answering tmi questions like I'm your older sister

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  • @nottinacolada
    @nottinacolada  3 місяці тому +2998

    ily all my little coconuts
    timestamps:
    0:00 start
    0:30 friendships & relationships
    7:12 feminine hygiene
    10:50 financial habits
    13:39 life tips & mindset
    16:16 beauty tips
    18:14 the deed

  • @hellotherevia
    @hellotherevia Місяць тому +1689

    As the eldest child, this is what I needed, you’re literally like the older sister I never had

  • @Gxrga
    @Gxrga 3 місяці тому +2542

    People can say ‘looks don’t matter’ all they want, but the fact is that it DOES matter to everyone else. You don’t have to look perfect, but it can really help you in society to look good.

    • @ellie_kero
      @ellie_kero 3 місяці тому +107

      Exactlyyy I’m not dating a guy I think is ugly 😭 it’s not mentally possible

    • @Bea-qx2pc
      @Bea-qx2pc 3 місяці тому +45

      Fr. But the thing is FOR ME. This is my opinion. The guy I like is LIKE EW NO WHY HIM HE HAS THE BIGGEST HEAD, yeha I agree but he’s attractive to me because of his personality. But that’s honestly just with this guy.

    • @4everDestinii
      @4everDestinii 3 місяці тому +45

      Nah, forget that. I’m not going to let society judge me on how I look. I was born like this so they can take it or leave it.

    • @jade.g07
      @jade.g07 2 місяці тому +2

      Exactly

    • @jade.g07
      @jade.g07 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@ellie_kero exactly

  • @ttimttam
    @ttimttam 3 місяці тому +8409

    THE FIRST QUESTION 😭

    • @nottinacolada
      @nottinacolada  3 місяці тому +1320

      LIKE????

    • @yourgirllucyyy
      @yourgirllucyyy 3 місяці тому +85

      ​@@nottinacolada 42 seconds wtf

    • @jessicacain114
      @jessicacain114 3 місяці тому +54

      ​@nottinacolada yes girl. Great answer. Coming for a mid-30 women

    • @heyitsmelva
      @heyitsmelva 3 місяці тому +88

      @kaiseparkeryeah it’s just the way that they worded it 😭😭

    • @lilimorgan-k5p
      @lilimorgan-k5p 3 місяці тому +22

      IM SCREAMING

  • @rachaelStroup
    @rachaelStroup 2 місяці тому +940

    On a similar note to "looks do matter", looking good WILL effect how people treat you. But that doesn't mean you have to look like a super model, just simply take care of yourself.
    1) make sure your face is CLEAN pookie, no boogers hanging out of your nose hole, no crusty eyes, no food or dried spit around your mouth, if you have acne make sure it's not oozing and put patches over really bad pimples. Just check in the mirror whenever you're using the bathroom to make sure yo face isn't looking crusty. Use lip balm as well, often.
    2) NEAT HAIR, brush or style it in the morning before school or work, it doesn't have to be anything crazy, maybe just a ponytail or a braid. If you have especially textured hair, maybe consider keeping some travel sized hair products in your bag. Just make sure it's clean and not greasy, if you're a girly training her hair, put it into a slick a day or two before wash day if you still have work or school.
    3) TEETH, you do NOT and let me repeat it, DO NOT have to have straight white perfect teeth. Your teeth are bones and are not natural pearly white, do not let social media influence you into thinking you need to have white teeth. But, you shouldn't have stank breath either. Brush twice a day and floss at night, brush your tongue to. Chew sugar free gum or sugar free mints after meals or if you think you need it. Your diet can also influence your breath if you smoke, vape, drink alcohol, or have a sugary diet, your breath will smell worse. Use your phone camera or a mirror to make sure you don't have anything in your teeth after meals. And if you see someone with food in their teeth, be a girl and tell them nicely, it's very much appreciated.
    4) SMELL PLEASANT I ain't saying you have to smell like candy or a flower patch all the time, especially since I know fragrance can seriously mess with people and can be harmful and in some cases make you smell worse. But wash your booty hole, wear deodorant THAT WORKS, shower often or everyday if you are very active or sweaty. If you can't shower for any reason, use body wipes to give yourself a refresh. And if you do wear cologne, perfume, or anything meant to make you smell good, be reasonable with it, don't dose yourself in perfume because that's almost as gross as being stank if everyone in the room can smell your body spray.
    5) Wear clean clothes, it doesn't matter if wear designer or thrifted, if there are ketchup stains on your shirt it puts out a dirty vibe about you. Try to wash out stains with soap and water quickly after it happens to make your future self happier. If you don't have a washing machine, there is always a laundry mat or a friends house or a sink.
    6) NAILS, do not be walking around with doo-doo nails. Clean under them in the shower or when you wash your hands. Keep them neat, if you're not allowed to have colorful or long nails for any reason, keep them trimmed but don't push them all the way bacl into the nail bed and maybe use some clear polish. Colors or press ons are always fun though, and painting your nails can help mitigate nail biting.
    HOT DOG HOPE THIS HELPS, STAY SAFE PUT THERE POOKIES 🫰🫰🫰

