Kate Spade And Andy Spade Speak On Their New Project "Frances Valentine"

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  • @BUILDSeriesNYC
    @BUILDSeriesNYC  4 роки тому +4

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  • @maureenheck4453
    @maureenheck4453 6 років тому +35

    I'll never forget our 45 min chat meeting you by just a drop bye to your brand new store in SOHO back in late 90s. You & your little boutique were just adorable...so full of smiles, enthusiasm, originality and just really nice! RIP - KATE

  • @goldenchild5324
    @goldenchild5324 6 років тому +20

    Kate seemed like a wonderfully simple woman. My heart breaks for those who knew her intimately. I can only imagine how much she is missed.

  • @SolarTTauri
    @SolarTTauri 6 років тому +61

    Anyone who has ever been close to that point themselves is deeply affected right now. RIP Kate. Grateful for the time you were here.

    • @nonebusiness4488
      @nonebusiness4488 6 років тому

      she was murdered by her husbandd for her he money you dingbat and he paid off the cops to get away with it

    • @janicemetzger6338
      @janicemetzger6338 3 роки тому

      @@nonebusiness4488 He was/is very successful. He didn't need HER $$, at all. But he was/is very greedy. That I will say. Very!

  • @bobos6147
    @bobos6147 6 років тому +57

    So sad, I can feel her pain. She seems pained by her relationship with her daughter and her husband. Someone close to her should have recognized this before it was to late. RIP Kate

    • @nicktoll9774
      @nicktoll9774 6 років тому +2

      DId you not read how her sister tried to get her into a treatment center, more than once? Obviously, she didn't have as much rank as her ignorant brother or skanky drunk husband--- and therefore denied treatment. Her brother was clearly full of false pride snad hsme (and IGNORANT to boot) and her husband just as bad a drunk. Wtffff?

    • @michaelmyers7255
      @michaelmyers7255 5 років тому

      Bobo S someone that recognizes cant even do anything that’s the sad part. What would you do if you were that someone? Just curious? Because I need that someone as well...

    • @chelseaafaithh6462
      @chelseaafaithh6462 2 роки тому +3

      @@nicktoll9774 her sister was estranged from Kate and her family for over a decade. I wouldn’t take the word of someone who wasn’t in her life before death.

  • @JacquelineWhitmore
    @JacquelineWhitmore 6 років тому +40

    If you watch the entire interview closely, you can clearly detect the tension between the couple.
    You can almost feel the negativity and animosity that they feel towards each other. Their love is overshadowed by passive-aggressive comments. They rarely look each other in the eye and smile.
    I see a marriage in turmoil.
    It is a known fact that Kate Spade committed suicide soon after her husband filed for divorce.
    I'm sharing this because I believe that even some of the best personal (and professional) relationships have expiration dates.
    Some of us hang on to a spouse, lover, or partner because we don't want to be alone or don’t want to be viewed as a "failure." Some of us hang on because we have children.
    So I ask...Is it worth staying in an unhappy relationship if you're not truly happy?
    I don't know this couple personally, but I do see the hurt, the anger, the disconnect, and the anguish.
    And yes, I can even see the depression. I know what depression looks like and how it can affect a marriage, firsthand.
    The Kate Spade brand was worth billions of dollars.
    My point is this: Money CANNOT buy happiness and NO ONE can make you happy except YOURSELF.
    If you depend solely on others to make you happy, you will ultimately be disappointed.

    • @jvolc
      @jvolc 3 роки тому +2

      👍

    • @froggreen2067
      @froggreen2067 2 роки тому +5

      In court parents get asked about the shoesize of the child, the name of the doctor of the child and the name of the teacher…to see, who is the parent who does the daily live with the child.
      Then they decide who gets custody.
      Btw see where his feet go to. Bodylanguage

    • @HumanimalChannel
      @HumanimalChannel 2 роки тому

      IF kate killed herself.

    • @joejones9520
      @joejones9520 2 роки тому +4

      most importantly why does he have ONE red shoelace? ONE red scarf is what ended her life. VERY weird! Then he wore a mask with a red scarf on it days after she died as he walked by reporters outside his home.

    • @alexandrawebster5707
      @alexandrawebster5707 Рік тому

      yes, some resentment there on her part

  • @mariarchavezc8860
    @mariarchavezc8860 6 років тому +72

    She was brokenhearted ! her daughter said she's done nothing!! Oh my! She was my favorite designer! I cried for her im sorry for the loss of such great talented woman! may God forgive her for taking her life!

    • @Dani-th6cl
      @Dani-th6cl 6 років тому +4

      I'm sure it was a figure of speech. In another anecdote she shared, her daughter clearly knew who she was and what she did.

    • @racerx1189
      @racerx1189 3 роки тому +2

      Amen to that. 🙏

    • @jamilgotcher5456
      @jamilgotcher5456 3 роки тому

      I think there are a lot of successful women that have never been acknowledged by friends and family regarding their success. They're jealous. Her daughter will have to live with how heartbroken her Mother was and that she contributed to it.

    • @batmaneo
      @batmaneo 3 роки тому +4

      @@jamilgotcher5456 yoo wtf is wrong with some of yall??? stop this

    • @BORNinKherson
      @BORNinKherson 2 роки тому +1

      Depression don't care , it's can kill anyone

  • @j013bloodpopz8
    @j013bloodpopz8 6 років тому +74

    If they will make a movie of her i think Tea Leoni would be the best actress to portray her.

    • @racerx1189
      @racerx1189 3 роки тому +1

      You have a very good eye. I agree. 😊

    • @chocolatesugar4434
      @chocolatesugar4434 3 роки тому

      Why would anyone make a movie about her? No offense...

    • @appleboost9753
      @appleboost9753 3 роки тому +4

      @@chocolatesugar4434 wait huh? Why not ? Why do you think that??? She had an aspiring life although she killed her self that is a part of life but she lived a life worth telling anyone life story is worth telling y

    • @jamilgotcher5456
      @jamilgotcher5456 3 роки тому +2

      That would be great casting. Good choice.

