaukee when I was 19 yrs old for college. I made many dumb decisions when I was that age and it was only by the Grace of God this wasn't my fate. The number one thing in life is to know God, to love him and he will give you protection, discernment and wisdom. RIP sweet angel, your death will not be in vain. I hope any young girl and old hearing her story learns from it and it can save a life.

  • @nomorecrocs
    @nomorecrocs 2 місяці тому +97

    we were working on Sade's memorial site last night, decorating it with her favorite color-pink. She was our friend/co-worker, we LOVE her, there is a blend of different ethnicities in her immediate family, if that adds anything to hr experience as a young bw, divine mother rest her soul.

  • @RandiMarie1111
    @RandiMarie1111 2 місяці тому +118

    This is an absolutely devastating situation. ALWAYS listen to your intuition ladies. It will not steer you wrong. I appreciate your commentary on this story Chloe.

  • @NicoleSlays
    @NicoleSlays 2 місяці тому +120

    🥺 I pray for peace, healing & blessings to Sade Robinson's family & loved ones 🙏 🤍

  • @Boopooh43
    @Boopooh43 2 місяці тому +58

    I am horrified by this young lady's murder. She went on a date and met a monster. Then I started watching two YT videos only for people to imply that she brought it on herself for going on a date with a white man. As if the outcome would be more palatable if the suspect was her same race. I was disgusted and never finished either video. I've not watched another one until yours Chloe. I knew you would treat this with compassion and nuance.

    • @JukuduB
      @JukuduB 2 місяці тому +1

      She is a woman and would have been blamed anyway. If it were a black man, she would have been told to "choose better". Smh

    • @reneedennis2011
      @reneedennis2011 2 місяці тому +2

      Good point.

  • @emmadiri7189
    @emmadiri7189 2 місяці тому +54

    I knew that This pasta and lobster pressure was gonna get people in trouble. RIP to sade

  • @msgameconsciouscarter1475
    @msgameconsciouscarter1475 2 місяці тому +73

    They can’t even have a funeral yet due to body parts are still being searched . I just don’t understand why he would do get like this

  • @roma5809
    @roma5809 2 місяці тому +10

    Once a man gives you his sob story about dating woes or how he’s struggling with his personal life you already know mentally it’s time to wrap it up!!
    That man is telling you he’s not masculine and needs a woman to feel sorry for him and provide for him. LEAVE THAT MAN IN THE DUST.

  • @spacebar6020
    @spacebar6020 2 місяці тому +63

    Thank for continuously challenging delusion Chloe.
    #Justice4SadeRobinson

  • @blackglitteremoji3054
    @blackglitteremoji3054 2 місяці тому +28

    Let’s wake it up and really start talking about how GROWN men shouldn’t be dating young girls. 19 may be legal but she was STILL a baby and inexperienced. He is 33. That alone should set off all types of red flags and we need to do better at teaching young women that older ain’t better. I remember being Sade’s age and sleeping with a 35 y/o man. He had no business messing with me. I look back on that and I’m horrified that he was comfortable doing that. DISGUSTING.

    • @dejamcdiva4616
      @dejamcdiva4616 2 місяці тому +12

      They’ve taken undue advantage of the “legal age” thing.. and it shouldn’t be. Because someone is of legal age doesn’t mean they are matured..doesn’t mean they have wisdom..doesn’t mean they are old enough to date. Legal does not mean do whatever you want. Sigh.

    • @blackglitteremoji3054
      @blackglitteremoji3054 Місяць тому

      ​@@dejamcdiva4616 EXACTLY.

  • @icycici6191
    @icycici6191 2 місяці тому +16

    No matter the race, you will always be a target to a predator.
    Discernment is a gift from wisdom. BW need to uplift, protect, and teach each other.

  • @KeenyaTheStylist
    @KeenyaTheStylist 2 місяці тому +25

    Chloe, you know what? This old head here knew right away that you were the one to guide me on my journey to embrace my femininity! Even though my dad taught me a lot, you helped me understand things on a whole other level! 💅🏽

    • @TheNewFeminine
      @TheNewFeminine  2 місяці тому +6

      I love you Keenya.❤️

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 Місяць тому

      Old head, femininity, i need to get off the internet.

  • @dylanjones5350
    @dylanjones5350 2 місяці тому +24

    This lady speaking facts...and its sad how racists have used these cases to insinuate that she deserved this for dating outside her ethnicity. The common denominator in all these cases is a sadistic murderer. 90% of us have done all the same reckless things especially in regards to someone we were sexually attracted to.