    • @Justice_4CapCut
      @Justice_4CapCut Місяць тому

      Thank you so much happy new year bestie u deserve it

    • @kalinalemiech9878
      @kalinalemiech9878 Місяць тому +22

      TYYYYY!!! I love how you gave tips to look better without making anyone feel bad

    • @Eggtart1776
      @Eggtart1776 Місяць тому +8

      THANK YOU QUEEN

    • @idkwhattoputhereignoreit
      @idkwhattoputhereignoreit Місяць тому +6

      I make an effort to look nice but i do not intend to be anywhere near the spotlight 😭

    • @halahlo8046
      @halahlo8046 Місяць тому +1

      THWNK YOU THANK YOU

  • @Selenaaa_princesa
    @Selenaaa_princesa Місяць тому +198

    I love when someone makes you feel feminine and stands up for you even when u hate ppl to stand up for u bc u do it yourself

  • @GreenPepperLover
    @GreenPepperLover 3 місяці тому +3070

    I’m a middle school girl and this personally helped me a lot! It’s great having someone to answer these questions when you don’t want to ask a parent, and there were a lot of funny moments in this video! We love you Tina 💕

    • @Ashcloud3228
      @Ashcloud3228 3 місяці тому +77

      Ok I might be stupid but what is the flag on your fyp

    • @GreenPepperLover
      @GreenPepperLover 3 місяці тому +217

      @ You’re not stupid! It’s an antizoophile flag. A zoophile is someone who is sexually attracted to animals.

    • @Ashcloud3228
      @Ashcloud3228 3 місяці тому +110

      @ OHHH I SHOULDLVE KNOWN THAT I LEGIT LIVE UNDER A ROCK BECAUSE IM A THERIAN, FURRY, LGBT ALTERNATIVE PERSON AND I DDINT KNOW THAT LIKE 😭🙏

    • @nottinacolada
      @nottinacolada  3 місяці тому +541

      AHH IM SO HAPPY TO HELP ily

    • @GreenPepperLover
      @GreenPepperLover 3 місяці тому +38

      @ ILY TOOO!! Ur the best UA-camr ever 🫶✨

  • @Wonycoded
    @Wonycoded 3 місяці тому +4132

    you are my comfort youtuber

  • @Gail_edits
    @Gail_edits 3 місяці тому +1534

    This honestly helped sm. I’m 16 and my mom died a while ago so like it’s just me, my younger brother and my dad so I basically have no one I can ask these types of questions to. Tysm frrr 🙏🙏

  • @AProfessionalYapper
    @AProfessionalYapper Місяць тому +100

    GIRL I LITERALLY LYSM. I’m 14 and lowk my mom is NOT the type of girl to educate me on any of this unfortunately 😭😭 this video was mega helpful. Tysm!!

    • @MintyMonth
      @MintyMonth Місяць тому +5

      Omg same!! Like my mom CANNOT explain this stuff like Tina can

    • @honeybunn.03
      @honeybunn.03 4 дні тому

      I feel so
      Old

  • @K1R1_IS_SL33PY
    @K1R1_IS_SL33PY 2 місяці тому +160

    honestly even being a (ftm)male this made me smile, and it makes me happy that people and girls in general have this, and people online who can help them with stuff.

  • @winniiaaai
    @winniiaaai 3 місяці тому +1729

    ‘we love you, tina!’ we all say in unison 💗🎀

  • @gelsryutjik
    @gelsryutjik 3 місяці тому +607

    I love how she says "if its affordable and accessible for you," it shows how considerate she is of everyone!! I love all her videos!

