Running Away
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- The plaintiff is suing the defendant, her ex-boyfriend and the father of her daughter, because she claims he owes her money for an eviction fee and apartment bills. The defendant says he broke up with the plaintiff because he wanted a better life, and he believes the plaintiff is just suing him out of spite.
Case #26057
#PeoplesCourt #RealityTV #Court
I'll never understand how anyone is comfortable saying they "babysit" their own children. The guy's a bum and she was OK with it 🙄
Because it’s an inconvenience for him he doesn’t want that responsibility
or maybe it's just bad English and his point is that childcare didn't cost them nothing
@@bongoikno4994 that's most likely true. And since all the women are so triggered by the word, they should also stop asking for alimony when they choose to stay home to watch their children since it's not a job to babysit..🤨
Was u watching the case a bum don’t give away a check smh
@@Shellygrrl2573 facts ...blessed
Never fails...after a 7 year relationship he leaves and proposes to another woman in 1 year. She wasted years of her life on him...And he doesn’t even care enough to see his own child.
Right. I can relate but I wasn't doing THIS. Some Men are sneaky & evil.
Wasn't 7 years in my case, rather 2 months shy of 2 years when my ex cheated and married the slut within months of leaving me.
He got the 7 year itch. 😂
Right! But ladies better learn. They want to keep these men SO bad that it ends up costing them years that they can never get back.
@@terryfilkohazi2237 as hurtful as it is, he did you a favor...
Becareful who you have children by.💯
How?
I disagree with her judgment she should have at least made him pay her the $800 from the promissory note
Exactly!
if he was giving her his check then he paid it back
The promissory note is negated by the first court's ruling. The People's Court judge got it right.
@@blackbettyboo7269oh we've seen the black litigants. They deserved what they got. No special treatment. Also, why are there so many deadbeat black dads?
He handed her his paychecks in order to pay whatever needed to he paid, he paid that $800 back a few times over and didn't even realize. She cherry picked how she used his money to best suit herself. If she wasn't paying his cell phone or the "loan" out of it that's on her.
love when men cheat and say the girl is crazy. we know thats not true. or you would have been broken up with her. shes only crazy now because of what youre doing to her. she was building a life and a family with you. and you threw all that down the drain as if your child and her meant nothing. so yeah shes gonna go through it a bit.
Nope a woman is responsible for her actions and how she responds to something.
She is responsible for her actions and he didn't cheat they weren't married!!!!! Discusting women still don't understand and continue to open their legs to men and get themselves pregnant and are surprised when the guy leaves. Stop treating women as if they are young children and hold them accountable. You would tell a child not to place their hand on a hot oven burner so why are we not telling adult women the same????
No they broke up and she was delusional thinking they were still together
"We're done! You picked him, I didnt!" Savage
I LOVED IT LOL
Yeah that was funny 😅😂
Right..😅
Factz
Yup! An example of why women shouldn't allow a man to waste years without commitment.
He had to leave her. Smh
She was gonna hold on to his dusty self as long as possible.
"I'm in the process of filing paperwork to see my daughter." Yeah right...
The defendant seems like the type of man that relies on women that he's in a relationship with to provide shelter for him
First of all I am a great Father? Compared to what?
Charlie Daniels sold his soul! Anything that he spawns.....yikes!
@@glenncurley680 Referring to raising your child as babysitting means that you look at it as a job and not an obligation
The term is hobosexual 😂
It’s called hobo sexual 😂
That's ridiculous. She should have been given the money because of the promissory note.
No... She wanted to act dumb, like she didn't know the court order didn't say the bill was 360 dollars. Why is a judge going to make a man pay thousands of dollars when that's not what's even owed. And he handed her his check and if she doesn't pay what needed that's on her. Make sense of that🧐
I agree what's the point of a promissory note if it doesn't hold up in court. If its not pass the statue of limitations then why does it matter when she came for her damn money.
Because he was giving her his pay check and wasn't in control of what she spent the money on
He blindly gave her his checks to pay bills, including the "loan", it's not his fault if she was using it for other things, he paid it back. Also if you set up house and play happy family there is no yours, mine, and ours, there is only ours. The bills are ours, the food is ours, the house is ours, the kid is ours, meaning anything that you don't "lend" your significant other anything, you're giving it to them for the betterment of the relationship. I didn't lend my ex-husband money to buy a laptop when we were married, I gave him the money because he needed it for work, and I certainly did not ask for it back when we divorced because it wasn't a loan. Girls, yes I said girls because they surely don't act like grown women, today want to act like they deserve everything in the world that a man could possibly give them, and the do not deserve any of it, but don't want to do anything for them in return, serving nothing but main character energy when in truth they're just a side quest on the road.