  • @thinkbigbih
    @thinkbigbih 2 місяці тому +43

    This was some powerful and thought provoking commentary ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @HoneyBunches44
    @HoneyBunches44 2 місяці тому +121

    Legit was about to get mad when she was calling out divesters, then realized she ain't even talking about me 😂 I agree with you, a man is a man is a man, vetting is a must with all races.

    • @darringordon6197
      @darringordon6197 2 місяці тому +10

      Why would you be mad she’s calling out divestors? Y’all are weird af

    • @HoneyBunches44
      @HoneyBunches44 2 місяці тому +6

      @@darringordon6197 because I consider myself a divestor, in the idea that I date outside of my race. My views on it are that one race of man isn't better than any other though, so I'm not the type of divestor she's calling out. I just date who I find attractive who is also attracted to me that I've vetted. Simple as that.

    • @darringordon6197
      @darringordon6197 2 місяці тому +10

      @@HoneyBunches44 That's not "divesting". You just date interracially. Divesting is a movement for black women who are fed up with the treatment of black men so they no longer only date black men if at all. They date out because of resentment, frustration, and "disappointment". If you're black woman with no animosity towards black men and you date out you're just a swirler.

    • @user-ib6xn4hl7s
      @user-ib6xn4hl7s 2 місяці тому +2

      @@HoneyBunches44 But that just makes you a normal person, Isn't the divest group those who exclusively date out?

    • @HoneyBunches44
      @HoneyBunches44 2 місяці тому +2

      @@darringordon6197 that's why I said she's not talking about me lol I didn't know there was a difference

  • @onetallgirl1369
    @onetallgirl1369 2 місяці тому +24

    Rest in perfect peace Princess Sade! At our big ages, we need to bring back stranger danger! Stranger danger should not be a thing only for kids. No more bringing men we just met back to our place or going back to his place. YOU DON"T KNOW HIM! Public dates only for at least A YEAR before solo dates. I think we as black women lower our standards for men outside of our race because we are tired to not being picked by men of our own race, so we are desperate to get some attention from a man period! It is part wanting to be loved and part desperation! Ladies, please practice discernment, love yourself and keep yourself safe! Let's not put any more families through this terrible tragedy!

  • @Padel78
    @Padel78 2 місяці тому +28

    And this is the reason for the 4B movement. Done dating etc.. no man is trust worthy of having a relationship with ( not even a date is safe 😢)

  • @mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165
    @mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165 2 місяці тому +54

    I didn’t know the girlies were out here lowering their standards for white meat?? This is baffling and defeats the whole intent of ‘leveling up’. This is why when dating out, it should be of pure interest and not out of backlash to get away from the current dating climate with the brothers. So sorry that this happened and pray that her family finds peace.

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 2 місяці тому +20

      In most cases, when you date out, you're going to end up with the ones that are leftovers and throw-aways from their group.

    • @mikesta6337
      @mikesta6337 2 місяці тому +8

      @@bubblybubbles4023wish more people understood this.

    • @leandermiller1963
      @leandermiller1963 2 місяці тому

      ​@@bubblybubbles4023Preach.

    • @calebco7985
      @calebco7985 2 місяці тому +8

      @@bubblybubbles4023they actually think a white man with means is going. To pick them over an attractive woman from his own community they crazy bruh.

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 2 місяці тому +4

      @calebco7985 That's a very rare occurrence. Usually, you'll end up with a guy who's been rejected by his women because he's low quality.

  • @kyandigaru5666
    @kyandigaru5666 2 місяці тому +23

    As i stated before, most black folks (since we're talking about a black woman), will do whatever it takes to keep the interest of their preference. They will get abused and cheated on, but will pretend nothing occurred. Stop just picking the very first option of your preference. Just like @chloe_ stated, learn to vet these men...

  • @hellzbelle229
    @hellzbelle229 2 місяці тому +18

    Whomever you’re going to date, you simply must hold your boundaries and vet like your life depends on it, because it really does!

  • @chikFromMTL
    @chikFromMTL 2 місяці тому +30

    I wouldn't trust my dog next to that guy 😳😮‍💨 May she rest in peace, praying strength for her family and friends 🙏🏾

  • @shakirasmith6454
    @shakirasmith6454 2 місяці тому +5

    She was so beautiful ❤️❤️ May she Rest In Peace🙏. Thank you Chloe for telling the truth in love and with compassion 🫶🏾.