    • @shannonsmith2642
      @shannonsmith2642 2 роки тому

      Good call, they definitely resemble!

  • @thereseember2800
    @thereseember2800 6 років тому +12

    May angels tenderly cradle her and her bereft loved ones 🙏🏻
    I’m so sorry she was deeply hurting. How incredibly hard she had worked and brought so much beauty into this world.

  • @loricrockett-owens5117
    @loricrockett-owens5117 6 років тому +57

    Considering she was a fashion designer, so famous and so talented...she seemed just in this interview that she was one of those people that u could just walk up to and talk too. She seemed so sophisticated. Just so sad💓

    • @Ken-iu2zp
      @Ken-iu2zp 5 років тому +4

      Lori Owens Very sophisticated

    • @thesholovepodcast
      @thesholovepodcast Місяць тому

      @@Ken-iu2zpcame here to add the very! TY

  • @bajemo359
    @bajemo359 6 років тому +96

    Kate Spade’s husband’s body language says a lot.

    • @exposingliars9824
      @exposingliars9824 5 років тому +6

      Yes. Like an abused little boy, hugging himself.

    • @dsoccer241
      @dsoccer241 5 років тому +8

      He looks like he’s minding his own business in that uncomfortable chair. Mind ur own business

    • @joejones9520
      @joejones9520 2 роки тому +7

      his one red shoelace says more...

  • @rickmartin6817
    @rickmartin6817 6 років тому +227

    I feel bad for her. Saying her daughter didn't think she had done anything. Sad.

    • @kanamichelle7404
      @kanamichelle7404 6 років тому +10

      apparently her suicide note mentioned that it wasn’t her daughter’s fault or something like that. Like she was afraid her daughter would blame herself.

    • @boondoggled1
      @boondoggled1 6 років тому +5

      Kana Michelle also something about its daddy’s fault

    • @RoyalMasterpiece
      @RoyalMasterpiece 6 років тому +7

      That is how 13 year old’s think.

    • @jiprey597
      @jiprey597 6 років тому +8

      Rick Martin but kids DO especially teenagers! May her soul rest in peace. We shouldn't judge but spray for her and her family.

    • @biohacker2781
      @biohacker2781 6 років тому +6

      Her daughter was only 12 at the time, what does she know??

  • @raineyj560
    @raineyj560 6 років тому +16

    They way they address each other "see what she thinks" & "I don't know what he did" u can tell their relationship had hit the skids

    • @Cardsmaster
      @Cardsmaster 2 роки тому +1

      The only time he referred to her as “Kate” is when they discussed the business.

    • @pumaqueen6
      @pumaqueen6 2 роки тому +1

      Right, was she not with him for the 9 years she took off? She doesn't know if he was still working or not.

    • @pineconebliss
      @pineconebliss 8 місяців тому +1

      Very strange and interesting statement..

  • @fanofmedia72
    @fanofmedia72 6 років тому +42

    Suicide is something that a person who is so depressed or under the influence that they cannot see through the darkness. It is a mental illness, the mind wraps around the obsession that dead is better and less painful than alive ....and it caused by many things . . . drugs, alcohol (like my brother), depression and desperation! She seems like she might be on drugs or tranquilizers.
    Sorry for her loss...sad - so sad for her legacy & her daughter!

    • @SolarTTauri
      @SolarTTauri 6 років тому +1

      So true. Your compassion is refreshing to read.

    • @sophiatucker04
      @sophiatucker04 5 років тому +1

      Mary Galinas that is so true. Kate also had bipolar disorder that she kept hiding for a long time because it wasn’t “good for the brand” and it is so sad to see her pass. She will always be an amazing fashion icon and a creative mind. Rest In Peace.

    • @BORNinKherson
      @BORNinKherson 2 роки тому

      How is your brother now ?

  • @angelicashobby
    @angelicashobby 6 років тому +5

    This is so revealing. Frances will know how great her mom is. God be with them all.

  • @belenaguilar1348
    @belenaguilar1348 6 років тому +149

    It seems like she was having issues being a parent and launching a new brand. It surprises me that she spoke so poorly of herself when she in fact is a fashion icon and built an empire. You can see from the interview that she had already lost her self confidence. And those passive aggressive comments that she and her husband throw at each other... bad sign. I hope she is in peace now.

    • @anonymousgirl799
      @anonymousgirl799 6 років тому +8

      Belen Aguilar
      Her daughter was in boarding school, seems that would give her more time to devote to business. Perhaps the marriage was troubled. Rest in Peace, Kate. Her daughter will be shattered, I'm sure.

    • @sternfan8831
      @sternfan8831 6 років тому +3

      Desi R.
      Yeah, that's the feeling I get as well.

    • @Kristen10-22
      @Kristen10-22 6 років тому +9

      Imo that’s her guilt talking... the amount of guilt you feel as a mom with depression & wanting to check out emotionally is overwhelming. In turn that makes you isolate. She talks so low of herself maybe because those around her made her feel she couldn’t do anything right so why bother trying. We know she was the youngest of 6. Her role may have been the people pleaser role or scapegoat.. we don’t know.

    • @pb4531
      @pb4531 6 років тому +4

      Belen Aguilar the passive aggression was one way her to him which would explain why he came across like broken man. I imagine she was like this throughout her marriage.

    • @sternfan8831
      @sternfan8831 6 років тому

      P B
      For sure.

  • @sarahleach9997
    @sarahleach9997 6 років тому +20

    My sister committed suicide when her daughter was 13.it was really hard for my niece. My prayers go out to her daughter.

    • @robingagan6288
      @robingagan6288 6 років тому +2

      Sarah Leach sorry for your loss

    • @plnrlver
      @plnrlver 6 років тому +2

      I’m sorry for your loss 😞

  • @kanamichelle7404
    @kanamichelle7404 6 років тому +22

    I notice neither of them are wearing wedding rings. I know some people don’t, just something I noticed. I am so sorry she chose this path, and prayers for her daughter.