  • @BagOfChipsssss
    @BagOfChipsssss 3 місяці тому +986

    ur like the big sister i never had, tysm 🫶🏻🫶🏻

    • @nottinacolada
      @nottinacolada  3 місяці тому +155

      AH ILY

    • @mscutie-patootie
      @mscutie-patootie 2 місяці тому +3

      LITERALLY

    • @bubumessi28
      @bubumessi28 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@nottinacolada 🙋‍♀️ if you have a yeast infection what do you do??

    • @SadieBrock-b9v
      @SadieBrock-b9v 2 місяці тому +1

      @@bubumessi28gurl 😭😭

    • @SkyandLia
      @SkyandLia Місяць тому +1

      @@bubumessi28😭🙏

  • @mmm_okii
    @mmm_okii Місяць тому +214

    I actually love her, she one of the few youtubers I actually feel good about watching, ever since I started watching her i feel better about mysel. She’s literally the older sister i with i had

  • @sunnyscoop4250
    @sunnyscoop4250 Місяць тому +63

    I RLLY NEEDED THE FEMININE HYGIENE ONE 😭 if I ask my mom abt it im scared she’s gonna be like “What! I thought you knew that!” LIKE WHAT NO 😭

  • @guest_and_account
    @guest_and_account 3 місяці тому +609

    im 13 i didnt need this but i js love listening to tina yappp onfg she gives good advice, shes funny, and shes cute and adorable and shes somebody ppl can look up to

    • @slaylor_nation13
      @slaylor_nation13 3 місяці тому

      @@lanareysc0kesame guys im 13 and i think she like really helps with my confidence, etc. also shes so funny

    • @nottinacolada
      @nottinacolada  3 місяці тому +123

      STOP ILY

    • @amyluvsboba
      @amyluvsboba 3 місяці тому +7

      @@nottinacoladafirst❤

    • @Its_Mills-g3i
      @Its_Mills-g3i Місяць тому +2

      Me tooooo

    • @g1xm0rus.nxt2
      @g1xm0rus.nxt2 Місяць тому +3

      Exactly ❤❤❤

  • @LifeAsVictoria366
    @LifeAsVictoria366 3 місяці тому +688

    10:49 Everyone also be aware that you can get Toxic shock by changing too often! My mom would change every 1-2 hours out of fear of getting toxic shock, but she ended up getting it and almost dying. Please don't feel the need to use tampons and if you do don't change to often or too little. Stay safe everyone

    • @dior유리
      @dior유리 3 місяці тому +32

      Im sorry about your mother, but I have to ask, whats toxic shock?

    • @pinkmiku12
      @pinkmiku12 3 місяці тому

      @@dior유리 bacteria gets into your bloodstream and causes an infection that can kill you in less than 24 hours

    • @LifeAsVictoria366
      @LifeAsVictoria366 3 місяці тому +71

      @@dior유리 Hi, thank you for your empathy. Toxic shock syndrome is a bacterial illness that is deadly and can require open surgery

    • @dior유리
      @dior유리 3 місяці тому +11

      @@LifeAsVictoria366 Ah, thank you for explaining.

    • @alexissteele5274
      @alexissteele5274 3 місяці тому +26

      That sounds really really really really really really not fun and painful and scary.

  • @Ghostie-p4u
    @Ghostie-p4u 2 місяці тому +69

    honestly, your one of my absolute favorite youtubers because you’re so real with things. and what i personally think, middle school is the worst time. it’s where everyone’s physically and emotionally changing, and i know it sounds cheesy and weird but it’s true. i’m not boutta lie saying that i *wasn’t* paranoid about how i looked every day, bc i did. tysm, ur so amazing, hotdog.^^

  • @JoyRasmussen-m8j
    @JoyRasmussen-m8j 2 місяці тому +28

    OMG u r so calm while talking, you are literally shedding big sis aura, we love youso much! Thanks for the vid Tina

  • @Nicky_sousa27
    @Nicky_sousa27 3 місяці тому +318

    HOT DOG OBVIOUSLY
    but also the last question killed me 😭so deep, so personal. thank you for sharing with us ❤❤

  • @lifewmila
    @lifewmila 3 місяці тому +145

    Tina, as a middle school girl, you help SO much with any questions, insecurities, and doubts I have. You’ve also found a way to give me new ideas and perspectives on life, so tysm for being my comfort creator 💗 (ALSO GIRL, UR GORG AND HILARIOUS!)

