I agree. And everyone’s getting so angry he doesn’t fancy her. You can’t force chemistry. He was actually very honest and polite about how he feels about her. She’s so entitled and “expecting” him to find her “sexy” and she just couldn’t take rejection.
I agree. And everyone’s getting so angry he doesn’t fancy her. You can’t force chemistry. He was actually very honest and polite about how he feels about her. She’s so entitled and “expecting” him to find her “sexy” and she just couldn’t take rejection.
He is not attracted to her and he did not say it in a rude way....if he is not attracted to her, it is wrong to shame him for it if he says it in the most polite way HE could, Not the way SHE wants it to be delivered.whats he supposed to do lie...and she tries to convince him he is wrong for not being attracted to her.... but if he was SHORTER than her we all KNOW how that convo would go (she's in her right to not be attracted)
Maybe he should buy a mirror or a light bulb so he can turn the light on and see himself in one because he's not exactly Adonis himself. He has some body weight issues and that is fine but don't shame hers.
She sat there and gaslit him. He expressed a preference, and she turned him into the villain for being honest and upfront, instead of just using her clearly desperate self for sex. She should be grateful that he’s been honest and hasn’t led her on or given her a false sense of security, only to leave her later. She’s over the top and honestly, way too much. He’s not perfect, but at least he’s being truthful and respecting her by not lying, which seems to be what she prefers. Dysfunctional behavior on her part. According to her logic anyone one that does not find her sexy has a issuse with women ..Jog on
To be fair she is similar to the sister and he wasnt rude about it at all he was imo trying to tell her kindly its not his fault if the attraction isnt there
@@wildberrygarden Just watching this short vid I wonder how “more tactful” this guy could’ve been ? Ridiculous how men are expected to pander to women these days.
This was so cringe, she was talking to him like she probably talks to her employees as a sales manager-all bullet points and problem solving, it's shit that he isn't feeling it, but it's just one of those things 🤷
I cringed so hard when she gave those Karen vibes, barking at him about how he "SHOULD" feel... It's not cool to "should" on people. Let them have their free will or you are actually encouraging liars.
OK Casper is not attracted to Emma.I have to say she is a pretty girl . Unfortunately she has a very direct way of expressing herself and that will not go down too well with Casper
@rockchickchick1 shouldn't everyone have self esteem though? Not everyone has the same idea about what makes someone attractive. While size 14 isn't skinny, she is very average representative.
She: „Do you think I look sexy tonight? You don’t think I’m sexy?“ 😊 He: „No“😬 She: „Wow“😳 Why ask such a question if you're not ready for an honest answer? The guy was straightforward, and now she's offended because it wasn’t what she expected. Compliments are given, not requested otherwise, they're not sincere. I can’t believe she kept on pushing it. „If you didn’t think I‘m sexy in my fkn wedding dress. And you didn’t think I‘m sexy in my gorgeous bikini. Then I’m afraid there is no hope for us.“ Then told him he should look past that and focus on her personality and confidence but dry cried about it to the experts and the entire group. Framing him as the bad guy with a terrible view of women. Glad he stood up for himself.
@@EmmaJean-c6v What do you mean ‘And…’ Speaks for itself. It’s hypocritical to say you don’t find someone attractive because they are curvy when you are curvy yourself.
@@meganimal8 its not thou. You may think that. Thats fine. But everyone has their own preference. You need to get over it. Hes just not into her and I respect his honesty.
But the whole point of the show is to see if people can look beyond the physical and see something deeper. If he was going to have very specific expectations, than he shouldn't have came on the show, because this show is about love and mariage. it's not a beauty contest.he needs to go on the bachelor if that's what he's wanting.🤷♀️
It's both, personality and he's not attracted to her physically. But she didn't help the situation by making out like he has a problem for not being attracted to her. I mean yeah looks aren't everything but to most people it's important to some extent.
@@davidwinner6926 He's chubby himself and doesn't seem to realise he's not God's gift to women but it's his attitude that's the biggest problem. He's obnoxious, opinionated, dismissive - who wouldn't want that? Those 'petite brunettes' he fancies clearly didn't work out that well for him. Maybe they were slim and vain just like him and didn't fancy a chubby man.
@@anjou6497 She isn't though. She's snappy full of herself and very passive aggressive. She's showing her teeth almost snarling at him. All he did was give her honesty and he struggled to say it which shows his intent was only good. He already knows she ain't the one. What an amazing guy to to be so honest from the getgo and not waste her time. What is up with all the delusional comments on here.
Yeah she needs to realise she's trying too hard and just dump his ass. He's not worth the effort to be honest. He's no well built Adonis himself. I get that he can't help it if he doesn't fancy her. That's normal. What's not right is body shaming her. That's never okay. It's even worse when he has body issues himself.
Totally agree. She is deluded. Nothing wrong with being big but for goodness sake don’t lie about your dress size. She clearly has an issue with herself.