  • @Gree263
    @Gree263 6 років тому +67

    She is slurring & struggling. Anyone else notice this? So heartbreaking.

    • @racerx1189
      @racerx1189 3 роки тому +8

      May be meds for her anxiety.

  • @josie_mary
    @josie_mary 6 років тому +22

    It's crazy how you really cant tell when someone is suffering. R.I.P Iconic Kate.

  • @cheriamour2429
    @cheriamour2429 11 місяців тому +2

    She seems like a wonderful lady. Someone you could be friends with. God bless her.

  • @celeste-236
    @celeste-236 6 років тому +5

    Great interview! The insightful answers that they both gave to each excellent question, shows the many layers of emotional pain, that Kate was dealing with.
    But the first minute says so much...” my daughter thinks I did NOTHING...”
    this is the best interview currently available, that offers some insights...

    • @Cardsmaster
      @Cardsmaster 2 роки тому +3

      Her daughter was a Teenager. It also shows great level of immaturity and weakness for them not to reprobando their daughter. The daughter acts out (closes a door etc) and they just bury themselves in their works to avoid the communication.

  • @dearmakeupdiary
    @dearmakeupdiary 6 років тому +3

    She was quite honest saying that about her daughter. My own child has said the same about me, but I know that deeply she doesn't mean it. Teenagers can be quite harsh sometimes, especially when they are angry. But now we all know Kate Spade had some internal demons to deal with, she felt it was always dark and empty. Hope her soul finds peace now that her loved ones can not turn back time and try to focus on her problem. Gone too soon, RIP dear Kate!

  • @maurtracey
    @maurtracey 6 років тому +74

    RIP Kate, I’m so sorry that your demons took you to such lengths. This breaks my heart for the people who loved you, and for you! I know that I’ve been close a couple of times myself, it’s just too sad! Rest In Peace, lovely lady! GODSPEED!!
    💜🕯💜🕯💜🕯💜

    • @SolarTTauri
      @SolarTTauri 6 років тому +8

      Such compassion; thank you. Only those who have been "close a couple of times" can empathize with her pain..

    • @Ktwood1
      @Ktwood1 6 років тому +3

      Why the hate? But I am .

    • @maurtracey
      @maurtracey 6 років тому

      Solar T. Tauri Thank you, I think that’s true. This has really taken a toll on me, and I really didn’t expect it to.💔😢

    • @NicoleAllwood
      @NicoleAllwood 6 років тому

      Stay strong 🙏🏿💕💛

    • @Kristen10-22
      @Kristen10-22 6 років тому +1

      Ditto. I lost my bro end of Jan. He had it all but the one thing he never received was validation.
      He was hurting so deeply yet never reached out. Only those that are familiar with this dynamic knows someone suffering with depression can’t help it yet they desperately want out. They can’t see the light. My heart just hurts for her, her family & those still suffering.
      This has go to stop!

  • @joer736
    @joer736 6 років тому +66

    Ok, so i can see why things ended the way they did. Very sad, but she def looks like she highly medicated, and not happy in her marriage. No love between the two....

    • @honeybuzzard2843
      @honeybuzzard2843 6 років тому +8

      Yosef
      HE'S GAY AS FUCK

    • @lavonnealexander6936
      @lavonnealexander6936 4 роки тому +4

      honey buzzard Yes, he looks gay! Should expose his ass.

    • @racerx1189
      @racerx1189 3 роки тому +1

      His sarcasm didn't help matters. She clearly is over him.

  • @jennifermartin7064
    @jennifermartin7064 6 років тому +8

    awe so beautiful.. she loved her daughter.. I think she felt like she was generous with all her love.. he seems threatened.

  • @ghale94
    @ghale94 6 років тому +34

    I sense resentment toward the daughter, and slightly between the couple themselves. Very sad to wonder the truth beneath...

  • @bltcrunchy
    @bltcrunchy 6 років тому +18

    Poor Kate. I don't know why she did it. She sounded like a nice lady. RIP. I wish people would exercise more. Daily aerobics exercise of some kind for 30 minutes really helps one's state of mind and is good for mental health.

    • @lindamartin5201
      @lindamartin5201 6 років тому +1

      bltcrunchy I'm the perfect example of your input. I still struggle but using fitness as a life jacket.

    • @bhuges6124
      @bhuges6124 3 роки тому

      Its obvious to see why, how can you not see!!!Watch her husband reactions and selfish lie comments he gave in front of everyone then eventually leaving her after 30 years !

  • @tridaughwinston7008
    @tridaughwinston7008 6 років тому +41

    Poor gal. Clearly she is heavily medicated in this interview. Listen to her diction and speech. Siiiiighhhhh! Red flags all over this interview. Lord help those who suffer with depression, anxiety and other forms of mental illness. More awareness is needed.

    • @ketherwhale6126
      @ketherwhale6126 6 років тому +1

      Tridaugh Winston right on. She's in pain. I think her husband found an old note she wrote to her daughter regarding his moving out. That's why the end says ask your father. That's no suicide note.

    • @nicktoll9774
      @nicktoll9774 6 років тому +1

      And the stigma removed!! I feel she feared to upset her brother among many other people. Very sad indeed. He's a turd and so it the drunken husband. Poor daughter!

    • @natashat.9098
      @natashat.9098 4 роки тому

      She was also like this in other interviews. sad thing is, when people say we should recognize, we do but don't ever say anything. They're just there to ask the questions needed and they're out. Majority of mankind just don't care🙄😢

  • @Cl0Wk
    @Cl0Wk 7 років тому +32

    Learned a lot about Kate and Andy! The host could of asked waayyy better questions and a better outfit!

    • @Noah4evaa
      @Noah4evaa 6 років тому +2

      Terrible outfit

  • @karikari7336
    @karikari7336 6 років тому +45

    There’s something very sad in her eyes. My grandmother was bipolar and tried to commit suicide several times. We will never know what it was and I don’t think it’s right to even suspect or analyze her life. Mental illness is real. RIP. ❤️

    • @nicktoll9774
      @nicktoll9774 6 років тому +1

      Kate's mother attempted suicide numerous times, as well-- 4 times in front of Kate, once when Kate was just a small child.