  • @thephiladelphiantoddler2855
    @thephiladelphiantoddler2855 3 місяці тому +610

    TINA I JS WON MY CROSS COUNTRY MEET AND YOU WERE MY INSPO TO LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST

    • @Kammyklm
      @Kammyklm 3 місяці тому +27

      OMG I DO CROSS COUNTRY TOO?!!

    • @greeniscoollol
      @greeniscoollol 3 місяці тому +16

      YES GIRL

    • @Anna-yi2eh
      @Anna-yi2eh 3 місяці тому +18

      OMG GREAT JOB BBG IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!💞💞

    • @thephiladelphiantoddler2855
      @thephiladelphiantoddler2855 3 місяці тому +3

      @@Kammyklm FRR?!?

    • @-HoneyB-
      @-HoneyB- 3 місяці тому +5

      AAA I DO CROSS COUNTRY TOO AND WE WERE UNDEFEATED UNTIL THE LAST MEET 😭😭😭🤩🤩🤩

  • @Laurennnnnn22
    @Laurennnnnn22 Місяць тому +21

    She is like the big sister that I feel comfortable talking too she’s so real and idk if anyone else watched till the end but ✨hot dog✨

  • @JenieTheWeenie
    @JenieTheWeenie Місяць тому +14

    Abt a month ago I told myself “you rlly need to stop thinking abt what other ppl think hold your head high and have people enjoy your presence”
    I think I’ve rlly changed from the past month, and these kind of vids helped me change ❤

  • @aespfie
    @aespfie 3 місяці тому +232

    so glad i found u through shorts omg u so comforting to watch 😭😭😭

  • @alexisyu8946
    @alexisyu8946 3 місяці тому +95

    I love how you did so much research before answering the questions like we can tell you care a lot about your audience. Keep up the good work Tina!

  • @JOCELYN-t5o3b
    @JOCELYN-t5o3b 3 місяці тому +229

    I literally only have brothers so Tina filling in the awkward talk about this stuff and talking like she actually "my older sister" makes me feel happy! ILYSM TINA I LOOK UP TO YOU SO MUCH💖💖

  • @zoeluvsheathers
    @zoeluvsheathers 2 місяці тому +12

    WHY DID U JUST GENUINELY TEACH ME HOW TO FLIRTTTT TYYY

  • @asTAEticOT7
    @asTAEticOT7 3 місяці тому +252

    istg I could listen to tina yap for the rest of my life
    edit - aah ty for the likes - I've never gotten this many

  • @Layla-c1p
    @Layla-c1p 3 місяці тому +98

    Omg i don’t have an older sister, just a brother, and i swear.. you, sahar, brianna and spencer are frrr my online older sistersss thank youuu 🩷🩷🩷

  • @soyphiea
    @soyphiea 3 місяці тому +147

    TINA IS SO REAL I CANT

  • @rockstar_worm
    @rockstar_worm Місяць тому +17

    TINA IS MY COMFORT UA-camR HER VOICE IS SO COMFORTINGGGG

  • @Newones6836
    @Newones6836 Місяць тому +11

    Thank you so much. I’m a young woman and I’ve worried about all my first times with things, I’ve struggled and I have tried to succeed with no advice or guidance. I saw this video and EMINENTLY clicked and watched the whole thing. Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @jasontoddlover123
    @jasontoddlover123 3 місяці тому +149

    as a girl with an older brother and one younger, girl please be my older sister😭🙏🏼
    edit : also, the shavings tips were AWESOME. thank you sm. so tired of my friends / female cousins telling me to like shave noemally / shave dry. And "put perfume down there" cuz girl.. what. 💀 anywayssss thank u queennn❤️

    • @wejustsoldnothing
      @wejustsoldnothing 2 місяці тому +9

      PUT PERFUME DOWN THERE WHAT 😭

    • @jasontoddlover123
      @jasontoddlover123 2 місяці тому +2

      @wejustsoldnothing poosay😓

    • @creampuff_s
      @creampuff_s 2 місяці тому +9

      POOKIE WHO IS TELLING U TO PUT PERFUME DOWN THERE😭😭

    • @chaoticrubzz
      @chaoticrubzz 2 місяці тому +4

      girl, I fear for that person who told u to put perfume on it, that is straight pain.