Not really good for her. She's clearly got very poor self esteem and being lied to by her friends isn't helping. She has no self confidence and requires validation from others. When she doesn't get that validation she becomes rather nasty and vindictive
@@kristienwhitney-johns5863 Because he isn't nice at all about anything. He sits there with his face like thunder in a tantrum like a 2 year old who can't get what he wants. He's not exactly slim himself so maybe buy a mirror before he criticises.
@@kristienwhitney-johns5863 Absolutely NOTHING which is my point. All I meant is that he can't really criticise her body if he can't look in the mirror and see the truth about himself. He's no Adonis so writing someone off before getting to know them because he wants the petite brunette which clearly hasn't worked out for him so far is not right. He isn't a nice person. Maybe that's more to do with why things have not worked out for him in the past. Personally, I wouldn't give someone with his attitude the time of day no matter what he looked like. He also has an extremely disturbing hatred towards his sister. That's NOT normal. He's someone I'd be very worried about. His sister should be worried too and take nothing to do with him. He's still carrying resentment for her for a shared birthday party because they're twins? He's a bit unhinged.
@heather6668 he just said he doesn't normally go for curvy girls? And that's completely fine. At no point has he suggested that he's an Adonis, he's been open and honest that he hasn't got the best body, confessing that he doesn't like what he sees in the mirror. Him having a physical preference is absolutely fair, I'm not surprised he didn't want to get to know her at the start, she was awful to him. He seems nice enough, far nicer than her. He's just miserable, and honestly, I can't blame him, he was treated terribly. There's clearly some deep seated resentment between him and his sister. If you think it'd because they shared a birthday party and that's it, then I don't think you've been paying attention
All he did was be honest. He wasn't trying to be cruel. She is a heavy set girl. She is goregous but she is built as big as big as he is. It's always about the intent behind what people say and this guys intent wasn't bad. Actually hes letting her know well in advance. Thats a good guy right there.
@@davidwinner6926 So where's the photo of you for us to judge? I'm sure even f your body weight isn't an issue there are other issues you have that people wouldn't like or accept. Maybe think before you body shame anyone. At least she's bright and outgoing. He's a sour faced git who let's face it, isn't exactly without the overweight body issue himself. Maybe he should buy a mirror and actually use it before he says anything.
Enough is enough!!! I'm 70 yrs old and have had to watch my weight my entire adult life. When I was a young teen, Twiggy was the the ideal. Impossible to live up to but fat is fat, overweight is overweight, obese is obese. Some of us have to work at it. That's life! I am so sick and tired of people being "shamed" by fat, out of shape people. Stop using the "don't be mean" trend to excuse slovenly behavior. When I was in my early 20s it was fabulous to *always* be asked into Studio 54. It still means something to me. Dont bully people because you are unwilling to put in the effort.
Shes a bit manly isnt she and bit direct. Men of Value dont like it. Shit then she starts telling him off for not fancying her and emasculating him like hes her teenage son. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Run Run and never look back fella.
Men of value? You can't possibly mean HIM. He's obnoxious, ignorant, nasty and dismissive of someone before he even got to know her because she's larger than he normally chases. Clearly the petite brunettes he fancied haven't been interested in him - maybe because he's a bit chubby himself. He clearly doesn't own a mirror. Basing your entire opinion of someone you've just met based on looks is so ignorant. She stood up for herself in saying she's a size 14 not a f***ing monster. However, I think she needs to stop wasting her time with this moron and just accept he's not for her and move on. Also, his total hatred of his sister is something absolutely disturbing and his sister should be worried about what he might do. He's not right in the head. He's still banging on and fuming with jealousy over a shared birthday party when they were kids.
The hate he has for his twin sister is disturbing. She should watch out for herself. He's not all there. He's a nasty, jealous piece of work who can't get over the fact they had to share a birthday party how many years ago? He's not someone who should even be on this show paired with ANYONE.
@EmmaJean-c6v lol you are riding his d so hard in these comments. Everyone has preferences but also people would have more success if they were grounded in reality. His preference hasn't helped him so far, its caused him to be insecure about his own weight because he punches too hard. He should lose weight in that case. A lot of fit women want fit men. You have to work for what you want.
@@lauragibbons363 Where exactly did she own him 🤔 She is delusional. Telling him he needs to change the way he views women. He's not into her. He knows she isn't the one. She's blessed he is so honest so early on. Alot of guys with no balls would have ran with it.
Its so true. She is built as big as him. Most men like to feel stronger than their woman ...nothing new here and he was very sensitive in how he approached her he struggled i respect the honesty.
@@VNDRE7 I agree with how ridiculous that is but the difference is tall men actually want shorter women. I can guarantee no fit woman wants a fatter man. People who work hard to keep in shape want that quality in their partner.
@@kazzityangel No, tall men prefer a woman closer to their height but shorter, not the 5 foot girls insisting on a 6 foot plus man. He is overweight and she is morbidly obese. She has no waist, that means her BMI i much higher than his. He would take an overweight girl with his BMI. But please dont compare her much larger weight to his. Also why do poor women insist on wanting a wealthy man? Hypocrisy? Men are allowed their preferences, if women are allowed theirs.