    • @nonebusiness4488
      @nonebusiness4488 6 років тому +1

      nick toll. did you know them? how do you know kate's mother attempted suicide numerous times. i bet you are lying. i bet you are andy. i know you killed her. lots of people know you killed her. and that you and the authorities who conspired in the murder, are lying about her being a alcoholic, mentally ill, that is definitely a lie for sure. and now you are continuing to embelish.

    • @janicemetzger6338
      @janicemetzger6338 3 роки тому +1

      @@nonebusiness4488 Andy and kate were both very advanced in their alcoholism. Andy even more so than kate. kate was not sad the night she took her life. She was mad! Madder than hell! It was revenge/spite..

    • @pumaqueen6
      @pumaqueen6 2 роки тому +2

      @@janicemetzger6338 mad at him? For what? She said ask daddy in the suicide note, I wonder if that was her last dig ?

    • @thesholovepodcast
      @thesholovepodcast Місяць тому

      @@pumaqueen6she definitely got the last word! So sad! I can’t even imagine the abuse she endured! 😢

  • @andgummybears
    @andgummybears 6 років тому +2

    She was so creative... loved her pieces and bought my 1st purse the moment I saw it, before everyone knew her name. We will miss you lovely lady!👜👠💕

    • @nicktoll9774
      @nicktoll9774 6 років тому +1

      I know!!! He was clearly annoyed with her with that comment, but of course, she didn't even notice or... care.

  • @xiomanaxoxoxo3212
    @xiomanaxoxoxo3212 6 років тому +9

    He’ seems a bit detached and she seems exhausted. and a little out of it but seems like she made a lot of compromises . She seems so exhausted here . 30 years maybe it’s not good to do that for that long , I feel for him though I know he must feel devastated.
    Such a great tragedy . I can’t imagine having to face your daughter everyday and having to raise her alone when they were such a family unit it’s must take your breathe away literally .
    I pray for him and his daughter .

  • @ladybug4408
    @ladybug4408 6 років тому +135

    Something is not right between Kate and her husband and she is definitely on something. The interviewer lady is awful, this is not her forte.

    • @brittanied.9509
      @brittanied.9509 6 років тому +2

      K. Kaye Clark agreed

    • @tl11rj7x
      @tl11rj7x 6 років тому

      ikr

    • @msbren8
      @msbren8 6 років тому +2

      tl11rj7x did she? I haven't heard that. I do agree her husband isn't too kosher.

    • @moviestarmemories630
      @moviestarmemories630 6 років тому +13

      Don't marry a gay man.

    • @yourmama69
      @yourmama69 6 років тому +7

      Moviestar Memories honestly it’s so funny you got that vibe because I did too and he reminds me of my father who is in fact gay lol

  • @strangenesscharm1230
    @strangenesscharm1230 6 років тому +27

    This is a textbook case of extremely toxic codependency. Kate has low self confidence she hides through passive aggressive tendencies. You can clearly ascertain from her speech patterns and body language, she is medicated in this interview. Her husband is an enabler. He is more focused on business and success, with a hint of narcissism. I would guess he never loved her in the true sense of the word. He loved her gift for design, but that isn’t the basis of a healthy relationship. (Their physical presence tells it all, he looks young/gay/ chic and she portrays fancy Mary Poppins meets office casual, looking much older than him) I also believe there may have been a sexual identity issue on his part. This was not a marriage...it was a dysfunctional business relationship that grew to include a late-in-life child in a last ditch attempt at normalcy. Kate wasn’t able to separate the business from the act of mothering because she didn’t know how. She was stuck between two polar opposite worlds with a ‘husband’ that was merely a corporate brand boss.She was unloved as a human being and unappreciated. Her reaction to 30 years of this torment was vengeance in killing herself...The ultimate ‘sour grapes’. As in, I can’t find love or happiness in my family life, so I am cashing out. The ‘ask daddy’ was the last chess move in a very sad game of deceit and loveless isolation.

    • @alcastle8480
      @alcastle8480 6 років тому +10

      strangenesscharm1230 You didn’t know these people personally so stop with your assumptions.

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit 6 років тому +3

      strangenesscharm1230 nice fiction novel 😒

    • @MoniqueLewisOfficial
      @MoniqueLewisOfficial 6 років тому +8

      Extremely good analogy and very sad :(

    • @strangenesscharm1230
      @strangenesscharm1230 6 років тому +1

      MiamiPush2theLimit Life always imitates art

    • @strangenesscharm1230
      @strangenesscharm1230 6 років тому +4

      AlCastle84 The human condition is universal. There exists truth in every lie, my dear...

  • @MsMaureena
    @MsMaureena 6 років тому +15

    "Worry less" she says. That's important.

    • @Ken-iu2zp
      @Ken-iu2zp 5 років тому

      maureen molitor a.k.a. moe Yeah that's what I got from her.....Thanks Kate

  • @beenina9972
    @beenina9972 6 років тому +5

    I'm so heart broken over Kates sudden death; she will always be one of my favorite designers. I wonder how she went from ”very well” to her tragic ending...it makes me wonder if she was really happy in this interview.

  • @forevakara9004
    @forevakara9004 6 років тому +131

    R.i.p Kate spade♠️😥💕

  • @bribri8042
    @bribri8042 6 років тому +77

    My hearts breaking for their poor Frances.

    • @jordysmom479
      @jordysmom479 6 років тому +3

      Bri Wimz Amen to that.

    • @joannt2298
      @joannt2298 6 років тому

      Bri Wimz you mean their daughter, Bea?

    • @bribri8042
      @bribri8042 6 років тому +1

      Joanne T Beatrix (Bea) is her middle name. Frances is the daughters first name.

    • @joannt2298
      @joannt2298 6 років тому

      Bri Wimz oh! Didn’t know that, thanks for the clarification 😊

  • @pb4531
    @pb4531 6 років тому +4

    He's so sweet & protective of his daughter. Whereas she implies her daughter is hard work.