    • @nawtt_.mayaaa
      @nawtt_.mayaaa Місяць тому +2

      OMG JASON TODD PFP LOVE IT

  • @punkieeeerh
    @punkieeeerh 3 місяці тому +150

    tina ilysm i saw this and CLICKEDDDD as an older sister who's always wanted an older sister, i ate this up

    • @v1v1a.n
      @v1v1a.n 3 місяці тому +4

      same also MATT STURNIOLO PFP SPOTTED 🔥🔥🔥

    • @Bellaloves_Jesus
      @Bellaloves_Jesus 3 місяці тому +2

      Another sturniolo fan?

    • @punkieeeerh
      @punkieeeerh 3 місяці тому +4

      @@Bellaloves_Jesus yessss 💜💙🧡

    • @bookcornerxs
      @bookcornerxs 3 місяці тому +6

      Reallll im the oldest of 3 and i want an older sister so bad 😂

    • @Bellaloves_Jesus
      @Bellaloves_Jesus 3 місяці тому +3

      @@bookcornerxs omg that’s me too😭

  • @notamnmcandy
    @notamnmcandy 3 місяці тому +24

    omg as a highschool girl i LOVE watching big sis talks but yours is probably the best i’ve ever watched because i just love your energy and YOU ARE SO REAL ❤️❤️

  • @ra1nyd4yzzz
    @ra1nyd4yzzz Місяць тому +4

    Genuinely love you girly. I feel like among the hundreds of social media creators, you are one of the few who are ACTUALLY genuine. I didn’t ask any questions lmao but the ones that have been answered have been super helpful
    I love you for this (platonically lmao) and hope you stay safe❤

  • @zoe.l42911
    @zoe.l42911 3 місяці тому +28

    I’m actually such a fan of her she seems so genuine and like I watch all her videos like I needed this😭💕

  • @ki.44524
    @ki.44524 3 місяці тому +58

    i think its also important to say what feminine energy is in others wont be the same for all, same for masculine. don't let gender roles and stereotypes define you if thats not who you are, and if your partner wont let you be you or says you arent feminine enough, dont settle for less settle for someone who lets you be you who knows you're enough

  • @dj_draws101
    @dj_draws101 3 місяці тому +44

    guys i lowk needed this sm 😭 “TY TINA” we all say in unison

  • @GabrielleMichelle370
    @GabrielleMichelle370 2 місяці тому +5

    Tina, you are literally my big sister. I am growing up in a family being the oldest sibling and cousin, so having your videos makes me feel like I have someone who is like a big sister. Your videos are so inspiring and explain so much. I love your videos!! Thank you for being the older sister I never had.

  • @Liv-l7g1b
    @Liv-l7g1b Місяць тому +4

    i literally love you so much and this helped me so much too because of how I dont want to talk to anyone about this stuff, tysm, you're literally my comfort person

  • @jinsoulsbetta
    @jinsoulsbetta 3 місяці тому +24

    8:48 this mindset helps so much! i regularly get heart triplex because of a minor heart issue i’ve had since birth and even if it is the most uncomfortable thing for me to get top-naked in front of someone and having to stay that way for like 10minutes, i just think that ‘this doctor has seen thousands of other women’s chests. it’s their job. calm down and just relax’ and it’s life changing i swearrrrr

  • @pleasedonotacknowledgeme
    @pleasedonotacknowledgeme 3 місяці тому +32

    You aint the big sis i want, you the big sis i NEED 😩💖💖💖✨✨✨ ty tina

  • @wyd.samira
    @wyd.samira 3 місяці тому +32

    I've only ever viewed your content through UA-cam shorts and decided to check this video out for fun and I'm glad I did. I felt like i was on face time with a really good supportive friend. I love your friendly and comedic energy. This video was super comforting and reassuring ❤ (i'm now subscribed)

  • @GracieLovesHorses
    @GracieLovesHorses 2 місяці тому +7

    As a younger girl (teenage), THIS HELPS SO MUCH WE love YOU SM YOUR LIKE A OLDER SISTEE TO ME❤❤