I just wished that deadbeat parents truly understood the damage that they cause their children. To not be wanted is an intense pain that doesn’t go away. You don’t have to be perfect. Just be there!
Well said👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Amen
Stop acting like there's not plenty of Court shows where we see how these vindictive bitter ex is go to extreme lengths to keep these men away from their children. Not everyone in the world has thousands of dollars to hire an attorney to keep playing Court games.
@@Shellygrrl2573 i have no kids but if i did there is nobody on earth that would stop me from seeing my child , no court , no person . nobody .
you need to send that comment to Hunter Biden.
"I was babysitting my daughter..." tells me alot about the defendant
I hate when PARENTS say that about their own children! It doesn’t matter if it’s the woman or the man.🤦🏻♀️
Everything we needed to know
Do you know it is really sad but our country has gone downhill so much that people become offended by the stupidest things
@@jaynehogue2459you seem more offended by making that comment 🙃 I can tell your husband hardly “babysat” the kids
no its only a term, it was wrong that they never married but he did hand her his paycheck every week, he dint go off buying drugs and alcohol.
This is why you don’t keep exes as lovers
He was definitely cheating the entire time and dude really went out of town with two different woman two different times lol wow player lol
9:40 My WIFE went out with her friends one night and I made the mistake of saying I will watch the kids... She looked at me sideways with a look that frighten me. I'm 6'2" and 235 lbs, she made me feel like I was 5'2" and 101 lbs. I learned that day it's not watching, babysitting, or taking care of. It's me being a father and living up to responsibilities!
That says a lot about anyone saying babysitting their own kids.
You're a real man and father then, if you're able to own up to mistakes and learn so quickly from them. Kudos to you for taking accountability and bettering yourself seriously. Every one of my exes wouldn't have "learned" they would have argued and doubled down. It's a great quality to be able to grow and learn like that!
So, what do you say to her now? "I"m going to stay here and be a father to my kids and live up to my responsibilities." It's NOT what you say but WHAT you do that matters. Sounds like she has you walking around on egg shells. Oh well, she trained you well.
As Mr T. said to Rocky's wife "Since your old man ain't got no heart, maybe you like to see a real man. I bet you stay up late every night dreamin' you had a real man, don't ya? I'll tell you what. Bring your pretty little self over to my apartment tonight, and I'll show you a real man."💪🍆
That’s stupid. You literally do watch your own kids and take care of them.🙄
What are you supposed to say then, “I’ll parent the kids” 🤪nobody talks like that.
I'm glad you learned a valuable lesson 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️🖤💚🥰
Ok? lol
the "other" woman Should! be listening to this & specifically him!, he's tell everyone Who! he is!🤔🤨 plaintiff, Run! he's Not! worth it! raise Your child & try to live a good life!
Right! She shouldn't marry this bum
You ?!$&! have atrocious !??; grammar
The other woman thinks “he’d never do me like that” lol. Baby it’s his character. Can’t change him!
If it only became an issue once they broke up then why is there a signed promise to pay??
Exactly
Right and she should’ve listened to what she had to say at the end. I don’t like how she be cutting people off and yelling over them just bc she thinks she can
the note was like 5 years old while they were together
@@TRILLTALKTV exactly my point that the promissory note predates the breakup so it obviously didn't become an issue once they broke up because before they did end it they discussed pay back had the note not been old then maybe they didn't discuss it during the relationship. It's literal common sense
@@Lh-wq5gc but like the judge said he was giving her his check that would be a form of paying it back
I will never understand the comment "I tried" but has done nothing to see or support their children. Babies need both parents❤❤
Imagine being proposed to by a LEECH 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The fiancé didn’t gain shit but a liability 🤦♀️ smh……
When are we going to have logic, that a proposal isn’t always a win 😅
Swearrrrr
😊
you sound bitter
Say it louder for the people in the back.🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
So glad the judge got on him about going to court to see his child. The plaintiff MIGHT be making it hard but he should pursue seeing the child. But I believe she's not making it that hard. That's just a convenient excuse.
Yeah anyone who doesn’t go to court to ensure they can see their child, doesn’t want to see their child that bad
Why these woman use kids as pawns and the judge don’t even know what’s going on with them
Dad can file for custody in court and have his parenting time spelled out. If mom withholds, he then has legal recourse.
If you have never been in something like this before then you would know even with a court order if she doesn’t want to let dad see the child the police are not going to make the mother turn over child the police will tell the father to go back to the courts and every time you have to pay court costs so it’s so easy to talk about somebody and judge without even knowing what you are talking about..