  • @amb7412
    @amb7412 5 років тому +6

    I got half through and couldn't take it any more this lovely, talented, and awesome person was being devalued and smothered by her partner. I refuse to call him a husband ( husbands should be loving and supportive), because his comments and actions weren't supportive and loving during this interview. So incredibly sad. There is obvious tension between. He could have kept the belt incident to himself. I hope he grows and a person from her death and become the perfect father to their daughter in keeping her mother's talent and spirit alive for their child. Kate was a true artist. RIP sweet Kate.

  • @nellievanellie9935
    @nellievanellie9935 6 років тому +14

    very sad, she is heavily medicated/drugged, is begging for love, peace and comfort from husband and daughter, and very very lonely; honest if she was in a third world country with a poor family she would have been much happier and healthier because she would not have anything to worry or stress about but only have the wonderful love and faith and unconditional love and good quality of life that one observes within a poor family that is rich with faith and love between them, another culture that values faith and family and values, over one like what she had

    • @lilymbae386
      @lilymbae386 4 роки тому

      Wow lol this is so inaccurate

  • @relaunchinglife
    @relaunchinglife 6 років тому +9

    She is so off here - I don't mean to read things into this given the circumstances - but she is so off, seems really medicated, not at all her jovial self from other interviews - forget the interviewer, this is heart breaking - hind sight is 20 20 - my heart is broken - you were SO LOVED KATE!! Viki

  • @javiera2flores
    @javiera2flores 6 років тому +9

    R.i.p Kate Spade. God bless you and your family.

  • @Ktwood1
    @Ktwood1 6 років тому +22

    Wow the daughter comment

  • @kenpurplish
    @kenpurplish 6 років тому +22

    Gives a lot of insight why Kate commit suicide. First of his busband mentioned kate spade brand quickly went off and they dont know what happened with it. Next, Frances Valentine which kate herself cant remember the names history, shows that it doesnt interest her. Husband also mentioned kate started not a fashion student which is why everybody is starting their own business today and they are competing with them said kate made a terrible job. And she said her daughter doesn’t think she has done anything in fashion world and would want their interview to be seen by her. I do all the work says the husband, kate laughs sarcastically said that is such a joke. She just repeats his husband words like “im up for the challege” then make face not sure if she really is. She also said “rough” sarcastically as is husband has done nothing or something is rough in the relationship. She also said “although im mad of you for other things. If the interviewer is articulate she can dig deeper on personal matter the couple is giving clues away. Kate said the lesson she learned is to “worry less”.. i really hope she livesup to it, RIP.

  • @kkdoc7864
    @kkdoc7864 6 років тому +16

    There was so much tension in this mother-daughter relationship. You can hear the pain in her voice when describing the struggles. I hope that this little girl does NOT take on the responsibility of her mother’s suicide. That was her mom’s choice. It’s a teen’s job to act out, be confused, push back and try the patience of everyone around them. So mom decides after 9 years to take all of her obsession and “detail” oriented way of being away from her daughter toward design again. (Probably a very healthy decision for the mental health of both). Sadly it didn’t work out.

    • @pumaqueen6
      @pumaqueen6 2 роки тому +4

      If she will feel guilty idk. But she will be angry, resentful, horrified, and saddened at the loss of her mother for a looooong time, if not a lifetime

  • @juliehitchcock1253
    @juliehitchcock1253 6 років тому +2

    You can tell by their body language they are not happy. Given Kate’s fame, you can imagine the pressure she must have felt if her marriage was crumbling and she wanted out or if he did, and how much she must have worried what people would think, the media. Etc. also she may have sought more help but didn’t due to the same pressure of the media and what if people would find out etc. it is seriously tragic. She just couldn’t stand the pain any longer. Her sister even said in another video that she started drinking a lot and wouldn’t get treatment because she was “worried about her fans”. So sad RIP Kate.

  • @jbmayretta
    @jbmayretta 6 років тому +4

    This is so sad to watch with what just happened. Only a few weeks later she fell into despair and thought there was no way out. R.I.P. Kate!

  • @lipglosskitten26
    @lipglosskitten26 6 років тому +5

    Heartbreaking....... nobody understands unless you've been then there. I've been there, somehow my attempt was just that. God willing!
    But it's a terrible way to feel. I stayed somewhere to get help for almost two years.
    Reat In Peace, Kate. I know you're in a happy place♡♡♡ I just hope your loved ones will grow to understand!

  • @noodle089
    @noodle089 6 років тому +20

    Rest in Peace, Kate

  • @ByKristyLin
    @ByKristyLin 6 років тому +34

    this interview is so sad. why is it so obvious someone is unhappy in retrospect? There's so much tension and passive aggression between them. And her relationship with her daughter sounds like a classic late in life mother thinking she gave birth to her best friend but as her daughter goes through the totally normal teenage rebellion phase she takes it personally rather than being understanding that her daughter is finding herself and growing up.

    • @magician_6262
      @magician_6262 6 років тому +9

      It came across to me in the interview that the husband was constantly saying, "I do all the work!" and the daughter heard it so many times she parroted it. I don't see any proof that Kate thought her daughter was her best friend. I see a lot of proof that the husband talked shit about Kate in front of their young daughter and their daughter started repeating it.

    • @Dani-th6cl
      @Dani-th6cl 6 років тому +2

      Kate sold the company to raise her daughter and in a decade it would become a 2 billion dollar business. she missed out on the profits and now her daughter thought she did nothing!

    • @ByKristyLin
      @ByKristyLin 6 років тому +3

      Her daughter is 12. A lot of tweens/teens think their parents don't do anything. Or don't care about their professional successes. It's unfortunate for her as a parent to take it personally especially in a public forum that evidently makes her daughter (again, a 12 year old) look bad.

    • @Dani-th6cl
      @Dani-th6cl 6 років тому

      Desi R. - did their marriage trouble go all the way back to the mid 2000s, when they totally cashed out of the business?