  • @thequeens7711
    @thequeens7711 Місяць тому +2

    I know I’m late, but this just popped up on my recommended page and I’m so glad I clicked on it. This is honestly the first time I’ve actually felt like a video like this was genuine and was like big sister energy. I loved it, and the advice was really good 😁

  • @Mariah-ci7lo
    @Mariah-ci7lo 3 місяці тому +24

    I love how real u are and that ur honest abt the filter u use for ur face, it automatically makes me trust more of the things u say on the internet. HOTDOGGGGGG

  • @VictoriaHansley
    @VictoriaHansley 3 місяці тому +23

    I’m literally 13 and don’t need any of this but I love Tina so much I love listening to her talk lol ❤

  • @amiilovessloths
    @amiilovessloths 3 місяці тому +20

    I’m a normal teen in a sorta stagnant stage in my life, and this made me feel a lot better💞 thanks tina😇

  • @hellohi1830
    @hellohi1830 Місяць тому +5

    I love these sit down- chat style videos. With advice. As a 17 year old female. I love it. Please make more ❤❤

  • @Love_Skz-t8m
    @Love_Skz-t8m 19 днів тому +1

    Can we all appreciate tina for being so deep and vulnerable with us on that last question, it must have been hard for her to open up about that❤

    • @Love_Skz-t8m
      @Love_Skz-t8m 19 днів тому

      Also oooo
      ✨️HOTDOGGG✨️

  • @yourgirllucyyy
    @yourgirllucyyy 3 місяці тому +36

    "THANKYOU BIG SISTER TINA!" we all chant in unison

  • @jessicacain114
    @jessicacain114 3 місяці тому +12

    Lady!!! U did such a great job researched throughly. U had notes and pep-talk woven in and out of the questions.
    U KILLED THIS! ❤❤

  • @monica13-h
    @monica13-h 3 місяці тому +10

    As someone with no sisters whos always wanted one i appreciate this sm 😭😭
    Also when I told my dad I wanted to learn abt investments he got a lil excited and printed out a 50 page packet (front and back) with a table of contents abt investing 😂😂

  • @pepperthedemon
    @pepperthedemon 2 місяці тому +2

    i actually really appreciate videos like this because it answers a lot of questions i do NOTT want to ask my family..thank you for being the older sister i never had, i love you tina! 💘

  • @editsforyouk
    @editsforyouk 14 днів тому +1

    i can never watch grwms longer than 10 minutes but your voice is so soothing like omggg❤

  • @Khadijah_14359
    @Khadijah_14359 3 місяці тому +16

    I have 3 older sisters and you are the realest out of all of them Istg- 😭😭❤

  • @LoveLaurynOfficial
    @LoveLaurynOfficial 2 місяці тому +4

    New favorite youtuber. She's so real, and feels like an actual sister or bsf. And she's hilarious.

  • @xzxxzxnooo
    @xzxxzxnooo 3 місяці тому +13

    honestly my birth control completely changed the game for my periods. I went from being in agonizing pain for every period to forgetting I'm even on my period when I get it.. recommend so heavy

    • @violetD-ey3rm
      @violetD-ey3rm 2 місяці тому

      Depends on the kind, you could be making yourself very infertile IF you want to have kids in the future.

  • @blair4youu
    @blair4youu 20 днів тому +16

    Even tho im a boy i found this kinda comforting:,) my older sister passed away a year ago and you remind me of how she would talk to me and give advice on many different things to me🥲

  • @carlynhthesp
    @carlynhthesp Місяць тому +2

    TINA ILYSM😘as an older sister, you’re the big sister i never had

  • @elliefloddd
    @elliefloddd Місяць тому +5

    HOT DOG
    you’re literally so pretty you’re my comfort youtuber ur so sweet 😭

  • @June_013
    @June_013 3 місяці тому +22

    This helped so much as a middle school girl. It’s so hard to ask my mom something because it gets awkward which is why creators like you need to make more videos like this. It makes it so much easier to get answers to questions we usually wouldn’t ask anyways.