  • @i80748
    @i80748 2 місяці тому +78

    She was very young we can blame a lot on social media and that's valid.
    But at that age having low self worth, not learning to use your discernment, not being protected. You are an easy target for abusers. And could easily end up in very dangerous situations. Give your children the care and tools to recognize and never engage with those types of sick demons.

    • @starblossom1370
      @starblossom1370 2 місяці тому +11

      It is sad.. most of us were less cautious ⚠️ at 19.. we don't have the maturity or life experience for foresight. We were just fortunate it didn't end terribly. This story serves as a cautious ⚠️ tale to people!

  • @jenerrabrown
    @jenerrabrown 2 місяці тому +80

    I clicked so fast

  • @Yulondia5225
    @Yulondia5225 2 місяці тому +54

    Chloe, I still think this era of women are being victimized by too much (?) access especially on social media and not enough wisdom/mature (homefront/grandmas/aunties) for discernment to make them at the very least caution to today's society of risks. We did not have all this access and risks as teens/young adults coming up. Our mistakes/missteps were more lessons/maturation; not Assaults, DEATHS....
    Chloe, Lady, you have spoken NOTHING BUT HARD FACTS which our culture of women need TO HEAR and TAKE HEED. Their considerations/caution will save hardships, Sexual Assaults and/or worse, Trafficking or the worst, deaths...
    RIP Ms. Robinson

  • @ellefaitdesvideos1619
    @ellefaitdesvideos1619 2 місяці тому +65

    Hey Chloe ! I live in Paris and I feel STUCK in my life. I’ve always looked for a job abroad but never found one! Im only 28 but already feel like I’m so late in everything… thank you for being here :)

    • @HisDaughterinChrist
      @HisDaughterinChrist 2 місяці тому +21

      I felt that way at 28 too! Don’t worry, trust the journey it’ll get easier in time.

    • @innocentuke839
      @innocentuke839 2 місяці тому +3

      It depends on what kind of jobs u r looking for. Seek help with ur resume as it starts there. That’s what leads u to an interview.

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 Місяць тому

      Men jobs are always hiring, you know the type of jobs where you get filthy 😂 but it does pay well 😂

  • @ruthanyasi8290
    @ruthanyasi8290 Місяць тому +7

    That is exactly what I worry about. All these divest, hard wig content are viewed by millions of people from other races and sometimes we as black women look desparate and ridiculous.

    • @Bluntgirly
      @Bluntgirly Місяць тому +1

      Exactly I did videos on this 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @ruthanyasi8290
      @ruthanyasi8290 Місяць тому +1

      @@Bluntgirly yeah I watched your hard wig video as well as your videos about natural hair hate and drag queen makeup

  • @ontosomething2322
    @ontosomething2322 2 місяці тому +9

    Glad to see theirs still sensible blk ppl, shame on all the blk men using this tragedy to push a narrative.

    • @grownman5997
      @grownman5997 2 місяці тому +8

      Foh we don't got shit to do with this don't bring us up! Stick to the topic.

    • @PossibleParis777
      @PossibleParis777 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@grownman5997Not all black men. Some black men love their queens.

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 Місяць тому

      ​@@grownman5997it's all Jermaine fault, didn't you know my brother 😂

  • @krysgreen3599
    @krysgreen3599 2 місяці тому +24

    From my personal experience when dating outside my race my standards and discernment go up especially if they are an older WM

  • @Peacepeacelovelove
    @Peacepeacelovelove 2 місяці тому +105

    We need men and women to uplift and care for black women, this is why this happened. No one cares until we are dead.

  • @libratime5809
    @libratime5809 2 місяці тому +8

    Dating online sites has a safety section for daters. The first bullet point is not to invite the person to your home or his home! Online daters out there, read the safety tips first before you go out with anyone!

  • @Kariberri208
    @Kariberri208 2 місяці тому +17

    This story disturbed me. Too young to be on a dating app in my opinion. When I was her age I dated people that were a friend of a friend or that I knew from having the same hobby. She was so beautiful and could have easily met someone nice from the same college. Hate that this happened to her and may she R.I.P. ❤

    • @roselynholloway7863
      @roselynholloway7863 2 місяці тому

      What age do you feel is better

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 Місяць тому

      Pasta and lobsta fam, she couldn't score any pink meat in her daily regular life so her last option was a dating app.

