Wow...Forgiveness! That one hit me in the gut. Like millions of people around the world, it has been a really rough few years. During the lockdown I was building my business, then I started getting sick and was diagnosed with a rare stage 4 cancer. Then shortly after that diagnosis I learned I had ovarian cancer starting. Thankfully today I am cancer free, but the journey getting here was awful. My family jumped ship at my lowest point after my mom passed last year. So forgiveness is my biggest hurdle right now. You've shaken something in me that I need to deal with....thanks for that. God bless you and your journey Arlan❤
When I took your Make Your Own Headline Challenge I could barely believe it was possible to make 1k and in less then 3 weeks into my first month full time in my business I reached 5k. Thank you for making SO much relatable education available to us all. It truly blessed me! Oh AND you inspired me to do my first live anxiety workshop over the weekend and it was AMAZING!!! Thank you!
#4 Is the lesson that stands out for me. I always wanted to be a CPA. Today I work for a company that will pay for my college education. I can attract money with my new learned knowledge!
You're right about forgiveness. I was playing (practicing) a classical piano piece. I guy came up and said, " You play sloppy." That shut me down fire a long time. Now II've made peace with it and come to realize that ask I had to say to him, " I forgive you." This would have made me forgive myself because somewhere in my mind, I've practiced imposter syndrome. Now I'm back on track
I remember that tour! You were a Rock Star handling all the logistics & management requests that were thrown at you! Your patience was admirable & your attitude was always pleasant! Kudos to you for all your success!! Peace & Blessings Sis!
Getting used to NO. I have 25 books written and I have been trying to find an Agent to present my stories to tv or movie producers. No luck. I remain hopeful.
Arlan. You are the TRUTH. We out here. We have your 2nd book. We're READING - Now WATCHING - We're ABSORBING and IMPLEMENTING. Let's GO! Thank you sis. Fee King
Years ago as a Mary Kay consultant We continuously did the 100 NO challenge. The goal, go for the NO's ask 100 people to try the product. You'll fall on a yes if you shoot for the No's. I love that it works for any business. It's a numbers game for sure
Hi Alan, Thank you for sharing your story. That's good stuff! The 5 lessons were impactful. However, there were two that truly resonated with me. 1). Forgiveness (My destiny is super important and i didn't allow the betrayal to interfere or keep me stuck. With God' grace I forgave. 2). Investing in me- believing in me Accepting all of me Peace & Blessings ❣️
Arlan you’re such an inspirational woman and entrepreneur! I’m so excited and plan to join your academy. I’m a mental health therapist ready to continue to help others but also have more financial freedom w courses and larger audiences I’m so so excited to think of continuing to grow /teach and create wealth. You’re a shining star. Many blessings ! ❤🎉
I’ve literally just applied the 3rd hack without knowing it was a hack. It just felt like I needed to let go and move on because my mission is too important to get distracted with trying to prove a point or trying to “stick to” someone.
I liked all of your tips. The last one 'invest in yourself' resonates with me the most right now. It's my birthday and I'm going to a Spa alone for the first time so I can relax without distraction. I'm hoping it will help me increase how I value myself and allow myself to go into new spaces with confidence. You're inspiring! Keep up the good work 🙌🏾
Thanks for sharing these words of wisdom. I look forward to becoming part of the 1000 and then I would love to meet you in person and thank you for it.
So Awesome! To see Arlan dancing at 9:40...i rewatched that a few times because as long I have known her, I DO NOT remeBber seeing her dance before! LOVE IT!
11:11 YES! These are all valuable insights. I agree; number four is likely the most valuable of them all. Knowledge is power; especially when used in positive, meaningful, helpful ways. Thank you for so generously sharing your experiences and skillset. You don’t *have* to be here to help us. I’m glad that you are. 😊
More valuable and usable lessons. I've saved so I can review again. AND I totally forgot about investing in myself, duh! Will work on that this week as I adjust my monthly finance plan. Thanks so much!
@Arlan ,Awesome video! I actually just know who you are few weeks ago when I saw you and my Nigerian sister on the TV. Talking about No’s , I need to get better with that in my business 😜
Thank you for watching! Let me know which of the 5 lessons was most helpful to you.
I would love❤🙏 to contact you in the near future to see if we can collab and profit in this YT entrepreneurship. Thank you. 🙏Dan Belsky
Wow...Forgiveness! That one hit me in the gut.
Like millions of people around the world, it has been a really rough few years. During the lockdown I was building my business, then I started getting sick and was diagnosed with a rare stage 4 cancer. Then shortly after that diagnosis I learned I had ovarian cancer starting. Thankfully today I am cancer free, but the journey getting here was awful. My family jumped ship at my lowest point after my mom passed last year.
So forgiveness is my biggest hurdle right now.
You've shaken something in me that I need to deal with....thanks for that.
God bless you and your journey Arlan❤
When I took your Make Your Own Headline Challenge I could barely believe it was possible to make 1k and in less then 3 weeks into my first month full time in my business I reached 5k. Thank you for making SO much relatable education available to us all. It truly blessed me! Oh AND you inspired me to do my first live anxiety workshop over the weekend and it was AMAZING!!! Thank you!
What an amazing story! Thank you for sharing it. You're awesome:)) Make sure you're signed up for yourfirstmillion.pro
@@ArlansYourFirstMillion Already signed up earlier this month ☺️
#4 Is the lesson that stands out for me. I always wanted to be a CPA. Today I work for a company that will pay for my college education. I can attract money with my new learned knowledge!