It's not the police's job to enforce a civil matter.
File contempt in family court.
“I was babysitting my daughter” really showed his character. He never wanted a baby or to be a father.
Shout out to JM for getting on his ass about being a father to the child he helped to create.
If a man is with you 7 years, no marriage you mean nothing to him. The child is a different issue, he should be regularly in her life making sure strange men don't get too close.
Both the defendant and the plainiff are too intellectually and psychologically immature to even be having children in the first place.
Agree.
Truth
Once she said he couldn't afford the baby & and bills, I was over it. Why are we having kids we can't afford?! They could barley afford bills before the kid, smh
Excuses galore on him not seeing his own child. Smh I feel bad for that child.
All these courts say get it in writing... She got it in writing and still lost the case...
Oh, I have most definitely psycho called before 😂😂
I hate when people say their "in the process" of filing court petitions. You either do it or are procrastinating on doing it. There is no "in the process" unless the petition has been filed.
That’s crazy! The plaintiff’s birthday is on May 26 which is today 2023, me watching her on the episode. Happy birthday Plaintiff
Happy birthday.
"Babysitting my DAUGHTER" smdh
After letting it play, dude BUGGIN! Especially with that laugh at the end!
He is a piece of work and a deadbeat, talking about babysitting his own child SMH
sure, he was giving her his entire paycheck but he's a deadbeat. Women get so triggered by that term. For men, it just means that he's taking care of the child. It's not that big of a deal.
@@neededtobesaid4275 I like your tag name because it's true it needed to be said. Thank you for enlightening me and not being rude 👍😁
Why are you triggered?
Both are at fault. Why dont you say nothing about a woman that doesnt allow the father to see his child .
They both are damaging the children, and she is vindictive
How embarrassing for both….
Happy early birthday to the plaintiff 😂
Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo did anyone peep how he was telling her to call him while he was walking away in the hallway??! And she nodding yes I will then she walking fast, chasing after him. She still is allowing him to use and abuse her 🤦🏽♀️
Yuuuuuuup I saw that
He was talking to someone else. He was looking past her.
He turned around and told her to call him, 😮. His fiance needs to run to the other side of the world, far away from him. These two deserve each other. The only one who loses out is the little girl because she didn't ask to come here and she didn't have a choice of who her parents are.
he was telling someone to get his phone
I saw that too but couldn't figure out who he was speaking to
JM had his phone and he was trying to get it back, most likely motioning to Douglas for the phone.
He wasn't telling her to call him... The judge still had his phone when she was going through his text messages. He was telling someone to get his phone back.
Yeah it's called sarcasm.....
A parent can’t “babysit”, when a parent has physical child it’s called PARENTING, not babysitting or “watching”. She’s 100% better off without him. She’s such a beautiful strong women. She deserves so much more.
Gorgeous! I hope she picks a winner the next time. This guy looks like her kid brother.
Exactly ....the defendant is a bum
I feel bad for her having to learn that hard lesson - 7 years of her life she wasted on him that she can't get back, & now she's a single mother. He left her in debt w/ bad credit. He has the nerve to call her " bitter" after leaving them for another woman, but wonders why she's angry.
Angry or not, she is entitled to compensation when he signed the promissory note... Very hard lessons in life she had to learn, but she's pretty, can do better, and I wish her the best.
LMAO I sat in a meet where a dad apologized cause his daughter was on camera, he had to babysit cause his wife had a doctor's appointment. Woot? 🎉
what next time that's her child's father that's the best she gonna get he not ever gonna be out her life she gave him her womb that's that
Plaintiffs birthday is tomorrow - Happy birthday !!
Excuse me? What about the signed promissory note!?
yes this was such a bad calling she should've won
@@dominiquefletcher761k
A lesson for people: always make sure to get the judge's order so that they can't try to pull a fast one like that!!!
The announcer from The Judge Mathis show would've pronounced the plaintiff's name Flawlessly...get with it Kurt!
Yes!!
This is an older episode too (maybe from 2015?) The daughter was 2 then probably about 10 now. I just hope she has a childhood she does not need to recover from. I’d be interested to see if there were any updates from any of these court cases.
What a mess!
Way too messy 😢😢
Can't take care of themselves but having babies!!
It always happens. Until women get standards and require marriage then they will just be left behind and terrible outcome for their kids. How would a person split the rent with someone they have a child with? You shouldn’t have a baby by someone who can’t support you.
Dude is a certified loser! Hope this is a major lesson for her. He played in her face for 7 yrs then proposed to another woman immediately. Ladies….learn when your time is being wasted and walk away.
Isn't she just as irresponsible for allowing a loser to get her pregnant?