Funny how a man is criticized for having a type of woman he prefers, yet virtually every woman whos on the show, the first thing they ask for or comment on is how tall the man is. Before a man even says a word, the women judge them by height.
That dress is not flattering is it ! Like a little girl's party dress. No self-awareness , she's also quite snappy so i don't blame him. At least he tried to be tactful poor guy . 🤔
@@charlotb22 Yes, her constant self-flattery and obnoxious attitude was putting him off by the second. I hope he finds a lovely, peaceful lady to chill with. 🌄☕
So men can't say nothing about woman's weight which they can control but all they ever do is talk about is height 6 foot plus which we cant am i getting this right....
People don't want to sleep with confidence, the initial attraction is the spark and the outer packaging no matter how non PC that is, those are the facts.
‘His usual type’ hadn’t worked out for him though! (Which is why the experts have matched him with someone different to his ‘type’). Rock on,sister! She is amazing, and eloquently takes him to task here:- ‘You need to work on your view of women’ Of course he’s entitled not to fancy her, but he could give the growing relationship time & see if attraction grows. This has happened with other MAFS couples in the past, e.g.. the famed MAFS USA couple Jamie & Doug (where she didn’t fancy him at first).
Oh come on love! If the chemistrys not there its not there. I admire his honesty..IF YOU GO ON NATIONAL TV TO MARRY A COMPLETE STRANGER EXPECT TO GET INSULTED REJECTED DISAPPOINTED...GOES FOR HIM TOO..BUT HES HONEST !!!!!😮
yes he is curvy himself but that doesnt mean he must be attracted to curvy girls! i am chubby and i dont find chubby men attractive . my husband is skinny. she is not just curvy but she is like an old woman who is talking at you dry like a toast no butter no jam.
I don’t think there was any need to bring her weight into it and he could of been more tactful. But she comes across as a tad domineering and I have a feeling that he also finds this unattractive,and is left feeling a bit emasculated. Can’t see this ending well!
He likes feminity, she likes masculinity. He wants petite she wants taller and a beard. If he was short it would be his problem not hers if she wasn't attracted. So why is he at fault?
When he gets to know her and her personality better this might drastically change. When i met my husband i could not even fathom that he will become my husband because i thought he was not my "type". After time (a year) getting to know him and his personality and traits and morals i was the happiest bride on our special day. This is why you need time to get to know each other before even thinking of getting married. Thats called courting. This show has the least success because of this. Marriage is special and this show makes it a joke.
But it’s also different for men than it is for women - your example shows that a woman can become attracted to someone over time if the initial attraction wasn’t there, but for men 😂 if the initial attraction wasn’t there, it will never come 😂
He just doesn't fancy her. He said at their wedding that Emma is too much like his sister, whom he doesn't get on with. There's no point in forcing it. They just aren't compatible, and that's OK.
Totally agree Amanda. Its in mens dna to want to be able to pick their woman up and feel stronger. Also he was very sensitive in how he approached her. I respect his honesty. Fair play to him
I have so much respect for Emma and Casper. I am 57 and never found my person.I still had kids with my gay best friend who 18 years later is a great dad still. I wish I would have met a Casper 20 years ago as I feel we would have been a good match if our ages had aligned. I am lucky as I am a mother even though I never found my soul mate.
Lol, I really like Emma. She is confident and speaks up for herself and didn't shrink away when he told her he wasn't into her. She's fabulous. He's entitled to his attractions but if he could land the gorgeous ones I'm pretty sure his bland looking self wouldn't be on the show.
He is obviously above average looks for the UK. Go to the shops and see whats available. Emma is rude, loud and controlling. You cant guilt someone into sleeping with you.
@stellamarisnsaba4785 What happens to a wife who piles on weight depends on the husband. I keep myself in good shape, so does my wife, that's just us. I'd be honest with her... No D for you until the excess weight is gone. Keep the standards.
What i never understand about people going on this show If you can, get your usual type all of the time. Then why go on this bloody show to marry a complete stranger. I think people go on this show because they are unable to get top tier attractive people.
Last night, she chose for them too stay together. Hypothetically even if she behaved herself and they stayed together, the animus inside her would eventually tear the soul out of him. FOR GOD SAKE GET OUT!
I feel she handled the put down very well. She is very mature and level headed. Sadly though I feel she could do with losing a good 10kgs plus. I'm into fitness and couldn't be attracted to a large woman. They shouldn't have been matched in the first place.