  • @brilliantbrownbeauty
    @brilliantbrownbeauty 2 місяці тому +17

    On point, healthy discernment and standards are paramount in all aspects of life. I needed this perspective/clarity in my 20’s.
    “A dirt bag is a dirt bag.”
    ~ Chloe_👌🏾

  • @HadizaAtta
    @HadizaAtta 2 місяці тому +9

    Another great video from you Chloe, well done. I used to follow these women on instagram and TikTok who talk about stiff wigs and white men and even though it seemed like jokes, it rubbed me the wrong way because glorifying anyone just because of their skin color is a very misplaced narrative. I hope we understand that a man is a man regardless of his color, mindset and character circumvents all physical attributes. Thank you Chloe ❤

  • @DAJAVUE1995
    @DAJAVUE1995 2 місяці тому +64

    To be honest they don't care about black woman missing it's not on their radar remember what country we're living in let that sink in.

    • @JukuduB
      @JukuduB 2 місяці тому +17

      Exactly 💯

    • @Blaquebarbgamer
      @Blaquebarbgamer 2 місяці тому +11

      Yeah I hate it here. But I’m trying to make the best of it. That’s all I can do 😢.

    • @reneedennis2011
      @reneedennis2011 2 місяці тому +2

      Yup.

  • @angelabrunson8573
    @angelabrunson8573 2 місяці тому +33

    Ase to Sade -#justiceforSade

  • @mahoganycreative7492
    @mahoganycreative7492 2 місяці тому +3

    Whew!!!! The way you just tore this entire video up!! It’s the way you shut down any and every argument or disagreement with grace and sternness was just phenomenal. Everyone needed to hear this!

  • @lavieestbelle6068
    @lavieestbelle6068 Місяць тому +4

    What a horrendous crime.

  • @BriDahlquist
    @BriDahlquist 2 місяці тому +33

    Happy Sunday ❤

  • @TheRacqgrl769
    @TheRacqgrl769 2 місяці тому +101

    Unfortunately, many divestors have replaced BMW with WMW. Worshipping any males is not natural or in our best interests.
    I hope that this family gets both peace and justice. It does bother me that the mother says that she raised her daughters to take care of people. We must stop doing this. I raised mine to take care of herself and herself alone.
    We must protect ourselves from ALL MALES, period.

    • @islandgirl8067
      @islandgirl8067 2 місяці тому +17

      I missed that part! It was probably her being raised to take care of others that got her in this situation.

    • @dinkyboss
      @dinkyboss 2 місяці тому +5

      That’s what happens when you can’t critically think. You just can’t comprehend what the actual point you’re supposed to learn is so just make the same mistake differently over and over.

    • @ivoriandoll8532
      @ivoriandoll8532 2 місяці тому +1

      Sorry can u state what those acronyms are?

    • @EnlightenedFemme
      @EnlightenedFemme 2 місяці тому +7

      @@ivoriandoll8532I think she meant black male worship being replaced with white male worship 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @reneedennis2011
      @reneedennis2011 Місяць тому

      ​@@EnlightenedFemmeYup.

  • @cocomocha
    @cocomocha 2 місяці тому +15

    I wish the divestors would push that it’s important to VET ALL MEN no matter the race there are Dusties in every race a man is not automatically a better option due to his color.

    • @reneedennis2011
      @reneedennis2011 2 місяці тому

      Thank you. They won't, though. They are h3ll-bent on depicting Black men as Evil Incarnate.

    • @reneedennis2011
      @reneedennis2011 2 місяці тому

      Yup. They won't, though. They are determined to depict Black men as Evil Incarnate.

    • @reneedennis2011
      @reneedennis2011 Місяць тому

      Unfortunately, they won't. They are determined to paint Black men as Evil Incarnate.

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 Місяць тому +1

      Even Ray Charles could see this clown is dusty from 2000 miles away, but Dwight man ice is colder according to the pasta and lobsta crowd.

    • @IAMHERE486
      @IAMHERE486 8 днів тому

      @@alphabarre9096He wasn’t dusty his family is actually wealthy.

  • @kimmy225
    @kimmy225 2 місяці тому +5

    Oh man, I’m so glad that you touched on this subject. This topic has gotten out of hand. Influencers really need to be careful about the content they put out there because it’s dangerous.

  • @akina_here
    @akina_here 2 місяці тому +9

    Before meeting someone new, I would look up his name online to see what he does, then let my family know about the date. Only meet them in a public space (go there separately even if he offers to pick you up). Only sit in their car if trust has been established and check the car's back seat in case of anything suspicious. If I go to his house, I would send the location to a friend first just in case, letting them know if I don't text them back in x amount of time then send help.
    I also had a notebook that records information of my dates (like each date of meeting and car plate etc.) just in case anything happens, family would know who to suspect first LOL

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 Місяць тому

      All good and dandy but if you decide to go to his house then that's that.