You're right about forgiveness. I was playing (practicing) a classical piano piece. I guy came up and said, " You play sloppy." That shut me down fire a long time. Now II've made peace with it and come to realize that ask I had to say to him, " I forgive you." This would have made me forgive myself because somewhere in my mind, I've practiced imposter syndrome. Now I'm back on track
“Understanding who I am and what I can become is way more valuable than the hours that I can put into something.”🔥🔥🔥🔥
Subscribed and hit the bell B4 the video even started. Beautiful energy
Thank you so much! Amazing:)
I remember that tour! You were a Rock Star handling all the logistics & management requests that were thrown at you! Your patience was admirable & your attitude was always pleasant! Kudos to you for all your success!! Peace & Blessings Sis!
Hi, Grover! Thank you so much for the kind words! I feel the same about working with you.
Getting used to NO. I have 25 books written and I have been trying to find an Agent to present my stories to tv or movie producers. No luck. I remain hopeful.
Thank you.
Love your video energy and entrepreneurial insights!❤
Thanks so much!!
Arlan. You are the TRUTH. We out here. We have your 2nd book. We're READING - Now WATCHING - We're ABSORBING and IMPLEMENTING. Let's GO! Thank you sis. Fee King
"Invest in yourself" Doing that this last year. online classes, conferences, etc. especially Arlan Academy
Years ago as a Mary Kay consultant We continuously did the 100 NO challenge. The goal, go for the NO's ask 100 people to try the product. You'll fall on a yes if you shoot for the No's. I love that it works for any business. It's a numbers game for sure
Hi Alan,
Thank you for sharing your story. That's good stuff!
The 5 lessons were impactful. However, there were two that truly resonated with me.
1). Forgiveness (My destiny is super important and i didn't allow the betrayal to interfere or keep me stuck. With God' grace I forgave.
2). Investing in me- believing in me
Accepting all of me
Peace & Blessings ❣️
Thanks for sharing!
Tiktok brought me here I'm so happy I found this channel 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🎯💯💯
This is giving me so much hope and fuel to keep going on my multigeneration plans! Thank you!
I betin on my myself starting my trucking business in couple days
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Arlan you’re such an inspirational woman and entrepreneur! I’m so excited and plan to join your academy. I’m a mental health therapist ready to continue to help others but also have more financial freedom w courses and larger audiences I’m so so excited to think of continuing to grow /teach and create wealth. You’re a shining star. Many blessings ! ❤🎉
Lesson #4. Wow! That's a beautiful one! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.
Glad it was helpful!
I’ve literally just applied the 3rd hack without knowing it was a hack. It just felt like I needed to let go and move on because my mission is too important to get distracted with trying to prove a point or trying to “stick to” someone.
Best video of the year. Truly valuable. Thanks Arlan🌹
Thank you SO much!
I am grateful to have watched this video. Thank you.
So glad!
I liked all of your tips. The last one 'invest in yourself' resonates with me the most right now. It's my birthday and I'm going to a Spa alone for the first time so I can relax without distraction. I'm hoping it will help me increase how I value myself and allow myself to go into new spaces with confidence. You're inspiring! Keep up the good work 🙌🏾
Thank you Arlan!!!! Read your book two years ago and was a fan!!
Lesson number 5! Thank you so much! 🙏🏾
Thanks for sharing these words of wisdom. I look forward to becoming part of the 1000 and then I would love to meet you in person and thank you for it.
So Awesome! To see Arlan dancing at 9:40...i rewatched that a few times because as long I have known her, I DO NOT remeBber seeing her dance before! LOVE IT!
Why am I just now learning about you! I loved this video and heard some valuable information! I definitely need to incorporate this today! ❤
Think in decades and not in quarters..I have to do this..thanks
I will walk across that stage!
You absolutely will!
Thanks u very much sister ❤❤❤
Dammit!! I love Arlan, shes so genuine. I have to reach out see about funding for this patent I've been awarded.
11:11 YES! These are all valuable insights. I agree; number four is likely the most valuable of them all. Knowledge is power; especially when used in positive, meaningful, helpful ways.
Thank you for so generously sharing your experiences and skillset. You don’t *have* to be here to help us.
I’m glad that you are. 😊
Such a wonderful woman.
More valuable and usable lessons. I've saved so I can review again. AND I totally forgot about investing in myself, duh! Will work on that this week as I adjust my monthly finance plan. Thanks so much!
Glad it was helpful!
@Arlan ,Awesome video! I actually just know who you are few weeks ago when I saw you and my Nigerian sister on the TV. Talking about No’s , I need to get better with that in my business 😜
That's awesome
life learning thoughts.internalize it
Thank you for the reminder to invest in myself. That act in itself with have a ripple effect in my business goals!
Thank you!
I LOVE YOU ARLAN 💜💜💜💜
Great tips! I look forward to being 1 of 1,000.
Thanks for this Arlan!
🙌 always inspiring and empowering
Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts on this area you are an amazing person I will be following you. All the best to you.
This was so helpful!
I'm SO glad to hear that:)
Definitely, #3 - don’t count your chickens before they hatch!
Yes, a lesson learned the hard way many times.
I love your words of wisdom.
I have re-invented myself after cancer 3. I deserve my dreams. People are laughing. I am not.
I love your videos.
Forgiveness is everything. "Learn to be paid for your existence and not your time" AMEN AND AMEN!!
First to comment! Great stuff!
Thank you so much.
I JUST DISCOVERED YOU TODAY 💜💜💜💜
God bless you
I love your story 🙌🏽 Please help me 🙏🏽
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You are fabulous!!!!!!
I will be in the 1000
Yes you will.
#5 #3#1
At 81? 3x cancer? Whew
Do you mentor transguy
learn to paid for your existence and not your time
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