He’s not into fat women. Oh, oh I didn’t know you weren’t allowed to say that. Women may not say it about men, they’d simply ignore them. They’re into tall, dark and handsome, and the bad boy types. What’s so wrong with stating what you mean, even if it’s slightly hurtful. Maybe it might even get the person to lose weight or go and find someone who finds them just fine. It saves a hell of a lot of time and wasted effort for both parties. There I said it. Personally I think she is pretty with has a decent personality. Is she my perfect body type, no, but to me the person someone is, is far more important than just their looks. I hear you say I must be ugly. Well no, I’m not ugly. nor am I dead drop gorgeous, really pretty average looking, short 5’9”, brown hair good physique, but quiet bright and extraverted personality. Again not every one’s cup of tea.
If it's not there, it's not there, a spark can't be forced
Exactly ❤
100%
I agree. And everyone’s getting so angry he doesn’t fancy her. You can’t force chemistry. He was actually very honest and polite about how he feels about her. She’s so entitled and “expecting” him to find her “sexy” and she just couldn’t take rejection.
I agree. And everyone’s getting so angry he doesn’t fancy her. You can’t force chemistry. He was actually very honest and polite about how he feels about her. She’s so entitled and “expecting” him to find her “sexy” and she just couldn’t take rejection.
A spark can definitely grow.
They're not compatible.
End of.
He is not attracted to her and he did not say it in a rude way....if he is not attracted to her, it is wrong to shame him for it if he says it in the most polite way HE could, Not the way SHE wants it to be delivered.whats he supposed to do lie...and she tries to convince him he is wrong for not being attracted to her.... but if he was SHORTER than her we all KNOW how that convo would go (she's in her right to not be attracted)
Maybe he should buy a mirror or a light bulb so he can turn the light on and see himself in one because he's not exactly Adonis himself. He has some body weight issues and that is fine but don't shame hers.
She sat there and gaslit him. He expressed a preference, and she turned him into the villain for being honest and upfront, instead of just using her clearly desperate self for sex. She should be grateful that he’s been honest and hasn’t led her on or given her a false sense of security, only to leave her later. She’s over the top and honestly, way too much. He’s not perfect, but at least he’s being truthful and respecting her by not lying, which seems to be what she prefers. Dysfunctional behavior on her part. According to her logic anyone one that does not find her sexy has a issuse with women ..Jog on
To be fair she is similar to the sister and he wasnt rude about it at all he was imo trying to tell her kindly its not his fault if the attraction isnt there
If he ain't feeling anything, he ain't feeling it. His human at the end of the day.
@@ivorharden Yes!!! Nice to see intelligent peeps on here
@@ivorharden Yes!!! Nice to see intelligent peeps on here
absolutely however he could have been more tactful.
@@wildberrygarden honesty is policy
@@wildberrygarden Just watching this short vid I wonder how “more tactful” this guy could’ve been ? Ridiculous how men are expected to pander to women these days.
This was so cringe, she was talking to him like she probably talks to her employees as a sales manager-all bullet points and problem solving, it's shit that he isn't feeling it, but it's just one of those things 🤷
I cringed so hard when she gave those Karen vibes, barking at him about how he "SHOULD" feel...
It's not cool to "should" on people. Let them have their free will or you are actually encouraging liars.
OK Casper is not attracted to Emma.I have to say she is a pretty girl . Unfortunately she has a very direct way of expressing herself and that will not go down too well with Casper
She actually thinks she looks sexy 😂
@rockchickchick1 shouldn't everyone have self esteem though? Not everyone has the same idea about what makes someone attractive. While size 14 isn't skinny, she is very average representative.
@@cutesyjam She looks a size 18 to me. Shes morbidly obese. Its very unhealthy. He looks overweight only.
She: „Do you think I look sexy tonight? You don’t think I’m sexy?“ 😊
He: „No“😬
She: „Wow“😳
Why ask such a question if you're not ready for an honest answer? The guy was straightforward, and now she's offended because it wasn’t what she expected.
Compliments are given, not requested otherwise, they're not sincere.
I can’t believe she kept on pushing it. „If you didn’t think I‘m sexy in my fkn wedding dress. And you didn’t think I‘m sexy in my gorgeous bikini. Then I’m afraid there is no hope for us.“
Then told him he should look past that and focus on her personality and confidence but dry cried about it to the experts and the entire group. Framing him as the bad guy with a terrible view of women. Glad he stood up for himself.
Well said!!!!!
😂 she's so cringe.
It was a really odd response.
"Do you think I look sexy tonight?" 💀
Wish there was more honesty in this world
He had tactful honesty. There's nothing wrong with that!! Men have a right to their feelings too.
He literally just being honest, he’s done nothing wrong
Yeah but jesus is he full of himself
@@MillerTheOriginalhe’s not. He’s simply not attracted to her.
@@rockchickchick1 disagree
People can be honest and respectful at the same time.
He’s ‘curvy’ himself!
@@meganimal8 exactly...the nerve 😤
ha ha 😀🤣
And.....
@@EmmaJean-c6v What do you mean ‘And…’ Speaks for itself. It’s hypocritical to say you don’t find someone attractive because they are curvy when you are curvy yourself.
@@meganimal8 its not thou. You may think that. Thats fine. But everyone has their own preference. You need to get over it. Hes just not into her and I respect his honesty.