    • @akina_here
      @akina_here Місяць тому

      @@alphabarre9096 true, so we shouldn’t go to random guys’ houses at all. But not everyone would follow the advice after a few more dates with the same guy, so informing a trusted person beforehand is the second option

  • @Mrs_CandacePolite
    @Mrs_CandacePolite 2 місяці тому +8

    Chloe, you are preaching! Very helpful commentary that I think can be life saving!

  • @rabbiyah5
    @rabbiyah5 2 місяці тому +5

    I date providers. I don’t care what race, but being a provider should never be the ONLY prerequisite and thanks to Chloe I have learned to vet ALL men. Violent men come from all income brackets.

  • @lightsalt581
    @lightsalt581 2 місяці тому +28

    Proverbs 25:27 Too much honey is bad for you, and so is trying to win too much praise.

  • @deneenlazard7014
    @deneenlazard7014 2 місяці тому +6

    My heart goes out to Sade family💐💐💐 such a beautiful young lady.🤍🤍🤍

  • @Tracy_555
    @Tracy_555 2 місяці тому +12

    3:46 I just noticed that he has a smirk on his face…

    • @Blackraregem
      @Blackraregem Місяць тому

      Yes, I don’t understand. I see a lot of white people have that little smirk smile that scares me about y’all.

  • @bambi3106
    @bambi3106 2 місяці тому +16

    I’ve been waiting to hear your take on this subject 🙏🏽

  • @sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs.
    @sORrYiMLaTEwHAtdiDiMiSs. 2 місяці тому +8

    Very sad. R.I.P Sadè. 🙏🏿😔🕊️

  • @perrismccracken
    @perrismccracken 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for covering this and spreading wisdom 🙏🏽

  • @shantidivination
    @shantidivination 2 місяці тому +5

    19 years old… I’m disgusted. Sick people don’t have a race. Please vet these men! Love yourself please! Listen to your gut! Be careful out there! These dudes be randomly punching women out here! Be safe. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ rest in paradise Sade! 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @LifestyleWithDanielleLessie
    @LifestyleWithDanielleLessie 2 місяці тому +17

    Demons come in all forms

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 Місяць тому

      Not according to the pasta and lobsta crowd only brothers are demons 😂

  • @stephi6792
    @stephi6792 2 місяці тому +3

    Very important message. Thank you for vocalizing this issue!

  • @natalierose1072
    @natalierose1072 2 місяці тому +6

    Truly so sad and scary. I feel so sad for her, for what she went through and for her family. May be she rest in peace and may he be brought to justice and rot in heLL

  • @MsTwilightSpeaks
    @MsTwilightSpeaks 2 місяці тому +12

    Pasta and Lobster 🦞 undercooked 😮

  • @stopandsmelltheflowers26
    @stopandsmelltheflowers26 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you Chloe for your grace on this topic while still speaking truth ❤

  • @kakag.7401
    @kakag.7401 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for making this video🩵 definitely a must watch.
    Rest in peace to Sade, as well as the many other blk women that have gone missing. So heartbreaking

  • @nomfanelodlomo1917
    @nomfanelodlomo1917 2 місяці тому +10

    I clicked so fast on my notification bell 🔔 🔥

  • @reneedennis2011
    @reneedennis2011 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this video! It is sorely needed!

  • @rparris27
    @rparris27 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for articulating my thoughts exactly!

  • @bootscooty
    @bootscooty 2 місяці тому +10

    And you just know she was on those trash dating apps. That's how they met. I will never ever again

    • @lynnd.5135
      @lynnd.5135 2 місяці тому +6

      She met him at work allegedly

  • @lmmcgowan5615
    @lmmcgowan5615 2 місяці тому +5

    Justice for Sade

  • @QueenQueenly
    @QueenQueenly 2 місяці тому +2

    I learned late in life to never go home to any male and never go into any car with a male. Better late than never. This world is filled with demons. Don’t trust anybody. Never allow them into your home. RIP Goddess

  • @michellegamble2711
    @michellegamble2711 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @moniquew3603
    @moniquew3603 2 місяці тому +5

    Wow, that's heartbreaking. It's the first I'm hearing about this young lady Sade losing her life. Very tragic. That guy is a monster. White men are definitely not the answer. Every man has to be vetted. Dusty, crazy, and abusive men are in every racial group.

  • @denapitter38
    @denapitter38 2 місяці тому +1

    Bless Sade’s family, friends and community 💗🪽🙏🏽