Getting pregnant after an eviction is crazy
The judge was wrong on some of her judgement. This is an example when she gets in her feelings and rules based off that. It’s sad.
No judgement was correct
She is not here to figure out who owes who during a long term relationship. He was also handing her his paychecks, she allocated his money as she saw fit.
Women stop having babies with just anybody
Who was the defendant telling at the end to call him?! 😂😂😂😂
I’m sick of fathers saying they can’t see their kids and they tried but yet they don’t go to court and get orders. That’s what you have to do, you can’t say oh I try but she didn’t let me. I demanded that I saw my son 50% of the time in court …demanded it! And it happened… do you want to see your kids or not?!?
On a more serious note - Where did that guy get the milkshake? Is there a specific place known for doing that where the show is filmed?
I’m almost certain these are filmed at the 3rd street promenade in Santa Monica, CA so maybe look for milkshake places there
@@naturalnaela Ahh. Thank you.
What’s the name of the Milkshake store lol and is there one in NYC?
That bum isn’t concerned with raising his daughter because he wouldn’t have to be told that.
He handed her his paycheck every week but now she says he owes her for the phone bill while they were together. It's despicable when a parent doesn't let the other parent see their child because they're jealous. That man's going to be spending a lot of money to see his child, because she's going to do everything possible to stop him from seeing his daughter.
Discusting
Too many women stay around with leeches like him. The amount of times cases similar to this where the woman takes care of the man while he sits around, cheats, and doesn’t contribute to the household in any manner is disappointing. At a certain point she becomes the one to blame for putting herself in that situation
did you even watch???? He was giving her entire check while they were living together!!! Wow, Mike (Michelle) you sound like a B!$#h
It is disgusting she is wanting money from him now for damages but she moved in with him into a new place..... let me guess you were raised by a single mother
@@jaynehogue2459 absolutely not, my parents just celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary with me and my 4 siblings. My father just taught us to treat women with more respect than what the defendant is showing.
Women sit around the house and dont contribute and live off the man. That's no better than a man letting a woman support the family.
Some of these dad’s really are just babysitters. I know personally. My daughter’s father said the same thing. When you only keep your child a few times a year, that’s not parenting.
Some moms aree babysitters themselves and dont do barely anything for or with their kids.
@@jessicamcgaughey8551 that’s true. It goes both ways
@@kimberlydaduchess5567 I know one. Had 3 kids, than took off 2 different times. Both for a year or more, no contact from her. Second time she came back with a new baby and now has a 5 child and rarely ever sees or talls to her first 3 kids. The father has been a single father for years. Oldest son did live with her for 2 years by choice then came back.
@@jessicamcgaughey8551 that’s shameful. Much respect to the single father holding it down ❤️
They're both ridiculous.
He all along wanted a free ride and a woman willing to let him ride and empty promises made. And yet he claimed he had not seen his child for a year, then claimed he watched his daughter for a year. What a bold faced liar.
Why does he have two watches on 😂
I love these fake men that rub their hands together like they're so important,; such important business men😂😂😂😂😂😂
So over guys having kids and then leaving the mother just to get married so quickly…….
She's better off without and so will the fiancé be too, when she gets enlightenment.
Sure $160 is enough? You're sure? Trust Doug to stir the pot! 😃
Judge is awesome for caring enough to investigate!!! None other do
The plantiffs lipstick 💄 suits her 💜💋 it kinda matches the defendants shirt 😅
Dumpster fire!
Judge said “You picked him, I didn’t”. Judge Milan dropped the mic.
Don't be with A DUSTY WHO CAN'T PAY BASIC BILLS..
LAWD... 👩🏽👩🏾👩🏿 STOP LETTING POOKIE,
BOOKIE & BUSSY RUIN YOUR LIVES..
Someone get Harvey that ice cream please and make it quick. 🍦
Hahaha, Harvey’s so funny with that milkshake! I’d be the same if saw something like that in front of me. 😂
Who was he telling to give him a call at the end? SMH 🙄
right i literally replayed that part! I was waiting for someone else to catch it.
I thought he was talking to her. 🤷🏾♀️
Actually, he was telling someone to get his phone that he had left
She may have picked him and made the wrong choice but he chose to be a bad father. The onus of that fact is on him. I know men that used to be in the streets heavy, had a baby, got jobs and are wonderful fathers.
Certain men treat their children how they feel about the children’s Mother. He was done with his child when he was done with the defendant smfh.
Certain women do the same. Treat their child like crap to hurt the dad or because she treats the dad like crap or because he hurts her so she hurts the child
Any of these types or the type you mentioned is a deadbeat parent. And an abuser.