He doesn't want you. If you stay its your own fault.
But the whole point of the show is to see if people can look beyond the physical and see something deeper. If he was going to have very specific expectations, than he shouldn't have came on the show, because this show is about love and mariage. it's not a beauty contest.he needs to go on the bachelor if that's what he's wanting.🤷♀️
He doesn’t fancy her, so what!!!
I blame the phycologists
Exactly
They ain't real they are literally producers they picked the least compatible people for drama
@@miraclewest9055
Sasha is off another tv programme, Lacys sister has been on tele too
Gosh that was painful to watch
I think it’s her personality that’s putting him off
Loud, arrogant, controlling and aggressive. Who doesn't want that?
It's both, personality and he's not attracted to her physically. But she didn't help the situation by making out like he has a problem for not being attracted to her. I mean yeah looks aren't everything but to most people it's important to some extent.
He's not that nice himself.
@@davidwinner6926 He's chubby himself and doesn't seem to realise he's not God's gift to women but it's his attitude that's the biggest problem. He's obnoxious, opinionated, dismissive - who wouldn't want that? Those 'petite brunettes' he fancies clearly didn't work out that well for him. Maybe they were slim and vain just like him and didn't fancy a chubby man.
He has unresolved anger towards his sister too and she is similar to her
he was honest and took it personally.
He put a block up when he compared his wife to his sister. He has a wall up so he cant fancy his wife.
She definitely held this conversation like a true boss tho!
I loved it
Not.
@@anjou6497 She isn't though. She's snappy full of herself and very passive aggressive. She's showing her teeth almost snarling at him. All he did was give her honesty and he struggled to say it which shows his intent was only good. He already knows she ain't the one. What an amazing guy to to be so honest from the getgo and not waste her time. What is up with all the delusional comments on here.
@@EmmaJean-c6v yes well said. I think he's attractive with really nice manners and attitude. He deserves much better.
A true boss goes to the gym with self respect instead of berating men into fancying her sloppy body smh.
She's trying to force him into liking her, what's confidence got to do with the price of milk 😂😂😂
@@FSFSFSFS532 Thats the CRAZY world we are in today 😂😂😂
Its creepy coercive controlling from her.
WOW! This comment made me shout! 😂 but it’s so true… you can be as confident as you like, if the milk is £2.50, it’s £2.50.
Yeah she needs to realise she's trying too hard and just dump his ass. He's not worth the effort to be honest. He's no well built Adonis himself. I get that he can't help it if he doesn't fancy her. That's normal. What's not right is body shaming her. That's never okay. It's even worse when he has body issues himself.
She is a liar declaring that she is a size 14. NO WAY, she is at least a size 20. If she doesn't think her size matters why lie about it?
I spat out my tea laughing when she said that 😆
Curvy is a polite word for overweight. Her BMI must be over 30
Totally agree. She is deluded. Nothing wrong with being big but for goodness sake don’t lie about your dress size. She clearly has an issue with herself.
Good for her he's not all that himself
Not really good for her. She's clearly got very poor self esteem and being lied to by her friends isn't helping. She has no self confidence and requires validation from others. When she doesn't get that validation she becomes rather nasty and vindictive
@@kristienwhitney-johns5863 Because he isn't nice at all about anything. He sits there with his face like thunder in a tantrum like a 2 year old who can't get what he wants. He's not exactly slim himself so maybe buy a mirror before he criticises.
@heather6668 what does him not being slim have to do with anything?
@@kristienwhitney-johns5863 Absolutely NOTHING which is my point. All I meant is that he can't really criticise her body if he can't look in the mirror and see the truth about himself. He's no Adonis so writing someone off before getting to know them because he wants the petite brunette which clearly hasn't worked out for him so far is not right. He isn't a nice person. Maybe that's more to do with why things have not worked out for him in the past. Personally, I wouldn't give someone with his attitude the time of day no matter what he looked like. He also has an extremely disturbing hatred towards his sister. That's NOT normal. He's someone I'd be very worried about. His sister should be worried too and take nothing to do with him. He's still carrying resentment for her for a shared birthday party because they're twins? He's a bit unhinged.
@heather6668 he just said he doesn't normally go for curvy girls? And that's completely fine. At no point has he suggested that he's an Adonis, he's been open and honest that he hasn't got the best body, confessing that he doesn't like what he sees in the mirror. Him having a physical preference is absolutely fair, I'm not surprised he didn't want to get to know her at the start, she was awful to him. He seems nice enough, far nicer than her. He's just miserable, and honestly, I can't blame him, he was treated terribly.
There's clearly some deep seated resentment between him and his sister. If you think it'd because they shared a birthday party and that's it, then I don't think you've been paying attention
All he did was be honest. He wasn't trying to be cruel. She is a heavy set girl. She is goregous but she is built as big as big as he is. It's always about the intent behind what people say and this guys intent wasn't bad. Actually hes letting her know well in advance. Thats a good guy right there.