  • @ReginaGarrett-uq6vg
    @ReginaGarrett-uq6vg 3 місяці тому +25

    I love how shes so honest with us and i appreciate all this amazing advice!!! Your a life saver ❤❤❤❤❤ thank you

  • @abigail_7980
    @abigail_7980 3 місяці тому +19

    TINA i’m a sophomore and your advice really helped me out like do more of these🙏🙏🙏 also hotdog🙈

  • @EmmaBurke-qj8zf
    @EmmaBurke-qj8zf Місяць тому +2

    The first question for part 6 was so straightforward…..
    anyways- I LITERALLY LOVE YOU RN CAUSE YOU ANDWERED LIKE ALL MY QUESTIONS 😭

  • @HarperJ-p4u
    @HarperJ-p4u Місяць тому +3

    I just decided to click on this video for fun but I ended up staying for the whole thing

  • @dior유리
    @dior유리 3 місяці тому +41

    3:00 girl was brutally honest😭

  • @winter.02222
    @winter.02222 3 місяці тому +14

    tysm for this bc i’m the oldest girl in my family so it’s good to have this! i’m only a freshmen in high school so tysm!

  • @Angelacosplayer
    @Angelacosplayer 3 місяці тому +5

    I finally found an older sister I am watching her videos last month but I am obsessed. Thanks ❤❤❤❤

  • @vixslz22
    @vixslz22 Місяць тому

    SHE HAS THE BEST ADVICE WTF (i love tina) 😭🤍

  • @f4irylah
    @f4irylah Місяць тому +1

    She’s literally an distance big sister for me, I love watching her videos 🥹

  • @starfosh
    @starfosh 3 місяці тому +6

    I have a sister but when I ask her things I get hella judged for not knowing in the first place so this is really such a nice video, thank you Tina :')

  • @OllitheMusician
    @OllitheMusician 3 місяці тому +6

    "if ur five closest friends are toxic people who are constantly surrounded by drama, ding ding ding, guess what, thats probably gonna be you too." FRRR i have seen this in so many people... including me, at one point 😬

  • @Maral-w9k
    @Maral-w9k 3 місяці тому +11

    "dont look at them like miley cyrus" HAD ME ROLLING 💀😭

  • @PookieAimee
    @PookieAimee 2 місяці тому

    im actually so glad u exist fr bc im the oldest sister of 4 ( 2 other girls one boy) and if them little ones start asking questions im like "oh shit idk how to set an example😀" so i watch these and this is where i get my older sisterly knowledge from 🤭
    Tysm for existing Tina!!

  • @Farmgirl101
    @Farmgirl101 Місяць тому

    Thanks for talking about these things, as an older sister it felt nice to have someone else to do the giving advice 💙❤️

  • @Lily-mccarthy787
    @Lily-mccarthy787 2 місяці тому +4

    okay i wish i had a sister, let alone one like her because SHE ATEEEE

  • @velvet-ro4ng
    @velvet-ro4ng 3 місяці тому +29

    2:27 okay but im actually dating someone like this... lots of people point out the flaws in his appearance, and he's always beating himself up about it and it makes me feel REALLY bad, people always say "you can pull so much better" but he's the only guy who's ever showed interest in me and treated me right. he's the only one that actually calls me pretty, and compliments me, which makes me feel really good about myself. thats why i look past his flaws and focus on the good things he has, like his kind heart, and caring personality. idk if this is me trying to quench my thirst for love, or if this is actually true love... like its genuinely confusing...

    • @jenniecrat2702
      @jenniecrat2702 2 місяці тому +8

      I think the whole point of this thing is , most of the time when ugly guys pull pretty women that boosts their ego , nd a lot of time they try to project their insecurities on u , which will drain u , lower your confidence over the time. I'm not saying its your case or idk abt it , I'm just saying what usually happens. Also being ugly is one thing but sm guys really need to take care of themselves like women do for them , mayb hit the gym , use fragrance, put on clothes that suit them , these basic things really make guys attractive imo. But sm of them r just too lazy to do that but at the same tym they want their partners to be attractive like.....duh

    • @Jesus.Is.The.Bestttt
      @Jesus.Is.The.Bestttt Місяць тому +3

      Honestly, coming from somebody who dated a guy who people thought wasn’t that handsome, did mess with how I thought towards him and affected my physical attraction towards him as well. It really determines for what you look for in a guy, also good advice is never ever let anybody tell you differently of what you think, especially when you’re in a relationship. Yes, you definitely can receive advice. But never let anybody tell you otherwise on what you think. And going for looks is completely normal it doesn’t make you a rude or shallow person. But a big thing in a guy is his personality. I hope this helped. And good luck. ❤