    • @oijoioihiehie
      @oijoioihiehie 6 років тому +2

      Ok, I'm not talking specifically about Kate's daughter but teenagers in general but not every kid is innocent. Some of them are just ungrateful spoiled jerks.

  • @nymike06
    @nymike06 6 років тому +4

    R.I.P. Kate Spade. Seems like a beautiful person and so nice.

  • @mgal6234
    @mgal6234 6 років тому +12

    The jabs at each other are heartbreaking to me. Difficult to watch, especially as she seems medicated. RIP Beautiful Lady.

  • @YM-rp6st
    @YM-rp6st 6 років тому +5

    I already noticed something was wrong with her in this interview, I sense a sort of sadness, she wasn’t well clearly, all of this talent, her passion for color and design lost forever .she was great , so sad . RIP Kate

  • @NoelStar
    @NoelStar 6 років тому +15

    The interviewer was not bad, she was calm , collect and had very good questions , it was the energy of Mrs. Spade , I can feel the saddness and her need for her daughters ecceptance . The teenagers in this country are going against there own mother who has brought them through the womb, This is a Very Sad , She seems lost , lonely and this is why we need the Holy spirit and Christ . my prayers are with her family, husband and her daughter.

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit 6 років тому

      Noel1029 Star I think she’s on medication during this interview.

    • @honeybuzzard2843
      @honeybuzzard2843 6 років тому

      Noel1029 Star
      That's what I say. The interview wasn't so bad.
      Maybe a bit inexperienced, but not bad..I loved that blouse...that shit was hot.. Sexy I thought..

    • @nicktoll9774
      @nicktoll9774 6 років тому

      What???

  • @meio4744
    @meio4744 6 років тому +7

    RIP Kate Spade and peace to her family.

  • @lauraswihart8018
    @lauraswihart8018 6 років тому +5

    I was reading the comments & she does look heavy medicated! Trying to hang in there, poor lady. Hmmm-- I love her voice & bet she could sing lovely♥️

  • @ChameleonzDream
    @ChameleonzDream 6 років тому +4

    I am so devastated. Between the loss of Robin Williams (whom was my all time favorite actor, passing on my birthday) and the loss and death of Kate Spade, I find myself pondering "the true meaning of my own life". These brilliant geniuses left, why should little ole me stay type of mentality. Sighs, Kate...my heart hurts for you.

  • @jamilgotcher5456
    @jamilgotcher5456 3 роки тому +3

    My former modeling agent told me "Don't work with your husband." She didn't say why but it creates a negative dynamic that is not there otherwise.

  • @m4ri494
    @m4ri494 6 років тому +37

    Their relationship...

    • @pb4531
      @pb4531 6 років тому +2

      the Knitty Litter when she puts him down at 17:51 & the look of despair he gives her ... I think she was hard to live with & especially as they worked together. He seems on edge with her barbed comments. In my opinion...

  • @samantha3162
    @samantha3162 6 років тому +81

    her daughter thought she did nothing?

    • @trevl8955
      @trevl8955 6 років тому +22

      Everyone saying this is taking it too literally. She's a kid FFS! How many kids really think their parents do anything? Stop being butt-hurt over nothing.

    • @robingagan6288
      @robingagan6288 6 років тому +4

      Trev L maybe YOU thought your mom did nothing

    • @msbren8
      @msbren8 6 років тому +18

      I think she was letting it be known her daughter does not appreciate her. With Kate having mental illness this could have caused her pain. Plus Andy wanting a divorce and she didn't couldn't help either. Mental illness is serious.

    • @AlexandraRieloff
      @AlexandraRieloff 6 років тому +18

      I'm sorry, but that is no excuse. Americans are always promoting this notion, that all teenagers 'hate' their parents. It's not this way everywhere at all!! Her daughter sounds spoiled and ungrateful, and obviously hurtful.

    • @msbren8
      @msbren8 6 років тому +1

      Trev L Andy just said she worried too much. That could be another sign.

  • @MarlaLukofsky7
    @MarlaLukofsky7 6 років тому

    What a great interview. Love the questions. The answers are illuminating. They genuinely seem to like each other and she's the real deal.

  • @axlrosepagdanganan8938
    @axlrosepagdanganan8938 6 років тому +18

    something is wrong in this interview? kate and her husband seemed to be uncomfortable being together. i think the husband knew that she's kind of drunk or drugged. she seemed not to be enjoying her life with her daughter. the husband's face even the neck was flushed red when he was talking about his business "sleepy jones".

    • @nicktoll9774
      @nicktoll9774 6 років тому

      He's a terrible drunk, and always oushing his brands (Sleepy Jones, FV, etc). Even after her death he raomed the streets of NY with his sleepy Jones hat in had (facing the cameras). Sikc!

    • @barb6868
      @barb6868 4 роки тому

      What’s wrong with this interview is the interviewer!! OMG!!

  • @juliat1199
    @juliat1199 6 років тому +20

    Definitely on psychiatric medications... they destroy and take lives. My heart breaks for her and her family. You can tell here she had a rough marriage and relationship with her daughter... wish things were better for Kate. RIP, your legacy lives on forever

  • @dollyd8142
    @dollyd8142 6 років тому +4

    RIP Kate Spade this is so very sad, and when they are talking about their sweet child and there is a part were her husband goes I do all the work :( who would have know.... Kate Spade: I wish I worried less. I think Worrying can break ones mind :( as it will keep you up all night. I love when she said my mom allowed me to go to THRIFT STORES and buy funny pieces of clothing. love, love, love. What inspires you PEOPLE :) She loves color cause she is a very vibrant person :) lol wow she added to her name by having 5 different names and where she goes I'm confused :( You could tell that they were not in a good place/little jabs at each other here and there. -be kind to one another -one smile can make someones day!

  • @Lotus-ox6is
    @Lotus-ox6is 6 років тому +14

    Rest Kate .. wish things could have been better for you..