She looks 3 times his size.
Well why did he marry her?? It’s only going to hurt her
@@davidwinner6926 So where's the photo of you for us to judge? I'm sure even f your body weight isn't an issue there are other issues you have that people wouldn't like or accept. Maybe think before you body shame anyone. At least she's bright and outgoing. He's a sour faced git who let's face it, isn't exactly without the overweight body issue himself. Maybe he should buy a mirror and actually use it before he says anything.
He's a boring drip, god awful boring, she is lively and good craic
You're boring too, gosh entitled judges person you are.
if you are that into looks do not marry someone you have never seen before. These shows make zero sense
Sister wasnt nice to him, so they matched him with someone exactly like his sister. Theyve matched them for entertainment
I can’t see this working out
She's a strong confident woman, I admire her.
Enough is enough!!! I'm 70 yrs old and have had to watch my weight my entire adult life. When I was a young teen, Twiggy was the the ideal. Impossible to live up to but fat is fat, overweight is overweight, obese is obese. Some of us have to work at it. That's life! I am so sick and tired of people being "shamed" by fat, out of shape people. Stop using the "don't be mean" trend to excuse slovenly behavior. When I was in my early 20s it was fabulous to *always* be asked into Studio 54. It still means something to me. Dont bully people because you are unwilling to put in the effort.
You can't force passion. Even if your qualities as a person are beautiful. Let's be honest ...
Young lady, leave him right away.
@@vivan-q7k Yes and thank you young man for being do honest
I feel he has just dumped her 😂
@@missxty8490 in a nice way though ☺
@@EmmaJean-c6v the kindest way possible. He did well
You must be blind if you think that's a young lady.
He said that very politely
Agree! Honest and polite.
He's so annoying 🙄 he's not thin????
It’s not the point, everyone has a preference
Its in men's dna to feel stronger than their woman ...nothing new here...she is built as big as him...blame the experts
And all women aren’t over 6 foot
@@VNDRE7 the point being?.
@@geraldinekelly8447 5 foot nothing women reject guys under 6 foot
Shes a bit manly isnt she and bit direct. Men of Value dont like it. Shit then she starts telling him off for not fancying her and emasculating him like hes her teenage son.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Run Run and never look back fella.
Men of value? You can't possibly mean HIM. He's obnoxious, ignorant, nasty and dismissive of someone before he even got to know her because she's larger than he normally chases. Clearly the petite brunettes he fancied haven't been interested in him - maybe because he's a bit chubby himself. He clearly doesn't own a mirror. Basing your entire opinion of someone you've just met based on looks is so ignorant. She stood up for herself in saying she's a size 14 not a f***ing monster. However, I think she needs to stop wasting her time with this moron and just accept he's not for her and move on. Also, his total hatred of his sister is something absolutely disturbing and his sister should be worried about what he might do. He's not right in the head. He's still banging on and fuming with jealousy over a shared birthday party when they were kids.
Well done girl.
She is very pretty but she is a little too loud!!if she tones it down she could be more attractive.
Yeah, I think she slightly makes it more difficult for him without knowing
He’s not that great of a guy BUT at the end of the day everyone has a preference 🤷🏽♀️
He shouldn't have come for the show
the hate he has for his TWIN sister is real
The hate he has for his twin sister is disturbing. She should watch out for herself. He's not all there. He's a nasty, jealous piece of work who can't get over the fact they had to share a birthday party how many years ago? He's not someone who should even be on this show paired with ANYONE.
She is an attractive woman. And he should enjoy being alone.
@@paulsheather7657 No he will find someone amazing hopefully and she isn't it.
@@EmmaJean-c6v LOL
wow thats bitchy
@EmmaJean-c6v lol you are riding his d so hard in these comments. Everyone has preferences but also people would have more success if they were grounded in reality. His preference hasn't helped him so far, its caused him to be insecure about his own weight because he punches too hard. He should lose weight in that case. A lot of fit women want fit men. You have to work for what you want.
He is sick of the dominant woman
Lol he looked absolutely disgusted by her when she sat down😂😂😂. Those “experts” trolled him.
I think this title should read bride leaves groom stunned 😅 she owned him lol 😂
@@lauragibbons363 Where exactly did she own him 🤔 She is delusional. Telling him he needs to change the way he views women. He's not into her. He knows she isn't the one. She's blessed he is so honest so early on. Alot of guys with no balls would have ran with it.
Men are never allowed preferences, if she said he wasn't her type no one would bat an eyelash...today's double standards.
he is allowed to, its more because he isn't in shape himself.
Its so true. She is built as big as him. Most men like to feel stronger than their woman ...nothing new here and he was very sensitive in how he approached her he struggled i respect the honesty.
@@kazzityangel Short women want a 6 foot guy
@@VNDRE7 I agree with how ridiculous that is but the difference is tall men actually want shorter women. I can guarantee no fit woman wants a fatter man. People who work hard to keep in shape want that quality in their partner.