  • @katiehelms8903
    @katiehelms8903 Місяць тому +3

    Also, if you can’t get on birth control, natural family planning is SUPER EFFECTIVE when done right! (It has to be done really well or it doesn’t work, but there’s a lot of good guides out there!) it’s more complicated than just not having sex when ovulating, but that’s the gist and it’s very helpful

  • @harsett
    @harsett 6 днів тому +1

    This video is really helpful! As a 16 year old in a household of only brothers it is a game changer. Thank you

  • @Suna_Eq
    @Suna_Eq 2 місяці тому +1

    As someone who is quite young (Im not comfortable with revealing my age

  • @Stablethatsforhorses
    @Stablethatsforhorses Місяць тому +21

    19:21 NO! Sex shouldn’t hurt and yes you will bleed (probably) ur first time but sex should make you feel good not hurt if it does hurt something’s wrong

    • @Liz56465
      @Liz56465 11 днів тому

      Everyone’s experience is different some may hurt due to being very tight

  • @leebit_ch
    @leebit_ch 3 місяці тому +8

    I ❤ TINA she's literally the coolest wtf

  • @spiderman_slxt
    @spiderman_slxt 3 місяці тому +6

    AVACADOO🤣😭 im dead, anyways tina i love you so much like genuinely you are one of my biggest role models so thank you for everything you post because I genuinely lear a lot and stay very entertained

  • @t0w3ll3tt3
    @t0w3ll3tt3 2 місяці тому +1

    as someone w a bad relationship with my big sister, you're my comfort youtuber for sure

  • @Claire-j3h
    @Claire-j3h Місяць тому +1

    TINA WE NEED ANOTHER VIDEO LIKE THIS ILYSM. ACTUALLY MY ICON

  • @SpaceBunny-h2h
    @SpaceBunny-h2h Місяць тому +4

    Thanks so much Tina ❤ I know I’m probably too old for this but there’s things I wouldn’t dare ask anyone about no matter how old I get 😅

  • @Halima-wq8qp
    @Halima-wq8qp 2 місяці тому +6

    It actually just hits me how I read the caption and was really tempted to click the video till I read the "like ur older sister" part, and a thought as simple as "Nah, I have my big sis for these conversations anyways" crossed my mind and it made me skip the idea of watching it so quickly. I'm so thankful my sister is there for me and has such an impact on my decisions simply for being the best sister ever.

  • @cool_guy_0_0
    @cool_guy_0_0 2 місяці тому +5

    21:45 THE CONTEXT, I CANT YOUR TO FUNNY 😂😂🩵🩵

  • @Itsparisxoxo
    @Itsparisxoxo Місяць тому

    your literally the older sister i never had i loved watching this ilyy

  • @kinleyp27
    @kinleyp27 Місяць тому

    talking about the personality/looks thing, i've always lived by "looks pull you in, personality does the rest"

  • @strwberri.samx3
    @strwberri.samx3 3 місяці тому +14

    yess ur videos make my day i love your long form videos they r so healing!!!

  • @targeneats
    @targeneats 3 місяці тому +10

    i needed this. (TYSM OLDER SIS)

  • @oriauna
    @oriauna 3 місяці тому +22

    Hot doggggg 💕 also I love that you’re so genuine and truthful also you’re so gorgeous

    • @M-v7m
      @M-v7m 3 місяці тому +1

      #hotdog😝😝😝

  • @Kawaii_nekoma0w0
    @Kawaii_nekoma0w0 10 днів тому

    Im so happy that you made this because your literally like another mom or like a big sister and you also make my day by posting tysm❤

  • @Des_needs_sleep
    @Des_needs_sleep Місяць тому +1

    Hello, I've watched your videos from time to time (whenever they pop up on my yr recommendations) and I'd like to THANK YOU SO MUCH! Honestly, I don't got the balls to ask anyone I know questions like these so I'm genuinely so glad for this video

  • @ttimttam
    @ttimttam 3 місяці тому +22

    tina gives the BEST advice !!!