  • @momsgarden1156
    @momsgarden1156 6 років тому +2

    I like this interview actually it was nice straight to the point, and neutral. But my deepest condolences to them R.I.P

  • @sidscoups8551
    @sidscoups8551 6 років тому +8

    17:45 - 17:55 the way he looks at her

    • @sidscoups8551
      @sidscoups8551 6 років тому +1

      ‘It’s not no-el it’s nole’

    • @ArtMusicLife15
      @ArtMusicLife15 6 років тому +1

      Yes, I noticed that too. He gives her a once-over. Cold.

  • @RealEyes.Realize.RealLies
    @RealEyes.Realize.RealLies 6 років тому +17

    Yeah Kate looks and sounds high. Everybody looks confused. What's happening here?

  • @bigkeysh
    @bigkeysh 6 років тому +1

    I'm so saddened by her loss, & my 💓 goes out to her Family, Friends, & Fans but more importantly to her young daughter 😢😭🤧! U will be truly missed Mrs.Spade, & I pray that the good Lord has mercy on ur soul & forgives u for all of ur sins 😇!

  • @dnice4335
    @dnice4335 6 років тому +9

    disgusting that ads just popped up trying to sell me kates bags--

  • @Rose1087
    @Rose1087 6 років тому +2

    Such a sweet lady. Agree with other comments in that the tension between them is palpable.

  • @kamilestone8346
    @kamilestone8346 6 років тому +18

    He will not even look at her...... its so sad!

  • @teesagirl
    @teesagirl 5 років тому +17

    She’s hiding a lot of pain.

  • @Bussjaeger
    @Bussjaeger 6 років тому +4

    She reminds me so much of the actress Catherine O’Hara (Mother on Home Alone, Best in Show...etc)

    • @bluecollarlit
      @bluecollarlit 6 років тому

      Cid Bussjaeger yes! Same type of look

  • @dianer558
    @dianer558 6 років тому +7

    Rest in peace. Just dreadful sad news. Prayers going to her family for strength.

  • @zel1454
    @zel1454 6 років тому +11

    Rest In Peace Kate💗💗

  • @bhuges6124
    @bhuges6124 3 роки тому +3

    5:34 "I think that's how we work?!" He keeps sudden head turn towards Kate with closed eyes ...uncomfortable to watch his reactions sitting next to someone you're married to. Bizarre

  • @texasflour
    @texasflour 6 років тому +28

    They both look troubled in this video.

  • @ethiopianabesha
    @ethiopianabesha 6 років тому +4

    As I look at the beautiful green/black plate I purchased a few years ago to celebrate several milestones, my heart is so sadden for her 13-year old daughter----RIP Kate B. Spade!

  • @kerryannehogg6009
    @kerryannehogg6009 6 років тому +59

    She definitely sounds and looks like she's self-medicating here. And I'm not meaning to be judgemental but he seems like he's gay despite being married to her. So sad to hear of her passing :o(

    • @143YR
      @143YR 6 років тому +9

      I agree - on both points

    • @Ken-iu2zp
      @Ken-iu2zp 5 років тому +11

      You can actually see the disconnect between them. Almost as of it comes through the screen. He has a "drink alot" face. And comes across as a latent homosexual. Kate is a pretty woman even in her 50s. She's a capricorn though. They can be hard workers and very emotionally dull and stern around the house. Idk....RIP Kate

    • @JenniferMercier
      @JenniferMercier 5 років тому +4

      It's true. There's a major disconnect in every way.

    • @thesundog8833
      @thesundog8833 5 років тому +2

      What is the point in saying you think he's gay despite being married to her?
      What a worthless thing to say. It's incredible how judgemental and pointless that is. Do you think David is gay too?
      Have you considered you may be a lesbian?

    • @iknowwhatsup2880
      @iknowwhatsup2880 5 років тому +3

      He comes off snarky for sure.

  • @catherineto
    @catherineto 5 років тому +6

    The whole interview was like mourning of a dead person rather than intro of a new brand. There is a lack of enthusiasm from Kate. She is not focus and totally disorganized in her thoughts. I can understand why now she is RIP. Sad. Talented people needs the dark side to be creative and yet it also pull them inside and never wake up again in some case.

  • @RoboRocker69
    @RoboRocker69 4 роки тому +5

    Does anyone know if Andy Spade has any woodchuck or beaver in his ancestry?

  • @joesilkwood4958
    @joesilkwood4958 6 років тому +8

    Just learned of her today! So so successful WHY????? WHY???

    • @stephenarling1667
      @stephenarling1667 6 років тому

      Gutless, many have made fortunes pandering to women's vanity.

    • @magician_6262
      @magician_6262 6 років тому

      So has Ferrari, pandering to men's tiny penises.

  • @renewasright
    @renewasright 6 років тому +17

    This is so sad. But you know how teens are. Also noticed a few of their interviews mention how the daughter treats them. I find it interesting that they sold the company for their daughter and Kate's note says it's not her fault and that Ask Daddy statement is haunting. It's all so sad. My thoughts and prayers to the family. It's impossible to really understand suicide.

    • @mp5249
      @mp5249 6 років тому +9

      TELLTHETALE PICTURES a healthy person understands that stupid things a 12 year old may say is the product of an immature mind and a normal part of adolescent development. You can't take it personally and children do mature and change their behaviour.

    • @renewasright
      @renewasright 6 років тому +1

      M P Absolutely. But we are human and that gets exhausting at weak points of patience. But I hear ya.

    • @Kristen10-22
      @Kristen10-22 6 років тому +4

      You teach others how to treat you & if your suffering you don’t care. Also have a teen that needs your love yet you can’t give it to yourself. It’s the cycle of depression, addiction.. hurt people hurt people

    • @Kristen10-22
      @Kristen10-22 6 років тому +2

      Amen!!!!! Human connection can not be replaced behind a screen! Humans need connection

    • @pb4531
      @pb4531 6 років тому +1

      She spoke about her daughter often but all negative attributes. If I was her daughter and I was 12 watching this it would still hurt me at 30 that my mother couldn't see beyond her own needs & perspective of what I'm Not, than who I was a 12 year old child. The book comment was disgraceful. She obviously just never adapted to being a mother & not a business woman. She seems bitter about that & probably had Post natal depression. Susoect the father bonded better as he doesn't criticise the daughter & is often protective of her when Kate makes comments.