@@kazzityangel No, tall men prefer a woman closer to their height but shorter, not the 5 foot girls insisting on a 6 foot plus man. He is overweight and she is morbidly obese. She has no waist, that means her BMI i much higher than his. He would take an overweight girl with his BMI. But please dont compare her much larger weight to his. Also why do poor women insist on wanting a wealthy man? Hypocrisy? Men are allowed their preferences, if women are allowed theirs.
If a guy doesn’t automatically tell you, you look good then he doesn’t like you so move on girl
There’s a reason why she’s never had a boyfriend.
Exactly, she's the common denominator
She's actually got a really pretty face
Pretty awful.
No
You are not for him and that's ok. Move on... immediately.
Good for her well said❤
Funny how a man is criticized for having a type of woman he prefers, yet virtually every woman whos on the show, the first thing they ask for or comment on is how tall the man is. Before a man even says a word, the women judge them by height.
Bravo topcat, brilliant point.
It's absolute hypocrisy and double standards
That dress is not flattering is it ! Like a little girl's party dress. No self-awareness , she's also quite snappy so i don't blame him. At least he tried to be tactful poor guy . 🤔
I completely agree. He was actually very sensitive in how he approached it.
@@EmmaJean-c6v Yes , 👍🧡
Neither was her “gorgeous bikini”.
@@charlotb22 😂
@@charlotb22 Yes, her constant self-flattery and obnoxious attitude was putting him off by the second. I hope he finds a lovely, peaceful lady to chill with. 🌄☕
So men can't say nothing about woman's weight which they can control but all they ever do is talk about is height 6 foot plus which we cant am i getting this right....
You are both men and women are guilty of this ❤
He so cheeky saying that to her she lovely xx
People don't want to sleep with confidence, the initial attraction is the spark and the outer packaging no matter how non PC that is, those are the facts.
‘His usual type’ hadn’t worked out for him though! (Which is why the experts have matched him with someone different to his ‘type’).
Rock on,sister! She is amazing, and eloquently takes him to task here:-
‘You need to work on your view of women’
Of course he’s entitled not to fancy her, but he could give the growing relationship time & see if attraction grows. This has happened with other MAFS couples in the past, e.g.. the famed MAFS USA couple Jamie & Doug (where she didn’t fancy him at first).
Oh come on love! If the chemistrys not there its not there. I admire his honesty..IF YOU GO ON NATIONAL TV TO MARRY A COMPLETE STRANGER EXPECT TO GET INSULTED REJECTED DISAPPOINTED...GOES FOR HIM TOO..BUT HES HONEST !!!!!😮
yes he is curvy himself but that doesnt mean he must be attracted to curvy girls! i am chubby and i dont find chubby men attractive . my husband is skinny. she is not just curvy but she is like an old woman who is talking at you dry like a toast no butter no jam.
I hated being matched with fat girls just because I am.
She is morbidly obese and he is overweight.
WTF did I just watch, I do not know this show, but I left more confused than before.
I can’t see why he keeps being bullied into fancying this large lady?
Apparently he has to fancy her because he's large himself according to comments above lol
Because he's staying and not throwing in the towel
She is truly awful!
She’s very unattractive. That laugh 😬
He doesn't want her...PERIOD!!!!!
I don’t think there was any need to bring her weight into it and he could of been more tactful.
But she comes across as a tad domineering and I have a feeling that he also finds this unattractive,and is left feeling a bit emasculated.
Can’t see this ending well!
She asked. Curvy is a polite word, when someone is clearly Obese, almost morbidly.
He likes feminity, she likes masculinity. He wants petite she wants taller and a beard.
If he was short it would be his problem not hers if she wasn't attracted. So why is he at fault?
Yes to all of that
Well said 👏
He's currently grovelling and apologising to Emma's friend and sister. It's embarrassing to watch.
Says he with the double chin
Fat shaming him ??
It's all fine when it's the other way round, I love how blind people are to their hypocrisy 😂
When he gets to know her and her personality better this might drastically change. When i met my husband i could not even fathom that he will become my husband because i thought he was not my "type". After time (a year) getting to know him and his personality and traits and morals i was the happiest bride on our special day. This is why you need time to get to know each other before even thinking of getting married. Thats called courting. This show has the least success because of this. Marriage is special and this show makes it a joke.
But it’s also different for men than it is for women -
your example shows that a woman can become attracted to someone over time if the initial attraction wasn’t there, but for men 😂 if the initial attraction wasn’t there, it will never come 😂
Not everyone is going to think everyone else is single. You could see Casper didnt want to answer any of those questions, Emma forced the answer
He seems like he suffers from depression 😬
He suffers from being spoilt.
He doesn’t like her, that’s it
Id be depressed too if i had to be with that rude pushy woman.
He just doesn't fancy her. He said at their wedding that Emma is too much like his sister, whom he doesn't get on with. There's no point in forcing it. They just aren't compatible, and that's OK.