Way more women murder or harm a child over who the baby daddy is than men who harm or murder a child based off who the mother is.
Either way it's all awful
Her eyes are dropping
I know someone who does psycho-calls regularly. She'll call 40+ times in a row.
A man saying baby sitting his child, does sound crazy. Just like when a woman saying my child, instead of our child. Both are crazy statements
I agree with the verdict. Buddy handed you his whole check and you paid what you wanted with it sis .. wtf 😂 & I 100% believe she isn’t letting him see his daughter so he should go to court and fight for his rights.
I mean if his cheque ain’t that much she had to pay the main bills. Rent would come before that phone bill
@@StupidUA-camHandleTM either way all his money went towards the household so if she couldn’t pay for what they needed, she has no right to sue for what wasn’t taken care of then. That’s the point I was making.
@@cici864_4 agreed. She's bitter and I absolutely believe that she does not let him see his daughter. The judge acts like a lot of people have thousands of dollars for attorneys to fight these kind of toxic women..smh..
@@Shellygrrl2573 right?! Taking someone to court isn’t free! She’s bitter as hell
Keep you drama at home…. Don’t bring it to the justice system.
Never do 50/50 leave them to the 🗑️
Ahahahaha! The Plaintiff is clearly delusional!
Thank you Judge🤷🏿♂️
I wouldn't have even brought his ugly, raggedy self to court and make myself look bad for being with and having a baby by such a bum. I almost felt like JM should've honored the promissory note but he was giving her his whole check so what do you expect from somebody that's literally giving you all they have. Good verdict! Glad JM told her she picked him 👌🏾
Awwwhhh shiiiittt. Babysitting his own daughter. Bwuahahah
He was telling plaintiff call me in hallway. Gross.
This man is another word for Loser father, man soon to be husband. Do i need to go on???? 😂 Oh yeahhh Death beat
Why is this judge acting so theatrical?
She def knew about that paper man she a scam
I think she knew that she didnt owe that that $4000
I don't know about them. I thought the shock was real. My jaw dropped, for sure! You would have thought JM revealed that it was the butler in the cloak room with a paring knife who dunnit, if you saw my face.
😮 for them and the landlord. Seems like landlord made a desperate but slick move. If no other positive outcome came from this case, JM just saved this estranged couple about 4gs. They should both be hella grateful.
Sure hope they didn't do 4gs of damage. I doubt it, but that discrepancy came from somewhere...
@@jewelyounge6227 she looks surprised & relieved. That's why the verdict didn't bother her as much.
Agreed- she seemed to have lil smirk
No, I velieve she was truly relieved that was why she was ok with the Judges ruling.
Was I seeing things or was he asking her to call him? And was she in a hurry to get out of court to call him?
it did seem that way. unless he had a buddy in the seats he was saying that to.
Looked like he was asking someone else to grab his cellphone. He wasn't talking to the plaintiff
He was talking to her because she shook her head, ok
@@velvetvel9763 When she was on the screen he was still looking into the courtroom, he was talking to Doug.
Why would he have to go to court to see his kid... this is a prine example of judges hating fathers for not paying what they see fit to see their kids
Another example of people who can't take care of themselves but bringing children into the picture...smh alright J M you know there are women out there that go to great lengths to keep the father from seeing the child
He doesn't want to see that child because it reminds him of the money coming out of his pocket.
Oh he’s a real Prize🙄🙄👍
She spent 7 years of her life with him and had his kid. THEN he decides she isn't good enough and marries someone else a year or less later.
Yet, he doesn't understand how she would be angry and bitter?
But she PICKED HIM and stayed. She knew he was dead@#$ but for some stupid 🙄 reason BEFORE the kid , she stayed. So she's not a victim with her taking it upon herself to give him all that stuff she was BUYING luv.
@@SPEIGHTS78 I agree.
This is a why you have to put your foot down or get on with your life.
He lost his job. That's why she couldnt pay the phone bill.
That’s fucked up! The judge be blowinggggggg me sometimes!!!!
Looks like he's saying call me,if he's talking to her,I hope the fiance sees it,well in case that's what he was doing.
What is so crazy is that the dependent will always have another woman waiting for him. Because the collective of black women are so desperate. Black women are literally fighting to be with men like him
I'm SO EXCITED there were 4 uploads today! 🎉
I’m with JM. I hate that “She won’t let me see my kid” B.S. These ladies who lay down deadbeats is insane.
Yeah he’s given BUM vibes🤦🏾♀️
Look like he was still trying to possibly connect with her at the end. Am I the only one that saw that quick interaction 🤔🤔🤔