  • @kalahking1221
    @kalahking1221 6 років тому +23

    Wow this was only in April ...you truly never know what people go through.

  • @dolphinsuzanne
    @dolphinsuzanne 6 років тому +2

    Wow hardly anyone has liked this video. More comments than likes. Kate spade ♠️ is a great designer love your work RIP KATE. Pls like the video guys.

  • @emilygoudey2317
    @emilygoudey2317 6 років тому +5

    R.I.P Kate Spade💛

  • @quincymilburn9611
    @quincymilburn9611 6 років тому +41

    She seems either high or drunk totally a bit off. She seems like she was going threw a depression, so sad. Her daughter thought she did nothing! Plus Her husband is seems gay. So Sad RIP Kate Spade

    • @kamilestone8346
      @kamilestone8346 6 років тому +1

      quincy milburn she looks like she iš on meds

    • @nonebusiness4488
      @nonebusiness4488 6 років тому

      she is not high or drunk nor does she seem like she is on drugs. you are a liar.

  • @jeanjones1846
    @jeanjones1846 6 років тому +8

    The older I get, the more I think... You only get a min... better live while your in it... cause its gone in a blink

  • @gastro2009
    @gastro2009 6 років тому +13

    RIP Style ICON

  • @cynthiaselene1496
    @cynthiaselene1496 6 років тому +2

    To all the people talking crap about the host, at least she made her feel good about something “i just wish you would tell her that”

  • @OMGWTFLOLSMH
    @OMGWTFLOLSMH 6 років тому +49

    She seems to have had a somewhat adversarial relationship with her daughter.

    • @143YR
      @143YR 6 років тому +14

      and her husband

    • @Eyerusalem_
      @Eyerusalem_ 6 років тому +6

      OMGWTFLOL I said the same thing great observation

    • @Eyerusalem_
      @Eyerusalem_ 6 років тому +15

      Jane Brown because she kept saying “ my daughter does not think so, hope my daughter hears that” when they interviewer mentions her success!!

    • @carlysama
      @carlysama 6 років тому +18

      The "you did nothing wrong, ask daddy" in the suicide note makes me wonder if her daughter was caught in between tensions with her and her husband.

    • @sereialinda3792
      @sereialinda3792 6 років тому +6

      Carly D. No his is what they want us to believe! These things were planted people. Don’t believe all u hear and read! The same people that killed her and staged the crime scene, are the same people that control and own all media so whatever they sell us don’t buy it... it’s lies....she had everything going for her! She was a happy vivacious person, then she sells her company for 3.4 BILLION and a year later commits suicide shortly appearing in a last interview drugged and sitting beside her husband who she was at odds with.... she’s really messed up in this interview though....so very sad .....they got to her........ SHINE BRIGHT ETERNAL LIGHT

  • @sarahthompson8669
    @sarahthompson8669 4 роки тому +2

    I love the way Kate kept her hair long with glasses very pretty woman

  • @fiery.mercaba
    @fiery.mercaba 6 років тому +26

    There was so much indication coming out of Kate Spade here in this interview, though, that she was not satisfied within herself, overly self-conscious, troubled in mind, somewhat worn. Sighing.
    Only the Lord Jesus Christ can satisfy your soul & give your life meaning, folks! All else is dust!

    • @highlyfavored57
      @highlyfavored57 6 років тому +4

      888,888_ fiery_mercaba Amen! Well said. Money, fame, cares of this world; all are distractions from realizing One's true purpose and experiencing hope and peace through Jesus Christ.

    • @Noah4evaa
      @Noah4evaa 6 років тому +2

      Amen!

    • @Maayraa111
      @Maayraa111 6 років тому

      ua-cam.com/video/s6GhvEAh68w/v-deo.html

    • @Maayraa111
      @Maayraa111 6 років тому +2

      You need to see her apartment, the first thing is a painting of a big black hole, symbolic of how she was feeling?

    • @fiery.mercaba
      @fiery.mercaba 6 років тому +1

      Quite possible, Maayraa Star. People who are artistic do gravitate in their art to topics that are of greatest interest to them or to said subject matter in the art of others. Clearly this still fairly young woman was tremendously tormented in the innermost of her person.

  • @mrgordy1980
    @mrgordy1980 6 років тому +2

    In the beginning of the interview Andy mostly refers to Kate as “she”. Definitely a frosty start but warmed up mid way

  • @RandyDRosario
    @RandyDRosario 6 років тому +21

    shes so charming.. so so sad

  • @CRISSYBYOU
    @CRISSYBYOU 6 років тому +50

    Her husband is gay and her daughter doesn't appreciate her. Sad. May her soul rest in peace.

    • @momsgarden1156
      @momsgarden1156 6 років тому +4

      crissy blake
      Omg yesss 🤓 good eye i was like hmmm!!! 🤔 wondering!!! there is something about him 😦

    • @KayInMaine
      @KayInMaine 6 років тому +8

      I think you nailed it! And Andy turned the daughter against Kate. Ugh. So awful!

    • @leslieburgess6985
      @leslieburgess6985 6 років тому +3

      crissy blake I thought he was too. You can tell there was a disconnect. The husband knew she was in trouble -she LOVED him by what I see

    • @CRISSYBYOU
      @CRISSYBYOU 6 років тому +4

      Leslie Boozer I agree he knew something was going on but I feel like he should've try to help her more then again we don't even know what he did or didn't do.

    • @leslieburgess6985
      @leslieburgess6985 6 років тому

      You can tell he doesn't always treat her right by how he cuts her off about the daughter.

  • @cannelle-cx1eb
    @cannelle-cx1eb 6 років тому +5

    No love between them , very sarcastic toward each other