Shes too bossy
This would all be fine, if he himself were not "curvy" - this comment section is pathetic for ignoring that.
I've never heard of this show. These people don't just get married first, do they?????
I am low-key horrified.
THESE TWO ARE SO CRINGE
THEY DESREVE EACH OTHER
She is way too intense !
...and she's wearing a tent.
Men just dont want big woman simple
😂 OH girl... You better watch out
Totally agree Amanda. Its in mens dna to want to be able to pick their woman up and feel stronger. Also he was very sensitive in how he approached her. I respect his honesty. Fair play to him
That’s not true at all
well said dude 🤪🤪🤪🤣
thought i was replying to daniel then sorry, thats the person I agree with not you Amanda😵💫
He’s not worth your BEAUTIFUL soul BEAUTIFUL lady🌹🌸💕❤️
Oh geezuz another virtue signaller
I love her direct eye contact ans confronting his extra curvy self . The nerve
I have so much respect for Emma and Casper. I am 57 and never found my person.I still had kids with my gay best friend who 18 years later is a great dad still. I wish I would have met a Casper 20 years ago as I feel we would have been a good match if our ages had aligned. I am lucky as I am a mother even though I never found my soul mate.
I love her 😍 the way she took him to task 🎉over it ❤
He had every right to say what he did. It's called honesty.
Lol, I really like Emma. She is confident and speaks up for herself and didn't shrink away when he told her he wasn't into her. She's fabulous. He's entitled to his attractions but if he could land the gorgeous ones I'm pretty sure his bland looking self wouldn't be on the show.
He is obviously above average looks for the UK. Go to the shops and see whats available. Emma is rude, loud and controlling. You cant guilt someone into sleeping with you.
With all due respect Casper is punching above his weight with Emma.
I don’t think so.
That's a lie and you know it.
Weight is definitely the issue
@@shabba890 educate yourself.
@@Franatomy educate yourself.
i think she is a very pretty woman
Not currently!😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
She's a size 20...
It's like a bloke earning £20k a year.
And I thought she dealt with it brilliantly, actually.
But you can't manufacture attraction.
So what happens if you are slim and later become size 20.
Marriage is beyond weight. Where as she can work on her weight,marry aduazi is worse
@stellamarisnsaba4785 What happens to a wife who piles on weight depends on the husband. I keep myself in good shape, so does my wife, that's just us.
I'd be honest with her... No D for you until the excess weight is gone. Keep the standards.
She tried saying size 14 which is a lie lol
@@saelaird she's not a size 20. If you actually see a size 20 and Google it, she's nowhere near. 14 sounds about right.
@@cutesyjamshe is NOT a size 14 😂
Id rather this than Lucinder & timothy Oz mafs
she is right do not judge a book by its cover
Ooh wee,...who's gonna tell her? 😮
Girl your not his type
You need to work on your view of women 😂 nope. Hes just not that into you. You can't force that.
you do need to work on your view of women though 😳💯
Emma needs to dress for her size . That dress was6
awful too short. Made her look bigger
@@zoewilliams-f3v Cringe as fuck. He's not into curvier girls, get over it.
Ladies please just stop doing this to men, he is being honest. Keep your dignity and walk away.
He not so slim him self xx
What i never understand about people going on this show
If you can, get your usual type all of the time. Then why go on this bloody show to marry a complete stranger. I think people go on this show because they are unable to get top tier attractive people.
Last night, she chose for them too stay together. Hypothetically even if she behaved herself and they stayed together, the animus inside her would eventually tear the soul out of him. FOR GOD SAKE GET OUT!
All these men are gonna be alone 😂😂😂😂
I feel she handled the put down very well. She is very mature and level headed. Sadly though I feel she could do with losing a good 10kgs plus. I'm into fitness and couldn't be attracted to a large woman. They shouldn't have been matched in the first place.
He is CURVY himself, something to think about.
He’s not into fat women. Oh, oh I didn’t know you weren’t allowed to say that. Women may not say it about men, they’d simply ignore them. They’re into tall, dark and handsome, and the bad boy types. What’s so wrong with stating what you mean, even if it’s slightly hurtful. Maybe it might even get the person to lose weight or go and find someone who finds them just fine. It saves a hell of a lot of time and wasted effort for both parties. There I said it. Personally I think she is pretty with has a decent personality. Is she my perfect body type, no, but to me the person someone is, is far more important than just their looks. I hear you say I must be ugly. Well no, I’m not ugly. nor am I dead drop gorgeous, really pretty average looking, short 5’9”, brown hair good physique, but quiet bright and extraverted personality. Again not every one’s cup of tea.
Double standards. Difference is men can’t change their height
Simmilar happend in MAFS Croatia, he admitted she's not his type (not mentioning curves) and she hated him untill the end
"U need to work on your view on women" lol
She definitely wanted to call him a Misogynist
She needs to go the gym.
There's a reason she's single and it's not just her weight
His faux pas was mentioning the weight... He isn't attracted to her because she is as annoying as his sister!